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how do i try to put this for people who get confused about aromantic lesbians and gays. not every aro lesbian is like this so disclosure: i am talking about my experience as an aro lesbian, but i feel like it's still important to discuss. lesbians can be aromantic and asexual, and even both- i am on the ace spectrum, so i can be considered an aroace lesbian. the thing is, i still experience lesbian and sapphic attraction even if it's not necessary romantic.
the way i try to phrase it is i have a deep attraction toward all dykes: butches, studs, bulldykes, femmes, lesboys, transbians, non binary dykes, intersex dykes, transmasc, ftm & trans male dykes, transfem dykes, genderqueer dykes, male dykes, bigender dykes, genderfluid dykes, two-spirit dykes. and sapphic identifying women, men & people. i'm dyke oriented. i want to be around other dykes of any identity- i want to live in domestic environmnets with other lesbians & dykes, taking care of one another, making sure we're alright.
i want to be there for other dykes in my community. i want to come visit to check on how they're doing when they're sick. i wanna be there to listen to the stone butches when they feel estranged. i want to give them groceries that i didn't end up liking but i know they would. i want to laugh and joke and goof off with other dykes. i want to be there to listen when they have gender or identity dysphoria. i wanna go bowling with the butches. i wanna workout at the gym with the bulls. i wanna go clothes shopping with the lesboys & boydykes to find them clothes that make them feel like themselves. i want to give other dykes a place to stay when they're going through hard times. i want to befriend with the weird "crazy" "ugly" dykes who are freaky. i want to be there when something scary happens so i can provide comfort and support. i want to help give resources and aid to other poor dykes who need it.
there are a lot of ways to be a dyke, lesbian, or sapphic. whatever you want to call yourself under this umbrella, there are a tons of ways to express it. i don't have to want to cuddle, kiss or hug other dykes in a romantic fashion. maybe i like surrounding myself with other dykes. maybe i just really prefer the company of other dykes. it's not that hard to wrap one's brain around once you break it down like that. there's a million other ways to be in someone else's company and spend time together. i assure you there is more to adult relationships than sex and romance. those are wonderful things for the people who enjoy them, but for those of us who are aromantic and/or asexual, there are many other ways to enjoy the company of other folks in a very queer fashion.
happy pride to every aromantic spectrum lesbian, dyke & sapphic person, you deserve to be seen and heard just as much as every other dyke. you matter
#lesbian#aromantic#lgbtqia#lgbtq#lgbt#queer#butch lesbian#butch#femme#femme lesbian#non binary lesbian#nonbinary lesbian#ftm lesbian#transmasc lesbian#aroace lesbian#arospec lesbian#arospectrum#arospec#aro spec#quoiromantic#cupioromantic#demiromantic#aspectrum#aspec#aspec lesbian#aspec dyke#aromantic dyke#aro dyke#dyke#sapphic
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happy international lesbian day to aspec lesbians trans lesbians nonbinary lesbians intersex lesbians mspec lesbians lesboys straight lesbians bigender lesbians he/him lesbians butches femmes studs dykes et al! we are so kewl
#mspec lesbian#mspec lesbian safe#lesboy#he/him lesbian#aspec lesbian#nonbinary lesbian#trans lesbian#straightbian#queerhet#butch#femme#stud#dyke#intersex lesbian#bigender lesbian
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fags and dykes on the asexual spectrum i love you
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It’s that time y’all 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️
#moth murmurs#lesbian#bisexual#gay#trans#queer#lgbtq#nonbinary#pansexual#xenogender#asexual#aspec#aromantic#arospec#acespec#neopronouns#dyke#multigender#mspec#polamory#ambiamorous#Youtube#don’t censor faggot <3#fag
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loveless aromantics who are basically in limbo being told to turn to platonic love or familial love for today, i’m here for y’all
#y’all r very important to me#🫂#stay safe🤞🏾#black lesbian#trans#dyke#agender#xenogender#nebularomantic#aromantic#loveless#aromantic allosexual#aroallo#alloaro#aplatonic#afamilial#aspec#arospec#queer#lgbtq
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j*swit as a genuine romance: no. j*swit as qpp combined slay: feed it to me like grapes.
#: ) and that's my thought on that unless sb really puts in the time and desire to make it something i get behind romantically#out of stories#i'm not even a 'she should have been a lesbian' type bc frankly as a dyke the way my community will just#deride ace rep as 'not good enough' or rather 'not queer enough' is a deep wound for me as sb who is also aspec#i like that she's ace and doesn't have to be a dyke to explain her lack of attraction to others!#I JUST WISH SHE HAD BETTER /TASTE/ BC HE'S LITERALLY THE WORST MAN IN THE UNIVERSE [WHEEZING]
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Thinks about our identity for more than two seconds and a health bar appears above our head
#personal incantations#am i arospec? am i aspec? am i a dyke? who knows!#truly. who knows#idc about labels much but#it is nice to be able to point at something and be like ‘thats me’ sometimes. yknow?#its like. an alter appears. they reconstruct our whole identity and brain. they are never seen again#rinse and repeat#Yknow?
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also just now getting round to reading the death spinoffs, and, hazel has now moved way up the list of my favourite characters by virtue of this shirt
#like yes some of the queer storylines in sandman are past their time and should be written differently for 2022#others are just. so refreshing#there's something about 80s-90s queer media where like. everything was a fight.#so you brought that anger with you and you didn't try to play nice#and some storylines - like hazel's - would still be revolutionary today quite frankly#i don't wanna see soft cozy rich white lesbians who look exactly like straight women#i wanna see characters write dyke on their shirt#like im an aspec lesbian.#and sometimes it feels like oh maybe i don't really deserve the lesbian title if i don't feel represented by any lesbians currently on tv#you know what i do feel represented by? this.#the sandman#sandman comic spoilers#hazel mcnamara#mine#the high cost of living
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bi lesbian because I prefer dating women over men and saying lesbian when asked about my preferences because it is easier to explain my attraction to women that way. bi lesbian because men are cool and awesome and I'm not opposed to dating one but liking girls is more relevant to my identity. bi lesbian because I'm bi but my attraction to women is the highlight. bi lesbian because I'm a raging dyke. bi lesbian because I'm more comfortable in lesbian spaces yet I'm still proudly bi. bi lesbian because I've only gotten crushes on women or people who thought they were women at the time. bi lesbian because I like men while being a dyke. bi lesbian because saying lesbian is easier than saying bi dyke. bi lesbian because I LOVE genderfucky people. bi lesbian because I also like genderqueer non women.
I'm bi, aspec and a lesbian.
I'm a dyke, a torta (south american spanish for lesbian/dyke, technically a slur) even.
I love women.
#bi lesbian#lesbian#bi#asexual#ace#demiromantic#graysexual#dark graysexual#dyke#bi dyke#torta#tortas
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i love you masculine lesboys i love you feminine lesboys i love you androgynous lesboys i love you gnc lesboys i love you genderfluid lesboys i love you multigender lesboys i love you genderless lesboys i love you cis lesboys i love you trans lesboys i love you straight lesboys i love you gay lesboys i love you lesboys who use dyke i love you lesboys who use fag i love you lesboys who use both i love you lesboys who use neither i love you aspec lesboys i love you mspec lesboys i love you neurodivergent lesboys i love you physically disabled lesboys i love you mentally disabled lesboys i lo
#one thought head lesboys (i am very gay)#.txt#repitition#lesboy#lesboy positivity#mspec#mspec positivity#bi lesbian#mspec lesbian#mspec gay#queer#queer positivity
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It's always been so weird to me that people are all about ideas such as "language is made up, words evolve, everyone has a unique sexuality!" when it comes to lesbians and asexuals, but when it comes to bisexuality, the conversation suddenly becomes "actually this term has a rigid definition and if you identify with it, you're transphobic and behind the times"
And like, bi history is a massive interest for me, right? I'm not gonna claim to be a historian, but the amount of people who say shit about bisexuality that's just plain incorrect is insane.
Bisexuals have always shared spaces, terms, and community with lesbians and gays. Many bisexuals called themselves lesbian or gay prior to coming out, and many of them hold onto both labels-- thus bi lesbians and bi gays. Hell, I fucking identify as bisexual and gay simultaneously. I think I always have. The fact that I would only get significant flack for this if I was a bisexual woman identifying simultaneously as a lesbian is fucking insane. "Dyke" and "fag" and everything in-between has always been inclusive of bisexuals. Bisexual butches, femmes, twinks, bears, and everything in-between have always existed.
Bisexuality has MULTIPLE definitions. Not just historically, but person-to-person. I know bisexuals who are attracted to people regardless of gender or sex. I know bisexuals who only date cis men or cis women. I know bisexuals who have fucked women but only date men and vice-versa. I know bisexuals who have even more esoteric and specific orientations, such as only dating men and trans women, or only dating women and trans men. And regardless of how you feel about any of those, they are still bisexuals. Those are still forms of bisexuality. It is an orientation that is inherently varied, and has become increasingly so as the arbitrary, rigid lines between male and female have been weathered by the sands of change.
Hell, people LOVE that one post about a bi trans man identifying as both a butch lesbian and a gay man-- and I get it. I could never personally-- it'd make me VERY dysphoric-- but I never much cared for the dynamics of opposite sex relationships. It's something that's very awkward to navigate as a bi trans person. Subconsciously, I've always entered same-gender relationships. Back when I still identified as a bi woman, I dated and preferred women. Now, as a bi man, I largely date and prefer men. And yet, being aspec, I'm also indifferent to most people sexually. Simultaneously, everyone is hot and everyone is meh. Not repulsive, just meh. It's a weird reality to live. Effectively, I fuck or date people regardless of gender. If I'm feeling fancy, I define my bisexuality as being attracted to both types of sex characteristics regardless of their configuration-- explicitly inclusive of intersex and trans people.
And yet people still refuse the variance of the bi experience, whether it's bisexuality as neutrality, bisexuality as "every relationship I'm in is gay", bisexuality as in "I don't even really think about the gender/sex of who I'm attracted to", or anything in-between. Bisexuality is oversimplified as "attracted to two or more genders", or "attracted to both genders/sexes", as if those definitions fully encapsulate the bi experience when they don't. Plenty of bisexuals absolutely fit into those two definitions, but to act as if ALL of us do, to deny the rich history and variance of bisexuality, has been a deep-rooted and recurring problem that loves rearing its ugly head every damn year.
Happy Pride Month.
#personal#bisexual#bisexuality#lgbt discourse#lgbt history#bi history#bisexual history#bi gay man#demisexual#demibisexual#bi trans man#lgbt
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Happy new year to all queers, weirdos, people with 20939384737 pronouns, people with no pronouns, multigender people, aspec people, xenogender users, neopronouns users, he/him lesbians and she/her gays, people who mold gender to their liking, people with extremely niche microlabels, lesboys, turigirls, mspec lesbians, mspec gays, mspec straights, straightbians, gaybians, straight gays/straightcians, queerhets, transhets, intersex people, dykes, butches, femmes, bears, twinks, and everyone under the lgbtq+ umbrella. Let’s make 2023 the most radical queer year of all. Never stop being you
#lgbt#lgbtq#lesbian#gay#bisexual#transgender#nonbinary#asexual#aromantic#pansexual#intersex#genderqueer#queer#multigender#xenogender#neopronoun#mspec lesbian#mspec gay#mspec straight#queerhet#straightbian
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happy lesbian day to mspec lesbians, lesboys, boydykes, dykes, he/him lesbians, lesbians who don't use she/her, multigender lesbians, multigender lesbians who are also men/have masc genders, genderfluid lesbians, genderfluid lesbians who are men and/or have masc genders, nonbinary lesbians, genderqueer lesbians, transmasc lesbians, bear lesbians, hairy lesbians, fat lesbians, butch lesbians, futch lesbians, femme lesbians, aro lesbians, ace lesbians, aroace lesbians, aspec lesbians and all the other lesbians that the community tries to erase from existance because they hate it when lesbians identify in a way they don't like or aren't appreciated enough
You are cared for and more people support and accept you than you think, exclusionists are just a very loud minority, don't feel disencouraged to identify as you please, you have a place in the community, you have history, you always belonged and always will
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need to post more sex-favorable posts. i may be nebularomantic but i will always want to show hole!
#nebularomantic#aromantic#aromantic allosexual#black lesbian#dyke#trans#transmasc#trans man#agender#xenogender#arospec#aroallo#alloaro#aspec#sex favorable
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theres a certain brand of like. generic 2014 cishet girl fangirling attraction towards peter capaldi that is so befuddling to me like?? not to hate or anything im sure youre having lots of fun with your. apparently very romantic parasocial relationship but maybe i really am just more of a dyke or more aspec than i thought because admiring the bone structure of his face is DEFINITELY not what some people are doing
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lunar | solar
eclipse lesbian flags!!
flags I made exclusively to piss off a specific tiktok user who wont even see this, but ended up putting way too much effort on anyway lmao I love them and will use them for oc and hc stuff >:) free to use by anyone btw!!
the different versions have the same meaning, just with a different palette and order, theyre both heavily inspired by the sun and moon lesbian flag so I thought "what happenes when moon and sun aligns?? boom!! an eclipse" and thats where the names come from
[image ID: two flags of 7 horizontal stripes, the first one's colors are from top to bottom, cherry, deep blue, purple, lavender, off-white, tan, copper. the second one's colors are from top to bottom, deep blue, cherry, dead rose, salmon, off white, teal, dark teal. end ID]
tagging: @mogai-sunflowers because I think youd be interested >:)
color meanings:
for lunar
cherry: femme lesbians, fem presenting lesbians
deep blue: butch lesbians, masc presenting lesbians
purple: transmasc lesbians, pnc lesbians, mspec lesbians
lavender: intersectionality, trust within the rest of the queer community and minorities
off-white: rejecting purism, shame, and guilt within the community, dykes, and futches
tan: family, trust within lesbian communities, acceptance towards eachother
copper: transfem lesbians, multigender lesbians, aspec lesbians
for solar
deep blue: butch lesbians, masc presenting lesbians
cherry: femme lesbians, fem presenting lesbians
dead rose: transfem lesbians, multigender lesbians, aspec lesbians
salmon: family, trust within lesbian communities, acceptance towards eachother
off-white: rejecting purism, shame, and guilt within the community, dykes, and futches
teal: intersectionality, trust within the rest of the queer community and minorities
dark teal: transmasc lesbians, pnc lesbians, mspec lesbians
obligatory (/j) sunset lesbian inspired stripe order versions
too tired to make IDs for these ones rn, sorry!!
also I probably wont make gay man versions for this, only because I have no idea what it would look like, if you have any ideas though feel free to make one and tag me in it!!
[image description: a black banner with a white outline, theres smiley faces with their tongues sticking out in every corner, also in white. theres also a small pink splatter from the bottom right corner. the banner reads "please do not reupload unless credited and informed". end ID]
#kirucoins#if u see this I had to use chrome to edit this bc tumblr glitches like hell on firefox lmao fuck you tumblr#mogai#mogai blog#mogai community#mogai friendly#lgbt#lgbtq community#lgbt representation#lgbtqia#lgbtq#lgbt flag#lesbian#wlw#wlnb#nblw#lesbianism#lesbian community#sun lesbian#moon lesbian#eclipse lesbian#solar eclipse lesbian#lunar eclipse lesbian#sapphic
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