#aromantic asexual aesthetic

[lebagelboy]

Is there like horny but for aesthetic attraction?

Like instead of "we should fuck" its "you should get dressed up so i can stare at how pretty you are"?

[love-me-love-my-weirdness]

Cishet aspecs are queer.

Cishet aromantics are queer. Cishet asexuals are queer. Cishet aplatonics are queer. Cishet afamilials are queer. Cishet anattractionals are queer.

Aspecs are queer as hell and excluding them only isolates queer people from their community.

[our-aroace-experience]

Being AroAce and having aesthetic attraction is funny sometimes. I think a lot of people are attractive but I don’t want to do anything about that information.

aesthetic attraction can be super weird sometimes

[aroninshonour]

As an aroace I sometimes will look at fictional characters or an actual person and think "Woah, hey, they're pretty/handsome" and then I'll start to question if I'm actually aroace over one person... and I am.

Whenever I start to question it I will ask myself two questions: Would I wanna be romantically involved with them/would I want to be sexually involved with them? And my answer is always no. I just find them aesthetically pleasing

Now of course these questions may not work for every aroace person, but it works for me.

Basically this is post saying that if you're aroace and find someone you think looks nice, that doesn't mean you aren't aroace, you just think they're neat :]

[blue-dragon-has-a-pen]

✨Nostalgia Bait✨🪝🐟

| Skulls (2019)| Woodland creatures (2020) | Dragons (2021)| Sea creatures (2022) | Birds (2023) | Freshwater fish (2024)

Links: [Gay] / [Lesbian] / [Ace] / [Aro] / [Bi] / [Pan] / [Trans] / [NB] / [Ally]

This year I have a special request from my ally bestie of 10 years so I made one for the Ally flag too! I hope a certain game company won’t sue my ass

🌈 Requests are free and welcomed! If you want to see a pride flag not seen here, feel free to drop a message and I’ll make one and put it in the store!  🌈

I know selling on RB literally sucks so much ass, like they take a huge chunk of artist income and the site itself is full of stolen work and stuff… but since I live in Asia and most of my buyers are from the West that means shipping and manufacturing will suck even more ass than if I just put them on RB…. so if you still choose to support me I am eternally grateful :’) 

[arielthedaydreamer]

Normalize other types of attraction that are not romantic or sexual. Normalize non sexual touching, normalize being a cuddly little mf, normalize being aesthetically obsessed with someone, normalize being so in love with your friends you would make the earth spin backwards for them. This is the beauty of aroace people, this is how we love, where is the love is love crowd to help us now??

[our-arospec-experience]

a bunch of banner variations for if anyone's having issues with aphobes 🙄

let me know if I missed any flags :)

I'll also take this opportunity to say that all aspecs are welcome on this blog - a-aesthetic, aplatonic, afamilial, asensual, asexual, aromantic, and otherwise. We do not tolerate hate here.

use with or without credit.

[aquazero]

‎○˳ ‎ ‎ R i b b o n p r i d e d i v i d e r s﹒﹒꒱

𓎟𓎟‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎r a i n b o w ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎○˳

𓎟𓎟‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ g a y ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎○˳

𓎟𓎟‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎l e s b i a n ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎○˳

𓎟𓎟‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ b i ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎○˳

𓎟𓎟‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ p a n ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎○˳

𓎟𓎟‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ a c e ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎○˳

𓎟𓎟‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ a r o ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎○˳

𓎟𓎟‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎t r a n s ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎○˳

𓎟𓎟‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ e n b y ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎○˳

𓎟𓎟‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎a g e n d e r ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎○˳

𓎟𓎟‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎i n t e r s e x ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎○˳

꒰ ‎﹒ made by me﹒credit and reblog to use﹒late because I forgot gay people exist﹒pride flag dividers﹒⚐

[shakespeare-official-account]

GUYS I THINK IM AROACE

THERE IS A VERY REAL CHANCE OF ME BEING AROACE, OR AT LEAST CUPIOROMANTIC/DEMIROMANTIC

ANYWAYS. EXPECT NOTHING BUT THE USUAL SHIT IDK

[since-times-long-forgotten]

gay panic but I’m aroace

[maerhiya]

"why were you staring at them? you like them, don't you?" uhm no. i just thought they were aesthetically pleasing. don't you also stop and stare at someone in absolute awe of how beautiful they are, feeling blessed to be in the presence of such a stunning being?

[sister-lucifer]

🌟Pride Star Dividers🌟

please like, reblog. & credit if you use!

if you don’t see your flag here, feel free to drop a request in my inbox!

[DIVIDER REQUESTS ARE OPEN!]

[aspec-mafia-official]

For poll purposes if you’re anywhere on the a-spectrum of asexual, afamial, asensual, aromantic, aplatonic, etc, etc you vote aspec.

If you don’t identify with any of the aspec labels, then you vote allo.

Edit; I’m aware that the poll is going to be skewed. I’m not actually trying to get stats for the amount of aspec people on tumblr, I’m mostly just curious about how making this poll on a blog with a majorly aspec audience would affect the results of an allo vs. aspec poll.

-dread

[starchilddante]

Spooky pride wallpapers because look at them, they're adorable

If I find more I'll do a part 2

[purple-mothman-majesty]

[terabyte-teddybear]

halloween pride flags! lesbian, gay, bi, pan, genderfluid, aro, ace, nonbinary, and trans (ftu w/ credit)