#aroallo npd culture is

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

aroallo NPD culture is feeling like the most attractive and sexually valuable man on earth, feeling special because there's no one else I've met like me.

Romance is disgusting to me, why would I invest my time in someone that honestly does not matter to me and will never understand me? I know what makes a romantic relationship healthy, but I have zero interest in it or giving that type of love to someone. I see it as vapid and meaningless, and being the recipient of such advances feels fake, because why would anyone love the things about my honestly vile personality when I have a perfect, sexy body for them to enjoy instead? In a sea of alloace and aroace people, I'm the unique one. I'm awesome because I have good sex and none of you do as often as / do.

I'm handsome and I'm an amazing sex partner, being praised by all the men I've been with, and that's all people need to see and value me for in a relationship.

- 🔄🔜

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[tr3ns-d3ath-d3ity]

"LGBTQA+ is one of the most accepting communities, you're not being targeted by other queer people!! 😤​😡​"

Aight, time for the list of things related to my queer identity I've been yelled at for by other LGBTQA+ people (for context: I am an oriented aroace, trans, queer, and polyamorous dude):

・Being a trans man.

・Identifying as queer/calling myself queer.

・Saying that gay And mlm are two different things, just like wlw and lesbian are two different things

・Saying that trans women are women.

・Being attracted to men.

・Not being attracted to women and people on the genderqueer/nonbinary spectrum.

・Being oriented aroace.

・Not being monogamous.

・Talking about genuinely loving men.

・Being aspec and having npd (quote the girl who yelled at me for that: "your npd made you aroace, you're just to selfish to commit to genuine love lol.").

・Not being lesbian.

・Not being pan.

・Saying that I support mspec gays/lesbians because it’s not my place to judge other people’s identities just because I may not fully understand them.

・Saying mspec, the multi spectrum, or multiromantic/multisexual (to include ply, pan, omni, bi, neptunic, uranic, and every other pluralian sexuality) instead of just bi.

・Saying that nonbinary people can present themselves as masculine, androgynous, neutral, or feminine as they want, and still be nonbinary.

・Literally just. wearing green eyeshadow????? (quote the person who yelled at me for that: “t hat's a lesbian color, bro, you're literally appropriating lesbian culture by that.")

・Presenting masculine.

・Using he/him pronouns.

・Referring to the D-Slur as tThe D-Slur (y'all want me to say a slur I can't reclaim?????).

・Saying that the og polyamory flag (the blue-red-black one with the yellow pi symbol in the middle) looks neat.

・Not using any of the new polyamory flags because I prefer the blue-red-black + pi symbol one.

・Asking if there’s a word for nonbinary people who are exclusively/only attracted to other nonbinary people.

・Hating non-men who fetishize achillean relationships.

・Being specifically Half-Asian and queer.

・Writing books about exclusively queer men/non-women, mostly to cope with trauma stuff (apparently if your writing doesn't consist of a trillion sapphics, two gay fathers that get three seconds of screentime, and the occasionally non-human nonbinary person, it's automatically bad writing???? Okay damn. Sorry for focusing on my own experiences, I guess?).

・Not necessarily wanting to get married or have a romantic/sexual relationship.

・Shipping two characters in a queerplatonic way instead of a sexual/romantic one.

・Headcanoning a popular fandom character as aroace.

・Mentioning aroallo people.

・Saying that straight asexuals and straights aromantics are LGBTQA+ since that's what the A stands for.

・Not being T4T (I just wanna love men in peace fuck off with your "but cis men are horrible!! 🥺🤢😱 Limit yourself to trans men because I said so!! 😤🤬🤬"-Bullshit).

・Using someone’s neopronouns.

・Supporting xenogender people.

・Headcanoning a canonically lesbian character as trans female.

・Saying that I want more representation of achillean, aroace, trans, and asexual men in media.

・Asking asking someone who knew I used he/him pronouns to not refer to me with they/them (like, girlie, that’s called misgendering).

・Mentioning that women can be aroallo.

・Saying that people who don’t label their genders/sexualities can be LGBTQA+ too.

・Saying that two pan women I know in reallife dating each other aren’t lesbians because... they’re both pan?

・Mentioning that queer men should always be welcome in queer spaces.

・Saying that amab nonbinary folks can be lesbian.

・Wanting to go on T.

・Jokingly referring to my tiddies and my pussy as boys.

And last but not least,

・Saying "people", "y'all", "esteemed guests", or "everyone present" instead of "ladies and gentlemen".

I dunno, homie, I actually do feel a little targeted here.

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

npd aroallo culture is being worried that your just like the stereotypes .

-🦜🪶

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[narcissisticpdcultureis]

NPD + ASPD aroallo culture is "wait, people actually *care* about the people they fuck?"

Also wanting to break hearts but that would require getting in a romantic relationship to begin with eughgh

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[narcissisticpdcultureis]

npd+ aroallo culture is dating someone for fun because of supply but lowkey forgetting that they might actually fall for you, but not being able to feel anything other than apathy after breaking their heart. But obviously I have to pretend that I feel sorry because if I don’t I might be perceived as mean by the people around me and how could they ever see me as anything other than perfect.

-☕️🚬

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[narcissisticpdcultureis]

npd + aspec culture is... oh no, i'm double evil now!!! (in my case I'm aroallo, so obviously I'm manipulative because i don't like people romantically 🙄 duh)

- Pavel (i checked this time and noticed it's not claimed hehe)

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