#apsconsugender

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apsconsugender: a gender in which one knows what it isn’t, but not what it is, as though the gender is hiding itself from them

definition from here!

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so like, i know pre- is an orientation but can you be a pre gender? like as in not feeling like your far enough in your experience with your gender to know what your gender is?

Pregender is defined as “a feeling that one’s gender is growing into, but not quite yet at, a particular gender. A preboy, for example, may feel that their gender is transitioning towards, but has not yet reached, male”. I don’t think that would be the same thing as what the orientation pre means.

These labels may be slightly more accurate:

Perigender: “A gender identity that is not currently known, but is becoming clearer over time. A transitional identity. Not to be confused with Paragender.“

Anongender: “A gender that is unknown to both yourself and others.“

Apsconsugender: “A gender identity that is a process of elimination. What it is--is unknown, but the person is able to define what it isn’t.A gender where you know what it isn’t, but not what it is. like the gender is hiding itself from you.“

There are also other labels that have to do with unknown genders, and gender questioning, of course. But idk. I don’t think I would personally have a problem with a second definition for pregender or with a new label either...? Usually it’s best to have separate labels, but I feel like pre as an orientation is more well known. Idk.

~ Tath

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Nongender

Nongender: A gender that is most accurately described by what it isn’t, not by what it is.

Note: If someone is a nongender of a binary gender, they are not necessarily the other binary gender. A nonboy is not necessarily a girl, and vice versa. Nongenders are for people who are more sure of what their gender isn’t rather than what it is.

Examples: A binary trans girl who is sure she is a girl would not need to use the label nonboy, as her identity is rooted in the fact that she is a girl, not that she is not a boy.

A gender neutral person who is sure they are gender neutral would not need to use the labels nonboy and nongirl, as their identity is rooted in the fact that they are gender neutral, not that they are not a boy nor a girl.

Another person is unsure of their gender and does not know what they are. However, they are sure they are not a girl. Thus, that person could use the label nongirl!

A demigirl may have a partial connection to being a girl, but is more sure that she is not a boy rather than she is a girl. She could use the label nonboy!

Important note: This might be synonymous with Apsconsugender: “A gender identity that is a process of elimination. What it is--is unknown, but the person is able to define what it isn’t.

A gender where you know what it isn’t, but not what it is. like the gender is hiding itself from you.”

See also: Antiboy/Unboy and Antigirl/Ungirl

Term coined by: @juunkrat

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Color meanings: Muted colors as well as the X over them to symbolize that it is NOT that gender.

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[radiomogai]

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“Apsconsugender - A gender identity that is a process of elimination. What it is is unknown, but the person is able to define what it isn’t.”

— MOGAI Lexicon

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A-genders: any a(n)-adjacent/a-prefixed gender identity. An umbrella term.

A(n)-identity encompass agender, abinary, atrinary/aternary, abimegender, anongender, abrogender, absorgender, abstragender, acervusgender, adeptogender, admasgender, adversigender, aerogender, aesigender, aesthetigender, aethergender, affectugender, aingender, agin(gender), alexigender/atexgender, algiagender, aliegender/aliengender, aliusgender/aliagender, altegender, altergender, ambigender, angenigender, ametrinegender, amicagender, amigender, amorgender, androgender/androgenderfluid (androfluid), angi/androgyne, gender androgyny/androgynous, angeligender, anogender/anagender, anonbinary, antegender, antibinary, antigenders, anxiegender, apogender, aporagender, aptugender, aquagender, apsconsugender, archaicgender, argogender, arigender, arithmagender, astergender, astralgender, atmosgender, attrafluid, augender, autogender, atrin(gender), abin(gender), apagender, apathetic and more.

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Some interesting, mostly forgotten genders

Most of these were coined around 2013-2014 on mogai-archive, since that was how we did it back then since it was the only mogai blog that archived terms consistently. I don’t see these around anymore, and I fear that their posts are gone, so as an archiver I feel compelled to share them and hopefully revive them, especially since I find many of these unique and lexical gap-filling. Some of these are more obscure than others, so you may have seen some before. Don’t come at me about the lack of credit, I found some of these on archive.org pastebin links and that information is simply lost in most cases.Personal comments in italics.

Apsconsugender: a gender where you know what it isn’t, but not what it is, like the gender is hiding itself from you. Appears to be a form of nongender.

Deergender: a gender that is explored through timidity and caution, but blossoms into something natural and cute.

Existigender: a gender that only exists when you think about it, or is quiet until called to attention; feeling genderless until a gender is consciously chosen.

Flirtgender: a gender where your primary interaction with gender feelings is that of flirtiness- either with gender, their own gender, or other people.

Fuzzygender: when you know you’re a certain gender, but can’t explain why you’re that gender.

Gemelgender: Having two genders that are equally primary or having a fluid gender that was once one but is now two, split, separated, or twain. Differing definitions make this one a possible fixer-upper.

Genderdox: multiple genders and nothing/genderless at the same time, as with a paradox. Similar to paridoxigender.

Genderflora: a gender that blooms and evolves based on weather and atmosphere; genderfluid but more plant-like.

Gendergender: when you feel a gender that is so indescribable it can only be identified as gender and nothing else. How has this not been used more?

Gendergoliath: a gender that is almost larger than life, like it’s spilling out of one’s body. It takes up a lot of space and is just awe-inspiring.

Gendermotive: genderfluid but changes are more sharp and in a particular order, like an automotive gear box changing speeds.

Gendernull: a gender like gendervoid but without the void. Gendernull (in that exact word formatting) hasn’t specifically been coined other than this, but may be used/have been used to describe gender nullity before.

Gendersilence: a gender that is impossible to communicate and is mostly just expressed by silence.

Genderwhat: a gender characterized by both confusion and apathy with regards to either a fluid or stable gender identity.

Imprigender: a fluid gender that is easily and quickly imprinted upon or influenced by its environment. Often hard to pin down as any particular gender. Can sometimes be voluntarily controlled.

Inanimgender: a gender that is similar or connected to inanimate objects. Coined with objectkin in mind but not exclusive to objectkin.

Itergender: a gender that is slowly moving away from you before coming back and moving away again, leaving nothing in its place.

Jellogender: where you only faintly feel a gender; it’s definitely present but you have some sort of vague/dissociated feeling with it, kind of like if you were to encase the gender in jello (because it’s visible, but direct inspection is impossible so you don’t actually “see it”). Honestly, a useful metaphor despite its silliness.

Kakogender: a gender that is dangerous. Come on. IT’S GREAT.

Kinegender: a gender that constantly moves and stays in motion, like fluidflux but focused on constant motion.

Masochgender: a gender that becomes stronger and more established/defined the more it is made fun of or hated on. Unfortunate name.

Medeigender: when one’s gender feels whimsical, mysterious in a light, fun way, or magical. Similar to circgender and the like.

Musicagender: a gender that can only be described through a specific musical aesthetic and/or genre.

Nullagender: a gender for someone who identifies as genderless due to having the western white gender binary enforced upon them. Only for POC.

Obruogender: when someone is overwhelmed or overpowered by their gender, to an uncomfortable and even suffocating feeling.

Parougender: a gender that is closely tied with the way one presents one’s self. Sooo useful.

Pixogender: a very neutral gender identity specifically relating to identification with virtual worlds.

Progender: when the only thing you know about your gender is that you like it and are positive about it. I love this, it’s almost heartwarming.

Propegender: fluidity between very feminine boy, very masculine girl and all areas in between.

Redneggender: a gender that feels reversed. I can’t stop seeing “R*dneck”gender and that’s a pretty shitty word. Unfortunate.

Rootgender: a gender that branches off into many genders while having a core gender.

Schrodingender: a single gender that exists as if it were several identities at once. Technically different from schrodigender.

Sexogender: a gender that is heavily influenced by sex/sexuality.

Sexusgender: when you feel that your sex and gender are connected in some way; that your gender defines your sex.

Sequigender: similar to genderfluid but in a set pattern, as in boy-girl-agender-neutrois-repeat. @kalliepride had a similar idea, actually!

Shirgender: a gender that is little, peaceful, and cozy, but strong. Coined with hobbitkin in mind but not exclusive.

Snarlgender: a gender characterized by sharp teeth, claws, and all things vicious and ferocious, perfect for tearing down transphobic ideas and people.

Spaciousgender: numerous small genders that feel spread out, like a gas. Only for intellectually/developmentally disabled/divergent people since the term was inspired/meant to contradict and reclaim “sp*cialgender”.

Spectragender: a gender that is such a huge spectrum that you can’t describe it.

Spheregender: a gender that expands and overlaps all other genders like a dome, but is still an entirely different gender.

Syngender: a form of genderfluidity where your gender is usually stable, but fluctuates sometimes.

Targender/Terugender: a thick, sticky, dark gender created through the destructive distillation of gender. Probably a troll, but definitely could legitimately exist.

Tenuigender: a small, delicate gender that is very tentative and fragile.

Tragender: a gender that stretches over the whole spectrum/orb-y thing of gender.

Vacugender: a feeling that the concept of gender does not apply to you, or fully apply to you. Sometimes, but not always, vacugender people are ok with being seen as any gender without caring much.

Vasegender: a gender that feels or seems fragile, but holds something beautiful.

Vectorgender: when your gender is in the direction of something, without actually being that something; for example, a vectorgirl’s gender would be pointed in the direction of girlness, but not actually a girl.

Vocagender: when you only feel your gender when talking about it or saying it out loud.

REGS/TRUSCUM/TRANSMEDS/ANTI-MOGAI/ANTI-LABELISTS DO NOT INTERACT IN ANY WAY, EVER :)

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Is there a specific gender for not knowing what your gender is at the time? I'm polygender but much of the time it feels "undefined" I guess..or too vague to ever tell maybe? Not sure gendervague doesn't equite fit as I don't have an idea of what the gender is at all. So it's more than vague I guess

Well I listed a lot. It took a too long post (69 genders).

Admasgender:  A gender that refuses to be categorized and that is rooted in an indomitable, indefinable essence.

Anvisgender, Apagender, or Inersgender: Used to describe those who are too lazy/apathetic to care about their gender.  

Anongender: A gender that is unknown to both yourself and others.

Apsconsugender: A gender identity that is a process of elimination. What it is–is unknown, but the person is able to define what it isn’t. A gender where you know what it isn’t, but not what it is. like the gender is hiding itself from you.

Angegender: A gender where you can’t describe it with any word but hatred or anger. 

Antegender: A protean gender which has the potential to be anything, but is formless and motionless, and, therefore, does not manifest as any particular gender.

Abditusgender or Sectiogender: When you have a general idea of what your gender is but feel that it’s still hiding important factors from you, or that it’s slowly revealing itself to you but continues to keep some of itself hidden and you don’t know how to bring it about. 

Arigender/Ariesgender:  A complicated gender identity that you cannot explain or is very hard to explain. A gender that does not fit under any labels. An unfathomable gender. Based on the zodiac sign Aries.

Autogender:  A gender experience that feels deeply personal to oneself but it too difficult to accurately describe with any other gender terms.

Cheshiric: A term used when your gender is confusing and can easily go invisible and appear out of nowhere. One can also say their gender is like a sort of vague riddle.

Cassgender: A gender identity where one feels that their gender is unimportant or is indifferent to the idea of gender.

Cryptogender or Gendercryptic: A gender one cannot discern, describe or define in human words because one is puzzled by it. It feels like it is and it isn’t there without following any particular pattern, sometimes even at the same time.

Concedogender: ‘When you cannot be defined as questioning because you no longer question, but you never reached a particular identity. You conceded and said “I’m okay with not finding out”.’

Circgender:  A gender that feels so magical and grand you can’t describe it. Named after Circe, goddess of magic.

Collgender:  A polygender identity where one experiences too many genders to be able to describe them all.

Cengender/Resgender:  A gender that can be summed up as an unidentifiable, nondescript thing but manifests in hundreds of different genders that could be recognized and function as “girl” and /or ”boy” but is entirely dependent on the context.

Cosmicgender:  A gender so vast and complex that you are only able to process a small bit of it at a time. Like viewing the night sky through a telescope, you cannot hope to see all of it at once, however, you may gain more knowledge about parts of it the longer you focus on one part. May contain any number of sub genders within it that may present themselves to you. It is infinite in its possibility. Name from the vast reaches of space filled with things we cannot begin to imagine.

Diagender:  A single gender identity that exists, but not entirely on the gender spectrum and is difficult to locate or describe. (You should also know there is another, completely different gender identity that is also called diagender).

Echogender: When you have trouble understanding/experiencing gender so you attempt to understand your gender by mimicking the genders of those you are closest to/most often around. 

Ectogender:  A gender identity that is elusive, constantly out of one’s grasp, and/or hard to pin down. 

Errgender: ‘A stray gender, one you can’t quite get a hold of (err- stray).‘

Foggender: A gender which is close to a certain gender, but cannot be directly pinpointed due to brainfog (a lack of concentration or wakefulness associated with ADHD, fibromyalgia, depression, etc.)

Gyragender/Gyaragender/Gendervex:  When you have multiple genders but don’t understand any of them. Can be combined with relevant genders if you’re able to figure out some part of it. (Ex: if you’re gyragirl, you don’t understand your genders, but you know they have feminine qualities).

Genderstrange: ‘When you can’t pinpoint one word for your gender, but multiple terms almost fit.‘

Gendervoid or Voidgender: A gender identity defined by absence, a blank space or void where a gender might otherwise be. Sometimes synonymous with agender.

Genderweird: ‘A term used to describe those whose gender cannot be described by any existing label, or cannot be pinned down as such.’

Genderblank: ‘A sensation that one’s gender is indescribable, that there are no words to explain it.’

Gossagender: ‘A gender identity that is so weak it feels fragile or barely there.‘

Graygender: ‘Describes a person who is ambivalent about their gender identity/expression, but who identifies at least partially with a gender (defined or not) outside of the binary. They may experience a weak sense of gender, or have difficulty defining their gender, or just not be overly involved in gender as a concept.’

Gendereaux: ‘A feeling of being detached from the concept of gender, but simultaneously identifying with or encompassing many nonbinary experiences or identities.’

Genderhollow/genderempty: “a gender that is present, but is empty or hollow”.

Gender-free: Which does not define people in the basis of gender; in which gender is not present, or is insignificant or irrelevant to people’s lives and choices.

Gender+/Genderplus:  A gender which fits many gender descriptors, but is actually just one complex and big gender. Since so many gender descriptors describe the gender, you pick the one you think represents it the best (or just an arbitrary one of your choice) and add “+” to show that it is described as that gender plus others. 

Scorpigender: ‘A gender that is a mystery, and very difficult to understand. Lots of labels vaguely fit it, but almost none can fully describe it.’

Pendogender: Never being satisfied with your gender no matter how well it fits due to self-doubt, causing one to compulsively search and seek out something that fits even better. Gender perfectionism. For neurodivergent folks only, coined with people with anxiety disorders, OCD, and OCPD in mind.

Jellogender: ‘Where you only faintly feel a gender; it’s definitely present but you kind of have this vague, dissociated feeling with it, kind of like if you were to encase the gender in jello!! (`cause like it’s visible, but its kinda covered in stuff). Not to be confused with Jellygender.’

Levigender: ‘A lightweight, superficial gender you don’t feel very much; one you put on in a hurry.’

Vocigender: ‘A gender identity that feels weak or uncertain. Can be combined with relevant genders.’ (You can use vocinonbinary)

Skelogender:  A gender that’s a big part of you and comes from deep inside, but is obscure and unknowable. A gender that’s unique to you- it’s you and while it’s probably not clear to others, it keeps you together.

Staticgender: A gender which can best be described as TV static; fuzzy and incomprehensible.

Pregender: A feeling that one’s gender is growing into, but not quite yet at, a particular gender. 

Mathgender:  A precise but complex gender that, the more you explore its intricacies, the more bizarre it becomes.

Seagender:  A gender that is as deep and unknown as the ocean itself. It’s a gender that is mostly incomprehensible but slightly familiar in human terms.

Spectragender:  A gender that is such a huge, complex, or confusing spectrum that you can’t begin to define it.

Supertaskgender:  You are constantly finding smaller and smaller details about your gender, which is finite, but there are an infinite number of these details to discover.

Vapogender:  A gender that sort of feels like smoke. One can see it and understand it on a shallow level but if one tried to go deeper it disappears, and one is left with no gender and only tiny wisps of the gender one thought it was.

Worldgender:  Having multiple genders with such complex relationships and subgenders that it feels like the genders make up an entire world or planet together, each gender affecting the biomes and other features of this world/planet.

Mazeplexgender:  A gender identity best described as a dense forest or maze which is easy to get lost in, and is hard to navigate through or pinpoint a specific location or gender. It may be unknown to the person if it’s even possible to navigate through this forest or maze to find any answers. Derived from the two words Maze, and Perplex.

Nongender: A gender that is most accurately described by what it isn’t, not by what it is. 

Nullgender or Gendernull: Being without gender, but it is not agender or neutrois, a term for those to give a “tangibility” to the intangible thing that is their gender. - Undefinable, intangible, the uncreation of gender. Its taking everything everyone throws at you, saying male, female, pick one, pick this, pick that, and taking it in, only to expel it, poisonous crystals erupting from your skin, armor against those who don’t listen. A ‘I don’t want a label because labels don’t fit but they help shut people up sometimes, so here have a label’ gender label. A fall-back plan, a red herring to give people who can’t conceptualize the absence, void, nullification of gender. It is, and is not. All and none. Nonexistent but present.

Nymhs:  A gender which exists but is ambiguous or undefined. To reduce ‘othering’ and increase accessibility to children in particular, this gender can be referred to using both the adjective form ‘nymhs’ (e.g. ‘I identify as nymhs’ or ‘a nymhs individual’) and the noun form of ‘nymh’ (e.g. ‘I’m a nymh’) in the same way one may say either ‘I identify as female’ or ‘I am a girl’.

Jupitergender:  A gender that is so large and present, one is not quite sure what it is because it’s too big to see clearly, but it is definitely there and one knows that they’re definitely not cis.

Meergender:  A gender that is deep and difficult to explore, reminiscent of a large body of water, while also being multi-faceted and can fit under multiple gender descriptors. Similar to ambimegender, cosmicgender, seagender and genderplus. From the Dutch words meerdere, meaning multiple, and meer, meaning lake.

Perigender: A gender identity that is not currently known, but is becoming clearer over time. A transitional identity; When you feel your gender is comparable to a certain gender, but is a non binary identity and not even partially that binary gender. You identify with not as a gender.

Offgender: A gender that closely represents/is most closely represented by another gender, but is not that gender. Can be likened to what the color off-white is to white for descriptive purposes. 

Telegender: “A gender that one feels a disconnect from, almost to the point of not feeling it.“ 

Paragender: “A gender identity that is close to, but not exactly, a gender. For instance, someone who is a paraboy may feel that their gender is near to, but not quite male.” 

Vaguegender or Gendervague: “A gender being mostly or around a certain gender (or mostly around a certain gender), but is only approximate on account of difficulty defining it due to one’s neurodivergence.“ 

Ventulian: A gender element which is not clearly defined. It may change in a way that is hard to keep up with, impossible to describe or understand, or simply be vague and fleeting in nature, but it is present.  

Maringender: A term used to describe when part of one’s gender is identifiable but the other parts(s) is/are unidentifiable.

Pomogender: A gender where one denies or does not fit any labels for any particular gender. For example, someone who knows they’re not cis, but is not interested, or can’t specify what their gender(s) are. 

Novigender: When your gender experience (or lack thereof) is complicated in such a way that it is difficult or impossible to fit into one word or term.

Nesciogender: A gender one is not completely sure of due to one’s neurotype disallowing a clear understanding of the concept, but has a vague sense of what it could be; i.e. nescioboy, nescioagender, etc. 

Vosgender: A gender that feels wild and free one second, then confined and hidden the next. 

Spikegender or Burstgender: A mostly undefined gender with intense momentary spikes of a specific gender, such as boy, girl, genderqueer, etc, that last a relatively short time and fade away. 

Nebulagender: a multigender/xenogender identity, nebulagender individuals have many interconnected xenogenders that collectively form a multifaceted, expansive, and beautiful gender experience. May have fully defined genders, like stars that are formed within a nebula, as well as diffuse, vague, and partly/completely unidentifiable gender feelings that exist in between, like cosmic dust.  

Vexgender: ‘When one’s gender is in the non-binary/agender spectrum, but pinpointing it beyond that is impossible because the individual does not understand the concept of gender. Not to be confused with Gendervex.’

Quoigender: someone who finds the concept of gender identity, or of existing gender words, to themself to be inaccessible, inapplicable & non-sensical; can mean someone for whom the experience of gender is confusing, someone who cannot tell if they experience gender or if what they experience is indeed gender; can be used instead of “questioning,” which indicates an ongoing search for a better term; quoigender instead indicates a troubled history with gender words/identities, and perhaps a frustration with searching, or finding such a search unhelpful; instead using quoigender as a more permanent, stable, unchanging, fixed point.

Xumgender: Never being satisfied with your gender due to constant self-doubt or identity issues, causing one to compulsively search and seek out something that fits as perfect as possible–to find “the gender” or “the one truth”–though one will never be found due to one’s neurotype, because words will never be able to describe it, and/or its own properties paradox itself. This frequent anxiety and doubt even causes this gender to feel imperfect to the individual.

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[nonbinary-support]

hey. ive been questioning my gender for a long time, and im pretty sure im nonbinary, but now everytime i think about gender (like, actually start questioning it) i have mild panick attacks and idk what to do? because not knowing my gender makes me anxious (i guess im one of those people that likes labels) but thinking about it makes me anxious. i have no idea what to do... sorry for bothering.

hey! theres actually a gender that describes this exactly! even if you want a term that describes your actual gender specifically, hopefully this will at least be a band-ad fix? followers?

kynigender: when you feel like you’re figuring out your gender, but then you get confused about it due to the anxiety/stress it causes you and have to start all over again

note: this gender is only for people with anxiety disorders

if you dont have an anxiety disorder (i mean it sounds like you do but) then theres also these:

novigender: a gender experience too hard to read/process/understand or too complex to pin down to one word 

obruogender: When one’s gender is swelling or overwhelming to one. Used when somebody is overwhelmed or overpowered by their gender identity, to an even uncomfortable or suffocating feeling.

iragender: when your gender is angering. another way to put it is that thinking about/figuring out your gender is emotionally exhausting and now you’re mad at your gender.

rosegender: a gender that is layered and thorny. trying to hold onto the gender and pick apart every layer only causes emotional pain and stress. you can also have subtypes, ie rosegirl: a gender that has origins in girlness but you can’t quite place in what way.

snakegender: when your gender slips away every time you try to reach for it to figure it out, and it’s always changing and it’s really scary to confront so you just try to avoid it

then there are these, which are just some elusive genders but dont specify any type of anxiety/emotional tie

apsconsugender: a gender where you know what it isn’t, but not what it is. like the gender is hiding itself from you.

cocoongender: a gender that has not come out yet, a gender that has yet to emerge in its full form

ectogender: a gender that seems elusive, constantly out of your grasp, and impossible to pin down

existigender: a gender that only exists when you think about it, or is quiet until called to attention. alternatively, feeling genderless until a gender is consciously chosen.

staticgender: a gender that is literally like static on a tv; fuzzy + incomprehensible

hope this helps some

-emma

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apsconsugender: a gender in which one knows what it isn’t, but not what it is, as though the gender is hiding itself from them

definition from here!

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Apsconsugender - A gender identity that is a process of elimination. What it is is unknown, but the person is able to define what it isn’t.

MOGAI Lexicon

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Various gender terms with no known flags (part 1)

Abditusgender or Sectiogender: When you have a general idea of what your gender is but feel that it's still hiding important factors from you, or that it's slowly revealing itself to you but continues to keep some of itself hidden and you don't know how to bring it about.

Adeptogender: When your state of gender was obtained through your realization of your kinself, as in, your kin realization spurred your gender realization. (note: the gender and kin type do not necessarily have to correlate with each other)

Algiagender: Having a gender which changes depending on your pain levels or type of pain you're feeling. Only for those with chronic pain.

Aliegender or Aliengender: A gender that is an interpretation of a gender or genders, from a nonhuman perspective. may or may not like to fit into a gender and adopt a gender, but in a sort of ‘alien trying out foreign species’s gender’ way. Can be combined with relevant genders.

Antegender: A protean gender which has the potential to be anything, but is formless and motionless, and, therefore, does not manifest as any particular gender.

Apsconsugender: A gender identity that is a process of elimination. What it is--is unknown, but the person is able to define what it isn’t. A gender where you know what it isn’t, but not what it is. like the gender is hiding itself from you. From the latin word absconsus, meaning hidden, secret, concealed, unknown.

Archaigender: A gender that is ancient/old and big, and can either only be described with those words, or is correlated to them. Can be changed into archaiboy/girl/nonbinary/other.

Trying this out to see what works best. For now I’mma put 10 terms per post and queue maybe 2-4 times a day. If that’s too overwhelming for anyone then send an ask and we can make it smaller! All these terms are in the docs as well 

[Link for A-K] and [Link for L-Z] and [Link for text only]

If any of you know if there’s flags for any of these already, please send a link to it so we can add it to the gallery! And if you know who coined it so we can properly credit them (and that includes if it was anonymously posted or the blog deactivated).

-Hermy

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Michael Distortion from "The Magnus Archive" is nonbinary, agender, ahaze, cryptogender, gendercryptid, gendervoid, benevoid, arundogender, genderpunk, voidpunk, nyctogender, gendernoctis, glitchgender, genderglitch, redactic, genderketer, anongender, ectogender, gendergender, horrorcosmium, speedcoric, tranzeric, WBTTA-ic, IMeMysic, apsconsugender, existigender, genderdox, genderwhat, jellogender, obruogender, vacugender, dreamgender, endergender, fuckgender, purplegender, greengender, abimegender, aesthetigender, aliengender, anogender, cosmicgender, dryagender, enigender, epicene, ethegender, genderfree, metagender, royaltrender, apocogender, eldritchonum, incomprevoid, detagender, redactgender, voidestral, normalalbumaic, mysterygender, monsteric, lachrimosian, genderhollow, 404gender, lightsoffgender, experigender, mosthosical, occulian, voidpangender, obscurian, incognitasensius, genderNOS, discordian, stargender, spiralgender, tessevoid, glitchdatic, chaosgender, xDgender, creaturegender, eyegender, scenecoric, DOSgender, nohingender, edmgenreic, nihilgender, outerspacetix, voidtix, galaxionic, vastgender, despairian, voispirean, cultrogender, hyperfixic, plaguecoric, calighn, pluviogender, staticgender, ghostgender, mysix, mycedgender, gasoligender, aldertich, genderapollyon, confuscpic, stormgender, monstergender, backroomic, dricadic, oddcoric, agnogender, entropien, concelit, frigidusian, scribblegender, foggender, aesthtiagender, acisciengender, xumgender, staticgender, liminalgender, pansexual, omnisexual, aromantic, cupioromantic, toric avatar. It canonically uses it/its pronouns as well as 1t/1ts xe/xem one/ones apol/lyon cryp/cryptid gli/glitch [REDACTED]/[REDACTED] [N/A]/[N/A]

_/_s anom/anomaly vi/vir cy/cyber ci/cipher 3r0rr/3rr0r de/cay voi/void rot/rot 0/0s ara/arach spi/spiral ◼◼◼/◼◼◼s ☣/☣s 🕸/🕸s 👁/👁s and 🌀/🌀s pronouns

Sorry its so much ^^" I hope you have a great one

(a ref pic will be sent soon)

queued (and i added gendervessel as per your other ask)!

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Dr Iceberg from the Scp foundation is a pansexual omnisexual nblm nonbinary agender ahaze benevoid cryptogender gendercryptid gendervoid arundogender nyctogender genderpunk glitchgender genderglitch redactic genderketer genderapollyon anongender ectogender gendergender speedcoreic apsconsugender existigender horrorcosmium doctor whos using either they/them cryp/cryptid anom/anomaly apol/lyon ice/icy cold/colds [REDACTED]/[REDACTED]s gli/glitch and 3rr0r/3rr0r$ scip/scips as well as ❄/❄s 🧣/🧣s 🌨/🌨s and or ⬛⬛⬛/⬛⬛⬛s pronouns or no pronouns depending on apollyons mood with depression adhd anxiety and some kind of tic disorder who is looking for new genderlables as a form of coping

❄s dating Dr Glass a pansexual trans man with adhd depression and autism whos using he/him as well as gli/glitch pronouns

They are both working with Dr Clef a bisexual canon ace gnc trans man with depression and anxiety whos exclusively using he/him pronouns

Art for all of them will be provided soon uwu

Also question for that should I sent it through ask or as a dm?

queued!!