#appropriating forgiveness
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furiousgoldfish Ā· 1 year ago
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people will throw the 'forgive them for yourself, so you can have inner peace' phrase around like it's a cure for the goddamn ptsd
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laniidae-passerine Ā· 2 months ago
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Thereā€™s a very easy way to get around the fact that Assad is unable to pass for a teeenager if the show wants to adapt TVA and thatā€™s to rely on the theme of unreliable narration. Armand begins retelling his history and according to him, he looked like he was in his early adulthood. No older than twenty four, for sure, but also not any younger than twenty. And then, just when the audience has bought it, just when this version of events has been presented as the truth for long enough, someone questions it. Asks if he really looked like that. Asks if heā€™s being honest with himself. And for the briefest moment, we flashback to Amadeo, the age he was when Marius first saw him. Beaten, shackled, afraid. And undeniably a child.
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problemnyatic Ā· 26 days ago
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Look, the bottom line is this. You're gonna be wrong and fuck up sometimes, that's just how being human works. No matter what you mean or how much you care, sometimes, you're gonna do something or say something that hurts someone or perpetuates bigotry you don't believe in.
The goal isn't to do no wrong, that's an impossible standard. The mark of "a good person" isn't that they always do good, it's that they're willing to admit when they've failed, done wrong, made a mistake, and they're willing to course-correct when they do.
It's important that you're trying. It's okay to be the bad guy. You don't need to get defensive, you don't need to stake your identity in "person who never does that kind of wrong." You just gotta be able to say "Fuck, my bad, I'm sorry," accept that your behavior didn't reflect your beliefs, and change your behavior so that it better represents who you mean to be.
The less time you spend lingering on whether it feels like people believe you are who you say you are, the more time you can spend getting better at being that person.
Some people will try to tear you down when you make mistakes, they'll try to pigeonhole you as a "bad person," someone whose very existence is defined by doing harm. This isn't your problem, and it's not your responsibility to prove anything to them. They don't have to believe you, and you don't have to appease them. So long as you're willing to accept when you *do* hurt someone, intentional or not, and you're willng to put in the effort to make reparations and change, you'll never "be a bad person."
Let yourself fuck up. All you have to do is course-correct when you notice your actions' impact have strayed from your intentions. The right people will notice that effort, and they'll be proud of you. And perhaps most importantly of all, they'll let you make that effort. Anyone who tells you it's too late to change, to discourage you from improving, or stop you from trying, is not your frend. You don't have to impress them. Ignore them, and let yourself change.
#I didn't manage to say it in the main text so you get it in the PS tag ramble#When you hurt someone by mistakeā€š it's okay to feel bad and scared and want to make sure they understand you didn't mean it#But you need to set that aside for the moment. You need to let it be about the other person's hurt.#You can ask other people for support with your feelingsā€š they don't make you a ā€œbad personā€šā€ but they're not appropriate to put on the#hurt party. When you accept that you can fix your mistakes and that you're allowed to be upset toā€š it gets less scary to make them#You know there's a protocol for thisā€š and so long as you keep it together enough to follow itā€š you can mitigate the harm and fix things.#Don't get defensive. As tumblr saysā€š that's the devil talking. Defensive is never the right move when someone says you fucked up/hurt them#You can maintain that it was a mistakeā€š but keep that part short and sweet. Let them be hurtā€š let it be you that hurt them. It's hard but#I promise it'll make it better in the long run. People are more likely to forgive you if you let them be angry at you for hurting them.#It's normal to be upset when you hurt someone. It's normal to be upset when someone hurts you. These can and must coexist.#Let them be upset at youā€š apologize sincerelyā€š and no more than three to five times. Let it be about them. It can be about you#with othersā€š and when they've cooled down and approached you with a willingness to hear your side of things.#Sometimes you'll have to just sit with the feeling of having been wrong or seen as a hurtful person. It sucksā€š but i promise#it sucks so much worse when someone who hurt you is more focused on whether you hate them than if you're okay. Let them be upset#It'll be okay. I love you#mumblr#problemnyatic thoughts
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midnightkolrath Ā· 7 months ago
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Resident Evil: Vendetta Concept art from artist Hiro Ueno's portfolio site
Bonus fun fact for me: He also did concept art for Sonic Forces. Small world!
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magnolia-sunrise Ā· 1 year ago
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the perfect tumblr ecosystem is my dear mutuals put knights sitting cuntily on my dashboard and i turn them into pics of medieval AU Wolfgang : )
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robobbin Ā· 1 year ago
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Happy (slightly late) New Year's to @fic-and-art-for-ships!!
This is my gift for @utsecretsanta 2023, I love circus AUs and the Circus-swap AU is so cute! I adore Frisks design so much ā™” ļ½ž('ā–½^äŗŗ)
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spadefish Ā· 11 months ago
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And the second of yesterday's stream comms: a pfp for @astraldragons of one of Don Quixote's alts. :3
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moe-broey Ā· 4 months ago
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Had. An extremely funny vision to revamp Moe's staff.
The design isn't super final, I can never really decide how I want the accents to look... trying to keep them in line with how the Askr trio's weapons look. Especially the signature color magic glow that's present in their special arts!!!
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Anna has it too!!!!! You just don't see it bc her art gets cut off in game. Also, additional image bc you don't see the handle v well in her special.
Which is why, here, the green gem is most prominent on Moe's weapon.... geen....... idk if I'm keeping the other ones that look like the summoning circle orbs. It was just something I wanted to try out!
BUT. BUT. The Main Idea here is that Moe added its own touch to the staff. Yeah, the dangly halo was a Neat idea, but this concept is just so much funnier to me..... says SO much about Moe as a character... it is ALWAYS. Making and customizing things. I can also see Moe using the carabiner practically as well! Now, I wonder why it held onto those two feathers in particular... šŸ¤”
#moe tag#actually if i canonize the idea that those are hero feathers from alfonse and sharena that's gonna fuck up the timeline.#like i'm gonna have to invent Lore. about it. but the two dangly spinny twirly feathers were ALWAYS a part of moe's Concept#like before it got simplified for ease of drawing moe had a dangly feather earring along the staff decorations#IDK IDK I'M WAY TOO METICULOUS. if i just draw two feathers please forgive me. i LOVE LORE#AND I LOVE. WHEN CHARAS ARE SENTIMENTAL. IN SILLY WAYS. GET ATTACHED TO EVERYTHING ā€¼ļøā€¼ļøā€¼ļøā€¼ļø#but like. sometimes it Is just for The Look of it.... i'm so sorry#ANY WHICH WAY. as i was drawing i had a strong vision. of changing up the halo to be something else#a dangly handmade charm. then i had the REALLY striking idea of making it a dreamcatcher. the FORESHADOWING.#and the Theming. of complex relationship w spirituality. but. i... ended up thinking better of it tbh.#like. asking myself okay how do i be respectful and honor this. then realizing hm.#maybe the only way to be respectful of this is to Not Do That. like. just feels in poor taste as a white guy no matter what.#but it DID get me Thinking. about what moe Likes to make anyway. what are the things that are significant to It.#AND THE. THE VISION. if anything it's appropriating butches here its ass is NOT BUTCH.#but no harm no foul. slap some more punk ass trinkets to that thang!!!!!! the practical use ALSO GETS ME THOUGH#like. moe IS practical. it likes its diys to be functional as well as fun. ect ect!!!!!#fe anna#HONESTLY. what if i only tagged her just to not clog up the tags and also that art is a good ref for later#just might.#summoner oc#my art#moe ref
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whiteboycoolin Ā· 3 months ago
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btw i'm mad at slime again
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fightwing Ā· 4 months ago
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thinking about the fact that in dick and bruce's (second) worst fight, dick still went to clark for help & guidance like!! even though that's his dad's bestie and he's currently on the outs with his dad, clark's still his family too and he'd always look out for dick šŸ˜­šŸ˜­
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brooklynisher Ā· 11 months ago
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Flat colors down!
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Now it's just line cleanup, hands, and shading.
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cabeswaterdrowned Ā· 1 year ago
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Kandreil is like this: Andrew reminds Neil of Mary, both Andrew and Neil remind Kevin of Kayleigh and Andrew also shares strong similarities to Wymack. I donā€™t think either of them remind Andrew of Tilda or even Cass (well, feeling hopeful and hating it reminds him of Cass which is associated with both of them but not exactly what is being addressed here) but Andrew sees Tilda in the mirror every day.
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lre333 Ā· 2 years ago
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(found)family dynamics ft. nose presets by @kashisunā€‹ šŸ–¤
Yā€™ALL i canā€™t wait for you to get your hands on these amazing presets - MARINE, you mfkinā€™Ā DID THAT, OKAY?!!Ā *inSPIRED* had me up playin in CAS, making up whole damn backstories for sims i just met ~sigh~ they already got theme songs and nicknames cuz you had the NERVE to pop off on these wonderfully unique, character-filled, deeply customizable schnoz shapes ~ iā€™m in love <3333
a lil scenario occured while i was putting the family together, learning their quirks and how they interactĀ with each other - an entire mess XD
in order of appearance :
vanity ; as ā€œiā€™m watching my showsā€ non-snitchinā€™ witness / too pretty for this
snickers ; as accident-prone troublemaker crybaby / jealous heā€™s not the baby
ariel ; as perpetually sick-of-this-shit scandalized younger sibling / good sport
hunny ; as not the mess but has something to say about it / lowkey accomplice
mamma neptune ; asĀ rough-edged at work, soft toward the children / the glue
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hopeinthebox Ā· 1 year ago
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i was tagged by the biblically accurate angels @cordiallyfuturedwight and @aprylynn for the september round up <33
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i'm sure there's a perfectly reasonable explanation for this combination of tracks but i'm simply not privy to it. tagging favs if you fancy it: @thvinyl @btscontentenjoyer @spicyclematis @hoseeok @kimchokejin @jihopesjoint @eoieopda MWAH and always @monismochi !!!!!!!
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neopoint Ā· 2 years ago
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the backstory of vash and knives as kids is a lot sadder in the mangaā€¦ i think stampede did a lot of things well but the way theyā€™ve handled knives is a little weird so far, they make it seem like he was some little psychopath child right from the start but thatā€™s so far from the truth? he loved rem and saw her as his mother just as much as vash did. if anything he was initially even more desperate to be with humans than vash was. he literally broke down into happy tears the second he received acknowledgment from a human who wasnā€™t rem because he was so relieved to be accepted as a being who could live amongst them once everyone woke up :( seeing all that actually makes his feelings of betrayal/anger and desire for vengeance once they find tesla even more understandable, and i wish they had shown more of his perspective, but maybe itā€™s being saved for season two? they didnā€™t show this to us until like 8 volumes into the manga after all
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butchhamlet Ā· 10 months ago
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Joining in because I do love to hate on kenneth brananagh. That being said, Emma Thompson is a queen and she carries that much ado film (which is probably his best shakespeare mostly because of her)
SOOOOOOOOOO FUCKING TRUE. we watched that much ado in my english class in high school and her fucking POWERS...
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