#aphobes get fucked
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Look at my asexual son in all of his glory, LOOK AT HIM
there was a lot of aphobia going around so I thought it would be cool for these boys to show their true colors
reblog to scare aphobes
#fnaf daycare attendant#moondrop#sundrop#ruin eclipse#asexual#aphobes get fucked#I believe in ace DCA supremacy#asexuel#asexual eclipse for the soul#FEAST YOUR EYES UPON HIM#fnaf fanart#fnaf dca#fnaf moon#fnaf sun#fnaf security breach#fnaf#fnaf eclipse#not mine#BUT YOU ALL MUST SEE THIS
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Great news: I beat up an acephobe today and threw him in the gutter afterwards.
Bad news: I got fined for littering.
#get it? because aphobes are garbage lol#fuck aphobes#ace pride#asexual#aro#aromantic#asexuality#asexual pride#aspec#aroace#acespec#ace#acesexual#aromantism#asexual spectrum#aspec pride#pride#pride month#lgbtqia#lgbtqiia+
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can we just all collectively agree that it is okay for aroace characters not to date or have sex if they clearly show no interest in it or repulsion?
can we respect that and not ship them?
or are yall too deep into amatonormativity…???
#this is so targeted#yelena belova in specific since the fandom cannot let her go just cause shes attractive like get a life#fuck amatonormativity#fuck aphobia#fuck aphobes#aspec#arospec#acespec#asexuality#aromanticism#asexual#ace#aromantic#aro#aroace#aro pride#ace pride#non partnering aro#sex repulsed#romance repulsed
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"asexual discourse" is so funny cause dude that's not discourse and it's never been discourse. it's not an argument and it's not a conversation bitches are just yelling at us unprompted and then making up people to get mad at 😭
#exclusionists will act like they're in the fucking trenches when they're posting#as if they're not taking the time to walk into someone else's community without provocation and start being nasty.#saw a post the other day that was saying smth aphobic and was like 'it's true and we should be allowed to say it'#babe nobody's Stopping you. you can say whatever the fuck you want.#thing is though that when you say shitty things. people don't typically like it <3#anyway die mad sorry that you fell for heteronormativity and amatonormativity and assume both to be the norm.#i'm gonna keep creating community with other queer people and you are more than welcome to go off and die alone <3#also if you're fr going into ace discourse in the year of our lord 2024. jesus fucking christ get a hobby#aromantic#aromanticism#arospec#aroace#aspec#talking#asexual#ace discourse#ace exclusion
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us arospecs really do just get on Tumblr dot com and choose violence huh.
anyways be aro bash bigot with a crowbar <3
#like the amount of violent aro posts is crazy#I mean don't get me wrong it's fucking hilarious#my most popular post is a violent aro post#but holy fucking I didn't realize this was part of the general a to hive mind till I got more active here on Tumblr#look you don't get to judge me for being violent and angry and shit on here#I post abt what i cant/don't do irl#I'm a shitty person here so I can be employee of the month at work ya feel me?#Anyways#arospec#queer#aromanticism#aroace#aromantic#aro#demiromantic#greyromantic#grayromantic#aroflux#cupioromantic#fuck aphobes
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amab and afab, if they were used as shorthand for the actual full phrases that they signify, with emphasis on the "assigned" part, and an understanding that they are enforcements of normative (ie, dyadic and cisgender and binary) sex, would be like. really useful. but people took the terms and started using them as shorthand FOR normative sex instead of the ENFORCEMENT OF normative sex. so when other trans people (almost always dyadic trans people) ask for your agab they are almost always asking for your Original Genital Situation. your starting point, so to say. and the reason FOR asking is also almost always bc they are trying to also enforce a certain kind of normativity within queer spaces (which is stupid bc being queer is inherently non-normative but here we are). like, you cant be a lesbian if you're ftm, bc you ARE m, so if you ARE a lesbian, then that means you're lying about some aspect of your identity. does that make sense?
it is always always always incredibly.... i do not trust dyadic trans people that use cagab terms, even moreso than i do not trust dyadic trans people that just use agab terms. agab is also coopted intersex language, but the "coercive" part of cagab SPECIFICALLY refers to medical "intervention" of intersex characteristics, such as "corrective" surgeries and hrt. i am deeply fucking suspicious of any dyadic trans person that uses those terms exactly the same as described above, even moreso if they do so bc "all gender is coercive".
like. yeah. that's true. but you use these terms to erase and overtake intersex discussions on the medical abuse of intersex infants. and i cant help but wonder why you would feel the need to do that.
#iirc it was also common to tirf ideology and the baeddel group#< notoriously intersexist group#to say nothing of any other tirf beliefs#both of these misuses of agab and cagab come from the same source#but it is . deeply disconcerting with cagab#bc its like. that is such a lesser known term in the greater dyadic trans community#you would HAVE to have known what it originally meant#either YOU are misusing it INTENTIONALLY#or someone TAUGHT you to misuse it INTENTIONALLY#people that are cruel and bigoted always want to believe theyre good people#so its hard to convince them when they are being bigoted#esp as marginalized people#and especially as a marginalized people that is particularly affected by the same enforcement of normative sex#the more i learned about this the more i learned abt intersexism in trans spaces#the more i notice it. its so fucking pervasive#and like u should care abt intersexism on its own but its like#no surprise that the ppl misusing cagab terms usually are transandrophobic (as the discourse du jour) and exorsexist#these things go together and reinforce each other#anyways it sucks bc ill see a BEAUTIFULLY written analysis of transmisogyny but so often there will be#like one thing. two things maybe.#and ill go to ops blog search a few keywords and lo and behold#they are transphobic. they are intersexist. they are racist. they are aphobic.#all forms of exclusionist politic in the queer community just lead into each other ad infinitum#nauseating... and#i will read the theory of people who disgust me or who are fundamentally wrong abt other ppls experiences bc i think they still have#valuable things to say but i am SO FUCKING TIRED of running into the same goddamn problem EVERY fucking time#i think its just the posts that get circulated the most that are like that#bc i think the majority of people dont actively seek out and learn abt new queer theory as it rolls in#or other ppls experiences in general#so they dont learnt to recognize the red flags or even realize why its bad in the first place
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*says the most vile and bigoted shit ever* and I say this as literally [group they're being bigoted against]
how bout you shut the fuck up forever
#wrongest opinion ever is 'I get to be [x]phobic bc I'm literally [x] and this doesn't make me a [x]phobe' shut the fuck up#queer#lgbtqia#esp esp esp looking at asexual aphobes. Shut up and remain shush. No one asked you and no one is giving you straight points#for selling out your entire community. The straights won't accept you for pointing out how 'weird' we are. Bitch.#queerphobia#lgbt#lesbian#gay#bisexual#transgender#pansexual#asexual#aromantic#PSA: don't.
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every time i see a post that is like "ughh why cant we have aspec characters who aren't aroace for once" I have to do a double take like "is the aroace rep in the room with us right now?" because genuinely....where is all this aroace rep y'all are complaining about? Why cant i find it yet it's apparently the only aspec rep we get?? You admit that TV never says the word aromantic so where is the aroace rep. So far I've pretty much only seen canonically asexual characters and not much else buddy.
#text#half the time i think these ppl see other aspec ppl saying that x character feels aroace and then they take it as canon rep#instead of an interpretation of the character which likely was never meant to be written as aspec at all#because majority of people don't even know what that is#this isn't me saying that we shouldn't have aroallo or alloace rep btw#this is me complaining about people throwing aroace ppl under the bus because apparently we are 'hogging' all the representation in media#and it just reads as people being aphobic towards aroace people specifically and it drives me insane#you can ask for more aroallo and alloace characters without complaining and shitting on aroace characters????#like bro we are all on the same fucking team. we are all trying to get seen and understood. we all want to see ourselves in media#stop fighting like one of us is somehow way more privileged than the other because 'you have x rep'#we all have crumbs my guy. just because someone else is getting crumbs doesn't mean that its your crumbs being taken.#idk i see so many posts like this and it makes me feel so unwelcome in the aro and ace communities#im tired of aroace people being used as a scapegoat that you can target to pretend like you're punching up#when in reality you're just committing friendly fire against people who are on your team#i miss when the aro and ace communities used to like... work together as a big aspec community#now ppl r way too focused on separating them and acting like they have nothing in common and don't have the same goals#and both communities now tend to put a lot of blame onto aroace people because of stereotypes we never had control over in the first place#it's exhausting#like the aphobia is coming from inside the house#i didn't go through the ace discourse on tumblr to deal with this shit.
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Alright I'm feeling just generally annoyed so I'm gonna post a bit more about being ace (and specifically sex-favourable ace) 'cause fuck it I keep seeing this argument and I'm just so done and wanna goof on it a bit.
"Sex-favourable asexuals are making allos confused and less likely to accept our community! This is a dilution of asexuality!"
Ah damn, fuck, my bad. I forgot about the bit where we all signed the paperwork and became the collective CEO of Aphobia. I keep meaning to get a filing cabinet so I can organise that stuff better, but y'know how it is, cost of living crisis and all that.
Thanks for reminding me that I'm supposed to be running a postmodernist Marxist conspiracy to bring down the LGBTQIA+ community and wage psychological warfare on heterosexuals by introducing the mere concept of being asexual and also maybe sometimes wanting sex. It's gonna be so cool you guys, we're gonna make their heads explode just like Scanners and everything.
#asexuality#sex-favourable asexual#like i get it#and no shade to sex-repulsed aces *at all* to be clear#but sometimes this infighting gets really frustrating#i cannot stress enough that the bigotry of homophobes/transphobes/aphobes is not the responsibility of anyone but the bigots themselves#and insinuating otherwise is honestly kinda really fucking gross#and not to pull the “this is fascism” card but#do you guys... not see why some people's ears might perk up when you're going around talking about the need to protect an identity#from being “diluted?”#like you do understand how that sounds#right?
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happy pride month! this is my yearly reminder that ace/bi/pan people belong in the lgbt community! ty <3
#i am still never forgiving a lot of past ace discourse for making me hesitant to even go near lgbt spaces#and that to this day calling yourself an aphobe and making jokes about it is seen as funny and harmless#not to be rude or anything but some of you all need to shut the fuck up#and as always i stand by my bi and pan siblings in this!!!! you guys get too much shit too!!!#luminiscore#anyway yukari this year bc i figured this time ill rep for a nasty little guy whos a WOMAN <3#im so feminist and progressive look at me. i stan HER problematic behavior
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the youtube comments on my video are going to turn me into the fucking joker
#ac3.txt#how DARE an asexual criticize the way the cishet creator ''confirmed'' a character as asexual! they must be aphobic!#why is it that the words of a cishet creator who doesnt give a damn abt representing lgbtq+ ppl in his works get praised for not even#the bare minimum#while someone who is actually asexual gives a light LIGHT critique. and is deemed the problematic one for doing so.#i know im not anybody that important but like. really. were taking SCRAPS?#and btw i fucking LOVE perry the platypus! hes my fav pnf character#i headcanoned him as ace before it was '''''confirmed'''' on fucking TIKTOK OF ALL PLACES#NOT THE ACTUAL SHOW. NOT EVEN IN ANY SHOW MATERIAL. A FUCKING TIKTOK COMMENT.#ace rep is few and far inbetween but is it really so bad to want BETTER from people in media?#rep that is meaningful and properly represents us#not a fucking footnote#siiiighs.#anyway. hi. im letting my moderator handle comments now bc i cant fucking take this anymore. i cant!#i want to talk about transmisogyny not fucking reheated ace discourse
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okay poll question but first clarification -> by bio i mean specifically the text under the pfp like the description. & by "bio link" i mean like carrds or rentrys or txtis or about pages on their blog (like url.tumblr.com/about)
#text#rly curious abt this bc sometimes ppl follow me and its like man if u read Anything in my pinned ud know we will not get along#but i cant imagine not reading that stuff i love it#even if im on their dni or whatever i'll keep reading cuz im nosy and then i'll wander away sad ant with a bindle style#also i regularly search keywords to make sure they arent like. aphobic or transphobic etc . could not fucking use this website#if i didnt do that#okay. tagging now#polls#tumblr#u know how completely unrelated d.ark a.cademia or f.emcel posts will be in every fucking tag#i should tag this as those#Kidding. unless ?#no im actually kidding
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Girl you are such a loser no one wanting to fuck you doesn't mean your oppressed or gay lmao you're just a weirdo who wants to be soooo special and not feel so bad about how unappealing you are
girl i literally got gay fucked last week and will get gay fucked this weekend. you're mad bc ur hole game is so mid you have time and energy to send bigoted anons, and ur so socially illiterate that you send them to the wrong minority.
also of course shoutout to the ace homies, keeping it queer 🖤🩶🤍💜
#aphobia#acephobia#I don't usually respond to hatemail but its so fucking funny to me when aphobes come at me with acephobia. like girl u got the wrong address#anyway anon you will be alone thinking ab this while I'm getting dick
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It really is always "let fans explore," with the aromantic characters.
I will never forget some other explorations that were deemed homophobic and absolutely unacceptable by fans of media where, in the dialogue/text/narrative of the literal shows, the characters never say with their own mouths, "I'm gay." Oh but it's fine with an aromantic characters that the VA and indirectly the creator have said is aromantic.
#what comes to mind rn is Shiro from VLD getting straight and bi headcanons. Adora with the bowdora ship that happened.#and judge me i guess but genshin impact with every literal character bc theres no canon sexualities with the playable units but god forbid#you have a bi ship or straight ship.#gays are the biggest fucking hypocrites with fandom and what gets to be a 'real queer rep identity' and then what they get to be bigots#themselves with. aphobic gays are like this 🤝 with bigot mindsets the moment its not a gay queer character#and im blaming the alloaces rn bc they seem to be the biggest group aside from alloallos saying 'ITS A SPECTRUM'#as an arospec. i fucking know its a spectrum. aces never let me forget it bc being arospec and bi im often kicked from aro spaces#i just want aro characters that everyone agrees is perfect as 100% aro#yall are amatonormativity shills. aces included#aunt posting#💚
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Tell me again how #aphobia isn't real...
These are the only comments on this post from 3 days ago... these people are vile. And hateful. But tell me again how easy Aces have it. Go on.
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Being ace has never been a question for me. I didn’t get the maybe I’m wrong feeling that a lot of people seem to. 15!year old me saw my friend gushing about her new crush went well that looks exhausting and anoying. How bout I just don’t :/ and then I didn’t! Nearly 20 years later and I’m still very firmly ace lol. Never had a single doubt about it
#vrrm vrrm#what people don’t seem to get is that the human body is made of meat. it’s just meat.#asking me to sleep with someone is like asking me to fuck a salami#I don’t know where that’s been! no thank you!#also the various liquids humans produce….. 🤢#the human mouth is so gross#anyway I was rwading some ace discourse and got confused about people questioning their sexuality#I set mine to no and haven’t looked back lol#whiny aphobe saga
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