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[moonchild-in-blue]

For the ask game, if you didn’t answered it already.

1. what’s the best advice you’ve ever been given?

Thank you for the q - haven't answered this one yet!!

1 - Best advice ever given

I genuinely cannot remember. So many people have told me so many things throughout life 😅

I'm more of a "learn through own experiences / mistakes" type of person, so I very rarely ask for (or really take into consideration) advice. Unless we're taking about specific things or situations. But yeah, in general I usually go for others when I need someone to listen or support, never for help (let's not unpack that right now, shall we?).

If anything, I tend to keep quotes/lyrics closer to my heart than actual things people have said to me, simply because I tend to relate more? I don't know, I think this is making me sound incredibly proud and vain, I promise you it's not like that at all 😭

Sorry if this isn't quite what you were expecting 🥲

[violetsareblue-selfships]

good morning!! <3

[lrndvs]

compliments from girls go hard

[kiwi]

anybody else feel that being human is like being a long-time syndicated cartoon character watching the world get more complex while your own design stays the same until youre incongruous with the reality around you??

[bitchfitch]

writing advice for characters with a missing eye: dear God does losing an eyes function fuck up your neck. Ever since mine crapped out I've been slowly and unconsciously shifting towards holding my head at an angle to put the good eye closer to the center. and human necks. are not meant to accommodate that sorta thing.

[1-jar-of-stars]

On Friendship.

[orpheuslament]

friendships end. relationships end. fictional man whos doing even worse than you is forever

[alivingtypo]

you can pry starting sentences with 'and' or 'but' out of my cold, dead hands

[macdenlover]

it came to my realization that 99% of my fandom related headaches would be cured if everyone understood this

[subjectsix]

I don't know I'm not done talking about it. It's insane that I can't just uninstall Edge or Copilot. That websites require my phone number to sign up. That people share their contacts to find their friends on social media.

I wouldn't use an adblocker if ads were just banners on the side funding a website I enjoy using and want to support. Ads pop up invasively and fill my whole screen, I misclick and get warped away to another page just for trying to read an article or get a recipe.

Every app shouldn't be like every other app. Instagram didn't need reels and a shop. TikTok doesn't need a store. Instagram doesn't need to be connected to Facebook. I don't want my apps to do everything, I want a hub for a specific thing, and I'll go to that place accordingly.

I love discord, but so much information gets lost to it. I don't want to join to view things. I want to lurk on forums. I want to be a user who can log in and join a conversation by replying to a thread, even if that conversation was two days ago. I know discord has threads, it's not the same. I don't want to have to verify my account with a phone number. I understand safety and digital concerns, but I'm concerned about information like that with leaks everywhere, even with password managers.

I shouldn't have to pay subscriptions to use services and get locked out of old versions. My old disk copy of photoshop should work. I should want to upgrade eventually because I like photoshop and supporting the business. Adobe is a whole other can of worms here.

Streaming is so splintered across everything. Shows release so fast. Things don't get physical releases. I can't stream a movie I own digitally to friends because the share-screen blocks it, even though I own two digital copies, even though I own a physical copy.

I have an iPod, and I had to install a third party OS to easily put my music on it without having to tangle with iTunes. Spotify bricked hardware I purchased because they were unwillingly to upkeep it. They don't pay their artists. iTunes isn't even iTunes anymore and Apple struggles to upkeep it.

My TV shows me ads on the home screen. My dad lost access to eBook he purchased because they were digital and got revoked by the company distributing them. Hitman 1-3 only runs online most of the time. Flash died and is staying alive because people love it and made efforts to keep it up.

I have to click "not now" and can't click "no". I don't just get emails, they want to text me to purchase things online too. My windows start search bar searches online, not just my computer. Everything is blindly called an app now. Everything wants me to upload to the cloud. These are good tools! But why am I forced to use them! Why am I not allowed to own or control them?

No more!!!!! I love my iPod with so much storage and FLAC files. I love having all my fics on my harddrive. I love having USBs and backups. I love running scripts to gut suck stuff out of my Windows computer I don't want that spies on me. I love having forums. I love sending letters. I love neocities and webpages and webrings. I will not be scanning QR codes. Please hand me a physical menu. If I didn't need a smartphone for work I'd get a "dumb" phone so fast. I want things to have buttons. I want to use a mouse. I want replaceable batteries. I want the right to repair. I grew up online and I won't forget how it was!

[mroddmod]

the queen of the disco or whatever

[rioblitzle]

working retail

[vrepit-salt]

[bookwyrminspiration]

I can behave normally around books

[pyroinfusedtiger]

Posting this everywhere til im not obsessed with it anymore