#anti obkk

[sinnbaddie]

To say that Kakashi and Gai’s relationship (talking solely platonic rn) was mostly about him helping Kakashi cope with the loss of Obito is disingenuous to Kakashi and all of his relationships.

Any person is going to be traumatized after seeing someone — much less their teammate — be crushed to death under a rock. Kakashi is shown to be someone susceptible to depression due to 1. His environment 2. His initial beliefs and 3. His genetic line. Of course his life is going to be centered around one of the most traumatic experiences of his life, romanticizing it is so hurtful to his character because it destroyed him - and if Kishimoto actually cared about expanding other character relationships instead of making a “generational duo that falls apart” + wasn’t a misogynistic writer, Rin’s death would be the bigger influence on his life than Obito’s.

Yes, Gai had to help him numerous times in his grief but it wasn’t solely or even mainly about Obito. Rin was an absolute vital point in Kakashi’s downfall into chaos. The self harm he inflicted upon himself, the self hatred, the self shame. He became a whole different person after he was forced to kill her. I would say Kakashi’s father Sakumo is by far the biggest influence on him. He wouldn’t have needed any speech of “your father was a hero” by Obito if it wasn’t for Sakumo. His personality of today is thanks to his father’s own death.

Gai and Kakashi’s friendship is almost entirely about them when they’re in scenes together. Look at the chunin exams, look at any scene in the land of steam arc, look at their race, etc. naturally there will be grief the two bring to the relationship and it’s on them to work it out separately, together and with other people which did happen.

You’re actively ignoring every other character that has shaped and formed who Kakashi is by saying Obito is the biggest and only reason he is who he is. Gai is one of the strongest reasons why Kakashi is as motivated and strong as he is. Kakashi would’ve absolutely died at some point in (general) anbu if Gai didn’t pull him out and he was slipping so far when he was in it because of Rin and Minato.

Kakashi’s heart does not “belong” to Obito because he’s in love with Obito and can’t get over him, his heart belongs to the people he loves because that’s who Kakashi is at his core - a lover. He’s a person who cares so deeply, even for people he doesn’t necessarily like or get along with.

Kakashi is a person who is shaped by everybody in his life, that’s why he is one of the best written Naruto characters. He feels like a real person because real people are influenced by everyone in their life, in every way. It’s unfortunate to see those who call themselves Kakashi fans only to mischaracterize, limit and erase the bonds he was written to have to prop up one single bond for your ship.

Do you care for this character? His themes, parallels, relationships and writing? or is he just a placeholder / self insert for shipping content?

[sinnbaddie]

Kakashi very clearly did not respect Obito or even considered him a friend at times, how the shippers came to the conclusion that he most definitely had a crush on him is beyond me

We as a fandom gatta stop acting like Kakashi had a crush on Obito when they were kids. Like it’s fun as a shipper headcanon, but it’s obviously not cannon.

The two barely got along.

[mdr-reikas]

Feel like this needs to be said more often

[2334242xiao]

[JAPANESE SUB]

”冬天要来了。 “

“When it is cold outside, only my in my arms will you be warm. “

Nero’s japanese practice, i need to write and read more otherwise I’ll forget. 

Did my bois yes, my favorites I guess? It’s so sad that in this reality they all never go their happy ending, but at least- in my mind they are together. YAY. 

MY ART///

[yappacadaver]

which kakashi pairings do you enjoy? (aside from obkk obviously) iirc youve said ur anti kk*r but im curious if there are there others you particularly like/dislike?

omg ty for asking!!!

I really like kakagai, you'll see it on this blog occasionally! I think those two are really lovely, married, and perfect for each other truly!! Lots of awesome canon material for those two also xDD

other kakashi pairings I like are weird or rare xD like I'd pair him with Kisame, or Kakuzu, or ZABUZA O_O zabukaka is one I'd really love to explore more once I have more free time (land of waves arc raised me)

some pairings I support but don't go actively looking for are ankokaka, shizukaka, yamakaka (i dont enjoy this one but I totally understand it since they were given an entire filler arc together lmaooo xD)

Pairings I hate for arbitrary reasons include kakairu and kakaita. And though I support kakayams i just. do not care for yams lmao

pairings I hate for solid reasons are any incest/student teacher involving kakashi u_u

[obikonans]

important thing about me

I’m huge multi shipper so that means i’ll post alot ships whenther it’s a edit or fanfic my main ships are  inosaku, sasusaku, obirin, narusaku, obkk, gaarnaru  and eremika also i like the idea of some ships  but dont ship them  also i won’t post any anti message on here because you can ship what you want just dont to be toxic 

[sinnbaddie]

Naruto has a multitude of characters where their writing is heavily based in queerness and queer experiences. From the devotion two characters have for one another to a point where they would trust each other with their lives, to feeling like the other one is the only person who truly to their core understands them and accepts them for who they are despite their flaws and issues they’ve done in the past.

Naruto as a series is so queer in its writing that the writer - whether intentional or not - made the main two characters always run after each other even if one of them fell into darkness, saying he’d shoulder the pain he’s holding just so he can be near him and you’re saying you think… Obito is gay?? The guy who literally lost his mind over a girl??

Edit: I’m talking about canon btw. Hc if you’d like I’ll always support that, but he’s not canonically gay or bi. His character is rooted in his love for a girl and the only reason he saved kk was to have time alone w Rin because he didn’t want him interfering. He’s in love w Rin and only Rin in canon🙇‍♂️

[sinnbaddie]

Being an Obito fan is hard because all I see is people hate on him or make him some abusive dom for Kakashi. Like what the heck

[mdr-reikas]

I really don't like the way that a lot of obkk fanfic are like really anti Uchiha. They paint Obito to be this shining star in a black sky, the only good or redeemable uchiha. Or even worse, pro konoha. I don't like the idea of Obito just falling in love with Kakashi and then abandoning every single one of his believes, even the ones that were valid.