#anti ed

[tiredofthehumanlife]

Recovery is not linear. We have bad and good days. Recovery is not linear. We have bad and good days. Recovery is not linear. We have bad and good days. Recovery is not linear. We have bad and good days. Recovery is not linear. We have bad and good days. Recovery is not linear. We have bad and good days. Recovery is not-

[piperslovebot]

Hiya, Poorni ❤️! Could you write a meta on Donna and how her relationship with Eric became incredibly unbalanced after season 2, please? (The GIF I found for this ask still ticks me off.)

I am so ready for this! @tzaharasykes' own meta just sparked something in me lmao.

In season 1-2, I have zero issues with them as a couple. Two best friends falling in love and navigating a beautiful relationship together. They're not perfect, but it’s a very real relationship.

Season 3 is where it gets messy. On one hand, they had these moments where they’re a legit power couple

(Ice Shack will forever be a fave)

But there’s also moments like this:

And her saying she could have anyone in response sounds like “Shelly could have anyone. Why would she choose you?”

Now maybe that could mean “she could have anyone. Why would she choose someone in a relationship?” But the end of the episode proves otherwise.

And when Eric’s rightfully upset, here’s Donna’s response:

I’m sorry (not), but that is so condescending. Like how full of yourself can you be to believe that you’re the only one who finds your boyfriend attractive?

And then Donna literally let’s Jackie get into her head. Jackie, who literally has never had a healthy relationship in her life, get into her head about Eric supposedly cheating.

Instead of asking to in private, what does she do? She makes a fucking scene right after. Not only that, but she doesn’t even apologize.

Not only does she not apologize, but she doesn’t even think Eric is hot enough to get any girl he wants and literally says the words “I know you’re hot because you’re with me”. Which sounds like Donna taking credit and acting like she “made” him.

Then, there’s her ditching Eric at the concert for Ted Nugent, and isn’t even sorry?? Like she could’ve TOLD Eric she wouldn’t be there and he wouldn’t have been mad. But she left him there all alone, didn’t tell him, AND isn’t even sorry about it?? Eric honey, that is a red flag.

I think I’ll just have this be a season by season because if I cram it all in one, I don’t even think it’ll process right lol.

But typing all of this made me feel better, so tysm <3

[blacksatindahlia]

for so long i’ve been trying so incredibly hard to heal my bad relationship with food that was built over years and years by my family and somehow the friends that i now find myself surrounded with are making it unbelievably harder “don’t eat that it’ll make you bloated” “i wouldn’t eat that it has too much salt” “i could never drink that it has way too much sugar” “how to be diabetic by 25” it’s genuinely making things so so hard and i feel like it’s completely unfair for my friends to put their own food and dietary preferences and restrictions onto me and shame me when i don’t conform

[thelunarsystemwrites]

(MASSIVE TW: Talk of eating disorder and numbers of weight loss!) Mini vent!

...So, uhm, I've nearly lost twenty pounds...

I'm scared. Honestly, I wouldn't wish this on anyone. Its awful, but I feel so... I dont feel like I have a problem...

What the hell is wrong with me.

[andthatscanon]

so he's weird weird

[thetranscendentstateofnirvana]

ive decided that ⭐️ving myself is stupid. like eat what you want. no one cares. and if they do that’s their problem. now let me go order my pizza.

[sox-in-fox]

Recently saw a post that was fat positive, only for it to devolve into making fat people that are on their "50th fucking futile" try at losing weight (a direct quote) not to make comments that they are trying to lose weight.

Yes, I know the point of the post is to say "Bodies that are fat deserve to be respected like thin bodies". I 100% agree with that. I am fat. I am considered morbidly obese. I want to be respected just Luke my thin friends. However, I also want to be respected for my choice in bettering my health and body by losing weight in a healthy way. I don't want to weigh 426 (now 413 but that is besides the point) for the rest of my life. It is not sustainable. It is killing my body, ruining my joints, and preventing me from living the life I want to live.

Respect all bodies. Thin ones, fat ones, in between one's, one's that are trying to gain weight, and ones that are trying to lose weight. Don't boil down people's attempts to lose as "futile". Maybe that person is having a hard time with losing, but that doesn't give you the right to degrade them like that.

My point is, if you are going to be body positive, don't put another person down just because they aren't following along with exactly what you want. Body positivity is important for everyone, big or little, we all have our struggles. Learn to be more compassionate with your words because I have been there. I have been on my "50th futile attempt" to lose weight. I'm finally losing now.

And you know what? I LOVE YOU FAT BODIES. I LOVE YOU THIN BODIES. I LOVE YOU BODIES TRYING TO LOSE. I LOVE YOU BODIES TRYING TO GAIN. I LOVE YOU BODIES THAT ARE HAPPY AS YOU ARE. I LOVE YOU BODIES.

[frogsilverberry]

I love that I have +20 tags in my filtered tags just relating to ED so that I don't have it on my feed and I STILL get waves of ED posts recommended to me. 😒

[222-justfornow-333]

damn tumblr- i like one post that is tagged as ed related and not even an hour later i get ed related posts on my hone feed...

damn tumblr you are doing a great job at suppressing that community 😍/sar

[boyfeelxo]

I eat a cupcake every time I see an ED girlie post on here

[meltedfuckingmarshmallow]

i hate ed blogs sososososo much fuck off fuck off fuck OFF “pro recovery but not for me!!!1!1!” FUCK OFF actively posting advice on how to starve yourself is very not pro recovery of you you ASS oh my GOD i hate this website i hate girls starving themselves and making it aesthetic i hate that dollette bullshit you are not lana del rey you are not audrey hepburn you are KILLING YOURSELF

[tiredofthehumanlife]

If you're going to post pro ana shit (which you shouldn't period) DONT FUCKING TAG ANTI ANA YOU STUPID BITCH no listen I would be kind and caring but you obviously have no fucking respect for others so I won't have any respect for you bc that's such a shit thing to do

Don't even get me started on the fucking pro for me not for thee😜😜🤪🤪 YOURE NOT BEING CUTE YOURE JUST BEING IGNORANT I'm almost positive they're doing it on purpose like oh I should say some crazy pro ana and pro mia stuff and then tag anti ana and anti mia so people in recovery can see it get triggered and be as miserable as me come closer when I tell you this look me in my eyes

If you are posting pro Ed with or without anti Ed tags (although especially with the anti Ed tags) YOU ARE A TERRIBLE PEICE OF SHIT and I do hope you get the help you need but have you fucking heard of a diary it's a little book you write all thoughts in and you can leave people the fuck alone

Anyways have good day 🥰

(and im very proud of everyone in recovery you’re doing amazing don’t give up ily)

[piperslovebot]

You say that Donna sees herself as superior to Eric (which is kinda true). But do you think Jackie would be different? I am a Jackie fan but come on. We know how arrogant she can be and she was always mean to Eric (he was mean to her back), apart of a few moments.

Funny enough, I’ve heard that before. But I believe that Jackie has the potential to grow to respect Eric and see him as her equal whereas Donna is just far gone in that aspect imo. Even in T9S, she talks about how Eric would mess it all up. And that took place almost 20 years, so how I can believe she’d ever change?

But Jackie, I believe has more room to grow and change.

Like you said, Jackie and Eric are mean to each other. Equally so. There isn’t that power imbalance like with Formciotti when Donna acts like she’s above Eric.

To me that’s the difference. Jackie may be arrogant, but that doesn’t mean she can’t change. Whereas Donna has shown time and time again that she sees Eric as below her and that has never changed.

[postal-dyke]

mm, i like having a tummy, i like feeling confident and happy wearing what i want without being self conscious about it. years of hearing fatphobic statements and seeing weight loss ads really fucked me up. i’m glad im learning to grow and love and taking care of myself.

[entity56]

Ana blogs DNI atp. Tired of seeing proana shit on my dash. Damn.

[garden-dearest]

Also. (not trauma dumping) The BMI scale is so fucked. According to it my “healthy” weight should be between 110-155 lbs. I am a little under 5’7”. 170 for me is pushing it… anything below is incredibly underweight. My actual lowest healthy weight is a little more than halfway to obese on according to BMI. No wonder girls are comparing themselves to their BMI and developing eating disorders because they think they’re way overweight.