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hiya i don’t chat here much but if you’ve seen my silly face on tiktok you know i don’t shut up.
i wanna say something, i’m not great with words but i’ll do my best. maybeee one person will see this and it’ll hit at the right time.
i consider myself incredibly lucky, blessed and grateful to know personally some of the people who have written some of my favourite fic. and let me tell you, they are TALENTED. i’m like. how are you friends with little old ME?!
but some of the comments they get on their work is actually so wild to me. it takes so many guts to come on to a public forum and post something they’ve written from the heart, something they’ve poured a little piece of their soul into, and it allows us to be lucky enough to READ SOMETHIN SPECTACULAR.
let me tell you, these people behind the screens doing the writing? wow. their writing is fantastic, or their art, too. but them, as people? PHENOMENAL. and it is a true privilege to know them. they read every comment, enjoy every kindness, and share their work and their art with us and it’s truly a blessing.
so the anonymous authors that people come to talk the maddest shit to without having to take responsibility, it’s a few seconds of vitriol for you, but for them? you’re cutting into a piece of them that they’ve been BRAVE enough to share, and i think that’s the most cowardly, mean thing you could do. i’m sure that if it were you being the brave one, you sharing that part of yourself, it would break you into a million pieces if someone commented something evil or judgmental.
this fandom, from what i’ve seen, is built on trust, passion and kindness, and i think it’s a real shame that writers and artists should get pushed and forced out of here for doing nothing other than the things that set their soul on fire.
if you don’t like something, move on, no?
anyway, i’ll continue supporting my friends, writers, artists and the people i don’t know HOWEVER i can. and i hope you can do the same 🫶🏽
#wolfstar#harry potter fanfiction#muggle au#jegulus#marauders#stop ruining this shit#we’re so lucky you have no idea#these people deserve only the best#creativity is a fucking gift actually#and you’re not entitled to anything
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in honor of last season’s poem being called “”end poem”” (all quotes mandatory) this season i made one out of pieces of the actual end poem
#letting me just download the minecraft font? for free? a mistake#if you or a loved one have been suffering from RED TEXT you may be entitled to compensation#my art#my poetry#secret life#goodtimeswithscar#grian#secret life spoilers#sorry tumblr user livvi3love for not making one with all the deaths again#if you (or anyone) did want to illustrate this one as well you’re more than welcome to but i am not expecting anything#i can do an explainer thing again like i did last time but that is for tomorrow#right now i am just. very tired#but for now i will confirm yes the colors Matter#i literally made this on accident against my will#i was trying to DRAW
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Fiddauthor doodles
*leaves this politely on the floor and scurries away*
yeah. enjoy ^_^
#THEY MAKE ME ILL WHAT THE SHIT#I AM GOING TO EXPLODE#fiddauthor#fiddleford mcgucket#fiddleauthor#fiddleford hadron mcgucket#ford pines#gravity falls fiddleford#stanford pines#gravity falls#normal about them.#the first occurs in the comic btw.#doomed yaoi#no because ford get your head in the game. there’s a married man that wants you more than he wants anything else.#I’m just as oblivious as him though. I can’t be talking.#also fiddleford how does it feel spending all your college years hopelessly pining for your roommate#and feeling frustrated with the lack of romantic progression because neither of you can read signals for shit#so when you inevitably don’t amount to anything and are forced to just ignore anything that may have ever existed between you two#you spitefully get hitched and have a kid to prove to yourself that you’re a) straight and b) not just some loser coward#but all along you’ve just known he was the right one for you. nobody could ever compare to what he gave you#everyone else has simply acted as a replacement or substitution for what you felt for him. you can’t shake the feeling ever.#and when years later you get a call from him you justify immediately leaving to work on the project as a) your entitlement to him and b)#a desperate and hopeless attempt at rekindling your college days#HOW DOES IT FEEL FIDDLEFORD
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Drags my corpse in here.
Hi obviously, I’m not dead. Just insanely burnt out. My boyfriends gonna be visiting me and I’m on new meds so I think by the end of the year I’ll be more normal. I plan to just not even attempt emojis until next year. This has just been a hard year for me art wise okay.
Next year I’ll try to actually be filling the queue again, but some things regarding emoji style will change and I can’t promise I’ll ever be able to deliver daily new content again. My OCD likes to pick up on habits like that way too easily and 2023 was really bad for me with the emoji queue in terms of absolutely obsessing over needing one to be posted daily at exactly the same time Or Else to the point I was missing sleep and food to fulfill it etc. I just can’t let that shit happen again and honestly daily content is an insane expectation from one person anyways.
So yeah, just a little update. I’m still active on my server but the tumblr will be just used to promote my other art until next year when I can stand to try emojis again.
Thanks for the understanding and support!
#I also… think it’s so funny bc there a lot of people beefing abt me over absolutely dumb shit on tumblr and then#I just imagine people coming to my tumblr and seeing. one- I’m hella inactive and two. there is fucking nothing on here ever#I don’t engage with discourse or anything of the likes I’m too old for it. so they just see my emojis….#if you’re gonna ask me why people are beefing abt me. don’t. I don’t even have a proper answer#it’s everything from just people somehow mistaking me for aspen to just being straight up ableist regarding ptsd#and people feeling entitled to spaces when they really. are not….#and of course. the age old: people just not fucking liking me and not accepting they can just not like me so they need to make it a thing#shrugs. I’m turning 25 I really don’t care it’s just funny. that’s why it’s in the tags
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also to the vocal few in my inbox calling me names please know i am laughing at you because you’re coming on the internet as a faceless stranger to yell at another stranger. you are officially That Person and you look like a right tit
#pfh personal#also you’re not saying anything new!#i’ve heard all of this before off people i cared way more about than some dipstick on the bloody internet#whomp whomp you’re a fucking entitled brat who everyone avoids because you’re that miserable#get over yourself eh?
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oh my god like. the stark contrast between mob’s inner self — saying that everyone around him held him back, everyone was afraid of him, everyone treated him differently, everyone only saw him as something to use and that he was never accepted by anyone at any point; that he would never be accepted for who he really internally feels he is — vs all of mob’s friends and family repeatedly saying “we aren’t scared of you because we know you and we love you, this is just a part of you that we can live with and accept,”— not to mention reigen fully admitting that he was using mob and apologizing for it, as well as telling mob that the only person who really needs to accept mob is himself..? It’s just. It’s so good man
#cal.txt#mp100#mob psycho 100#also i think the other side of Reigen’s beliefs towards psychic powers is heavily underrated#no they don’t make you special or entitled to anything but they also don’t make you weird or bad or abnormal#it’s even better through an autistic lens too .. like wow#not to say mp100 is direct disability representation but i feel like most disability rep in media has this tendency or pattern#of framing disability as a discardable part of someone’s life/identity as a way to feign acceptance of it#and they spend more time trying to convince someone that they aren’t Really different#which like i guess the sentiment is there or whatever#but it’s the same as saying you don’t see color as a way to express your non-racism#but mp100 is like. ‘you’re very different from other people but you’re not any less acceptable or less normal for it’#and you don’t have to rely on the acceptance of others to make your difference seem okay either#godddddd it’s so special to me I can’t believe it’s over forever#also the fact that everyone was also willing to take on whatever burden or challenge mob went through as part of his powers/being different#everything in your life is a part of you and we love it and we love you so it’s a part of us too#lord im coming up#GOD ITS SOOOOO#yeah im dead#Reigen could’ve fixed jack but that’s not worth a post I fear#very small overlap of interests#autism coded#autistic characters#<- went back just for those tags sorry
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okay i know this isn’t the answer u were looking for but i just clocked out of the worst shift of my life so this is just on my mind rn:
if ur rude to service workers i genuinely think something is fucking wrong w you and u need to take time out of ur day to self reflect and figure out how to fix that about yourself. like just cos the Bitch Factory is open that doesn’t mean u have to fucking clock in i don’t care how hungry u are or if ur goldfish died or if u got hit by a fucking bus. you’re an adult—learn how to control your fucking temper
#i’ve never cried at work over work-related things#but that bitch at table 10 struck a crazy nerve#like sorry if this isn’t v customer service of me but i worked in the kitchen before this so im not afraid to yell at some customers !#but idk i just froze up in front of her she was so crazy mad at me which is like.#you’re an adult fucking act like it. which i feel like ppl are getting more and more used to as time passes#but it’s not enough do not fucking treat me like u hate me bc u sat *urself* during a busy friday night#like you’re literally giving aliens first day on earth vibes that is NOT how restaurants work#ok i’m done im literally still so heated over something that table 10 bitch isn’t even thinking about rn#i’m going to bed gn#beep beep#<3#no actually i’m coming back bc i ALSO think that if anything ppl are becoming more entitled#“can u make an exception for me? 🥺” so what’s so crazy is that exceptions are for ppl who actually need them. not ppl w poor time managemen
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I didn’t think I needed to say this but here goes;
Don’t come into my DMs to beg me for things. You might want art, money, or attention, who doesn’t? It rocks when someone gives you that stuff! What isn’t cool is when you capitulate to me for it and send me a lot of messages in a row wanting that stuff, then when I either can’t or won’t give, then it means that I’m a bad person.
That’s not very nice. To you or to me.
#you may ask#I’m not very well off right now and don’t have a lot of energy#so there isn’t a lot to give right now#but do not think for a second that you’re entitled to me or what I can do for you#do not insult me or try to guilt me into doing anything either#that won’t work and it will make me not like you#I won’t throw hands but I am looking at my phone like this 😤
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Idk what it is about grocery stores that makes people lose all sense of spatial awareness but fucking look where you’re going. Don’t park your cart right in front of the wet wall where no one can get past. Don’t just stop and stand wherever you were walking. There are signs. Read them. LOOK AROUND YOU. Employees shouldn’t have to say excuse me several times just to get through when they’re holding heavy items. You are not the only person here. You are not the main character. Be aware
#i had to leave because I was about to lose it#also you can ask employees for things and not just assume anything on their cart is fair game bc it’s not#the fucking entitlement I dealt with today truly had me about to snap#‘oh I just assumed since it was on the cart-‘ okay well don’t do that next time why would you think that’s okay in the first place#maybe I pulled those because they’re out of code and now you’re buying expired shit#FUCKING ASK!!!!!!!!
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having special educational needs is so fun because i went to an open day for a adult learning college recently (im 21) and after reading my ehcp they said they were rejecting support for me because of behavioural issues (argumentative) from when i was THIRTEEEEEEN. my records describing my needs haven’t been properly updated in eight years <3
#not to mention getting an email every two years from a new case worker for no apparent reason#i’ve had case workers email me to ask what i’m doing currently like what educational establishment i’m at etc#and they’ve added that to the bottom of the ehcp#but they’ve never had a meeting with me (which legally should happen annually) to review what should be removed or updated on my ehcp#and the thing is it’s so hard to know what you’re entitled to#like i wasn’t happy with a lot of the info on my ehcp#especially since a lot of it was from when i was living with an abusive neglectful mother and all the original info came from her#it was never accurate to begin with#but i didn’t know if i could get anything from the record removed#anyway fun fun fun!!!#i can still enroll but i would be barred from any support for my autism unless i can get proof of diagnosis#which would mean paying for medical records#or getting my ehcp updated like…. asap
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this is definitely one of my more controversial stances but while i believe oliver queen absolutely has to be played by a white man i don’t think bruce wayne necessarily has to be
#like when you read gl/ga it’s kind of impossible to posit oliver as anything other than white#his whiteness is crucial to how he navigates the world bc he has an enormous tendency to speak over people of other races as to how they#should perform liberalism bc he feels like his island experience and foray into socialism entitles him to lecture others#he’s well meaning but ultimately there’s no way you could get that across if he was nonwhite. it would defeat the purpose of the character#bruce on the other hand is a little more flexible bc yes whiteness does contribute to some of his privilege etc#but he’s historically more sympathetic to petty criminals and willing to parley with people from socioeconomically disadvantaged communities#so i think you could make him like. partially non white maybe and explore his ability to connect but nonetheless fail to understand some#deeper nuances bc of how wealth and isolation from poverty shelters him and shapes his naive idealism#and as a disclaimer i don’t mean to say this from the perspective of someone who happens to be more invested in bruce and oliver#*bruce than oliver#i just think if you’re going to make nonwhite fcs they should contextually make sense#and oliver to me does not make sense at all as anything other than a white man#to be deleted
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yo i can't reply to your comment OP blocked me lol, but i just wanted to say sorry if my comment was too aggressive but i'm just really annoyed at anyone who acts like family Must Mean Everything - especially since i've gotten shit so many times for not loving my own. if someone wants to hc sirius as not caring for regulus it doesn't mean that they're an only child - or that it's a bad hc, cause OP made it sound like it was (maybe they didn't mean it like this though). and tbh i don't feel like anyone is trying to be the authority about them, people just read this characters differently, we don't even have a clear canon of them so ofc that happens
anyways sorry again if it was badly said in my comment
I’m not offended, everyone is entitled to their own opinions! I was speaking to my personal experience and am the first to admit I can’t fathom the idea of not caring about my siblings. I’m not saying people are wrong if they have a different experience, I absolutely recognize the importance of setting healthy boundaries with family. There isn’t one universal relationship that all siblings experience; lots of people go no contact with family members because it’s the best thing they can do to protect themselves! That being said, what concerns me about some of the headcanons about the Black brothers having a bad relationship is that it can start to get in to the realm of victim blaming.
When we’re writing from the character’s POV Sirius/Regulus resenting the other brother for staying/leaving is completely understandable. That being said, when readers start to say one of them is terrible for trying to survive what is often interpreted as an abusive household you get in to a more grey zone. No one should ever be encouraging children to do something that they personally don’t feel safe doing in an abusive situation. This isn’t directed at you, I’m not suggesting that’s what you were saying, but my day job is a social worker so I feel entitled to say this.
I can’t speak for OP, obviously, but I think they were just speaking to a particular headcanon they dislike. I definitely have seen people wielding the idea of “canon” to justify only one idea of a character which I think is silly because we know very little canonically about these characters. I don’t think it was an aggressive comment but it is typically considered rude in fandom to comment on someone’s post calling them out for a personal fandom rant. Tumblr is a space to cultivate your own experience; if you feel like people are making you feel shitty for your personal family experience you should absolutely block away. This particular fandom is exhausting at the best of times given how much conflict there is; don’t feel like you have to consume content that makes you feel bad. Sibling relationships are not a one size fit all kind of thing and don’t let fandom make you think otherwise!
#regulus black#sirius black#the black brothers#sorry to ramble!#you’re just as entitled to hc the black brothers as not liking each other as OP is to hc that they would do anything for each other#everyone should be way more block happy towards content you don’t like#fandom is supposed to be fun#if someone’s content is upsetting or annoying just block them!#this fandom can get so toxic sometimes and it’s never worth your mental health
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Hahahaha “There’s something in the water everyone is being crazy today”
I think if everyone is complaining/giving an opinion the problem is you
Well only one person complained the rest were just creepy/crazy but this is my personal corner of the internet so if you’re not satisfied here the responsibility is on you to leave, not me to change 🤷♀️
#mei's mail#sincerely why is that so hard to understand??#like this is my personal tumblr blog why would I change the way it operates bc one person dislikes it LMFAO 😭#if you’re not happy here all you have to do is click the ‘back’ arrow so you’re not on my page anymore 🤷♀️#people forget they’re not entitled to anything on the internet I think
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I’ll never not find it weird when you guys take a fucking picture someone paid for at a con with an actor and crop! the fucking paying customer! out of and then post? the cropped pic of the celeb you want to fuck like it’s yours to do so?? like what the actual fuck
#it’s truly unhinged behavior#some of you fans think because you’re a fan you’re entitled to anything and everything#you’re not!#personal ramblings#my recommended posts are full of them#it’s disgusting
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beaver gnawing on wood noises
#purrs#delete later#this is gonna be a bad / hard post and i’ll have to delete it. like it feels like in making it im invoking cosmic forces to show me karma or#idk like being an ingrate or whatever. but sometimes i find myself on social media rabbitholes looking at instagram pages of.. women who#like really genuinely appear to be good moms to their kids. and love them for who they are and don’t try to make them anything different.#and who celebrate their quirks and stuff. and even share interests with them at the bare minimum. and it just makes me want to sob. like the#knot in my throat. i shouldn’t do it bc i just hurt myself but it’s like. im so lucky i have a mom and that she provides for me. and i know#there are valid reasons for that being all she can do. but also why can’t she… idk.why can’t she ummm love me. or celebrate me. or find#magic in me. or at the very least accept my humanness and be open to me like giving her feedback on stuff. even tonight at this panel this o#one woman was like yeah my two daughters call me on stuff and im like you’re right. if i called my mom on stuff (and i do) she would give me#the silent treatment (and she has) or eviscerate me (and she has). and people in my work life and on here call me endearing and say all#these things. but it’s like none of it can fill up the absolute aching pulsing void that is… my mom. my mom!!!!! is just a person i live#with anr resent most of the time. who has hurt me so badly. and i could have had a mom who like. let me sing and didn’t mock me for it.#and who came in and said goodnight to me and my sister instead of leaving us to o ur own devices because we’re twins and we had each other.#and 14 years ago today was the day that fully cemented in that she could not be that kind of mom and would never be. and i know she tried so#hard and i know she has been hurt and is still hurting. but i just want to scream. like everyone deserves a mom who loves them for who they#are and shit. and how fucking unfair is it that.. like it sounds so selfish and entitled. b it how fucking unfair is it that i got a mom who#im afraid of and then there are people like fucking… m*lissa err*co and sh*ron wh*atley (those are just the famous ones) who by all#appearances seem to be like.. not only loving but open. seeing their children as human and magic all at once. instead of a war prize and a#symbol of their own hardships or whatever. like it’s just so fucking unfair. i hate that this is the way things are for me and that it will#never change and that if it ever does i have to be the one to change it or i have to heal from it and let go of it. like FUCK that! i want#love from my mom! FUCK the fact that she can’t give it to me!!! she has to!!!!!! but she won’t. idk. delete post <3#like so genuinely i should not be even typing these words bc god is gonna smite me now lol. but my heart is howling#and the shitty thing is i don’t think i’ll be able to be that kind of mom if i ever become one bc of how badly all of this has hurt me. and#bc of all that i don’t even think i want to become a mom anymore bc i don’t want to be the reason a child feels this way or grows up to.
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Parents will literally do the most toxic shit and wonder why you don’t want a relationship.
#I don’t understand how anyone can call Meghan or Harry heartless#it’s a classic pattern and just bc you’re a parent doesn’t mean you’re entitled to anything#lf you don’t understand consider yourself lucky
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