#and was cheering on literally everybody

[kitty-beloved]

Bad alice in ny au I made

[vaperarmand]

he’s fragile

[lesbiandarvey]

i bent the truth too far tonight, i was dancing around, dancing around it

[lewkwoodnco]

LOCKWOOD & CO. Ep 6 - You Never Asked

[lynxwings]

as it is written

[waterbendingwaves]

a top three so good everyone literally cheered i know thats right 😌

[multifandomangel]

a song from the twisters soundtrack played at my work today. this is a BIG day for annoying people (me).

[iwritenarrativesandstuff]

Honestly, I was a bit surprised at how much the fandom seems to actively despise Ging because to me he's just kind of a funny little man

[youreyeson1y]

never thought i'd hear chk chk boom be played at our school field on the speakers but we gone done it lol

[aroacewxs]

me feeling rocks fall into the pit of my stomach at the mention of "group work" for a class film assignment after spending my lunchtime excitedly discussing ideas for a school play with a friend: this is EXACTLY like when kamishiro rui from project sekai

[politemagic]

got a new job at the worst time bc how am i supposed to be productive knowing that last night sleep token opened with tndnbtg and closed with EUCLID?? i need three to five business days to process actually

[sugarsnappeases]

mentally preparing myself to do a load of washing…. why does it always feel like such a Task

[intertexts]

getting more consistent ab writing fic for the first time in years & years has been so funny.... staring at the emergent patterns like ok! love what this says about me <3

[marsbotz]

gruxime makes me a little insaneeeee esp from maximes perspective cus its like. damn. a hell of my own creation.

[stupid-elf]

Okay dandy, what is "it's not about the bread"? I recognized everything else

Ah! It's not about the bread is a phrase fairly common in marriage counseling/relationship advice circles. It comes from a popular anecdote of a husband in counseling saying his wife is always blowing up at him about petty things, like buying the wrong brand of bread. The therapist asks the wife why she's upset about the bread, and she says it's because he is chronically inattentive to her and their collective needs so she ends up carrying the slack. It's not about the bread: It's about what's manifesting through the bread

Humans are not rational creatures, we're rationalizing. It takes a lot of self awareness to be in one's own head and go "oh. I'm not upset about the bread, I'm mad because this is the third time this week and the twentieth time this month I have to come up with a new dinner plan because this idiot fucked up." However, it takes much less awareness to look at one's partner and go "hm. That was an outsized reaction. Something larger than what set this off is probably going on."

Once you've realized there's something going on, partners can begin working towards a solution. You have to pull back the rug to find what's been swept under it.

Emotions all have causes. Sometimes they're bigger than they seem like they should be, and sometimes the cause is buried deep in the unconscious parts of the brain, but there's always a reason. Part of loving someone is trying to understand them, and part of understanding them is sussing out when it's about the bread... And when you should maybe start writing a more detailed grocery list

[daz4i]

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