#and they were like ''oh SHIT. that was homophobic.''
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hellu my dear DEAR anna it’s your gg here
eat with me this bag full of popcorn and let’s talk for a bit 😊
it’s been an interesting two weeks, full of surprises
1. did you know that lfjr is correcting their lovely fans? they can’t call the ship bucktommy but tevan and while they are a little taken aback by this for me it’s just funny even more if you think about that comment oliver did after the page called the ship “tevan” for the first time
2. how dare ostark not mentioning tommy in his interview while asked about buck’s bisexuality since tommy is the reason why he is out in the first place
3. the are so desperate mad and scared that they take everything and turn it in a some sort of gotcha for them to be just debunked later like the lizzie thing or when that bts with that actress dropped and 911bts had do clarify that the picture was from 8x05 but they had to delete the post bc bt were being horrible in the quotes and we all know that 911bts loves to be neutral while 911tvnews is on the buddie side
4. this still oh this stills going around claiming to know the order of the scenes just by looking at the stills when we all know how tim loves to cut scenes so one of those frame could be already been cut
5.” josh is going to tell buck to fight for tommy because josh hates eddie and eddie was homophobic towards him”
Hello my baby!!!! This is WILD. I did see the tevan thing, he's so........ God, I hope Buck says he's bi and Josh is there to help Buck realize his sexuality is not attached to the person who helped him figure it out. The everything needs to be a gotcha is so ??? because no matter what they do, they keep getting debunked right after, I don't know why they keep trying. Tim loves to move things around and we have gotten stills of shit that never made it into the show. The handshake for 805 is literally right there as an example. Josh was literally dressed as Eddie. And when was Eddie homophobic? What is this delusion? Oh my god, can they pick a struggle.
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still can't get over "there's no homophobia in ofmd!" claims, as if we don't get a flashback of childhood stede being the target of a rousing game of "smear the queer"
#ofmd#our flag means death#stede bonnet#stede fucking bonnet#mine#txt#og#s1e01#ofmd fandom crit#q slur#<-i dont usually tag this but in this context... yeah.#anyway if any of my followers dont know: smear the queer was a children's game much like tag/red rover/red light green light/etc#one kid is chosen to be ''queer'' and everyone teams up against that kid#either pelting that one kid with balls or all chasing them and trying to tackle them or something along those lines#it was before my time but my parents remember playing it. and it's the kind of insidious homophobic messaging#that gets to kids before they even know what gay means. like my parents forgot abt that game until adulthood#and they were like ''oh SHIT. that was homophobic.''#like modern (or 70s-80s) au badminton kids probably wouldnt KNOW ''we're bullying stede bc he's gay''#they would think ''the name doesnt MEAN anything! and we just choose stede all the time bc he's such an easy target''#''All in good fun!'' as badminton no. 1 said
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so i started this show and it just gets worse and worseeeee not only did it lift the romance subplot directly from twilight (and not well) but they also are trying to play the forbidden love angle hard in the fantasy racism vein except it's a "cross-species" relationship between the two whitest people i've ever seen in my life and there are three people of color in the whole (first season of the) show who aren't villains and it seems that every other episode (and sometimes ebery episode and sometimes twice an episode!) there is a man physically or magically subjugating a woman and i keep waiting for the big reveal at the end to be stolen from fucking rainbow rowell
#yes i read 'carry on' by rainbow rowell in middle school what else could you have possibly expected from me. anyway she gives me simon snow#vibes and not in a good way and she's even blonde while her british vampire boyfriend has dark dark hair and just. you will never be basil.#also i hate to be that guy but the writing has made me physically recoil and the acting almost reads as silly but mostly as middling :/ and#i wanted and expected more from matthew goode bc i really liked him in downton but i guess this is a 2018 bbc modern vampire fantasty serie#like i guess.#also there's SO much shit about bloodlines and maybe i'm gay with a blood disorder amd a family history of adoption but like. who fucking#careeessssssssss it ahould not be that serious. why is it that serious.#also the fantasy racism kind of reads like it's mesnt to be? homophobic adjacent? like there's a Lot of 'love who you love' talk going on#for the single most bland heterosexual relationship i've ever seen on a screen like there is so little chemistry? so little#anyway it's called 'a discovery of witches' and i'd recommend not watching it 🫶 or if you do then watch it on 1.5x speed#it's been decent background noise for knitting bc i kinda sorta care about the plot but if miss a chunk bc i'm in the lace chart zone i do#not care and i do not have to go back to catch it bc the writing is so transparent#there was another series it stole from that's escaping me atm but when i noticed it pissed me off a touch. hmm maybe it will come back to m#a post#do not watch this show#I REMEMBERED they wanted the juliette holding diana captive moment to be joaquin's 'i want to watch you fuck her' from sense8 SOOOOO BAD bu#it WASN'T bc they were too afraid to lean into anything that would make juliette interesting at all. for being all about the world's most#special blonde woman this show does not seem to like women very much. sad! well there's other shows#OH ALSO ALSO there are 3 magical 'creature' species which are witch + vampire + femon except the demons don't seem? to have any magical#abilities that humans don't have besides sensing the species of other creatures? like witches can cast spells and vampires do their various#vampire things but demons have nothing going for them except disproportionately high rates of homelessness and suicide?? like girl what are#we doingggggggg what are we doing here !! what's their deal why does no one care !! can they do anything or no !! god this show sucks
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I’m always so fascinated by people’s bad roommate stories. I’m not sure I’ll ever live with someone I haven’t vetted extensively beforehand ever again
#every living situation where i’ve been assigned roommates randomly; i always seem to get one person who is an absolute angel#and 1-2 people who are honestly fucked up#i lived in halls 1 year of undergrad and everyone was kind of equally insane. honestly no one stood out as particularly bad#because everyone was just constantly screaming. i dealt with it by going home most weekends and getting noise cancelling headphones#3rd year of undergrad i lived in a suite which.. honestly was basically an apartment. had a living room/kitchenette; a toilet; a shower room#and 4 bedrooms#one of my roommates i’m still friends with to this day but honestly they were and are kind of a ridiculous person#like they were actively dealing drugs most of the year and their boyfriend was around most of the time and they would bone LOUDLY#and that’s the good roommate. so you can imagine the other two#one of the others.. honestly wasn’t a bad roommate; she was helpful and clean and civil#she was loud as hell though. she used to have attacks of insomnia and decide to rearrange her furniture at 3 in the morning#and we shared a wall. she also had an illegal pet rabbit.#our personalities just didn’t mesh well; like it became clear pretty fast that we were going to spend as little time together as possible#third roommate was loud; rude; annoying and gross. she’d be calling people at 7am just to yell down the phone to them about her problems#i was like who is picking up the phone to this bitch. she also picked up on my homosexual vibes in that way that homophobic straight girls#always seem to have; and was convinced i had a crush on her. and she bought a betta fish (allowed according to dorm rules) and then it died#because she didn’t want to take care of it properly. and she refused to do anything for herself#like she was always breaking shit and leaving it because she didn’t want to email or call maintenance. so then i’d have to do it#because it was always something we specifically shared. like a set of shelves she put a fucking 5lb shampoo bottle on. twice.#in grad school it was almost the same thing. one angel roommate who was kind of messy but otherwise fantastic#she rolled the best joints i have ever seen. and i still miss her cat cali#it was the men that were the problem. one was an international student who left after a month and bothered nobody#like to the point i didn’t notice when he moved out because he was so innocuous#the other two though….. so one of them started hooking up with my favourite roommate and immediately became SUPER annoying#the other one stole shit; left lights on all the time; left fridge and cupboard and freezer doors open; tried to guilt trip me#into giving him my weed; played mariah carey at 2am; never bought a single cleaning product or household item for the collective#unless you told him to…… he was even using my toothpaste at one point. like. sir.#oh and he was always dirtying other people’s dishes and cookware and leaving them in the sink for days. and leaving big chunks of food#in the sink. it was fucking gross#personal
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i am once again begging y'all to stop glorifying the nix hydra era
#the arcana#wank //#i know some of you weren't here. but oh my god. it was so fucking bad#guilt tripping users into ''saving'' the portia route#calling people racist for not liking nadia being an OTT domme (in a way that is ironically kinda racist)#the fucking tumblr asks that you had to keep up with because devs and users insisted they were canon (that is not how canon works)#not to mention the obvious one#promising three new FULL routes... with chapters released regularly...#to this day portia lucio and muriel routes are significantly shorter than m3#they kept missing the chapter release dates and instead of apologizing and giving themselves more time they would get mad at us#and guilt trip us even more about ''creator burnout''#and then expect us to glaze them for releasing super short filler chapters weeks late#again the new 3 still to this day have shorter routes#but somehow they had time to rewrite the prologue five thousand times and write a bunch of paid side stories :/#and also not even mentioning people constantly trying to politely explain to them shit in their game that's like lowkey homophobic#and transphobic but devteam was always like WELL WE'RE QUEER SO#in conclusion dana rune is not going to fuck you
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One kind of post I absolutely detest on this site(mostly because I've seen one too many and they've never sat right) are those posts praising straight cis people that are only accidentally homophobic because of ignorance but that aren't actually homophobic but very "love who you love"
#and that always compare being gay/bi/nonbinary/trans to the stupidest shit#oh you're like this hyper specific kind of a duck oh you are like this wine oh you are like the fuck I know#like sure people like that are better than homophobes but are you kidding me we should Praise them?#they're not children learning how to write#they're part of the problem because casual homophobia actually does a lot of damage#and they insult us same as everyone else but you have to be very careful correcting them because They Didn't Mean To#and they get offended immediately#sure let's not attack them first and foremost and let's try to bring them more to our side but praising them#is too fucking much#these posts drive me up the wall#they were barely fine when I was a teen fresh of realising I wasn't straight but now#and the people posting them are so honest#OH and when they're like 'and these people are even better that queer people that are assholes and have a shitty personality '#like babe you're delulu you're a goddamn idiot#sorry but I don't like thanking people for acknowledging my right to exist lmao I thought that was the bare fucking minimum#tbd
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hella idk what to send to you for aftg im either bored or annoyed and I don't wanna just say bad things about it 😭 like that's just rude and yall obviously like it I DONT WANNA BE SOME DEBBY DOWNER MDMWKEM
I looked at the anti aftg tag too to see if I could intermingle there and last I checked it was a mix of fans obsessed with the series and haters being just a tad harsh imo, so i couldn't even do that RIP. I'm so lonesome in what is maybe a whole group of people gaslighting me 😔👊
honestly ive said this before and i always have to tread a very fine line with it because this isn't me saying it's OKAY or like. promotable. but i do think to an extent that aftg's problematicness is actually an aspect of what draws people in a lot. like the characters and their reactions to things feel real for who they are, what they've been through and the environments they were raised in if that makes sense? and then you go in the anti-aftg tag and it's just again and again 'they said THIS thing and acted THIS way in response to THIS scenario and it was PROBLEMATIC' and like. yeah. outside of the internet bubble you're in people do actually do that. like that behaviour exists. it IS problematic, well done. you pointed at a wall and called it a wall. but like? in real life people - PARTICULARLY deprived, traumatised people that typically don't ever get therapy or community or someone telling them why something is bad - DO act this way. ive said half of my love for andrew is literally just because he took an awful backstory and let it make him a complete cunt and ive NEVER seen a character do it as shamelessly as him before. and yeah there's the argument for how it's never resolved in the book where nora ties it with a bow and points at the bad behaviour so the readers can go 'see, this is wrong' and we all clap, but idk it just for me feels that when people point at the aftg characters and go problematic! problematic! problematic! it's like they're missing the point a bit.
the point being? that we need to be putting WAY more heat on the author. i really dislike her and a lot of her writing choices and her insistance of using slurs that aren't hers to reclaim and just because it happened to make the characters feel just that bit more authentic i can still acknowledge that she CLEARLY wrote it without characterisation in mind and just added all that problematic shit anyway. like i never get why there's so little focus on nora's writing decisions and thousands of posts just fucking CRUCIFYING the characters themselves and 'let's explain in detail why this behaviour is Morally Reprehensible and they should be Locked Up Forever'. like if u want to focus on the characters so bad and pretend they're the sole reason why aftg is Problematic and Bad then why is it so hard to acknowledge that someone raised the way they were might have some misinformed, ignorant beliefs. idk lol
#but i do also think im prone to viewing these characters as TOO real and i understand there's a line to be drawn between media and reality#like at what point does 'life imitates art' become just a genuinely shit piece of media#and at the end of the day im fully aware which end of the spectrum aftg is on LMAO but this is my 2 cents#like ive met so many people that have said absolutely heinous things that the internet would eat them alive for#like homophobic sexist shit you name it they've said it and it IS problematic and uncomfortable to listen to#but i also know that while teenagers online that would call them problematic were busy claiming some new fucking buzz word to throw around#those people were actively just fucking trying to survive. like they weren't learning about why misogyny is bad#because they were fucking addicted to drugs or living through poverty or some shit like they had BIGGER PROBLEMS#like not everyone got the education or life experiences you got and while it's valid to assume someone saying horrible things#is horrible themselves there's also the times it's just genuinely a misinformed ignorant person#like they'll say 'problematic' things and i'll point out why it's bad and they'll literally go 'oh i never thought of that.' that's it!!!#like i have this childhood friend whose life has been an absolute circus start to finish like COMPLETE instability i wont even get into it#low and behold she had NO ONE educating her about things and one time i had to explain to her why having abortion rights was important#bc she just out of nowhere said she was against abortions. and i initially was outraged and disappointed that this came from her#but i didn't patronise her or shout i just explained my angle on why i think they're good and she was on side immediately#cause she always had bigger problems than researching ethics and no one to guide her so she just absorbed the first opinion she came across#and in a small town from a working class family that opinion is typically not the nice woke answer the internet demands#and with aftg particularly andrew bc he's the one who gets a lot of slack for being violent and generally unreasonable#you have someone who has literally not had someone treat him kindly a single time in his life and each new person is a genuine safety threa#like the average person just does not have to deal with that! ofc they have more time to decide their political and moral compass!#and that's so relevant to real life! popularity for the monarchy is highest amongst the working class! the people voted for brexit! trump!#the lower classes and marginalised simply do not have the resources that higher classes do#and someone fighting for survival is not going to be reading twitter threads on cancel culture in their spare time#so many issues in the world can be eased so much quicker by kindness and patient non-patronising education#than just. pointing and calling 'problematic' at anything remotely uncomfortable#idk where this came from its 2am i should go to bed and instead im ranting not even about aftg anmore this is completely it's own thing now#i feel like i worded this badly too im gonna wake up to anons in the morning accusing me of like. condoning spiking#also gloomy i am SO sorry you are the true victim of this i went ENTIRELY off piste on this one please ignore this 😭#ask
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"Why does everything need to be Gay now it's so shallow to make men attracted to each other when they could be Pure Platonic Friends -"
oops sorry I can't hear you over the sound of me Doing What I Want Forever because I have been watching movies, TV, and animation since the 80s and have watched enough shallow heterosexual romances that would have been stronger as mlm-wlw solidarity friendships to fill the space between stars in a galaxy
#also 1) friends can fuck each other so you're not safe especially since gay guys do this a lot#2) why can't there be a cast with MANY mlm characters where some are strictly friends and some are partners#(bc this is a real thing that happens in the real world shocker I know but sometimes friend groups have several mlm folks)#3) as an aromantic vaguely ace spec person I get the need for good platonic relationships#but uh queer people reading mlm romance into something (often based on their own experiences or representation needs)#that creators refuse to delve into#or god forbid writing it into their own work#IS NOT THE BIGGEST PROBLEM HERE#i can't believe it's the year of our lord 2024 and i am still seeing this thinly veiled homophobic take everywhere#2006 called and it wants its 'I don't wish evil on gays but i dont condone their gay stuff' attitude back#Also when I think about all the shows and movies that came from source material with wlw or mlm characters who were all but TOTALLY erased#Or I think about media about queer historical figures who were utterly straightwashed or had their queerness demonized#or reduced to a footnote or Non Controversial background noise#My rage about this increases like 10000 fold#Anyway TLDR ultimately I fall under the mlm umbrella and that's part of the reason I write the shit I do and I'm not the only one#And I write cheeky posts about it but I actually am genuinely disturbed sometimes at this sentiment#Because no one says it outright but there's this massive undercurrent of an assumption that we don't exist#And we don't create#And we don't create things FOR OURSELVES not even bc precisely because of all the times we were told#'Well that's not really marketable so if you want to see it maybe you should create it yourself'#I feel like I'm talking to a wall here DOES NO ONE ELSE GET ANGRY ABOUT THIS#LIKE HOMOPHOBIA ISN'T OVER YET#ESPECIALLY NOT FOR MLM PEOPLE WHO AREN'T CIS AND WHITE#Like stop calling sex and/or romance shallow when it's gay and SUSPICIOUSLY 0 OTHER TIMES oh my fucking god
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it is 2024 and people are still putting kink at pride discourse on my dash????? are yall not tired because im tired. if you put that shit on my dashboard i will unfollow you and i dont care which 'side' youre arguing its all so dumb and pointless amen
#like i go outside so i dont actually care. none of this is a real problem.#ooooh puritanism oooooh everything is so child friendly now are you seriously telling me queer kids have more options for community events#than adults. like is that actually your argument. be so serious#also. yall need to learn what logical fallacies are. i see people literally using the words slippery slope to argue. yall are NOT REAL#also also it is not my fault conservatives are homophobic. nobody who's arguing abt kink at pride is a conservative lawmaker. on either sid#legitimately kinda annoying as shit to see people saying "look this may not bother you but it bothers me' being told oh so youre a fascist.#youre a christian fascist conservative trying to appeal to the cishets.#thats fucking awful as shit! like can you try for just a second to actually understand the words someone is saying#anyway the people arguing FOR kink at pride are honestly far more annoying god bless#i dont even necessarily disagree but i Would punch you if you were talking w me irl kinda behaviour#all this to say. im done w this discourse. its pointless and im tiredddd are yall not tired#say it with me: capitalism is not the fault of the kids!!! corporatization and sanitization of queer identities is not the fault of kids!!!#if youre mad at walmart be mad at walmart not the teenagers theyre marketing to.
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please god let’s not make this person relevant again
#haiIey aka squi.g.glydi.gg aka ke.y.blac.k is a massively racist homophobic transphobic trump supporting bigot PLS#IT'S WHY SHE REBRANDED LIKE GOD KNOWS HOW MANY TIMES.. LMAO SHE'S ASS. LET HER STAY IRRELEVANT I'M BEGGING#iirc she literally got kicked off the mystery skulls animated projects when it surfaced that she's a big big freak#and hysterically her rant about how much she hates lilo (yes the 5 year old disney charcter) is what got her outed as a bigot#bc her rant about lilo being evil and abusive got so many eyes on her tumblr that people started looking at her posts on her personal and#hooooo boy there sure was some shit on there alright#all i specifically remember was her being pissy about ppl thinking she might be kweer bc she has short hair and dresses kinda masc sometime#and she was all like ewww wtf don't think i'm some ''gender confused'' weirdo (jfc)#and then she had some other posts that were pro-kids in cages at the border#SO#if i see her bendy stuff start givin her relevance again i swear to got 😭#OH ALSO I JUST REMEMBERED HER JUMPING SHIP FROM TUMBLR AND TWITTER bc people Hated Her AND MAKING PARLER OR WHATEVER IT'S CALLED HER MAIN#and then the second she got back on twitter the first thing she did was be all bestie chummies with a dude tweeting slurs 💀 bruhh
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i ranted 2 the bestie abt how. if you hc all the guys as man likers theyre all in varying stages of realizing and accepting that
#tim knows and doesnt care enough to worry abt what he cant change#jay knows but Doesnt Talk Abt It. may have even forgot completely and re-realized during season 3 lol#probably self conscious abt the way he comes off to other dudes :( no homophobic phase tho#alex dodges bi allegations (and feelings) all his life. thinks brian is hot and him n jay r weird Always#he has no reason to have internalized homophobia his parents are loving. he is just Like That#brian has to get rlly close to people to have feelings like that#never considered what it would mean to like a dude until he has the sudden urge to kiss a close friend#DOES NOT THINK ABT IT. he just doesnt unless he is neck deep in 'oh shit is this a crush'#him and tim have kissed at least once but just never brought it up again. the feelings were mutual though#not at all aware if someone has feelings for him especially if they arent super close
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just remembered why I hate twitter..... do you people hear yourselves :/
#this is over a singular pin btw#so many people were saying oh I would bully you/this is making me homophobic/ etc like..... wth#stupid fucking app#might unfollow the person who retweeted bc like... I don't want that shit & idk you#or block them idk#bella talks
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ALSO I need you all to know that my aunt heard me affectionately talking about someone and later when my cousin drove her home, was like "I didn't know she was gay!" And, like, kudos to my aunt who was 100% cool with that (though surprised) and did not make a big deal about it in the moment, but I later had to inform her that my bestie and I are unfortunately not a couple because she is tragically heterosexual. I mean, with that said though, she is right and I AM gay.
#I mean look. she's got the spirit. she's a lot of things but by god she's not a homophobe. hahahahahaha#also re: not a couple: we're platonic soulmates tho so it's fine#she has LITERALLY said the GAYEST SHIT IN THE ENTIRE UNIVERSE about us like HOZIER-LEVEL GAYNESS hahahahaha so I am so fine with it lmaoooo#Oh and a few years ago I delegated the task of coming out to my family to my mother who told my other aunt and uncle that I'm queer#and my other aunt was like “....so what's the news you had?”#and my mom was like “that's it”#and my aunt was like “oh okay. well we love her anyway and don't care. what do you want for lunch?”#so my mom was like#“hey. listen. I don't think this is necessary. so I'm not gonna bother telling anyone else.” and I was like “okay cool thanks.”#I saw them in Jan when I visited my then-gf who lived north of them and they asked to see a picture and were like “oh she's cute!!” lol#also I mentioned an ex girlfriend to my nephews last week and they simply did not react. and these are kids who go to catholic school haha#I also explained the difference between republicans and democrats to them after they asked (I was watching the news)#during which time I had to explain abortion#so I was like “...and Republicans think that abortion is killing babies before they're born...”#and my nephews were like “that doesn't make sense!”#and I was like “yeah. Yeah I know.”#LMAOOOOOOOOO
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Reading all the complaints about microlabels it seems like people have an idea that ‘you just want to feel opressed’.
Which is. No!
That’s not what microlabels are for. And honestly it feels pretty offensive to assume that you are the way you are just to be opressed. This is the core part of your identity and if you are not opressed or not as oppressed as others, you are not valid.
Labels are words. And you know what words are for? That’s right, to desribe something in the most accurate way.
Labels give people a sense of belonging and community. A sense of understanding and being understood.
When you don’t have to build this massive explanation, when you can say one word and this is you.
They are acting like we will rip away their spot light of poor opressed victim. Or we will take their piece of a pie by also being here jfc.
We are people and we are all living our lifes and you don’t get to order how we do it. We aren’t touching you and you leave us alone.
#labels#queer#microlabels#'you are just WEIRD for this'#ah you mean quirky you mean queer#and you hate us cause we are different and you don't get us and we need to stop#cause we will ruin a society somehow by being different#reeeally feels like something someone else would say#someone with -phobe in the end who is angry that other people dare find happiness in something they don't want them too#or 'no kink on pride cause what HOMOPHOBES will think of us because of your weirdos'#the same thing bi and ace people were getting#'YOU ARE NOT OPPRESSED ENOUGH'#oh shut up you joyless shit#leopard arent you friend but go on
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NOOOO babygirllllll im glad you didnt leave tho <3
dw i'll never leave because of the lesbians! <3 plus I am far too stubborn especially over being told it's wrong to wish violence on lesbian fetishizing pedophiles bc they're troons. bullets is exactly what they deserve, the staff loves garbage.
#third times the charm as they say#I don't even have the energy to be pissed bc im sick. I miss my first blog the most bc I had that for a decade#the most annoying part is finding all your mutuals again and blogs with content you enjoy#I spent so much time fixing my dash and who I follow so it sucks#and losing all the messages too! rip to my like massive inbox and drafts of asks and thoughts that will never get posted#oh and reblocking homophobes :// always fun#I should have done a back up so my conten or posts were saved but too late now#I say that shit all the time but I guess the stalker tras really went at the reporting lol
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i have, somehow, finally returned to writing the Original the blank files story that spawned the absolute plethora of other stories. and i
i realize it is absolutely critical this story takes place in the 2000s
#rant#tbf#i mean. its meant to be set around 2012 and just prior and just after anyway#but i realize the HIGH SCHOOL portions are SO colored by the 2000s experience#theres just. a specific brand of WTF homophobia even from other baby gays who knew no better from that era#i remember being called homophobic shit BY the other gay kids because once we were exes#theyd pretend to be straight and make fun of me for liking pussy like OK well u wanted me to touch urs so maybe#ur joke about me eating tacos and being a carpet muncher freak is a little hypocritical no?#but like. that was ABOUND#and even if u Were somehow straight or exclusively dealing with straight ppl#they would do these 'gay marriages' of 2 straight girls acting married cause theyre Great Friends JUST so they could then insult#any girls who ACTUALLY liked girls#and guys? oh man poor guys. gay and all variants of gay were used Intensively to bully#i think the only guy friend i had who handled it alright was my also bi friend. who was class clown and a full bitch and he could insult#everyone back while also Towering over everyone so like. aside from thinking it was bizzare gay was an insult#they couldnt hurt him much#but yeah like me and him were the only people vaguely aware we were bi bitches in high school. (because everyone was biphobic and said#we werent real -.- )#it was ah. a way different high school experience#like. im really not kidding u could be a lesbian butch dating only other lesbian butches#and the second u would break up ur dyke ex would call YOU a filthy dyke carpet munching freak and spread rumors about u#despite ALL of yall looking like the obvious gay people here. it was certainly some Bullshit#(also its probably a miracle i didnt date many boys because im SO fucking queer and so fucking masculine i think id have short circuited#and lost my shit if a person called me anything like queen GOD YUCK)#also being trans in retrospect. explains so much of my teen years#lol one of my BIGGEST teen crushes was also nonbinary in retrospect. we Knew somehow before we Knew.#probs why we clicked. we both didnt act like the goddamn percieved gender ppl treated us as
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