#and saw smth the op reblogged with that was like

[rbtlvr]

u know the one thing i will say is. and obviously there will be exceptions i havent seen Literally Everyone On The Internet. this is just in my experience. but the one thing i will say is. everyone ive seen who DOESNT like spoilers is super chill abt ppl who dont mind or do like spoilers. like yeah u do ur thing ill do mine etc

and i personally know plenty of ppl who do like/dont mind spoilers and are totally fine but like. i have also seen... a non zero number of people who act like the ppl who would prefer to go into things blind, like, killed their family

[mumblesplash]

heartbreaking: this viral post is saying things you completely agree with in the most irritating way possible

[sillyangstfic]

Obsessed with the idea that Adrien has a tumblr in universe, but like specifically as Chat Noir. Now this could go one of two ways:

1) He has a Chat Noir blog that is fairly popular. I mean, he’s Chat Noir. He also has a Ladybug fan blog called ladybfan4ever with quadruple the followers.

2) He has a what is considered a Ladybug fan blog, that he technically runs as Chat Noir called smth like buggaboowhereareyou he just talks about how much he loves Ladybug. Constantly.

No one knows he’s Chat in either LB blog until he calls attention to it, and all of tumblr flips

[tiercel]

Tbh 90% of the weird mean spirited posts i see on here are authored by tphobes/cryptos i think people need to think a little harder on what most of these people actually mean rather than the surface level understanding of it

[sadgreekboys]

I don't understand why people turn reblogs off when the post is dedicated to trying to spread information or to make people more aware of something... like how am I meant to share this so other people can see and understand it as well

[unspecifiedvolcano]

saw a post on here abt how its sus to change your username a lot, have you guys heard about stalkers????

[statementlou]

guess you can't add video to a reblog so you will just have to take my word for it but anyway here it is (from the Berkeley show) ft special guest Lucia heyyy girl

So no one ever told me that at the end of WOAYF the screen is black and white and glitching rainbow colors while Louis is in focus singing “It’s Written All Over Your Face” three times.

[thinger-strang]

hmm nevermind

[bbyquokka]

12:36 pm (bc)

genre: timestamp, smut — MDNI!

warnings: gn reader, established relationship, mirror sex, unprotected penetration, possessive chan, pet name (pup), marking (love bites), finger sucking 

words: 0.7k ~ (766)

a/n: im watching chan's live rn and as soon as i saw that mirror i just had to.. :] i also finished this in like, 20 - 25 mins or smth. ops? 🙈

☆ m.list — ☆ you can also read it on my ao3

dont repost. dont translate. minors, ageless & default blogs; dni! feedback and reblogs are highly advised and appreciated!

“look at you.” chan whispers in your ear. his hot breath fanning against the shell. he slides his hands around your neck before holding the sides of your cheeks. “look at how beautiful you look.”

he gently tilts your head to force you to look at your reflection in the hotel mirror. you let out a soft whimper, eyes flickering and scanning yours and chan's reflection. he gently nudges your soft lips with the tips of his fingers. you silently obey by parting your lips to allow his fingers to slip inside slowly.

you wrap your lips around his digits, his fingers laying dormant on your tongue as you suckle on them. he hums softly, kissing the shell of your ear before gently sucking on the lobe. you whimper softly, saliva pooling and slowly trickling down your chin and chan's fingers.

“so pretty.” he mumbles, kissing the valley of your neck. he softly suckles, teeth threatening to sink into your soft, delicate flesh. your chest heaves as you watch chan via the reflection. he looks up at you through his lashes, a slow and sly smirk on his lips as he suddenly sinks his teeth in your neck.

you let out a shriek, pain and pleasure quickly surges through your body. you grip onto the bed sheets, bundling them up in your fist as you squeeze around chan's length. he lets out a throaty moan as he sucks on the bite mark before licking and kissing it.

he gives a hum of satisfaction as he stares at his work. a deep purple bruise with teeth marks forming on your skin. the type of bruise that no amount of make-up can cover.

“you're mine.” he growls, causing you to shiver and close your eyes. “you'll always be mine, yeah?”

you weakly nod, unable to say or do anything. chan has a hold of you. he's casted a spell on you. you're weak, willing to do anything and everything for him.

“good pup.” his hips snap against yours suddenly. you cry out in pleasure as you feel his length stroke the deepest parts of you. it's too much. he knows what makes you weak, what makes you tremble and begging for more. he loves seeing you in your begging, hazy state. he loves ruining you inside and out. he's not satisfied until he sees drool and tears staining your cheeks and nothing but incoherent babbles from your lips–that's when chan is satisfied.

you're his and his only. he doesn't care how many marks he gives you, how loud you may be. he wants people to hear, to see, to know that you are his and his only.

“chan. chan..” you shakily whimper, head hanging low. you can feel it, feel him. it's so much, possibly too much, but you don't care because you're so consumed with pleasure that you don't want him to stop. you'll go as far to say that you're addicted to him just as much as he is addicted to you.

“such a pretty pup. you always take me so well.” he hums, fingertips lightly dancing up and down your spine, ignoring the fact that you're coated in sweat. his fingertips travel up the back of your neck before tangling in your hair by the roots.

he tugs your head back, forcing you to once again, look at the reflection. you clamp around him, whimpering as you look at your lustful, hungry boyfriend. he swallows thickly as he looks at your doe eyes and stained face, jaw clenching as a way to try and compose himself.

but he fails–massively.

his hips pick up in tempo and strength, hand letting go of your hair. within minutes, your arms fail you, shakily giving up which allows your head to softly fall on the hotel pillows. with your cheek squished against the pillow and your lower body high up, this allows chan to piledrive. 

chan watches every thought leave your head, your mind and body consumed with intense amount of pleasure. the bed squeaks, hitting against the wall, much to seungmin and felix's dismay. but does chan care? of course not. all he cares about is ruining you, watching you slowly become consumed in him and nothing but him.

tears and saliva roll down your face, landing on the sheets and staining the skin. nothing but breath moans and babbles emitted from your chest and lips. your pupils blown out and half lidded as your hair sticks to your uncomfortably hot and sweaty skin.

“you're so pretty like this. i want to ruin you some more.”

tags (open): @sstarryoong ; @oshimee ; @septicrebel ; @bbujiikseu ; @cixrosie ; @alyszaen ; @writerracha ; @hyunluvxo

[rbtlvr]

nvm im Not done but this is less me being Salty And Vague and more just. my thoughts on spoilers in general so its fine thumbsup

comes back after writing the whole thing. oops this got Really Long. woe read more be upon ye

anyway. i saw someone in the tags of that post saying its abt choice, that you have the option to CHOOSE whether or not to be spoiled on something, and like! yeah! exactly! like personally there is not much that Genuinely Triggers me but if i mentioned to a friend that i was thinking about getting into a particular piece of media, and they knew that piece of media had smth in it that would really really upset me, i would want to know

but otherwise i want to experience it for myself and it feels really... rude? i guess? when people spoil stuff for others just because they can. like. not talking abt reblogging stuff for media ages after it came out untagged, or reblogging stuff just after a thing came out and tagging it as spoilers and then someone sees it because they didnt blacklist anything. im talking about walking up to someone and going 'oh. youre interested in this piece of media? well did you know that [massive spoiler]?' its just rude!

and like. i can still enjoy media if i know what happens. its not a case of 'ohhh well i guess you never reread books or replay games or whatever' liek? yeah? i do??? theres SO many things ive gone through again but i still prefer to go into it the first time blind!

like ghost trick is a REALLY good example, if i had gone in knowing [redacted spoiler] i still would have enjoyed the game. but it would have SO MUCH taken away from that First Time Experience where i got to figure it out for myself. where i got to go into the discord and say oh my god this sounds absolutely batshit but heres my theory and im gonna lose it if im right

and then getting to go in a few hours later and go HOLY SHIT I WAS RIGHT? HOLY SHTI? HOLY SHIT?

like. i said i wasnt gonna be vague but literally just one (1) thing i prommy. it feels so... idk. condescending maybe. for op of that post to act like people who dont want spoilers are dumber, or dont enjoy media in the 'right way', or dont analyze media ever, or dont enjoy going through media a second time, or only like stupid bad media for idiots, or or or etc

thats such a huge generalization and sure maybe some of it is true for some people! theres definitely people out there who only like watching a movie once and lose interest once they know what happens! but does that? make them dumb??? or lesser??? like???

and if anything. not being spoiled ENHANCES a second go through for me. like ghost trick example again. i havent played it a second time myself (i want to eventually, but im at college and for spoiler related reasons i can only play it when im at home for my own emotional health), but i have gone and watched other people play it because i love seeing other people get that first time experience too. and the amount of foreshadowing for that one spoiler is WILD. ITS EVERYWHERE. AND IT RULED TO GO BACK THROUGH IT A SECOND TIME AND SEE ALL OF THAT AND GO HOLY SHIT IT WAS RIGHT THERE THE WHOLE TIME

and for the isat spoiler i got spoiled going in for, i still got to do that, just the first time i played. i still got that 'holy shit its so obvious all the pieces are there' experience, but without the joy of getting to figure it out for myself.

i like figuring out shit for myself! i LOVE a good mystery, i love putting together puzzle pieces and seeing the picture come together, i love being proven right and hell i even love being proven wrong (though. not quite as much LMAO). and im good at it, i think! i genuinely do like that about myself, and i like getting to use that skill! a lot!

so like. i dont... understand people acting like someone not wanting to be spoiled is just not engaging with media fully. i think i am? like i said in my tags of the last post i make a sweeping gesture to the 7934058903 posts on my blog where i overanalyze LITERALLY every single line and moment loop has, ever, lmaofjdsklfjldks

taz balance is another REALLY big one i point to as a 'the first and the second go through are SO VERY different and its SO great to get to have both' like. again, the foreshadowing is woven in SO well, in many cases completely unintentionally (there are so many times when the players accidentally foreshadowed something and i KNOWWWWW griffin was sitting there trying so very very hard not to say anything or laugh. or times in the first few arcs when griffin foreshadowed something that hadnt even been planned out yet!)

and ive listened to the whole thing like. three times, i think? at least three times. and its LONG. AND I HAVE ADHD. SO THAT SHOULD SAY SOMETHING ALKFJDLKSJFLKD

like. idk. getting spoiled on a big twist wont ruin the experience if the piece of media is good, thats true. getting spoiled on that one thing in isat very much didnt ruin it for me! i loved the game so much even going in with that spoiler! but theres a difference between ruining the experience and lessening it. and it doesnt make anyone lesser or wrong or dumb to not want that. shrugs

[jalluzas-ferney]

OMGG YESS - CUZ LIKE NOSTALGIA BLIND PPL ARE SO ANNOYING IM SO SORRY😭😭😭

It’s always on Tik tok tooo like I rejoined Tik tok around a month ago after like a whole year or smth and so I started consuming Ninjago content form there too- and as a fan coming from tumblr it was soooo ….UUGHSHS

Like the edits adn hcs are great- there’s a lot of cool , sweet, Ninjago fans there but omg the comment sections can be SOOO annoying sometimes 😭😭 if I see one more person complain about the new character designs I’m gonna have to hack into the Tik tok headquarters and delete that app cuz I swear y’all r pissing me off too much💀💀 there’s always these people having to be like “ugh old Ninjago was better 😒😢” and shit like that and AUAHSHJSB

It’s even worse when u notice that it’s someone who like watched it only when they were a kid and happens to stumble upon some edit and decides to shit on how different it is or looks just cuz or nostalgia. Or like I saw a person go “oh I used to watch Ninjago but then after the movie they changed their designs…and they looked just so different like Zane was super robotic…Kai’s hair was so different ..(etc etc I don’t remember exactly what they said but i do remmeber them mentioning Zane’s robotic appeal which was already a thing before the movie?? And smth else ab another character) and I just…I just couldn’t do it “ SOMETHING along those lines in a way that sounded soo dramatic like I’m sorry you literally missed our on SEASON 8 because you got petty that they looked dif….

AND LOOK - I UNDERSTAND that change can be very deteriorating for some people - and I understand not watching a show cuz of the style or how it looks- but the design changes didn’t change for the worse?? Like at all- and the animation peaked after the movie cuz of the budget increase as well as the story like omg…watching season 8 as I binge rewatched Ninjago (cuz I was getting back into it) was so refreshing and I would even say I was magnified. Because of how the tone changed but in a good way, uk? Not only did like the story feel so much more captivating (for me) but exciting and interesting like DIEBWIHAY!:28!2@. And honestly? I PERSONALLY liked more these designs than the last ones. So the fact that people would pass off the opportunity to watch such a great season just because things are kinda different now. Stop assuming the worst just cuz something is different from what your used to. I understand that the change must be very like/ impacting for fans back then when they suddenly changed the designs that they had gotten used to and loved, but at the end of the day, being so clung to nostalgia just ends up ruining things for your just having a closed mind to discovering and experiencing new things that you might actually really like and enjoy, and honestly ruin it for others. Because you just have to ruin the mood by being all grumpy and upset everytime anyone brings up that new different thing.

That’s brings us to dragons rising, where people look at some snippets about it and automatically assume the worst like “ugh what did they do to Jay and coke they aren’t here 😢😒 “ or “ugh now one will ever replace morro as the master of wind- who the hell is this stupid pick me girl 😕🙄”(referring to Euphrasia and yes I have actually seen people calling her a pick me girl…) or even the example given by op ab wyldfire and Kai…and it feels like they’re already walking into these plataforms with a closed mind and looking at these spoilers already expecting the worst because I mean let’s be honest, any kind of change to them will be bad anyways so there’s no way of conforming to these ppl. Like I don’t know what they expected, obviously it isn’t gonna be the same as before it’s a basically a new series(a light spinoff) so of COURSE it’s gonna have new characters (with elemental powers because ofc it just makes everything more fun and interesting and etc) of COURSE they’re exploring new concepts and worlds and etc and this whole new freshness is also the reason why so many people love it because for many of us at least it does feel like Ninjago (heck they’ve been to the moon and the depths of the ocean I don’t think you can really pin point what feels like Ninjago or what not - uk what I mean? ) and yet it also offers so many new concepts and adventures for our favourite characters to go through as well as new characters - that not only introduces new dynamics but also helps build even more character for not only these new ones but for the old ones! And add new character arcs and etc (like Lloyd becoming a master or Kai having to deal with Wyldfire) . Just because an era is over doesn’t mean the new one will be trash or is Inherently bad. Keep an open mind and stop assuming the worst just cuz the old is dead. You should have seen the end of that era coming ever since it began.

AND YES- your totally entitled to proffering the og designs and the older seasons! Like obviously I should k be saying this. As well as you have every right to just simply dislike other seasons or the newer designs cuz they’re not your cup of tea. The problem begins when someone just starts blindly hating just because of their nostalgia and hate towards change - all meanwhile not actyakky knowing anything about this new thing and not even bothering to do any more thinking about it,research, or simply giving it a chance. And it’s also an issue when your just stating ur uo being annoying - LIKE IM SORRY BUT💀💀 cuz these people will just come to some post that has anything with I dunno,an edit of one of the ninja and it’s all with his post movie design and they’ll just go to the comments section just to hate on the new and mourn the old when no one trully cares like dude…you just gotta come and be negative for no reason like yeah it’s just straight up, simply, insufferable. It’s 2023- you should be used to it by now 😭

(FYCK THIS GOT REAL LONG 💀💀💀)

I hate how there are a ton of people posting about how Wyldfyre is apparently the "Elemental Master of Fire", and then using it to trash her and proclaim Kai as soooo much better.

And then there are the people in the comments agreeing with them, saying "old Ninjago was better"

Fucking nostalgia blind fans. They piss me the fuck off.

I have literally never seen a post like that on Tumblr. If anyone was saying she's the Elemental Master of Fire, they were generally confused, and didn't know she was the Elemental Master of Heat.

But fans on Instagram & TikTok (not all, but quite a lot) literally just use her to hate on the new seasons.

[menlove]

in General I think if multiple people of a marginalized group are telling you "hey your movement/community/etc has an issue with transmisogyny/antisemitism/antiblackness/islamphobia/lesbophobia etc etc" your first and only response should maybe Not be "you literally sound insane I'VE never seen that so if you are seeing it maybe you just need to interact with REAL people in this movement/community who would obviously never ever act like that"

like not only do you sound like a dumb asshole bc even if you HAD genuinely never witnessed smth like that, your internet/activism experience is not universal and you certainly haven't seen every single post on the internet from your community or been a part of every real life conversation about it

but also 9/10 times you are literally the exact person op is talking about lol. like you'll see people say "um the left doesn't have an antisemitism problem you sound stupid" who then reblog conspiracy theory posts from hitlerwasright88 or someone saying "actually fandom isn't antiblack at all lol" and then posting about how they just don't like a black character because they're aggressive and Not Right for their white fave

like PLEASE..... when you see a post and your immediate reaction is "I've never seen that happen in my life so op MUST be lying" look in the mirror and reflect on if you would even recognize it if you saw it. and if you would, if you have enough braincells and empathy to understand that your experiences aren't universal

[bumblebee-is-best-boi]

I had a really dark idea.

Slight Transformers Skybound Spoilers (I say that bc I took inspiration from the Skybound comics)

So I read this post that showed a ghost version of Bumblebee after he was killed by Starscream and he had the injuries that he died, and he was haunting Optimus, telling him it was his fault, but like it wasn’t actually ghost bee, but a hallucination or smth… I think I reblogged the post but idk how to link posts…

but… while this ”haunted by a hallucination of someone dead” concept is awesome… I just thought of something that could be much much much darker.

What if the hallucination that Optimus sees of dead Bumblebee doesn’t blame him… but cries out for help?

Before I go into this, look at these two images of the death scene:

Bumblebee’s face is partially fucking blown out, or at least that’s what I see. And well at this angle we don’t see other injuries but they could be there.

that HAS to HURT.

also all that fire… damn… what if we incorporated that into the hallucination?

So Optimus sees this hallucination, and it’s Bumblebee, with the injuries that he sustained, for extra flair and angst, is slightly burning (on fire, and hey, the fire can be blue to show it’s burning his energon! If Energon burns blue of course idk I watched TFP as my first transformers show so Energon is default blue to me) and utterly suffering.

His frame is being scorched by the flames, energon is dripping from his wounds, but Bumblebee isn’t angry or mad at Optimus… he’s suffering heavily, his face scrunched up in pain with his single functioning optic wide in fear.

He’s constantly whimpering in pain, maybe crying even. He looks up at Optimus with a wide pleading optic, and cries for help.

“P-Please help me Op-Optimus….”

“I-It hurts…”

“You’ll-ll help me… l-like you always did for us… r-right Optimus…?

Bumblebee’s voice box is definitely damaged from the attack, having slight glitches in his voice. Optimus can hear the pain… the desperation in Bee’s voice is horrifying.

He steps forward to hug Bumblebee, to assure him that everything will be okay and that he will be saved.

but instead of feeling Bee’s frame under his metallic hands, he just feels the air where Bee once stood, suffering.

No sound of pain, no crying, not even a single drop of energon to signify that Bumblebee was ever here at all.

Emptiness remains.

Optimus could only stare at where he saw Bumblebee, not being able to cope with the pain. He was the leader of the Autobots, he was a Prime, he had the power of the Matrix! With all that, he should’ve been able to save everyone.

But why wasn’t he able to save Bumblebee?

[asmoshoebox]

you know i love those dash simulator posts but it would be silly to make one for bvm haha

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cashier at hot topic yesterday said he liked my shoelaces but he seemed really genuine and i was wearing my boots with the gay laces so i just fistbumped him and walked away. do i deserve to be drawn and quartered over this minor social faux pas yes or no

#prev LMFAO #keep doing it

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the only thing worse than applying for jobs is interviewing for jobs what the fuck was that phone call ??????? i swear the guy (?) sounded like they were literally dying. prolly just a smoker though 💀 i hope this gig works out man i dont feel great about it

#the good news is my bubbe is coming to see us next week :) #becks personal log

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WHY THE FUCK IS GAS SO FUCKING EXPENSIVE IM GOING TO EXPLODE EVERYONE ON THIS DAMN PLANET

🚬 maiale-e-fagioli

they don't know this post is about the hearse running out of gas on the turnpike last week. with. you know. things. inside of it

#wtf misnis

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dude qhat if there was a way to make like. so so you knwo how money s madeup right .well wht if it was worse

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like if isnteadof it being materials we assign arbitrsry value ot based on manufactres scarcity wht if it was digital adn the value was based onlike uniqhe digital signaturess and algorthims qnd all the value came fromn specualotye invensitmetn instea d of anything REMTOELY real lmfaooooooo

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Date of Origin: March 3, 2009

#who keeps bringing this back lmao cryptocurrency is already dead

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girl help there's a cosplayer on the bus rn in FULL monster mode it's SO FUCKING COOL and also HOT

👻 beetlejuicebeetlejuicebeejeezus

they did like an eldritch double face thing and the makeup is impeccable, it looks so real that i just. i just wanna lick it. "i saw you from across the bus and think you're super intimidating, can i bite you?" but genuinely !!!!!!!!! also they're like suuuper gnc which makes it one morbillion times sexier. god. definitely drawing them when i get home

#woagh that sounds rad as hell. and soooo valid op #like. i just want to eat a demon out and die with its talons inside me #and frankly i dont think thats too much to ask

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"oh, i don't think you're ready yet," he says, pressing a broad, calloused finger against your dripping cunt. "i wouldn't want to hurt you, after all.....

Keep reading

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new blog same fat wet manhole! they will never kill me in a way that matters!

#asmo originals archive #i miss my old url smh

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rly loved the dusk over campus tonight 🦇

#omg slay #gothcore #goth #aesthetic #alt aesthetic

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bee butts. you agree. reblog.

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#bestie why are you polling tumbler about this #personally id keep it #makes a great tactile stim

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might change my name again. i like damien but it just doesnt feel like me anymore idk idk

#i dont understanddd it just feels Wrong #sometimes i feel like theres really smth wrong with me man #and not in the goth way #like im goth i know that but being a goth guy is just. blegh #goth girls just have so many more options for looks it's not fair

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We're coming.....and we hope you will too...

This Saturday at the Moonbeef Cafe in Chambersburg, Pennsylvania

#BE THERE OR BE SQUARE

[alaskan-wallflower]

lowkey scared something like this is gonna happen when i see the show especially because idk how much worse the bahavior will get over the next few months but if i saw this i think i would genuinely start yelling at some strangers cause you just Don’t Do That. the entitlement is insane, imagine if he grabbed some random lady, good lord. If the roles were reversed it’d be dealt with PROPERLY like…I’ll cut it off before I rant but I pray this didn’t happen if i may actually claw my eyes out

anyway, if anyone does thus in october i may actually throw some hands because that is not ok in the slightest and people need to get a fucking grip. they’re not objects.

I’m not sure if this is true but I heard it was when he was going down the aisle that someone grabbed him which is worse-I don’t doubt it happened since I’ve heard people have been asked not to interact with him when he’s onstage which makes me think this is a reoccurring thing but I dunno

on a lighter note though here’s the link to the apple vid

https://www.tiktok.com/@lynn.manuel.miranda/video/7402029147922468127?_t=8onbHjaLNbK&_r=1

Ooooooooh my blood is boiling 🤍

Also thank you!!! Apple link!!!

[glacierruler]

I wanna talk about something...

There was a post I saw a few days ago, that's a few years old at this point(50% sure op deactivated, but I forget). Where they were talking about how their teacher was talking about internet safety and not giving your address to a stranger on the internet because of the dangers.

op basically told their teacher that their internet friends wouldn't take advantage of them. And said to rb if you weren't a predator or smth like that. And it sort of spiraled from there. And there's two things I want to talk about with that.

Again, this post is a few years old, and no hate to op. I get it, no one wants to believe that someone they're close to or think they're close to would do something bad.

I want to make something clear here. I AM NOT SAYING THAT YOU SHOULDN'T EVER MEET YOUR INTERNET FRIENDS!

It was kind of clear to me that op was probably a younger teenager at the time this post was made(based on the fact that I was pre-teen to young teens when I started getting told things like this, and assuming that they didn't lie about their age to make an acc, which in the US is young teen years). And those years are lonely, or at least they were for me, and it seemed that way for op based on their post. But at the same time, it's not safe to give internet strangers the exact address of your house. Especially if you're not an adult.

And yes, I know I'm not the best example of this. Considering my mental breakdown a little while ago.

However, there are safe ways to meet your internet friends. Meetup in a public area, bring someone you trust irl(if you're not an adult I suggest bringing a trusted adult with you)(and encourage them to do the same!) I am not saying you shouldn't meet your internet friends irl, but it's best to be safe about it. Because at the end of the day you only know the internet persona they put on, you don't know them!

But this isn't just about that.

It's about the fact that people took that post, and then called those who scrolled past or didn't/wouldn't reblog it predators. I get that it's reblog bait in a sense. And I fall for a lot of reblog bait, I'm always scared that someone's going to hate me because I decided not to rb something. Intrusive thoughts and Anxiety are not a fun combo when seeing most of those posts. And I'm probably going to still fall for reblog bait after this as well.

And I guess this is a more general statement, but still. No one should be called names(homophobic, transphobic, aphobic, predator, etc...) because they didn't want to reblog a post. It's one thing to comment something like "reblogging this could save a life," under a post with important information. I prefer those ones, because they tell you the good impact that you could have by reblogging it.

But it's another to call people names, to say that they're a horrible person for not rbing it. And I know I've rbed stuff like that before, and I can't say that I'll be able to stop. But here's why:

I have this terrible terrible fear of people leaving me, of not being perfect enough and people hate me for it.

And these posts, they make it worse, because all of a sudden, if I don't reblog then they're talking about me. Because I saw the post and didn't reblog it. That is who these comments state they are for. And I hate it so much because I know that I'm giving this anxiety to someone else who feels similarly when I've reblogged it. But it's hard not to, when that feels like the only option. When the other option makes it feel like I'm going to lose friends, or that people will associate me with these horrible things.

I've gotten better at ignoring those posts, but I still reblog them. It's hard for me not to, almost impossible at times. And, I'm not mad at the people who reblog them, either in good faith or because they have a very similar fear to mine. But I am mad at the people who make the comments calling people those horrible things, with no regard for the context or how that affects(effects?) other people.

It sucks, because this isn't something that I can say will never happen again. I know it will. But it's also something that I am so sick and tired of.