#and it's so tiring
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one of the worst experiences ever to me have to be being around a group of allistics that have a regular interest they're all into that is very different from my hyperfixations. even if they don't intend to exclude me i am completely excluded in subtle ways. i have to listen to them bond over something i don't care about but the moment i bring up the thing i NEED to talk about to feel okay, they shut me down because they don't care and I'm too much either way. I'm exhausting
#I'm finally home from that vacation#it was tough at times#and I'm still at my dad's place and i want to infodump but I'm always scared#and it's so tiring#he's too neurotypical to understand how i NEED to talk about dropout#it's not just something that makes me happy it's needed for my wellbeing#i could have a meltdown if I can't talk about it#vent#i guess
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Something I really wish more creators would understand is that constantly complaining about your work not getting as much engagement as you'd like doesn't make me want to engage with your work more, it just makes you look bitter and the endless negativity makes me want to unfollow
#idk it's fine to complain about every now and then but some people make it 70% of their online personality and it gets so tiring#there's a youtuber who's videos i really like but over time he's just posted more and more about how youtube clearly hates him etc#and it's so tiring#and i know it's harder when you get a large part of your income from online content#but for people who aren't doing this as a career maybe you need to reassess your relationship with social media engagement#anyway#whinge over#personal post#tbd
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It's definitely not the same thing but this is why I find gossiping and badmouthing other people so uncomfortable. Aside from being rude af, what are you getting out of it? A sense of superiority? Why do you feel like you need to compare yourself to people you have deemed as lesser or meaner than you, to prove your worth to those who share your same values?
can we please be more productive with our online time
#it's such a waste of time#oof#reading this might've touched a nerve bc my parents do this every time we go out or we're talking about the family#and it's so tiring#talking over and over again about the same people with the same issues just to end up with the conclusion that 'oh glad we aren't like that'#and I be sitting there nodding until they stop bc god forbid I ask them to quit their rant#ugh anyways ended up venting in the tags hsjsh#op
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I can't keep having the same conversations about love languages, mbti, iq, bmi, "brain fully formed at 25" and shit over and over again...
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well, you see, the thing is: (instead of finishing my sentence i curl up comfortably in bed and go to sleep
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okay but there is something disquieting about this urge to cast fan writers as altruists. they give us all this for free!! well, no.
they’re sharing
it’s a key difference in perception. fic isn’t given. it’s shared. it’s part of a fandom community— in which readers are also an integral part.
it’s probably inevitable mission creep from the increasingly transactional nature of the internet and fandom-as-consumerism, which was always gonna happen after corps worked out how much bank there is to make from those weirdo fan people
but like. fandom is sharing. i think we’ve lost that somewhere.
#idk if this is true of fan artists so much#it’s not something i have experience in#but i see that fan artists can put a £€price on their work and i think that negates some of this#(while surely creating other issues)#but very much speaking from the outside!#fandom#i’m just very old and tired
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star by mitski 🌠
#hello jayvik nation hope you enjoy#i have no idea what's good and what's bad anymore i'm so tired nobody tell me#arcane#jayvik#jayce talis#viktor arcane#zows draws#goodnight!!!!!!!!!!!
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my ape brain when it gets dark at 4:45pm

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I hate how often some (typically abled) people will go “well, if you can’t [get a specific support], then what?” when it comes to disabilities. As if it’s a “gotcha” moment. And then act like you’re exaggerating when you answer that question honestly.
Disabled people often die from a lack of support. A lot of disability aids are not a luxury, but a basic need in order to live.
“Well what happens if—” people die. People hurt themselves. People hurt others. Disabled people don’t magically become abled if our needs aren’t met.
If a bedbound quadriplegic is caught in a housefire, and there’s nobody there to save them, they’ll probably die. They won’t magically become able-bodied out of sheer will.
If a nonspeaking/nonverbal autistic is denied access to alternative methods of communication, they’ll suffer in silence. They won’t spontaneously become capable of speech.
Disabled people are disabled all the time. Our disabilities don’t go away just because they’re inconvenient, or if we’re in danger.
#disability advocacy#disability#so tired of hearing this type of argument. ‘well in the real world you won’t be able to—‘ yeah and we’ll suffer because of it.#actually disabled#actually autistic#<- me#I write this through the lens of someone who is autistic and disabled by it#autism#asd#autism spectrum disorder
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I love you Safety Wizard.
(Inspired by @keroascrazy)
#safety wizard#wizard#Tumblr wants me to use the wizardposting tag so badly and I'm tempted. It's a good tag.#Shout out to stackedbirds for sending me the safety wizard post. Beloved mutual and beloved supplier of good wizard posts.#I will make it an open secret that I love me some good goofy wizards.#Safety Wizard has a special pizzazz that just gets the gears turning.#I like to imagine Safety Wizard began their studies as a traffic wizard. Then took some courses in roadside hazard magic.#This sparked an interest in safety magic and resulted in an eventual change of major - but the outfit stayed true to their roots.#All that said and done; The original costume is really good and I hope OP keeps up the good wizarding work.#Remember that distracted driving is extremely dangerous. Do not drive tired or in altered states of awareness.#It is always morally correct to call a friend of ride service if you have even the smallest doubt you will be a safe driver.#And *please* wear proper PPE on your job site. Do not put yourself or other's at risk!
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white americans when you tell them that the idea of climate change as an impending disaster is a reductive first world perspective because it’s a tangible reality for many in the global south already:
#climate change#im TIRED#and i’m saying this as someone who also lives in the US.#im glad that none of you have to worry about your family and friends in other countries dying because of the heat#but this idea that “oh we have to stop it before we reach the extreme” is SO STUPID#because it’s already reached the extreme in some places!!#people are dying in south asia. people are dying in southeast asia. people are dying in africa. people are dying in central america.#people are dying in south america. people are dying in island nations.#what will it take you to care about these people#or will you not care until it’s people who look like you who are dying.
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#comic#first comic on da new pc#and now i go lay down#if you’re wondering why I am so Tired: I have PCOS which leads to chronic fatigue AND I work full time where I have to mask 8 hours a day#and talk to customers on the phone and solve their problems#I’m pretty fucking sleepy most of the time
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The dark...er truth.
#my art#deltarune#kris deltarune#kris dreemurr#ralsei#ralsei deltarune#ralsei dr#utdr#utdr fanart#deltarune fanart#deltarune kris#deltarune ralsei#guuuuuh im so tired#OH AND#deltarune soul#soul deltarune#i saw ONE person tag... 'them'??? as a character#my comics#forgot to add it to that tag!
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You wrote me a note, cast a spell on my heart
And bewitched me
#my art#fanart#arcane#viktor#jayce talis#jayvik#in honor of the peach hair drop yesterday#they still make me cry dude hello#you just have to listen to laufey when drawing them okay#this was also made late at night when I was super tired so ehh
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every single time
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