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butchcharliee · 1 year

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#okay apparently #people think stone bottom butches dont exist #this one person told me #stone means no receive #and pillow princess only receives #snd of course thats what it means but it also isnt so black and white #like... stone bottoms are also pillow princesses it just depends on the person which term they like to identify with #and there are instances where two stone tops have sex #its rare but happens #and if one bottoms or receives #it's done in a way were they are only comfortable with bc they are still stone ofc #am i crazy and this is not a thing?#bc ive read stories about stone tops having sex and its plausible #and ive seen stone bottom butches #like im genuinely so confused?#im pretty sure that person doesnt know any stone people like I do #like im well into the stone butch&femme community and im stone myself #am i wrong?

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totally-not-an-awkward-okapi · 5 months

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Still thinking about that little angel I dreamt about a bit ago so I’ve been binging other angel stuff and felt inspired to try to draw him as @hoaxghost ‘s style of angel.

#weirdly the halo was the hardest part to figure out because he very explicitly doesn’t usually have one. but man I’m charmed by it now #I was worried about balancing what’s damage he received VS slight cracks that ended from that damage making him a bit too human in nature #but it turned out pretty nicely even if it was hard to keep them simple and contained #still very proud of the stylization on his eyes making it look like the bottom one is a teardrop #nope he’s a freak #also yeah committing to he/himing the angel #less in a Boy Way and more in a like… gendering a hen male because you need to refer to that specific hen instead of the group #the boy vs the girls #idk if that makes any sense but that’s my own grammar and how it affects the little grub #my art #my ocs

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mewvore · 10 months

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Well mostly because it sounds like you want Trump back in the white house

are you one of those people who thinks mocking Democrats and left leaning politicians for their behavior and disagreeing with them in the midst of their hypocritcal actions is equal to being Republican? If so, just so you know, you're totally allowed to criticize the political party you find yourself associated with rather than just accept their behavior on the basis that "they aren't as bad as the other side at least". It comes free with your tax money that pays their salary

#ask and mew shall receive #Fun fact the lesser of two evils argument is just as fantastical as the hope for a good politician is #Going down the ladder one rung at a time instead of jumping down just means you'll get to the bottom much slower #And if they're taking us all down one rung at a time with them they better be glad the most their constituents can do is bitch loudly

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marimbles · 1 year

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at the risk of sounding like really entitled….

does anyone else have a fic that is their most popular, but you don’t want it to be, because you don’t think it deserves it, and you have better stuff, and while ofc you are grateful that people like something you wrote, it’s almost annoying that for some reason That one is the most popular. lmao

#for me it’s this like time travel shenanigans ml fic called Why Are You Like This #which I had a ton of fun writing and I like the fic #but I also tend to forget about it lol #and then I see that it’s my most popular one and I’m like ‘not but this isn’t even in my top 5 favorite fics I’ve written. why’ hdjsjs #it’s probably closer to the bottom of the top 10? and I do not have that many fics hahaha #I remember rooting so hard for tell me something I don’t know to surpass it in kudos #which it eventually DID and I was so happy #but then later WAYLS passed up tms again lol #and I was slightly annoyed to realize that WAYLS was my first to break 5k kudos #while tms still hasn’t #it’s very close tho I need like. 2 more #ok ok sorry this definitely sounds super entitled DHDKDK #I promise I am VERY grateful for every fic interaction!! every kudos or comment I’ve ever received!!#thank you thank you to anyone who has ever read my stuff💜#I just think this is kind of funny #cause I keep scratching my head wondering why that one is the top fic #I think ppl just rly enjoy time travel stuff?#also I did it as a gift for yunyin based on one of her comics so that probably boosted it haha #anyway

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lorephobic · 9 months

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2, 17, 22 for Saltburn

2. a compelling argument for why your fave would never top or bottom

this means nothing to anybody who follows me for saltburn, but i just answered this question about my other blorbo and came to the exact same conclusion for the complete opposite reason. oliver quick would NEVER top because he is clawing to be the main character of every room that he enters. he wants to be desired so badly that he'll reinvent himself into whoever he thinks you want.

there's a sort of trope in obsession-related media where the obsessor ends up forcefully taking from their victim exactly what they want. and i think that oliver subverts this narrative by never taking anything from felix. he never asks for more than he's given. when he finally has the opportunity to kiss felix, he doesn't. he takes from venetia, and he takes from farleigh, and he takes from james and elspeth, but at the crux of his character, is his need to be taken by felix. this is, of course, a metaphor for bottoming LMAO

17. there should be more of this type of fic/art

ok so tbh i'm not a huge fic person because i'm so incredibly picky about the way that the media that i care about is interpreted, which is why i've never read a single saltburn fic and honestly i probably won't ever, just because i feel like there is very little room in this story to expand and no way to twist and rewrite it in a way that is true to the characters that i care so much about. but WITH THAT BEING SAID, i was honestly so totally astonished by @125hr's cattonquick art that it made me realize that maybe i do want to see more beautiful art of them kissing and we can all pretend like they had their moment<333

22. your favorite part of canon that everyone else ignores

this should honestly be it's own post, but since my last rewatch i've been thinking a ton about the final dance being a reflection of felix's initial tour through saltburn, which has been talked about! but what i haven't seen talked about is all of the other scenes that end up echoing each other. felix's life on the screen and oliver's role in it form a perfect mirror image, starting and ending with oliver staring at felix at parties and not being able to touch him. starting and ending with oliver watching felix have sex with someone that's not him. starting and ending with oliver fucking people who aren't felix in an attempt to get closer to him. on a second rewatch, when you know all of the signs, there's such a devastating sense of oliver returning back to square one, lost in a crowd full of felix's friends and nobody even knows his name. there is a time before felix and there is a time after felix and exactly at the center of this timeline, there is a man on his hands and knees in a bathtub getting the closest he will ever get to the thing that he wants.

#saltburn posting #asks #worried that with 2 im drawing a false relationship between bottoming and being desired and being taken #which is rapidly leading me down the linguistic rabbit hole of what it means to be fucked #and how that word holds a negative connotation that is so deeply ingrained into the way that we speak and think #to be fucked is a bad thing. it is an insult to say fuck you.#and of course all of this has its roots in misogyny #but i think it's worth mentioning that it is probably slightly problematic to conflate one on the receiving end of sex #with one who is being taken from #which in isolation already sounds extremely puritanical and is not at all what im going for here LMAO #anyway SORRY these r so long #they should honestly all be their own posts because i have so much to say all of the time #but these were SO fun to spend some time thinking about so thank u for sending them<3

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bunnihearted · 2 months

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#i feel the way i feel and i dont owe it to anyone to hide my sadness </3333 #also i just have bpd and even somewhere many ppl have that u cant even say anything but im just having a breakdown now 🤷🏻‍♀️#anyway what i wanted to say is that i AM sensitive and emotional and stupid #and it does hurt so much when the person i want and love doesnt feel that way for me #and i feel bad saying stuff like this bc ppl dont really understand but #i dont feel..: a whole lot... for anyone but him thats just how it is #so he IS a loss he IS so hard to lose and thats just how i feel #and it hurts sm bc hes the only one i wanna talk to but i cant #i know this is smth most ppl deal with in life and like it's just part of being a human #i just everyday keep thinking of things that remind me of him or i read a book i wanna tell him abt and then the pain comes back #bc the thing is i kinda only want to talk to him abt it all bc i just dont /feel/ a lot talking to others #that doesnt mean i dont appreciate it or care i just dont know how to explain #maybe it's my avpd? but i just dont feel happy or nice or good or comfortable or excited or interested in the same way :((((#i dont know i barely know what im talking or thinking about #and i keep saying the same things over and over again im just so sad and it feels like i always will be #bc i have bpd and then the pain feels all consuming and like it will never end and its just so hard to deal with #and even if it might be true when ppl say stuff like u deserve love or you're gonna find someone else etc #im not ready to receive it bc i only want this specific person and i get that many ppl deal with unrequited love and its part of life #but i AM scared bc im 25 and i've never ever met anyone i feel even a fraction for what i feel for him #what if im someone who doesnt get many chances w ppl? what if im cursed to be alone and never find anyone i have a mutual connection to????#so therefore i just wanted thought believed and hoped it would be him #and yes i acknowledge that a lot of it was just me wanting that and not realizing reality but its still how i felt #and as a bpd girlie my emotions are all consuming 🥴#so bottom line is i kinda just wanna die bc i wanna talk to him every second bc im crazy and mentally ill and since i cant do that im in sm #pain hahahah :D #and i will complain abt it bc it hurts so much idk what to do!!!!! ☺️

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rotisseries · 4 months

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girls when.

#I HAVE YOUR HEARTTTTTTT #narines vivisection *shakes and throws up and dies*#we need one where rin bottoms I mean gets fisted I mean is on the receiving end of a vivisection #nate could use his own ability to keep rin alive it could be just as kinky #anyway to me there's an arm bulge in nate's chest in this scene

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kuromi-hoemie · 8 months

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im a top leaning switch but being an angelic sweet sweet pisces has me fighting the bottom allegations and losing

#this is so funny. yeah i talk cute but if i know ur into me and we're hanging out in person it's a little Different 💅🏾#i also bottompost a lot more bc it's more well received/less embarrassing than top posting lmao #im so picky about tops.. i don't think i even like tops like that tbh like my perfect matchup is a switch bottom #and just ppl who r switches in general.. mm I've kinda always dated bottoms 😐 which is fine y'all r sweet precious angels and #i will hold u and cherish u and take care of u it is truly a joy BUT.... sometimes a girl wants to get railed yk?#sometimes i wanna look up at someone who's a little to excited to do something to me. i wanna fight for dominance sometimes etc #u ask a bottom to top and 😭😮‍💨 i don't like always being on the giving end but i myself couldn't fully be a bottom for someone either #it's so funny... i feel like subs are the ones who deserve to dom me the most as a treat ykwim.. y'all have been so good #but. ya know 😐 lmao #im not sure how many switches I've had the pleasure of hooking up with but now she's reminiscing 😵‍💫

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tidesfate · 1 month

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"Jackalope, when will you stop making your tentacle monster bottoms?" The crowd begs

"When it stops being hilarious" I respond

#MUN. ooc #( gdfgoijdfoi in all fairness one whom is ome on my multi you look and tell me it is not a bottom #the other is chaos who can just summon tentacles #mora being a pillow prince(ss) secretly makes me laugh tho #im sorry I alone fill the untouched market of tentacles who prefer to receive rather than give )#suggestive //

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catilinas · 2 years

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witness the blorb pit

#big fan of the first one (looks like he has the gift of prophecy ball. alas any prophecy comes too late!#extra ironic in that tumblrinus Did receive a prophecy About this very event but could do nothing to stop it!)#and also the bottom left (he floatin)#and also of course the skeleton (rip blorbus. he did in fact die!)#blorbus and tumblrinus #ai generated #beeps

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poptartmochi · 1 year

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unfathomable emotions after showering

also.. i hit tag limit on this, so watch out for a very long post if you hit read more on the tags! 😨

#it is frustrating that overall it is fine for customers to use retail/service employees like punching bags. this guy will have no #repercussions for cussing me out beyond the pre-existing frustration that his order isn't ready because it was placed after our deadline #it is frustrating that you can't really defend yourself because 1) it takes too much time and there's too much else to do.#better to let them have the upper hand in their minds 2) they can take anything you saw and spin it against you in a review #like... 😞 i couldn't even get a word in against this guy. honestly i think he was using me as a stress toy because his kid is getting in #trouble for not having uniforms. which really sucks‚ I understand and empathize with that! but to react in such a way is unacceptable #it's common sense that a mom and pop shop will not process your order until the next business day if you ordered outside of their business #hours. i had to explain the way this particular school's ordering system worked to this guy the last time he was in. i provided multiple #alternatives to contacting us that he never utilized. like.. he had the tools to understand everything and instead of using them he decided #to erupt. and because I'm the poor fuck that works the counter‚ i got to be on the receiving end of this. i should know better than to be #upset about it (the eelness talking. everyone else was mad when he left) but. it's also fair to not want to be cussed out over something as #small as school uniforms! 🤨#and don't even get me started on school uniforms.. yes my entire job rn is selling them BUT oh my god. i hate them. they shouldn't be a #thing. especially when these schools cost an arm and a leg in admission + then the uniforms easily cost another #*$100. the entire practice seems evil to me but also it's the family business so. 😭. the way these schools do it also undermines the entire #point of school uniforms which is. uniformity! 🤨 i feel like the minute differences in brand and so forth and so on give kids easy ways to #compare each other and potentially bully each other. the differences in what people provide Could be distracting! if your kid is the only #one wearing a plaid jumper while everyone else has khaki bottoms on‚ they're going to stand out!#so what pray tell is the point 😭 imo it's best to let kids have the freedom of self expression and show up to school however they'd like #in an appropriate way ofc. but i digress 😩 this business is just. deeply frustrating + as if the work itself was not overwhelming‚ the #parents have to throw tantrums about it... I'm so tired! 😭#and they insinuate you fuck around + or say you don't give a shit.. ma'am I've worked so much overtime this year + that's not even counting #the relentless shifts I've worked in my nightmares that occur every night. like.. literally the only thing i do is give a shit about your #order!! at the expense of my sleep and wellness lmao! I don't eat lunch and i barely hydrate because I'm constantly working #but it is thog mode.. thog don't care... 😑 it'd be funny if i didnt care either 🥴😐#to sum up a long rant ig i entered the shower feeling very depressed and I've left angry 🤯 but this is normal methinks #anyhow l + ratio + you work at your family's store + you work customer service + u trip over yourself when u talk etc etc etc 😑😑#one day i will blow that store up with every parent ever. it will be so funny 💖😐😩😑#sriracha.txt #negative cw

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sandinthemachine · 2 years

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Oh man i live for mirror sex, them forcing you to watch them as they take you? the best

exactly, and holding your face so you can't look away, making eye contact through the mirror? godDAMN

#i wanna make könig do it to simon #i just wanna write more bottom simon receiving love #and finally letting someone else be in control #and of course because I love dom könig #and he's the perfect one for it #anon replies

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chanrizard · 2 years

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Ohh Happy Wonderful Birthday To You Sa

♥️🤍♥️🤍♥️🤍

i wish you many more years of joy , good health & success cause you truly deserve all the best 🥰🥰 you’re so sweet & so kind 🤍 i’m so happy that i had the chance to meet such a wonderful friend like you ♥️♥️ and i just wanted to thank you for all the beautiful gifs that you make 🥰🥰 i really like all of them they’re absolutely amazing ♥️ may your special day be full of many beautiful memories & all your birthday wishes come true ♥️♥️♥️

noooo this is so sweet i teared up a little thank you so much!! 🥺💖💖💖💖

#im so sorry im answering this a day later i just saw your ask #and this one of the nicest messages i've ever received thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤️❤️#answered

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windblume · 2 years

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seeing the texts my friends get from their boyfriends makes me want to set myself on fire🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

#i dont even fucking care. LMFAO. punches the wall and goes OUCHIE!!#my friend just showed me some texts her bf sent her when she fell asleep on call i literally feel sick to my stomach #i feel nauseous rn and i kind of want to cry. Lol.#and one my other friend’s bf leaves her sweet sticky notes in her locker so often that her locker is just covered with them #and the bottom of her locker is CARPETED with them #reading the words that get sent to them. whatever #i really feel sick im supposed to be doing hw but i feel so. ENVIOUS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#i would like to receive words like that unprompted. sniffle. but i dont even care #its so different to receive words of affection Unprompted compared to asking for it and telling someone u want to hear them say it #theres nothing wrong with communicating your desires of course but :-( idk #i really feel sad. Lol. i dont care

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mochapanda · 8 days

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no mental disorders are "real" tho honestly not in the sense of stop being a snowflake bitch but in the sense of all neurological differences are superficially imposed and constructed by our incredibly individualistic and selfish society and while some mental disorders may still cause difficulty in life regardless of acceptance it should be no different than any one person being different from each other in any way. "this person lives their life this way instead of that way and no one is harmed in the process" is just an incredibly difficult thought for the mainstream to process with the fucking insane amount of stigma and bigotry endorsed by so called psychologists for centuries.

#its like. bad vision is not considered a disability. bc glasses are (for the most part) easily available #and while yea its annoying to have to put on glasses or contacts every day it is not *disabling* to ones life in our social context #this is how it SHOULD be for all 'disabilities' and 'disorders' just common knowledge and understanding and accessible aid #but there always has to be a lesser form of person at the bottom of the chain. so they keep the people 'disabled'#bc thats how they keep the middle class in line. by blaming the 'disabled' for receiving 'handouts'

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bennysblabbering · 1 month

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The amount of times I've seen straight girls write about "top" and "bottom" literally is insane

"He likes to bottom" and then says "because he likes to be ridden" THATS NOT WHAT THAT FUCKING MEANS

#IT MEANS THE ONE GIVING AND RECEIVING PENETRATION #NOT WHO IS LITERALLY ON TOP OR BOTTOM #straight people stop using queer terms challenge impossible #benny blabbers

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