#and how much fulfilling and richer that makes their relationship

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Sorry but It's actually so annoying how much people downplay the crucial role piltover's corrupt council games played in derailing jayce/viktor's work and pretty much putting shackles around their lives. The council is directly responsible for and directly FUNDING so much of the misery that happens in this show, before the story has even started. Before Powder ever finds the gemstone. They single-handedly doom half of the region to death.

Just during the show: Jayce wanted to create magic to aid and uplift the common people, the council wanted trade route instant teleportators to make themselves richer.

Jayce & Viktor wanted to work on technology to help miners and steelworkers and artisans who are trying to survive in the industrial hellscape of piltover and zaun; the council wants it shelved for another 20 years. (yes, heimer is part of the corrupt council - no matter how much his image is laundered by the fandom.)

They are inept and self-serving leaders, elected by themselves and their blood inheritances, utterly obsessed with ultimate profit. You can really see how parasitic their relationship is to the people at the beggining of act 1. Jayce is a token nameless life, so disposable to them that they were going to burn down all of his research and throw out all of his titles, making him not just a lower-house vassal but an EXILE, and the only reason why that doesn't happen is because they realize how much money they can suck out of his work.

This applies to Viktor too. See the way that Heimerdinger tells him over and over again that no other paths can be taken, he has 'fulfilled his purpose' and he should be content to die. See how Mel looks at Viktor like a bug she wants to squash under her palm when he rejects the idea of making weapons for council. See how they speak over him and only address Jayce, as if he's worth less than nothing.

You are only as valuable as the profit you're willing to create. You are a problem that has to be dealt with as soon as you refuse their orders. They have the power to ruin your life, and if they find an excuse, they will. This is a direct threat pointed at Jayce & Viktor during ACT2, when Jayce is pressured into becoming one of them to protect 'the bottom line profit' and, personally speaking, to avoid that ire being redirected towards Viktor. He's pushed into compliance and told a target has been painted on his back.

Arcane jayvik are doomed in big part not for wanting to do harm, but being forced to exist under the beck and call of billionaire leeches. They are both immigrants. They are both struggling to get a degree and keep themselves afloat and they want to help people so goddamn much but they have to keep postponing their dreams to serve uncaring masters. I really wish there was more fan content focused on these very real bonds of understanding and solidarity between them.

When Viktor says 'Jayce will understand' that's not a fluke; he's lived in this environment for years. He knows Jayce is being pushed down the same way that he is and that deep down they've been kept captive by the exact same people. When Jayce agrees that Viktor should do whatever he needs to do to keep himself alive, he means that from the heart.

[ashstfu]

how i keep my screen time under an hour a day —

i have been getting a lot of messages asking how i manage to keep my screen time to just 54 minutes a day. honestly it wasn’t some overnight miracle, it’s been a conscious effort to shift my focus from the digital world to the beauty of real life. i’ve found that the more i immerse myself in the world around me, the less i feel the need to be glued to my evil phone.

no instagram or tiktok

believe it or not, i’ve been off instagram for five years now and i’ve never ever had a tiktok account. i know that sounds crazy but staying far far away from those apps has been one of the best decisions i’ve made. when i realized that the real world is so much more fulfilling than anything on a screen, something just clicked. why spend time scrolling through someone else’s life when i could be out there truly living mine?

prioritize what really matters

i’m a firm believer in prioritizing things that add value to my life. i use my phone for work, to stay in touch with loved ones and yes, for tumblr and interacting with my beautiful mutuals. but beyond that?? i ask myself “does this add to my life or take away from it?” if it’s the latter, it’s not worth my time.

create a morning & evening ritual

starting and ending my day without my phone has been a game changer for me. in the morning, i let natural light wake me up, stretch, have my coffee, workout and ease into the day without the noise of notifications. at night, i wind down with a book, a movie, or just music & my thoughts.

set boundaries

i’m strict with myself about when and where i use my phone. no screens during meals, no scrolling when i’m with friends or family and definitely no phone after midnight.

embrace real life connections

the connections i make in real life are so much richer than any DM or comment sorry. i focus on cultivating these relationships, spending time with people i love & experiencing things together. it’s fulfilling in a way that no app on my phone can replicate.

find joy in the little things

instead of reaching for my phone out of habit, i’ve learned to find joy in the little things. like the sound of the ocean, the smell of coffee or just sitting in silence. it’s amazing how much more present and content i feel when i’m not constantly looking for the next distraction. in the end, it’s about choosing to engage with the world around me and i honestly wouldn’t have it any other way.

[bullet-prooflove]

PSA On: The Dr Robby x Jack Abbot x Reader Throuple

I feel like now is a good time to limit some expectations in regards to the Jack x Robby x Reader throuple.

If you know me and you’ve read my writing, you’ll know that I enjoy exploring complex adult relationships, this includes intimacy, domesticity and dynamics.

This is exactly how I will write the throuple. We’ll see snapshots of their time together, how it works between the three of them, the different issues that arise individually and how they deal with these issues as a throuple.  

What you won’t get:

Continuous bang sessions. There will be some smut but like the rest of my work it will not be the priority.

When I write sex there is usually a deep emotional competent, there’s a reason behind everything in that scene, the positions, the wording, the type of sex that’s being had and that’s usually drawn from the characters and what they need in the moment.

Examples:

Jack needs Faye to be rough with him because of his masochistic streak.

Allegra being a little wild and Robby being more submissive in the bedroom because he deserves someone to take care of him, to make him a priority.

Dennis constantly exploring new things with Lola because he’s sexually inexperienced.

Ivy being more dommy with Frank because she needs control due to the nature of her job as a SEN nurse. Frank likes being taken care of, he likes being a priority to someone so enjoys the focus of her attention.

Jesse and Jana are just complete wildcards, they’re open to playing with others but careful setting boundaries because at the core of it, it’s really about them.

John Shen’s always being soft with Cici and letting her guide their bedroom antics because for a long time she didn’t get to make those choices.

These are all character driven sex scenes. The writing is made much richer because there’s authenticity to them that’s been developed through the non-smutty fics.

I am not a wish fulfilment writer, I don’t write smut for the hell of it. I write it because it tells a story or it adds to it. So if you are expecting threesomes galore I’m sorry you won’t be getting that.

For me it’s about the relationship and bond between the characters and while sex is a part of that, it’s not the entirety of it.

I hope that helps everyone understand what we’ll be seeing from this throuple and it negates any misconceptions that anyone may have about where this journey is going.

[finisnihil]

Minor Luocha and Firefly analysis+Penacony Spoilers read at your behest

If Firefly is a Kallen Expy like I’ve seen some people suggest I hope she and Luocha stay 2747388274383774744747 miles away from each other forever.

Their dynamic in HI3 is certainly something and as somebody who doesn’t play HI3 I’m quite fascinated by Otto’s religious adoration of her where he seems to love her in the sense of somebody worshipping a god or saint probably due to the religious setting he was raised in and her role as his “savior” (I have no idea what I’m talking about I have Vague Understanding and that’s it) but also I like how HSR is treating their characters right now individual of each other.

Seeing Luocha act the way he does feels so much more fulfilling with the current understanding that Kallen isn’t impacting his decisions. He’s kind because he wants to be, because he likes being kind, because he’s a healer and healers make people’s lives easier and better quality and not because he’s upholding somebody else’s ideal. Plus, his relationship with Yaoshi, immortality, and rebirth and being disgusted by it is so much richer in my opinion. When Jingliu says he has a void in his heart that can’t be filled, with how he’s trying so hard to insist he’s normal and human, how he’s got serious parallels to Jesus but he’s turning against his god because he does not want to wear this crown of thorns, he does not have to in order to save those who need saving.

And Firefly, a girl who’s living on borrowed time, who’s losing her body and is desperately trying to cling to any sense of freedom, who seeks the warmth of the Trailblazer’s Stellaron heart because it’s better than the cold clinic she’s alluded to be being stuck in. Fireflies only live for two months and they use that precious time frantically sending out little bursts of light to find company in a responding signal. A shooting star is only there long enough to be wished on for something greater before it’s swallowed by the night again. Isn’t it only natural to ache for more time? To hide from Death in the arms of its brother, Sleep? To remain in this Golden Hour just before the reset of the clock reminds you that you are fading and a hour is just that, a hour, no matter how golden?

In a way, their roles have reversed. Firefly is now the one scared of death and desperately seeking a way to circumvent it even if it means hurting or deceiving while Luocha is doing his best to be a good person while also wrestling with the opposition of people who hate him on the principle of his circumstances.

I don’t think Luocha could ever be Otto. They share the same looks and the same traits yes, but they seem to have gone down completely different paths. Same thing for Firefly and Kallen if they are alternate versions of each other.

And if they ever do meet, I hope it’s a sparse glance, an eye contact, and then they merely pass each other on the street and think nothing more of who the other might’ve been.

[nanowrimo]

A Letter to Writers who are Parents

Can you successfully write while also being a parent? NaNo Participant Desiree S. Brown confidently says yes, you can do both. Desiree offers heartfelt words of inspiration to other author-parents out there. My eyes were heavy with sleep as I plodded over to my son’s crib. I remember holding him in a state of awe, but I was also terrified. I hadn’t written in months—not from lack of trying—and had just emerged from a digital rabbit hole.

Desperate for pointers from seasoned author-parents, I asked Google, “How do authors write while raising kids?”

I expected encouragement, but found Lauren Sandler’s essay The Secret to Being Both a Successful Writer and Mother: Have Just One Kid and Cyril Connolly’s famous quote: “There’s no more somber enemy of good art than the pram in the hall.”

You can write and be a parent.

Many authors opted out of parenthood, believing each birth cost them a book. Doris Lessing, for example, had abandoned her children with their father in favor of her writing career.

It’s heartbreaking, but untrue. Zadie Smith, Toni Morrison, Jodi Picoult, Ursula K. Le Guin, Sarah Manguso and other authors managed to have successful careers while raising children. Manguso wrote in The Grand Shattering:

I used to believe that maximizing the number of hours reading, writing, and thinking about writing would make me the best writer I could be, and that my friend who had chosen to have three children just didn’t value being a writer as much as I did. Then I had a child and found that the amount of time I spend writing isn’t the only thing that makes me a better writer. I also grow by weathering trauma, practicing patience, being seasoned by love.

Parenting will help you grow as a writer.

Many author-parents noted an enrichment in their writing. In his essay, The Pram in the Hall, Shane Jones wrote, “I’ve discovered many writer-fathers who not only continued to produce work, but produced work that is richer and more interesting because of their fatherhood.”

New life moments create powerful experiences and what is storytelling, poetry, or essays but the exploration of those experiences? Parenting shaped me and my writing in a way that childlessness couldn't. I’ve learned to be more empathetic and honest with my time management (why didn’t I write during my son’s two hour nap?).

Jodi Picoult learned to be “hyper-aware of relationships between people,” Jane Smiley’s kids exposed her to new ideas by forcing her into the world, and Maggie O’Farrel learned “to concentrate with the intensity of a telekinetic.”

You’re not neglectful for prioritizing writing or parenting.

There’s a constant tug of war within writer-parents, not to mention the crushing weight of social expectations: writers need silence at all times and parents prioritize their kids.

But that's an unrealistic standard that will ruin any parent’s mental health, resulting in a loss of self, depression, and frustration. O’Farrel writes:

Don’t feel guilty about taking time to write. Guilt is no use to you here. Throw yourself headlong into whatever is in front of you, whether it’s writing or doling out small bowls of pasta or making potato prints. It’s good for your children to have a fulfilled parent, not a frustrated one. A child witnessing their parent working and being gratified by that work is an excellent lesson for them.

So, what’s the answer to the big question? How do authors write while raising kids?

They do it like anyone else: stealing time between diaper changes and naps; juggling housework, parent-work, and writer-work as best as they can; and realizing that they have the potential to create a fulfilling writing career like anyone else.

That’s the answer I will carry with me into Camp NaNo, the next project, and beyond.

Desiree S. Brown is an author that lives in the sunny state of California with her husband and son. She publishes her work on her website, desireesbrown.com, while also sharing her passion for reading and writing. Photo by SHVETS production from Pexels

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Palmistry Myths vs. Reality: Understanding the Truth Behind Palm Reading

Palmistry, the fascinating art of palm reading, has intrigued people for centuries. Many seek its guidance, hoping to uncover hidden truths about themselves, their future, and their relationships. However, along with its rich history and potential insights, palmistry is also surrounded by numerous myths and misconceptions. In this blog, we’ll dive deep into some of the most common myths versus the realities of palm reading, revealing how this ancient practice can bring clarity and understanding to your life.

What Is Palmistry?

Before we unravel the myths, let's take a moment to understand what palmistry really is. At its core, palmistry is the study of the lines, shapes, and mounts of the hands. Each person’s palm is unique, reflecting their personality, potential, and life experiences. Through careful observation, a skilled palm reader can gain insights into a person's character, challenges, and opportunities.

The Roots of Palmistry

Palmistry has its origins in ancient civilizations, including India, China, and Greece. It’s intertwined with various cultural practices, including Vedic astrology. In Vedic traditions, palm reading is often seen as a companion to astrology, providing additional layers of understanding about one’s life path. This rich history adds depth to the practice, showing that palmistry is not just a fleeting trend but a time-honored approach to self-discovery.

Myth 1: Palm Reading Is Just Fortune-Telling

One of the biggest misconceptions about palmistry is that it’s solely about predicting the future. While it’s true that some palm readers may focus on forecasting events, the reality is much broader and richer. Palmistry is more about self-discovery and personal insight than about seeing into a crystal ball.

Reality: It’s About Self-Discovery

When you engage in palm reading, you’re not just looking for predictions; you’re exploring the depths of your personality and life experiences. Your palms can reveal patterns in your behavior, your strengths, and your potential areas for growth. By understanding these aspects, you can make more informed choices, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling life.

How Palm Reading Can Empower You

Many people seek palm reading during times of transition—perhaps after a major life change or when feeling lost. The insights gained from palmistry can offer a fresh perspective, helping you understand why you react to certain situations in specific ways. This self-awareness can lead to empowerment, allowing you to navigate life’s challenges with greater confidence.

Myth 2: Palm Reading Is Superstitious Nonsense

Some skeptics dismiss palmistry as mere superstition, believing it to be devoid of any real value or scientific basis. They view it as a form of entertainment rather than a genuine tool for understanding oneself.

Reality: A Skill Developed Over Centuries

While palmistry may not be scientifically proven in the same way as some fields, it is built on centuries of observation and practice. Experienced palmists study the intricacies of hand shapes, finger lengths, and the various lines that form on the palm. This knowledge provides valuable insights that can be both practical and meaningful.

The Intersection of Palmistry and Vedic Astrology

As mentioned earlier, palmistry is closely linked to Vedic astrology. In this tradition, your palm can provide insights that complement your astrological chart. For instance, a strong Mount of Jupiter on your palm may reflect the leadership qualities indicated by Jupiter in your birth chart. By combining these two practices, you gain a more holistic understanding of your personality and life path.

Myth 3: Only Certain People Can Read Palms

Many believe that palm reading is an exclusive skill reserved for a select few, often mystics or fortune-tellers. This perception can discourage individuals from exploring palmistry for themselves.

Reality: Anyone Can Learn Palmistry

The beautiful truth about palmistry is that anyone can learn to read palms with practice and patience. There are numerous resources available, from books to online courses, that can guide you through the basics. With an open mind and a willingness to learn, you can start interpreting the signs in your own palm or those of your loved ones.

Finding Your Style

As you delve into palm reading, you’ll likely find your unique approach to interpreting palms. Some people focus on the lines, while others pay attention to the mounts and shapes of the hands. Embrace your style and let your intuition guide you. This personal touch will make the experience even more rewarding.

Myth 4: Palm Reading Is Only for Women

Another common myth is that palmistry is primarily a women’s domain. While many women are drawn to the art of palm reading, this practice is for everyone, regardless of gender.

Reality: A Universal Tool for Insight

Palmistry is a universal practice that transcends gender. People of all backgrounds can benefit from understanding the insights offered by their palms. In fact, many men find palmistry to be a valuable tool for self-reflection and personal growth.

The Benefits for Everyone

Whether you’re seeking clarity in your career, relationships, or personal goals, palm reading can offer valuable insights. The practice encourages self-exploration and introspection, making it a beneficial tool for anyone looking to deepen their understanding of themselves.

Myth 5: Palm Reading Is Only for the Curious

Some view palmistry as a trivial pursuit, something to do for fun but not to be taken seriously. This misconception overlooks the profound value that palm reading can bring to your life.

Reality: A Serious Path to Personal Growth

Palm reading can be a powerful means of personal growth and transformation. When approached with sincerity, it encourages self-examination and can illuminate patterns that you may not have been aware of. By understanding your strengths and weaknesses, you can set more meaningful goals and make positive changes in your life.

Using Palmistry as a Tool for Reflection

Consider taking time to reflect on what your palm reveals about you. What do the lines say about your emotional experiences? How do the mounts indicate your natural inclinations? This reflective process can lead to profound insights and a greater sense of purpose.

The Emotional Connection: Why You Should Explore Palmistry

Now that we’ve debunked some common myths, you might wonder why you should consider exploring palmistry yourself. The answer lies in the emotional connection it can foster.

Discovering Your Inner Self

Palmistry encourages you to look within, offering a unique opportunity for self-discovery. By engaging with the insights your palm provides, you can confront aspects of yourself that may need attention or nurturing. This journey inward can be both healing and enlightening.

Building a Positive Mindset

Understanding the strengths represented in your palm can help you cultivate a more positive mindset. For example, if you find that your Mount of Venus is well-developed, you can embrace your natural ability to connect with others and express love. Recognizing these positive traits can boost your self-esteem and encourage you to pursue relationships and opportunities that resonate with your authentic self.

Finding Guidance in Times of Uncertainty

Life is full of uncertainties, and palmistry can serve as a comforting guide. When you’re faced with difficult decisions or feeling lost, looking at your palm can provide clarity. It’s like having a conversation with yourself, helping you navigate your path with confidence.

Embrace the Wisdom in Your Hands

In conclusion, palmistry is a fascinating practice that offers much more than meets the eye. By debunking common myths and embracing the reality of palm reading, you can unlock valuable insights into your personality, strengths, and life path.

Whether you’re seeking clarity, understanding, or personal growth, palmistry can be a powerful tool in your journey. Remember, your hands hold the stories of your life; all you need to do is take the time to listen. Embrace the wisdom in your palms and allow it to guide you toward a brighter, more fulfilling future. After all, palm reading is not just about predicting what will happen next; it’s about discovering who you are and empowering yourself to create the life you desire. So why not explore this ancient art? Your palms are waiting to share their secrets with you.

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6 Sweet Caleb Details Lost in Translation from 'Borrowed Promise'

In this article:

The Title Translation: 'To Promise in Advance'The Significance of MC's Advance Requests Cultural Importance of Sibling TitlesImplications in Their Relationship Dynamics Cultural Nuances: The Mushroom Metaphor Application in Caleb and MC's Interaction Character Dynamics: Sly vs. MeanMC's Perception of His Actions Caleb's Protective Nature: Holding Bags and HandsHand-Holding as a Gesture of Care Subtle Expressions: 'Heartache' and 'Proposal'Implied Commitment in 'Proposal' Gestures

The Title Translation: 'To Promise in Advance'

In the original Chinese version, "Borrowed Promise" is titled "预支约定" (yù zhī yuē dìng), which translates to "To Promise in Advance". This title carries a deeper meaning, emphasizing how the MC initiates promises with Caleb, asking him to protect her and make her happy. The use of "预支" (advance) highlights the proactive nature of their relationship, where the MC often makes requests that Caleb wholeheartedly embraces. This advance promise symbolizes the foundation of their bond, showcasing the MC's trust in Caleb and his commitment to fulfilling her wishes. It reflects a pattern where she is the one who initiates important moments, and he responds with unwavering dedication. The title encapsulates this dynamic, offering readers a glimpse into the depth of their shared history. Such nuances are often lost in translation, where the English title may not fully convey the emotional resonance of the original. Understanding the literal meaning provides a richer appreciation of their relationship, revealing how significant these early promises are in shaping their connection.

The Significance of MC's Advance Requests Throughout their story, the MC's habit of making advance requests to Caleb highlights her reliance on him and his role as her protector. By asking him to always take care of her, she demonstrates a deep level of trust and affection. Caleb, in turn, takes these promises to heart, embodying the role of the steadfast guardian who is always there for her. This dynamic reinforces their unique relationship, where the MC's proactive nature meets Caleb's unwavering support. The promises made in their youth continue to influence their interactions, illustrating how past commitments shape present relationships. It's a testament to the enduring nature of their bond. By understanding the cultural and linguistic context of the original title, readers can gain deeper insights into their characters. The emphasis on advance promises sheds light on the themes of trust, commitment, and the importance of shared history in strengthening relationships.

Cultural Importance of Sibling Titles

In Chinese culture, the terms "Gege" (哥哥) and "Meimei" (妹妹) mean older brother and younger sister, respectively. These titles are more than mere familial labels; they carry a sense of affection, respect, and responsibility. Repeating the words, such as "Gege" instead of "Ge", adds a layer of endearment, much like using "big bro" instead of "bro". - 'Gege' (哥哥) denotes 'older brother' and conveys respect. - 'Meimei' (妹妹) means 'younger sister' and reflects endearment. - Repeating the terms adds affection and cuteness. - These titles embody familial roles and responsibilities. The use of these terms emphasizes the familial bond and the cultural expectations associated with sibling relationships. In Confucian contexts, older siblings are expected to care for and guide their younger siblings. This dynamic adds depth to Caleb and the MC's relationship, highlighting his role as a protector and her position as the youngest, or "baby of the family". By integrating these terms into their interactions, the narrative captures the nuances of their bond that may not fully translate into English. The sense of closeness and familiarity inherent in "Gege" and "Meimei" adds layers of meaning to their conversations and experiences.

Implications in Their Relationship Dynamics Caleb's role as "Gege" implies a deep sense of responsibility towards the MC. He is expected to protect her, support her, and even sacrifice for her well-being. This cultural expectation influences his actions, making him attentive and considerate. The MC, as "Meimei", often looks up to him and relies on his guidance. This dynamic can also lead to moments of conflict and affectionate teasing. Caleb feels that he is the only one permitted to chastise or tease his younger sister, reinforcing his protective instincts. Similarly, the MC believes she holds a special place in being able to playfully challenge him. Understanding the use of "Gege" and "Meimei" enriches the storyline, as it highlights the cultural context and the emotional layers of their relationship. It showcases how deeply rooted traditions and familial roles impact personal connections.

Cultural Nuances: The Mushroom Metaphor

In Chinese culture, the metaphor of mushrooms growing on someone's head originates from the saying "朽木不可��" (xiǔ mù bù kě diāo), meaning "rotten wood cannot be carved". This proverb suggests that someone with a negative or stagnant mindset cannot improve or be reformed. Since mushrooms grow on decaying wood, the image of mushrooms sprouting symbolizes stagnation and lack of growth. This metaphor is deeply rooted in cultural expressions, conveying a sense of concern for someone's well-being. It serves as a playful yet meaningful way to encourage others to overcome difficulties and adopt a more positive outlook. - The saying "朽木不可雕" translates to "rotten wood cannot be carved". - Mushrooms grow on decaying wood, symbolizing stagnation. - The metaphor implies a need to overcome negativity. Understanding this cultural reference enhances the appreciation of subtle interactions within the narrative, revealing layers of meaning that may be overlooked without knowledge of the cultural context.

Application in Caleb and MC's Interaction

When Caleb mentions that mushrooms might be growing out of MC's head, he is using this metaphor to playfully highlight her gloomy demeanor. He suggests that by wallowing in sadness, she is allowing herself to become like rotten wood, upon which mushrooms could sprout. This teasing remark serves to gently encourage her to move past her melancholy. It reflects Caleb's affectionate concern and his desire to see her return to her usual vibrant self. The metaphor adds a layer of cultural depth to their interaction. By incorporating this cultural nuance, the narrative showcases how deep-rooted sayings and metaphors can strengthen character relationships, providing readers with a richer understanding of their bond.

Character Dynamics: Sly vs. Mean

In the narrative, Caleb is portrayed as being sly rather than mean. He often devises clever ways to motivate the MC, such as proposing to delete embarrassing photos in exchange for her doing chores. This showcases his intelligence and playful nature, using gentle manipulation to achieve desired outcomes. His actions are rooted in caring for the MC and helping her develop responsibility. By turning mundane tasks into a game or challenge, he makes everyday activities more engaging. This approach reflects his role as a guiding older brother who looks out for her growth. Caleb's slyness adds depth to his character, revealing a balance between humor and affection. It demonstrates how he can influence situations without being overbearing, maintaining a harmonious relationship.

MC's Perception of His Actions The MC recognizes Caleb's tactics as sly and even admires his cleverness. Rather than viewing him as mean, she understands that his actions stem from a place of care and affection. This acknowledgement strengthens their bond and highlights the mutual understanding they share. By perceiving him as sly, the MC is able to engage in playful banter, creating a dynamic where both characters can express themselves openly. This interaction underscores the trust and comfort present in their relationship. Their exchanges exemplify how small actions and perceptions can significantly impact the depth of character relationships, adding layers of complexity and realism to the narrative.

Caleb's Protective Nature: Holding Bags and Hands

Caleb often carries heavy bags on outings, insisting on handling the physical burdens to protect the MC from discomfort. This action symbolizes his desire to bear the weight of challenges on her behalf, reflecting his selflessness and commitment to her well-being. His refusal to let her help demonstrates a traditional sense of chivalry and a deep-seated need to shield her from hardships. It highlights his role as a reliable companion who is always ready to support her. This aspect of their interaction underscores themes of protection and devotion, emphasizing how everyday actions can convey profound emotions and strengthen their bond.

Hand-Holding as a Gesture of Care Caleb's desire to hold the MC's hand, even while laden with bags, signifies his need to maintain a physical connection and ensure her safety in crowded spaces. Hand-holding becomes a meaningful gesture that conveys affection and a constant readiness to guide and protect. For the MC, this act provides a sense of security and reaffirms Caleb's presence in her life. It illustrates how simple actions can have significant emotional impact, nurturing their relationship. Together, the imagery of Caleb carrying burdens and holding hands encapsulates the depth of his protective nature, painting a picture of a relationship built on care and mutual reliance.

Subtle Expressions: 'Heartache' and 'Proposal'

In the Chinese context, the term "心疼" (xīn téng), or "heartache", denotes a deep level of care and concern for someone. When Caleb remarks on the MC's newfound concern for him, he's acknowledging her affection and the emotional significance of her worry. This expression conveys more than mere sympathy; it implies a profound emotional connection where one's heart aches for the other's hardships. It highlights the intimacy and depth of their relationship. Understanding this term enriches the narrative, allowing readers to appreciate the subtle ways in which the characters express their feelings and the growth of their emotional bond. Implied Commitment in 'Proposal' Gestures Caleb's actions, such as kneeling to hook pinkies and making promises, carry connotations similar to a proposal. These gestures symbolize a deep commitment and a promise of enduring support and affection. Such moments blur the lines between familial duty and romantic implication, adding complexity to their relationship. The subtlety of these expressions allows for a rich exploration of their feelings without overt declarations. By recognizing these nuances, readers can delve deeper into the characters' inner worlds, understanding the unspoken promises and the strength of their connection. If you want to read more about Love and Deepspace, you can click here. Read the full article

[theblindmachine]

Listen: https://open.spotify.com/episode/77CQUOCUOroWneZ6cuhglu # The Four Dimensions of Wealth That Matter Most In a world increasingly obsessed with financial metrics and material possessions, it’s refreshing to have a voice like Sahil Bloom reminding us that true wealth extends far beyond our bank accounts. In his new book, 'The 5 Types of Wealth,' Bloom unveils a profound understanding of what it means to be truly wealthy in today’s complex society—not just in dollars and cents but in the very fabric of our lives. **Time Wealth: The Freedom to Control Your Schedule** Imagine waking up each day without the haunting pressure of a relentless alarm, completely in control of how you spend your hours. Time wealth isn't merely a luxury; it's the foundation of a fulfilling life. The freedom to make choices about how you allocate your time ultimately leads to increased happiness, reduced stress, and a deeper connection to what truly matters: ourselves and our loved ones. **Social Wealth: Cultivating Deep Relationships** Let’s face it: As we age, making new friends can feel like an uphill battle. Yet, Bloom challenges us to rethink the narrative. Social wealth is built on nurturing deep, meaningful relationships with family and friends. It requires effort, vulnerability, and sincerity. In a society that often prioritizes superficial connections, we must earnestly engage with each other—our emotional and social well-being hinges on it. **Mental Wealth: Clarity in Life's Questions** In the chaos of modern life, finding mental clarity is a treasure many of us struggle to attain. Mental wealth is the mental space that allows us to ponder the most critical questions of existence. What gives your life purpose? What values do you cherish? Bloom emphasizes the significance of creating habits and environments that foster this clarity. It’s not about avoiding the noise; it’s about having the mental tools to sift through it. **Physical Wealth: Health is Your Greatest Asset** Wealth isn’t worth much if you’re too sick to enjoy it. Physical wealth embodies health and vitality, reinforcing the notion that taking care of our bodies is pivotal to our overall well-being. Bloom’s insights remind us that investing in our physical health isn’t a luxury but a necessity—we owe it to ourselves and those who depend on us. As Derek Thompson aptly notes, Bloom’s wisdom is not just theoretical; it serves as actionable advice that we can integrate into our daily lives. When we strive to cultivate time wealth, social wealth, mental wealth, and physical wealth, we don’t just seek a richer life; we seek a life enriched with purpose, connection, and vitality. In an age when the notion of wealth is often tied to financial gains, Sahil Bloom’s 'The 5 Types of Wealth' gently nudges us toward a more holistic understanding of what it truly means to live abundantly. Let’s embrace this multi-dimensional perspective of wealth and allow it to reshape our lives for the better. If you have questions, observations, or ideas for future episodes about wealth—of every kind—reach out to us at PlainEnglish@Spotify.com. Let’s redefine what it means to be wealthy together.

[motivation-gyan]

Happy Valentine's Day: Celebrating Love and Connection

Valentine's Day is a beautiful reminder of the importance of love and relationships in our lives. It's a time to reflect on the bonds we share with our partners, family, and friends. Whether you're in a romantic relationship, have deep friendships, or celebrate the love for yourself, this day is all about the connection that makes life richer and more meaningful.

Here are some inspiring love quotes and relationship quotes that perfectly capture the essence of this special day:

Love Quotes: The Heart of Valentine's Day

"Where there is love, there is life." — Mahatma Gandhi Love brings vibrancy to life, turning ordinary moments into extraordinary memories. It’s the force that gives us the strength to face challenges and celebrate joys together.

"In all the world, there is no heart for me like yours. In all the world, there is no love for you like mine." — Maya Angelou True love is one-of-a-kind. It’s the bond that stands the test of time, and there's no one like the one you love.

"Love is not about how many days, months, or years you have been together. Love is about how much you love each other every single day." — Unknown It’s the everyday moments, the little gestures of care and attention that truly define love. Every day is an opportunity to express it.

"The best thing to hold onto in life is each other." — Audrey Hepburn Through all the ups and downs, love gives us something stable to lean on. Together, we can overcome anything.

Relationship Quotes: The Beauty of Partnership

"A successful relationship Quotes requires falling in love multiple times, but always with the same person." — Mignon McLaughlin Love isn’t just a feeling; it’s a choice we make over and over again, choosing the same person with a renewed sense of passion and commitment.

"True love is not about perfection; it’s about accepting each other’s flaws and growing together." — Unknown A strong relationship is built on mutual understanding, growth, and acceptance of each other's imperfections.

"The best relationships are the ones you never saw coming." — Unknown Sometimes, the best relationships are the ones that come unexpectedly, and they bring the most joy and fulfillment.

"In the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make." — The Beatles Love is a two-way street. The more love you give, the more you receive. It’s a cycle that only grows stronger with time.

Self-Love Quotes: Embracing Who You Are

"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection." — Buddha Before you can truly love someone else, it’s important to love and care for yourself first. Self-love is the foundation of all other love.

"To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance." — Oscar Wilde Self-love is an ongoing journey. Embrace who you are, flaws and all, and watch how it transforms your relationships with others.

"The most powerful relationship you will ever have is the one with yourself." — Steve Maraboli Your relationship with yourself is the key to your happiness and success. Treat yourself with kindness and compassion.

As we celebrate Happy Valentine’s Day, let’s not only cherish the romantic relationships but also the bonds we share with family, friends, and ourselves. Let’s remember that love is the force that unites us all. Happy Valentine's Day!

[tomthomasblog]

The Power of Joy: Reflection and Connection

Joy is often seen as a fleeting emotion, something that comes and goes like the changing seasons. But what if we took time to reflect on joy and truly understand its impact on our lives? Examining joy can lead to deeper insights and a more fulfilling existence. By letting go of the things that hold us back and embracing the happiness around us, we can create richer experiences and foster stronger relationships. This article explores how reflecting on joy not only enriches our own lives but also spreads happiness to those around us.

To start with, reflecting on joy encourages us to take a close look at our lives. It asks us to consider what makes us genuinely happy. Are we too often caught up in our daily struggles, or do we forget to celebrate the little victories? Taking time for this reflection helps us identify what truly matters. It is crucial to let go of any grudges we may hold against others. Hang-ups from the past can weigh us down, blocking the path to joy. Similarly, comparing ourselves to others can rob us of happiness. Social media often paints a perfect picture of life that isn’t real, leading us to feel inadequate. By learning to appreciate our unique journeys, we create mental space for joy to flourish.

Making space for joy can transform our lives. When we remove negativity and focus on what brings us happiness, we open ourselves up to richer experiences. Whether it’s spending time with family, engaging in hobbies we love, or simply appreciating nature, these moments pave the way for deeper relationships. Building strong bonds with others becomes easier when we are grounded in joy. Happiness creates an environment of warmth, trust, and love, allowing us to connect authentically with those around us.

Joy is not just an individual experience; it is also contagious. When we share our joy with others, we invite them to feel happy too. A simple smile, a kind word, or an encouraging gesture can ignite happiness in someone else. This sharing creates a ripple effect that can spread through our communities. Imagine a world where positivity becomes the norm rather than negativity. If more people focused on uplifting one another, we would find ourselves surrounded by an atmosphere of support and joy. In the face of so much societal negativity, choosing to spread happiness can be an act of rebellion, creating an uplifting community instead.

In conclusion, reflecting on joy can lead to profound changes in our lives and the lives of those around us. By letting go of grudges and comparisons, we can create space for more joy in our hearts and stronger relationships in our lives. Sharing this joy not only benefits us but also fosters a supportive community that challenges negativity. So, I encourage you to take a minute each day to reflect: What brings you joy? How can you share that joy with others? Together, let’s make a conscious effort to spread happiness and create a ripple effect of positivity in our world.

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The Scripture Collection Playlist A compilation of 20 uplifting music videos inspired by a different Bible scripture. https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoBTz-QtgDhox4diwLqHBjD4W-CtzM-8v

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I wrote the song "Joy is a Melody" based on "Finding True Happiness in Our Lives"

classic rock, pop https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DYaeYTUAhMU cloud rap symphonic metal https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zYx949MQS6s ambient dub techno https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bkeffZKPrKg

[heirloom-project]

What Are the Benefits of Creating a Recipe Book for Your Family?

Preserving family traditions feels deeply fulfilling and nostalgic. Among many ways to celebrate ties, a personal recipe book shines as unique and heartfelt. Compiling family recipes into a custom cookbook safeguards culinary treasures and connects generations beautifully. Let’s explore why creating a recipe book matters and how it fosters love, culture, and togetherness.

A Treasure Trove of Memories

Family recipes hold vibrant, unforgettable memories. Grandma’s legendary apple pie and Dad’s smoky barbecue sauce linger forever. These dishes tell emotional, heartwarming stories tied to love and family moments. Without documentation, such cherished recipes risk being lost forever.

A personal recipe book becomes an enduring, delightful keepsake. It’s much more than cooking instructions; it’s love wrapped in tradition. A custom cookbook captures heritage, joy, and identity in its essence.

The Importance of a Personal Recipe Book

Preserving Family Heritage

Food connects deeply with culture and tradition. Every recipe unveils fascinating stories of the past. Creating a personal recipe book archives treasured pieces of history beautifully.

A handwritten recipe for great-grandmother’s bread pudding brims with charm. Stories of Christmas gatherings make it even richer. A custom cookbook acts as a captivating time capsule for generations.

Strengthening Family Bonds

Cooking strengthens relationships in magical ways. Crafting a custom cookbook becomes a joyful, collaborative family effort. Grandparents share wisdom, and kids add delightful creativity.

Imagine recounting heartfelt memories while perfecting timeless recipes. These shared, precious moments bond families beautifully, creating unforgettable memories.

Encouraging Healthier Eating Habits

A personal recipe book allows control over ingredients and methods. It emphasizes healthier options while honoring rich, traditional flavors. Including substitutions and tips ensures mindful, healthy eating.

Replace refined sugar with natural sweeteners. Swap processed flour with wholesome grains. A custom cookbook ensures balanced lifestyles without losing taste.

Saving Time and Money

A well-organized personal recipe book simplifies meal planning efficiently. With recipes at your fingertips, cooking feels effortless and exciting. Decisions become quicker and stress-free.

Curated recipes help reduce grocery trips and food waste. A cookbook with seasonal tips ensures cost-effective, delightful meals every day.

Passing Down Life Skills

Cooking is a vital, lifelong skill. A custom cookbook becomes an inspiring, educational tool. It builds kitchen confidence in younger generations skillfully.

Recreating family recipes instills gratitude for traditions. It imparts valuable, practical knowledge essential for everyone.

Making Your Custom Cookbook Special

Creating a personal recipe book feels rewarding and special. Follow these simple, thoughtful tips:

Gather Recipes from Every Generation

Include recipes from all family members. This ensures vibrant, exciting variety from classics to modern favorites.

Add Personal Touches

Use photographs, handwritten notes, or anecdotes. These elements turn a cookbook into a heartwarming family memoir.

Organize Thoughtfully

Arrange recipes by appetizers, desserts, or seasons. Structure it chronologically to reflect culinary evolution.

Include a Dedication Page

Write a heartfelt, touching message. Dedicate it to loved ones or future generations, adding immense emotional value.

Choose a Durable Format

Print on high-quality, elegant paper. Opt for a sturdy binding or create a digital version for easy sharing.

Conclusion: An Heirloom That Lasts Forever

A personal recipe book goes beyond cooking. It celebrates family, love, and tradition joyously. A custom cookbook preserves culinary heritage beautifully, making it thrive for generations.

In today’s fast-paced world, cooking together remains meaningful. A recipe book bridges past, present, and future. Start your family’s treasured recipe collection today. Create a legacy as rich as the dishes it holds.

[bullet-prooflove]

Yeah! I love seeing reoccurring themes and vibes throughout your writing! Like just the way you acknowledge characters trauma (Pope Cody, some of the sniper guys (😭 i forgot I'm genuinely terrible with names)) and then write how their partners support them and give them room to heal, rather than just being the magical kiss that immediately heals everything.

I've noticed as I've grown older, and officially hitting my 30s last year, that I'm no longer reading as many fandoms/pairings where the main characters are young. And reading your other fics for fandoms is making me go, 👀 maybe I should check out that show.

For me I feel like there’s two types of writers when it comes to fanfic:

Wish Fulfilment Writers

Character Writers

There is a very clear difference between the two and one is not better than the other they are just different, it’s about the needs of the writer and the reader.

With Wish Writers the kind of fics you are getting is geared towards their desires, it’s a fantasy and that’s fine. The world is a shitty mess of a place and I would never begrudge that need for that escapism.

With Character Writers they look at the character and their experiences and build on them so you get a much deeper, richer emotion because you’re building something people can identify with on a core level. The scenes are unique and tailored towards the characters. An example of this would probs be my work with Jack Abbot, the scenes with Faye and his leg.

For me I don’t read stuff by Wish Writers because it’s not a true interpretation of the character, it’s a fantasy with that character put into that place. It always seems to be a little generic, like when you’re watching a Hallmark Film/porn – and they hit the same dialogue/actions. It doesn’t interest me because it doesn’t make me feel anything or it’s something I’ve seen before but I get why people need that familiarity and just because it doesn’t suit me doesn’t mean someone else doesn’t need it.

I think writing trauma and the effects it has on a person is integral to character development, it’s what guides their decisions. When I coach creative writing students one of the biggest things we touch on is cause and effect.

E.g.

CAUSE: Pope was taken into care as a kid and had no idea if anyone was coming for him.

EFFECT: This leads him to have a break down in adulthood in social services when it happens to Lena because it’s reflective of his own experiences and he doesn’t want her to go through the same things he did.

I think it’s important to show trauma, the effects and the healing because it can help readers work through their own shit. I’ve had people pop into my DMS after reading some of my work and be like this really helped me see I wasn’t alone in feeling this way, it gave me hope in my own situation. < That kind of thing means the world to me because I’ve been that person stranded in the middle of the dark ocean without the hope.

When you are younger sometimes you feel like being in a relationship with cure whatever shit you’ve got going on and the truth is, it doesn’t. I used to see that in particular with the care kids because they just wanted to feel loved because they weren’t getting that from the people they were supposed to.  That’s why I don’t subscribe to the magic kiss thing, a relationship does not cure the damage, you’re the only person who can do that and you need to be self-aware enough to stare it in the face and go ok so, how do we begin to process/deal with you.

I get you completely on the main characters being young thing because I am the same way. I occasionally get requests to write for certain characters and I’m like I literally can’t because it gives the ick especially if the actor is significantly younger than me.

I had a thing a while back where someone has asked me to write Santos from the Pitt and I was like dude I can’t the actress (26) is over a decade younger than me and someone else pointed Whitaker and I was like the actor (34)  is closer to my age so it doesn’t give me that disparity. I don’t feel like a pervert writing him. I had the same with Mateo, he’s a great character but the actor is 23 and I just can't.

I think as a reader there gets a point when you leave the drama of your 20s behind. Like in your 30s+ the shit that bothered you at that age doesn’t bother you now because you’ve grown from it. So reading about it isn’t doing to have the same effect because you’re kind of over it.

Sorry for the long one reply! Which other shows are you thinking about checking out?

[nyxe1]

Meaning of life — Part II (Finding and Fulfilling dreams)

Note: These are authors own ideas

Note: The original is on authors webpage.

So, in the last article, we depicted, for teenagers, the questions that surround them is,

Who we are,

What we want

What life has to offer to us,

The story does not remain the same, people have to answer these questions, the very fact of choosing subjects at school, to any other hobby a person wants to obtain, and at the same time this is not the same for all,

As a teenagers starts to grow in the teen years, there is mounting pressure on him/her. Pressures to compete with peers, pressure to gain the marks required, pressure for comparisons with others by parents/siblings/friends, pressure to achieve what some famous person (celebrity idol, role model) which he/she follows or what to be a follower.

Teenagers who often get jolted down with a sense of loss form a relationship, performance in some activity, marks in school, often teenagers land up in smoking, drinking, and other wrong behaviors.

One must note smoking, drinking, at this delicate age is not a jargon, but it should had been cured well, there are ways of this which I shall write here later.

Teenagers should have a healthy mind and a healthy body. As this is the delicate age that would determine the realization of first of your young age dreams. Yes, this is the age where some of the first choices about life are made, choices of younger years, when the some of the first decisions are made. The innocent desires, or the innocent dreams as I call them, the right choices are made, and often these goals are burnt in the smoke of smoking, which should not happen for sure. Well if done in a controlled way then too …, vapes were introduced, these cant be taken back all of a sudden, understand it as a science, one cant deprive it all of a sudden. But the question is why, when they are all young and healthy, where are these smokes sending happy aspirations and struggles of lives from youngsters? For those who are healthy, life has so much to offer, why you wander, why ? Seek thy, seek …

So, the question of

“Who we are”, got lost in troubles, to many, to others who comes out of teenage happy, you are lucky ones, thanks to your family, classmates, friends and siblings, others handle life tougher, as you went through the hardships of life, you are more tougher, even though less richer, no comparison please, accept each others as what you all are, if you went through hardships to come out of teenage, then others too slopped day and night to clear the engineering exams.

“What we want” what remains is a nice girlfriend/boyfriend, nice marks in studies, something to spend time on (but addictions are off the table now). So what we want in teenage, more than this, some like to gaze at stars and moon for sure. More on it sooner.

And

“What life has to offer to us” what remains here, is blank space, and why to surmount them with tensions of an adult life, so how does it matter, as the teenagers grows in age, they in future would like to take up night shifts in a call center or some like to work in part time to know both life, profession and explore oneself, and then the youngsters starts to explore himself/herself as an individual to perform more or to earn more in same limited time. So they wait to understand what life has to offer us, and what we have to offer to life. P.S. there is a working age in each country, see the working age of youngsters in your country to apply for labor laws.

So no one rule for all, but it all boils down to finding and fulfilling dreams, dreams that make their sprits live, makes them feel good, not just …

Then an individual enters adulthood, ..

To be continued, ..

[nemesyaaa]

i'm unwell. screaming, crying, throwing up at the moment because of the chapter. especially when i'm reading this with cigarettes After sex on the head. your writings leave me with no words, this is so fucking gorgeous, a tragic wonderful love the story with the fluff and the pain. the relationship between them is so beautiful, rafe's feeling are so strong. enamored with the story because helloo ??? i keep saying it everytime but i'm so in love with the moodboard. the fucking last line being the title. oh you did not, i'm broken 😵‍💫‼️

“everything means absolutely nothing if i don’t have you by my side.” you swore you could’ve died right there. — I'VE GOT STANDARDS. AND FUCKING GREAT STANDARDS. 😙

everything that you two have been through— all the tears, all the scrutiny and pain, trials and tribulations, all the laughs, the sweet moments, the whispering of words in the dark, all of it was meant to lead up to this very moment. — « when you know, you know. » i'm gonna kms and you better cherish my grave. 🥹🥹🥹

“marry me,” he repeated, “you fulfilled wedding vows since the very beginning. ‘for better, for worse.’ you and me made decisions, we let go of things despite how painful it was, we did it for each other,” rafe swallowed thickly. ‘for richer, for poorer.’ you never cared about how much money i had, you welcomed me into your camper and we made the best of it,” he rose his eyebrows suggestively, making a giggle fall from your lips at the memories of you two getting tangled in your bed. — i'm losing m'y mind and i will never find it back....at this point...✨✨✨

“you didn’t give up on me when you had every reason to. ‘in sickness and in health.’ you stuck by me when i was at the height of my addiction, and i could never thank you enough for never losing faith in me. i yelled at you, i talked to you harshly— fuck, i hate myself for that. i was in the worst shape i had ever been in, and you still looked at me as if i hung the stars up for you. you loved me at my worst, and brought me back up to be my best.” — I kinda fell apart. i'm sick to my stomach in the most lovely way possible

rafe laid you down and worshipped your body as if it was your first time together all over’s again. not a single inch of your body went untouched, the man above you whispering praises again your skin. you two laughed, cried, kissed, and hugged all while he rocked inside of you, his fingers intertwined with yours as he continuously placed kisses to your knuckles. he was gentle, yet so precise with his movements, you were easily gasping his name in no time. never looking away from each other once, you held eye contact while he spilled into you, his lips molding to yours as if they were made just for you. — ma'am, you gotta be kidding me ??? drop everything in your life, start a writing career.

₊˚⊹˚ 𐙚 WHEN YOU KNOW, YOU KNOW | FIVE

a pogue!sweetheart!reader series by rafesangelita ©

SUMMARY: finding you when he thought all hope was lost, rafe decides that this is the last time you two will ever be separated.. til’ death do you part.

WARNINGS: lots of emotions lol, crying, angst, description of unprotected sex, fluff

LINKS: series masterlist | prev chapter | next chapter

WORD COUNT: 1.7k

“how did you find me?” you’re pulling rafe inside by his shirt, his hands finding your hips as he stared at you incredulously. he couldn’t believe you were in front of him. he didn’t answer, instead he took your face in his hands, tears brimming his eyes as he rested his forehead on yours. “please never do that again.” you felt your heart break when his voice came out shaky, your own tears already rolling down your cheeks. “i’m so sorry—” rafe shut the door, clicking the lock shut before sitting you down on the motel bed.

“i got your note,” rafe made sure to keep your hand in his as he spoke, “i know that you left because you felt like you were doing the right thing.” he laughed bitterly, flashbacks of the look on his dad’s face when he saw that you didn’t take the money ran through his mind. “but i need you to know something else..” your heart was beating out of your chest, a million words sitting on the tip of your tongue. there was so many things you wanted to say, but you didn’t know where to start.

“doing the ‘right thing’ would never result in us being away from each other. you sacrificed everything and left behind everything you’ve ever known for me, so i made my own sacrifices too.” just as you were going to question what he meant, he held up his hand, the gold ring that he once wore with the utmost pride was now gone. your eyes widened, your lips parting as you shook your head. “oh, rafe..” inspecting his fingers, you couldn’t help but run your digits over his palm, “what did you do? what did i do?”

regret pooled in your stomach. the one thing you didn’t want to happen, happened. “hey, look at me— you didn’t do a damn thing, alright? my dad didn’t take anything from me, i left it. the same way you walked away from everything, so did i.” your head shot up at his words. “you left it? the business, your family ring, everything?” rafe watched as the corner of your eyes became wet with tears, your chin wobbling slightly. “y/n,” he stroked the side of your face, “everything means absolutely nothing if i don’t have you by my side.” you swore you could’ve died right there.

rafe embraced you as you let out a sob, your hands clinging onto him as if he’d disappear from your grasp. “i’m so sorry i left!” you cried out into his chest, “i’ll never leave you again, i swear it!” your arms moved to wrap around his neck, your heart finally feeling full again. rafe shushed you, rubbing your back soothingly as you two cried in each other’s embrace. rafe knew it was now or never. everything that you two have been through— all the tears, all the scrutiny and pain, trials and tribulations, all the laughs, the sweet moments, the whispering of words in the dark, all of it was meant to lead up to this very moment.

rafe pulled away, taking both of your hands in his as he moved down to the floor— on one knee. sniffling, you watched with a confused gaze as rafe reached into his pocket. “i bought this ring the morning i first left your camper,” your eyes widened as he pulled out a small box, “you left one of your rings on the bathroom sink and i took it with me to get an accurate size on this one,” he laughed, “i thought i was crazy when i was there buying it from the jeweler, but it all makes sense now.” a small gasp left your lips when he opened the box, revealing a dainty diamond ring. “rafe..” your voice was barely above a whisper.

“marry me.”

his words cut through the air, your breath catching in your throat. “what?” a hint of a smile played on your lips as his eyes got lost in your own. “marry me,” he repeated, “you fulfilled wedding vows since the very beginning. ‘for better, for worse.’ you and me made decisions, we let go of things despite how painful it was, we did it for each other,” rafe swallowed thickly. ‘for richer, for poorer.’ you never cared about how much money i had, you welcomed me into your camper and we made the best of it,” he rose his eyebrows suggestively, making a giggle fall from your lips at the memories of you two getting tangled in your bed.

tightening your grip on his hand, your smile faded when he broke down, his shoulders shaking slightly as his head hung in complete surrender. “you didn’t give up on me when you had every reason to. ‘in sickness and in health.’ you stuck by me when i was at the height of my addiction, and i could never thank you enough for never losing faith in me. i yelled at you, i talked to you harshly— fuck, i hate myself for that. i was in the worst shape i had ever been in, and you still looked at me as if i hung the stars up for you. you loved me at my worst, and brought me back up to be my best.” now you were crying too, small hiccups emitting from your throat.

“y/n, will you please do me the honor of giving me your hand in marriage?” rafe glanced up at you, the expression on your face unreadable. “of course i will.” that was all rafe needed before he slid the beautiful ring on your finger, both of you pulling each other into a searing kiss. with his lips still connected to yours, rafe took a seat on the bed, pulling you on top of his lap effortlessly. you two stayed like this until the tears on your cheeks dried, both of you growing needy for something more than just rushed kisses and lingering touches.

“i’m sorry,” you whispered against his lips, “i never want to be away from you ever again.” rafe’s eyes were now clouded with something else other than tears— lust. “stop saying sorry. nothing else matters right now.” rafe’s fingers slipped underneath your top, your eyes fluttering shut as he licked a stripe up the column of your throat. groaning at the taste of your skin, you gasped when he cupped you through the lacey material of your bra. being apart from one another was one thing, but not being able to hold, love, or touch each other was completely different.

“i’ve been staying at your camper for this past week, you wanna know why?” you moaned softly as he took your top off, humming a small ‘why?’ before you tugged at his shirt. “because it smells like you. the sheets, your pillows, everything, it all smelled like you and i needed to feel you close somehow.” you pulled away at the revelation, your hands coming up to cup cheeks. “please let me make it up to you..” your voice was so sweet, but the indication of your words was even sweeter. “oh, you will.” rafe nodded to himself, his hand coming up to unclasp your bra.

rafe laid you down and worshipped your body as if it was your first time together all over’s again. not a single inch of your body went untouched, the man above you whispering praises again your skin. you two laughed, cried, kissed, and hugged all while he rocked inside of you, his fingers intertwined with yours as he continuously placed kisses to your knuckles. he was gentle, yet so precise with his movements, you were easily gasping his name in no time. never looking away from each other once, you held eye contact while he spilled into you, his lips molding to yours as if they were made just for you.

“i love you.” you smiled softly as his breath fanned against your cheek. pulling him flush against your chest, you wrapped your legs around his waist in order to keep him between your thighs. “i love you, too.” rafe rested his forehead in the curve of your neck, his large palms rubbing soft circles into your skin. you two stayed like this until he pecked the corner of your lips, rolling to your side before taking you in his arms. with your back to him, both of you admired your ring as if you couldn’t believe this was actually happening. “rafe?” you whispered, a smile gracing your lips when he hummed.

“i can’t believe it..” rafe trailed kisses along the back of your shoulder, his hand holding up your own. “i can,” he started, “i knew this day was going to come, i just wish i did it sooner.” you turned around in his embrace, running your index finger along his jaw. “you never answered my question earlier.” rafe’s eyebrows knitted in confusion. “what? how i found you?” nodding, you let your eyes trail over his features as he explained himself. “well i searched the whole island, and when people told me they hadn’t see you anywhere i figured that meant you left it altogether.”

your eyes widened at his words. “you looked for me all this time?” you already felt bad for leaving in the first place, but now you felt even worse. “of course i did. i went to the icecream parlor and asked around for you there, and then i went to the country club, but everyone just kept saying the same thing.” you closed your eyes, a defeated sigh falling from your lips. “i looked up the closest motel and this place showed up, so now i’m here.” rafe was unbelievable. “i need to get you a wedding band!” you gasped, the realization dawning on you once you stroked his empty fingers.

“i already got one. it’s at the camper.” you stared at him blankly. “rafe cameron.” he smiled when you said his full name, finding amusement in the way your voice sounded serious all of a sudden. “i mean it when i say i thought everything through already,” he kissed you, “i never really understood what people said, but now i get it.” smiling against his lips, you looked up at him through your lashes. “what do you mean? what did they say?” rafe cradled your head, those blue eyes of his dripping pure adoration for you as he spoke.

“when you know, you know.”

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The Journey to Financial Freedom: Understanding the Emotional Landscape

Financial freedom is a goal many aspire to achieve, yet it's not solely a matter of accumulating wealth. It's a multifaceted process that involves a profound understanding of one's emotional relationship with money. The path to financial independence is as much about personal growth and emotional intelligence as it is about financial acumen.

The Emotional Foundation of Financial Freedom

The quest for financial freedom often begins with a desire to break free from financial constraints and the stress they impose. However, achieving true financial independence requires more than just a solid financial plan; it necessitates an emotional transformation. This involves recognizing and overcoming the psychological barriers that can impede financial progress, such as fear of scarcity, anxiety over debt, or a mindset that equates self-worth with net worth.

Breaking Through Emotional Barriers

To navigate the emotional landscape of financial freedom, individuals must first identify their 'money blocks'—the subconscious beliefs and attitudes towards money that can sabotage financial goals. These blocks frequently stem from early life experiences and societal influences that shape our financial behaviours and attitudes.

One effective method for addressing these emotional barriers is through journaling and the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT). Journaling allows for reflection and identification of deep-seated beliefs, while EFT, a form of psychological acupressure, helps to release the emotional hold of negative financial experiences and beliefs.

Education and Mindset Shift

Alongside emotional work, education plays a crucial role in the journey to financial freedom. Understanding the fundamentals of money management, investment strategies, and wealth growth is essential. As highlighted in a TED Talk by Lawrence Ong, financial education is key to breaking the cycle of living pay cheque to pay cheque and moving towards financial independence.

The Role of Emotional Intelligence

Emotional intelligence is the ability to understand and manage one's emotions and the emotions of others. In the context of financial freedom, it means knowing how emotions influence financial decisions and having the ability to regulate those emotions to make better financial choices. It's about aligning one's financial decisions with long-term goals rather than short-term emotional responses.

Conclusion

The journey to financial freedom is not just a financial one; it's an emotional and educational process. By addressing the emotional aspects of money, breaking through psychological barriers, and acquiring financial knowledge, individuals can set themselves on a path to not just financial independence, but also to a more fulfilling and empowered life.

Achieving financial freedom is a complex endeavour that requires a holistic approach. It's a journey that involves much more than numbers—it's about transforming one's relationship with money on an emotional level and fostering a mindset of abundance and empowerment. With the right tools and mindset, the path to financial freedom becomes not just attainable, but also a journey of personal discovery and growth.

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A Message For The Young women

This is a special Message for girls who are 12 and up

You have the power

You have always had power in a relationship

you have a purpose

You just have to find it.

Dont do what society says

Society wants to tell you that a powerful woman sleeps with many men

No, you have more power than that. Yes you can manipulate men with your breasts and what is between your legs but that is cheating yourself

You are not held back by some all-scary patriarchy. First look at what a patriarch is, It is the oldest man in the family, ie your grandfather. If you are being held back by anything it is by your own thoughts.

Men find you sexier and more attractive when you dress up with a bit of modesty.

Wearing revealing clothes just makes you look easy when you are single. Yes, you can appear more sexy when worn from time to time. but that only fully works when you are married and you and your husband are out at a social event.

You have more power over men than feminists want to admit. You ask nicely and men will crawl across a desert of broken glass just to give you refreshing iced tea.

You do have to bring something a relationship what is it? Yes, we men are easy, just show us boobs and hand us a sandwich and we are generally happy creatures for the most part. Yet there is more. Men will work themselves to the bone for their woman but they want something for their efforts.

But we want our women to push us. to encourage us on our adventures. We want our beauties by our sides.

Do your damnedest to stay sexually pure. this is for your enjoyment as much as your husband. when you sleep with a guy outside of marriage you sadly cheapen yourself and at the same time, you rob your future husband of a fuller richer connection. Because we do take sex to mean more than just a quick release. Sex has a bigger meaning for men. It is how we see our worth. Is our wife willing to have sex with us after we have worked long and hard slaying dragons? No? then what is wrong with us? How and where did we men fail?

Understand that men do have emotions

Men do share their emotions. They just don't share them as women do.

We need other men around.

with out other men we lose the masculinity we need in our life

Don't try to fix men.

You will wonder where the man you fell in love with went.

Summary

In this episode, I address young women, from ages 12 to about 30, and discuss the challenges they face in finding a good partner in today's society. I emphasize the power that women already possess, contrary to societal messages that may suggest otherwise.

I highlight the importance of maintaining purity before marriage and the value it brings to a relationship. Additionally, I delve into the emotional aspects of men, the significance of male friendships, and the creation of value in relationships. I stress the role of personal growth and the importance of making choices that enhance one's value and contribute positively to relationships.

By challenging societal norms and encouraging individual empowerment, I aim to guide young women towards building fulfilling and successful partnerships in their lives.

00:00:00 Empowering Young Women 00:01:02 A Message for the Women 00:01:32 Addressing the Struggles 00:02:50 Finding Valuable Men 00:03:37 Sensitivity and Uncomfortable Truths 00:04:06 Embracing Your Power 00:04:29 Debunking Myths and Stereotypes 00:07:07 Decisiveness and Differences in Approach 00:07:57 Harnessing Your Power 00:09:06 The Value of Modesty 00:11:28 Understanding Men's Emotions 00:12:38 Importance of Quality Male Friendships 00:13:33 Building a Strong Relationship 00:16:30 Cherishing Your Identity 00:20:24 The Beauty of Sexual Purity 00:21:34 Emotional Expression in Men 00:24:15 The Weight of Sexual Choices 00:26:46 Importance of Mutual Respect 00:28:18 Impact of Social Circles 00:29:47 Learning from Mistakes 00:30:32 Contribution to Relationship Value 00:31:01 Investing in Future Relationships

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