#and how much fulfilling and richer that makes their relationship

[ashstfu]

how i keep my screen time under an hour a day —

i have been getting a lot of messages asking how i manage to keep my screen time to just 54 minutes a day. honestly it wasn’t some overnight miracle, it’s been a conscious effort to shift my focus from the digital world to the beauty of real life. i’ve found that the more i immerse myself in the world around me, the less i feel the need to be glued to my evil phone.

no instagram or tiktok

believe it or not, i’ve been off instagram for five years now and i’ve never ever had a tiktok account. i know that sounds crazy but staying far far away from those apps has been one of the best decisions i’ve made. when i realized that the real world is so much more fulfilling than anything on a screen, something just clicked. why spend time scrolling through someone else’s life when i could be out there truly living mine?

prioritize what really matters

i’m a firm believer in prioritizing things that add value to my life. i use my phone for work, to stay in touch with loved ones and yes, for tumblr and interacting with my beautiful mutuals. but beyond that?? i ask myself “does this add to my life or take away from it?” if it’s the latter, it’s not worth my time.

create a morning & evening ritual

starting and ending my day without my phone has been a game changer for me. in the morning, i let natural light wake me up, stretch, have my coffee, workout and ease into the day without the noise of notifications. at night, i wind down with a book, a movie, or just music & my thoughts.

set boundaries

i’m strict with myself about when and where i use my phone. no screens during meals, no scrolling when i’m with friends or family and definitely no phone after midnight.

embrace real life connections

the connections i make in real life are so much richer than any DM or comment sorry. i focus on cultivating these relationships, spending time with people i love & experiencing things together. it’s fulfilling in a way that no app on my phone can replicate.

find joy in the little things

instead of reaching for my phone out of habit, i’ve learned to find joy in the little things. like the sound of the ocean, the smell of coffee or just sitting in silence. it’s amazing how much more present and content i feel when i’m not constantly looking for the next distraction. in the end, it’s about choosing to engage with the world around me and i honestly wouldn’t have it any other way.

[ithinkimnormal]

Sorry but It's actually so annoying how much people downplay the crucial role piltover's corrupt council games played in derailing jayce/viktor's work and pretty much putting shackles around their lives. The council is directly responsible for and directly FUNDING so much of the misery that happens in this show, before the story has even started. Before Powder ever finds the gemstone. They single-handedly doom half of the region to death.

Just during the show: Jayce wanted to create magic to aid and uplift the common people, the council wanted trade route instant teleportators to make themselves richer.

Jayce & Viktor wanted to work on technology to help miners and steelworkers and artisans who are trying to survive in the industrial hellscape of piltover and zaun; the council wants it shelved for another 20 years. (yes, heimer is part of the corrupt council - no matter how much his image is laundered by the fandom.)

They are inept and self-serving leaders, elected by themselves and their blood inheritances, utterly obsessed with ultimate profit. You can really see how parasitic their relationship is to the people at the beggining of act 1. Jayce is a token nameless life, so disposable to them that they were going to burn down all of his research and throw out all of his titles, making him not just a lower-house vassal but an EXILE, and the only reason why that doesn't happen is because they realize how much money they can suck out of his work.

This applies to Viktor too. See the way that Heimerdinger tells him over and over again that no other paths can be taken, he has 'fulfilled his purpose' and he should be content to die. See how Mel looks at Viktor like a bug she wants to squash under her palm when he rejects the idea of making weapons for council. See how they speak over him and only address Jayce, as if he's worth less than nothing.

You are only as valuable as the profit you're willing to create. You are a problem that has to be dealt with as soon as you refuse their orders. They have the power to ruin your life, and if they find an excuse, they will. This is a direct threat pointed at Jayce & Viktor during ACT2, when Jayce is pressured into becoming one of them to protect 'the bottom line profit' and, personally speaking, to avoid that ire being redirected towards Viktor. He's pushed into compliance and told a target has been painted on his back.

Arcane jayvik are doomed in big part not for wanting to do harm, but being forced to exist under the beck and call of billionaire leeches. They are both immigrants. They are both struggling to get a degree and keep themselves afloat and they want to help people so goddamn much but they have to keep postponing their dreams to serve uncaring masters. I really wish there was more fan content focused on these very real bonds of understanding and solidarity between them.

When Viktor says 'Jayce will understand' that's not a fluke; he's lived in this environment for years. He knows Jayce is being pushed down the same way that he is and that deep down they've been kept captive by the exact same people. When Jayce agrees that Viktor should do whatever he needs to do to keep himself alive, he means that from the heart.

[girlishwhimsies]

unfortunately i have to yap more on the economic divides.

just there are so many implications and complications when it comes to generational wealth vs cycles of poverty. cycles of poverty my beloved in fiction and beloathed in life

i yapped a lot in the tags of my last post so read those too but i will be yapping so much here too!!! the way it affects familial relationships consumes me, two bits father leaves and suddenly now his mom has to go work and she sure as hell can’t get a great job cause she’s a greaser so she probably doesn’t have much education and she’s an asian woman in the 60s!! she’s now a single mom with kids to take care of. so she ends up working as a waitress or something similar and uses that money to scrape by, food stamps were starting to become a thing in the 60s as well so she def used those. and then she has two children. she can’t get them through college and two bit knows he has to step up and be the man of the house and that means finding some way to make money so he has to drop outta school cause he needs to get a job. that’s what greasers do and that’s what was always gonna end up happening to him. the cycle didn’t start with him or end with him but it has to keep going l

ace and steve too. bounced around to different homes, never having one home with a steady flow of income, having to find ways to get through it. ace who didn’t trust any men, especially when money was involved, and only trusted those close to her!!! the cycle of poverty hits them all again as her and her brothers can’t rely on a father to bring in income. god plus the way that poverty creates addicts due to the stress of it all and then addiction further fuels poverty since you have to buy your vices. some addicts can’t hold a steady job which makes it even worse. all cycling in on itself over and over again. and that’s not even mentioning the clear redlining that tilly mentions in her ace backstory (this may even be a whole other post tbh) the town is designed to keep the poor poorer and the rich richer.

johnny who in my mind is clearly food insecure (y’all saw the way that boy snatched that food from dally and hid it away immediately right) never quite sure where he is gonna get food from besides the curtis’s since his parents spend most of the money on alcohol. the anxiety that would bring him and it impacts his story so hard cause he always is at a disadvantage due to that. there is a reason that boy looks so small

dally has always travelled, choosing to steal to get what he needs cause he never stays long enough anywhere to get a full job. he’s been labelled a hood since day one anyway and wouldn’t get a great job anyway cause of his skin color so he decides to lean into it and do what he has to do to get by.

then we have the curtis brothers. who were so close to getting out of tulsa. they were able to try to break the cycle and send darry off to college after he was one of the first to get through high school and make it out just for him to have to come straight back. no matter how hard darry tried he couldn’t ever end it but at least he can try to get pony through school and get him a better job that he can succeed in and love comfortably with

more various thoughts i couldn’t fit into any one greaser story- a lot of the kids were most likely mistakes and/or teen pregnancies that they really couldn’t afford to have but had to go through with it anyway. the cycle of addiction that runs through these families. the parents hopes and dreams of getting out never getting fulfilled. the way race plays into poverty as well

then you have the socs who have all the money they need, who have the opportunity to get out and choose not to take it cause tulsa is a source of pride for them. they benefit from the cycle too even if the kids don’t always realize it. just ugh. the way all of it comes into play with the overarching story

[finisnihil]

Minor Luocha and Firefly analysis+Penacony Spoilers read at your behest

If Firefly is a Kallen Expy like I’ve seen some people suggest I hope she and Luocha stay 2747388274383774744747 miles away from each other forever.

Their dynamic in HI3 is certainly something and as somebody who doesn’t play HI3 I’m quite fascinated by Otto’s religious adoration of her where he seems to love her in the sense of somebody worshipping a god or saint probably due to the religious setting he was raised in and her role as his “savior” (I have no idea what I’m talking about I have Vague Understanding and that’s it) but also I like how HSR is treating their characters right now individual of each other.

Seeing Luocha act the way he does feels so much more fulfilling with the current understanding that Kallen isn’t impacting his decisions. He’s kind because he wants to be, because he likes being kind, because he’s a healer and healers make people’s lives easier and better quality and not because he’s upholding somebody else’s ideal. Plus, his relationship with Yaoshi, immortality, and rebirth and being disgusted by it is so much richer in my opinion. When Jingliu says he has a void in his heart that can’t be filled, with how he’s trying so hard to insist he’s normal and human, how he’s got serious parallels to Jesus but he’s turning against his god because he does not want to wear this crown of thorns, he does not have to in order to save those who need saving.

And Firefly, a girl who’s living on borrowed time, who’s losing her body and is desperately trying to cling to any sense of freedom, who seeks the warmth of the Trailblazer’s Stellaron heart because it’s better than the cold clinic she’s alluded to be being stuck in. Fireflies only live for two months and they use that precious time frantically sending out little bursts of light to find company in a responding signal. A shooting star is only there long enough to be wished on for something greater before it’s swallowed by the night again. Isn’t it only natural to ache for more time? To hide from Death in the arms of its brother, Sleep? To remain in this Golden Hour just before the reset of the clock reminds you that you are fading and a hour is just that, a hour, no matter how golden?

In a way, their roles have reversed. Firefly is now the one scared of death and desperately seeking a way to circumvent it even if it means hurting or deceiving while Luocha is doing his best to be a good person while also wrestling with the opposition of people who hate him on the principle of his circumstances.

I don’t think Luocha could ever be Otto. They share the same looks and the same traits yes, but they seem to have gone down completely different paths. Same thing for Firefly and Kallen if they are alternate versions of each other.

And if they ever do meet, I hope it’s a sparse glance, an eye contact, and then they merely pass each other on the street and think nothing more of who the other might’ve been.

[nanowrimo]

A Letter to Writers who are Parents

Can you successfully write while also being a parent? NaNo Participant Desiree S. Brown confidently says yes, you can do both. Desiree offers heartfelt words of inspiration to other author-parents out there. My eyes were heavy with sleep as I plodded over to my son’s crib. I remember holding him in a state of awe, but I was also terrified. I hadn’t written in months—not from lack of trying—and had just emerged from a digital rabbit hole.

Desperate for pointers from seasoned author-parents, I asked Google, “How do authors write while raising kids?”

I expected encouragement, but found Lauren Sandler’s essay The Secret to Being Both a Successful Writer and Mother: Have Just One Kid and Cyril Connolly’s famous quote: “There’s no more somber enemy of good art than the pram in the hall.”

You can write and be a parent.

Many authors opted out of parenthood, believing each birth cost them a book. Doris Lessing, for example, had abandoned her children with their father in favor of her writing career.

It’s heartbreaking, but untrue. Zadie Smith, Toni Morrison, Jodi Picoult, Ursula K. Le Guin, Sarah Manguso and other authors managed to have successful careers while raising children. Manguso wrote in The Grand Shattering:

I used to believe that maximizing the number of hours reading, writing, and thinking about writing would make me the best writer I could be, and that my friend who had chosen to have three children just didn’t value being a writer as much as I did. Then I had a child and found that the amount of time I spend writing isn’t the only thing that makes me a better writer. I also grow by weathering trauma, practicing patience, being seasoned by love.

Parenting will help you grow as a writer.

Many author-parents noted an enrichment in their writing. In his essay, The Pram in the Hall, Shane Jones wrote, “I’ve discovered many writer-fathers who not only continued to produce work, but produced work that is richer and more interesting because of their fatherhood.”

New life moments create powerful experiences and what is storytelling, poetry, or essays but the exploration of those experiences? Parenting shaped me and my writing in a way that childlessness couldn't. I’ve learned to be more empathetic and honest with my time management (why didn’t I write during my son’s two hour nap?).

Jodi Picoult learned to be “hyper-aware of relationships between people,” Jane Smiley’s kids exposed her to new ideas by forcing her into the world, and Maggie O’Farrel learned “to concentrate with the intensity of a telekinetic.”

You’re not neglectful for prioritizing writing or parenting.

There’s a constant tug of war within writer-parents, not to mention the crushing weight of social expectations: writers need silence at all times and parents prioritize their kids.

But that's an unrealistic standard that will ruin any parent’s mental health, resulting in a loss of self, depression, and frustration. O’Farrel writes:

Don’t feel guilty about taking time to write. Guilt is no use to you here. Throw yourself headlong into whatever is in front of you, whether it’s writing or doling out small bowls of pasta or making potato prints. It’s good for your children to have a fulfilled parent, not a frustrated one. A child witnessing their parent working and being gratified by that work is an excellent lesson for them.

So, what’s the answer to the big question? How do authors write while raising kids?

They do it like anyone else: stealing time between diaper changes and naps; juggling housework, parent-work, and writer-work as best as they can; and realizing that they have the potential to create a fulfilling writing career like anyone else.

That’s the answer I will carry with me into Camp NaNo, the next project, and beyond.

Desiree S. Brown is an author that lives in the sunny state of California with her husband and son. She publishes her work on her website, desireesbrown.com, while also sharing her passion for reading and writing. Photo by SHVETS production from Pexels

[chimscake]

5 𝙵𝚄𝙽 𝚃𝙷𝙸𝙽𝙶𝚂 𝙸 𝙳𝙸𝙳 𝚃𝙷𝙰𝚃 𝙶𝙾𝚃 𝙼𝙴 𝙼𝚈 𝙼𝙰𝙽𝙸𝙵𝙴𝚂𝚃𝙰𝚃𝙸𝙾𝙽 𝙵𝙰𝚂𝚃𝙴𝚁 𝚃𝙷𝙰𝙽 𝚃𝙷𝙴 𝚂𝙿𝙴𝙴𝙳 𝙾𝙵 𝙻𝙸𝙶𝙷𝚃

Since I feel like I owe you a little update: I'm working on a big post about everything I know on the law from the scientific perspective, as I said in the last post, but since I want to make it as complete and understandable as possible, it is taking a lot of time. Since the beginning of February I've been literally re-reading a shit ton of books and taking proper notes to make this post. Today I can say it's coming along really nice and I hope it will be ready to post soonish, but I can't guarantee anything cuz I've been and will be super busy with other things as well. Since I really don't want to leave my blog empty for such a long time I thought I would make a shorter post to fill the void. I hope you like it <3

DISCLAIMER: as we all know, all you really need to manifest is affirm once and believe it's done, so you don't really need to do any of these things. But if you struggle with consistency when it comes to saturating your mind, you should consider trying things that are more fun, so that you have more incentive to do it. It is your universe after all, so why not do something a little more exciting that just sitting in your house?

1) Making fake phone calls even in public: I used to do this a lot a long time ago. I would simply hang out and go to the park or to the mall or anything really and I would pretend I was on the phone with someone talking about my desires as if they came to be already. I just LOVE the looks on peoples faces when they hear me talk about my blooming business and the crazy things I bought. The only difference is now IT IS ALL TRUE

2) To manifest being rich, surround yourself in wealth: walk through a wealthy neighborhood, go into a luxury shop, hang out in a luxury hotels lobbys... this truly helps with feeling in the wish fulfilled because the more time you spend around wealth and luxury the more you will get used to it and the more it will feel and be part of your life. If you feel insecure about walking into Louis Vuitton or any other luxury shop just because you don't look like you are rich and you are afraid of being judged listen to me right now: I've worked in retail for luxury brands and I can GUARANTEE you that there are plenty of wealthy people who shop at these places and look like they don't own a cent. Shop assistants never pay too much attention to how people present themselves because it's not always a good indicator of wealth, so just relax and go inside like you own the place, even if you're wearing h&m.

3) If you want to manifest a relationship with an sp, do things that you would consider romantic for yourself. Buy yourself flowers, comfort yourself with kind words or take yourself out on dates. This is useful to get yourself used to getting pampered and to make your subconscious belive the fact that you are in a relationship even more clearly. One day I bought myself a rose and I kept affirming that my sp was the one who got it for me. This one works like a charm

4) Work on you confidence and your mindset. Being confident and believing that things are always good in your life and that nothing bad can happen to you is a state that gets you literally anything. Do things that make you feel confident and positive as much as possible. For me these are wearing clothes and makeup in the style I like, complimenting other people, listening to music, eating food I like and spending quality time with the people I love. I recommend praying if you are religious.

5) Know/affirm that capitalism ain't shit compared to you. People, and especially young ones, are afraid of the consequences of capitalism, such as global pollution and the fact that the rich are getting richer, while everyone else struggles to afford groceries and rent. The state the world is in can be reason for negative thoughts and loss of ambition. But as the conscious creator you are, you can just decide that these aren't problems anymore and that the situation is only getting better, you can decide that billionaires have to listen to everyone else and make the world a better place. Here are some of the affirmations I use:

"capitalism ain't shit compared to me"

"i am the one billionaires hate because im getting richer without playing their game"

"world leaders and billionaires do as I please because they are afraid of my power"

"the rich are getting poorer and the poor richer because i said so and thats it"

"i am an environmentally conscious and generous billionaire"

Hope this inspired you <3

Chimscake

[astraloracle3692]

Palmistry Myths vs. Reality: Understanding the Truth Behind Palm Reading

Palmistry, the fascinating art of palm reading, has intrigued people for centuries. Many seek its guidance, hoping to uncover hidden truths about themselves, their future, and their relationships. However, along with its rich history and potential insights, palmistry is also surrounded by numerous myths and misconceptions. In this blog, we’ll dive deep into some of the most common myths versus the realities of palm reading, revealing how this ancient practice can bring clarity and understanding to your life.

What Is Palmistry?

Before we unravel the myths, let's take a moment to understand what palmistry really is. At its core, palmistry is the study of the lines, shapes, and mounts of the hands. Each person’s palm is unique, reflecting their personality, potential, and life experiences. Through careful observation, a skilled palm reader can gain insights into a person's character, challenges, and opportunities.

The Roots of Palmistry

Palmistry has its origins in ancient civilizations, including India, China, and Greece. It’s intertwined with various cultural practices, including Vedic astrology. In Vedic traditions, palm reading is often seen as a companion to astrology, providing additional layers of understanding about one’s life path. This rich history adds depth to the practice, showing that palmistry is not just a fleeting trend but a time-honored approach to self-discovery.

Myth 1: Palm Reading Is Just Fortune-Telling

One of the biggest misconceptions about palmistry is that it’s solely about predicting the future. While it’s true that some palm readers may focus on forecasting events, the reality is much broader and richer. Palmistry is more about self-discovery and personal insight than about seeing into a crystal ball.

Reality: It’s About Self-Discovery

When you engage in palm reading, you’re not just looking for predictions; you’re exploring the depths of your personality and life experiences. Your palms can reveal patterns in your behavior, your strengths, and your potential areas for growth. By understanding these aspects, you can make more informed choices, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling life.

How Palm Reading Can Empower You

Many people seek palm reading during times of transition—perhaps after a major life change or when feeling lost. The insights gained from palmistry can offer a fresh perspective, helping you understand why you react to certain situations in specific ways. This self-awareness can lead to empowerment, allowing you to navigate life’s challenges with greater confidence.

Myth 2: Palm Reading Is Superstitious Nonsense

Some skeptics dismiss palmistry as mere superstition, believing it to be devoid of any real value or scientific basis. They view it as a form of entertainment rather than a genuine tool for understanding oneself.

Reality: A Skill Developed Over Centuries

While palmistry may not be scientifically proven in the same way as some fields, it is built on centuries of observation and practice. Experienced palmists study the intricacies of hand shapes, finger lengths, and the various lines that form on the palm. This knowledge provides valuable insights that can be both practical and meaningful.

The Intersection of Palmistry and Vedic Astrology

As mentioned earlier, palmistry is closely linked to Vedic astrology. In this tradition, your palm can provide insights that complement your astrological chart. For instance, a strong Mount of Jupiter on your palm may reflect the leadership qualities indicated by Jupiter in your birth chart. By combining these two practices, you gain a more holistic understanding of your personality and life path.

Myth 3: Only Certain People Can Read Palms

Many believe that palm reading is an exclusive skill reserved for a select few, often mystics or fortune-tellers. This perception can discourage individuals from exploring palmistry for themselves.

Reality: Anyone Can Learn Palmistry

The beautiful truth about palmistry is that anyone can learn to read palms with practice and patience. There are numerous resources available, from books to online courses, that can guide you through the basics. With an open mind and a willingness to learn, you can start interpreting the signs in your own palm or those of your loved ones.

Finding Your Style

As you delve into palm reading, you’ll likely find your unique approach to interpreting palms. Some people focus on the lines, while others pay attention to the mounts and shapes of the hands. Embrace your style and let your intuition guide you. This personal touch will make the experience even more rewarding.

Myth 4: Palm Reading Is Only for Women

Another common myth is that palmistry is primarily a women’s domain. While many women are drawn to the art of palm reading, this practice is for everyone, regardless of gender.

Reality: A Universal Tool for Insight

Palmistry is a universal practice that transcends gender. People of all backgrounds can benefit from understanding the insights offered by their palms. In fact, many men find palmistry to be a valuable tool for self-reflection and personal growth.

The Benefits for Everyone

Whether you’re seeking clarity in your career, relationships, or personal goals, palm reading can offer valuable insights. The practice encourages self-exploration and introspection, making it a beneficial tool for anyone looking to deepen their understanding of themselves.

Myth 5: Palm Reading Is Only for the Curious

Some view palmistry as a trivial pursuit, something to do for fun but not to be taken seriously. This misconception overlooks the profound value that palm reading can bring to your life.

Reality: A Serious Path to Personal Growth

Palm reading can be a powerful means of personal growth and transformation. When approached with sincerity, it encourages self-examination and can illuminate patterns that you may not have been aware of. By understanding your strengths and weaknesses, you can set more meaningful goals and make positive changes in your life.

Using Palmistry as a Tool for Reflection

Consider taking time to reflect on what your palm reveals about you. What do the lines say about your emotional experiences? How do the mounts indicate your natural inclinations? This reflective process can lead to profound insights and a greater sense of purpose.

The Emotional Connection: Why You Should Explore Palmistry

Now that we’ve debunked some common myths, you might wonder why you should consider exploring palmistry yourself. The answer lies in the emotional connection it can foster.

Discovering Your Inner Self

Palmistry encourages you to look within, offering a unique opportunity for self-discovery. By engaging with the insights your palm provides, you can confront aspects of yourself that may need attention or nurturing. This journey inward can be both healing and enlightening.

Building a Positive Mindset

Understanding the strengths represented in your palm can help you cultivate a more positive mindset. For example, if you find that your Mount of Venus is well-developed, you can embrace your natural ability to connect with others and express love. Recognizing these positive traits can boost your self-esteem and encourage you to pursue relationships and opportunities that resonate with your authentic self.

Finding Guidance in Times of Uncertainty

Life is full of uncertainties, and palmistry can serve as a comforting guide. When you’re faced with difficult decisions or feeling lost, looking at your palm can provide clarity. It’s like having a conversation with yourself, helping you navigate your path with confidence.

Embrace the Wisdom in Your Hands

In conclusion, palmistry is a fascinating practice that offers much more than meets the eye. By debunking common myths and embracing the reality of palm reading, you can unlock valuable insights into your personality, strengths, and life path.

Whether you’re seeking clarity, understanding, or personal growth, palmistry can be a powerful tool in your journey. Remember, your hands hold the stories of your life; all you need to do is take the time to listen. Embrace the wisdom in your palms and allow it to guide you toward a brighter, more fulfilling future. After all, palm reading is not just about predicting what will happen next; it’s about discovering who you are and empowering yourself to create the life you desire. So why not explore this ancient art? Your palms are waiting to share their secrets with you.

[tomthomasblog]

The Power of Joy: Reflection and Connection

Joy is often seen as a fleeting emotion, something that comes and goes like the changing seasons. But what if we took time to reflect on joy and truly understand its impact on our lives? Examining joy can lead to deeper insights and a more fulfilling existence. By letting go of the things that hold us back and embracing the happiness around us, we can create richer experiences and foster stronger relationships. This article explores how reflecting on joy not only enriches our own lives but also spreads happiness to those around us.

To start with, reflecting on joy encourages us to take a close look at our lives. It asks us to consider what makes us genuinely happy. Are we too often caught up in our daily struggles, or do we forget to celebrate the little victories? Taking time for this reflection helps us identify what truly matters. It is crucial to let go of any grudges we may hold against others. Hang-ups from the past can weigh us down, blocking the path to joy. Similarly, comparing ourselves to others can rob us of happiness. Social media often paints a perfect picture of life that isn’t real, leading us to feel inadequate. By learning to appreciate our unique journeys, we create mental space for joy to flourish.

Making space for joy can transform our lives. When we remove negativity and focus on what brings us happiness, we open ourselves up to richer experiences. Whether it’s spending time with family, engaging in hobbies we love, or simply appreciating nature, these moments pave the way for deeper relationships. Building strong bonds with others becomes easier when we are grounded in joy. Happiness creates an environment of warmth, trust, and love, allowing us to connect authentically with those around us.

Joy is not just an individual experience; it is also contagious. When we share our joy with others, we invite them to feel happy too. A simple smile, a kind word, or an encouraging gesture can ignite happiness in someone else. This sharing creates a ripple effect that can spread through our communities. Imagine a world where positivity becomes the norm rather than negativity. If more people focused on uplifting one another, we would find ourselves surrounded by an atmosphere of support and joy. In the face of so much societal negativity, choosing to spread happiness can be an act of rebellion, creating an uplifting community instead.

In conclusion, reflecting on joy can lead to profound changes in our lives and the lives of those around us. By letting go of grudges and comparisons, we can create space for more joy in our hearts and stronger relationships in our lives. Sharing this joy not only benefits us but also fosters a supportive community that challenges negativity. So, I encourage you to take a minute each day to reflect: What brings you joy? How can you share that joy with others? Together, let’s make a conscious effort to spread happiness and create a ripple effect of positivity in our world.

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The Scripture Collection Playlist A compilation of 20 uplifting music videos inspired by a different Bible scripture. https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoBTz-QtgDhox4diwLqHBjD4W-CtzM-8v

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I wrote the song "Joy is a Melody" based on "Finding True Happiness in Our Lives"

classic rock, pop https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DYaeYTUAhMU cloud rap symphonic metal https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zYx949MQS6s ambient dub techno https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bkeffZKPrKg

[heirloom-project]

What Are the Benefits of Creating a Recipe Book for Your Family?

Preserving family traditions feels deeply fulfilling and nostalgic. Among many ways to celebrate ties, a personal recipe book shines as unique and heartfelt. Compiling family recipes into a custom cookbook safeguards culinary treasures and connects generations beautifully. Let’s explore why creating a recipe book matters and how it fosters love, culture, and togetherness.

A Treasure Trove of Memories

Family recipes hold vibrant, unforgettable memories. Grandma’s legendary apple pie and Dad’s smoky barbecue sauce linger forever. These dishes tell emotional, heartwarming stories tied to love and family moments. Without documentation, such cherished recipes risk being lost forever.

A personal recipe book becomes an enduring, delightful keepsake. It’s much more than cooking instructions; it’s love wrapped in tradition. A custom cookbook captures heritage, joy, and identity in its essence.

The Importance of a Personal Recipe Book

Preserving Family Heritage

Food connects deeply with culture and tradition. Every recipe unveils fascinating stories of the past. Creating a personal recipe book archives treasured pieces of history beautifully.

A handwritten recipe for great-grandmother’s bread pudding brims with charm. Stories of Christmas gatherings make it even richer. A custom cookbook acts as a captivating time capsule for generations.

Strengthening Family Bonds

Cooking strengthens relationships in magical ways. Crafting a custom cookbook becomes a joyful, collaborative family effort. Grandparents share wisdom, and kids add delightful creativity.

Imagine recounting heartfelt memories while perfecting timeless recipes. These shared, precious moments bond families beautifully, creating unforgettable memories.

Encouraging Healthier Eating Habits

A personal recipe book allows control over ingredients and methods. It emphasizes healthier options while honoring rich, traditional flavors. Including substitutions and tips ensures mindful, healthy eating.

Replace refined sugar with natural sweeteners. Swap processed flour with wholesome grains. A custom cookbook ensures balanced lifestyles without losing taste.

Saving Time and Money

A well-organized personal recipe book simplifies meal planning efficiently. With recipes at your fingertips, cooking feels effortless and exciting. Decisions become quicker and stress-free.

Curated recipes help reduce grocery trips and food waste. A cookbook with seasonal tips ensures cost-effective, delightful meals every day.

Passing Down Life Skills

Cooking is a vital, lifelong skill. A custom cookbook becomes an inspiring, educational tool. It builds kitchen confidence in younger generations skillfully.

Recreating family recipes instills gratitude for traditions. It imparts valuable, practical knowledge essential for everyone.

Making Your Custom Cookbook Special

Creating a personal recipe book feels rewarding and special. Follow these simple, thoughtful tips:

Gather Recipes from Every Generation

Include recipes from all family members. This ensures vibrant, exciting variety from classics to modern favorites.

Add Personal Touches

Use photographs, handwritten notes, or anecdotes. These elements turn a cookbook into a heartwarming family memoir.

Organize Thoughtfully

Arrange recipes by appetizers, desserts, or seasons. Structure it chronologically to reflect culinary evolution.

Include a Dedication Page

Write a heartfelt, touching message. Dedicate it to loved ones or future generations, adding immense emotional value.

Choose a Durable Format

Print on high-quality, elegant paper. Opt for a sturdy binding or create a digital version for easy sharing.

Conclusion: An Heirloom That Lasts Forever

A personal recipe book goes beyond cooking. It celebrates family, love, and tradition joyously. A custom cookbook preserves culinary heritage beautifully, making it thrive for generations.

In today’s fast-paced world, cooking together remains meaningful. A recipe book bridges past, present, and future. Start your family’s treasured recipe collection today. Create a legacy as rich as the dishes it holds.

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Meaning of life — Part II (Finding and Fulfilling dreams)

Note: These are authors own ideas

Note: The original is on authors webpage.

So, in the last article, we depicted, for teenagers, the questions that surround them is,

Who we are,

What we want

What life has to offer to us,

The story does not remain the same, people have to answer these questions, the very fact of choosing subjects at school, to any other hobby a person wants to obtain, and at the same time this is not the same for all,

As a teenagers starts to grow in the teen years, there is mounting pressure on him/her. Pressures to compete with peers, pressure to gain the marks required, pressure for comparisons with others by parents/siblings/friends, pressure to achieve what some famous person (celebrity idol, role model) which he/she follows or what to be a follower.

Teenagers who often get jolted down with a sense of loss form a relationship, performance in some activity, marks in school, often teenagers land up in smoking, drinking, and other wrong behaviors.

One must note smoking, drinking, at this delicate age is not a jargon, but it should had been cured well, there are ways of this which I shall write here later.

Teenagers should have a healthy mind and a healthy body. As this is the delicate age that would determine the realization of first of your young age dreams. Yes, this is the age where some of the first choices about life are made, choices of younger years, when the some of the first decisions are made. The innocent desires, or the innocent dreams as I call them, the right choices are made, and often these goals are burnt in the smoke of smoking, which should not happen for sure. Well if done in a controlled way then too …, vapes were introduced, these cant be taken back all of a sudden, understand it as a science, one cant deprive it all of a sudden. But the question is why, when they are all young and healthy, where are these smokes sending happy aspirations and struggles of lives from youngsters? For those who are healthy, life has so much to offer, why you wander, why ? Seek thy, seek …

So, the question of

“Who we are”, got lost in troubles, to many, to others who comes out of teenage happy, you are lucky ones, thanks to your family, classmates, friends and siblings, others handle life tougher, as you went through the hardships of life, you are more tougher, even though less richer, no comparison please, accept each others as what you all are, if you went through hardships to come out of teenage, then others too slopped day and night to clear the engineering exams.

“What we want” what remains is a nice girlfriend/boyfriend, nice marks in studies, something to spend time on (but addictions are off the table now). So what we want in teenage, more than this, some like to gaze at stars and moon for sure. More on it sooner.

And

“What life has to offer to us” what remains here, is blank space, and why to surmount them with tensions of an adult life, so how does it matter, as the teenagers grows in age, they in future would like to take up night shifts in a call center or some like to work in part time to know both life, profession and explore oneself, and then the youngsters starts to explore himself/herself as an individual to perform more or to earn more in same limited time. So they wait to understand what life has to offer us, and what we have to offer to life. P.S. there is a working age in each country, see the working age of youngsters in your country to apply for labor laws.

So no one rule for all, but it all boils down to finding and fulfilling dreams, dreams that make their sprits live, makes them feel good, not just …

Then an individual enters adulthood, ..

To be continued, ..

[passiveincomemoney]

The Journey to Financial Freedom: Understanding the Emotional Landscape

Financial freedom is a goal many aspire to achieve, yet it's not solely a matter of accumulating wealth. It's a multifaceted process that involves a profound understanding of one's emotional relationship with money. The path to financial independence is as much about personal growth and emotional intelligence as it is about financial acumen.

The Emotional Foundation of Financial Freedom

The quest for financial freedom often begins with a desire to break free from financial constraints and the stress they impose. However, achieving true financial independence requires more than just a solid financial plan; it necessitates an emotional transformation. This involves recognizing and overcoming the psychological barriers that can impede financial progress, such as fear of scarcity, anxiety over debt, or a mindset that equates self-worth with net worth.

Breaking Through Emotional Barriers

To navigate the emotional landscape of financial freedom, individuals must first identify their 'money blocks'—the subconscious beliefs and attitudes towards money that can sabotage financial goals. These blocks frequently stem from early life experiences and societal influences that shape our financial behaviours and attitudes.

One effective method for addressing these emotional barriers is through journaling and the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT). Journaling allows for reflection and identification of deep-seated beliefs, while EFT, a form of psychological acupressure, helps to release the emotional hold of negative financial experiences and beliefs.

Education and Mindset Shift

Alongside emotional work, education plays a crucial role in the journey to financial freedom. Understanding the fundamentals of money management, investment strategies, and wealth growth is essential. As highlighted in a TED Talk by Lawrence Ong, financial education is key to breaking the cycle of living pay cheque to pay cheque and moving towards financial independence.

The Role of Emotional Intelligence

Emotional intelligence is the ability to understand and manage one's emotions and the emotions of others. In the context of financial freedom, it means knowing how emotions influence financial decisions and having the ability to regulate those emotions to make better financial choices. It's about aligning one's financial decisions with long-term goals rather than short-term emotional responses.

Conclusion

The journey to financial freedom is not just a financial one; it's an emotional and educational process. By addressing the emotional aspects of money, breaking through psychological barriers, and acquiring financial knowledge, individuals can set themselves on a path to not just financial independence, but also to a more fulfilling and empowered life.

Achieving financial freedom is a complex endeavour that requires a holistic approach. It's a journey that involves much more than numbers—it's about transforming one's relationship with money on an emotional level and fostering a mindset of abundance and empowerment. With the right tools and mindset, the path to financial freedom becomes not just attainable, but also a journey of personal discovery and growth.

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A Message For The Young women

This is a special Message for girls who are 12 and up

You have the power

You have always had power in a relationship

you have a purpose

You just have to find it.

Dont do what society says

Society wants to tell you that a powerful woman sleeps with many men

No, you have more power than that. Yes you can manipulate men with your breasts and what is between your legs but that is cheating yourself

You are not held back by some all-scary patriarchy. First look at what a patriarch is, It is the oldest man in the family, ie your grandfather. If you are being held back by anything it is by your own thoughts.

Men find you sexier and more attractive when you dress up with a bit of modesty.

Wearing revealing clothes just makes you look easy when you are single. Yes, you can appear more sexy when worn from time to time. but that only fully works when you are married and you and your husband are out at a social event.

You have more power over men than feminists want to admit. You ask nicely and men will crawl across a desert of broken glass just to give you refreshing iced tea.

You do have to bring something a relationship what is it? Yes, we men are easy, just show us boobs and hand us a sandwich and we are generally happy creatures for the most part. Yet there is more. Men will work themselves to the bone for their woman but they want something for their efforts.

But we want our women to push us. to encourage us on our adventures. We want our beauties by our sides.

Do your damnedest to stay sexually pure. this is for your enjoyment as much as your husband. when you sleep with a guy outside of marriage you sadly cheapen yourself and at the same time, you rob your future husband of a fuller richer connection. Because we do take sex to mean more than just a quick release. Sex has a bigger meaning for men. It is how we see our worth. Is our wife willing to have sex with us after we have worked long and hard slaying dragons? No? then what is wrong with us? How and where did we men fail?

Understand that men do have emotions

Men do share their emotions. They just don't share them as women do.

We need other men around.

with out other men we lose the masculinity we need in our life

Don't try to fix men.

You will wonder where the man you fell in love with went.

Summary

In this episode, I address young women, from ages 12 to about 30, and discuss the challenges they face in finding a good partner in today's society. I emphasize the power that women already possess, contrary to societal messages that may suggest otherwise.

I highlight the importance of maintaining purity before marriage and the value it brings to a relationship. Additionally, I delve into the emotional aspects of men, the significance of male friendships, and the creation of value in relationships. I stress the role of personal growth and the importance of making choices that enhance one's value and contribute positively to relationships.

By challenging societal norms and encouraging individual empowerment, I aim to guide young women towards building fulfilling and successful partnerships in their lives.

00:00:00 Empowering Young Women 00:01:02 A Message for the Women 00:01:32 Addressing the Struggles 00:02:50 Finding Valuable Men 00:03:37 Sensitivity and Uncomfortable Truths 00:04:06 Embracing Your Power 00:04:29 Debunking Myths and Stereotypes 00:07:07 Decisiveness and Differences in Approach 00:07:57 Harnessing Your Power 00:09:06 The Value of Modesty 00:11:28 Understanding Men's Emotions 00:12:38 Importance of Quality Male Friendships 00:13:33 Building a Strong Relationship 00:16:30 Cherishing Your Identity 00:20:24 The Beauty of Sexual Purity 00:21:34 Emotional Expression in Men 00:24:15 The Weight of Sexual Choices 00:26:46 Importance of Mutual Respect 00:28:18 Impact of Social Circles 00:29:47 Learning from Mistakes 00:30:32 Contribution to Relationship Value 00:31:01 Investing in Future Relationships

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My real thoughts about the mass layoffs

These days I think the news about mass layoffs really is starting to change my perspective on work. It's something I'm contemplating more about whether I want to re-join the workforce or not. If I don't, then I really need to commit to a routine that's not a typical working schedule. I'm not exactly too deep into my career or anything. I only spent 6 years working after finishing school. But I don't think these wide scale layoffs are going to be the last of things. It won't be the norm, but it won't be a rarity either.

I think mass layoffs really suck for people who worked in their career for over 15-20 years. They have a family, and other living expenses. They probably worked hard to where they are, and they just pretty much got thrown out like trash. Not going to sugar coat the truth. When you get laid off, it's pretty cold and brutal. There's no emotions in regards to a business decision. But it makes you think those people probably placed all of their enthusiasm, energy, livelihood, happiness and fulfillment at their jobs. And now these layoffs put them in emotional and financial darkness as well. I can't say whether mass layoffs is justifiable or not because I don't have the numbers or details to how they make those decisions. But it does go against the narrative of the "american dream" in which finding a job leads to some stability and security. This sort of proves it doesn't always. It's kind of depressing to think that way, where people firmly believe their time at a job mattered but it didn't. All they did was making someone richer.

These days I don't even know how to approach a new job. Should I feel enthusiastic or apathetic so I don't involve my emotions? Logically, you shouldn't get too attached to your job, because they can end the working relationship anytime. So it would save your mental health by feeling no emotional attachment. But that kind of existence is kind of depressing. But, the more attached you do become to your job, the more traumatized you feel when you get terminated. It's sort of a like romantic relationship. That's why I think it's better not put all of your eggs in one basket, and try to seek fulfillment other then a job.

You start to wake up and question whether you want to spend another 20 years of your life chasing the rat race and then come to dead end. For me, I don't like the idea of depending my livelihood over to someone else, but that's exactly what being an employee is about. If it's not your typical day job, then I really need to figure out a career and lifestyle tailored to my needs. It's just really hard to let go of the previous idea where I wanted to work as designer at some company for a long time. However, I do think it's a better idea to decide early then when I reach 40 or 50 then have some mid life crisis if I get laid off again. The older you become, the more difficult it is secure stable employment.

Don't get me wrong though, I'm sure there's people who worked their entire lives as an employee and felt happy or fulfilled throughout their entire career. I don't think it's for me. It's kind of like school, I wasn't a great student because I really disliked the structural environment where you do assigned homework you don't really care about. I can't sit at a small desk doing the same homework, and being surrounded by people who don't really like you lol. It's a similar concept at work. You sit in a small cubicle, doing the same thing everyday in a highly structural environment, and being surrounded by people who don't really like you. It's your typical struggle of a creative person.

Truthfully, sometimes I wished was that normal student who actually likes school and get good grades and had a lot of friends. In a similar notion, I sort of wished I was a normal employee who actually like their job and make friendships at work. I just notice I'm not that type of individual. It gets really frustrating too, such as why am I always like this? I just abhor those lifestyles, it just feels so suffocating and limiting? I always question how can those people be so happy? The majority perceives it that way, it must be true. Well, it's like choosing a career. One career can outright make you miserable and make you feel like a failure, but it doesn't mean you are a failure. It just means you haven't really found the right lifestyle, the right people, and the right type of work that fits you. I'm constantly trying to figure that out because I obviously don't fit the mold of a "normal person."

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Love as a decision

A lot of people don't believe in the fairy tale idea of "Love". So much so, that most heterosexual relationships are based on necessity or objectives.

This is the basis of the idea of "Wife" as a profession.

In many cultures around the world, the wife is expected to be a servant and maid who keeps the house for the husband. (I will not argue against you if you're saying "well he's busy, and somebody needs to clean this house." You're not in that kind of relationship.)

There's certainly differences based on where you are on the wealth spectrum, but that's the framework set by society.

It's why "Stay at home Dad" is still a strange concept to many, and yet also tolerated.

Because the poorer think "Oh, well we both work so what's your problem?" And the richer say "Why don't you just hire a nanny? There's money to be made and philanthropy to do."

So who is saying there needs to be one parent working? I'm not arguing for or against, I'm pointing out the discourse and perspectives. It would obviously make both lives easier if both worked toward the same goal and found it fulfilling.

But many people see chores, as just that; chores. Those things you can get done in your free time.

You sleep at work, so you can spend time at home with your family doing chores together.

Later down the road, Husbands and Wives realize that there's another definition of "Love" something unreachable. Maybe even unrealistic.

Some confuse it for passion, the drive to do the ick.

Or the thrill; The early excitement when fooling around was something taboo and to do in secret where your parents couldn't catch you.

Rick and Morty fans know the phrase "Love is Work".

This idea that suffering together is the definition of Love. Instead weathering the storm with somebody you love.

Love is the decision to F*. Or to have children. Or to suffer together.

That's what they say anyway. The ethereal *Love* doesn't exist to many, a child's fantasy. If you're not buying and selling and conserving wealth, then it doesn't matter.

"We have children to help work the farm. we marry as a form of social currency. We marry, so that we get something tangible out of it."

A dowry, an heir, a codependency, a way out of debt. A way to freedom if you find somebody wealthy enough.

But "Love"--Not the unconditional love that can only come from God, or between a parent and child. You know what I mean by Love. And yet there's all these other definitions we use "love" and "lover" for instead.

Even husband and wife have that negative context to it.

I can love all the people I want, but if they don't love me back; it's not Love.

And there's people I've met that are more like siblings and family than actual blood relations. That's a Form of love.

But that one True Love. That everybody seems to be searching for, or settling for something else instead; what is that? And more than that: what is it worth?

Is it something we can only truly appreciate in the afterlife? Would we know if it bit us in the a*?

Even if we found it: how would we know that we weren't trying to sell ourselves this lie and creating a false sense of passion. Like striking gold, or oil. How would we know the thrill and novelty wouldn't just wear off like everything else does?

[harmonyhealinghub]

Cultivating a Life of Gratitude, Appreciation, and Countless Blessings

Shaina Tranquilino

October 12, 2023

It's easy to get caught up in our daily routines and forget to appreciate the simple joys that surround us. However, taking the time to acknowledge and express gratitude for the blessings we have can bring immeasurable benefits to our lives. In this blog post, we will delve into the transformative power of gratitude, appreciation, and counting our blessings.

1. The Power of Gratitude:

Gratitude is much more than merely saying "thank you." It is a mindset and an attitude that fosters happiness, contentment, and overall well-being. When we focus on what we are grateful for instead of dwelling on what we lack, our perspective shifts, allowing us to see opportunities and possibilities previously overlooked.

Practicing gratitude regularly has been scientifically proven to reduce stress levels, improve mental health, enhance relationships, and even boost physical health. By acknowledging the good in our lives - big or small - we create a ripple effect that positively impacts not only ourselves but also those around us.

2. The Art of Appreciation:

Appreciation goes hand in hand with gratitude; it involves recognizing the value and worth of people, experiences, nature's beauty, and everything else that enriches our lives. Taking a moment each day to appreciate the little things can lead to profound joy amidst life's challenges.

Expressing appreciation towards others strengthens relationships by fostering trust and connection. Whether it's a heartfelt compliment or a thoughtful gesture showing someone how much they mean to us, these acts of appreciation can make a significant difference in their lives too.

3. Counting Our Blessings:

Counting our blessings means consciously acknowledging all the positive aspects of our lives – from material possessions to cherished memories and personal achievements. While challenges may arise along life's journey, focusing on what brings us joy and fulfillment can help us navigate through difficult times with resilience.

Keeping a gratitude journal or reflecting on our blessings at the end of each day allows us to cultivate an attitude of abundance. It reminds us that even amidst hardships, there is always something to be grateful for. By shifting our focus from what we lack to what we already have, we create space for more blessings to enter our lives.

Gratitude, appreciation, and counting our blessings are powerful practices that can transform our lives in remarkable ways. Embracing these attitudes not only enhances our own well-being but also cultivates positive energy within our communities and beyond.

Let's make a conscious effort to express gratitude regularly, appreciate the people around us, and count our blessings every day. As we open ourselves up to a mindset of gratitude and appreciation, we'll find that life becomes richer, more meaningful, and filled with countless reasons to be thankful.

Remember: Gratitude is the key that unlocks the door to a truly fulfilled life. Start today and reap the rewards tomorrow!

[solarpunkpolliwog]

My hispanic community members are already being harassed IN PUBLIC just by your average Joe, and that's before policies kick in. The Dominican women I live next to are getting verbally assaulted, made fun of that Trump won, called heinous slurs, told them to "go back where they came from" in the middle of living their lives with no changes to the policies that protect us and in a blue state. It's super important and serious to ensure that we are doing what we can to protect more vulnerable populations in the face of massive suffering that will occur.

I think it's important for everyone, but especially for white people to force yourself outside of your baked-in community. Segregation still exists in our country, and very real policies and government actions made it possible for a lot of white people to live in almost literal bubbles away from bipoc people.

Find a nonprofit like a makerspace or a community that services the unhoused. Meet regularly with them (At least once a month, preferably more) for volunteer work or community meetings. Make sure you find a group that has more varieties of people in it. Are there less than 20% people that are bipoc? You need to find another group that represents more than white people.

Go to every regular meeting that they have. Ask questions about people's lives, overhear that someone needs something you have and offer it to them- build relationships with folks! It makes it possible for you to learn more about your community, how they are impacted differently than you, and make moves to protect them. It's also possible to have multiple intersected communities!

(I THINK that this is already well known, but just in case, I would also highly recommend combining that with only asking hard questions on the internet unless you do a check-in with someone very close about if those types of conversations are okay. If there are questions digging into bipoc people's experience that are potentially an invasion of their bodies, mind, or culture, ask the internet instead of them. Bipoc folks who are willing to examine those questions have already done the emotional labor to share their thoughts and you won't be forcing them to experience pain for your education without their consent.)

Intentional community building is not something we're trained to do. We're primarily trained to have neighbors, academic peers, and co-workers for friends. For me at least, it has sometimes been uncomfortable and terrifying, and I wanted to quit a couple of times, but it has made such a difference in how fulfilled I am by the connections I have. I get to ask myself questions about who I let into the varied spheres of my life, and I get to feel so much richer in how many people I get to interact and love in different ways.

All this to say, bipoc people and other vulnerable populations are in danger, and yes... Us lighter skinned queer folk who aren't in immediate hostile danger have a higher chance of being okay. I honestly am still grappling with not knowing exactly how bad the path our country is on, and not knowing if it could veer extremely badly or if we can band together enough to protect each other and make positive change. But for now, if we already have privileges, we need to unlearn how we've been trained to socialize, and be there for the people who need it most. I want to go beyond this, but if the only thing I do is hug my friend as she cries in my arms about how scared she is to survive even greater abuses from the world around her as an older Dominican immigrant, it will be worth it.

still a lot of "we'll survive, we did before" and not enough "here's how to prepare for the promised mass deportations and fight for people who may be facing racist policies come the new year" and "here is what we can do about how the climate may get worse in the coming years"

Like. Cool that you have confirmed that you as a white queer will probably be kind of okay. I need to see more about what we're going to be doing for people of color both in this country and outside of this country that are at risk of state brutalization, increasingly dangerous natural disasters, wars......

Too much placating. Not enough discussing plans of action.

Idk about y'all but I AM really afraid of the deportations that have been threatened, especially when the racism that pairs with it goes even beyond targeting illegal immigrants (which to be clear is still awful) but legal immigrants as well, and even people that white Americans think LOOK like they might be immigrants.

Get your shit together and start talking about what people of color need because right now we DESPERATELY need the help of white people, you are the ones who are safer in the face of the cops and ICE, you are the ones that the other racist white people will actually listen to when you cover for us. Please. If you've genuinely decided that you will be okay, then start getting out there for the people that definitely won't be.