#and honestly polyamory was too
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Seeing Challengers on tiktok (and sometimes other apps too) means having to deal with ppl constantly demonizing one of the three and the then insisting that the other two would be better off with each other (usually with patrick/art or patrick/tashi) despite the fact that all three of them are complex and flawed individuals who have done good and bad things throughout their live who quite obviously need each other in order to make their lives work
#challengers#challengers 2024#tashi duncan#patrick zweig#art donaldson#PLEASE PEOPLE#THINK#IT'S SO OBVIOUS THAT THEY NEED TO ALL BE IN EACH OTHERS LIVES#maybe im reading too far into it but bisexuality was definitely a big thing in this movie#and honestly polyamory was too#STOP TRYING TO MAKE THEM MOMOGAMOUS WHEN THAT OBVIOUSLY DIDN'T WORK AND PRACTICALLY RUINED ALL THREE OF THEIR LIVES
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I’m slowly being won over by monoshin over shinkami
#i still ship both tho#honestly polyamory solves this#denki can date ojiro and jirou too then#and Jirou can date momo as well#bnha#mha#monoshin#shinkami#hitoshi shinsou#shinso hitoshi#monoma neito#denki kaminari
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Nephrite / Naru Art I made, set in the 30th century in Crystal Tokyo after Nephrite has reincarnated (they are both in their 20s). I'm undecisive whether this is part of the same continuity as 512TR(ans) and most of my other NephNaru works, so you can interpret it how you wish (whether this Naru is cisgender or a transwoman, etc). There are also NSFW versions (for adults only) on my Bluesky account that show more of these scenes... though in this case you can't really see the naughtiest bits due to the pose, there's still more nudity than I'm willing to risk on tumblr, alas XD Also, this week is the LGBTQ Week event- this art is not for that event, but please check out that event anyway, there's a lot of beautiful art by other people! I hope to contribute a piece or two to it soon myself, with other pairings.
#naru osaka#osaka naru#molly baker#nephrite#neflite#neflyte#nephlite#sanjoin masato#masato sanjoin#maxfield stanton#molly#naru#nephritexnaru#nephrite x naru#NephNaru#Naru x Nephrite#dark kingdom#negaverse#shitennou#crystal tokyo#Also I like to think in the one where Naru is winking that maybe Naru is showing Umino something#Because I very much still ship Naru x Umino too#Honestly if you dig through my stuff long enough even though NephNaru is most common I'm really into all kinds of wacky polyamory ships#Speaking of which...
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Man I'm tired-
Hey, psst @con-cognito, a lil gift for u just bc I wanted to draw :3
#fell sans#swap sans#blue Sans#sans#sanscest#polyamory#classiccherryberry#is that the name?#idk too lazy to care-#no more tags im tired man#hey psst random person if you're reading this go into my ask box and ask for ur fav ship#honestly this drawing kinda ugly**dies#UwU
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No because I've seen so many people complaining about Joseph cheating being out of character when the first thing I said when I found out was "oh yeah checks out lol" .
#and i couldn't give less of a fuck btw he can do whatever he wants#honestly have you seen him suzi knew what she was getting into by dating him#in fact i'm surprised it took him so long 💀💀💀💀#i keep saying joseph is just extremely poly but he doesn't know that is an option#rip joseph joestar you would've loved open relationships and polyamory#no but seriously what he did is fucked up but it's not out of character 😭😭#impulsive flirty little shit#and he feels guilty too like what else do you want from him a written apology what's done is done bro#also we got josuke???#say it with me!!!!! your fav character doing something you don't like doesn't mean they're out of character!!!!!#joseph joestar my beloved idc they could never make me hate you#joseph joestar#jojo's bizarre adventure
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Happy Pride Month from the Maficule in Ye Olden Days™️!
(This art in particular is of them when they were just starting out - not romantic nor poly at this point, and barely even a mafia)
#you can tell its early mafia days because of the lack of wrinkles but also because Abram looks like he just went through a wood chipper#he's up walking though which is definitely an improvement on his state for the first couple of weeks he was with them#this is also likely the beginning of his arc to being ambidextrous#you can describe Kalayavan as a brute but unfortunately he knows enough to break the dominate arm when his opponent is skilled with knives#honestly all the aside. early mafia is some of my favorite overall#phillip is filled to the brim with confidence and has almost no idea what hes doing#seraphine knows what shes doing all too well and her frustration with the incompetent blond bimbo shes working for is justified every time#and then one day phillip comes back with a half-dead son of the Marama clan in the back of his car begging Sera to let him keep it#i love em so much#phillip varic#seraphine avent#abram marama#isfd phillip#isfd seraphine#isfd mask#isfd abram#isfd maficule#maficule#isfd polymurdery#polymurdery#isfd mafia#isfd#pride month#happy pride 🌈#polyamory#polyam relationship#polyam pride#mafia polycule#its gotta be so embarrassing for mask & Sera to realize they liked Phillip. a white guy was bad enough. but a BLOND white guy? do better smh
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This is amazing you are amazing I love you
Wow finding love on Tumblr dot com in the year 2024. Who would have thought?
Happy Valentine's Day! The California State Library loves you too! And also the state employee who runs this account because that's who is writing this, am I breaking the fourth wall too much or—
#honestly not sure which recent post(s) this is referring to but its still valentine's day so let's spread the love#i am assuming its the one about supporting library polyamory and i love that one too#happy valentines day tumblr user burntowl25#libraries#asks
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Hate to say it... But I am guilty of the Genshin self insert crime. Twice. Their names are Micha and Glenn respectively. And no, they’re not in the same AU, they’re for different settings for different types of cringe maladaptive daydreaming. (The kind where I kiss men!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)
#boy kisser#I kiss boys#but mostly only fictional boys#mostly#exceptions are possible#I love Kaveh Genshin Impact and I want him so bad goddamn#And his roommate too honestly#Polyamory is the new hot trend!!#Genshin#Genshin Impact#Genshin Impact oc#Genshin oc#dendro oc#Bunny rabbit fr#Perfect for easter#Ignore the fact that easter was a few days ago#Micha is short as shit lol#Glenn isn't much better but bunny rabbit tiny#sumeru oc#sumeru#Don't ask about Micha's braid#I know it isn't visible I'll make a reference for it eventually#Oc#Fan character#I miss when people used FC for fan characters instead of OC for every type of character
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okay but. stranger things challengers au when hrjskskdjsms
#my FIRST thought was steve and tommy and carol bc HELLO mean girls trio is PERFECT for toxic polyamory fjsjsk#and carol ABSOLUTELY fits the tashi mold#and then steve would be patrick and tommy would be art i think#BUT if you wanted to steddify it instead it could go two ways i think —#either steve and eddie and NANCY (if edancy is your thing) bc nancy feels like she could fit the tashi mold soooo well#and then HERE steve would actually be art and eddie would be patrick#OR#it could be steve and eddie and CHRISSY#and ik chrissy may seem too sweet or meek to be tashi but shes a blank enough canvas that she can be shaped into that#and with her as tashi i could honestly see it either way with steve and eddie and art and patrick like either could be either here#ANYWAYS#y e a h#just love the bisexualness and the love and resentment and the hatred and the devotion and the yearning#its SO GOOD and i wanna see my blorbos like that dhsjsksk#stranger things#challengers
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recommendations for resources or reading material about queer polyamorous relationships?
#lgbtqia#polyamory#now i swore to myself i’d never be in a monogamous relationship#even the word ‘relationship’ and the weight it carries in my head is pretty scary#but i may or may not have entered a poly relationship with this person i’ve been seeing for a few months now#we discussed it and it doesn’t entail much besides what we’ve already been doing honestly#but tbh i’m really scared of this and i can’t quite put my finger on why#and i’ve told this person too even as i agreed to try this out#idk…i’ve never been in a relationship let alone a queer one and let alone a poly one#a relationship that i have an idea on how to tackle only as a theory in my head from what i’ve read about it recently#i don’t think it’s that serious because again we haven’t changed much of what we’ve been doing but idk like i said#i feel like there’s a new weight and i’m nervous about it#help#michi yaps
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UPDATE TO THE UPDATE THEY ARE NOW A THRUPLE
#idk if I spelt that right but yeah#it was leaning aro because oh him having a long lament about not loving people correctly and I was like ‘it’s platonic!’ but really it was#polyamory and honestly that’s some good ass representation too
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My looooooove this is so fun, I am hype. Can I please have my OC x Marco and Ace? oooor if I can just have one boy.. Marco? thank you <3 I hope I filled this out right.. [what I asked for might just suit Marco but if your up for a challange..]
Cream Poprocks Alcohol Mind eraser/motor oil/Jager Bomb/Pink Schnapps[OC is sub]/ Mochi Ice Cream coffee
Man big list -sweating-
I love you <3
Well, I hope you enjoy your date!
Date Night Event!
Warnings: (Background/implied yandere behavior). Car sex, sex as a tool for manipulation, slight voyer/exhibitionism kink, rough sex, dom/sub behavior, degradation (whore and slut used), and spit roast (simultaneous sexual intercourse on both ends).
Word count: 2,468
The atmosphere was cheerful, gaudy Valentine’s day decorations decorating the venue in a somewhat restricted array of white, pink, and red hues. Chocolate candies at every table and an excessive amount of food with food dye in them offered at a buffet table. Ray nibbled on a small sandwich, having removed a heart-and-arrow pick out of it for his own safety. He didn’t strictly… mind the holiday. Free candy is free candy, even if it had cheesy phrases plastered everywhere. At least this free candy didn’t have a one-in-five chance of secretly being a set up for a scare.
Well, unless you were really terrified of commitment.
Ray leaned against the wall, tilting his head to rest against Marco’s arm as he enjoyed a pineapple drink with pink food dye. Ace was prowling the food table as he stacked an increasing amount onto his plate. Ray snorted as Ace snapped his teeth at someone for trying to swipe from his plate. Ray suspected that he was raised by wild animals sometimes and Ace rarely did anything to prove otherwise. What was worse—he was cute enough to get away with being a feral bastard.
Marco and Ray had to act civilized if they wanted to get anything done while Ace ran wild, confident that his cute freckles will get him out of trouble. Truly, the real tragedy of their tri-relationship was that it wasn’t that far off from being the truth.
“At least he’s getting his fill now.” Ray mused, munching on another sandwich slice. Marco snorted, Ray’s lip twitching as he already knew what his partner was going to say.
“So confident this will even make a dent? I don’t know where the fuck he puts it…” Marco complained with a playful glare in Ray’s direction. Seems he was still put out that he lost a bet and had to cover groceries for the rest of the year… fair enough.
“Well, some days all I have is hopes and dreams. Let me believe in a lie for a few hours, alright?” Ray snarked, stealing Marco’s drink for a sip. Marco amicably allowed the theft before giving Ray a soft peck. “Why are we here anyway? I know you’re a sap, but this is a bit much, even for you.”
“Well, I thought the atmosphere would help.” Marco shrugged. Ray paused.
“Help what? Cause as much as I want to believe, we both know Ace will eat his bodyweight in food tonight no matter how tall his plate gets.” Ray eyed Ace as he made his way back to them.
Ace beamed, practically skipping as he effortlessly balanced his food. To Ray’s surprise, he handed a few choice items over without any fuss.
Marco accepted the pineapple jelly with a fond smile as Ray took a cup of chocolate mousse.
“A treat for my future husbands!” Ace crowed proudly. Marco scowled, tsking at Ace.
“I didn’t get to tell him yet.” Ray glanced between the two in confusion.
“Uh… what? Was the food spiked with something, Ace? You’re not normally this bold.” Ray distracted himself from the chastised expression the younger man had. He grimaced and shrugged.
“Sorry. Got too excited.” He excused. Marco sighed, swallowing the pineapple jelly in a single toss of his head. Marco looked down at Ray apologetically.
“There was a business deal with Ace’s bio family. It was sealed with an ‘arranged marriage’. Really, I think Roger just wanted to argue with Pops for a few weeks.” Ray frowned.
“An arranged marriage? In this day and age? With who?! Do we need to sneak you out of the country, baby?” Ray asked in concern. Ace looked pleased as he shook his head.
“No, Ray. It’s with us. Since Roger kept arguing about Ace keeping his family name, Pops decided to force the issue. Now, we’ll all have the same last name.” Marco said, quite pleased with himself. Ray wrinkled his nose in displeasure.
“Why is our relationship being used as a bartering tool?” Ray sneered. He wasn’t against marriage, particularly to Ace or Marco, but being told he had to… irked him. Ace grimaced again mid-bite.
“It’s not! This is just for convenience! Uhm! Legal convenience!” Ace stammered, quickly correcting himself as Marco gave him a look. “Ah… I hope you’re not mad at us. I… I thought it was a nice idea.” Ace sighed, nibbling at a chocolate bar. He looked like a sad puppy being left at a kennel.
Ray scowled anyway, though his heart twisted uncomfortably as Ace visibly shrunk into himself. Marco, usually the more mature and laid back on between them, also seemed to be folding in on himself. Seemingly upset to have put Ray in this awkward position.
Really, it was more about the principal of the matter. If he was going to get married to anyone, he wanted to be involved from the start! Not told that it was practically a done deal! Who the hell wants that? Frustrated at being surprised like this and guilty that his partners were upset, Ray sighed.
“I’m not mad… I just… need to go for a walk.” Ray hissed, certain that the fresh air would soothe his nerves so he could properly address this new issue.
“Ah! Ray! Wait!”
“Don’t… let him walk. We’ll catch up in a minute.” Marco soothed Ace as Ray exited the venue. He was glad they didn’t make a reservation at a restaurant or something. It would be harder to casually shoot the breeze outside if he had to worry about finding his seat again later.
The chilly late-winter air settled heavy in Ray’s lungs as he paced. Muttering angrily to himself. Rapidly flipping through his many issues with the situation.
First off, he wanted to know where Roger and Pops got off deciding their sons’ relationships like that! All of them were too old to be corralled into ‘proper’ relationships. Though at the very least they had enough sense to not break them apart.
He also wanted to know why he was the last one to know. Ace seemed fine with it—likely a combination of legally getting to change his name and not seeing the issue with it. But Marco and himself were independent adults and have been for years. How was he just finding out about this? And not even from them.
A massive part of his life just… just… written off as a trade deal?! What the fuck?!
Marco and himself had never really needed to fancy papers to determine their relationship. Adding Ace into that, while quite an eventful time, didn’t take away the legitimacy of their bond either. So to imply that they needed it after all these years was insulting. And weird. Why now? What changed?
Roger and Pops had been arguing about Ace for years now… seems odd that it was suddenly resolved and Ray didn’t hear about it until now. And with such a weird solution too…
“Babe, get in. You’ll catch a cold out here.” Ray jerked, looking towards the street next to him where Marco was pulled up beside him in a bright blue bug. Ace looked at him from the window with a despondent expression.
He only realized then that his nose was frozen. Tips of his fingers numb with he venue quite a ways behind him.
Huffing, Ray clambered into the backseat. The front occupied with boxed up leftovers that Ace was sure to clear out by the end of the day.
Ace leaned against the door, giving Ray space as he kept his chin tucked into his clavicle.
“I’m not mad at you guys.” Ray sighed, rubbing his cold nose. “Just frustrated with the surprise.” Ace looked at him with hopeful eyes as Marco smiled.
“Yeah. We could have broken the news better. I’m sorry, yoi.” Marco apologized as he started driving. Ace reached over slowly and pulled Ray into a blissfully warm embrace.
“I’m sorry you have to get married because of me.” Ace whispered into his chest. Ray felt his heart break a little at that.
“What? No, baby that’s not what I’m upset about!” Ray wrapped his arms around Ace’s back, rubbing up and down his spine as Ace squeezed him tightly. “This is just something I would have preferred to be included in deciding! Just between the three of us.” Ray clarified softly.
Ace pressed his lips against Ray’s throat.
“You promise?” Ace sighed, sucking a harsh mark on his skin. Ray shuddered, squirming in the seat while Marco kept his eyes on the road, smirking.
“C-Course I do! S-Sssshit Ace, easy~!” Ray whined, feeling his lover’s teeth sink in deeper. His seat belt clicked open audibly as Ace pulled his hips closer. “M-Marco has to pay attention to the ro—ahn~!” Ray squeezed his eyes shut as Ace slipped his hand under Ray’s pants. Curling his fingers over his clit and teasing him.
“Oh, I’m perfectly capable of driving like this, babe. Ace? Keep your clothes on. We can punish him for hurting your feelings at the house.” Marco said dryly as Ace sank another finger into Ray’s cunt. “Try not to make a mess back there. I know it’s hard for you sometimes being soaked for us.”
Ace grinned down at him hungrily as Ray steadily sank into the seat. Sliding beneath Ace as Marco kept driving.
“What? Can’t drive straight if I fuck him in the backseat?” Ace asked with a sly glance. Ray could barely see Marco, his upper body now flat as his legs twisted with mounting pleasure. Ace shoved up his shirt, peppering bite marks around his binder. “He does get wet awful fast for a slut, I’ll give you that. I like that about him though.”
“We’re on the highway, Ace. I can’t exactly pull over to join you two.” Marco reminded him as Ray gasped, his binder unclipped and allowing Ace to continue his assault on his bare breasts. Ace’s hand still toying with his cunt as he did so.
“All that fuss about getting married. Tsk. Bet if we were on the backroads Marco could pull over for a spit roast. You’d like that, right? Can’t complain with your mouth full.” Ace snarked against Ray’s bruised tit. “He’s so wet, Marco. I think he really likes getting toyed with in the backseat.”
“…”
“A-Ace! Oh fuck hnn~!” Ray threw his head back, nails digging into the arm rest above him as Ace bit the other side of his neck, thumb heavy on his clit. He shuddered, gasping and trembling as he came.
“What pretty sounds you make, Ray.” Marco mused, turning the car somewhere. “Is it really any wonder we want to make you ours forever? Bet he’s making a mess back there, isn’t he Ace?”
Ace chuckled against Ray’s throat.
“Course he is. You know how much of a slut he is.” Ace agreed, much to Ray’s dizzy surprise.
“You’re right… we’re off the highway now. You have fifteen minutes before I join you two. Better make it count, babe.” Marco warned lowly. “And if you get seen you have to wear a cock ring for a month.”
Ace’s head shot up before ducking down below the window line as he cursed. Yanking a blanket over them both as he pulled down Ray’s pants.
“Fine. You won’t be a fucking tease for me, right Ray? Going to make you scream like a whore.” Ace laid down over Ray, knocking the air from his lungs as he thrust in balls deep. Ray couldn’t help but gasp in shock as Ace held him down into the seat as he set to beating Marco’s time limit. “Let’s make Marco jealous he has to drive. C’mon. Say his name for me.” Ace panted, fucking Ray into the seat with considerable force.
Ray’s every breath being jackhammered out of him as Ace pulled his hair, forcing him to expose his neck for more hickeys and bites. His cunt burning from the fast pace. In spite of this—or maybe because of it—Ray could feel himself begin to tremble. Gasping and moaning as asked while Ace kept mocking him for it.
“Marc—oh~! Ah! M-Ma—ah—co~!” Ace laughed, forcing his thighs to spread out on the backseat. Ray wasn’t sure if it was the rapidly approaching climax or if he could feel Marco speeding up.
“Just like that! What a slut! Begging for someone else while I make you scream. Is this not good enough for you?” Ace smirked. The wet sound of him driving Ray mad audible over the dull hum of the engine.
“Yes! Y-Yes! A-Aceee~!” Ray cried out, shuddering as he clamped down on Ace so hard his cunt ached. Ray distantly heard Marco clear his throat but if anything, the sound motivated Ace to start moving faster.
The car door was yanked from Ray’s grip, dull garage lights visible suddenly as a blurry figure leaned over him. Hands held his head back as Marco leaned in close enough to accommodate Ray’s lack of vision. His glasses nowhere to be seen.
“You worried us, you know.” Marco said softly into Ray’s ear over the sound of wet sex and Ray’s own pitiful moans. “Running out into the cold like that, yoi. But you’ll make it up to us, won’t you slut?”
Ray whined as his thighs began to ache but Marco kept staring down at him with a dark smile. He kissed Ray once, a lingering soft kiss against Ace’s harsh thrusts.
There was the sound of a zipper as he stood up again. Ray squeezed his eyes shut as Marco’s hard cock pressed against his lips. Dazed and rapidly becoming overstimulated, Ray allowed Marco access. Ace’s hand pressed firmly over his throat as Marco slid inside. He struggled to breathe past the thick obstruction but managed. Barely.
“Fuck that’s hot. Think you can still say his name? You’re such a talented whore, I’m pretty sure you can. Go on. Show us.” Ace gripped Ray’s hips, tilting them up to reach deeper as he licked along Ray’s throat. Biting firmly for a long moment, forcing Ray to moan hard on Marco’s cock. “Our slut.” Ace sneered.
Ray moaned around Marco’s cock as hands gently cradled his face, holding him in place. Balls coming to rest firmly against his nose as he pressed in deep. Marco groaned and chuckled.
“Yeah, babe. Show us what our little slut can do, yoi.”
Ray barely had the presence of mind to cry out at this point. Sore and bruised, he took everything they gave him. Even though his thighs trembled and cunt ached from Ace’s abuse. And his throat burned around Marco’s relentless cock.
Because regardless of the future, he was theirs.
“Our slut.”
#one piece smut#polyamory#portgas d ace#fire fist ace#marco the phoenix#OC#AceXOCXMarco#honestly not sure how well the degredation came out ngl#end part was a last minute decision too#gtg my laptop is dying lmao#let me know if i need to adjust anything!
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Simultaneously want to write horrific transformation whump with Starling and gay shit where Flint and Oath are so homo for each other
#elec rambles#yes i ship flint and oath#THEYRE GOING TO GET CHARACTER DEVELOPMENT#AND CHANGE N STUFF#also i was like ‘what if i just made my ocs poly’ and now starflint#and oathflint exist#albeit i dont talk about them here much bc. idk i feel like it needs to happen in the story for it to matter idk#maybe i should talk about them more tho#like ok flint and oath are gonna do your classic enemies to lovers things where you know. they go through changes and fall for each other#yada yada cliched but honestly. with my ocs i eat that trope up#and then like. they dont confess and eventually flint gets a turn to get whumped!! and romance kind of needs to take a backseat#even though rheres something obviously going on with flint and starling too and oath is like 🤨 girl#not because flint has two crushes polyamory is actually like. accepted in angel society but hes like. . what is up with you two#anyway yeah just thinking about gay ass men being vulnerable#thinking about them holding each other gently you know how it is
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gdi am i gonna end up writing morticia/larissa fic? i don’t need another wednesday ship to write for
... but the idea of polyam bisexual morticia and supportive himbo gomez may be too much for me to resist tbh
#larticia#i guess#look i can't bring myself to split up or villainize gomez#he loves his wife so much and morticia has two hands#and honestly the addams wouldn't bat an eye at polyamory#lowkey loving the idea of larissa & morticia reconnecting bc of wednesday attending nevermore and exploring what could have been#and oops turns out larissa was an oblivious sapphic who mistook being jealous OF gomez as being in love WITH gomez#also i find the idea of short king - tall queen - tallest queen to be hilarious#if you added one more they'd be verizon bars#obligatory 'i'm not calling her mom' from wednesday too#morticia/larissa
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brb gonna go write the most horrendously dysfunctional lukadrienette fic bc that's exactly how i think they would work in a relationship together
#let's go#hills i'll die on#it'll be entertaining as fuck don't get me wrong#but i think marinette would be the only happy one jdfslkafjds#they would depend wayyyyyy too much on luka to mediate#people saying polyamory would fix the situation#i honestly don't htink so in this case#i could write and entire essay and multichap series about this#i just mIGHT#it would be funny#i have so many thoughts on this#a fic for another time jfdklsafdsa
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okay i know i just reblogged this with some tags but this is just so important to me and i have so much more to say and it's pride month so let's talk about gender in fantasy/sci-fi
(WARNING: rant incoming) so, i recently read "the sound of stars" by alechia dow (because it was marketed to me as a book with (demi-)ace representation) which is about an alien species invading earth and for whatever reason those aliens have exactly the same genders as us humans. like one of the main characters is an alien and ha apparently loves labels and he explains that their genders are male, female or nonbinary, which i mean is fine, at least it acknowledges that the gender binary is bullshit but like they are aliens? why do they have the same gender as we do? not even other human civilization have/had the same genders as our current western ones. sure it is later explained that some of those aliens are genetically engineered to be like humans but that's about sex, not gender. i got so mad especially since this book focused on labels so much but kind of in the way that like you have to be male, female or nonbinary as if there's nothing in between when ITS A SPECTRUM. you could do so much with a different species, like give them 17 genders or none or whatever but just don't do this boring nonsense of our current western human gender. it feels like a queer book for straight people (which is okay because it might introduce those concepts for people but i was disappointed))
now let's contrast this to "witch king" by martha wells which is arguably a way different setting since it plays in a fantasy world and isn't about aliens. still why is the gender of those other humans more alien to our current culture than that of fucking aliens?????? the main character is a demon which inhabits the body of a woman and later that of a man but he is still always male. and yes there can be made a point that the gender of those demons is also highly like that of humans but first, i don't feel like we learned that much about the demons' genders and secondly the demon and human civilization are deeply intertwined which means it makes sense for them to influence each other. also women traditionally wear pants, men wear skirts, only women fight in the army and long hair is generally seen as genderless which is just so refreshing. i bet there were more things that i just missed while listening to the audiobook but gender just seems so fluid and different in this civilization (and it is very casually mentioned which just makes it seem more natural)
so in conclusion fantasy/sci-fi books are better if their gender (and sexuality) norms are just a little off from our current ones (some good ones that i can think off at the top of my head are fifth season & the murderbot diaries but if anyone has recommendations, please tell me). it makes the whole book seem more fantastical and interesting because you honestly can't tell me that this whole other civilization evolved exactly the same societal norms & expectations as ours
In fantasy/sci-fi worldbuilding, I am so delighted when the author takes the opportunity to do some gender fuckery. And the more books I read that do this, the more I’m like, yes of course! You’re making up a whole civilization—why wouldn’t you fuck around with gender?
#honestly i feel like i could write a whole paragraph about sexuality and polyamory in fantasy too#or about gender in general but that is just so complicated#main point is: gender is bullshit (unless you choose it)#i also wanted to rant about the sound of stars for a while#like it is meant as this progressive and diverse book but it just does not feel queer enough#also shout-out to murderbot for its excellent representation#the sound of stars#witch king#martha wells#murderbot diaries#the murderbot diaries#the fifth season#what even is gender#gender#queer#fantasy#scifi#pride
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