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Hey is it me or River Cartwright is a kind of shitty spy?
#river cartwright#like he's better than Johnny English alright but he's kinda bad#especially when it comes to hold a cover. I'm on season 2 and I have seen both Sid and Lamb pretending to be someone else and they do it wa#better than River. Hell Hassan the Pakistani guy from S1 lies more believably than River.#Don't get me wrong I love River hebis such a loser (affectionate) but is it only me or does he suck a little hit at his job?#it's not like the rest of 'MI-Fucking-Useless' is that spectacular either (except maybe for Lamb and Catherine) but what I am saying is#is there a general consensus in rhe fandom that River is at average level of skill among the members of Slough House?#I don't mean to offend Slough House but do you know what I mean when I say he probably belongs there right?#maybe it's just me and I didn't mean to insult your fave sorry again I do like River and I also do like him because he's a bit of a failure#I'm only on season 2 though#slow horses
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started watching kabhi main kabhi tum and I’m afraid the yearning levels are diabolical rn

#NO SPOILERS!!!#kabhi main kabhi tum#pakistan#pakistani drama#pakistani cinema#and oml ive already been yearning so much the past month AND THIS HAS MADE IT WORSEEEEE#I am obsessed though#my new brainrot fr oml I have the urge to gif / edit soooo badly rn#I’m resisting every urge to go look through the tag rn#maru speaks
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It's wedding season y'all
#gonna tag this with all the specific niches so don't mind me#south asian#desi wedding#pakistani wedding#pakistan#mehndi#henna#muslim#ctpsd#weddings#family trauma#emotional neglect#eh good enough#weddings are one big giant red trigger button#and not because “oh no im single”#but because it's just one giant reminder of the gaping hole that family trauma left me with#to have the hypothetical wedding i want id have to break so many barriers#fight so many fights#i am not in the place where i have enough boundaries to be able to fight for myself if that happened#only when i feel secure enough in my ability to stand up for myself will i even consider a wedding
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Guys…guys there’s ice cream in the ice cream container?! Okay well technically ite not an ice cream container it’s just a regular dabah.
But there’s no daal or anything else in it?! What is happening?!
This has never happened before.
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It sucks when you learn something new which might be the answer to a question you've had for a while but you don't even know where to start to see if it really is the answer.
#liv won't shut up#the context: i am a white & from the us. but i have dark hair eyes & skin. dark enough skin that i get asked a lot if i'm latina. usually#latina (which i think matches my appearance the most) but i've gotten native american pakistani (okay that one makes no sense but whatever)#& a few others. thing is i know a lot of my family history. my family has been in the us for quite a few generations but before that my#ancestors were from england & scandinavia mainly though due to history i can assume i have french & german ancestry as well. & um these#countries arent known for dark complexions. so then ppl are always surprised. convo usually goes like this#person: where are you from?#me: the us#person: & your parents? what is your ancestry?#me: my family has been here for generations but before that they were from england & scandinavia mainly.#person: really? because you don't look like it. you look latina. where did your complexion come from?#me: idk how would i know?#well i recently learned about a group in scandinavia called the sami. they're originally from siberia but many moved to scandinavia#centuries ago. & they have darker complexions. so now i'm wondering if at some point i had ancestors that were sami from scandinavia#& if there genes just kept getting passed down until me#but man i do not have the time to figure that out#like i dont *need* to know i'll be fine. but i've always been curious & it would give me an answer to tell ppl that ask#also btw it isnt just white americans asking if i'm poc. lots of poc ask too. i'm working at a mexican restaurant & i get asked all the tim#there if i'm latina bc “i look like everyone else there”#but it would be nice to have an answer besides “idk” when someone asks why i have my complexion#at least i know what line it comes from. my dad & grandpa look like me too#& also got asked a lot if they were latino. even more than me. my grandpa is from southern arizona. we have a white american as heck last#name so everyone thought his dad was american & his mom mexican (nope). then he moved when he married my grandma to my grandmas#home town so then all of them saw this guy from arizona moving in with darker skin & also assumed he was at the least biracial.#then ppl thought my dad was biracial too bc he's the son of the random arizonan with darker skin#so i know wherever i got this gene comes from came via my grandpa
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meri kismat ke har ek panne pe mere jeete jee baad marne ke mere har ek kal har ek lamhe mein tu likh de mera usse
#maya ali#wahaj ali#pakistani fashion#they should've given him another outfit here but whatever#hers is 😍#instagram quality is still awful to work with#i probably should wait until they release a full vid on yt for better quality but i am impatient
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Granted I have the overall geographical and cultural knowledge of a 4th grader but from what I can tell the nuclear family model really does seem to be a white colonial invention
Different cultures have different approaches but I mainly hear about either large family units where multiple generations support each other and raise their children and grandchildren together or an "it takes a village" approach where children are raised somewhat communally
And I can't really speak on it much or claim that these families were free of abuse or that children aren't often an oppressed group basically everywhere I know of but the way ownership of your children is so engrained into white society is so bizarre
Like once you notice it you can't unnotice it even the most loving well meaning parents don't know what to do about it because everyone is so isolated from their own families and their own communities so you wind up with 1-2 parents who have full legal ownership of their child and are raised in a culture where you don't have personhood until you're 18 and all attempts at self actualization before them are seen as clueless rebellion. Like our culture is so divorced from the concept that a parent is someone who is helping mentor and care for their child so they can thrive as a fellow human being and it's actually so alarming
And ik this problem isn't unique to white and colonized people but it's honestly really soothing to hear about how other cultures approach and view parenting and community as a whole and to internalize it doesn't have to be this way
#like i was reading a book by Sabaa Tahir who's Pakistani#and the perspective on parenthood portrayed in it so healing#like when Salahuddin mentions that his mom taught him not to thank his parents growing up#''Ama taught me that saying thank you to your own parents is unnecessary. Akin to thanking your lungs for breathing. The times I tried#she looked at me like I’d rejected Saturday-morning paratha.''#and like obviously the idea isn't that your kids should be ungrateful im assuming that it's their behavior and overall respect thats thanks#but as someone who was raised thanking everyone for everything especially my parents no matter what it really stood out bc even little stuff#like that can make a huge difference yk? since I can remember white adults particularly my parents taught me i was a burden#and that their taking care of me was an act of kindness rather than a responsibility and I don't think it's some big conspiracy to make kids#feel horrible but it's not really teaching gratitude it's just teaching guilt#thats just one example tho#I also am at the extreme end of white cultural isolation (neither of my parents are close to their families we've never lived near them and#they specifically isolate us from everyone so the difference is a lot more drastic for me than it probably is a lot of other people#but when i hear ppl being close to their neighbors or anyone that lives near them i go a little insane with longing tbh#like what is that like? to grow up in an environment where your world is more than just your parents approval?#where there's some kind of insulation between you and all of your parents problems bc there is no one else#this was not a ramble with any kind of conclusion tho akehrjdhr#and once again I am absolutely not saying that child abuse is uniquely white bc. el em ey oh thats not how any of this works#it's just that white cultures view on children is sickening
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lmaooo fuck I just saw a tweet raging about DT not winning a bafta (it was never going to happen for this, trust me) and claiming it's due to homophobia when the winner in his category was mawaan rizwan, an actual gay man, for his performance in a show based on his own life. as a gay man. 💀
#i just tried to search for it again so i could screenshot & im guessing they sebsibly deleted 💀#just seen another hating on mawaan and claiming the result was rigged#anger over a gay pakistani man winning an award: daily mail readers or good omens fans? you decide!#anyway mawaan i love you but i am always going to associate you with taskmaster
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Guess who just got given some cassette tapes 😏😏😏
#we have bruce springsteen - mo better blues (?) - random pakistani music - bjork - and a mixtape!!!#i am about to have much fun#i have kept this casette player for years but never used it because we dont have any fucking casettes#anyways will report back 🫡#le text post
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i just remembered this one time someone described my skin colour as "caramel mixed with a bit of white chocolate" please just call me a dirty Paki instead, cheers.
#SOBBING#i am fully Pakistani in terms of ethnicity. btw#I THOUGHT PEOPLE DESCRIBING POC SKIN AS FOOD WAS A MYTH#NOPE
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Sid. Sid ily ty for Pathaan and War and sh*t but we were doing so well until the 'POK will turn into IOP if you f*ck around and find out' line in the Fighter trailer like what are we doing. what are we trying to achieve pls help me out here
#film: fighter (2024)#fighter#fighter 2024#hrithik roshan#deepika padukone#anil kapoor#bollywood#local gay watches Bollywood.txt#hot people and possible queer ships aside why am i seeing the 'dangerous Pakistani' tropes on the horizon. i hope i'm wrong#and this guy is a rogue f*cking agent who has access to the military like Emraan was in Tiger 3 but. Kashmir. we're talking#about Kashmir here we know how touchy that is already. we know how the Indian government has dealt with the Kashmir issue#and it's frankly appalling so if this ends up being a propaganda film i am going to have to personally rewrite the sh*t out of it#God pls i just want to see Deepika and Hrithik go from rivals to lovers that's all i ask don't do this to me.
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🎶Aasmano se utaara ✨noor✨ hai koi🎶
(Divine light has been brought down from the sky)
🎶Aisa lagta hai....ki ✨hoor✨ hai koi🎶
(It looks like there might be an angel)

#my desi friends would know what these lyrics mean#I think these lines really suit sasuke as his beauty is heavenly#I know the translation is not 100% accurate...i dont think I can translate the “vibes” yk...#The urdu lines are so beautiful and poetic..while english translation kinda lame#But the actual does fits sasuke completely...his stunning beauty and unattainable vibes he gives#I am just following kishimoto's vision..sasuke is supposed to be the most gorgeous looking in the narutoverse#Him and baano have the “loss of innocence” theme in the common#pro sasuke#pro sasuke uchiha#pro uchiha sasuke#dastaan#pakistani drama#I am literally just going to post urdu songs and shayaris dedicated to sasuke from now on#It will be a form of therapy for me#Spotify
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Sometimes i feel like im lying about my ethic background even though i quite literally am not but im like girl you look too white to be saying youre afghan just say youre from ohio or something
#my silly little posts#but i do lie about being half Colombian because well i quite frankly am only 1/4#but im not gonna be like ‘oh im 1/4 colombian 1/4 pakistani’ no one cares about your ethnicity math division#and i dont know shit abt pakistan vs literally being raised around colombians so its different
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In the balcony where they first met, destiny reunites them after five years. Amongst the celebration of a friend's wedding, Rumi and Sonia’s eyes met, rekindling a flame that time could not extinguish. Shy smiles give way to an embrace that speaks of longing and memories shared.
#maya ali#wahaj ali#pakistani actors#pakdramaedit#pakfashionedit#myedit#jo bichar gaye#somi#CANON!!!#THIS IS CANON SOMI IN ANOTHER WORLD STORY!!!#I AM CRYINGGGG#WHO EXPECTED THIS?!#NOT ME#NEVER MEEE#I NO LONGER GET TO BE BLESSED LIKE THISSS#AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
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Murree, Islamabad, Pakistan by Zarak Khan
#white#double sabino#horse#tacked#traditional pakistani tack#i am tempted to say#marwari#because of the ears#upon further research i think it might be a#Nukra horse#its white (double sabino according to wiki) and originate in#pakistan#queue
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teri adaon se dilkash khataon se inn lamhon mein zindagi si hai
#maya ali#wahaj ali#pakistani fashion#these gifs are slower than the purple outfit one#not sure how as i used the same delay#i did sharpen this video less though#anyway i am done giffing/posting this clip lmao
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