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so one of the things that's so horrifying about birth control is that you have to, like, navigate this incredibly personal choice about your body and yet also face the epitome of misogyny. like, someone in the comments will say it wasn't that bad for me, and you'll be utterly silenced. like, everyone treats birth control like something that's super dirty. like, you have no fucking information or control over this thing because certain powerful people find it icky.
first it was the oral contraceptives. you went on those young, mostly for reasons unrelated to birth control - even your dermatologist suggested them to control your acne. the list of side effects was longer than your arm, and you just stared at it, horrified.
it made you so mentally ill, but you just heard that this was adulthood. that, yes, there are of course side effects, what did you expect. one day you looked up yasmin makes me depressed because surely this was far too intense, and you discovered that over 12,000 lawsuits had been successfully filed against the brand. it remains commonly prescribed on the open market. you switched brands a few times before oral contraceptives stopped being in any way effective. your doctor just, like, shrugged and said you could try a different brand again.
and the thing is that you're a feminist. you know from your own experience that birth control can be lifesaving, and that even when used for birth control - it is necessary healthcare. you have seen it save so many people from such bad situations, yourself included. it is critical that any person has access to birth control, and you would never suggest that we just get rid of all of it.
you were a little skeeved out by the implant (heard too many bad stories about it) and figured - okay, iud. it was some of the worst pain you've ever fucking experienced, and you did it with a small number of tylenol in your system (3), like you were getting your bikini line waxed instead of something practically sewn into your body.
and what's wild is that because sometimes it isn't a painful insertion process, it is vanishingly rare to find a doctor that will actually numb the area. while your doctor was talking to you about which brand to choose, you were thinking about the other ways you've been injured in your life. you thought about how you had a suspicious mole frozen off - something so small and easy - and how they'd numbed a huge area. you thought about when you broke your wrist and didn't actually notice, because you'd thought it was a sprain.
your understanding of pain is that how the human body responds to injury doesn't always relate to the actual pain tolerance of the person - it's more about how lucky that person is physically. maybe they broke it in a perfect way. maybe they happened to get hurt in a place without a lot of nerve endings. some people can handle a broken femur but crumble under a sore tooth. there's no true way to predict how "much" something actually hurts.
in no other situation would it be appropriate for doctors to ignore pain. just because someone can break their wrist and not feel it doesn't mean no one should receive pain meds for a broken wrist. it just means that particular person was lucky about it. it should not define treatment.
in the comments of videos about IUDs, literally thousands of people report agony. blinding, nauseating, soul-crushing agony. they say things like i had 2 kids and this was the worst thing i ever experienced or i literally have a tattoo on my ribs and it felt like a tickle. this thing almost killed me or would rather run into traffic than ever feel that again.
so it's either true that every single person who reports severe pain is exaggerating. or it's true that it's far more likely you will experience pain, rather than "just a pinch." and yet - there's nothing fucking been done about it. it kind of feels like a shrug is layered on top of everything - since technically it's elective, isn't it kind of your fault for agreeing to select it? stop being fearmongering. stop being defensive.
you fucking needed yours. you are almost weirdly protective of it. yours was so important for your physical and mental health. it helped you off hormonal birth control and even started helping some of your symptoms. it still fucking hurt for no fucking reason.
once while recovering from surgery, they offered you like 15 days of vicodin. you only took 2 of them. you've been offered oxy for tonsillitis. you turned down opioids while recovering from your wisdom tooth extraction. everything else has the option. you fucking drove yourself home after it, shocked and quietly weeping, feeling like something very bad had just happened. the nurse that held your hand during the experience looked down at you, tears in her eyes, and said - i know. this is cruelty in action.
and it's fucked up because the conversation is never just "hey, so the way we are doing this is fucking barbaric and doctors should be required to offer serious pain meds" - it's usually something around the lines of "well, it didn't kill you, did it?"
you just found out that removing that little bitch will hurt just as bad. a little pinch like how oral contraceptives have "some" serious symptoms. like your life and pain are expendable or not really important. like maybe we are all hysterical about it?
hysteria comes from the latin word for uterus, which is great!
you stand here at a crossroads. like - this thing is so important. did they really have to make it so fucking dangerous. and why is it that if you make a complaint, you're told - i didn't even want you to have this in the first place. we're told be careful what you wish for. we're told that it's our fault for wanting something so illict; we could simply choose not to need medication. that maybe if we don't like the scraps, we should get ready to starve.
we have been saying for so long - "i'm not asking you to remove the option, i'm asking you to reconsider the risk." this entire time we hear: well, this is what you wanted, isn't it?
#where's the word woman in this u might wonder if u suck#good news i am nonbinary and have a uterus so that is something that can happen#im also gender fluid tho which means im immune to certain psychic damage bc if u call me a woman i'll be like <3 okay <3#writeblr#the tightrope of ''ppl need access to this''#and like also#''what the fuck is going on over there'' is like. so difficult as an activist#i was <3 punctured <3 during mine#and almost bled out on the table :) they didn't have anyone standing by bc it's ''just a little insertion''#so i started crashing and i vaguely remember apologizing for the fuss as i heard my heart rate monitor start going <3 tachycardic <3#she wasn't even a bad doctor tbh#ps btw the reason i even HAD a heart monitor is that i have a genuine heart condition and they knew GOING IN that there was a chance#i'd crash on the table#like my heart just likes to do fun little tricks and <3 stop working <3 (i do not want to discuss the specifics ty i am okay im ontop of it#and they were like 'oh u will be fine' and then she did do a puncture thru my uterus . pop!#and im sitting there dizzy and feeling my heartrate start to drop bc it feels almost. beautiful. like. the whole ground just#woosh! out from under you. and shit is like grey's anatomy. i'm looking up at her grey eyes#she's old she wears this nice shawl she's like got Cool Lesbian vibes and people are sprinting into the room#from other parts of the clinic unrelated to me. while the monitor is like a little aria singing#and shes like hey youre okay stay awake stay with me something went wrong we have to keep trying#and i remember thinking - i was trying to think of nice things. i have so many beautiful places that now overlap#with this terrible memory#i became dimly aware that there was too much on her wrists and hands. like#that was too many liters#and then when they had finished all this. i packed up and drove myself home#i have had (bad thing) happen to me. and the same feeling happened after#that numb almost lamblike bleating. you cry without noise. like. ur body is so shocked and ur mind so empty#you just stare at the road and everything everything is happening behind glass and static and you are standing so far away from it#while you hold ur hands at 10 and 2. and something in ur brain is SCREAMING at you - IT WAS BAD AND IT SHOULDNT HAVE HAPPENED#and ur just watching the alarms in your body going off and youre thinking. a little pinch! ha. i think i just lost something important.
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don't go yet
#jujutsu kaisen#jjk fanart#gojo satoru#geto suguru#satosugu#stsg#fanart#i keep wanting to draw geto leaning over gojo and his long hair brushing over his face and all ughhh but i never commit#the intimacy! it scares me! no!!#also ty lina for explaining how to use gradient maps in an offhand comment lol <3#im like. not good at it but i will practice and see
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hello have a sparkle boy
#merlin#time to start posting my hoard of merlin and merthur art#sorry i forget tumblr exists im coming back now#merlin fandom come hither#i only watched the finale on september 3rd after putting it off for 3 years pls i need you#also if you need more merlin art then follow lauravian too hehe#dont tell her i sent you its a secret between us#if youre reading all these ty i hope its funny#bbc merlin#merlin bbc#merlin fandom#illustration#merlin art#merthur#colin morgan
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Etho immediately choosing Decked Out 2 (+Tango's reaction) xBCrafted's Season 10 Episode 17 Hermit Q&A
xB: So, question number three. What has been your favourite project, build, and/or event since joining HermitCraft? Etho: That I did? Or that other people did? xB: Uh, just, whatever. Whatever you...y'know, your favourite. Just, whatever. Etho: Oh, that's gotta be Decked Out 2, then. xB: Okay. (laughs) Etho: (laughs) Easy answer! xB: I mean, you only played it a little, though... Etho: Ahh, it was a few months. A few months of my life, there. Got a little bit involved. xB: (laughs) A couple minutes, here and there, you know. Etho: Yeah. xB: I know how you are. No. (laughs) ---- xB: I feel like your answer is gonna be the same as Etho's. Tango: Oh, did he say Decked Out? xB: Yes he did. (laughs) Tango: Ohhhh, my hero! Yeah, Decked Out is definitely my answer. Slam dunk. xB: I was like, 'Yeah, what do you mean? You only played, like, a little bit...' (both laugh) Tango: Well, that -- Honestly, the fact that he said that, means -- means everything to me. That's great, that he values it that high. That's great. That's great. xB: Oh, yeah, yeah. He was like, he was like, 'That's easy. Decked Out 2.' I was like, 'Okay!' (laughs) Tango: (laughs) Fantastic. Good! Good!
#xbcrafted#etho#ethoslab#tango tek#tangotek#tangtho#hermicraft#hermitcraft s10#hermitcraft season 10#decked out#decked out 2#hermitcraft s9#hermitcraft season 9#also. he wasn't the only other one (pearl. hypno). but I loved Bdubs answering decked out as well#''phh it's gott-- this is. this is. it's gotta be decked out. it's gotta be.''#''has anybody said that? everybody's probably said that'' ''well. etho and tango.'' ''yeah. okay! okay! (laughs) yeah. yeah''#''I think decked out was probably the funnest thing I've been a part of on the server''#they're just <3#I love when compliments#I love friendship and admiration and praise#and appreciation#bdubs and tango <3 he was so genuine too. ty bdubs
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I don't think Herbert won the knot tying badge in Eagle Scouts :/
a continuation of this post based off of all your amazing comments :3
#fanart#reanimator#bride of reanimator#herbert west#dan cain#danbert#tw blood#or did he intentionally make the knot ineffective? much to think about#fyi there is not an actual knot tying badge in the scouts smh#also drew this while with a fever (bad idea) so if they have like 3 arms or something lmk
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willy wearing those new year glasses except it’s 2014 ones bc they ran out of 2024…
sorry this is not quite the pizza you ordered But im working with a timeline here. so i went back in time 10 years. happy new year 2004
#he look like 🤓#but also somehow cunty. idk why#to me fazfright is in like 2015 so this could be taking place in fnaf 3#i could have also drawn burntrap but i havent drawn this guy much lately so springtrap it is#because 2024 is like hw/pizzaplex time and williams state this year is unclear and *keeps ranting*#my art#crunchchute art#fnaf#springtrap#answered#ty for the ask!
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i saw the square catchlights from @squea's new set n fell in love
#ts4#ts4 cas#i love these catchlights so much#ty squea for blessing us <3#also the new sims style didnt stick#i just cant get myself to like this is them skins#sorry#but i kept some things!#anyways bye o/
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hhmmmmm uh im dusting the cobwebs off my brain trying 2 come up w something interestinf uhh.......anything non spoiler-y you can discuss w regards to geto in the atla au perchance?
hi rin !!!!! tysm fr sending i hope u r doing well <3
atla geto lore fr u courtesy of sam:
he's a waterbender from the northern water tribe. he can bloodbend but finds it distasteful
he gave gojo the betrothal necklace/proposed to him when they were 20 (all of the adult characters are aged up in the fic vs jjk canon ages)
all of his decisions are driven by a desire to lighten the burden placed on gojo's shoulders
aaaaand atla geto draws fr u courtesy of Me :3
jjk atla!au with @philosophiums
#answered#uriekukistan#my art#jujutsu kaisen#jjk#geto suguru#fanart#jjk fanart#jjk atla!au#atla!au: art#atla!au: illust#atla!au: lore#lmhs#whatcha got there geto :3#gfsdjgjdf tbh *geto* is hardly in the fic but !!! he is known to haunt narratives so there is some lore involving him#before. i mean....... gestures vaguely . u kno .#anyway . design notes i retconned the design on his ?? medallion????#in th first draft i had it be the same dragonfly sigil as i put on the betrothal necklace itself#but i decided i didnt like that fhgsf i wanted the necklace to be its own unique design rather than have geto recycle a design he alr wears#so i gave him an ouroboros lookin thing . fr presumably obvious reasons including but not limited to:#dragon curse callback/self destruction symbolism/overall aes and vibes#the works. the usual :)#also this draws ended up looking a Lot cleaner than last night's choso#i think they took around the same amt of time?? o actually 3 hrs fr this one . 2 fr choso#tracks!!#i rly am just drawing all the waterbenders FGHSHJ#anyway i hope u enjoy !!!!! ty again fr sending <3
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some of my fav comic moments :>
#me <3 the comics#ME <3 KIYI#she’s my favvvvvv#little firefly#her and zuko are too lovely#avatar the last airbender#atla#atla fanart#kataang#zukka#also this is#zukki#sukka#sokka#aang#katara#ty lee#mai#azula
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whenever I see art of human paracelsus I start giggling and kicking my feet
#guilty gear fanart#aba guilty gear#guilty gear#guilty gear aba#guilty gear paracelsus#guilty gear strive#paracelsus#I love seeing human designs for him#they always look so cool#also ty for all those notes on my last post <3
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@karineverse congrats on 500 Kane!!!!!!! Here be Ink
Character belongs 2 comyet✨
#my art#utmv#ink sans#human au#human ink#dtiys entry#ty for the big window of time Kane I actually started this like so long ago 😭😭#ALSO#happy late bday to OC Kane srry I didn’t draw anything then#hope u like this art ;3#⭐️
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I have school in less than 2 hours, and I haven't slept in 3 days, but I'd like, nay *need* Jason.
Please write smut about him, any smut make Jason call us 'pretty girl' and let him sat 'You're doing so good, so good'. Make him be a bit feral for his girl, maybe for her saying Jaybear casually or lean into him while sleeping. Just want Jason being an absolute simp, crazy person, just insane for his partner.
Clawing at my walls rn
Like I want him more than I want academic validation, more than I want One Direction back together, more than I want anything.
You're so amazing!
I mean when I say that your posts make my day. You're so talented, and I wanted to thank you for all the work you put in here.
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you can’t just say these things to me and expect me not to blush
You knew it was a mistake when Jason did a “renovation project” in one of his backup safe houses. You knew he was up to something, but that stupid, but adorable, smile caught you in its trap. He said he “just wanted you to take a look at [his] safe house” and “just make sure you like the renovations!” Liar. Pretty liar though.
His “renovations” consisted of two things: new sheets and a mirrored ceiling. You were doomed the moment you walked in the door. You’re not exactly sure how you ended up this way, but his tongue is making you see stars and your clothes are… somewhere else. You can’t recall.
He isn’t letting you go any time soon. After the fourth time he’s edged you, in fact, he says he’s “just getting started.” Now, your head is a pile of mush. Your face is flushed, your hair is splayed out, and your eyes are fucked out as you watch your reflection in the mirror. When you look down at his face, his eyes are already boring into yours. It sends a shiver down your spine and a spark of pleasure down to where Jason’s mouth connects with you that leaves you oh so close.
But he pulls away again and leaves you whining. He clicks his tongue. “Aw, pretty girl. Look at you. You’re doing so good for me, so good.” You let out another whine, begging for release. “You wanna cum pretty thing? I know you do. One more, ok? One more. I’m sorry, baby. You just look so pretty like this. That’s why we had to get the mirrors, sweetheart. You need to see the way you look when you’re like this, so you know why it drives me insane. But I can’t resist giving you what you want. One more and I’ll let you cum on my tongue.”
He kisses his way back down between your thighs and stays true to his word.
#this was less simpy than I wanted it to be but I’m on a tight schedule rn for summer things 😔#anyway <3#I love mirror fucking fics#ALSO TY ANON#saph’s love letters#jason todd#jason todd x reader#saph’s thots#red hood#red hood x reader#jason todd imagine#jason todd x you#red hood imagine#jason todd smut#red hood x you#red hood smut#jason todd x reader smut#red hood x reader smut#smut#jason todd scenarios#jason todd x fem!reader
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i’ve seen a bunch of people freaking out about GO finally getting renewed now that the strike is over and like. I’m not worried. Because even if by some insane turn of events, Amazon cancels it, that season 3 script exists. Neil has talked about writing it. It’s there somewhere. And if GO gets cancelled with the ending it had, I just know, deep in my heart of hearts, that Michael Sheen will get that script. He will sell his soul to the devil himself to get it if he must. And he will film season 3 in his basement on his iphone camera if he has to. He’ll play every character. He’ll make costumes. Build sets. Anything he has to do to fix episode 6.
#also Ty Tennant is the cameraman#and director#he tells michael everything he’s gotta do#michael sheen#good omens season 3
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#ty for 500 followers <3 yipppeeee#*#*lino#*22#*vlog#lee know#stray kids#skz#bystay#linosource#staydaily#staysource#usersemily#analook#it wouldnt be my gifset if i didnt use half the gifs i made (-:#ALSO photoshop crashed when i was nearly done and it recovered most of it but then i had to recolor some... truly the leeknow gif experienc
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he’s also ambidextrous but don’t tell him
#persona 5#akira kurusu#ryuji sakamoto#morgana#can be#pegoryu#Bc a bro be multi shipping these days#ty Megan for opening my eyes to sunshine boy shipping#new router Monday and then I’m kicking it into high gear to get stuco stuff done >:3#also I’m like ~50 away from 2000 followers here which is INSANE#Ik a lot of people have dropped off but god I am incredibly grateful 🥺🥺🥺
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