#also he's a cishet white guy

[termitesisagrandslam]

my dad is weirdly critical of customer service ppl. not to their faces, he's always polite to them, but if someone is like, aloof or not super attentive or not 100% "professional" in some way, afterwards he'll complain about it and i want to strangle him. it's especially annoying since HE has worked in customer service his entire life, that's been all his jobs, so it's ridiculous he holds everyone to such a high standard.

[squiddlysq]

The only thing better than pathetic men is pathetic men who are out of their fucking minds. I want Gabriel carnally and I can only express this through shitpost art

[rnaeborowski]

listen i know vegans can be annoying but we were hanging out with some friends and acquaintances in a voice chat to celebrate my friend's bday and she got excited that she got vegetarian food and two guys were like "uuuuuh i don't understand why people don't eat meat. it's so stupid and they're always pushing their diet on others. vegans actually want to eat meat that's why they eat vegan hotdogs. just admit that you want to eat meat etc etc" and when we pointed out that THEY were currently pushing their diet on my friend and they said wuuuhh it's not the same thing wuuhwuhhh....

so fucking rude and literally everyone else besides these two were like ok can we change the subject no one likes this conversation BUT THEY KEPT GOING

[catparty41]

Paul matthews should experiment with his gender, I think he would like it.

[caliburn-the-sword]

other than the entire adultery plotline, the only thing i would retcon in the entire season 1 of ouat is the fairies are cursed to become nuns in storybrooke. WHAT EVEN WAS THAT??? so many characters became their exact opposites, so why was blue the exact same stuffy woman both as a fairy and in storybrooke? in my mind, the fairies became a giant lesbian commune (so essentially what they already were in the enchanted forest) living on the outskirts of town. and because storybrooke shouldn't have any contact with the outside world, the fairies collectively own a farm that sources most of the food for all of storybrooke. when the curse broke they were like hey actually this is pretty good. and kept being a giant lesbian commune.

[27-royal-teas]

sometimes my friend will come into school wearing purple clip on cat ears and a tail. hes not a furry he just does it cuz its fun and i think thats beautiful.

[wickedlittlecritta]

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[gender0bender]

Watchmen fandom should be subjected to sociological analysis I am being serious. Looked in the tag to see what’s going on and if anything cool is happening fancontent wise like analysis or cool content or w/e and saw ace price Rorschach icons. That character is a right wing bigot he opens the comic with a rant about how much he hates gay people. Guys. 

[cryptidunknown]

girl help i came out as a lesbian at school and i kinda wish i hadn’t

no one’s been homophobic but i didn’t realize how fast stuff like that would travel. i told friends and they told their friends and now like everyone knows :/

i don’t really enjoy how i’m perceived when people who don’t know me well know i’m gay

also recently i’ve been wondering if i’m ace so that doesn’t help

[crossedwithblue]

life pro tip: be Weird at the hot guy who is hitting on you

[gay-otlc]

Being trans is funny because all the guys who've ever had a crush on me are gay now

[adamantine-ribbon]

i <3 eating up incompetent white men

[agro-alone]

why is it that when you tell someone they have privilege, they feel the need to tell you about all their life problems?

I'm sorry you have to work a 9 to 5, but that's not the same as being oppressed

[deanncastiel]

omg y'all ever quit a book bc it's so aggressively heterosexual 😩😩😩

[error-523scintilla]

Also like… not to deter from the point, but how many cis men are you sure are cis? Maybe they’ve not discovered they’re trans/nb/genderqueer/xenogender, or even will end up being part of the intersex community, and neither do you. Wow, it sure is so cool of you to ostracize the people of your community!!! So girlbossqueenslay of you!!

At the beginning of the year, my boyfriend —the token cishet guy of our queer friend group— came out to my as nonbinary, and is still coming out to terms with his gender (us being raised latinoamericanos and him amab in Venezuela). If it wasn’t for having a grand support group of queer friends and a bi girlfriend behind him, probably would’ve never come out. How many “men” are having the same experience? Why can’t they explore their gender and queerness? Why should they be rejected by default?

And another thing is… where’s the intersectionality? White feminism being the ban of our existence, black women will probably have more in common with black cis men than upper class white woman. Same goes with Latino women, or Asian women, or Arab women, having more in common with cis queer men of color than white women.

Oh, and if you’re a gold star lesbian, your sexuality doesn’t makes you less of a bigot :) you’re still next on their target list

"cis men dni" are you ready to come out of your "no boys allowed" treehouse yet. its time for lunch.

[limerence-leftovers]

I know two men who are currently single. One is 26, and the other is 38.

I’ve spoken with both of them at length about what they want in a woman, seeing as they’re cishet and white.

They both immediately went for physical attributes. Thin, but needs to have a nice butt. Boobs can’t be too big. One likes short hair, the other likes long hair. They also went into facial features for some reason. That was the part that made me really uncomfortable as I hadn’t expected either of them to have been that focused on appearances.

Aesthetics came next. Both want ‘alt goth / witchy’ women. It should be worth noting both of these men said their potential partner can’t wear too much makeup.

Lastly came personality and interests. They both said this is the most important thing to them, but they also ‘have to be pretty’. Oh, and they need to listen.

I have some single ladies I’ve also spoken with.

It’s the opposite. They rarely care about looks. It’s about chemistry, emotional connection, feeling safe, and sharing common goals / ideals.

While I know it’s not ‘all men’ it sure as fuck is a lot of you. Also both of these men think they’re part of the ‘good cishet white liberal men’ who voted for Kamala, despite one of them not voting at all.

He’s the 38 year old. To make things worse, he’s trying to date a 24 year old. 🤷‍♀️ His criteria for a potential partner was also under the age of 30 because it means less baggage and they’re still ‘fun to be around’.

You don’t want to know what he doesn’t bring to the table. Either of them, rather. 😅

We do have a male loneliness epidemic, but it’s not women’s fault. We don’t owe you anything. We’re not vending machines you put tokens into and get sex out of. Male culture made by men and perpetuated by men has made men this way. And it’s your job as men to fix it, not point the finger at us and say it’s our fault for not wanting to be with you. Some of us like myself want to actually HELP you, but you guys rarely want to listen. You instead want to complain to us about our gender and how unfair we’re being by not giving you a chance.

We don’t owe you anything.

On January 20th, 2025 and forward, they’re going to try to take our rights. They may succeed.

Men have to take from us because they’ve gaslit themselves into seeing us as the enemy, despite having driven us away by their own actions centered around self interest.

“It’s not all men. But it sure is a lot of you.”