#agingwell

[gray-griff]

04-07-2024; travels with epicurus, daniel klein

"Beauty is equilibrium, and equilibrium is beauty."

popping into bouquiniste books in st. andrews i saw a book sale and obviously had to nab a few, and while i recognised neither the title or author, at the mention of epicurus i decided to grab this one! i’ve absolutely supremely enjoyed klein’s “meditations on old age”, and while it has taken me almost a year to get to reading them, the timing alongside my transition to uni made this experience even more valuable. overall, to really penetrate the academic language and deeper philosophy concepts i think i would deeply benefit at reading it again. the book is not exceptionally lengthy, but it still took me a bit to get through as i often had to sit back and ponder each section as i read.

My Sartrean Ethics Crisis of 2024

this was, admittedly, a very small section of the text, but i’ll talk about it at length here because i found it incredibly impactful (believe it or not, for a book on old age I was not the target audience!).  foreword: i had not yet had the privilege of reading a single word of satre’s before this book. one of klein’s strengths is being able to cover a myriad of concepts and authors/philosophers n such a short time, but obviously doing so limits the depth and span of which he can discuss; tldr, he has sparked a great interest of satre in me, so if you have any recommendations besides his most famous (which i’ve already added to my tbr) or your own takes on his writing, i’m dying for more and would love to hear xP

to continue:

klein writes as such; “In Sartrean ethics we are directed to live authentically— “authenticity” being Satre’s take on the almost universally accepted injunction “To thine own self be true.” A person lives authentically if he operates from the principle that his existence precedes his essence. He is not essentially, say, a waiter or a Democrat or a daytime drinker, these are roles he may choose to play, but not innate qualities that he cannot transcend. For example, an authentic person cannot in good faith say, “I drink two scotches at lunch because that is just the way I am.” He would be treating himself as an object with immutable characteristics, not existing as a subject with the ability to choose who he is and what actions he takes.”

this concept i’m well acquainted with, and i liked to think i understood and internalized. however, what he follows this with has completely shifted my sense of self, and has deepened this concept to the point that i think i can now actually begin to comprehend non-essentialism.

he goes on to say “For me, the most relevant piece here is Sartre's warning against treating oneself as an object. This is a rare bit of moral philosophy that I can actually feel: treating myself as an object makes me feel less alive, less myself. When, say, I find myself in the frame of mind where I am convinced that I am essentially an inconsiderate person and there's nothing to be done about it, I not only feel defeated, I feel that in denying my ability to willfully change I have stopped being truly alive. But at the same time it would be ridiculous not to accept what is beyond my control: I can no more choose to be a young man than I can choose to be tall and blue eyed.

Basically, most of us want to be as responsible for our lives as we can be—it is fundamental to making our lives our own. I choose, therefore I am who I am.”

i could not for the life of me understand the concept of “there is no essential, one true ‘(y/n)’”, i was limiting myself because i didn’t connect that letting our roles invade our essential beings goes beyond my job, or my hobbies, i didn’t connect anything! i feel much freer now, i am essentially nothing, and therefore i am free to change, it is not a betrayal of self. i may have done a horrible job of explaining my thoughts just there, i apologise, it’s far too wrapped up in my emotions to be clear and concise.

another conclusion i reached after only being able to make connections to the midnight gospel: i need to read more philosophy. my catalogue is so small that its an 8 episode mini series made by some guy with a podcast.. i mean its a fantastic series but that cannot be it for me. i’ve had a lovely taster of some of the thoughts of so many of the big ones in this, as well as some of his personal favourites and i feel so inspired now to learn!! 

this book is amazing in that i feel like its enforced my positive view on life! i’d really love to go back to this after a lifetime of studying philosophy and aging and seeing how much more deeply I understand the text, i hope i do

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[magnificentnightmarepolice654]

This is something I think people should remember. Corperations that wanna be seen as progressive and "woke", still see older women as useless and disposable, even acting legends like LuPone

[everythingaboutbiotech]

A summary of the 10 essential principles for aging well covered in "Brain Rules for Aging Well" by John Medina:

Exercise - Regular physical activity is crucial for maintaining cognitive function, mood, and physical health as we age.

Sleep - Getting quality sleep is vital, as poor sleep is linked to accelerated cognitive decline and increased risk of dementia.

Stress - Learning to effectively manage stress through relaxation techniques, social connection, and cognitive strategies can slow age-related mental deterioration.

Nutrition - Eating a nutrient-dense diet rich in vegetables, fruits, whole grains, and healthy fats nourishes the brain and body.

Learning - Continuously challenging the brain with new skills and information helps maintain mental sharpness.

Purpose - Maintaining a sense of purpose and meaning in life is associated with better cognitive and emotional wellbeing.

Social Connection - Staying socially engaged and nurturing relationships are protective against cognitive decline.

Music - Actively engaging with music, whether playing an instrument or simply listening, boosts brain health.

Relaxation - Taking time to unwind and restore through practices like meditation helps counteract the damaging effects of stress.

Optimism - Cultivating a positive, hopeful mindset can enhance physical and mental resilience as we age.

Following these 10 principles can help you stay vital, happy, and sharp for years to come, according to brain expert John Medina.

[lostinthought44]

I think there is something so uniquely, and unintentionally, beautiful about ageing. The way one's face and body begins to express your emotions for u. The way the face and body begins to tell a story so unimaginably wonderful, without u even noticing. I think it is so wonderful when a face and body begins to wrinkle and age and tell the story of u. The story of ur life before I was a part of it. I’m so deeply mesmerised by the story of ur childhood told with the help of the scar on the bottom of ur left shin. I’m swept into ur first born's bedroom when they show me the tiny, almost faded scar they have above their right eyebrow from falling from their bed when they were little. I’m taken aback by ur beauty when I notice that the crows feet beneath ur eyes are so deeply present because ur smile has always taken over ur whole face. I fall in love with the possibilities of my life when I see how deeply the events and moments of urs have become so ingrained in u. There is something so astonishingly beautiful in u, thus the same must exist in ageing too…

ken 🫧

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[davidwfloydart]

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[excitingrbl]

I miss the genuine excitement that comes with sharing good news with other people.

What I mean is, there are certain milestones that when mentioned, it used to be a given that people would rejoice. However, with getting older (I’m in my early 40s), so much going on in the world and our daily lives, it seems like a constant managing of expectations. I also think that when we accomplish things later in life than most people are expected to, the overall enthusiasm wanes.

For example, people who get their GED because they dropped out of high school. That moment isn’t celebrated like graduating from high school at 18 or younger. Getting your bachelor’s degree after your 20s isn’t celebrated with the same level of excitement as straight out of high school and when you’re under 24 years old. Having a baby between 20-30 years old solicits far more support than 30-45 years old. Buying a house when you’re younger than 40 is cause for rejoicing but any time after that, there’s the assumption that you should have had your first house by now. Getting married after your 30s doesn’t receive all the squeals of joy that come with the nuptials of the 20s and 30s.

The list can continue FOREVER. Yes, we talk ad nauseam about taking pride in the things we accomplish and not seeking validation from others in order to be happy with these things. But we don’t talk enough about aging out and how it’s considered normal to reserve the happiness of accomplishments for the youth. So, there’s unrealistic bullshit woven into the expectation that no matter how old we get, the energy surrounded by accomplishment will be the same. Yes, everything mentioned above include things we typically do for personal fulfillment. However, when we keep these things to ourselves, we’re STILL 9 times out of 10 told to SHARE.

I’ve arrived at a point in life where I only want to share with people who will match my level of joy, not give less. Otherwise, I will keep what I do safely to myself. I don’t want the wind knocked out of my excitement by anyone who should be happy for me. I also don’t want the spark to fade because I’ve spent far too much time trying to determine who best to share any good news with. I also don’t think I need to throw all the babies out with the bath water and get all new people to be friends & associates with either.

Some stuff will be just for me because I’m a late bloomer in a ton of different ways. I experience life on a timeline that hasn’t been all that popular. This doesn’t mean I’ve earned any less happiness than those who’ve accomplished the same but earlier in life. I just have to manage my expectations.

That’s the point I’ve arrived to in my life… I’m in my era of expectation management. I value my happiness, joy, contentment, and sanity. It isn’t anyone else’s job to make sure I nourish those things and this is where my attention resides at the moment. So now when anyone finds out what I’m doing and been up to, their enthusiasm will be a nice addition to what I already have but their absence won’t drown out what I’ve amassed for myself.

Sharing life with others feels great. I also know that over time the people we share our life with could and does change. No matter what point of life I am in, my hope is that I choose people I’m best aligned with so that neither of us have to question when and if our good news can be shared.

[the-field-mouse]

Sober thoughts🫂

The other day during a phonecall, my friend brings up a point about desirability. We're both afabs in our mid 20s, me a nonbinary, her a genderfluid woman. She talks about this study of desirability and dating apps, how as women age they tend to stay in their age range with potential suitors with some venturing a bit younger. As men age they search for younger almost inevitably. In bringing up this topic I could tell she was troubled by this (I guess I am too?).

It seems like for afabs you spend a lifetime in your youth warding off unwanted attention. Some conceptualize power

by leaning into the lust and others find power in shielding. As a swer I've done both, as a bigender I've tried both. A lifetime of figuring it all out. Then you're old(er). You've got the rhythm of life and you feel beautiful in it, but the men come around less frequently. I wonder if that's true, and if so does it really scare me? Should it? As a queer nonbinary person I'm limitless in finding and receiving love and desire. But in gender and queerness there's still a root of socialization to unpack. We still don't fully understand gender if at all. How will I know if I've broken free?

[yarniverse]

Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don't resist them - that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.

 Lao Tzu

[midlifemagick]

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A New Hope in Women’s Health: Could This Drug Delay Menopause and Extend Fertility?

For many women, menopause is a natural part of life. By the age of 51, most women in the U.S. have already gone through this transition, a process that brings a decline in fertility and often a mix of physical and emotional challenges. But what if there was a way to delay menopause, potentially extending fertility and offering women more control over their reproductive years? A new drug claiming to do just that has entered the spotlight, and it’s causing quite a stir in the medical community.

Let’s take a look at what this drug aims to achieve, the science behind it, and what it might mean for women’s health in the future.

Understanding Menopause and Its Challenges

Menopause marks the end of a woman’s reproductive years, signaling a natural decline in fertility and bringing various physical and emotional changes. Hot flashes, mood swings, sleep disturbances, and changes in self-esteem can make this transition difficult. Beyond the symptoms, menopause can sometimes impact relationships and affect how women perceive themselves, leading to a sense of loss or identity shift.

With the average age of menopause around 51, many women wonder if they’re racing against time, especially if they’re not yet ready for motherhood or want more years of reproductive choice. Could this new drug offer them an answer?

The Science Behind the Menopause-Delaying Drug

Researchers are currently exploring a treatment aimed at extending the reproductive window. The drug works by targeting specific hormones that influence the menopause process, with the hope of delaying it by a few years. Early studies are showing promise, and many are cautiously optimistic. If this treatment proves effective, it could allow women additional time to conceive naturally and provide a broader range of reproductive choices.

However, with this excitement comes a need for caution. Medical experts remind us that while the initial results look encouraging, long-term safety is still unknown. More research is essential to confirm the effectiveness and safety of this treatment, as any major changes in hormone levels and reproductive health carry potential risks.

What Are the Potential Benefits and Risks?

The idea of delaying menopause could be life-changing for many women. Those interested in extending their fertility or those hoping to delay menopause symptoms might find this drug appealing. However, while studies suggest it might delay menopause, it’s not a magic solution. Hormonal treatments come with their own risks, and the long-term impacts are still unclear.

For now, the key takeaway is that while this drug could shift how we think about reproductive health and aging, it’s wise to remain cautious. Further research is needed to fully understand how this treatment impacts women’s overall health and well-being.

Reflecting on the Future of Women’s Health

This drug represents an exciting development in reproductive health, but it also raises important questions. If delaying menopause becomes possible, it could redefine family planning and change the timeline of a woman’s reproductive life. At the same time, the importance of weighing potential benefits against risks remains vital.

Would you consider a treatment like this if it meant delaying menopause? How might this impact your personal choices or your understanding of women’s health?

Supporting Health with Nutrition

In the journey of maintaining health and wellness, quality nutrition plays a crucial role. Brands like Dapear offer a range of premium supplements designed to support women at every life stage—from products like collagen and biotin to plant-based proteins and multivitamins. Investing in high-quality, science-backed nutrition can enhance overall well-being, especially during transitional phases of life.

Final Thoughts

While the idea of delaying menopause may sound like something out of science fiction, it’s an area that science is exploring with an open mind and cautious optimism. As more information comes to light, women will hopefully have new options for managing their health, allowing them to make informed decisions that best suit their unique needs.

Whether or not this new drug becomes a viable option for everyone, one thing is clear: advancements in women’s health are gaining momentum, and it’s an exciting time to stay informed and involved in these discussions.

[thorncliffe]

Top 5 Benefits of Living in a Retirement Home

As we age, the idea of downsizing and moving into a retirement home becomes increasingly appealing. Retirement homes, often referred to as senior living communities, offer a variety of amenities and services tailored to older adults, allowing them to maintain their independence while receiving support when needed. For many, this transition can be a rewarding step toward enhancing their quality of life, fostering new social connections, and enjoying a stress-free lifestyle. Below, we explore the top five benefits of living in a retirement home, which make it a preferred choice for many seniors.

1. Safety and Security

One of the most significant advantages of living in a retirement home is the enhanced safety and security it offers. As seniors age, mobility issues, health risks, and the potential for accidents, such as falls, become more prevalent. Retirement homes are designed with these concerns in mind, offering features like:

Emergency Response Systems: Many retirement homes have built-in systems that allow residents to call for help in the event of an emergency, ensuring immediate assistance.

24/7 Staff Support: Trained professionals are available around the clock to assist with medical needs, mobility, and general well-being. Knowing that help is available at any time brings peace of mind to both residents and their families.

Secure Environments: Retirement communities often have controlled access points and security personnel to ensure a safe living space. This not only protects residents but also creates a peaceful environment free from external threats.

2. Social Engagement and Community Building

Loneliness and social isolation can have detrimental effects on seniors’ mental and physical health. Retirement homes are designed to foster a sense of community, offering various social opportunities that help residents build meaningful relationships and engage with others. Benefits of the social atmosphere in retirement homes include:

Organized Activities: From fitness classes and arts and crafts to movie nights and group excursions, there are endless opportunities to participate in engaging activities.

Dining Experiences: Many retirement homes feature communal dining areas, allowing residents to share meals and conversations. This daily interaction fosters a sense of belonging and camaraderie.

Resident-Led Clubs: Residents often take initiative in starting clubs based on mutual interests such as book clubs, gardening groups, or card games. This helps seniors stay active and connected to others with similar hobbies.

These opportunities create a sense of fulfillment and prevent feelings of isolation that can often accompany aging in place.

3. Access to Healthcare and Wellness Services

As seniors age, having easy access to healthcare services becomes a top priority. Retirement homes offer a range of health and wellness services that are either on-site or easily accessible. This is one of the most significant benefits of senior living, providing residents with peace of mind when it comes to their health. Key healthcare benefits include:

On-Site Medical Assistance: Many retirement communities have nurses, doctors, or healthcare professionals on-site or on-call, ensuring that residents receive immediate attention when needed.

Medication Management: For seniors who require regular medication, retirement homes often provide assistance with managing prescriptions, ensuring that residents adhere to their treatment plans.

Wellness Programs: From fitness classes and physical therapy to mental health services and nutrition counseling, retirement homes promote holistic health. Programs are tailored to the individual needs of each resident, ensuring they stay healthy and active.

4. Freedom from Home Maintenance and Chores

Owning a home comes with the responsibility of upkeep, which can become burdensome for seniors as they age. Living in a retirement home eliminates the need for maintenance, freeing up residents’ time and energy to enjoy their retirement years. The key advantages here include:

No More Household Chores: Residents no longer need to worry about cleaning, yard work, or home repairs. These tasks are taken care of by the retirement home’s staff, allowing seniors to focus on enjoying their day-to-day activities.

Simplified Living: Many retirement homes offer various living options, from apartments to smaller, independent living homes, which are easier to manage. Residents benefit from comfortable and manageable spaces without the stress of homeownership.

All-Inclusive Services: Many retirement homes provide all-inclusive services, such as laundry, housekeeping, and meal preparation, making daily living much easier and stress-free.

This level of convenience allows seniors to enjoy their time doing what they love rather than managing household responsibilities.

5. Enhanced Quality of Life and Independence

A key misconception about retirement homes is that they limit independence. In fact, retirement homes can enhance the quality of life for seniors by giving them the freedom to live as independently as they choose, while still offering support when necessary. This improved balance between independence and support leads to:

Customized Care Plans: Retirement homes offer various levels of care depending on the individual’s needs. Some residents may require minimal assistance, while others may need more frequent support. Care plans are personalized to each resident, allowing them to maintain their independence while receiving the care they need.

Active and Engaged Living: With numerous activities and amenities available, residents can pursue hobbies and interests they may not have had time for previously. This helps promote a sense of purpose and fulfillment in their everyday lives.

Support When Needed: For those who may require assistance with daily tasks such as dressing, bathing, or meal preparation, retirement homes offer help without taking away a resident's sense of autonomy. This balance allows seniors to thrive in an environment that promotes both independence and security.

Conclusion

Choosing to live in a retirement home offers a wealth of benefits, from increased safety and social engagement to access to healthcare and a maintenance-free lifestyle. These communities are designed to promote not just the physical well-being of their residents, but also their mental, emotional, and social health. For seniors looking to enhance their quality of life, form new friendships, and enjoy a carefree retirement, retirement homes provide an ideal solution that fosters both independence and community support.

[ethanblackwood]

This is another good article about muscle building for men over 50. (Quite similar to what I have already written)

[itssunflowerstuff]

The confidence that comes with aging is incomparable.

[drnic1]

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