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drbtinglecannon · 11 months

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I don't really like posting pics, but I recently got fleece lined leggings and a variety pack of fishnets to wear over them, and the green pair perfectly matches the lunar moths skirt I bought from @mayakern ! My necklace is also the same shade of green with blue accents, so my color coordination was off the charts today haha

#unfortunately the skirt is just a little too snug for my liking so I got a size up on my last order and that one fits great!#but I was very excited to realize I had something that matched these green fishnets. and my sister made me this necklace like a decade ago #so its awesome to finally have an entire outfit that matches it perfectly!#but anyway maya kern skirts are highly recommended they're comfortable and fun. I have 2 and I'm excited to wear them more often!#I've been wearing gym leggings for the last few years and I decided I want to start wearing shorts & jeans & skirts & dresses again #tc posts #I got that trenchcoat from a local artist it's the most expensive piece of clothing I've ever gotten but it's so worth it it's so badass #only reason I'm looking forward to colder weather: I can finally wear my trenchcoat again

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purpldawne · 2 years

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that one arashi post about presenting her as overtly feminine in fan media but not in a "trans women are only valid if they conform to traditional femininity" kinda way and more in a "happyele are a bunch of pussies for having a trans woman imply/state she wants to be more feminine in every sense of the word and then never letting her do so beyond socially" kinda way

#i cant remember if i rbd that on my old blog or this one??#but i am Thinking about it again #its smth i always try to be conscious about?? bc as a more man-leaning person i do not present masc 90% of the time #and i rlly dont feel pressured to present a certain way since im kinda all over the place when it comes to gender #and with arashi its like. the opposite?? like she feels pressured to present more masculine bc of her public status #but she WANTS to wear cute dresses and flowy skirts and big puffy blouses with obnoxiously large bows #the long hair is non negotiable i give all my faves a mullet whether they want it or not #i blame axel kingdom hearts for starting that trend #ensemble stars #enstars #arashi narukami #AND SOCIAL TRANSITION IS JUST AS IMPORTANT AS ANY OTHER KIND #and for a lot of trans ppl thats enough!#but she is v clear about wanting to fit a more traditional feminine image bc she WANTS to. NOT bc shes EXPECTED to.#ok thats it i always get defensive for literally no reason whenever i draw her #i think its bc hiyori is there too and i feel like i dont make her as fem looking??? i just suck at drawing women idk man #if youre not androgynous/slightly fem looking or literally built like yoshiya kiryu i cannot draw you sorry #iamtryingforchiakiiamTRYING

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artanogon · 5 days

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thinking more about being trans

#because i want the voice drop of testosterone because training my voice has not been enough for me. i want some of the body shifts with it #and i want top surgery at some point #half because aesthetics + dysphoria and half bc they're just inconvenient #but i dont want to be a “man”#i dont want the capacity to grow a beard or a bunch of hair and have to shave all the time to keep up my looks the way i want #i dont want to “pass” the way some people do #i dont want bottom surgery for sure and i don't have any desire to have a dick or anything. ideally i would be like a doll with no features #i certainly have no plans to stop dressing feminine #i like being my androgynous twink self #and theres certainly a lot of aspects of femininity i do enjoy #jewelry makeup skirts certain aestheitcs long hair etc #i just want to be able to wear those things in a way that i am no longer a woman but a feminine man instead #i want to be one of those weird 80s twinks who would steal your boyfriend while wearing your dress and looking better in it #or like half the men you see in regency shows with the long hair/fine features/gentle manner etc #idk. i dont want to be a man. i genuinely feel like im putting on the wrong skin saying im a transman #genderqueer/agender is the closest i think ill ever find #but god i just wish id been born a man and then had the freedom to explore looking like a girl #little fucked up freak femboy stuck in some body that doesn't feel like its mine #maybe going on t will help me feel comfortable with growing out my hair again tho #idk. spitballing #it doesnt even matter that much rn. i have to delay my t appointment because of other medical shit #but man are there a lot of thoughts up here that will never in any way make sense to most people or be accepted by greater society

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heartbreakfeelsogood · 6 months

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everyone claims to love gender non-conforming people but then when a man wears a skirt there’s always the people that genuinely believe he’s a woman or wants to be a woman and can’t seem to comprehend that a man can wear a skirt even if he’s cisgender

#op #this isn’t about jokes this is about people who are clearly serious #because i’ve been seeing this happening a lot lately with pete #and like for what? because he has long hair and wears a skirt?#again i’m talking about people who are serious i’m not trying to sound like a hypocrite i call all these men babygirl and wife #idk just bothers me that there is a group of people that don’t support people who are secure in their gender AND gender non-conforming #it doesn’t mean pete secretly wants to be a woman because of how he dresses

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faaun · 1 month

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ok let's catch up quickly

#so i went on a few dates w this guy. long hair beautiful face kinda looked like a girl (good) said yes ma'am when i told him to do smth #(also good) film student great at photography including candids. made a sheath of leather for a sword pin i have . et cetera.#he asked to cuddle and i was like iggg and then i felt Nothing and i was like ohhh yh ok ok yep lesbian #like he meets almost all my criteria but. yeahhh no . also at the end of that date he had some weird takes. anyway broke up w him and told #him actually im p sure im a lesbian (again) and he was like yk thats the second time this has happened to me this week but its ok bc ive #fallen for this girl from berlin. and then we cooked together. anyway . met a beautiful butch lowk in love w her. weve been on (1) date.#have two exams in a few days havent studied enough going to like end it all basically. my research partner kicked me off our research #(expected(it was always skinda sketchy)) which was devastating + it happened in a lidl 15 hours into a journey from bordeaux #to go back to the UK. my friends were kinda busy paying for baguettes but also they heard this whole exchange and are kinda mad at him #my friend of 10+ years is coming over in a few days. my evil ex situationship person that i decided to stay friends w because i kept #insisting they are a good friend and not evil and also extremely beautiful? turns out shockingly enough they were evil. tried to fix them #and then i realised due to their entire friendship group being ppl like me (Every Single One of their friends are ppl they met on dating #apps then led on then dumped and proposed staying friends w) and are collectively extremely attracted to them and not over them they #keep validating the most diabolical shit they say/do to hace a chance w them. they broke up w their ex and the way they keep leading #this poor girl on and making her heartbeeak worse and saying that they want more power over her and want her to beg for them back etc...MY #JAW HAD DROPPED esp bc i didnt even know the ex was in the picture BECAUSE ME AND ONE OF OUR FRIENDS (that they also dated) HAD JUSR SLEPT #NAKED TOGETHER IN THEIR BED W THEM. GIRL. anyway that is the least of the diabolical stuff they said but no we are moving onnn #this was b4 the beautiful butch btw. anyways . i have a mitski concert tmrw i think?? idek anymore #i used to have a crush on this guy very briefly and then it disappeared and then i realised if he fundementally changed everything abt #himself then maybe id like him but ofc i didnt tell him that but i still think abt it sometimes but anyway thats irrelevant now bc 99% sure #even if he did id still not find him attractive (lesbianism). please recommend good overnight moisturisers btw i have super dry skin #right. the friend of 10 yrs. we had a hard convo abt why she essentially bullied me in year 8 and it made me highly bitter but i also love #her and ik things are diff now its been like . Many Years . and shes going to stay a while I HAVE TWO EXAMS I DONT HAVE TIME but i love her #its fine. i think i might just switch into medicine and do the whole become a neurosurgeon thing (which was my plan B) bc plan A is looking #kinda impossible rn. I WANNA TALK MORE ABT WHAT THE EX SITUATIONSHIP PERSON SAID but i wont bc i dont wanna be too mean but also . MY GOD #i had a conversation w a philosopher friend about whether i have a moral responsibility to try to fix them bc unleashing this on society #feels wrong and he said 'probably but...run' so yeah im not talking to them atm. second date w beautiful butch on monday btw IDK WHAT TO #WEAR. she said she likes fems. im just gonna wear the shortest ralph lauren skirt i have w the cute leg warmers and hope 4 the best #its 1:15 AM im abt to drink coffee and start studying bc what the FUCK man. also almost finished watching the boys its very good #one of my best friends is struggling rn it is breaking my heart i want to take the burden from her i miss her very much

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thefleshyougoveggie · 4 months

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connecting my femininity with my queerness has helped me so much with dysphoria and has made me comfortable expressing femininity in ways i simply didn’t expect for myself. seeing the femininity i express as being the same as a cis gay man…. yeah it has done wonders!!

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scarecrowgolem · 6 months

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Ngl still hurt by the anon who said my partner and I are both too feminine to tell im the butch despite the photos in question being from halloween and everything

#like i know i should just move past it and anon was clearly the asshole in the situation #welp... i am sensitive and already have trauma around being percieved as/told im too feminine to be how i wanna be👍#and the fact that it came from another butch #and they said they also are low income and wear feminine stuff like dresses sometimes #which... i know that is so hypocritical why am i letting someone like that get me down #and i wasnt even wearing a dress or a skirt or anything i just had halloween themed fake nails and a headscarf and like. a miniscule amount #of makeup on #but anyways #the fact it came from another butch really hurt #cuz like. id expect someone w a similar gender experience to understand how fucking hurtful that is #and i keep thinking about it bc i wanted to be poison ivy for purim but i keep having panic attacks #bc i keep worrying ill get told im too feminine again #fuck my life #vent

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fitzrove · 5 months

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Ngl I feel kinda cool 😌😂💀

#i was at a birthday party in a bar my classmates rented and a girl in my class who had specifically dressed in rave gear (w her friend whos #visiting) asked me and some other ppl to come to the club 🤣#i was wearing machine washable clothes (because i have prev bad experiences from german bars w smoking inside...) which in my case means #band shirt leather skirt combat boots and black tights #(of course they were all black ajdkkdlflfl)#but like it was just normal casual clothes i wasnt planning to go anywhere with them except the bday party #we were in line for an hour and i was worried they wouldnt let me in because 1) bare face (never wear makeup) 2) random band in shirt #but they did hehehehehe i am so cool #and tbh i was telling my friends in line that i'd rather be rejected for my own clothes than accepted in fake ones #but yeah lit 😌😌😌 certified cool #i went to bed at 7 am i am feeling vaguely loopy and sick even tho i dont even drink 🤣#it was so hot and stuffy and in the moment i didnt always like it but now i kinda want to go again sometime??????#random

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jonathanbyersphd · 6 months

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SORRY I AM THINKING ABOUT NANCY SAYING COPY/PASTE FOR HER AND JONATHAN'S DAUGHTER AGAIN AND IIIII

#Jonathan of course is like this is fine actually #I'm having BIG FEELINGS about their future again #ALEXA PLAY FOREVER BY NOAH KAHAN #also just big feeling about Jordan Byers in general like that's my baby #certified weird girl but in different ways than her weird parents #my little cinematographer who “accidentally” brings home a stray dog at nine #and then conveniently cons her parents into letting her keep it #BECAUSE SHE'S HER FATHER'S DAUGHTER #but ALSO she's getting into trouble for breaking dress code rules #her NYC HS has uniforms and she thinks the skirt is itchy #and then she revolts so they can wear pants #BECAUSE SHE'S HER MOTHER'S DAUGHTER #She made Jonathan take her to the Eras Tour nevermind that she's 24 #she wanted the good “my dad works for Rolling Stone” seats #little nepo baby #crazier still HE WENT HAPPILY because he loves seeing his girls happy #man wore ear protection for everything expect the folklore/evermore sets #UGH GIRL DAD JONATHAN BYERS MY BELOVED #anyways i'm rambling #... pls ask me questions about the jancy children I BEG #my favorite OCs #peace and love Maggie #jancy #jonathan byers #nancy wheeler #Jordan Byers #my ocs #jancy kids #future verse

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whimsyprinx · 1 year

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a new attempt at me trying to sketch out ideas for my porcelain (faerie) royalty outfit that I’m putting together, all I have so far is the shirt, earring (it’s not even finished) and bracelet

#whimsy whispers #I want to thrift as many of the things I’ll be wearing as I cann #or make them myself #I’m trying to make my jewelry I made the bracelet and earring and will make a necklace #idk if I’d make the tiara but I can’t thrift that either cause any big tiara you see at a thrift or antique store is gonna be expensive #so that would probs require a trip to claires #I like rococo shoes a lot but those are expensive and I found a pair of shoes that was really cute and had those vibes but was a size six #which I am not #I need to figure out a skirt/dress sitch as well #I also want elbow length gloves like I did see a pair recently but I didn’t like them idk if I’ll regret having not bought them later or not #rhis is all for fun but also if my roommates and i can put together outfits in time and like are able to then we’d go to a renaissance #festival which I’ve never been to lex has though but had a bad time #idk it’s fun to put together outfits also which is why I’m doing this #I may be going to the local goodwill again this week so we’ll see if there’s anything new since I went last week #I know there’s other thrift stores in town or where I live at but I’ve not been to them or they’re simply not on the way to where else we’ll #be going so it’s like ah there’s no use in thinking about it #just hoping I’ll find at least one good thing

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rugretti · 4 months

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#ahw come on #did my hair in two braids bc its 2am and nobody can see me #fucking hate letting other ppl see me when i try to enjoy my hair bc theyll think im finally being feminine #and im going to my brothers graduation too so shes immediately commenting on wow #ure gonna go like that?i finally support you. like come on man #literally why i never ever want to ease up on my regular going out clothes formula #it will be shoes pants shirt jacket for forever unless i get to be alone bc any time i take anything off #ill have comments like ure finally going out in just a shirt finally #ill honestly rather kill myself than have u see me in a skirt please i know thats ur biggest dream but please #also donchu dare lecture me on why i need an emergency dress for super formal occasions or event sthat need me to wear a skirt or dress #id honestly rather not go if its like that no matter the importance #and even if i did what difference does it make if i just had say an emergency suit instead #fuck me fuck fuck #i point out i want to cosplay miles g morales and she says nothing not even a nod #she sees me in braids and suddenly she wants me to wear jt everywhere #please please please i need u to never look at me again if this is what i get #anyways rant over

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officersnickers · 1 year

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Broke: Emma would never ever wear a skirt again in her life!❌

Woke: She would, and so would Norman and Ray 🤍🧡🖤

#I know I will gain some hate with this very controversial opinion ;)#but considering how Emma adds ribbons and stuff to her outfits she surely likes to play around with fashion #she is not *just* a tomboy but imo someone who couldn't care less about stereotypes #I think she would love skirts that swing easily in motion and got cute prints on it #as well as integrated pockets and shorts ;)#my headcanon is that Emma would be unsure if it fits her if she would wear skirts again #so Ray and Norman dress up and go out with her the good friends they are ;)#please ignore how crappy this looks. the lineart was a nightmare but colouring was fun #I can't draw feet could you tell XD but I still wanted to try...#Snickers draws #the promised neverland #tpn #ynn #yakusoku no neverland #yakusoku no nebārando #tpn emma #tpn norman #tpn ray #ynn emma #ynn ray #ynn norman #full score trio #the promised neverland emma #the promised neverland norman #the promised neverland ray #yakusoku no neverland emma #yakusoku no neverland ray #yakusoku no neverland norman #normanxemmaxray #norray

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deadrlngers · 1 year

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they should invent shorts that actually fit you

#rena.txt #i bought one pair of shorts 4 years ago and i've never been able to buy one ever again. i don't do skirts brother how do u want me to #survive during this fucking season #the size will be like L :) when it's clearly the tightest M you ever saw on this planet. I'M TIRED!!!!!!!!!!! I CAN'T FIT MY ASS IN THAT #FAKE L!!! AND IF I MANAGE THEN MY THIGHS WILL BE LIKE this ain't it boss :// and ofc then they will be too large for my back for no reason #i just want to wear stuff that will actually fit well on me i want to explode clothing shops so bad #truly going shopping is a whole type of psychological damage if you aren't thin. it's a whole type of inferno dantesco if ur mom is there #with u as well. they should invent mothers that say normal stuff about your body. they should invent mothers that shut up about your body #i had to take her with me today to help her pick a dress for a wedding and i think i died 40 times in a single afternoon

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quinnfabrayapologist · 2 years

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TERFs: we're radical feminists who want to break down gender roles for the betterment of women everywhere!

Also TERFs: if you are a woman and pro trans or don't perform womanhood in the way I think women should you're either trans or a gender traitor and your womanhood is invalid

#i'm tired of it all besties #also guess who (me) just got clocked as a trans woman (i'm a cis woman) on twitter #apparently wearing a skirt on new years was me 'performing gender' and a clear sign i'm trans (again i'm not)#and like... these are the people who want to decide who gets to use the womens' bathrooms #people who think wearing a skirt is a sign of being transgender #like... i've said for years there is nothing radical or feminist about radfems #because they're just rehashing the same gender norms conservatives are #one of them is telling me that because i called them a 'walnut' i'm trans because cis women don't call people names?

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david-watts · 9 months

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sitting here overheating because my room really does get super fucking hot in the late afternoon and takes fucking forever to cool down. but it got me thinking about how damn I used to never get dressed during the day during the summer even though I really wanted to. and it was because my m*ther never bought me clothes that were wearable when it's twenty degrees plus, sunny, and as humid as it gets here. and if she did it wasn't for wearing everyday. like poverty is one factor in that but seriously I straight up didn't have enough regular clothing to last a week, especially since I wasn't allowed to wear a shirt more than once and trousers/skirts thrice without washing. that and I was rarely able to choose outfits out for myself either.

#I have a distinct memory of being nine and still in my pyjamas which btw I fucking hated that particular set #because the shorts were too short. just plain old uncomfortable #anyway I remember going 'I'm getting dressed tomorrow because I hate being so hot and I know wearing the same things for so long #is not allowing me to cool down'#never happened.#and anyway I started thinking about the stuff I could wear when I was between the ages of eleven and fifteen and yeah!#there wasn't fucking much! and most of it was winter/not summer clothing #combine this with my absolutely appalling hygiene issues caused by a multitude of reasons none of which were my fault #I know I didn't have much. not until I was about fifteen and started being allowed to choose more stuff #which again most of which was never summer appropriate because within the stuff I chose there were strict rules #and also the fact my m*ther would choose stuff for me and said 'if you don't want this you're not getting anything else'#which can I just say when my most vivid memory of that was in a skirt she was saying made my arse look good when I was fifteen!#just. augh.

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corpsepng · 9 months

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Tell me why I have the sudden urge to present feminine again after 6 years strictly masc ?…..

#like….why do I want to try make up again why do I want to start wearing skirts #at least the chest dysphoria isn’t gone that’s comforting #is this what gender is for real? you just have urges and follow them?#I don’t think I can afford to honor this gender urge lol #all my make up from forever ago is SO expired fr #god I would be so pretty :(

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