#adultchild

[soolegal]

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[20westlegal]

When a child turns 18, it's a legal game changer. Suddenly, you're no longer in charge of their decisions.

It's a worrying thought – if an emergency occurs, you could be left powerless. Our latest article breaks down the essentials.

Read more and step confidently into this new chapter with your child. https://bit.ly/mychildturns18

[nightengale82]

Healing Messy Mommy #11

9.15.23

I forgive myself

for not knowing what to do

when you left.

I forgive myself for being in such

shock

anger

and denial

that I didn’t allow myself to cry for the next 30 years.

I forgive myself

for blaming me,

for

you

leaving

I forgive myself for turning my

grief and despair

into

anger and self harm.

I forgive myself for spending

the best years of my life

wanting to die.

I forgive myself for thinking that I had to be perfect in order to be loved.

I forgive myself for making everyone around me suffer.

I forgive myself

for constantly choosing to put myself in danger, poverty, torment and abuse,

because it felt familiar.

I forgive myself for never having any confidence in myself,

because

I was just trying to survive.

I forgive myself for being conditioned,

not to DARE

hope

for anything good in my life.

I forgive myself for never believing in myself enough:

to take chances,

to be vulnerable,

to take risks…

Or to let anyone really see me

Or who I really am…

Because then,

they might leave too.

I forgive myself for repeating all the harmful, toxic behaviors

I learned from you,

with children of my own.

I forgive myself for hating myself

for not knowing how to live,

and

how to take care of myself,

When no one

taught me how.

I forgive myself

for not knowing

how

to forgive you.

I meet myself

today,

In the space of forgiveness

Hoping,

that as I

LET GO

And as I let

LOVE

slowly

fill the hollow space

inside my bones

One day

I will learn:

how to forgive

you, too.

[onion-mp3]

adultchild - oh happy day

artist: adultchild | 어른아이

title: oh happy day

album: merry lonely christmas and happy new year

official release: yes

release date: 2010-12-09

file format: mp3

kbit/s: 128

download: mega | mediafire

the one on youtube has a slight sound error in the beginning, but this one is clean. i donwloaded it from some mp3 sharing website i can't seem to find anymore. enjoy!

[astrologanize]

pick a card : what can you do to ensure your blessings?❂

*please take a moment to take a deep breath and choose the image you are most drawn towards*

———-for pile 1 ⊹

do you ever feel like a plastic bag-...no, nvm, but do you ever feel like you've been typecasted? like you have been pigeonholed into being something for so long and now you're just attached to this identity a lil too much? cuz i'm seeing someone who is living as though they're an elderly person who is too set in their ways. you are the classic case of your ego blocking your blessings!

the only way for you to ensure your blessings is to start paying closer attention & recognizing the uninspired patterns of behavior you possess because there is too much ego and too much stagnancy. you can experience the life you desire if you rework your expectations and realize that what you've been accepting as your life is really a path that requires minimal motivation from you - there is no zest! no lust for life! if you are dealing with any sort of depression or low mood i can understand the lack of motivation but i'm afraid you have to actively participate in your life in order for it to change.

once you begin to rework your expectations and become an active participant in your life you will be amazed by all that you attract. you could go from being a homebody to the life of the party, you could start attracting a bunch of different people, you could start attracting a lot of attention, especially romantic attention, and you'll finally start feeling free and able to see all the choices you have for yourself and your life. there are joyous times waiting for you! stop settling for the sake of ego, set aside your pride and choose life.

———-for pile 2 ⊹

if you know better then do better. although i am seeing you open to the world, it is not in a way that is conducive to attracting what you truly desire for yourself. you're someone who seems to be winging your way through life but you're not necessarily taking chances or risks, at least none that are major or worth much. it's kind of reminding me of 'good will hunting'...like you're this person who does have strong capabilities but you're not believing such or doing anything with them.

in order for you to ensure your blessings you need to start shaping yourself to be a well-defined person who understands their capabilities and decides to do something with them. time to work on your ability to be decisive! i do not think it will be a smooth ride for you in doing so because you will run into some temporary problems as you make the transition but you will finally be doing something different with your life.

an annoying adjustment period is standing between you and your blessings! but the blessings are lovely; your connections with others will surely improve as you come more into your own as a well-defined person and you're able to show up in the connections as such - you'll be receptive to them and they'll be receptive to you because you will have an improved relationship with boundaries. 'you're okay' wanted to come through for you <3 take some deep breaths and know that you are more capable than you think you are. also it's coming through that you guys should take more photos! whether that's of yourselves or with others or of your life.

———-for pile 3 ⊹

lol y'all are giving baby energy...if you're under the age of 22 then you being childish makes sense but if you're over the age of 22 then it's giving adultchild. you guys are killing the mood ngl, i'm seeing that you have the tendency to be pessimistic, creatures of habit, and lazy. no bueno. it's reminding me of water placements that refuse to get their shit together.

in order for you to ensure your blessings you need to stop wallowing in your emotions and allowing your emotions to control you, therapy may be a good option for you but ultimately you need to start learning how to properly share & confide your emotions. this does involve you also learning how to regulate your emotions and recognizing what you are actually feeling instead of it being an endless cluster of emotions and moods. sorry but ya gotta build some structure in your life!

this will be a tedious process because you're going to have to dish out some tough truths to yourself and point the finger to the mirror so you can get a grip on your life. how can the blessings come when you're choosing to stay under all your perceived misfortunes?

———-for pile 4 ⊹

i fear you are missing the fruits of life by focusing too heavily on your own ambitions. it's not a bad thing that you are someone who has pursuits of your own that you want to follow but when its to the point of neglecting connectivity with others then it is a problem. you get so caught up in thinking that life is going to pass you by & that you need to do all these things in order to attain happiness or a sense of achievement/fulfillment that you end up living a life based in fear & bulldozing your way through life.

in order for you to ensure your blessings you need to calm down and breathe and trust that good things are happening instead of getting in your extreme existential moods that cause nothing but issues and stress and create blockage. your existential crisis for your life is making you miss out on the people around you and chances to connect on a deeper level because you're so fixated on what you think you should/need to be doing for yourself.

taking a step back from your own vortex and quelling these fears will help you to become present in your life. you will be able to have heart to hearts with people, conversations that give you the chance to improve and further the emotional intimacy in your life. life will stop feeling like an uphill battle and you will no longer be chasing fulfillment but instead actually embracing it.

———-for pile 5 ⊹

you have resigned yourself to a supposed fate that is not meant for you. either you are living your life not on your terms & enduring things that truly do not resonate with you and/or you are hung up on what you thought your life would be like & won't stop beating that dead horse. it's seeming like you're a glutton for punishment at times and choose to dwell on shoulda woulda coulda's.

in order for you to ensure your blessings you gotta do some soul searching to figure out what actually does resonate with you because once you know that, whatever you put your mind to...you will be able to attain it with far greater ease than you know. start journaling, writing affirmations, writing down manifestations, the power of the mind and tongue is palpable for you. it's time to utilize your wits, speak your mind, express your thoughts! there is too much you are lamenting and not enough creation happening, which only furthers the feeling of you being stuck.

in doing this, you will be giving up something in your life...whether it be a path you're going down or a mindset that is not serving you, whatever it is...it will be a relief for you to no longer persist with something that has offered little to no benefit for you. a new realm will begin to form as you figure out your way of truth, no more shall you be a sitting duck refusing to surrender to the beautiful waves of life. believe in the life that is and is to come!!!!!!

———-for pile 6 ⊹

suffer in silence type, perhaps? i'm seeing that you have the tendency to have a major guard up, you stick to what you know, you hold yourself back due to your own fears, and the crown is befitting because you do feel the need to hold your head high. unfortunately this does not allow for energy to flow to you though!

in order for you to ensure your blessings you need to chip away at the walls you've built and start allowing yourself a bit of vulnerability. keeping your feelings to yourself and suffering in silence is creating blockages in many areas of your life because you're living from a place of fear and not honoring sentience. you cannot do everything on your own and there is no reward in trying to. it's time to ask & accept the help of others because you must learn to trust in others and be open to leaving the confinement of your own walls. be a lil helpless, as a treat. it's a wonderful feeling to give momentary reprieve by leaning on another, and it also gives the other person the opportunity to tap into their own humanity by assisting a fellow human.

you trying so hard to stand on your own is only making you shakier! if you allow for vulnerability you will begin to gather your bearings and life will be able to flow for you. even though you will be feeling not as independent as you were of course, your sense of security will drastically improve and you will start to be okay with the bouts of feeling unassured in yourself instead of forcing yourself to always be standing upright (which only leads to instability eventually).

[nekomimineurosurgery]

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Playing Hogwarts Legacy as an adult, a different POV. (Possible SPOILERS ahead, please beware)

Okay, hear me out:

When the game was announced I was super excited about the Dark Arts path, so of course as soon as I was able to play I immediately headed for that route.

But then that scene where you have to duel Sebastian happened and I thought "damn, OC is an insane duelist!" soooo... I guess my mind kind of spiraled from there because I somehow got this headcanon that OC was actually undercover at Hogwarts.

Oddly got their letter at a later age, mad skillz™️, really polite and mature... Makes sense, right?

But I don't want to be an Auror. I want to be EVIL!

So, how about an Ashwinder? Victor Rookwood is a pretty cool villain: charismatic af, kinda good looking; I can see us chilling while watching dragons fight- no wait, I hate poachers with a passion. I love magical beasts. No way my OC would ever harm one or stand by and watch as one gets hurt.

And theeeeennnnn... I met professor Aesop Sharp. 10/10 "your daughter/son/adultchild calls me daddy too". I'd like to say it was love at first sight but it was the whole "acknowledging responsibility" speech that got me.

And before you call me weird... I'm in my twenties and as much as I love the "companions" that the game lets you have, I can't physically bring myself to ship my OC with a teenager. Big no no. Weirds me the f out.

So behold, the ultimate headcanon that has been living rent free in my head since the release:

OC is a rogue ashwinder who betrayed the - organisation? Cult? Club? Ah whatever you get it - and somehow found a way to disguise themselves as a student to avoid repercussions. After all, hogwarts is a pretty safe place. They could easily stay under the radar until things had calmed down a bit.

Unless... Unless some students decided they were tired of poachers and ashwinders and decided to take the matter into their own hands. So what was oc supposed to do? Just look the other way and hide while kids got slaughtered?

Nope. Their conscience was screaming enough as it was, they couldn't let it get any louder. So they help Poppy and Nat and try their best to keep Sebastian safe while he dabbles in the dark arts (after all, they know first hand how futile it is to try and smother that fire. You need to get burnt to learn.).

Until they go too far, they become a problem. Rookwood is pissed. Avada Kedavra pissed. Life or death. Their young and foolish friends or them.

It's an easy choice, really.

They drop the spell/potion/ancient magic/whatever that made them seem younger, so the focus is on them. Rookwood's rage is on them.

The shock, the drama.

Your trusted hogwarts companion was an Ashwinder all along. Former ashwinder, but does it really matter to a teenager who only sees the world as black and white?

Would it matter to the professor OC fell for? To the other professor, the one who guided them through the keepers' trials? Or to sweet professors Weasley and Garlick, who went above and beyond to teach them everything they knew?

Would it matter to the aurors who would eventually capture them?

Ladies, gentlemen and fine people, this is my headcanon. This would be my OC (if I was a skilled modder).

Thank you for coming to my -delirious- TED talk.

(and if you have similar or opposite headcanon, please drop them below. I would love to read them!)

Edit: I actually wrote a fic inspired by this! It's gender neutral (You POV) and I had a lot of fun with it!

Here's the link:

[reality-rogue]

#emotional #pain #inner #strength #dysfunctional #family #recovery #scapegoat #alchoholism #adultchild

[no-where-new-hero]

✣ Blake Wrapped: Music Edition 🎵

Spotify Wrapped felt pretty inaccurate for me this year since I did a lot of listening in November after it stopped counting and also did a lot of listening during the spring on Youtube (as well as from library downloads), so I decided to make my own list of my 12 songs that defined the year.

Han Suji—Winter is coming (Goblin OST) This one haunts me. it’s sad and hopeful and sweeping and bittersweet and makes me feel like a hole is being carved out of my heart (in a good way).

Key—Killer Key is known as a member of Shinee but I think he really makes a mark as a soloist. His past two albums were incredible.

Florence and the Machine—What Kind of Man @blackcatwalking got me into this album over the summer, and sometimes you just need to listen to Florence yelling in a song to feel better about life

Phoebe Bridgers—Waiting Room Every so often this song becomes relevant in my life again, and each time it continues to hit the same way.

The National—Once Upon a Poolside I know there is a canon explanation for this song. I have my own explanation for what it means (gay yearning) and it is Correct.

Sufjan Stevens—So You Are Tired I like the whole Javelin album but this one has stuck with me most.

Hozier—Abstract (Psychopomp) I guess this one had to be here since it was my Spotify #1!

Adultchild—Sad Thing THE song of the Coffee Prince soundtrack—it has the soul of the drama for me.

Lennon Stella—Golf on TV I listened to a song off this album when it came out and, after digging it out of an old playlist, discovered the whole album really slaps.

TXT—Chasing That Feeling This is the epitome of Kpop for me—upbeat, simultaneously vintage and futuristic, catchy song, pretty visuals, the works. I’ve missed enjoying a song this instantly.

WayV—Poppin' Love I’m really proud of WayV for this comeback after all they suffered these past two years and just happy they still make great music.

Taemin—Guilty The Catholic Twink really said I’m religious and gay in this song, and I’m living for it (wish the MV showed it a bit more though. Give me that medieval blood and gold :( )

[thermesiini]

started watching psych but i cant stand that fucking brand of 2006 adultchild white boy character

[soolegal]

In India, various laws are intended to achieve a social purpose and to provide a quick, affordable and rapid mechanism for providing support and maintenance to children.

Link: https://bit.ly/3eTJHF9

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[heavenlydemonyuricult]

There's so many porn artists on twitter that are lame as fuck for several reasons, and one of the notable reasons is them thinking that sexually harrassing people for arguing something they're politically against is funny or socially acceptable. Basically sometimes you'll have someone say to not do something horny, or that something sexual is problematic, or that porn is political, a variety of things really regardless of the quality of said arguments and whether they're right or wrong, and the porn artist in question will comment or quote tweet the person with pornography they know they wouldn't want or be against. It's literally pissfit, adultchild ass sexual harrassment from lame ass niggas that can't take criticism from someone that ain't said nothing directly to them and whose first impulse is to sexually harrass the person they disagree with for having a political take they disagree with. Big fuckheaded loser garbage ass behaviour from people you probably wouldn't want to be around or associated with given their impulse to sexually harrass people.

[filmaticbby]

Found out about Adultchild through your twin peaks inspired spotify playlist ages ago and actually can't thank you enough like OMG! Can't help you with finding out anything about them though feel like you need to know korean 😢

need a korean friend pls

[onion-mp3]

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[inlifepursuit]

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