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Amusement Parks in New York
Getting around New York City can be a bit of a challenge, but there are plenty of fun ways to make the most of your trip. One of the best ways to enjoy the city is with a trip to an amusement park. Whether you’re looking for thrill rides or family-friendly attractions, there are many parks throughout New York that will keep your entire crew entertained.
Adventureland, located in East Farmingdale on Long Island, is one of the most popular amusement parks in New York. Its variety of rides, including water slides and roller coasters, make it a fun day out for families. It also has an arcade and a good selection of midway games to keep the kids busy.
Another amusement park in New York is Seabreeze Amusement Park, which offers a wide range of rides and attractions. This theme park is open daily during the summer and features a Cirque En Vol circus show that will delight adults as well as children.
Playland Park, a seasonal amusement park in Rye on Long Island, offers a great place to spend the day with your family. There are several rides, including a roller coaster and a carousel, as well as a boardwalk that offers amazing views of Long Island Sound.
The Forest Park Carousel Amusement Village is another great kiddie amusement park in New York. Its Grand Carousel from 1915 is a must-see attraction for visitors of all ages, and the park offers many other kiddie rides and attractions to keep your family entertained.
Darien Lake, near Buffalo on the west side of the state, is one of the largest theme and water parks in New York. Its 45 attractions, 10 acre water park, and live shows make it the perfect destination for an all-day adventure.
This amusement park is a great way to enjoy the beautiful New York weather, especially in the summer. It offers a range of family-friendly rides, including a kiddie water ride that launches riders 300 feet into the air. There are also a few more challenging rides for older kids and adults.
Legoland, located about two hours from NYC in Goshen, is an excellent choice for kids who love Legos. It has seven themed areas with life-sized Lego characters that are sure to entertain children of all ages.
Coney Island, another popular amusement park in New York, has a few fun rides to choose from. The park also has several different hotels and restaurants to enjoy during your stay.
You can easily access this park by taking the subway or bus from Manhattan. You can get discounted admission tickets if you take public transit.
Theme parks are a great way to get your adrenaline pumping in the summer, but they can be fun anytime of year. You can even visit the Santa’s Workshop in the winter, where you can find plenty of rides that will have your kids giggling all the way home.
There are a few other amusement parks in New York that are worth visiting, including Hersheypark. This shady amusement park is the perfect place for chocolate lovers and kids. It has a wide range of thrilling rides and attractions, as well as a huge water park with an on-site ice cream parlor.
If you live in the Manhattan area and want to experience some fun, check out Chelsea Waterside Play Area, this large sports and entertainment complex on the Hudson River. It's a great way to spend the afternoon with your family. The park is open daily during the summer months, and it's accessible by subway or bus.
It's a short trip from NYC to Murray Hill, where this 55-year-old park offers 21 rides and three games plus go-karts and mini golf all summer long. It's also on the more affordable end of the amusement park scene, so it's a great option for families traveling on a budget.
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nicholas alexander chavez
you and your famous boyfriend, nicholas alexander chavez, held hands all the way through NYC. it was his "duty" as your "personal bodyguard" to keep you safe at all times throughout the horrors of big cities. you always dragged him everywhere, designer stories, candy stores, beauty stores, shoe stores, etc. but he honestly didn't care, he just loved seeing his little princess so happy. you and nicholas had a pretty big age gap, you being younger and him being older by 6 years. but who says ages matter? you were both adults, perfectly happy together, and the cutest couple on the streets of NYC. you dragged nicholas onto the subway by his pinky wrapped around yours, on your way to the next clothing store you yearned to shop at. when you both slipped through the doors of the subway in downtown NYC, there was only one seat left. nicholas wasnt phased, "sit, princess" he'd say as he reached out his arm pointing to the openly free seat. "are you sure?" you would say in reply to him with the softest eyes. nicholas would nod in response to you as you sat down, your tiny skirt riding up your thigh exposing much more skin then nicholas enjoyed but didn't say anything. nicholas wasn't an insecure man, he knew you wanted him only and he only wanted you, he was comfortable with whatever you did and whatever you wore but today he was challenged. the mini skirt you wore, along with the skin tight crop top without a bra, allowing your nipples to peak through the thin fabric. with the revealance of your clothing, nicholas stepped in front of you to cover up the beautiful body of a princess that belonged to him. as he stood in front of you, he couldn't resist the urge to look at the way your skirt cupped your titties so nicely, how high your mini skirt rides up your thigh, it was making his harder by the second. you watched him as his eyes examined your body through his big sunglasses. why not have a little fun with it? you asked yourself, bringing one hand up to your chest, swirling your finger across your nipples. as you continued, you watched as a bulge appeared at the hem of his jeans, smiling and giggling as it became bigger. nicholas wasn't entirely very pleased of this interaction, bringing one hand up to your chin and holding firmly as he turned your head and bent down in front of you to bring his mouth closer to your ear, "just wait till we get back to the apartment, princess" he'd whisper to you seductively and leaving you with a kiss on the cheek. you put one leg on top of the other trying to contain the pulse you felt in your pussy as you heard his words, excited but scared for what he might do to make you pay for your little show.
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𝐅 𝐀 𝐖 𝐍 𝐓 𝐄 𝐄 𝐓 𝐇 - CH 3 - KIDNAPPED BY ONE DIRECTION
MINORS DNI 18+ FIC
You’ve always liked the idea of having a dominant partner - BDSM was something you’ve read about, watched videos about.
Something you made Pinterest boards and aesthetic tumblr posts about when you were 18 and curious, the idea always sounded nice, but you’ve never done it in practice, not really. Sure you bought fuzzy handcuffs at a gag gift store once, but that didn’t really count.
You’re still a virgin.
You’ve always had that chronically awkward, workaholic type of vibe that made typical dating near impossible at worst and frustrating at best. Normal dating apps have proven fruitless and agitating. So poor curious little you talked yourself into making a fetlife account. You weren’t looking for true love, but at least you could get laid.
DM Request from: 10:13 PM - WebRigger2099 - “Hello, Fawn.”
College was for new experiences after all.
CW: BDSM heavy/centric fic. Safe, Sane & Consensual. Miguel is your professor, but you both don't know that. Age Gap (Y/N is 23, Miguel is mid 30's)
TAG: @slut4oscarissac23 @iamtheprincess227 @haveclayeveryday @junehasnotbeenfound @thedevaxer @bunnibitez @kodzuminx @neteyamslovrr @cl3stevu @miguels-cock-piercings @dumn-little-bunny
PART 1 - PART 2 - PART 3 - CHAPTER 1 - CHAPTER 2
8/19/24 7:05 AM - WebRigger2099 - “Look at you, little Fawn; so delicious. You make me want to hunt you down like a wolf and tear that cute outfit off of you.”
You didn’t really hear what Aurora mentioned despite your reaction - did she know Dr. O’Hara? She did have a tendency for weird nicknames. She called Taylor “TayTay'' once and you swore you’ve never seen them so mad - they’d yelled something about Taylor Swift? You think? You weren't sure - you were way more focused on the fact that your professor needed to pull you aside for… something.
Your thoughts immediately went to the worst case scenario.
Did you accidentally plagiarize one of your papers? You’d seen videos of plagiarism checkers catching lines used in obscure fanfics before, could that have happened to you? Or did you completely flunk something and he was merely giving you a heads up before dropping you from his class and alerting the dean?
You never did get the opportunity to talk. Aurora seemed intent on talking his head off, and before the older man could get a word in, she had rushed everyone out of the classroom, chittering away like a parakeet. You didn’t particularly want to have a conversation with your least-favorite professor, so you quickly told him you’d speak to him on Wednesday about it. You tried to convince yourself that you were content with being ignorant to whatever problem he had with you for the weekend.
But even when you were loaded in the back of Aurora's 2012 Subaru Forester you couldn’t get your mind off it, not fully. Not like you had a means of distraction either, you kept opening telegram and then closing it.
Because you were the tallest in the group, you always got the window seat…at least you wouldn’t have to worry about anyone in the back looking over your shoulder at your phone screen.
“Off to the shore now. I’ll make sure to take pics :3” - Fawnteeth - 8/19/24 12:05 PM [Read]
Your fingers were practically flying across the small screen as you chewed on your bottom lip. In a way it felt awkward messaging him, desperate for attention you hoped he would reply - you saw the indication he read the message instantly, but no reply came. You settled with scrolling instagram, he’d reply eventually.
He was an adult - he had a life.
Just like you.
You had a life, right?
Totally.
After a thankfully uneventful drive from NYC to Ocean Grove's beautiful beach and cozy little town. It was early enough that the beach wasn’t completely packed, blessedly, leaving plenty. You helped Kore and Taylor unpack the car, being the only one who could carry the umbrella. So you tugged it along as you saw Aurora with her girlfriend Cerice.
The two met by accident at one of the many cheap bar stands that littered the shore. She was a lifeguard and Aurora had somehow flirted herself out of getting scolded when she was caught running with two margaritas in hand.
(She may have been a short little thing but damn if Aurora could drink.)
The two were inseparable when they got together, always attached at the hip. You swore Aurora would drive the three hours there every day if she had the time. Honestly, you found yourself occasionally wishing for something like what they had - their relationship was enviable with how affectionate they were, even if it made Taylor roll her eyes sometimes with how sickeningly cute they were.
But you never really saw yourself as relationship material anyways, and besides the closest thing you had to a boyfriend was an old man that had made you cum with a bluetooth toy a couple times. You didn’t know his name, and, really, you weren’t even sure if it counted as a situationship, and he was currently leaving you on read…
(was he seriously that technologically inept? you knew he was older, but he had to know that leaving people on read was, like, insanely rude.)
As always, though, an impromptu beach day meant attempting to build a sand castle with Kore, Aurora, Babette and Cerice while Taylor acted weirdly dad-like, scoping out the beach, commenting on the tide and mumbling about sunscreen and adjusting the ‘god damn umbrella, christ’.
They had a thing about skin cancer. It was the ginger in them.
After you helped build the foundations, watching Aurora and Kore collect sticks and colorful shells in order to decorate the sandcastle which was still just its foundations. You settled down on a towel and pulled your phone out of your bag. You used your bag as a pillow, shaded under the umbrella as the day passed by.
You shouldn’t be thinking about college right now, nor what Dr. O’Hara was going to chat with you about. It didn’t matter that you had an essay due Monday and a report due Thursday. You’d get it all done the night before in a grind of glorious procrastination as you did on most assignments that required your attention for more than an hour.
You wished Web had replied. It was strange that he hadn’t; usually, he was pretty quick to get back to you, but the fact that he had left you on read was strange. Maybe you’d do something to get his attention.
You opened your phone and realized that your boobs looked great at this angle. Snapping a picture, you shot it Web’s way. He didn’t open it this time, but you could see that he had the app open before promptly closing after he got your notification.
Weird.
You ended up taking a nap listening to Aurora, Cerice and Kore chat away about the sand castle. You’d look up every so often and see Babs in the distance on her large pink colored donut floatie, and assumed Taylor was somewhere nearby.
In the end, you all walked the boardwalk, got ice cream at the little corner shop and collected seashells and sea glass. Babette found a red sea glass piece and you all freaked out at how rare it was. You all took pictures to post to your instagram stories, and Aurora made some offhand comment about her “Uncle Miggy” liking a post from a few weeks ago.
Overall, it was a huge relief to get away from the rest of your life. A tiny vacation, in a way. You kept checking Web’s messages… but again, you saw he had seen your photo but hadn’t replied.
Maybe he was busy.
After you had showered away sand and salt, moisturized and dressed in your favorite pajamas - an old t-shirt and loose sleep shorts - you pulled up the Canvas app. Nothing was due tonight, so you were good to cuddle up in your bed, pull up a movie, and relax.
For a moment, you just stared at your phone. Were you desperate enough to text Web again? After all, this wasn’t normal. He always replied or said he was busy and would get back to you. He’d typically even shoot a ‘ busy next few days’ as a warning, not just… leave you high and dry like this. .
Did you upset him? Was it something that you did? Or - maybe he had some kind of emergency in his personal life? With how old he was, surely he had family, right?
You went back and forth, if you messaged him again, that would be pretty pathetic. But everything about this situationship of yours was pretty pathetic if you thought about it for too long. He had purchased you, a girl he had just barely met, over 200 dollars in sex toys, and in exchange he had seen almost every inch of your body.
Save your face of course, you’d even gotten lazy and let him see your tattoo a couple of times, he said it was pretty, and “fitting,” whatever that meant.
You gave in and messaged him again.
“Heyy just got back home u up?” - Fawnteeth - 8/19/24 9:23 PM [Read]
You watched that message for hours, anxiously switching between Telegram, Tiktok, Instagram, and even Pinterest. You couldn’t even remember the last time you opened Pinterest, but you were desperate for anything to keep you distracted. Time seemed to crawl, and soon it was nearing 1 AM -
and he still hadn’t replied.
You told yourself you were being silly, that there had to be a perfectly reasonable explanation as to why he wasn’t responding to you. You did your best to convince yourself, but you couldn’t ignore that gnawing feeling in your gut that something was deeply wrong.
Maybe you should visit a doctor about getting you a prescription for anxiety medication…
You fell asleep waiting for his reply - the anxiety alone wasn’t enough to keep you up later than 2 AM. When you woke up and were conscious enough to register last night, you quickly scooped up your phone and scrolled through all of your notifications to find… that he had left you on read, and never replied.
It just wasn’t like him. Something was clearly wrong.
The feeling of dread returned and went straight to your stomach again. You couldn’t bring yourself to get up yet, it was only 9 AM, and you didn’t have class till noon anyways. You sunk back into the comfort of your pillows and allowed the weight of your weighted blanket to crush you. You didn’t want to distract yourself, you just wanted to lay there and wallow. So you didn’t bother with the nervous routine of checking all of your apps and allowed yourself to wonder what you did.
You opened your phone against your better judgment, reading over the last few texts you sent him.
(Did he think you were trying to get out of meeting up with him?)
“Hey, hope you’re okay. Not like you to not let me know if you’re gonna be gone.” - Fawnteeth - 8/20/24 11:53 AM [Read]
Did he find someone better than you? Prettier, smarter? Easier to get along with? Dread was where your mind went to first. You couldn’t come up with a logical explanation as to why this was happening. You knew you’d felt better once Web actually answered you, for fucks sake. But until he did it seemed that you were nothing more than a spider caught in a web of your own insecurities and anxiety, and no one had yet come to your rescue to cut you free.
Minutes turned to hours and soon the alarm you set yourself went off. 10:30, you needed to at least shower and get something in your stomach before you went to class. You couldn’t allow yourself to skip just because the internet man you’d grown attached to had decided to ghost you. You were pathetic, but you weren’t going to be that pathetic, no matter how much you really wanted to. Thankfully, all your other professors were way nicer than Dr. O’Hara.
You showered, ate oven-heated chicken nuggets with Taylor and made yourself at least somewhat presentable. You hated how much you craved Web’s attention and care - it was stupid how a man you barely knew had reduced you to this.
You looked at yourself in the mirror before heading out, you looked like shit, you knew that. Deep eyebags a clear indicator of a lack of sleep, your hair was still a bit damp from your rushed shower and you were pretty sure you hadn’t completely washed your conditioner out. It was up in a disgustingly messy bun, so it's not like it mattered anyways.
You tried to navigate the day as you typically would, aching for any shred of normalcy as a welcome distraction. You were halfway through one of your classes when you had to rush to a bathroom stall to have a silent panic attack. You were wiping your tears with the shitty paper-thin toilet paper when you decided to just head back home, consequences be damned.
On the subway back to your shared apartment, you took out your phone and sent a quick message to the group chat.
“Went home early, when all of you are back could you be as quiet as you can please? I’m sick and not feeling well :( ”
You dropped your bag on the floor and kicked your shoes off into some uncaring corner of the room. The moment your head hit the pillow and you were curled up comfortably, you were out like a light. You weren’t sure how long you were asleep, but when you checked your phone It was about 5 am. You had a few notifications, the expected feel better soon wishes from your friends, some Instagram notifications, but nothing from Telegram. You didn’t bother checking it, you knew that the Read in italics seen underneath the last message you sent would only mock you further. Your roommates had at least done what you had asked, the whole place was quiet and still. They were all probably still asleep.
You didn’t bother to shower, instead crawling back into bed and watching Supernatural. You didn’t even like Supernatural - but you watched three episodes straight and fell asleep in your sweats on your bed with the sound of Dean yelling lulling you to sleep.
Eventually, you woke up with sweat sticking to the back of your neck. You felt gross and it made you shiver. It was 11AM and you knew you had classes. You convinced yourself to take a shower, but forgot to eat. You ended up getting coffee and a bagel on the way to class.
It wasn’t a very good bagel.
But hey, you did ace your first test in calculus - take that, Dr. O’Hara. You were good at math.
You messaged Web again when you took the subway back home.
“Did I do something? I’m really getting worried.” - Fawnteeth - 8/21/24 5:28 PM [Read]
He was getting your messages, reading them clearly, and yet he was choosing at this point not to reply. You were truly getting ghosted at this point, and the realization that Web was probably not ever going to respond to you hit you like a brick to the head. You tried not to cry on the subway, you did not want to be that girl who cried on the subway over getting ghosted on Fetlife.
When you got back to your apartment, you once again shed your shoes and outdoor clothes, and crawled back into bed. You ignored everyones concerned looks and mumbled to Aurora that you were fine and just tired when she knocked on your door to check on you. You appreciated the gesture, but you did not want to talk to anyone right now, and you didn’t have the energy to deal with Aurora's animated personality at the moment.
Despite the exhaustion you felt, you couldn’t sleep. The silence of your room was deafening, and the complete lack of message notifications you were getting only made you want to cry. You let out a shaky sigh as a few stray tears dripped down your cheeks. You weren’t in public, you were in the enclosure of your own room with only a few stuffed animals as your witness. You could cry now, this was probably the best place to cry.
Yet despite how badly you wanted to, how you wanted to scream and sob and fall apart until you were a heap of sweat and snot on your bed, you couldn’t bring yourself to do anything more than shed a couple more tears. You didn’t eat dinner that night, you felt like if you tried to you’d just puke it all up.
If Web knew you weren’t eating, he’d scold you, maybe even punish you. You wished he would, punishment, no matter how painful it was and how sore it made you, was better than this. You wanted to go into your messages, confess to every skipped meal, missed shower and late bedtime, to put it all in writing in the hopes of getting some kind of reaction from him, even if he was busy. Probably busy with some new girl that he was talking to that had bigger boobs than you and a cuter pussy. He was probably telling her to write the praises and sweet words meant for you on her body.
You felt like throwing up.
You were being completely pathetic now, you knew that. But now you were too sad and too hurt to care. Maybe if you bothered him enough, you’d get some kind of response. Closure maybe? Taylor told you when you broke up with your last boyfriend that you deserved closure, so this probably wasn’t any different
“I do want to meet up, if that was a problem… I’m not trying to lead you on. Please” - Fawnteeth - 8/21/24 11:45 PM [Read]
You doomscrolled for an hour before you turned your phone off completely and went to bed.
You woke up to your alarm, feeling like shit just like the past few mornings. You forgot to shower again, and planned on skipping breakfast before Babs stopped you and pushed a protein bar into your hands. You ate it to make her happy, and it did help a little, even if you hated the peanut butter flavor.
As much as you wanted to skip class again today, you knew you couldn’t. You had Dr. O’Hara’s class today, and he would be the least understanding and sympathetic to your problems. He’d probably laugh at you and tell you to grow up. That the “real world” didn’t make accommodations to the hurt feelings of a stupid girl.
Asshole.
You walked into his classroom with Taylor on your heels, but before you even had the chance to set your bag down at your non-assigned assigned seat, Dr. O’Hara stopped you. “Stay after class. I’d like to have a word with you.” You felt tears burn in your eyes as you barely managed to whisper out a “yes sir” before you found your seat. Taylor raised an eyebrow at you, concerned, but you just shook your head, wiping your eyes and looking down at your shitty laptop’s keyboard as if it were the most interesting thing in the world.
You couldn’t remember the last time you’d cried this much.
You had completely forgotten about him wanting to talk with you. It was probably about your academics, and how you’d somehow fucked up unintentionally and ruined your life yet again. First it was your Fetlife dom that you clearly had strong feelings for, and now you were going to get kicked out of college for plagiarism. This was it! You’ve completely ruined your life and now you were going to be stuck working retail for the rest of it with horrible hours just to be able to afford to keep a roof over your head. Next all your friends were going to tell you that they hated you and are kicking you out.
You couldn’t pay attention in class, you didn’t even make a single note. Dr. O’Hara was a horrible professor, and Taylor would give you their notes anyways. You could see the way their eyes occasionally flicked to you, concern and scrutinization mingling into something that almost resembled pity.
You stayed in your spot after class had finished, with Taylor telling you to text them whenever your conversation was over so they could walk you to the Subway. They never did that - while Taylor was always protective, they seemed hesitant to actually be personal and one on one with people. God, you must’ve looked like a wreck then. Once everyone had cleared out, your professor turned to you. “Come to my office and wait outside, I’ll call for you once I’m ready to see you. This isn’t a classroom conversation.” His voice was cold - was it colder than usual? God, you felt nauseous.
You nodded, wringing your hands, and walked your way over to his office. Peeking inside the window, it seemed cold and empty, save for the man himself. There was not a single personal item or degree on the wall - it felt like a shell, really. Was this not his usual office? You tried to remember if he had office hours listed in his syllabus, you didn’t think he offered them. You sat down in the plastic chair outside the room, clutching your bag as you dug your nails into the well-worn material.
As he sat down, Dr. O’Hara mumbled your name, formal and cold, and god, it felt like he was mad at you. You practically tiptoed into the room as you shut the door behind you with shaking fragility. You were a good girl, all things considered. The only time you had ever been called into an office was to congratulate you on your scholarship. Of course, you totally squandered said scholarship by doing what your father wanted and going into nursing , but that was neither here nor there.
(Even if he was still upset with you at the new development.)
Now he’d be laughing at you - you were already failing classes. So much for success and proving him wrong. You hoped when you were older, maybe in your thirties, that you could go right up to your father and prance about his office, singing “I told you so’s” from the heavens themselves. Now your life was over, and within a week you were sure to be homeless.
You felt cold sweat on your neck, forcing you to fiddle with the tag of your zippered sweatshirt as you sat down in the plastic chair before Dr. O’Hara’s desk. You found yourself staring at your sneakers, double knotted and slightly stained.
Did you already fail? Did you fuck up your most recent assignment? Did whatever plagiarism checker he used ping a false alarm? Your mind rushed to a thousand possibilities.
Dr. O’Hara cleared his throat, causing you to jump out of your thoughts. You looked up at him. He looked… nervous? You had never been close enough to really see his features, he looked older, wide flat nose, pronounced cheekbones, dark messy hair. His dark brown eyes were staring you down.
…Was he waiting for you to speak? Did he think you knew why you were here? The silence was worse than any scolding he could give you.
You were a talker. You’d always been a talker. The amount of times that you’d been told to shut up in your life was more than you could count.
So, of course, you talked .
“I-I don’t know why I’m here. I hope it - I promise you I'm trying as hard as I can. I both work and do school full time. If it’s something with my recent assignments I- I don’t know . I’m trying. I.. I have a habit of using really big words that sometimes come up with plagiarism checkers that the college recommends you all use. It happened last semester with one of my roommates - er. They didn’t have anything to do with any of my assignments. They’re not even in the same major -”
“Slow down. You’re not in trouble,” he interrupted, eyes tired as he lifted a hand to pinch the bridge of his nose.
You paused your rambling, staring at him almost dumbfounded as you grip at your sweatshirt. “W… Why am I here?”
He looked like he was weighing something in his head as he stared at you, dark gaze thinning and lips pressing thin. With a big exhale, he let out whatever inhibitions had been holding him back.
“Does the phrase ‘Fawnteeth’ mean anything to you?” His words were blunt and emotionless, face turning to stone in an instant. You couldn’t read him, but you weren’t very good at reading faces anyway.
You felt all the color drain from your face, veins turning to ice. You were frozen, terrified, a deer in the headlights. How the fuck did your professor know about - that. You had used ‘Fawn’ as an online alias since you were a teen, yes. But Fawnteeth was something that you only used… on Fetlife. You know - where you were anonymous . You were supposed to be anonymous!
…Did someone tell him? The college board? Not even your roommates knew you used that website. You only spoke to three people on it - and even then, only one regularly. Or… you had, before Web ghosted you.
In your panic, you couldn’t put any answer together that made any sense.
“I… If anyone has sent you anything. I am so sorry- I don’t know how. Oh my god . I’m so fucked .” Your hands grabbed your face, fingers sinking into your flushed cheeks as you tried to look anywhere but your genetics professor.
“You’re not in trouble,” he reiterated, though the words seemed almost as painful as they were awkward rolling off his tongue, “I just needed to - we needed to -”
You couldn’t look him in the eyes as he spoke, so you stared at his hands.
His… oddly familiar hands.
(Despite the fact that you’d never been close enough to see his hands.)
You heard him talk, but it was like listening through water as you just stared at his hands. As you visualized the last time you saw them wrapped around - oh god.
Your eyes darted up to meet his, and he looked…concerned, brow furrowed and dark eyes wide. You tried desperately to speak, but your words caught in your throat.
His hands were Web’s hands. The same scar on his knuckle and webbing of veins that made them look out of those black and white thirst trap BDSM aesthetic tumblr posts you used to reblog on tumblr.
This was not what you had imagined when you agreed to meet up with your weird…online situationship dominant.
Distantly, you heard Dr. O’Hara - Web - say your name, still coming through your head like water, distant and muffled.
This had to be some sick joke. You trailed your hands from your cheeks to cover your ears. You swear you’re going to hurl.
Were you having a panic attack?
Probably.
You took a moment to breathe into the silence, thankful that he seemed to take the hint and stop fucking talking . You could just leave, pretend like he never.. You two never…
This had to be a sick joke. Unless he hunted down one of his future students… but… You hadn’t even signed up for his class when he messaged you. No, this had to be some horrible accident. Some horrible, horrible accident. You did NOT sign up to fuck your teacher.
Especially not… Him. Anyone but him.
Finally managing to compose yourself, you took in a shaky breath, hands dropping from your face to your lap. Forcing yourself to meet his eyes, you balked at the sight - he looked terrified . Not ten minutes ago, you would’ve found some sick joy in it, but right now…
You couldn’t find the humor.
“Web?” Your voice cracked, upset and heartbroken. What else could you say? Ask? What could you do ?
You watched Dr. O’Hara tense up, breathing through his teeth. He ripped his gaze from you and placed his hands, palm down on the table.
This could only happen to you. Only you would somehow sext your fucking teacher for months. You could never have anything easy or normal. He couldn’t have been some banker, or a stupid sexy jock librarian.
“Dios mío…,” Dr. O’Hara rumbled, voice deep and low. You watched him lean back in his chair, staring at the ceiling.
He was Web. Your horrible, awful, asshole professor that you had spent countless nights bitching about was the man you had sent pictures and videos of your whole pussy swallowing up a dildo to. This man had seen you cum before he’d seen you get an A on one of his assignments.
Oh god.
You spent a solid thirty seconds in the most painful, humiliating, awkward silence you’d ever gone through in your entire life. This was worse than when you dropped out of nursing school, when you broke your arm learning how to skate in front of all the popular girls in middle school, when you’d been turned down in front of a crowd by your middle school crush. It was worse than anything you’d ever experienced.
(You wished you had died right there.)
Unfortunately, God was not intending to strike you down right then. Maybe you could pray to Zues and he’d throw a perfectly aimed lighting bolt right between your eyes. You’d seen on Tiktok that some people prayed to the greek gods, maybe one could grant you a favor and-
Your thoughts were interrupted with the door being swung open, another one of your professors waltzed into the office like he owned the place. Professor Parker - most of his students seemed to call him Peter - burst open the door, phone in his hand held out to Dr. O’Hara.
“Oh. My. God. Miguel. You will not BELIEVE what my baby sitter just sent me.” Not even looking at you, he strode in, pajama clad and scruffy bearded. It was like you weren’t even there, and your jaw snapped shut, teeth clicking with the effort. Dr. O’Hara’s eyes widened.
“You know Mayday? My pride and joy? Your godchild? Look at her. She got cake and it's all over her little face. Hah! Babies don’t know how to eat cake. It’s so adorable…” He chuckled, waving his hand in a relaxed gesture before he noticed that you were also in here, very panicked and on the verge of crying. You… and Miguel having the worst day of his life from the look on his face.
“Uh.. Did I interrupt some-”
“ Nope ,” Dr. O’Hara said quickly, slapping both of his hands down on the desk. He turned to you, eyes wide. “I will continue this conversation with you later.”
Dr. O’Hara raised his brows as if trying to tell you to act normal . You blinked once. He said your name - all formal again. Prof. Parker leaned on his chair, still holding the phone in his direction. Eyeing you with confusion, the ganglier professor frowned, head cocking to the left. Curious.
You needed to play it cool. You wished you exploded on the spot. You’ve seen videos about spontaneous combustion before.
That would be really nice about now.
You squeaked and stood up. “O-Okay Dr. O’Hara I will see you. Next… Class. Later.” You turned on one foot and practically ran out the door.
This was not at all like the sexy TeacherxStudent college romances that you had read on wattpad in middle school. But knowing your luck, your life would turn into a version of “Kidnapped by One Direction” next - you already had the messy bun part down of being a Y/N.
But hey, at least you knew why Web ghosted you now. You kind of wished that it was a prettier, younger girl with better boobs and a cuter pussy, not this. This wasn’t the kind of closure you wanted.
So. You went to your next two classes and then promptly went home and laid down face first on your bed until you heard the phone ping. For a moment you considered not checking… but you groaned and picked up the phone. It was Web. Dr. O’Hara.
5:10 PM - WebRigger2099 - “Hey.”
“ ...Hi. ” - Fawnteeth - 5:12 PM
5:10 PM - WebRigger2099 - “I’m sorry. I didn’t know how else to approach you about this.”
“ I can imagine ” - Fawnteeth - 5:12 PM
“ please tell me for the love of god you didn’t know ” - Fawnteeth - 5:12 PM
5:12 PM - WebRigger2099 - “I only found out Monday. Your tattoo. You don’t normally have it showing.”
“ oh ” - Fawnteeth - 5:12 PM
5:13 PM - WebRigger2099 - “I didn’t mean to make you worry before, I was just trying to figure out how to respond.”
“ ghosting me was not the way to do that ” - Fawnteeth - 5:13 PM
5:13 PM - WebRigger2099 - “Would you have preferred I told you who I was over this chat? I wasn’t sure it was you. Not fully.”
“ I guess that makes sense ” - Fawnteeth - 5:13 PM
5:13 PM - WebRigger2099 - “If it wasn’t you you would have said that name doesn’t mean anything to me and I would have messaged you back right away on here.”
“ ok ” - Fawnteeth - 5:13 PM
5:13 PM - WebRigger2099 - “This wasn’t what either of us expected.”
“ sure fucking hope not ” - Fawnteeth - 5:14 PM
5:15 PM - WebRigger2099 - “I promise I did not intentionally try to woo one of my students. There’s like… 20 different colleges in NY. Thousands of students in each of them.”
“ I have the worst fucking luck on the god damn planet ” - Fawnteeth - 5:15 PM
5:15 PM - WebRigger2099 - “You’re telling me. I finally find someone that agrees to my rules and waits patiently for two months before they even meet and this happens.”
5:15 PM - WebRigger2099 - “Look, you can block me, I would honestly expect that. I’m sorry again.”
“ is this what you meant by continuing the conversation? ” - Fawnteeth - 5:15 PM
5:16 PM - WebRigger2099 - “If you want I will help you transfer out to a different class. Afterwards, we can mutually block one another.”
“ I don’t want that. ” - Fawnteeth - 5:16 PM
5:16 PM - WebRigger2099 - “Then what would you like? I want to make this right by you, the last thing I want is for you to feel like I’ve thrown you away.”
“ I’ll be honest, I’m not entirely sure what I want. ” - Fawnteeth - 5:16 PM
5:17 PM - WebRigger2099 - “That’s fine. But I’d like to speak about this again with you, in person. It’s wrong to have a conversation like this over text.”
“ I would appreciate that, please. ” - Fawnteeth - 5:17 PM
5:17 PM - WebRigger2099 - “Okay just… Somewhere private. I don’t need to be raising questions meeting up with a student outside of class.”
“ I think that’s kinda obvious. Where? I don’t want to see professor parker again. ” - Fawnteeth - 5:18 PM
5:16 PM - WebRigger2099 - “He has a bad habit of coming in at terrible times. Highland Park, tomorrow at 5pm?”
“ ok ” - Fawnteeth - 5:19 PM
You turned your phone off for the night, you saw you got another notification from Web, but you didn’t bother reading it. Maybe you should have -, at least then, he’d be the one left on read this time.
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Where do you think LU Warriors would like to go on vacation?
One human location and then one Hylian/LOZ location (country, tourist attraction, etc.)
(or more than one location, if the blorbo thoughts™ say so---)
oooooooh okay okay (this is a WONDERFUL question btw)
I think it completely depends on who he’s with. Multiple people? The beach. He can lay down in the sun and tan and completely tune out everyone else. He might even get a massage at the spa. And then the others are all there for him to bother if he gets bored, and he can dress up all fancy and pretty to go out for fancy dinners and drinks late at night with the “adults” after the “kids” have either gone to bed or hit the arcade or gone off to cause problems somewhere else. One friend (Time, or Twi, or Athena)? I think he’d love to go to a city and shop and watch a musical (either in NYC or Chicago). Maybe he’d enjoy going abroad and exploring cities over in Europe, but he’s content getting to drag around one person and yap and both of them have fun. By himself? A quiet lake town, or just a small town. There are plenty of places to explore, lots of nature near by, plenty of space to just walk around and browse in tiny book stores that smell like books. Rocks you can sit on to just enjoy the waves with an iced tea in hand. Quiet sunsets watching the fireflies, no one’s there to bother you and it’s so peaceful but it’s not lonely
laughing now after I typed all that out because I’m realizing how WELL that matches how I characterize him. Like I think he’s an incredibly performative, larger than life person around others who comes off as cocky and ridiculous sometimes but the person he REALLY is, when he’s not acting around people, just yearns for quiet and peace
Hmmm… I think he’d be blown away by Wild’s Zora’s domain. Like the place is just absolutely magnificent and gorgeous, his jaw would be on the floor. But also I think he’d love Gerudo Town, not that they’d let him in but yknow
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Dallas Winston Backstory Headcanons Part 2
I genuinely feel bad for writing this much. But hope you enjoy it! Same warnings as part 1 (Check it out!)
Part 3, General Headcanons
These are my headcanons for his travels pre-Tulsa!
Dally hopped trains for a couple years. But never really found a place he wanted or had a reason to stay in. He didn’t trust anybody so he would mainly just stick to himself when he was in a town or city. If anyone tried to approach him he was quick to just try and act tough and sometimes even threaten them. A part of him convinced himself that he liked the open road, feeling the wind in his hair, seeing all the different people from afar, and the adventure. But the other part of him just wanted a stable place to live. Somewhere with people who will help him out without using it against him.
After everything he saw in NYC and from his own family, he was especially untrustworthy of adults. So when in towns, he wouldn’t purposefully try to talk to any of them. He would mainly swipe things from stores and hang out with the groups of kids nearby. He met a lot of nice kids and being so young he could fit in if he wanted to. He would play marbles with some kids, swing from rope into a nearby creek, your normal kid stuff. But those kids alway had to go home to their loving families. So Dally eventually started to disappear the day after. He hated the reminder that he truly had no one.
After he was running around the united states for a while, he ended up in the midwestern area. He spent April of 1961 (12 years old) running around Indiana and while he was walking around Waterloo area someone pulled him into a building and yelled at him about why he wasn’t inside yet. He was basically sleeping wherever he could find a place, no matter the weather so he was really confused. Till the man who pulled him into the gas station shushed him and said to listen. Suddenly Dally could hear a train-like sound and what sounded like a giant saw cutting through the buildings nearby. The man got into position and pulled Dally into the back room of the station. Dally had been in a lot of bad situations, but man was this one of the scariest. The tornado took off the roof and tore out parts of the wall but did not hit the building head-on. But Dally has a large fear of tornadoes now. As well as just gets nervous during thunderstorms. (I know it’s stupid that he stayed in Oklahoma, but I’ll explain later)
Everything he owns is from other people. He swiped several things, but a lot of it is from people who either had extra of something or just felt bad for him. He sadly never saw that their intentions were genuinely to be kind and not to pull one over on him.
Examples: His leather jacket was from a black man in Mississippi who made it for him after he helped out on the family ranch for some extra money. (The last amount of money he would make before making it to Tulsa) A fabric satchel was gifted to him from an older lady after she saw him just roaming near her bakery. She said he was a good boy for keeping himself from stealing and he felt kind of bad since he did steal some goods. But he didn’t for very long because he needed to eat, didn't he?
The midwest was a generally rural area and mostly had small towns. So he did a lot of walking. He enjoyed it but when he made it to the South he felt at home. He didn’t know why but something just drew him in. Maybe it was just the vibes. He took part in several rodeos, drank a lot of sweet tea, and ended up with a full stomach pretty often. He would stumble into parks where super large gatherings were happening and just be given access to the table full of bbq and hot dogs.
I’ve talked a lot about the nice people he met, but few were actually kind to him. Many would kick him out of places as they just believed he was going to steal stuff or cause trouble. So he eventually started playing that role. He always convinced himself it was a compliment and that he just looked that tough. But a small part of him felt upset that just because he was rough around the edges people would judge him just like that.
Overall, to those who were kind to him they could tell he was going to be a horrible influence on their kids and such but seeing that he was a kid they wanted to help him out. He just didn’t want to accept that help. Growing attached to anything always meant bad to him.
#the outsiders#dallas winston#ponyboy curtis#johnny cade#darry curtis#the outsiders headcanons#dallas winston headcanons#dally Winston#original content#starlight's writing
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Hi! So I've been looking at some writing prompts in hopes of finally overcoming my current writer's block, and some of the ones that looked interesting to me start with something like "character a and b get separated and x thing happens". The problem is, no one ever specifies WHY or HOW characters A and B got separated, and I'm having a lot of trouble coming up with reasons on my own. I also haven't been able to find any "reasons why characters would get split up" lists anywhere and I'm kinda stumped. Do you have any tips to help?
Struggling with Writing Prompts
Well, writing prompts are meant to be somewhat vague. The point is to plant seeds that will grow in your own unique imagination.
It sounds like you need a refresher on how to brainstorm ideas like these. So, let's start there. ♥
The key with brainstorming is to dial everything back and break it down to its simplest point... "Character A and B got separated" is pretty broad and vague. How can we dial that back and break it down?
First, before we can figure out where they are and why, we have to figure out who they are. Who do you want A and B to be? Romantic partners? Love interests? Parent and child? Siblings? Best friends? Co-workers? Classmates? Teacher and student? Captor and captive? Prisoner and guard? Guide and client? There are lots of possibilities. Let's say you go with best friends. Flesh that out... are they adult best friends? Teen best friends? Child best friends? How old? What gender? Let's say they're a fifteen year old girl and and sixteen-year-old enby.
Next... we know they must be someplace together because they get separated. So, where are they? Where might a fifteen and sixteen year old pair of besties be, and what might they be doing? Are they at school packing up ahead of an early dismissal due to a freak snowstorm? Are they shopping in Times Square on a field trip to NYC? Are they walking home from school through a vacant lot? Are they hiking through the woods at summer camp? Let's say they're shopping in Times Square.
Now, we can look at how they got separated. Did they part ways voluntarily, each going into a different store and not finding each other again? Did one ditch the other for some reason? Was one taken by someone? Did one fall through a portal into another time? Did one vanish because they were called back to the fey realm they unknowingly came from? Was one arrested? Did one inadvertently get on the wrong subway?
Again, there are lots of possibilities. The point is to brainstorm them all, pick the combination that sounds fun, and let your imagination run wild! :)
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Enrichments Enclosures I Would Give The Countries. (No I won't elaborate just vibe with me on this one)
Italy: back to the purgatory island from season 1 Romano: a separate deserted Island away from Italy's Spain: a room with a never ending party but also a quiet area for naps. Germany: a kitchen will all his baking tools Prussia: I would give him a bible, a 20$ bill and turn him loose in a modern day NYC subway and just observe. Japan: zen garden that needs fixed up America: McDonalds Play Place but adult sized & never ending nuggies Canada: a Tim Horton's & they show all his favorite hockey highlights England: Buckingham Palace with his royal family France: wine cellar with every wine he's ever liked Russia: an undisclosed warm little cabin in Siberia China: a Shrine on a mountain top Latvia: his own personal home library Estonia: a toxic COD lobby Lithuania: an empty white room with a chair and a pack of saltines Belarus: padded room & straight jacket Ukraine: a sunny sunflower field that goes for miles. Poland: Claire's room from the movie Clueless Austria: music store where everything is free Hungary: a room with a little window so she can watch Austria in his enclosure also snacks. Finland: a Christmas themed bar with no cut off limit Norway: a sensory deprivation room Sweden: Just an Ikea but he has head phones so he can listen to ABBA whenever he so chooses. Denmark: an indoor trampoline park with people there to clap at his tricks.
#hetalia#hws america#hws england#hws russia#hws canada#hws france#hws italy#hws germany#hws prussia#hws romano#hws spain#hws austria#hws hungary#hws belarus#hws ukraine#hws latvia#hws lithuania#hws estonia#hws finland#hws norway#hws sweden#hws denmark#hws poland#alfred f. jones#arthur kirkland#feliciano vargas#romano vargas#matthew williams#ludwig beilschmidt#original
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Hi!!!! I hope this long unasked-for tumblr missive finds you very well!Sorry to crash into your inbox and randomly rant a Stucky AU idea at you but it's happening, also it's your fault bc I got this idea after reading all your wonderful wonderful Stucky AU fics.
ok ok so
what if
It's all New Yorky and Brooklyn-y. They each live in Brooklyn apartments but are from slightly different worlds.
Bucky is a sweet beefcake composite of all the wholesome Male Archetype tropes: protective, folksy, tough n strawng, stands by his word, pretty basic and square, fruit of the loom tshirts levi jeans, have a beer after work with the guys, this here's the best pizza/hot dog/etc in New York, and so on. -I've been telling myself the vibe I want is in the scene from No Country For Old Men when Llewellyn Moss goes into the clothing store and needs a whole new outfit and the guy says "we only got white socks" and Moss says "I only wear white" and the store guy clearly approves it's this whole cowboy moment and it's like OK??? You're in very dire need to be expressing that as a hard principle??? So dumb except it's also so great.- Bucky is devoted to his mom and his sisters who he probably helped raise, but he has a cliche good role model blue-collar dad (who maybe died years ago). He is every (non-shitty) older-brother trope and most dad tropes.
Steve is pre-serum Steve. He just has all the pre-serum Steve qualities aka is a highly principled spitfire who never stops fighting and whose perspective is colored by living with chronic illness and pain and not meeting the Male Physical Ideal. Art and education led him to college scholarships and then law school but he was raised by hardworking nurse single mom Sarah, so he's not a rich lawyer but a beleaguered one fighting on behalf of the little guy. Still a more middle-class and intellectual existence than Bucky's, particularly in Bucky's eyes.( Always love pre-serum Steve and his experiences in society in any decade bc we are so weird about gender identity and he shows that in so many ways.) (Also I just have always had intense irrational tender protective love for small sprites of men that I keep under wraps bc they are grown adult humans.)
These two come into each other's lives because of Something With Unions and Labor Disputes in NYC. Ahem. I started researching NY labor disputes and didn't know where to dive in. I have zero knowledge or context or background except for that season of the Wire with the longshoreman union. BUT anyway Bucky is some kind of super generational blue-collar union dude. It's entirely possible he suffered an injury to his left arm that took him more away from the physical side of things and got him more involved with the union. Either way he's a part of a union that is engaging in a Righteous Dispute with the employer. It's all very labor rights and worker justice, things which I believe in strongly but am so embarrassingly under-educated about.
And STEVE is a lawyer who fights on behalf of worker's rights! I know lawyers but not remotely union law. But I'm very confident lawyers are involved in labor disputes. Socialist Steve with a head full of knowledge and a powerful courtroom presence, using the system to try and make things better. I've spent more time thinking about Bucky and his white socks I can't lie but there's clearly cool stuff here.
Steve is an out gay man, while Bucky is incredibly in the closet at work and out to his immediate family but very private and very single. Steve has a lot of angry opinions about lgbtq+ rights, and he struggles hard with his self-image, but he also has fun being gay. He has game. Bucky is lonely and has no game except his Regular-Guy thing, which works for anonymous hookups but not much else.
They meet because they end up working together on the Some Kind Of Labor Dispute! They bring super different but equally important things to the table! The reader learns about the history of unions in NYC! They are constantly liason-ing and being overworked and fussing at each other for caring too much about Truth and Justice. Steve privately thinks Bucky is the biggest most ridiculously attractive dreamboat but would never dream he was gay let alone interested in him. (Bucky gives this Steve the pants feelings that Cap Steve gives Lawyer Bucky in Unpredictable Synchronicity). Bucky feels like a big square idiot compared to Steve, can't fathom that his old-fashioned blue-collar bro vibes inspire anything but disdain in someone as intelligent and accomplished and cultured and bravely uniquely themself as Steve. They are both for different reasons very afraid of falling in love. They share ups and downs in the case and get to know each other better.
and THEN
KISSING HAPPENS
so yeah that's my pitch dawg. Sorry for dropping this whole thing on you, I like online social interacting a lot but I definitely do not know how to do it lol
I got the idea for this story from getting COVID over the holidays and spending like 6 hours lying in bed with a fever, fully conscious but unable to really do anything, haven't had a fever like that since childhood, and I ended up entertaining myself by thinking up a scene in the above-described setting, where they're working on the case together but Steve comes down sick and Bucky pops in on him only to go all older-sibling on a feverish Steve who resists but actually needs some coddling, and it feels vulnerable and intimate and they each realize they have a crush/how bad the crush is. It' s been a bee in my bonnet ever since and I have like 3/4s of one page written. If you wanna write it, holy shit dude please do it. If you wanna talk about it, YAY OMG. If you're like 'ok cool but i have my own ideas buzzing at me to get written, this is a You Problem,' that's totally legit and I hope I write it one day and when/if I do I will be heavily under the influence of your fics.
If you are still reading, bless you, and let me just include in case you're actually interested:
QUESTIONS I HAVE NOT ANSWERED:
-What decade is it?????? I started overthinking this but it seems tough. The whole idea is really giving me 80s vibes. The thing about that is that pivotal gay history was happening in New York in the 80s and it was unspeakably fucking tragic and neither centering that in the story nor glossing it over feels right. So just nowadays?? But are big righteous union disputes in NYC still a thing nowadays?? Or say fuck it and go earlier but wow writing in the 70s or 60s feels like such a wild move. TBH that might be it. Earlier decades create more obstacles for their love story, but a more current setting would be easier to get into both as a writer and a reader.
-What the hell job are we talking about? Longshoreman seems kinda tricky but also kinda obvious. Steel worker? Construction? What is a good cliche union job in which the union's cause is righteous? In New York? I'm sure there are many to choose from but it does feel like it needs to be reasonably historically/politically accurate. Maybe 60s longshoreman?? But that's so long ago... the dilemma
-PS everyone is in their mid-to-late 30s bc that is my demographic and every main character being 17 makes me so old and tired.
Thank you so much for reading this, there's no pressure to respond at all of course, I had to get it out somewhere lol! Thanks for your awesome AO3 presence in general, you are such a delightful and talented writer, I'm very glad to know your work!!!!!!
Okay, 1, I had a very, very bad week because hellish flood disaster conditions [I am fine but my friends aren't and I have trauma from previous floods] and also some other weird life shit. Anyway, this made me laugh with such happy delight my kids were like, "WHAT ARE YOU READING!?" I did not tell them.
2. OMG THE SOCKS. The white socks.
3. Yeah we are on the same page here, friend. One can't set a gay love story in the 80s or 90s in NY unless it's about AIDS, I have a thing about that. I mean, I can't stop people, but I would try to blow it up with my mind. Nothing personal.
4. I actually know a lot about unions and in particular the trades, which are, more or less, the various unions that build things. So. Here's a fun one. In Pittsburgh the city chose the lowest bidder to repaint a bridge and used a contractor from Florida that was non-union. Um, maybe this doesn't sound as scandalous to anyone but me. It's a big deal because local hire is important to the local economy.
In a modern setting, a lot of construction projects that come into an area sign a community benefit agreement/project labor agreement that commits to using a certain % of local labor, high road labor standards, and things like apprenticeships which are entry level jobs which can mean that local people actually have a chance at the jobs. So we'll say the people that are repainting the bridge, or, whatever, installing the HVAC on the new soccer stadium, used a non-union contractor from NEW JERSEY which is in violation of their agreement. That kind of thing is definitely the kind of dispute labor attorneys would get involved in, and union reps are very possessive over because obviously they want the work for union contractors. So I can totally see Bucky being his local union rep - IUPAT is the painters union, could also be LIUNA - and working closely with an attorney doing a suit against the city or a developer for not using local hire/union labor.
There are certainly other kinds of labor disputes, that's just the kind I know the most about.
5. OH MY GOD listen. LISTEN. listen ARE YOU LISTEN? Blue collar Bucky feeling like Steve is too fancy to ever love him. Steve feeling like Bucky is too manly to ever love him. Their insecurities are a complementary ourobouros spiral of doom, like, the gift of the Magi by OHenry. It's two sides of the toxic masculinity coin and it's, ARE YOU LSITN??? STOP it with the tragic gender/classism dynamics. Heterosexuality and capitalism are the real villians of this tale. Oh it's so beautiful. Thank you.
6. The current port strike is absolutely DELIGHTFUL inside joke and relevant reference given fandom's love of making Bucky a dock worker. So, I mean, go for that, if you're feeling it. I have never lived on a coast and don't know much about dockworkers though I do know it's very dangerous work, and actually know someone who lost their arm doing river barge work, which, I'm guessing, is somewhat similar to port work? No actual fucking clue?
7. I feel really seen because yes indeed this whole plot is very much aligned with my interests, if you haven't guessed yet.
8. I am not gonna lie, as much as I adore every thing about this, probably not gonna write this. Right now I am very tired so it's a bad time to guess.
9. Please talk to me about it. I would love to enable this beautiful madness.
10. I am glad your Covid is better.
#this is as long as that the sky is blue post#I am just embracing it#I had a bad week and I'm feeling petulant.#zenaida talks (too much)#author asks
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Writing Research: Homeless Character
I’m currently writing about a character that is homeless. A lot of this information is base on real accounts and advice from people that suddenly found themselves homeless. I’ve even included a couple of things that I’ve learned myself because at one point I thought I would be kicked out and wanted to prepared myself as much as I possibly could for it.
Shelters
Homeless shelters are a basic form of temporary accommodation where a bed is provided in a shared space overnight. Most shelters even provide homeless individuals with basic necessities like food, water, toiletries, and clothes. While others offer programs that aim to help people get off the street and get back on their feet.
However, not all shelters accept walk-ins and if they do, it’s usually first come, first serve because space is limited. Most of them also required you to fill out an application first so they can determine if you’re eligible to stay at their shelter. You may even need to have certain documents to prove your identity and residence (such as a driver’s license, green card, passport or visa, birth certificate, Social Security card, Medicaid card, eviction papers, etc.) or have a referral from a social services agency to be accepted. That’s because some shelters are specifically aimed towards different types of homeless people like a family, pregnant women, teens, a single adult, etc. Those shelter facility have special accommodation that better suits their needs.
Each shelter also has their own set of rules, restrictions and regulations, which depends on who’s running them and where they get their funding from. In general, well-funded shelters tend to have more programs and better facilities. Though these types of shelters also tend to be more overcrowded than smaller, less-funded ones. Almost all shelters have set opening and closing times. Most of the time, they open at 8:00 AM and close at 4:00 PM. For homeless people working night shifts or irregular working hours, this can be a deterrent.
Generally, shelters are free but there are some cases where they may charge you a fee. They may do so when you stay longer than you’re suppose to, which varies from shelter to shelter (such as after 7 to 14 days) or when you want to continue to keep your belongings stored in the locker while you’re at work. Though they don’t always ask for money. Some may take half of the resident’s food stamp allowance. While others require their residents to work up to 40 hours per week in the shelter in exchange for board and lodging.
Street Sense Media - What to do when you become homeless
ToughNickel - Soon to Be Homeless? 12 Ways to Prepare for Homelessness
The Prepping Guide - 12 Tips: How to Be Homeless and Survive
Real Change News - So, you’re homeless now. Here’s what you need to know
Invisible People - What Is It Like to Stay in a Homeless Shelter?
Reddit: r/askreddit - [Serious] What is it like living in a homeless shelter?
Eco Bear - What Is It like Living in a Homeless Shelter?
Medium - Living In A Shelter Sucks: My Experience Being Homeless
Reddit: r/IAmA - I used to be homeless, now I'm not. AMA
NPR - Why Some Homeless Choose The Streets Over Shelters? [audio]
Quick Haven - Why Do Homeless People Avoid Shelters
VICE - This Is Why Homeless People Don't Go to Shelters
Reddit: r/homeless - Why do homeless people consider shelters unsafe?
Business Insider - I Spent The Night In A Homeless Shelter—Here's What It Was Like
New York Post - ‘I feel like I’m back in jail’: Life inside NYC’s broken shelter system
NPR - A Day In The Life Of A Homeless Woman Who Sleeps At A Skid Row Shelter [audio]
VAWnet: National Resource Center on Domestic Violence - No Safe Place: Sexual Assault in the Lives of Homeless Women
Reddit: r/AskNYC - I’m (19F) recently homeless and have nowhere to go. Does anyone know of any shelters or resources available in the city right now?
Youtube: Bustle - How Do Homeless Women Cope With Their Periods? [video]
VICE - Homeless Women Talk About How They Deal With Their Period
Cosmopolitan - What It's Like to Get Your Period When You're Homeless
Youtube: Invisible People - Homeless Woman Walks Us Through a Day in the Life on the Streets of San Diego [video]
Northeast Ohio Coalition for the Homeless (NEOCH) - A Day in the Life of a Homeless Person
Boston 25 News - The day in the life of a homeless person in Boston
Business Insider - Here's A Trick I Learned At The Homeless Shelter For Surviving Bed Bugs
HomelessAdvice - Advice When You Need It
Primal Survivor - 10 Survival Tricks Learned from Homeless People
Invisible People - Surviving the Winter Without Shelter
NBC News - Marvin's World: Nine Lessons From Homeless Man's Winter in NYC
TIME - 'I Thought I Was Going to Die.' How Chicago's 80,000 Homeless People Are Surviving in Deadly Zero-Degree Weather
Northeast Ohio Coalition for the Homeless (NEOCH) - Where I Lived in the Winter When I Was Homeless
Guide 2 Homelessness - Survival Guide to Homelessness
HomelessAdvice - Do Homeless Shelters Charge Money?
Food Storage Moms - How to Survive in a Homeless Shelter
Los Angeles Times - Column: When homeless people lose their possessions, they end up further from leaving the streets
Gothamist - What Life Looks Like For One Of 3,600 Homeless People Living On NYC Streets
Boise State University - A day in the life of a Boise homeless man
Youtube: Don Johns - sneak peek at homeless shelter life in America [video]
On the Pulse News - Day in the Life: Local homeless woman lives ‘day to day’
Reddit: r/IAmA - I Am A a mother of 2 who was homeless for a year after leaving my husband, AMA.
Our Father’s House Soup Kitchen - Living on the Streets: What’s It Really Like?
Londonist - "I Was Homeless On The Streets Of London. This Is What It Was Like"
DailyMail - People who have escaped being homeless reveal what life is REALLY like - from fooling 'squares' with sob stories to get money to going for two weeks without eating
London School of Economics and Political Science (LSE) - How young homeless people experience London and the homeless system
The Guardian - Homeless in Britain: ‘I graduated with honours – and ended up on the streets’
Youtube: EPOCH - The day I became homeless in London [video]
BBC News - 'I’m homeless but I find great places to live'
Youtube: Invisible People - Homeless Woman Sleeping Rough in London after Domestic Violence [video]
London Homeless Info - Information for homeless in London by ex-homeless
Youtube: Real Stories - Life On The Streets: Britain's Homeless Problem (Poverty Documentary) [video]
The Associated Press - Homeless shelters begin to see value in making room for pets
National Alliance to End Homelessness - Pets Can Be a Barrier — or an Open Door — to Ending an Individual’s Homelessness
Feeding Pets of the Homeless - Addressing Pet of the Homeless
Enid News & Eagle - Day in the life of the homeless: Walking, waiting and sleeping outside
Churches
Many of the churches (and other religious or spiritual organizations) provide resources and overnight shelter for the homeless. Some of them may even include free hot meals, clothes, information on applying for financial aid or maybe a few dollars to help pay the rent or a utility bill as well as other aid.
Sometimes, when there’s no more space inside the church, it’s not uncommon to find homeless people sleeping on its steps too. They can sleep there every night without the cops bothering them. The reason why is that churches are on private property. As long as the church owner allows you to be there, you're good. And they usually do give permission.
However, it’s understandable that some homeless people may not feel comfortable going to a church for help. In fear that the church may try to use the opportunity to “convert” them or there might be discrimination based on their sexual orientation and/or gender identity.
American Magazine | The Jesuit Review of Faith - What it’s like going to church when you’re homeless
Need Help Paying Bills - Churches Help With Rent, Utility Bills, Food...
Christianity Today - Church and State for the Homeless
U.S. Catholic - Churches answer the call to shelter the homeless
Vox - The Salvation Army says it doesn’t discriminate against LGBTQ people. Critics say that’s not true.
Gothamist - Muslim Charity Spends Holy Month Feeding The Homeless Every Night
The Muslim Council of Britain - How can mosques serve the issue of homelessness?
Religion News Service (RNS) - Homeless find rest in faith-based shelters more than others
Libraries
Patrons, regardless of their housing status, have always found the library to be a welcoming place. It can provide an air-conditioned space on a hot day, warmth in the wintertime, public restrooms for all, internet access, charge your phone, and be a quiet space to read or to keep yourself busy.
For those people experiencing homelessness it’s not unusual to find them waiting early in the morning each day for the doors to open. They’ll spend their entire day there reading to escape from their everyday reality, listening to music, browsing the internet for job listings, maybe even researching ways to help themselves out of their situation or just keeping themselves entertained.
However, many libraries still require patrons to have an permanent address and photo identification to get a library card. But what most don’t realize is that some libraries allow patrons to use temporary addresses, such as the shelters or other social service organizations when applying for a library card. If you can’t get a card, it’s still possible to access the computers without it, you just need to go to the Reference Desk and ask for a new numerical code every hour. Some places may even offer you a temporary guest pass. Either way, everyone gets one-hour sessions per day on the computer.
You also don’t need a library card or a password to access their free unsecured wireless network, usually titled as “Library Guest.”
American Library Association (ALA) - Libraries Respond: Services to Poor and Homeless People
Deseret News - Homeless people need libraries, and libraries need them, too
University of Illinois Urbana-Champaign: School of Information Science - Serving Homeless Patrons in the Public Library: What can libraries do?
The Guardian - Homeless people have found safety in a library – but locals want them gone
Public Library Association - Library Service to the Homeless
American Library Association (ALA) - A Home to the Homeless
WickedLocal - You have a child who wants to borrow a book, but you have no permanent address. What next?
Berkeleyside - No permanent address? No problem. Berkeley library makes it easier for those without homes to get library cards
PBS - From nurses to social workers, see how public libraries are serving the homeless
Librarian To Librarian - Attending to the Forgotten: Welcoming Homeless Children into the Fold
Vehicles
Those who live in their vehicles have to worry about the legality of their lifestyle – something that is frequently in flux as laws change.
Sleeping in your car is perfectly legal if it’s parked on property you own yourself, such as the driveway of your home. But sadly, that’s not an option when you’re homeless because you wouldn’t be living in your car in the first place. It’s also legal if you’re parked on someone else’s property with their permission, like in the driveway of a friend or of a family member.
It’s possible to pass a peaceful night in a privately-owned parking lot, say outside of a grocery store. In fact, many 24hr businesses such as Wal-Mart and Cracker Barrel have built up a reputation for allowing overnight parking. But these policies are usually intended to accommodate RVers and other people on vacation with the hope that they’ll patronize the business during their stay. Either way, the parking lots are well-lit, there’s restroom access, and some may even offer free Wi-Fi.
There’s also city-designated parking lots, where they offer people living in their cars a safe place to stay and sleep overnight. It won’t draw the ire of the residents or the prying eyes of police officers handing out tickets. They even offer much needed access to restrooms, and other services to help you get back on your feet. But just like the homeless shelters you do need to fill out a application, either by calling them, visiting in-person, or filling out the online form.
If you’re on the highway, there are many rest stops where you can parked and legally sleep at. However, this varies from state to state because in some places they don’t allow overnight parking and might even have limits on how long you can park during the day. While others allow it as long as you don’t stay there for more than 12 or 24 hours. They also have restrooms and maybe even picnic tables too. Just keep in mind that they’re not always well-lit and can be pretty secluded, because of that there’s a higher possibility of people being robbed or attacked. So consider this as a last resort.
Insider - As the number of homeless people living out of their vehicles grows across the US, one man shows what it's really like to live involuntarily out of a van for 2 years
Youtube: ALLinWithAri - Living in My Car | Homeless in California | First Vlog [video]
Invisible People - Mobile Homelessness: The Legality of Living in a Vehicle
NBC New York - Is NYC Violating Right to Shelter Law? Woman Sleeps in Car Due to ‘Inhumane' Conditions
Reddit: r/IAmA - I am homeless by choice; I live in my truck.
The Guardian - ‘My car is my home’: the California students with nowhere to live
Cauf Society - Sleeping in Your Car: How To Do It Without Getting Arrested Or Dying
HomelessAdvice - Where to Sleep in Your Car When Homeless
Youtube: Jake McCollum - How I've Been Living Out of My Car for 3 YEARS | Homeless in the United States of America [video]
Vox - Affordable housing is disappearing. So cities are designating parking lots to sleep in.
Reddit: r/homeless - Anyone Have Tips For Living In My Car?
CNN - Living in her car, she was afraid and harassed. Then she found an unexpected refuge
Reddit: r/IAmA - I have been living out of my car for the past year. AMA
Empower Us - Homeless – Living in a Vehicle Survival Guide
Deseret News - People who can’t afford rent are living in their cars, and cities aren’t sure what to do about them
The Road Trip Expert - 19 Places You Can Legally Sleep In Your Car And Park Overnight
Reddit: r/Advice - I'm homeless as of today living out of my car. Anyone have any advice to help me. I live in Canada and its so cold I cant sleep some nights. I just need like survival tips till i can save up enough to get my own place
Youtube: Invisible People - Homeless mom and her two daughters live in a van near Seattle [video]
The Survival Journal - Homeless Survival Guide: How To Survive Living In Your Car
New York Post - I work full-time at Home Depot but I’m homeless and live in my car
USA Today - 'Hidden homeless crisis': After losing jobs and homes, more people are living in cars and RVs and it's getting worse
MotorBiscuit - Where Should You Sleep if You’re Living Out of Your Car?
Reddit: r/IAmA - By request: I lived in my truck for 8 months. AMA
Windsor Star - Homeless living in vehicles battle cold, hold out hope for place of their own
Reddit: r/IAmA - IAmA College (University) student that lived in my car for over 6 months (2 semesters) so I could afford to go to school. AMA
Youtube: Tiny Home Tours - Homelessness to Vanlife: Her DIY Ford E-350 Cargo Van [video]
Invisible People - Tips on How to Stay Clean While Living in Your Vehicle
Youtube: Stories From a Van - Living In A Car To Save Money | How I Did It & Complete Guide [video]
The Survival Mom - How to Live Out of Your Car: Solid Advice from People Who Made It Work
Youtube: Bria-maine - Living in a Car~A Day in My Life~The Raw Truth~Working From Home~Nomad Life [video]
MotorBiscuit - Is Living in Your Car Dangerous?
Invisible People - How Gas Prices Adversely Affect Vehicular Homelessness
Truck Stops (Service Station/Travel Center)
Showers can be pretty expensive at truck stops like Love’s, Pilot, Flying J, T/A, etc. The cost will usually range anywhere from $12 to $17 depending on the place you go to. They all have a large parking area, a fueling station, a diner or restaurant, a convenience store and usually a coin-operated laundry services too. Some may even offer other services like a movie theater, pet wash, workout rooms, salons, etc..
These facilities are usually pretty clean and modern. But if you do use the showers, just be sure to wear flip-flops if you don’t want to get warts or athletes foot. And keep in mind that the truck stops in rural areas are typically very safe and wholesome. But, as the distance to major cities decreases the incidence of prostitution, drug peddling etc. increases dramatically. For example, the Vince Lombardi service area on the New Jersey Turnpike near New York City has the most rampant prostitution.
Also. if you join a particular chain, such as Love’s customer loyalty program you can usually get a free shower if you spend $50 or more on diesel fuel (or if you get 1,000 gallons in a month you’ll earn a free shower or a free hot meal). You may want to consider this if you have a diesel-powered vehicle or a diesel generator that you regularly use.
I have heard that there are some truck drivers that will sometimes give away their free shower credit/coupon to those in need. They don't always have the time to take a shower that day or don’t need it because they already took one and it would have gone to waste otherwise.
Guide 2 Homelessness - Survival Guide to Homelessness: Truck Stops
CTC Trucking - Everything You Need to Know About Truck Stops Showers
NATSO - How Truckstops Can Help the Homeless
King5 News - Homeless camp at Washington rest stops
Los Angeles Times - I lived in a truck for 6 1/2 years. Trust me, trying to roust homeless from their vehicles is no solution.
Prime Inc. - 10 Best Truck Stops in America
Truck Drivers Money Saving Tips - Tips on Laundromat Use and Doing Laundry by Truck Drivers
Truck Drivers Money Saving Tips - Showers for Professional Drivers: Options and Money Saving Tips
USA Today - These 10 great truck stops surprise travelers with everything from dog parks to bidets
Drivin’ & Vibin’ - 7 Things Non-Truckers Should Know About Truck Stops
Campsite
Regular campgrounds cost around $20 to $60 per night, depending on the season, location, the size of the space, and what amenities they offered. But what most don’t know is that there’s actually a type of camping that’s free and yes, it’s also legal.
Dispersed camping is the term used for camping anywhere in the National Forest OUTSIDE of a designated campground. Dispersed camping means no services; such as trash removal, and little or no facilities; such as tables and fire pits, are provided. Some of the more popular dispersed camping areas may have toilets though. If not, that means you’ll need to deal with your own poop by properly burying it or packing it out with you. Essentially ‘Leave No Trace’ and practice the concept of ‘Pack It In – Pack It Out’.
However, to access dispersed camping areas you’ll need a vehicle to get to them. So this option won’t be possible for every homeless person, only those that still have a vehicle (and/or a tent) to take shelter in. There are also limitations on how long you can stay. Most only allow for less than ten days a month, but it varies for each location. After ten days, you can just move down the road five or ten miles away from your pervious spot. This will keep you from breaking the law.
The general rule is to be a minimum of at least 100-200 feet away from any road, trail or water source. Individual forests might have their own restrictions, so it is always best to check with them before setting up camp.
Forest Service: U.S. Department of Agriculture - Dispersed Camping Guidelines
U.S. Bureau of Land Management - Camping on Public Land
FreeCampSite - Dispersed Camping
The Dyrt Magazine - Yes, You Can Find Free Camping in National Forests! Here’s How
The Dyrt Magazine - Boondocking: The Complete Guide to Free Camping (Almost) Anywhere
The Dyrt Magazine - Your Complete Guide to Free Camping Across the Country
The Outbound Collective - The dirt on dispersed camping
Bay Nature Magazine - Public Lands Have Become a Refuge for People Priced Out of Housing in the West. Local Tensions are Increasing. What Now?
Youtube: Mountain Springs Adventures - How to Find Free (dispersed) Campsites in National Forests & BLM Land + My Recent Boondocking Spots! [video]
VICE - Homeless Are Flocking to America's Forests, But It's Damaging the Land
Campendium - Upcoming Dispersed Camping Changes You Should Know About for 2022
Tom’s Bike Trip - How To Wild Camp Anywhere For Free And Not Get Busted
Fresh Off The Grid - How to Find Free Camping in the US & Canada
Beyond The Tent - 19 Spots You Can Go Free Camping in New York
Youtube: Invisible People - Homeless Woman Shows How She Lives in a Tent [video]
Reddit: r/IAmA - IAmA man who has lived in the woods in a tent near the place I work(ed) since last September, for various reasons. Currently transitioning out of the situation. - AMA.
Mortons on the Move - Are Homeless People Living in the National Parks?
The Colorado Sun - Inside Colorado’s attempt to police the growing number of homeless camps in national forests
Reddit: r/SanJose - I'm homeless living in a tent in San Jose, AMA!
Youtube: Invisible People - Homeless woman "timed out" from a homeless shelter and now lives in a tent with her children. [video]
Gyms
Getting a gym membership means you can shower, shave, use a clean toilet, charge your phone, and spend hours a day in the gym just riding a stationary bike while listening to music, audiobook, podcast, etc. They’ll also have Wi-Fi available to members too.
Planet Fitness is the more popular and affordable option because it has a basic membership plan for $10/month, but it’s only for one location. It gives you unlimited access to their gym (which is open 24 hours a day), their app, free fitness training and free Wi-Fi. However, they do charge an annual fee of $39 and a one-time start-up fee of $1. That said, there’s no commitment.
If you get their $25/month plan, that gives you unlimited access to all of their other locations and a few more perks too, such as you can bring in a guest anytime, use their tanning beds, HydroMassage, discounts on drinks, etc. But it does required a $39 annual fee and a $1 start-up fee, and there’s no commitment either.
If you’re still not sure, they do offer a free day pass for the club of your choice. Just fill out a form online, and a day pass will be e-mailed to you. Keep in mind that you may be required to show some ID upon check-in, and all day pass users are required to take a free tour.
Another option is to consider joining the YMCA. They have financial assistance available, which provides access to membership, programs, childcare, and camps to those in need of support. However, I’m hesitant to suggest this one because the pricing greatly depends on your age, financial state and where you’re located. If you live in a small town, the price will be lower than the membership price in a large city. They also have different rates, which vary by age and what services you want to access.
For example, the regular price for an adult membership (over 30) is $50/month. Even if you applied for financial assistance, the max discount is only 30% and $35.00/month isn’t feasible for those that are homeless or struggling to keep afloat. But of course, you do get access to every Y’s and a lot more stuff than you would at a gym, like the pool, classes, locker rental, towel service, showers, hot tub, steam room, etc.
But I have heard that some YMCA’s do offer free membership if you qualified, such as those that are a member of the military or a veteran. Some senior citizen can get a free membership through their Medicare Advantage plan. If you’re under 18 many YMCA locations offer free summer memberships for teens and tweens. They even have free classes and programs that are accessible without a membership, which is useful because at one point they had free lifeguard training.
Note: If a credit card is necessary, get a prepaid Mastercard. It’s a universally accepted method of paying for purchases without the need for a credit score or a bank account. Prepaid cards are sold at retail stores (usually for a fee of $1.50-2.50 or free if ordered online). With these type of cards, you only need to load them up with money when you get it, then use it to make purchases. [x]
The Penny Hoarder - Gym Memberships So Cheap Your Budget Won’t Break a Sweat
Sports Illustrated - Is a Planet Fitness Gym Membership Right for You?
KCRW - For many homeless Angelenos, the gym is critical to survival [audio]
Smarter Homemaker - YMCA (Membership Cost, Benefits, & Alternatives)
Expensive Why - Why Are YMCA Memberships So Expensive in 2022?
Low Income Relief - How to Get a Free YMCA Membership
HomelessAdvice - The YMCA as a Homeless Shelter (Showers, Lockers, and Beds)
YMCA England & Wales - Where to go for support if you are homeless
Hygiene
Fitness centers are perhaps the most popular choice for the homeless, but there are also a lot of government-run campgrounds with coin-op shower facilities too.
If you’re traveling along the coast, public beaches will have ample showers available for free (but they may not be warm or private, and you’ll need a bathing suit). If you’re traveling inland, look for public beaches on lakes or rivers. Public swimming pools can do in a pinch, but you’ll usually have to pay a fee to enter.
Public bathrooms are everywhere (such as at the parks, libraries, department stores, fast food places, Penn Station, Port Authority Bus Terminal, etc.). You can use a washcloth and a collapsible bucket (or a large plastic cup) to wash up with. Just fill it up with the water from the sink and use it to quickly wash your hair and/or privates, especially if it’s one of those single locked public restroom. If not, maybe take the bucket/cup into the toilet stall and wash in there.
If all else fails, using baby wipes (which you can get for a $1.00 at Dollar Tree) to stay clean is certainly better then nothing.
Roadtrippers - 6 tips for showering and staying clean while on the road
wikiHow - How to Stay Clean when Homeless
Boondocker’ s Bible - Where to Take a Shower When You Live in a Car?
Hope's Corner - Laundry Service Helps the Homeless
Medium - Staying Clean While Homeless.
Clean the World Foundation - Mobile Showers: Street Outreach For People Experiencing Homelessness
Survival Recipes - Hygiene
National Association for Continence (NAFC) - The Best Bathroom Locator Apps
Bathroom City - Top 4 Bathroom Locator Apps For Android and iOS
Public Shower Directory - Free Showers
Mail
Having an address is essential for applying to a job, for benefits or housing, receiving official communications, opening a bank account, replacing identification, registering the vehicle you live in, and so many other reasons too.
That’s why most homeless first try asking their friends or family if they can use their address for when the paperwork requires a permanent address. However, there are many who don’t have strong bonds with friends or family and so, this route isn’t often taken.
Some homeless shelters offer to collect and distribute mail for their guests. If there’s a shelter someone regularly returns to, it makes sense for them to receive their mail there if possible. But they will have their limits. They may institute a maximum number of people they can receive mail for at one time. Or, more commonly they’ll have a maximum number of days mail will be held before being discarded.
Some churches, generally larger ones, offer mail services to people without permanent addresses too. These are often the same places that offer meal services. So, it may be convenient for people to pick up their mail at a place they already go regularly to eat. Like shelters, church mail programs will often have a maximum holding period.
If it’s affordable enough, some people who are homeless do pay for a PO box, either permanently, temporarily, or intermittently when they need to receive something. If there aren’t any accessible places offering free mail services in the area, this may be the only option.
USPS - Is there Mail Service for the Homeless?
Invisible People - How Do People Who Are Homeless Get Their Mail?
HomelessAdvice - Where Do Homeless Get Their Mail?
NPR - A Post Office Lifeline for the Homeless [audio]
Coalition For The Homeless - Emergency Mail Program
UK Postbox - Vulnerable people that use our service
WIRED - The radical plan to give every homeless person an address
Water/Food
Soup kitchens have become a place of refuge for those less fortunate souls. Aside from free food, most soup kitchens also provide other necessities such as clothing and hygiene kits. Though some soup kitchens only serve soup and bread, others serve a freshly-cooked full course meal. They also provide a take-out bag with a sandwich and other goodies.
Food pantry is supplied with food, such as fresh produce, canned goods, and healthy frozen items from a food bank. These pantries feed hundreds of low-income people per week. Because every community is different, there are many different types of pantries. But before you go, you should always call the food pantry (or the soup kitchen) to find out when they are open and if they have food. Most pantries offer a three to five day supply of healthy food for low-income families. When possible, pantries provide special items for those family members on restricted diets.
Most pantries will require some form of identification such as a Social Security card, Public Assistance, or photo ID. Many also require a referral letter from a social service agency such as the Board of Social Services, a community organization, or your place of worship to show proof of your need for assistance.
Another option is going to a mom and pop store (local family owned) or pizzeria, bakery, supermarket, Dunkin’, etc. before closing time and asking them if you could maybe take out their trash or sweep up in exchange for their leftovers or day old's. As they would’ve thrown out the still perfectly edible food into the dumpster anyway. Most of the time they'll let you do a little token chore or take pity and just give you something.
As for water there are many places where you get free water and/or water refills, such as public water refill stations or drinking water fountains that you can always find at all the parks. There’s even an app that lists all of the places where you can find them.
U.S. Department of Agriculture Food and Nutrition Service - 10 Myths and Facts About SNAP for Homeless Persons [pdf]
U.S. Department of Agriculture Food and Nutrition Service - Are you homeless? You might be able to get food help from SNAP! [pdf]
Move For Hunger - About Hunger and Homelessness
Homeless Shelter Directory - Soup Kitchens, Food, Pantries, Food Banks
Our Father’s House Soup Kitchen - What is a Soup Kitchen?
Coalition For The Homeless - I Need Food
Coalition For The Homeless - Soup Kitchen and Food Pantry Listings
Feeding America - Find Free Food and Groceries
Reddit: r/Frugal - If you need food, go to a food pantry. Periodt.
Helping Americans Find Help - New Jersey Food Assistance
New York Post - I went dumpster diving at my local Whole Foods and found $1,000 worth of fresh baked goods, produce
New York Post - Brooklyn hipsters go Dumpster-diving for dinner
Los Angeles Times - Dumpster Diving Pays Off in Pizzas
The U.S. Sun - I’ve saved £700 in two months by bin diving – ALL my food comes from the trash and I share it with homeless people
Save the Student - 20 ways to get free food
Happy Sprout - These food waste apps will help you save money – and the planet
Android Police - 12 helpful eco-friendly Android apps to tackle food waste
MakeUseOf - 3 Food Sharing Apps to Make Your Eating More Sustainable
Fast Company - Don’t buy bottled water: This app tells you the closest place you can fill up for free
Bustle - This App Helps You Avoid Buying Plastic Water Bottles & It’s Low Key Genius
BBC News - App shows water refill stations to tackle plastic waste
California Beaches - Pier Fishing in California
Irish Mirror - Homeless people living on canal banks and forced to fish for their food in desperate struggle to survive
Survival Recipes - Food
HomelessAdvice - How to Get Free Food When Homeless
SBS - When you're homeless, how do you eat to stay somewhat healthy?
Reddit: r/mealprep - Best food for when you're homeless and can't cook?
Misc.
American Outdoor Guide - Street Survivors: Basic, Proven and Practical Survival Skills from the Homeless
M.D. Creekmore - How To Survive Being Homeless and Broke
Distractify - Formerly Homeless Share What Aid Was Most Helpful to Them
wikiHow - How to Stay Warm on Cold Winter Nights if You are Homeless
New York Post - How Siberia’s homeless survive the frigid winter
Medium - Weathered: The Struggle of the Homeless to Survive in Harsh Weather
Invisible People - Vision Impairment in the Homeless Community
Feel Good Contacts - Sight problems in the homeless
National Eye Institute - Get Free or Low-Cost Eye Care
NeedHelpPayingBills - Free prescription glasses and eye exams near you
wikiHow - How to Stay Clean when Homeless
Fast Company - This Mobile Shower And Laundry Lets The Homeless Stay Clean
Forbes - For L.A.’s Homeless, A Free Mobile Laundry Service Strives To Be ‘Part Of The Solution’
Inquirer - The Hub of Hope’s laundry services help homeless people feel 'normal’ again
The Guardian - Cleaning up: mobile laundry for the homeless goes international
Low Income Relief - Where to Charge Your Phone When Homeless: 10 Options
Frugal Reality - Where to Charge My Phone for Free? 17 Ways To Charge Without Electricity & Homeless
HomelessAdvice - Where to Charge Your Phone When Homeless
CNET - Wi-Fi is a lifeline in the pandemic. It's harder to get if you're homeless
CBS New York - LinkNYC Charging Kiosks Become Magnets For Homeless
The Daily Telegraph - Homeless rely on smartphones to survive but finding somewhere to re-charge is a challenge
Father Joe’s Villages - Homelessness and Dental Health Care
Care For the Homeless - Making Dentistry More Accessible
Family Resources - 7 Surprising Items to Help the Homeless
Metro - These formerly homeless people have shared the best things you can do to really make a difference
BetterMissions - The 7 Best Things to Give the Homeless Instead of Money
The Right To Shower - What Do People Experiencing Homelessness Need Most Besides Shelter?
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Lovesac couch seemed nice. The removable covers were a big sell. In store the sale was 25% instead of 20%. Plus, I get 10% off for being a nurse. So at 35% off was more manageable. The lifetime warranty is helpful. Somewhat questionably going with a lighter color because I like it. Paid extra for three of the five seats to have space for storage. Wondering if I should pay for all five. Space is invaluable in NYC.
Invited baby boys Great Aunt for dinner. Last time she didn't show so was kind of counting on that. Instead she said her daughters family is joining. Three adults and three kids. No problem. She requested spaghetti - which is thankfully very easy.
It will motivate me to finish organizing. Had a few Christmas decorations still hanging around.
Hit a new low in my reality tv love - listened to the Racquel podcast. I feel bad for her. Hurt people, hurt people - as they say.
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Out of curiosity, as I'm not sure if you'll address it or not, but were any law enforcement turned into mutants? Or any people in positions of power like political folks (worked for the mayor, etc)?
How disruptive has it or would it have been to have that happen?
I mean, probably. I haven't crunched actual numbers on how many people were mutated, but it was a fair whack. Way more than the first wave created. Just by probability, some of them must have been cops. But cops have also been known to turn on their own guys on a dime, so like...don't expect any of them to have questioned what they're doing. Or if they did, they got shot.
...Who was the mayor of NYC in 2020? 'Googles' Bill de Blasio. Huh, okay, doing a quick Wikipedia skim, he seems like a pretty 'safe' Democrat. (so a centrist) I mean, the fact that I didn't remember his name means he couldn't have been too terrible, because I definitely knew the names of the two before him. He's also a Red Sox fan, which probably angers a lot of people out there. I doubt he has, like, any authority right now. The NYPD are basically running the joint right now, and they apparently did not like Bill. Even Wikipedia says their relationship was "strained, combative, and frosty." He's probably curled up under his desk with a bottle of gin, crying and trying to call the president for instructions. (which is especially funny considering who the president is)
So Draxum's intention was to primarily target children and blue collar workers. The latter because-well, society can't function without them, the city would come to a grinding halt and they would be much more useful for Draxum's purposes than a bunch of cubicle monkeys. The kids because they wouldn't be as prejudiced as adults, would adapt to their mutation better, and could be more easily educated and molded as Draxum wants. Plus it would compel their parents to let themselves be mutated, since most of them would want to stay with their kids at all costs. They targeted schools, popular restaurants and department stores, pretty much anyplace with a large number of people in it at once.
Though you also have to consider...they enacted this plan in May of 2020. COVID was still raging, and even though restrictions were started to be relaxed a lot of people still weren't going out. Did schools go back in session for that last month? Wait, when do New York schools... 'aggressively Googles' Oh okay, so you're in school through most of June but don't go back until after Labor Day, that's mostly how it is here in MN. It looks like they just went 'fuck it' and didn't go back until the fall. So...yeah, Draxum's plan got really screwed.
So keep in mind...it could have been way worse.
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Going on a double date tonight with Mountain Boy and his friend Medschool Boy and his gf. Very excited!! Going to a place thats like an adult playground with pinball machines, giant jenga. Arcade cabinets, bowling, bocce, fire pits, and SLIDES. And also alcohol. More excited about the slides though lol
Hope youre doing good bestie 💛
Wow that sounds great Key! I hope you had so much fun!
I flew in back home on Thursday morning and from the airport we went to visit my brother at work because it was the most convenient place to stop! My brother visited some other stores in the mall with us and I got to see the work he’s been doing in person, which he’s been proud of for years (working his way up in the business).
Then my two best friends and my best friend’s husband and my gf went to Cracker Barrel because she wanted to go and there’s not one near where we all live, so we drove out to go and my two best friends and her had so much fun and bought stuff.
The next day I crashed at my best friend’s house and hung out with their mom for the day before everyone came over and we went and got pizza at the pizza place we all grew up eating at, and then we went back and played card games.
The next day I hung out with my best friend’s dad and we used the laser printer that I showed you and I had SO much fun with it. A lot of my stuff broke which sucks so I’ll have to glue it back together. I also accidentally snagged one of my best friend’s pieces. I caught one that was hers but I ended up taking another by mistake. They have the files on the computer though (my art) to make another if she really wants though. Her dad told me all about the machines he’s invented and the whole time he was apologizing if he was boring me but I just kept asking questions and he kept showing me videos and explaining things rather well to me, and he taught me how to use the laser printer and made me run it (like a dad teaching his kid how to do something) so that was fun.
After that we watched Pokémon Horizons. My best friend unfortunately fell asleep during it as she works long hours early in the morning but the thought was there.
Then Sunday we left to go to NYC and I got to see Tallah and say hi to Justin! He made me take a free CD of their EP because he says I spend too much money on him (truth) but I think I left it in CT so I’ll either have to get my best friend to mail it to me or get it when I hopefully come back up in May to see Electric Callboy.
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i also had a dream about dating vernon not too long ago. it was after their careers had slowed down and he wanted to move to nyc for a while. we lived in this small apartment and i just remember him radiating so much comfort. like life felt relatively normal/ordinary for him for the first time ever and it made him so happy :(
the details of your dream melted my heart :( i can picture it so clearly. feels like peering into the future. be happy always, hansol vernon chwe 🤍
i think music will always be a part of his life, but i can also easily imagine the ordinary life he’ll eventually adopt, having the balance he found as a young adult on the bus. in the future, he spends time in grocery store aisles and at his daughter’s soccer game. he bakes edible birthday cakes and realized at some point in time he’s a big fan of dusting the ceiling fan. he plays with his wedding band in waiting rooms and spends hours walking during the day. he knows the city so well; he recognizes neighborhoods by sidewalk widths and scents in the breeze.
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