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imabiscuitinthousandworlds · 11 months ago

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the real struggle when befriending a whole bunch of trans folks and being trans yourself is "who is he out to", "is he out as a guy but not as this name", "guys PLEASE i'm out to my parents but i am NOT ready to tell them i have a second name yet HEY SHUT UP", "oh fuck oh fuck this person referred to them as their chosen name but this one right besides used the agab pronouns and name GUESS I JUST WON'T REFER TO THEM AT ALL IN THIRD PERSON"

#a biscuit's rambles #add in that one cis gal who chose a different name bc she hates her birth one! but only with friends!#add in that im still not certain on another persons pronouns despite asking repeatedly!#add in that one persons genderneutral nickname and that gals chosen name and a friends trans brothers new name are all the same!#plus another friend who keeps making contradictory statements regarding their status of being out w/ their parents!#i love them all. a lot. but jesus christ its complicated #oh and that one guy who i was certain was trans who doesnt consider himself trans as it turned out #gosh that was. an embarrassing moment lmao. gosh #theyre all seriously amazing but good grief soemtimes its just complicated #you need to know like at least two names per person (sometimes more) and when to use which name and pronouns #i mean. its okay. bc mostly were just hanging around as friends with no one else in sight anyways #but there are moments.

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