#actual question

[somecookie]

Bold of you to assume my problem is being unable to approach women. I actually can't approach anyone at all (in a romantic way). Rather than being afraid of women or men or a relationship, i just can't see myself going out and. Idk. Asking? Like how do y'all get into relationships, or even just hookups or anything?

I don't understand. I don't think I would like being initially approached by someone with a goal in mind that goes beyond "hey I wanted to talk to you", and so I don't do so either. If I see a handsome guy or a beautiful girl I don't think "I wanna date them" or "I wanna sleep with them", I think "damn they're beautiful" and move on. If I get talking with someone I find very physically attractive I treat them largely the same as I would any other conversation partner. I don't "flirt" either, I find it a weird way to hold a conversation. Dancing around a subject matter in such a way seems dishonest to me. Rather than throwing random compliments around trying to convince someone to like me I'd prefer getting into a conversation that's mutually enjoyable beyond simple pleasantries. The closest thing to flirting that I do is sort of tesse people softly, but that's just something my family has always done, it's just a very normal way to show affection on any level to me. It's also easily misunderstood as malicious, so I don't usually do it with people I don't know well.

So yeah. I don't go into conversations with any goal regarding the relationship I share with the person in question, because that seems weird and dishonest to me. It's also why I don't like or get dating apps. I feel like if I chat with someone on hinge, they expect the relationship to turn either sexual or romantic or both, which I don't like. It's not anyone else's fault, I'm sure I'm the weird one, but I personally feel like those things need to evolve naturally. This doesn't mean slowly. Hookups can absolutely happen from this - if I met someone i found attractive and they thought the same, the conversation should generally drift to topics surrounding the mutual attraction, from which a certain mood can evolve. But I don't think even that should start with that exact intent. Again, I wouldn't talk to someone just because I want to sleep with them, rather I'd sleep with them because of the conversation and/or connection we shared.

This is long, convoluted and utterly unreadable. Good thing nobody will read it 👍

[doctor-spengler]

After watching ghostbusters II, I only thought about one thing, how did Ray find out Egon was screwing the slime????? Did he tell him to do it or did he walk into him and slime getting freaky???? I guess we'll never know

[astarionformayor]

So is it agreed upon that Mystra is a predator and she groomed gale? Is that canonical? Cause idk how i didn't think abt it like that before

[wolfram-petanu]

hi i have an actual question that i don't know where to ask anywhere else So i know that water bottles have an expiration date, not or the actual water itself, but rather the plastic that's containing it. but if i were to use the expired water bottle like a flask, and just change out the water every day, would that still be dangerous? would the bottle have enough time to leak in harmful stuff into the water? i'm asking this because i bought a water bottle in Croatia (the specific brand is called "Jana" and it's the 0.5 L one) like a year ago, and i really like the shape and feel of it, i've used it almost every day since, so i don't want to just throw it out :/ I could in theory buy another one off the internet, and i guess that woud solve the problem, but i don't really want to have to do that especially because i'm not actually gonna be drinking the water that's in it, since i simply dislike the taste

anyways, the main question is, will i suffer if i keep re-using an expired plastic bottle?

[wrylu]

guys im having a gender crisis.

can i be transmasculine and genderfluid at the same time?

cus i feel like being a man most of the time but sometimes i don't want gender to be a part of me. and then sometimes i feel so girly and fem like i wanna paint all my walls pastel pink and have the longest, most beautiful hair ever and put bows in my hair but still be referred to as he/him yk?? but then she/her but like. a boat. or a fancy car. do you get it?? like being referred as she/her but like i'm a boat. and then they/them/it/its because androgyny <3

is this illegal

or is this just genderfluid with no transmasculine in it. BUT I DON'T WANT PEOPLE TO REFER TO ME AS A WOMAN??

y'all,, help me.

[elvislover69]

*do you think their menstrual cycles ever synced up? *

[carnelianfoxx]

Is losing 13 pounds of weight in about 6 days good?

[pinkadillydoo]

Ive never played monster hunter before. Should i get monster hunter world in preparation for wilds?

[growth-opportunities]

is it ok for people to send you images

Sure, if you want to! Images are good and a little bit more is always appreciated! It's a lot easier for me to write if I have at least a kernel of inspiration, so a picture is a great starting point, but a picture with an idea is even better.

That being said, there's a chance that I might not caption every image that comes my way, but it's worth a shot, right?

[small-witch-big-hat]

Okay I only have one question for omegaverse fans and it is this:

How, mechanically, do the pregnancies work

[wolfram-but-art]

anyone know how to get a bug from underneath a huion tablet's screen

[mjfass]

I’m very curious about… why do so many people hate Yuta? Like, the amount of hate comments towards him I found on social media it’s insane and I, objectively, don’t get it. Dude is a fantastic wrestler, he’s still learning, he is not the best on the mic, but he is a great performer and an incredible technical wrestler.

[crowwithacomputer]

hi what's it called when you wanna love women in a wlw way and you wanna love men in a mlm way??

[p3stie]

why are people on twitter mad about spock being green

[atari-phantom]

GENUINE QUESTION FOR YOU ALL.

Help me settle this debate I'm having with a friend.