#acephobes fuck off

[angelellipsis-devilofdots]

the dumbest points ive seen from terfs and radfems that do nothing except make this movement look ridiculous:

trans men are misogynistic gender traitors who become men because they hate women and want to be privileged. they will DEFINITELY never experience oppression for their intersectionality at all! they will never be the victims of transandrophobia and lingering misogyny. because ALL MEN live easily, duh

it's okay to sexualize transmascs and then see them as innocent little girls who were manipulated into hating themselves for being women

sex involving kink between consenting adults is ALWAYS bad and is NEVER excusable even though both/all people involved EXPLICITY and ENTHUSIASTICALLY consent to said kinky sex

all men are automatically disgusting and evil, and masculinity is inherently gross and negative (even when it is healthy masculinity and NOT the toxic and fragile kind!)

taking testosterone hrt will not make you a man, but if you were born with a vagina, are raised female, identify and live as a woman, and then find out later in life that you have a higher testosterone level than the average cis woman, you are indisputably a man

top surgery is misogyny because it mutilates the breasts of innocent women. it definitely isn't actually a life-saving gender-affirming surgery that is completely consensual and something that people work hard to receive access to and is proven to be a procedure that statistically has a <1% regret rate

if you feel sexual attraction or kinks you're a pervert with unresolved trauma and you just want to sexualize yourself. but also asexuals are all just confused teenagers who want to be special and sex is what makes us human or something

becoming the oppressor is absolutely a valid form of liberation! it is in fact okay to commit violent acts against cis men and transgender people! it definitely IS some kind of salvation and ISN'T some kind of fucking petty form of hatred that could traumatize future generations

all cis women should feel threatened and endangered by the fact that a woman with a penis exists in the same space as them

if cis women want to be happy they cannot get a husband. marriage to a man is an act of self hatred and they will regret it forever and it is internalized misogyny. (unfortunately this is a real thing i've seen terfs and rads say. i wish i was making this up)

seriously. why are some people still listening to these idiots.

[acephobia-is-real98]

Attraction ≠ Action

[ourdemisexualexperience]

Why do demisexuals need a label?

The demisexual label offers a powerful means for individuals to cultivate a stronger sense of identity and community belonging. By claiming this descriptor, demisexuals discover that they are not alone in their experiences - that there are others who share their unique patterns of sexual attraction and desire.

This community provides an invaluable space for demisexuals to connect, share advice, and find emotional support as they navigate a world that often centers around non-demisexual perspectives and norms. The label unites them, fostering a sense of security in their identities that can be difficult to access when feeling disconnected from more prevalent social narratives around sex and relationships.

Many demisexuals grow up feeling perplexed or alienated by the sexual curiosity and activity that seems to preoccupy their peers, especially during formative adolescent years. As conversations increasingly revolve around topics like physical attraction, sexual experimentation, and the pursuit of intimacy, demisexuals may find themselves confused, questioning whether they are "broken" in some way for not experiencing those drives.

Discovering the demisexual community dispels that isolating sense of difference, offering validation and a network of support. Demisexuals can now contextualize their experiences as a valid, recognized orientation - one that, while distinct, is no less legitimate than other expressions of sexuality. This communal affirmation is instrumental in helping demisexuals cultivate a positive, secure sense of self.

[the-irreverend]

Just a friendly reminder to destroy all acephobes on sight.

[mochalikesdrawing]

I like how the ace spectrum is just “Yeah I want a relationship BUT I want garlic bread and books about astrology and dragons and I will get crumbs on the bed and I will tell you about Percy Jackson books until I pass out” my favorite types of people, have fun reading with your ace friends or partners❤️

[yagikidd57]

Aro/Ace spec people existing:

Acephobes:

[queerasaurus-rexx]

people acting like being ace/aro by itself isn't queer like my sibling in trans christ

what do you think the 'a' in lgbtqiA+ means?

accessory?

[candycoated-rage]

also don’t wanna bring up the asexual discourse but I gotta get it off my chest; “sex is the most important facet in a relationship” is the DUMBEST thing I’ve ever read. like no, isn’t emotional connection more important, regardless of if you have sex or not??

I don’t need to have sex in order to express my affection. I could give my partner gifts or go see movies with them or do ANYTHING and if my partner truly loves me they would understand that I do not want to have sex in a relationship, and they would STILL love me for that.

I don’t need to have sex in order to show that I love someone!!!!!!

[chilakillme]

I just overheard a girl telling her friend she was going to become asexual to ignore her relationship drama, I can't believe I have to hear this rubbish during ace week of all weeks

[angelellipsis-devilofdots]

Asexual might as well not mean anything at this point lmfao. You need more hobbies sis

do you really think i need hobbies? you're the one policing asexuality. what are you, a cop?

[acephobia-is-real98]

😮‍💨

[ourdemisexualexperience]

How does demisexuality relate to asexuality and the asexual spectrum?

Asexuality represents a sexual orientation defined by the experience of little to no sexual attraction or desire for sexual activity. While this broad definition is most commonly accepted, some asexual individuals may further specify their relationship to sex as encompassing a general lack of interest rather than a complete absence of attraction.

Regardless of the nuances, asexuality is recognized as a valid and distinct orientation, with demisexuality occupying a related but distinct position on the asexual spectrum. Demisexuals share many similarities with their asexual counterparts, in that they too report feeling little to no spontaneous sexual attraction towards others.

However, the key distinction lies in demisexuals' capacity to develop sexual feelings, given the right circumstances. For them, the formation of a deep emotional bond with another person is the necessary prerequisite for any sexual attraction to emerge. Many demisexuals find themselves attracted to only a handful of individuals, or even just one, over the course of their lifetimes.

This stands in contrast to the asexual experience, where sexual attraction remains elusive regardless of the emotional context. Demisexuals, then, are considered part of the broader asexual community due to their general lack of spontaneous sexual desire, even as their unique needs and experiences warrant recognition as a distinct identity.

[moth-without-toes]

my mom thinks you can choose to be gay and there's no way you can be aro, ace,or aroace as a kid / early teen WTF.

[yagikidd57]

I hate when acephobes invalidate ace spec people constantly. Aside from saying asexuality isn’t real, they always say things like,

-“if you’re asexual why are you wearing a short shorts or why are you showing skin?”

-“ If you’re asexual, why are you making sex jokes?”

-“if you’re asexual why are you calling someone gorgeous or handsome? I thought ace people can’t find anyone attractive?”

-“if you’re asexual how do you have sexual desires/fantasties? I thought asexual people hate/dislike sex?”

-“if you’re asexual, how are you sex positive/sex favorable? I thought asexuals are grossed out about sex and hate it?”

[amnesid]

one of my best friends is ace and i adore her so much. ace people exist and they are amazing and if you are an acephobe i will steal your kneecaps