#acephobes fuck off

[angelellipsis-devilofdots]

hi just a reminder that acespecs who have high libido and/or are sex favorable exist. and we're just as valid as sex repulsed, sex averse, or sex indifferent acespecs. i see a lot of posts that fundamentally exclude us and it's getting on my nerves.

you can like/desire sex and still be on the ace spectrum. you can have regular sex and still be on the ace spectrum. you can be kinky and still be on the ace spectrum. you can enjoy porn/smut and still be on the ace spectrum. you can masturbate and still be on the ace spectrum.

[thejadecount]

Pride month y’all know what that means

Time to bring back this beauty

[acephobia-is-real98]

This Ace supports Trans Rights. Reblog if you do!

[the-irreverend]

Just a friendly reminder to destroy all acephobes on sight.

[offline-nobody]

no clue whats happening here, but apparently aphobias back (boo), so heres a friendly reminder to all aphobes:

[yagikidd57]

[ourdemisexualexperience]

How does demisexuality relate to asexuality and the asexual spectrum?

Asexuality represents a sexual orientation defined by the experience of little to no sexual attraction or desire for sexual activity. While this broad definition is most commonly accepted, some asexual individuals may further specify their relationship to sex as encompassing a general lack of interest rather than a complete absence of attraction.

Regardless of the nuances, asexuality is recognized as a valid and distinct orientation, with demisexuality occupying a related but distinct position on the asexual spectrum. Demisexuals share many similarities with their asexual counterparts, in that they too report feeling little to no spontaneous sexual attraction towards others.

However, the key distinction lies in demisexuals' capacity to develop sexual feelings, given the right circumstances. For them, the formation of a deep emotional bond with another person is the necessary prerequisite for any sexual attraction to emerge. Many demisexuals find themselves attracted to only a handful of individuals, or even just one, over the course of their lifetimes.

This stands in contrast to the asexual experience, where sexual attraction remains elusive regardless of the emotional context. Demisexuals, then, are considered part of the broader asexual community due to their general lack of spontaneous sexual desire, even as their unique needs and experiences warrant recognition as a distinct identity.

[aroacesafeplaceforall]

I don’t think I’ll ever forgive old tumblr for the shit it did to the asexual movement.

The fact some people just moved on from that by deleting posts, accounts, side blogs but never apologising or doing anything to mend the harm they caused speaks volumes.

Some people are still active to this day, some who actively posted against asexual people, who made hate blogs for them, who liked and reblogged every single post under the tags, who only ever liked 3 posts but still supported them.

There’s no apologies on the internet; no fully true ones especially not on public socials like tumblr, TikTok, twitter and instagram (I’ll give leeway to platforms like discord as it’s a more inclosed community). So while I wouldn’t have accepted the apology it would have been nice to fucking receive one

[dreemurrsightings]

Aroace papyrus flag I made while at the hairdresser

(i have redish hair now lol)

Inspired by the sans aroace flag made by marsh_ber on TikTok

the art is taken from the official undertale sticker vol 2 and vol 3

[i-am-trans-gwender]

My mom went through my search history and was mad because she thought I was looking at porn. I wasn't. Why did she think that? Because she saw the word "asexual" and thought "It has sexual in the name so it must be a porn thing."

[mochalikesdrawing]

I like how the ace spectrum is just “Yeah I want a relationship BUT I want garlic bread and books about astrology and dragons and I will get crumbs on the bed and I will tell you about Percy Jackson books until I pass out” my favorite types of people, have fun reading with your ace friends or partners❤️

[angelellipsis-devilofdots]

the dumbest points ive seen from terfs and radfems that do nothing except make this movement look ridiculous:

trans men are misogynistic gender traitors who become men because they hate women and want to be privileged. they will DEFINITELY never experience oppression for their intersectionality at all! they will never be the victims of transandrophobia and lingering misogyny. because ALL MEN live easily, duh

it's okay to sexualize transmascs and then see them as innocent little girls who were manipulated into hating themselves for being women

sex involving kink between consenting adults is ALWAYS bad and is NEVER excusable even though both/all people involved EXPLICITY and ENTHUSIASTICALLY consent to said kinky sex

all men are automatically disgusting and evil, and masculinity is inherently gross and negative (even when it is healthy masculinity and NOT the toxic and fragile kind!)

taking testosterone hrt will not make you a man, but if you were born with a vagina, are raised female, identify and live as a woman, and then find out later in life that you have a higher testosterone level than the average cis woman, you are indisputably a man

top surgery is misogyny because it mutilates the breasts of innocent women. it definitely isn't actually a life-saving gender-affirming surgery that is completely consensual and something that people work hard to receive access to and is proven to be a procedure that statistically has a <1% regret rate

if you feel sexual attraction or kinks you're a pervert with unresolved trauma and you just want to sexualize yourself. but also asexuals are all just confused teenagers who want to be special and sex is what makes us human or something

becoming the oppressor is absolutely a valid form of liberation! it is in fact okay to commit violent acts against cis men and transgender people! it definitely IS some kind of salvation and ISN'T some kind of fucking petty form of hatred that could traumatize future generations

all cis women should feel threatened and endangered by the fact that a woman with a penis exists in the same space as them

if cis women want to be happy they cannot get a husband. marriage to a man is an act of self hatred and they will regret it forever and it is internalized misogyny. (unfortunately this is a real thing i've seen terfs and rads say. i wish i was making this up)

seriously. why are some people still listening to these idiots.

[miradawhissu]

can you draw manjimutt with the aroace flag please colin three :3

Here it is :]

(I don't HC Manjimutt Aroace but I really wanted to this plus it was on a new Kuromi Notebook I got yippee I hope you like it :])

w/o Filter

also I apologize if the flag isn't the right shades 😭

[acephobia-is-real98]

That is such a r*pist mentality.

[the-irreverend]

WOULD YOU LIKE A DRINK?

[myrandomthoughtsblog]

Me: asexual out of the closed for like 3 years, pretty much sex repulsed, complaining about how I hate my period cus it makes me so sick that I can't leave my bed (plus I take medication in order to not get my period cus it makes me anemic so)

Also my best friend who I've know for years and was one of the first people I came out to: at some point (when u start having sex) you'll be thankful for having your period

Girl fuck u