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my health insurance company just sent me some kind of testing kit in the mail
i didn't ask for this kit, or agree to submit to any tests, and they didn't ask *me* if i wanted it or was willing to do it, it just showed up
i don't know this company that is evidently behind these kits, i've never interacted with it before, and now they are emailing me telling me to hurry up and do the test and mail it back right away???
like nowhere is there anything saying why i would be willing to do this? my insurance company is not a health provider - and i didn't ask it to connect me with any test-by-mail companies?
i *have* a doctor and in fact have an appointment in a few weeks?
does anyone have any experience with this kind of thing? i worry that by submitting this test i'm somehow signing up for something with this random test company. i haven't signed anything or given any approval for them to have access to my medical information, and i feel like sending back the test would be tacitly doing so?
is the insurance company within rights to do this or are they just giving me the 'bum rush' assuming i won't know any better? literally no communication has been from the actual ins. company but everything (envelope, email forwarding) is branded from them
#they're asking me to send in a test for my a1c - but i get that from my doctor every six months?#they keep also sending me sign-up things for some kind of 'free' diabetes management service which#i am not interested. especially because i have a bunch of other things going on health-wise#and am not comfortable with some kind of 'no-medication' prescribed diet plan from people who don't know anything#about other aspects of my health#like they keep sending things about the dangers of 'unmedicated' diabetes ...#... even as they cover my metformin prescription i've had for 2 and half years now?#i am really confused and suspicious because what in the world#i get that 'no meds' may be cheaper from their standpoint but with my thyroid and the anemia and probable long covid#that is not going to work for me and i don't want to give them ammunition#also i don't want some random company i've never heard of doing my medical tests#this is stress i don't need
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I uh. Finished the first chapter draft for Ouroboros. Little sneak peaks below the cut I suppose.
“Deep down, you know that something has changed. You can’t quite put your finger on it yet.
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That’s what it is. You’re alive.
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Death does not always mean an end. It is simply a pit stop on a very long highway. You still have many miles to travel.
It is best if you get back in your car and begin to drive again.
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How long can you take it? The way you have a mouth but no voice to speak through.
Can you take it?
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You realize you are being rebuilt. It is uncomfortable and itchy knowledge. You feel it in the prickling numbness at the tips of your fingers, the eternal ache in your temples, and most of all, you fear.
Your aches and pains are all fear.
You are no longer human.”
#the ouroboros cycle#oh god. here we go#I like this sequence a lot for a few reasons#it’s just ambiguous enough that there’s some wiggle room for interpretation#lines can be twisted in one way by one person or another by a different one#I like when writing does that quite a bit#definitely gonna be editing this but here’s something out of the rough draft as a treat#since a lot of the plot is set out already in my other post I’m just gonna have to figure out how I want to shape the narrative effectively#kepler is a very layered character to me and he’s even more compelling because we still don’t know anything important about his past#which leaves the community to whip up whatever interpretation makes sense to us on a personal level#we’re given so much to work with for Kepler yet so little at once#we know his surface level traits and flaws already but we don’t know HOW he got to that point#ugh warren kepler#throwing bricks at him#probably should’ve asked this earlier in the tags but would you folk prefer fic updates on here or ao3#or both#oh and before I forget#a lot of the story revolves around some pretty deep mental health struggles for a while#such as a disorder similar to dehumanization (not fully classifying it as such because there are some nuances that stray away from ->#some of the typical aspects of dehumanization disorder)#that’s one of the big ones but there will be others#which I’ll make note of before any content that contains anything of the sort (along with other tags that are featured)#I think that’s all for now#wolf 359#w359#warren kepler#daniel jacobi#isabel lovelace#renee minkowski#kepcobi
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But say I do leave her here under your protection, what then?
[tvd 3x13 | every klefan scene ?/?]
#klaus mikaelson#anti delena#anti stelena#tvd#tvdedit#tvdversegifs#statistically elena dies because of originals-- klaus s2 rebekah s3--#but as for every other aspect of her health klaus was dead right about this lol#stefan stalvatore#damon salvatore#my gifsets
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If I told you there was a series of games created before I was born, developed by Capcom, and that I was obsessed with a pairing of middle aged men within; The pairing being comprised of a someone around a decade or so older than the younger, lighter colored hair, stern and serious with a very deadpan sense of humor, along with “this is my job. I shall do it perfectly” demeanor about his work— very cat-coded in general, if you can think it, it will most probably apply— and the younger being very a determined brunette with firm morals who goes toe to toe with the older man and is frequently one of the only ones who can do so with their hell-bent insistence to do good and defend those who cannot, no matter the cost, who is quite dog-coded in reverse. They spend a few years in each other’s company, learning about each other (even if it’s at a distance and professionally) and then. Something happens. The older one of the pair betrays the brunette — his strings being pulled by a higher power, but it does not excuse him— and in the process reveals a cowardly and vengeful side after the event, causing the entirety of the franchise we play to happen. And then only a bit later in the storyline, one murdered the other, in cold but passioned blood, because destiny deemed it this way and they only heed the call of it. And whether or not it was intentional, leaving said murdered man’s child an orphan completely alone in the world as a side effect. For years after the event, they are satisfied with what happened, if burdened by guilt. But they were right to do so, weren’t they? They proceed to be metaphorically haunted by the man they killed for the rest of their life, however. And that will come to a head for them.
Now��� am I talking about Chrisker (Chris Redfield/Albert Wesker), or Shingou (Mitsurugi Shin/Karuma Gou) ?
#rea rambles#Ace Attorney#Resident Evil#Chrisker#Shingou#sorry for banging out post after post about those old men but. my mental health now rests partially on them. like a normal person.#im soooooo incredibly normal about those old men. perfectly normal. the blood seeping from my mouth and beneath my nails is unrelated.#I had a minor epiphany and swore out Capcom because godDAMNIT I have two nickels#I dont WANT THIS MANY NICKELS!!!!#anyways#both von Karma and Wesker are so intertwined with ouroboros in my mind it’s. A problem. Stop eating your tail stop this cycle of destructio#they won’t. but that’s what makes it a delightfully fun and very good story.#and the shipping aspect is LITERALLY just on my side of things; they are very important to each other regardless of how you view them#I see Chrisker as a tale of betrayal and rage— yearning and despair— and Shingou as a tragic and almost *twisted* version of Narumitsu#it’s all FASCINATING.#but god DAMNIT Capcom. TWOOOOO NICKELS!!!!#I could even draw parallels to Jean Valjean and Javert into this BUT I WONT.#because that is a completely different mental illness that exists within me. They are similar. Not as Close to chrisker as it is to shingou#but it SURE DOES EXIST.#rea rambles in the tags#shut up rea#blueberrypancakes#rea’s trash
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that poll that’s going around that’s “are you genuinely interested in having sex with a man 20+ years older than you” . and yes isn’t sweeping …… fake ass old man fucker website of course .
#disregarding the other aspect of the question bc idgaf about ur mental health or trauma or whatever#maybe i’m an outlier but i make my posting a reality . fuck old men. be the change you want to see in the world.
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uwaahh im so old now. it takes me way too long to finish something i couldve cranked out in like 3hrs max....
#i say that but honestly#its just that im enjoying some other neglected aspects of life now#like hanging out with my partners and gaming and actually prioritizing sleep#over cranking out work as fast as possible#i only draw when i feel i have energy and only for short stretches to preserve my health#which is a responsible and healthy approach to my craft#so i can't be too mad about it.
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I rest my case.
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Fuckin BULLSHIT the one on the right is way better you only need 1 stroke to draw it!
Speaking of some things being objectively better than others for very important reasons, I booted up my brother’s old copy of Hyrule Warriors yesterday and tried to get A-ranks in the adventure mode, only to gradually realize just how important the level-up system is, meaning that no matter how good you are, the only way to have a chance of getting A-ranks on the later stages is to grind until the enemies don’t take 5 whole minutes each to kill.
Then I ranted to myself in my room about how Ultrakill’s P-ranks are way better
#asks#what kind of legend of zelda game has a fucking level up system?#the game already has 3 other progression systems to make you more powerful#why include a level up system? in a zelda game?#have i ranted about my hatred of number inflation/number-go-up progression on tumblr before?#because i REALLY hate when a perfectly good game has a level up system slapped onto it for no reason#especially this one!#why am i being punished for using a character that i don't play very often?!#absolute nonsense#and when i was playing and trying to a-rank a level i kept getting closer and closer to doing it#and i was like 'yes i'm doing it i'm learning the level and mastering my character!'#'now that i know my character better i'm killing the enemies so much faster! :D'#no. it was just because my numbers were going up :(#'We added a progression system.'#ruined a perfectly good game is what you did. look at it it's got a treadmill attached#some games actually USE their level up systems#pokemon uses it for evolution and to teach new moves#i still don't like the number inflation aspect but at least it's SOMETHING#and Tunic has you finding offerings in hidden treasure chests and choosing how you spend your currency#but hyrule warriors? nothing. it just boosts your health and damage#which i repeat: THERE ARE OTHER PROGRESSION SYSTEMS IN THE GAME THAT ALREADY DO THAT#except you actually have some control over those ones#you get heart containers by finding treasure and getting a-ranks#and you get better weapons by getting loot from enemies and getting a-ranks#and there's ALSO the badge system which does a whole bunch of Stuff#i swear the only reason to have the level up system is to artificially extend the playtime#i guess there might be a skill barrier because the other progression methods require a-ranks#but forcing less-skilled players to spend hours grinding to get up to the level of better players is NOT the solution
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having a lot of thoughts about how people use 'normalize' when they mean 'destigmatize' or 'make the nature of into common knowledge,' and how they conflate 'the perception of this thing as normal' with the thing actually being a normal occurrence, and how it is in fact incredibly harmful to try to convince people that an ideal situation is normal when that does not map onto their lived reality or the dangers they need to be aware of to avoid. it is 3:33am though so writing up an actual poast about it will have to wait for later
#whosebaby talks#this post brought to you by 'spreading awareness of what an abusive relationship is and looks like compared to a nonabusive relationship'#'is fantastic and i support it fully and think it's deeply important. giving people the false idea that abusive relationships are uncommon'#'and are flukes that go against the grain of society functioning as it normally does; is insanely dangerous to people who are potential#targets; and incredibly alienating and isolating and cruel to people who have already been targets'#'in uniquely awful ways depending on whether they're already aware of that or aren't. don't fucking do that'#it applies much more broadly than that; but it's an instance i think about A Lot and it's what led me to this line of thought to start with#there's also 'normal does not mean good and saying so has incredibly unbelievably harmful implications keep that shit out of your mouth'#but that is so obvious it boggles my mind that it has to be explained to anyone on this site; and it is talked about often enough#that i would rather focus on the parts i don't really see talked about much; if at all#also like the fact that 'statistically average' normal vs 'things are functioning as they usually do' is a critically important distinction#they are closely related and interplay heavily with each other but they are Not the Same Thing#and how 'normal' can refer to different layers and aspects of a subject--people with rare health conditions are not statistically average#and that by itself is fine. and those people having conditions that are disruptive to the usual functioning of a space or system#is avoidable in some cases by establishing as much infrastructure as possible to integrate their more common needs smoothly#and unavoidable in others; which means the normal functioning of a system/space that accommodates people with unexpected needs#has to account *for its normal functioning being disrupted sometimes*#and bend around that disruption without either breaking down or rolling right over the disabled people who Cause Problems#and at the same time 'rare health condition' gets applied to health conditions that are not rare *at all* to not only justify not bothering#to make the system integrate their needs in general when it could do so easily; but make it so that accommodating their needs anyway puts#immense and unnecessary strain on the system; so there is zero margin for anything you didn't specifically fight tooth and nail for already#anyway it's a really extensive subject and a fascinating one. for later. sleep now#abuse cw#ableism cw#the salt files#is there a name for that tag
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Ok looking at fanart having not seen the ruin trailer in a while I have forgotten what Cassie's actual hair color is is it brown or blonde or something in between I keep seeing art of both
like it's FNAF so I don't mind (FNAF isn't consistent with its own human designs I'm pretty sure Susie had her hair go from blonde in the games to brown in one of the books and Vanessa I think went the opposite direction between VR and AR and SB and then there's Michael in FNAF 4 vs. Michael in SL so-) but I genuinely don't know what she was shown as anymore XD
#I usually feel kinda uncomfortable when people change aspects of characters like that#(Like I saw a post that changed several Pokémon characters' eye colors and it fxcked with my brain in ways Idk how to describe)#Usually when I have a weird quirk like this it's because of like autism or something but I never see anyone else talk about this#So I'm assuming that it's either not that or I'm just weird???? Idk anyone have an explanation?#(Like I tried to describe this discomfort to someone once and since that time was concerning when people change characters' races#That person ended up basically accusing me of being racist and like- it hit me like a fxcking truck and hurt my mental health a ton-#And then months later that Pokémon post comes up and the characters' eye colors were changed to brown. WHICH IS MY EYE COLOR.#And I had the exact same reaction. So unless I discriminate against myself I think it's safe to say that was a load of shxt.#But like. I wanna know what the actual cause of this is like is it an obscure rare autism symptom or is it something else-)#Anyway enough of me rambling:#Yeah FNAF is an exception to this for the sole reason that the franchise itself isn't consistent with its own human designs.#So I kinda just. Don't feel the same kind of “off-model” weirdness because what even was the “model” to begin with y'know-#So like I'm chill with both brown and blonde haired art of Cassie but I'm just wondering like which one were we shown again??#And whichever one it was: I'm still kinda wondering as to why people would change it one way or the other#fnaf#fnaf ruin#fnaf sb ruin#cassie#fnaf cassie
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2023 reads // twitter thread
If I See You Again Tomorrow
YA contemporary/light sci-fi
follows a boy almost a year into a time loop, who has almost given up on finding a way out
until a new boy shows up at his school - which has never happened before - and he’s motivated to step out of his monotony and maybe find a way out
exploring loneliness and social isolation
#If I See You Again Tomorrow#aroaessidhe 2023 reads#ok i enjoyed some aspects of this like the MCs personal journey and mental health stuff i guess. friendships.#but the romance was annoying and unnecesary. not just my bitter aro ass saying this a lot of other reviews do too lol#the love interest is convinced that you have to find your soulmate to get out of the time loop for no logical reason??? & the MC (and me) is#like what the fuck man that’s stupid.#but then also he’s like we can’t hang out; you just think you Like me because we’re both in this time loop; focus on finding your soulmate!!#LIKE WHO CARES ABOUT CRUSHES?#YOU’RE THE ONLY TWO PEOPLE IN THIS TIME LOOP WHY WOULD YOU NOT WORK TOGETHER TO FIGURE IT OUT……….#this is more me being frustrated at the character than the author but i feel like. the author could have thought of some better reasons for#him to avoid the mc i guess lol. or at least lampshade the stupidity#it……sort of ends up being soulmatey anyway#or at least he decides they in love anyway but lol u guys spent one day together then didn't see each other for 2 months or whatever???#so the end was definitely disappointing#I think it would have been way better if he did all his friend and family goodbyes then went to the place#and nothing happened and it turned out that after 365 days you just. pop out of it; problem never ‘’solved’’.#but then he goes to find beau anyway and they start something on their own terms#(bc like getting ‘trapped forever’ after a year would mean there’s instances of two people disappearing forever at the same time - they have#no proof for that either? I guess they would also have instances of people saying they did just get out of it after a year too but. well may#be if that happens you have amnesia. which wouldn’t work for this book. but anyway)#idk#also him hating his mum made me cringe because that was Obvious. i feel like a little more time could have been spent on that#and like i did enjoy it overall for the majority of it that wasn't the romantic thing! it could have been so good if it removed that#and gave everything else its full focus
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Me leaving the doctor's office: I have successfully been normal in this interaction
The doctor greeting my mother for her appointment months later: Oh, you're Nimbler's mother? What a neat person she is!
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Anyway, everyone should take a notebook to their doctor's appointment and keep notes when the doctor explains what is going on.
#I am not sure how I feel about this honestly#like it was weird having the nurses greet me there by calling each other over going#'this patient has such a cool job!'#but like. that's my job. it's fine.#it just seems weird to be. memorable to someone who sees half a dozen different patients every day (I assume)#it's kind of irritating at this point the number of people who comment on my small handwriting#INCLUDING THE DOCTOR TALKING TO MY MOTHER MONTHS LATER IN MY ABSENCE#but overall it's like. I was being an unremarkable person! I went there to achieve a goal (information on my health)#and I achieved that goal and I left!#and I don't have. I really don't have the /option/ of being unremarkably normal#idk on some level it's a very mildly invasive feeling and on another it's like realizing that I plan my route in the grocery store#in order to minimize my time near the machines that hum and the sections that smell#it's like huh! wow! the autism really does govern every aspect of my life even when I'm doing well!#I forgot about that!#huh! wow! I really do not pass for normal even when I'm trying! I forgot about that!
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my mom was just talking to a friend on the phone and she was complaining about how all zoomers either can’t hold conversations without them being stilted and shallow or they basically traumadump and talk too much about their emotions and im just…… she is a psychologist. specifically a college counsellor. almost all of the zoomers she talks to are. literally university students assigned to her to seek out long term therapy for trauma, stress, anxiety, depression, behavioral and social issues, etc……….
what does she…expect……… to hear…….????
#really terrible pool to gather your data on All Zoomers and their typical generalized behavior from#like.#no shit???#the other point of reference for zoomer behavior is Me which is also a terrible choice because I am. autistic. among other things#but I sure as hell don’t traumadump. kinda the opposite I don’t like acknowledging my emotions at all if I can help it#so I only apply to the stunted conversations aspect and even then when I do have conversations I wouldn’t consider them shallow#boy what a fucking mess#older generations are really just. sometimes. so upset about not being the center of the world anymore they’ll target anything about#younger generations for literally no reason it’s. exhausting#another issue with her pool if it wasn’t obvious enough is that these are UC students. aka some of the most stressed out overworked zoomers#you can possibly talk to#again. horrible pool to gather data from on All Zoomers#idk man this just. irked me a bit#she used someone admitting they used to cut as an example of traumadumping/being too emotional/whatever and it just felt gross to mention#because again she is a College Counsellor.#I can guarantee whoever that remark is based on is someone who mentioned it after being asked BY HER about the nature of their trauma/#mental health issues so she can match them to a long term therapist.#aka: IT IS IN HER JOB DESCRIPTION TO HEAR THESE THINGS#fbsjcekdjfksjcjekcnrnd#kibumblabs#rant
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A bit of a vent of sorts below the cut, viewer discretion advised and all
Tw themes of self hatred, self harm and generally feeling lost?
Let me know if there’s something I should add or something I missed
I’m thinking of trying to draw it to kind of help myself process everything
#I’m trying to be gentle with myself but it’s hard sometimes#I think it’s partially that there’s still a part of me that wants my parents approval#but I’m not a straight girl#and all the other aspects of myself (such as mental health) are terrifying to talk to them about#writing#sketches#cw vent#vent#J me#my art
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#i have had to be very VERY careful when looking into anything about the lahaina fire#bc--&im glad someone else mentioned it bc there was no way i could w/o being extremely cruel w my wording lmao--#i have seen more than one person mourning the vacation homes&tourism aspects of maui&truly#i would sacrifice every single one to the goddess of the volcano herself if it would even make her consider helping calm the flames.#i might never go home again lmao. unless i can stay there isnt a reason for me to go&waste all the money+risk my health;#even protesting cant take precedence if it would require me to contribute to so many other issues that impact my home.#&i mourn those facts. all the time. never seeing the beaches back home again was one of my huge regrets when my life was more precariously#balanced&i still deserve cosmic reimbursment for the amount of ignorant fucks that looked at me&went 'why not just go home? being homeless#in hawaii is obv the better move' lmao.#im so sick of ppl seeing my homeland as a fucking playground. even when they mourn its only for what they imagine themselves to have lost.#even when they give a fuck its only bc they can identify w losing a paradise they dream of continuing the colonization of.#there is so much violence in me lmao.
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oh the joy of having good grades and a mask that's starting to merge with your face
"a joy to have in class" aka This Child Will Not Be Diagnosed for at least Eight Years
#i can have severe adhd and good grades at the same time#people with adhd are not stupid#do you want me to have bad grades to finally take me seriously?#what about all the other aspects of my life that are also affected by adhd#i hate that mental health professionals aren’t taught more about adhd#i hate that adhd isn’t researched enough#i hate the harmful stereotypes that are making it harder for me to get diagnosed
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the fact ppl expect you to be able to just sit there and take everything they say when they shit on men when you're a man is wild. are you expecting me to momentarily stop seeing myself as a man so you can rant? how tf are you expecting me not to be psychologically effected by hearing that "all men are trash"? what are you expecting me to do here exactly
#why do i have to sit here and tolerate something when its a net negative for my mental health and all you're doing is ranting about shit#i already know is bad that cis men do bc I also grew up dealing with cis men like#we already know but you seem to be hung up on the whole generalizing all men aspect and i dont have time for it lmao.#if you could talk about it w/o generalizing you'll find I actually stick around to listen#but once you start insinuating that all men bad when talking about a very specific thing some men do- how am i supposed to take#that other than you seeing me as bad in that way too by default of being a man? yeah i might be a lil insulted by that if you imply all men#are rapists or something. yeah it might actually psychologically effect me a bit if you can imagine#'my pain should be an expected cost' etc etc. except fuck that shit I dont think so. I grew up thinking that I deserved pain for no reason#im not about to let people continue to perpetuate that idea in me. fuck you.#ik having 0 empathy for men is cool to you and all so you're not even actually going to listen to anything I say but fuck man.#and then instead of actually listening to anything I say you're just gonna tell me to shut up so you're giving me even less reasons to#want to stick around given you're an asshole who doesnt care if they hurt me in any way clearly.#yall: why aren't you sticking around to hear me rant about men#us: bc you make it seem like its about us too w your generalization bs#yall: omg shut up no one asked who cares fuck ur feelings#us: *looks at the camera*#yall: omg why aren't sticking around to hear me rant about me--#I WONDER#maybe its bc you treat me like an inanimate object you're ranting to who doesnt get to comment at all#im like supposed to be a robot taking in all this 'information' except I already know all the information but one message keeps being#hammered in and its 'men bad' and im not allowed to emote or bring it up and comment on it or try to help that person work through#why they feel that way or feel the need to say that anyways- im just supposed to just take it on the chin or whatever.#like no fuck off
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