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hiraethwrote · 8 months ago

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RULES

IMPORTANT - make a habit of reading rules before following, requesting and/or messaging me

BYF/INTERACT & GENERAL RULES

⊱ blank and empty blogs will assumed bots and blocked

⊱ DO NOT INTERACT if you're hateful, bigoted, racist, sexist, homophobic, transphobic, abelist etc.

⊱ THIS BLOG STANDS WITH PALESTINE, if you're pro-israel, please leave

⊱ this is a mostly sfw blog, so i don’t mind minors interacting with those fics. however, if you’re below the age of 18, refrain from interacting with fics marked MDNI (please block the tag #— mdni)

⊱ this blog is also my safe space, meaning i will use it to post random ramblings about my life and things i like

⊱ i will not interact directly with ageless/minor blogs

⊱ please try to not spam like my posts (5+ like without reblogging). i appreciate the love, but i don't want to get shadowbanned — i don’t want to block anyone for silly reasons like this

⊱ i am dc friendly in the sense that i will read/support my mutuals work — however i will not reblog dc works i feel uncomfortable with

⊱ don't copy, repost, translate or plagarise on tumblr or on any other platforms

ABOUT MY WRITING

⊱ inbox is always accepting drabbles, headcanons, prompts, suggestions etc.

⊱ requests are also open, but will be treated as suggestions (might not prioritize/ it might take some time)

⊱ technically a multifandom account, but i only write for what i'm currently hyperfixating about/have motivation to write for (currently jjk/hq!!)

⊱ i am an adult working nearly fulltime, so please don't rush me

⊱ english isn't my first language

⊱ i mostly write for f!reader, but on occasion i’ll write for gn!reader in shorter pieces

⊱ mostly write angst, fluff, suggestive and crack

⊱ i am not opposed to writing nsfw/smut, but i've figured out it really kills my motivation

⊱ fics marked ♥︎; long fics are works over 10k words

⊱ this blog will contain spoilers, both in my works and in reblogs. will be tagged with #jjk leaks and #jjk spoilers

⊱ i age up characters. don't like? feel free to block

⊱ but i won’t write smut/nsfw for characters who are canonically underage even though i age them up. most i will do is suggestive

⊱ i interact/reblog NSFW content so, minors keep that in mind (again reminding you to block #— MDNI)

⊱ i will, to the best of my ability, try to write reader as general as possible. however, in general, reader will be smaller coded

⊱ my writing no's: non-con, dub-con, incest, stepcest, abuse, s/h and s/a topics, age gap with minors, eating disorders, somnophilia, kidnapping, (in general dark romance themes), race play, characters i dislike

⊱ want to be on a taglist? request here

INBOX & COMMUNICATION

⊱ my inbox is always open for any chit chat — i love to talk

⊱ any gendered terms and nicknames are okay, so don't be scared

⊱ hate will either be ignored or ridiculed

⊱ don’t come into my inbox with discourse. i just want to read and write about fictional characters, and share some love with friends

⊱ huge fan of using petnames and nicknames. i try to check your rules to see if you're okay with them. but if you're uncomfortable with it, lmk

⊱ mutuals can ask for other/personal socials such as discord

feel free to like this post if you've read the rules. thank you for visiting my blog <3

credits for resources i've used

#navigation #rules #like this post if you've read the rules #then you're cool #confirmed by me

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blackbirdffxiv · 8 months ago

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General reminder, because for some reason I've been seeing/getting followed by them the past few days and apparently no one bothers to read sees my pinned info:

My page is NOT suitable for minors (those under the age of 18 years old)

I don't care how mature you think you are, if you are under the age of 18 and I catch you interacting with my content, SFW or otherwise? You will be blocked.

All my soc-med stuff is 18+ Only, No Minors, etc, for a very good reason; there are blogs on here that post content from the same community as I am that are friendly for minors to interact with, but I am not one of them.

#OOC #Mun PSA #For fuck's sake y'all read the mcfuckin' pinned info #It's not that hard

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unforth · 2 years ago

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I've been trying for ages to figure out how to put something into words about The Youth In Fandom and I still don't think I've quite got it but I did reach an insight about it that I think is valuable enough that I'm gonna take a stab at writing it.

For starters, I want to make it clear, there is no "The Youth In Fandom Problem." Based on my efforts running the art sideblogs for danmei fandoms, I can say with a fair degree of confidence that a vast minority of people of all ages are antis, purity wankers, pro-censorship, ageist, etc. Even among people who mark their bios with their age, it's a shockingly low percentage of people under 18 who are being super weird about this stuff, and I think that's something a lot of older folks bemoaning The Younger Generation could stand to know and be reminded of. This isn't a majority, it's just a vocal minority, and tbh...that vocal minority has always been there, at least in my own fandom experiences.

That said, I've personally been the target of "y r u in fandom, old woman? Go take care of your kids!" bullshit, and yes it's definitely real and yes it definitely happens. (I am not old, I am not a woman, I was here before the people who said that to me were born, and I spend all the rest of my time taking care of my kids, so...).

All that introduction is to posit a theory:

The kinds of people who say "you should grow out of it, you're too old for fandom, etc." don't actually really...like what they like.

I know that sounds batshit. They're here blogging about it 24/7, of course they're obsessed! But I really genuinely find myself wondering...like...are they actually obsessed? Or are they just performing obsessed because that's what their peer group is doing? Are they just following along with their friends, mimicking their friends' enthusiasm, going with the flow because they're scared of what will happen if they say "actually I didn't think that show was very good"?

I ended up with this as a theory to posit because is to arrive at "you should grow out of it," you have to start with "I will grow out of it." And to get to "I will grow out of it," you have to start with "I may be into this now but I will definitely Change." And to get to "I will definitely Change," you have to start with the base assumption that loving certain types of media isn't just part of who you are, but rather a temporary persona you've assumed overlaying some deeper Self that will be revealed with time - or that's already been revealed and that you're deliberately masking for whatever reason.

Lemme put it less abstractly (but more longwindedly, lmao).

When I was 16, I was fucking terrified. There were all these things I loved - Star Trek, Hercules and Xena, Babylon 5, Slayers, Evangelion, Fushigi Yuugi, the Wheel of Time, many others - some I'd been into for years, some I'd only just discovered. And I looked at the adults in the world around me, who didn't sleep with stuffed toys, who got into long-term romantic and sexual relationships, who settled into careers that they stuck with for 20, 30, 40 years, who had heaps of responsibilities, and it was so frightening I literally had trouble sleeping at night. My senior year of high school, I trained myself to sleep with a pillow instead of a stuffie because "what would people in college think if they saw me snuggling a stuffed wolf?" That was something I was prepared to sacrifice to be An Adult (tm), something I was (irrationally) ashamed of, something that wasn't so much a part of my personhood that I couldn't give it up. When I left home to go to school at 17, I left my wolf at home. (I brought him with me a year later, and he's now on my bookshelf. Less disposable than 16-year-old me thought, as it turns out, but that's another story.) But there were things about myself I wasn't prepared to sacrifice to fit in during college. I still wore my Star Wars shirt. I still hung my anime posters. I still listened to J Pop. My roommate might judge me. My classmates might judge me. My professors might judge me. I didn't care. Loving those were part of who I was, and I wasn't prepared to give that up.

I found solace by looking at the adults in my life who hadn't had to give up their "childish fancies." I looked at my mother, who introduced me to Star Trek, and thought if she didn't have to stop loving Star Trek to be An Adult, then why should I? I looked at my grandfather, on whose bookshelves I first found the Lord of the Rings, and thought if he didn't have to give up LotR to be An Adult, then why should I? They might not wear fandom shirts, they might not go to conventions, they might not engage in the same way that I did, but they still loved these things, and it gave me hope.

When I was saw adults who still did fan things, who dressed how they wanted, who had cool hair styles or colors, who had tattoos, I thought "wow, what a cool person. I hope I get to grow up to be like them. I hope I'll be that comfortable in my own skin when I'm that age, because I'm sure not that comfortable in my own skin NOW."

I'll have to change in some ways - find A Career, figure out this "attraction" thing everyone keeps fucking talking about, buy a house, all the rest - but I'll be able to love the things I love.

I will still be "me" when I'm an adult, just Me-Plus-More.

I wanted to grow up to be that adult. I was prepared to take figurative arrows, to fight, to slog through, to retain the part of me that felt most valuable - my ability to love the things I loved without apologizing for it. And I knew I could do that, because I already had. Man, the shit people gave me in middle school for being an out-and-proud Trekkie? smh. It was baaaaad.

Time passes. Now I'm 40, and yes, I have changed. I've had more than one career. I got married. I figured out I never did have to figure out that "attraction" shit because I learned asexuality existed and. uh. Oh. I had children. I bought a house.

And I still have a bookcase of manga and I still have a Tumblr blog and I've found new fandoms - many, many new fandoms - nearly all for franchises that didn't even exist when I was 16 and so so scared that I used to literally break down and cry over the prospect of "having" to "give up childish things."

I got myself through on the belief that I'd still be me, and I was right. More than 20 years later, I AM still me.

And that's what leads me back to "why do The Youth think they'll age out of fandom?" And it leads me back to "I can only assume their fandom participation is mostly performative." Because look. This is who I was when I was 10 and read Lord of the Rings, and it was who I was when I was 12 and I started watching Star Trek when Voyager debuted, and it's who I was when I was 17 and I pulled an all-nighter to watch the second season of Fushigi Yuugi, and it's who I was when I was 21 and spent my birthday totally sober and gaming with my friends, and it's who I was at 26 when I got buried up to my eyeballs in Supernatural, and it's who I was at 37 when I watched The Untamed and knew as easy as breathing oh my god I've found the next obsession.

If it's an embraced, realized, adored part of your persona, there's absolutely no reason to think it's going to go away. And there's no reason nor need for it to. There are always gonna be people who judge others for having passions, and there are always gonna be people who embrace others for having passions, and you just gotta identify and avoid the former and find and adore the latter. If you're young, and you love fandom, and you're afraid you, too, will "have to" give up childish things...congratulations! You've got nothing to be afraid of! You never have to change that aspect of yourself!

But...I know these teens on Tumblr who are bullying others already know that because they can see us everywhere. And instead of going, as I did, "oh wow, those older people who still love the things they love are cool! how reassuring! I can be like them!" they think "EW OLD PERSON NOT ALLOWED THIS IS MY ROOM DO NOT ENTER."

And that's weird. When I try to think, "What kind of mentality would lead someone to feel that way, act that way, etc.?" I arrive at: being in fandom is something that they're embarrassed about. Something they're ashamed of, that they think is shameful. Something childish and therefore only for kids, even when the media they're a fan of is entirely made for and by adults. Something they think is made for them in that moment but that they'll be able to easily discard when they move on to more important parts of their lives. Something they know in their heart is transient. Something they're just doing because their friends are doing it.

That's when they'd think "why would an adult still do this?"

When it's something you "know" will be "just a phase," you don it like you don the identity of "high school student," something that'll get shucked a minute after graduation.

And while I found the idea of giving up fandom terrifying, I again can only assume that for these type of person, NOT giving up fandom becomes something terrifying. "Of course this is transient. Of course I'm going to change. I can't wait to change, I hate who I am now! Why did these so-called adults not change? Changing to not like this kind of thing is a sign of Maturity and Adulthood that I am eagerly waiting for, because I believe there's something wrong with being this way, and therefore I assume the adults I see doing this are immature, have something wrong with them, are childish, cannot be Doing Adulthood Right, because they didn't give up the thing."

"I know, in my heart, that I can't WAIT to change, so if they don't want to change, if they haven't changed, something must be wrong with them."

And don't get me wrong, I'm not saying this is the only reason. People are way too complex for there ever to be One Explanation Of All. I'm sure some of the teens who engage in ageist bullying just think they're ~cool~ and ~different~ and their name is Ebony Dark'ness Dementia Raven Way. Others are just uncomfortable with adults, with or without cause, and think "you don't belong in the same space as me." Some surely have drank the conservative kool-aid even as they've tried to change and are pantomiming the bullshit they were fed by those around them in new and unpleasant ways. Some think "this media was made for people like me and anyone who isn't like me can't possibly be engaging it in the Correct And Proper Way."

Some will grow out of it - out of fandom, or out of thinking that being an adult in fandom is wrong/bad/inappropriate/immature/whatever.

A few especially unpleasant ones...won't.

Unlike young!me, who looked at fannish grown ups and thought "wow, I could grow up to be like them, they're so cool!", you think "ew, I hope I don't grow up to be like them, they're so weird!"

And if that's you...why are you here?

If you don't actually like who are you when you're in fandom, that's okay. You don't have to stay. If you lose your friends because your interests change, then those friends stink and you didn't need them anyway; people who actually care about you will always keep by your side even if your interests and theirs diverge. But just cause YOU are performing your interest in fandom...doesn't mean the rest of us are. Some of us genuinely like it here. And you might think that's fucked up of us, but it's honestly none of your fucking business. You do what you gotta do to grow up, and leave the rest of us already-grown-ups alone.

And if you do genuinely love it and you're just scared because you think you'll have to change - that you'll reach some mystical age of majority and suddenly wake up a different person...you won't. For better and for worse, you'll still be you, so if there's things about yourself you don't like, it'd be better to start working on unpacking that psychological baggage now, because there's never gonna be a miracle point where you Feel Better And Like An Adult unless you put in the effort to change.

Teenagers...you will not grow up to be a new person. You will never give up who you are. You will grow up to be You-Plus-More.

And if that's something you hear and go "omg that's great news!" then I'm glad to be the one who told you. Take heart. There's hope. You can be you and that WILL be okay. You can face up to and grow from the things about yourself you don't like. You can learn more about yourself. You have time, and you will be able to improve yourself, to become more like the parts of yourself you like and less like the parts you hate.

And if that's something you hear and go "oh god no that's the worst" then you need to stare that reaction in the face and understand that the only way change is coming is if you make it happen for yourself. No one is strong-arming you into being a fan. If it's not for you...then stop. It's literally that easy. But don't take out your uncertainty and fear on other random people who are more comfortable with themselves than you are. Most of us are not here because of fear. We're here in the face of our fear, as a fuck you to our fear, because we also grew up being told we'd have to give up so-called childish things to be An Adult, and it turns out that was a pile of bullshit and we can have careers AND anime posters. And we can afford more anime posters, cause our parents are no longer telling us how to spend our money.

If your participation in fandom is primarily performative...just stop performing. Be yourself, and find your OWN passion, and stop shitting on the people who have managed to be more true to themselves and their own interests. You're not cool and edgy and different; you're just an asshole and a bully, and I pity you.

Anyway as you can tell from this rambly mess of a post, I haven't really gotten my finger on my point yet, but idk. I've been thinking about this and I think there's something there???

#unforth rambles #drama #hopefully now that I've written this I can finally get it out of my head #my posts like this pretty much always flop but that's okay #if it helped me think things out for myself #about why some people are Like That #then its job is done #anyway I wrote this post in between helping my daughter get dressed #and getting my son on the bus #and making tea #and straightening up the living room #and now i gotta start work in three minutes #the big difference between teen me and adult me is that now I have to fit the fanning into these miniscule windows of time #between all the More Important Things That Need Done #it's tiring but it's worth it

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daimyosprincess · 2 years ago

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ZWEI'S PRIDE MONTH CELEBRATION

HAPPY PRIDE Y'ALL!

In honor of pride month, I'm doing a lil celebration where I'll be promoting queer Star Wars fics and writers/art and artists, opening up my inbox to your thoughts/thots and fic/art recs on all things queer in the Star Wars universe, and even doing a couple of ficlets and drabbles focusing on queer pairings! At the end of the month, I'll post a wrap-up of all the pride celebration goodness.

Posts will be tagged as #zwei's pride celebration if you want to follow along! Please spread the word and enjoy pride 💖

My links: Masterlist — Taglist — Askbox

Pride is a time of joy as well as a time of reflection and honoring those who came before us, those who have sacrificed and those who fight to make queer existence possible, safe, and free. That being said, I will NOT be tolerating any hate, harassment, bigotry, or negativity so don't even bother, you will be blocked and reported on sight.

Some rules for asks and recs:

I am not kidding about hate or harassment, I won't post it so don't do it. My bi ass here to have a good time and celebrate

This is an 18+ blog for 18+ people. Minors do not interact, please enjoy your pride, but not on this blog

There's kink at this pride baybee

NO incest, underage, cl*necest, master/padawan (or similar power dynamics), dub-con/non-con/rape. If I don't feel comfortable sharing something for another reason, I won't share it, no hate no shade

Self-recs are welcomed and encouraged! This is a celebration, so don't be shy promote yourself and your work!! We wanna see it

Anons are on but don't be creepy (because guess what? Deleted and reported 🤗)

I don't care if we've never interacted or talked before, let's be friends! Don't be shy in my inbox 💖

As a general reminder, you create the fandom experience you have. Be nice, curate your content with filters, and don't be afraid to block people.

NOW LET'S CELEBRATE!

#zwei's pride celebration #happy pride 🌈

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comiverse · 26 days ago

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🤍✧Masterpost✧🤍

(This is a WIP, things are subject to additions/change.)

Greetings, people of Tumblr! My name is Comiverse, but you can call me Comi, Birdbrain, or BB. Don't be shy, feel free to ask questions, or just talk to me in general if you'd like! (Anons are welcome as well. 🤍)

Since this post shall be long, everything will be under the cut in this order:

✧ Basic Info + Links

✧ DNI / IWC / OTI

✧ Likes, Dislikes, & Triggers / Discomforts

✧ Tags Guide

↪Basic Info:

✧ I am a minor, but I don't feel comfortable with sharing my exact age!

✧ I go by She/They /It

✧ I both draw and write (I like to suffer creatively twice), but my commissions/requests aren't open for either of them yet. :)

✧ I am a Christian, so please IWC or DNI if you aren't comfortable with that! I don't talk about religion at all really though, so I likely won't bring it up past this point.

✧ I'm uncomfortable with talking about demons/satanism/cults/etc. Please keep that stuff to a minimum if you must talk about it to me for whatever reason. ^^

✧ I'm chill as long as you're chill, and even if you're not chill, I will usually just block and move on if something bad happens.

✧ While I do have discomforts, it is actually nearly impossible to offend me. Be warned that honestly, insults and pointless arguments are entertaining to me. (I usually won't start a fight, but I'd just giggle if someone tried to have beef with me.)

✧ I do tend to have problems with taking things seriously, so apologies if I come off as insensitive sometimes! (''._.)

↪Links:

✧ AO3

↪DNI (Do Not Interact):

(I cannot stop people from liking/reblogging my posts or following me and shit, but please do not talk to me if you fall under this group!)

× P3d0ph1l3s, z00ph1l3s, MAPs (Minor Attracted People), d@rkshippers/pr0shippers/c0mshippers, etc.

× Transphobes, homophobes, ect.

× Christians who believe it's alright to hate LGBTQ+ people or people of other religions. (I don't agree with this opinion, and I don't believe God does either. Matthew 19:19 KJV, "Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself.")

× People who bash on Christians/mock Christianity. (Yes, I know there are terrible Christians out there, but please don't come to my blog just to start sending me hate just because of my religion.)

× 18+ people (Unless I know you/interact first)

× 13- kids (I really don't feel comfortable with talking to younger children.)

↪IWC (Interact With Caution):

(You will only fit into this group if you are none of the above in DNI.)

• People who are easily triggered by heavy topics such as mental disorders, EDs, SH, SA, etc.

• People who don't like Sans X Sans or Papyrus X Papyrus (Don't worry, there won't be any Sans X Papyrus though, not matter what AU)

• People who dislike Sanses & Papyri being anything other than male

• People who enjoy Hazbin Hotel, Helluva Boss, and/or The Coffin of Andy and Leyley (Idm if you like it, I just don't want you to try to convince me to like it too)

• Satanists (Same thing as the above one ^)

↪OTI (Okay To Interact):

(You will only fit into this group if you are none of the above in DNI or IWC.)

✓ You like UT/UTMV

✓ You don't mind some dark jokes/content

✓ You're a decent, respectable person

↪Likes:

I'm really only into the Undertale fandom, but I also love the following games:

✓ Sky: COTL

✓ Do NOT Take This Cat Home

✓ Slime Rancher (1 & 2)

My favorite Sanses are:

✓ Cross

✓ Reaper

✓ Ink

✓ Dream

Misc things I like:

✓ Chicken flavored ramen noodles

✓ The color purple

✓ Hoodies

✓ Music

✓ Lemonade

↪Dislikes:

Please do not try to convince me to like/talk about:

× Hazbin Hotel

× Helluva Boss

× The Coffin of Andy and Leyley

× Dreammare (In any form. This includes Swadmare.)

× NSFW things (Reminder that I am a minor)

× Demons/Satanism/Cults/Etc.

↪Tags!!

✧ Use (#pinned post) to see important stuff I have pinned.

✧ Use (#birdbrainedstuff) to see everything that isn't a reblog.

✧ Use (#comiconvos) to see answers to asks.

✧ Use (#bbchatter) to see random unrelated shit I post.

✧ Use (#headcanon) to see my headcanons.

✧ Use (#incorrect quotes) to see incorrect quotes.

✧ Use (#fanfic idea) to see my fanfic ideas.

#masterpost #anons welcome #undertale blog #pinned post #birdbrainedstuff #comiconvos #bbchatter #headcanon #incorrect quotes #fanfic idea #<- use those last seven tags

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onheil-ferguson · 1 month ago

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Aye, just a friendly reminder (especially with an influx of new followers and new people interacting with my posts/writing post-Arcane finale):

I am an adult.

This blog is intended for 18+ only.

The fanworks that I create are primarily 18+ content for various reasons including but not limited to sexual content. Everything is tagged accordingly.

If you are less than 18 years old, I really would prefer that you do not interact with me, my posts, or my appropriately tagged fanworks.

I will typically not respond to accounts that I have reason to believe are run by minors and I usually just block them, especially if they are attempting to interact with me on posts or fanworks that include or reference adult content.

I absolutely welcome young people to interact with my fanworks that are tagged in a way that indicates there is no adult content and/or make requests or prompts that do not relate to adult content. (GEN/T+)

However, this is a one-strike rulebook and I'm not interested in negotiating. I've gotten my share of messages about "turning 18 this year" or being only a few months/weeks shy. I will simply delete these comments or messages and block the sender where I can. Frankly, these are simply demonstrable of lack of maturity and give me more confidence in my general policy.

I'm excited about working on new material with the little spark of renewed inspiration I've managed to snag and I anticipate readers and followers respecting boundaries appropriately.

#Words from the writer

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sanityshorror · 2 years ago

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My Basic Boundaries & Rules, PLEASE READ

(and actually read the entire thing, thanks.)

• General:

I'm actually a very laid back person, but I'm going to be absolutely blunt and outright here, if you find that to be unacceptable, I frankly don't care. DNI if you aren't capable of comprehending my bio, if you haven't read it, read it then come back.

My blog is dedicated to my work on The Hellcrew. I may post other things occasionally but keep in mind my blog is ultimately for my creations and not a personal blog or a fandom blog.

My work is intended for an adult audience and is primarily in the extreme horror genre.VIEWER DISCRETION IS STRONGLY ADVISED.

I DO NOT CONDONE THE HARMFUL ACTIONS AND I FIND THE HARMFUL SHIT MY CHARACTERS DO TO BE ABSOLUTELY REPREHENSIBLE. These dark topics are supposed to be disturbing and meant to be upsetting, make you uncomfortable, etc.

RULE REMINDER: Anyone who is under 18, block the tag #hellcrew18+ and DNI with anything tagged as such. This has always been a rule but I feel like I should remind people.

Do not DM me unless you're 18+, plain and simple.

No shipping discourse, I find both sides of it to be annoying. I am a splatterpunk author and horror artist, and I am not a fandom creator either, all my content is my original creations. shipping is not my priority as a creator.

• Regarding my creations:

Please actually understand what my characters are like in canon before you get too attached. It's fine to HC them in complete OOC and AU ways. But it's not okay to lash out at me in anger when you get attached to my characters through the art and your headcanons, only to find out you're incredibly bothered by the canon - and don't even go there trying to tell me what to do with my characters. I will do what I want, I created them. You have fun with HCs and AUs. IDC if you love my characters but hate me. Just don't harass me (or anyone, for the matter)

Don't ask me if your OC can know Julius and/or Killian (or any other canon Hellcrew character)-- the answer is no.

You're welcome to make a Hellcrew OC but do not claim your OC is a canon member of the Hellcrew or talk in a way that implies your OC and/or HCs are canon.

You don't need to share your every nsfw thought about my characters to me. Seriously, it got old a very long time ago. I don't answer asks like this and asking more isn't going to get me to answer.

• Regarding myself:

Please refrain from forming any sort of parasocial relationship with me in any manner. We do not know each other. Certainly don't trauma dump and/or over share to me, I am extremely uncomfortable when people do this and it puts me in a weird place.

Please keep in mind that I am not my characters, and that I am a real person. It's very dehumanizing when people treat me as if I'm just some vessel to the characters, and as if the characters are the real people. This is something I've experienced many times, it's genuinely hurtful and incredibly dehumanizing.

It's fine to be obsessive over my characters/creations (I don't care whether it's positive or negative) but it's extremely not okay to obsess over me - positive or negative, in any manner. It makes me beyond uncomfortable.

DO NOT bring drama, try to start drama/"stir the pot" etc to my blog and with me in general. I do not have time for drama and want nothing to do with it. It's stupid. If you don't like me or my creations, that's fine - please block me. If I at any point feel uncomfortable towards anyone, I will block them. There is no reason to try to start drama. It's not entertaining, it's incredibly stressful. I want no part of it. If you're incapable of following this rule, you are the problem. This rule should generally apply universally (yes, even in real life).

If I block you, that means you make me uncomfortable and/or I want nothing to do with you -- don't make accounts or attempt in any manner, to circumvent that. it's fucking creepy, what the actual fuck is wrong with you?

I'll add more if I can think of more. I'm horrible at and feel anxious over setting my boundaries, because I often feel guilty and like I'm going to upset people and/or they will not even be regarded (which, yes, has already happened countless times since I set my boundaries). Please be respectful.

#blog update #sanityshorror

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getyourdirtyhandsoffme · 1 year ago

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! REQUEST RULES ! #🧁

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ before requesting please read the

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ request rules before ACTUALLY

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ requesting me! Respect my rules!

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ please and thank you!

WHO I WRITE FOR:

MALE

TRANS (ANY UNDER TRANS UMBRELLA)

GENDER NEUTRAL

I states my reason before in my "WELCOME TO BIO" blog however I will type it here as well just in case or as a reminder: As a TransMan myself I wanted more content related to make readers, gender neutral, and any other in the trans umbrella for others to read as well!

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ no disrespect for the female readers it's just that you have way more female readers than male, gn, trans, etc... however you are willing to read my blogs, mostly gender neutral readers since it can indicate any gender to make yourself Included into my blog! I might even make a AMAB/AFAB gender neutral reader without the pronouns: feminine/masculine terms since people don't know how to do it right. (No disrespect. Yes disrespect at the same time)

WHAT I DON'T WRITE:

Z00phile (lIteral animals)

P3d0file

R@PE/FORCED

MINORS X ADULTS (horrible age difference)

INCEST

YANDERE (I'm sorry)

TEACHER X STUDENT (MINORS)

GOR3

MINORS IN GENERAL (I'm not aging them up)

ANY WEIRD STUFF

WHAT K!NKS I DON'T WRITE:

WATERSPORTS (P!SS)

SCAT (SH!T)

C@NNIBALISM

AGE PLAY

DADDY KINK (I'm not into writing that)

PET PLAY

LITTLE SPACE (that's technically age play)

ANY WEIRD ONES, ETC

WHAT I DO WRITE:

A / O / B (ALPHA/OMEGA/BETA)

MYTHICAL STUFF (VAMP/HYBRID/ETC)

SAD STORIES: ANGST, HURT/NO COMFORT

HAPPY STORIES: FLUFF

18+ IF COMFORTABLE: SMUT/LEMON/LIME

HURT/COMFORT

ONE SHOTS

SOME I CAN DO

FANDOMS I CAN WRITE:

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ KPOP:

GOT7 | SKZ | ERM THE ONES I KNOW OF

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ANIMES:

ONE PIECE | NARUTO | HXH | JJBA | THE ONES I KNOW OF

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎GAMES:

TEKKEN | LAST OF US | WALKING DEAD | ONES KNOW

IDOLS, OCS, FAMOUS PPL, ETC MAYBE

WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT ME BEFORE REQUESTING YOUR IDEAS:

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ I'm quite slow so I might not understand what you want me to write so please be quite descriptive on what you want me to write!

Along with that— I'm not good at writing smut because I never had that experience before, clearly, so please don't get too wicked with me! So please chill on me as I am a slow worker who is a college student doing a hard major that would cause me hair loss!

PLEASE AND THANK YOU!

#about my blog #masterlist #anime #kpop #cartoons #fictional characters #gay #lgbtqplus #x reader #x gn reader #x male reader #x ftm reader #x nb reader #x mtf reader #request #blog rules #ftm reader #male reader

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kowaindar0u · 8 months ago

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1, 9, 16 for Yuichi, Sunao and Taikyuu, 18 👀 (@zantedeschia-praesul)

[ 20 QUESTIONS FOR MULTI-MUSE BLOGS! ]

putting under a cut cause it got long LOL

1. which muse is the easiest to write? i think yams, yuichi, and taikyuu are the easiest for me to write! i've been writing taikyuu in a couple verses since like 2019 so i feel like he comes to me easily. yuichi and yamatonokami i feel are quite similar to me LOL

9. what song do you associate with each muse? oh man. i have playlists for all of them i think so! letz go - Sengo: DDD by EXID i have always said that sengo would like exid a LOT, so here! (the lyrics dont matter just the VIBES and the DANCE) - Yamatonokami: Over the Sky by Dreamcatcher again i am always saying this song reminds me of tkrb in general but it REALLY reminds me of yams? (again, not rly lyrically, jsut vibes) - Fudou: It's Been a While by Staind typical grungey song lol but... any time it comes on when i put on his playlist i'm like. Dang. - Hachisuka: Two Princes by Spin Doctors not necessarily in any kind of romantic sense but naturally just the way he acts with regard to nagasone, the "pick me, why would you pick him?" kind of thing?? it doesn't really fit witht he specific lyrics just... again... vibes (noticing a pattern here...) - Taikyuu: ME by CLC i realized while looking at my playlist for him that a good chunk of it doesn't apply as much to him thematically in tkrb verse as it did in mortal kombat LOL (because indeed their backtories/circumstances/struggles are quite different) but this... i remember when this came out, during the time i was RPing him there for MK and just thinking how PERFECT it was for him. cause in all universes he is beautiful and he knows it - Sunao: honestly any song that feels like fall OR like laying in a sunbeam Put Your Records On by Corrine Bailey Rae honestly he's just a very mellow and sweet kind of guy, though sometimes he's got a just the teensiest twinge of sorrow. - Yuichi: lately it's for sure Talk Talk by Girls' Generation i already mentioned it on his playlist post but omg ...lately it's been really in my head a lot for... Reasons lol :eyes:

16. what is a plot you’ve been wanting to do for Yuichi? - I don't have any specific ideas in mind but it would be fun to do something where things get intense in, like, his capacity as saniwa. like shit is hitting, or about to hit, the fan so he needs to Do His Job LOL

16. what is a plot you’ve been wanting to do for Sunao? - honestly i think ANY plot would be good LMAO but i like the idea of him maybe interacting with either a less-than-friendly toudan, or one who's not in the best of moods. he's such a people-pleaser he'll do anything he can to help lol

16. what is a plot you’ve been wanting to do for Taikyuu? - HMMMM... perhaps one where he hurts someone's feelings and has to handle that, or vice versa. orrrrr ... hmmmm. i will always love him being protective of his fellow toudans, even if he isn't really fond of some of them... makes me soft lol. also maybe him dealing with some kind of Failure(TM) that kinda throws him for a loop

18. which two muses would immediately fight each other if they met? probably yasu and fudou LMAO

#huhuhu? (asks)#FINALLY ITS DONE LOL

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heygutlcssa · 2 years ago

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friendly reminder that tumblr savior and other blacklisting extensions exist. also the block button exists. its a shame that the dashboard is in an upstart tonight over something really stupid.

You know what it boils down to? CONSENT.

Here’s the thing my guys-- YOU DO NOT HAVE TO MAKE AN EXCUSE FOR A SINGLE THING YOU WRITE. JUST TAG YOUR SHIT ACCORDINGLY.

This gives everyone else the chance to give informed consent as to whether or not they want to read the shit you write. Because again that’s what all this drama boils down to: CONSENT.

And here’s the thing about fictional characters my loves. THEY CANNOT GIVE CONSENT BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT REAL.

YOU THE READER ARE REAL. YOU HOLD ALL THE CONSENT TO READ OR NOT TO READ. IF YOU DO NOT CONSENT THEN DON’T READ IT AND MOVE THE FUCK ON. the block button is there for a reason. Blacklisting tools to block those tags exist for a reason.

the whole purity thing and policing what people should and should not write is pretty 2008 and no one likes a pearl clutcher. This pearl clutching and purity policing really comes down to readers denying or disguising (and sometimes even both) their own agency and consent to promote their own agenda.

“writing smut or sex with underage characters and aging them up is wrong because they can’t give consent” THEY CAN’T GIVE CONSENT BECAUSE THEY AREN’T REAL. THEY ARE FICTIONAL. Even if they are 18+ ( a consenting adult across the US federal law) THEY CANNOT CONSENT BECAUSE THEY ARE FICTIONAL. they do not exist. They are not real.

an ant’s left butt cheek can give more consent than a fictional character because IT EXISTS.

the ongoing argument that stemmed tonight’s drama isn’t about defending the rights and consent of the fictional characters mentioned, its about “ this sort of writing shouldn’t be allowed”.

And this argument is shit. Take away the camouflage and the coverup and the victim blaming and what you really have is a real living person behind a computer screen saying “ I do not consent to this and i am not comfortable with my own personal agency”.

a person who has the critical and comprehensive thinking skills can look at writing or an rp blog and say “ huh, this is something that i do not consent to. This makes me uncomfortable. this doesn’t seem like my kind of thing” and can just keep on scrolling.

A person who is not comfortable or confident with their own personal agency goes through this in-depth thought process in response to what they have read:

-I do not consent to read this. - I do not feel that I am in a safe enough space to withhold my consent. - i feel unsafe. - i need to be protected. - i can’t make it about my feelings, because i am not allowed to. - a sense of displacement takes place --> Others need to be protected. --This should not be allowed.

Take for example, someone walking into a movie theater and saying “ i don’t like horror movies.” and walks into a showing of a horror movie and says “ This is so harmful to viewers why are they showing this!”

There’s a rating system for a reason. You don’t have to go into that movie. Just keep walking.

Lastly my guys... PEOPLE ARE INTO WEIRD SHIT. In real life, with real people, consent is a super huge deal. and guess what, that’s why people have active and open conversations about consent, boundaries, empathy, and an understanding towards power differentials. Its in the news. its in school. We are in an era where these kinds of conversations are socially expectable. Pearl clutching recedes this.

In fiction you can do whatever the hell you want. Some people actually like how it makes them feel because it is not real. it can be experienced within the safety of fiction.

going back to the horror movie analogy who am i to tell Stephen King to not write horror because it could make me uncomfortable? Lots of people like it. He’s won awards for is writing.

and people still pearl clutch saying things about weird fiction in general like “ but it will normalize rape and pedophilia!! people will think its okay!”

do you think seeing a sewer clown murdering children is going to make a fan go out and do that? unless there’s some severe mental health issue, i think not.

Now for the pearl clutcher who decided to start all this shit...

YOU’RE CONSENT DOES MATTER. YOU ARE ALLOW TO NOT LIKE WHAT PEOPLE WRITE. JUST DON’T MAKE IT ABOUT SOME GRAND MORAL JUSTICE OF THE UNIVERSE. YOU CAN SAY “ UM YEAH NO THANKS NOT FOR ME” AND KEEP ON SCROLLING. Worry about your own shit my guy.

That’s why Rpers stress to tag their shit. and I can say hands down that the things you clutch your pearls about were 100% tagged. just keep moving. use tumblr savior. use that block button.

but don’t start shit. it ain’t fun. it ain’t nice. There’s that one quote by oscar wilde “ give a man a mask and he’ll show you his true self.” the internet is one hell of a mask and you are exposing yourself.

and I’m gonna scroll on by. i do not consent to participating any further in your mess. Not my circus. Not my monkeys.

#PSA #tw; long post #tw: call out post #tw; consent #tw; drama

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cascadeofsouls · 11 months ago

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Independent multimuse and multifandom rp blog portrayed by the entity known as Nayen. (of @exnusquam , @sourhydrapplin and @manywcrlds fame)

I'm 27, use it/its pronouns exclusively, and live in Germany, which means my online times are harshly different from most of the 'Muricans here.

This blog doesn't host any pokemon muses, but is still welcoming other people with pokemon muses here for crossover/AU interactions!

MUSES | MUN | OTHER BLOGS

Read all rules underneath. I'll know if you haven't.

Multiship, multiverse, chemistry only. Platonic ships welcome and encouraged! - Every ship will result in it's own verse unless discussed otherwise. -- Please make sure you say which muse you're referring to so I know which one to write.

None of the art here is mine unless claimed otherwise.

No drama, no badmouthing. I don't touch antiship/proship discourse either.

This is a hobby, not a job. Do not hound me for replies. Reminding me one every three days or so is fine. - I do not enjoy roleplays that only have like two lines per reply, but so long as you write more than that and give me something to work with, I truly do not care how long your reply is.

I will not ship any minor muses with any muse over the age of 18 and vise versa. - Any attempt anyway will result in an immediate block.

We do not ship with pokemon at all, unless it's a legendary pokemon written in a similar role to a greek god (e.g. human form, intellect, ability to communicate and consent). - If you have a problem with that, that's okay, but please just block me and move on

I am willing to roleplay s/mu/t rp, but only with people I trust and have interacted with extensively, and only based on chemistry. I prefer doing nsfw rp on discord, but can also do it here if tagged appropriately and under a read more. - Discord is only given out to people whom I trust and have interacted with extensively oocly on tumblr IMs and otherwise.

If you want me to unfollow for any reason, let me know privately, and I will do so without resistence. I would prefer to be following someone who welcomes me there.

In general if you have any issue with me, feel free to talk to me privately. Don't just listen to whatever someone else says about me. The rpc has a clique problem as is, let's not make it worse. I promise I don't bite.

I ask you not to softblock me and instead just hardblock me. It makes things a lot easier for both of us.

I'm much friendlier than I sound like, I promise!

This post will be edited whenever I find it relevant to.

Thank you for reading. Love you all!

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omi-nor · 2 years ago

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Rules and brief about!

Welcome! This is a rp blog for ygo characters. Probably going to just stick with mostly Yami Bakura right now. But I might add others later.

Here are some general things you should know:

- I am very new to rp still. And still not super familiar with Tumblr. Still a lot of things I don't know or have never done before, so please keep this in mind

- It almost feels like my first time ever encountering ygo.

I've just picked up the manga for the 1st time about three days ago too.

- I am an adult and would prefer characters and muns to be 18+. No nsfw stuff with minors

- I really do try to read and remember everyone's rules, but sometimes I forget my own rules, so please forgive me if I forget something

- On that note, I am pretty forgetful, in general. I try to jot down notes to help with this, but there is a chance I may forget an ic interaction

- Try to give me about a week before giving me a reminder, though.

- I am VEEERY slow a lot of the time. Like, many days, maybe a week, slow. Sometimes more than a week. Not always, but just giving you a heads up.

- I try not to spam notifs or dash, but, it might happen, occasionally. I will always reblog from the source, unless the mun has made it explicitly clear that they actually prefer it be from them or don't care either way or, for some reason, I can't get to the source.

- I am kind of the exact opposite of most people, it seems. I actually would LOVE it if you went on a like spree. And I actually prefer it if you reblogged memes from me (as long as we have spoken at least once). And dash spam almost never bothers me. You can also come into my ims, that doesn't really bother me either.

- I'm not the best at # tagging stuff. I haven't really got a system going yet

- I follow #omi-nor and #ominor, but I don't look at tags very often

- Please don't be afraid to @ me for dash games, lmao. I usually love those. May not always do them, but yeah.

- I am a very heavy cell phone user, but, so far, I don't think I've run into trouble because of this. Trimming is the only big thing I have doubts about still right now.

- Rules could change. I tried my best to give some solid info here, but it could change. I'll probably make a post if there is a change?

(I really hope I'm not forgetting something because I am writing this from memory.)

- I am pretty anxious about stuff. I'm trying not to be, but it's hard.

Like, sometimes I look at a meme and there's a part of me that wants to do it, but there's also a little pang of anxiety a lot of the time. Lol, I dunno, man..

- I may not answer every ask or do everything thing. And I'm trying to get better at sometimes saying no to things. But I don't want people to get discouraged about interacting, either, lol.

I also try not to pressure other people and a lot of stuff coming from me doesn't have a whole lot of expectation attached to it. (Like, if I @ you in a dash game, for example)

- One important thing about communication: I always feel like I'm in a tug of war of trying not to talk too much to people because I'm worried I'm bothering them just a bit and then realizing I may not be talking enough, so I'm basically a stranger to them.

- "Plot something out" kinda scares me a bit, cause all the rp I've ever done - I think - was just off the cuff. Maybe it's not as scary as it sounds and maybe I've technically already plotted without knowing it. But yeah.

- I might need to take 2 or 3 weeks off from time to time. Just giving you a heads up. I'll try to say something.

- Going by Rainy for mun name. It just kinda stuck, lol.

- It's very easy for me to feel a bit overwhelmed. A part of me hates to do this, but I may need to temporarily shut down my ask box and not accept @s or #s for a bit if I feel like I have too much to do. I may need to make a very short ooc post just to let people know?

- I'm going to say, yes, all my memes have no expiration date, though.

- On a similar note, I think it's very possible I will go through your posts and send in stuff from a very long while back, in some cases. I usually assume there is no expiration date for other people's memes, but I usually try to ask first. But if there is, please feel free to ignore.

- I may or may not use icons

- If I see a reply to a thread and I am super tired, I won't read it until I've slept long enough for me to feel better (which could be a long time). I feel like being tired while reading really distorts things, so I like to only read it after I've gotten some sleep.

Honestly, the same is usually true for even ooc conversation. I just don't do well when I'm sleep deprived and sometimes I will just pass out for, like, 12 hours. (I LOVE it when this happens, though. I feel great afterwards.)

***ABOUT YAMI BAKURA***

My Yami Bakura is, right now, based off of anime English dub canon, for the most part. But now that I have the manga, it might slowly start to change a bit. Not sure.

I kinda wanted to try Ryo, but I haven't found Ryo in the English dub to be very inspiring, so far. A lot of his screen time was him just kinda flatly explaining the duels. Poor Ryo. You see glimpses of an actual character, at times, but it's rough, man.

I was debating keeping Ryo or not, but just to avoid confusion, I'm gonna wait to see what the manga has to offer.

Can I lastly just say? I really like the ygo rpc so far.

#rules

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yuujitheevessel · 1 year ago

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this is a low + sporadic activity roleplay blog for yuuji itadori (ft. sukuna) from jujutsu kaisen! on this post, you'll find all relevant links/info here for my blog. i am completely caught up with the manga and anime, so this blog will not be spoiler free. if i'm not here, you can find me on one of my other blogs: @impishsensei @muryonokansei @blastintriumph

carrd || pinned credit

for ease of access, my rules are placed under the cut!

I.ㅤ i will interact with mutuals only. if i follow you, i want to interact, so do not hesitate to send me asks or IM me with plot ideas! i'm willing to RP with OCs, and characters from other series. for personal blogs: please do not follow/like/reblog my posts. doing so will result in an immediate block. I’m okay with one-liners, crack, multi-para, novella… everything! Feel free to send in any ask memes if we haven’t roleplayed before. I’m duplicate friendly. ㅤII.ㅤ if i haven't replied in two weeks and i'm not on hiatus, that means I probably lost our thread or it’s sitting somewhere in my drafts and I haven’t noticed it, so please message me to remind me about it. i drop RPs sometimes out of a loss of interest but please do not blame yourself. It is always a personal thing that has nothing to do with anyone else as a roleplayer. I’m always happy to start/write more regardless of dropping previous threads. ㅤIII.ㅤ i have some ships i like, but where RP is concerned i heavily prioritize chemistry. for now, my blog is multi-ship, so any relationships will take place in separate verses.

ㅤIV.ㅤ DON'T involve me with drama OR send messages telling me to reblog callout posts or anything like that. i don't care for getting involved with petty RP drama. if it's something actually serious, i've already seen it on the dash and taken note. seriously, i will hardblock, anyone that pesters me with this nonsense. ㅤV.ㅤ considering the content of jujutsu kaisen, there will be NSFW content on this blog covering the topics of murder, blood/gore, cannibalism, toxic/unhealthy relationships, etc. I'll tag all of these, but also let me know if you need anything else tagged. although i am 27, i will not be writing smut with yuuji. sukuna isn't off the table, but it would have to be AU only and would also be unlikely since he's a feature + request only muse. if in the odd chance that a roleplay with him comes around to it i will ONLY write smut with partners that are 18+. if you'd rather not do so publicly, i'm fine with writing on discord. i'm also ok with on discord in general, not just for smut lmfao. ㅤVI.ㅤ I ask that minors DON’T follow my blog/DNI. I don’t want to be the reason anyone sees something inappropriate for their age. If you’re a minor & I accidentally followed you, let me know & I’ll unfollow you immediately.

#꒰ pinned. ꒱#꒰ ooc. ꒱

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muryonokansei · 1 year ago

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this is an indie, private, and selective multi-muse blog featuring maki zenin from jujutsu kaisen! on this post, you'll find all relevant links/info here for my blog. i am completely caught up with the manga and anime, so this blog will not be spoiler free (i will tag if i mention leaks, though). if i'm not here, you can find me on one of my other blogs: @impishsensei @blastintriumph @yuujitheevessel

active muses on this blog: - maki zenin (jjk; primary) - toji fushiguro (jjk; secondary) - riku (kh; secondary) - zack fair (ff7; tertiary) - yoshida hirofumi (csm; test muse + request only)

please be sure to read my rules before interacting/following.

carrd || interest check || icon credit

for ease of access, my rules are placed under the cut!

ㅤIV.ㅤ DON'T involve me with drama OR send messages telling me to reblog callout posts or anything like that. i don't care for getting involved with petty RP drama. if it's something actually serious, i've already seen it on the dash and taken note. seriously, i will hardblock, anyone that pesters me with this nonsense. ㅤV.ㅤ there will be NSFW content on this blog, so if you're uncomfy with that blacklist the following tag: ( nsfw. ). i will cover dark topics considering the source material. expect to see mentions of murder, blood/gore, toxic/unhealthy relationships, etc., featured on my blog. I'll tag all of these, but also let me know if you need anything else tagged. i am 26, so if a roleplay comes around to it i will ONLY, write smut with partners that are 18+. if you'd rather not do so publicly, i'm fine with writing on discord. i'm also ok with on discord in general, not just for smut lmfao. OBVIOUSLY, sexual nsfw will only be reserved for my 18+ muses, written only with other 18+ muses. ㅤVI.ㅤ I ask that minors DON’T follow my blog/DNI. I don’t want to be the reason anyone sees something inappropriate for their age. If you’re a minor & I accidentally followed you, let me know & I’ll unfollow you immediately.

#( ooc. )#( pinned. )#// i will prob update this later but fuck it we ball

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