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chuuloid: "and lest- and louis- and jacob and i" what the hell sure
Lucyddreams: sam talks about what he expects for loustat on S3
Video: Autumn Brown - Terrorized and Therapized with Sam Reid
#jam reiderson#sam reid#loustat#interview with the vampire#iwtv#season 2 press#“i want to see them destroy each other i want to see them get back together”#let's calm down sir. i want a season or two of loustat slow-burn and yearning and only then we can talk about them destroying eo#quoting tweets#lestat possession or character bleed?🤭#they roleplay off screen 😁#discussing mutual yearning between loustat together? oh im sure
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not to stir up anything but like.
why dont people like it when people call lu guang selfish or a hypocrite? like i get that being selfish or being a hypocrite isnt his entire personality, but it's flaws. flaws that rarely appear in characters. and its very realistic. because we are humans, and we are all selfish and hypocritical in our own way.
most shows or movies have their characters be selfless and willing to sacrifice anything to save the world. i believe that lu guang is almost the same— he wants to help people and he understands others emotions. however, assuming that changing the timeline hurts innocent people (like how emma dies and smth smth), its clear that hes willing to sacrifice some things for cheng xiaoshi. actually, he jumped through timelines to save cheng xiaoshi!! which is possibly dangerous!! i havent mentioned the fact that he told cheng xiaoshi to not mess up with the past even tho he does it himself.. and yk what? THATS OK!! i love this selfish idiot. i will ruffle his hair. i will kiss his forehead. i love him. i love characters with flaws.
hes not 100% wrong, but also not 100% right. and thats ok. me likey. patpat.

#rant#link click#ermmm#i am open for discussion 🫶#as long as we r calm and happy#shiguang dailiren#pls dont post a reply to this without replying to this post like me wanna know too 🥹#lu guang#lu guang is my sons bf#my son in law is lu guang#bbg
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So I have a question about Arlo’s powers that you might have the answer to
Do you know what the bleeding is all about? Like when he starts coughing up blood after his barrier breaks. Does he just like straight up start bleeding internally or something?
Anyway I love this blog sm you are giving me the unO content I crave
Ah, thank you! Yes, I absolutely have the answer. In fact, I’m going to take this opportunity to make a post that was already floating in my head.
Arlo and Recoil Damage
First, to answer your question in a literal sense, yes. It’s definitely internal bleeding. Specifically, damage to his lungs.
It’s also not at all unprecedented for a person to be wounded like this. Every person with a conjuring type ability takes damage when their conjures are damaged.

(Rein in ch. 16)

(Cecile attacking Arlo, ch. 109)
The difference with Arlo, is that his damage happens below the skin. Here’s where it gets juicy.
Symbolism
Arlo’s ability is very symbolic, possibly the most so of anyone in the series. His nigh unbreakable barrier he puts around himself represents his metaphorical walls, and how he keeps everyone at a distance. His passive makes him invulnerable— he gets punched in the face, clawed at, stabbed at, etc, and doesn’t even blink. The only way to hurt Arlo is to break through his barrier. And when his walls are broken down, there’s a wound in his chest. It’s not literal enough to be his heart that bleeds, but it’s very close.
There’s also something that’s been kicking around in my head for awhile—

“You’re the strongest one out of all of us here right now. You can try to brush this whole thing off... but to the rest of us, it’s still scary. If even you can’t protect yourself, what can the rest of us do?” — Remi, Ep. 61.
I remembered the line being “When people as strong as you show fear, it scares the rest of us.” However, that must have come from a different scene and I won’t track it down.
It’s plain and simple: High tiers have been taught their whole lives to bottle things up.
This is also seen reflected in Seraphina—


(ep. 20) Granted, the circumstances here are very different, but it’s a similar idea. High tiers showing emotions scares people.
So they bottle them up...


… until they explode.
(Ep. 106)
The judgment Arlo and Seraphina face is very similar. Seraphina rejects these expectations before the story starts, but Arlo has yet to do so. He is very much like the Seraphina we see in flashbacks.
All of this is to say: it is significant that his barrier wounds are internal. The little bit of blood we can see is mainly there so the audience knows he’s injured— but otherwise? Barrier cracks aren’t an injury that people can really see. Recoil damage is typically reflected as scratches, so his internal wounds are both unique, and symbolic of the way he hides his feelings.
#analysis#arlo unordinary#ask#asks#i forget which tag I usually use#Ability discussion#UnOrdinary#You asked this question to the right person!#Ive done lots of thinking about the barrier cracks#and how Elaine and John are probably the only ones who know the extent of it/exactly what the cracks do#He is always so composed and never lets on anything#and his wounds are buried deep inside hidden from sight#—betrayed only by the blood he coughs up#ARGHH it makes me insane#Especially when I think about how he stays calm when he talks about Rei…#Unordinary is a masterpiece yall
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Horrible thought I just had (and by "just" I mean on Wednesday lol) but maybe the reason Wolfgang is always so agreeable and passive, and continues to remain composed and soft-spoken even when clearly annoyed/frustrated with or scolding someone rather than get expressively angry, is because lashing out and potentially hurting someone by doing so reminds him too much of what his dad used to do 🙃
#project eden's garden#p:eg#p:eg spoilers#wolfgang akire#maybe he looks into the mirror after washing his face to calm himself and sees the way anger makes them look even more alike#we see him snap like once and that's while discussing the motive behind murdering a young girl sadistically and in cold blood and that's it#jean and desmond are also more or less chill when being disrespected and in general but in more different ways#wolfgang isn't a (total) push over but he's definitely super nice to people even when he probably should be a lot sterner (e.g cassidy)#and even with eva and damon while he's obviously frustrated with them he doesn't lose his cool and remains formal enough#i hc that wolfgang's manner of speech and his general demeanour are modelled in a way that separates him from his dad#to the point where he doesn't even put his foot down when he wants to or should. food for thought idk#momento rambles
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Qiao Ling: Lu Guang! Did you break the timeline?! Lu Guang: Yes. Qiao Ling: WHY? Lu Guang: Cheng Xiaoshi was gone and he was 85% of my impulse control. Also, life is meaningless without him.
#my prediction on the eventual discussion these 2 will have to have in s3#Gotta love the fact that LG going 'FUCK THE TIMELINE' the moment CXS was gone is canon when he always insisted on protecting it#this is a follow up to my other post abt LG possibly only being calm and collected for CXS#since destroying the whole timeline was a rather unhinge thing to do#link click#shiguang daili ren#lu guang#cheng xiaoshi#shiguang#qiao ling#this post was inspired by the 'girlfriend being 85% of their impulse control' tumblr post
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Imagine making a completely false narrative, ignoring the history of the game industry, and making assumptions based on the single early animation test just to... idk, feel like you're playing correctly?
Let's ignore all the years of development that went into these games. The work of writers, lead voice actors, artists and designers. Very first animation test is the only thing that is important.
Imagine completely ignoring the whole point of this genre: every Shepard, just like every Warden, Hawke, Inquisitor, and Rook is canon. Their gender, their pre-game history, their romance, everything is canon!
Imagine trying to rationalize your own sexism by saying that the only reason your fantasy isn't reality is because it was 2007 and female protagonists are only for female players??? Yeah, let's ignore all the classic games from the same era with female protagonists. Let's ignore the fact that men can play as women, women can play as men, and non-binary people exist.
Imagine feeling the need to even talk about this shit.
Imagine so many people agreeing with you.
The stupidity of it all makes me so fucking sad.
#I don't even know if I should tag this#I'm just baffled#sometimes I forget that this fandom isn't just made up of 20 wonderfully smart people with good takes#and with whom you can have a productive calm discussion#meh#I'm so tired of this debate#why would you even debate this at all?
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i am just imagining the future discourse that comes from the culture clash between all the different relations of humans vs. dragons.
like okay. the classical British/European mode is pretty much universally disparaged and disregarded at this point, and For Good Reason. like you've still god the far right groups that believe that Dragons are Inferior Beasts but they're the same as any extremist racist idealogy.
a lot spicier is debates around whether it's good to have a "captain" relationship with your dragon. lots of "can it be reclaimed" conversations.
flip that stuff on the head with the Inca and any similar cultures that had some mode of "the humans belong to the dragons". imagine the entire Crucible of Gold subplot where Laurence and co wrestle with whether or not it's slavery, with all the relevant nuances, but also Twitter exists.
and then there's the Tswana. where dragons are not just culturally humans, but culturally Literally Specific Reincarnated Humans. i don't even want to imagine what debates on that topic look like.
#temeraire#like the anthropologist in me just wants a scene in the book where scholars from these sperate nations#all sit at a conference and have a good calm discussion about these differences#but people would all have such strong conflicting opinions#i suspect there would probably actually be screaming matches by the end of day one
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atp i feel like the ONLY way Yor is gonna NOT fight Loid when things get too deep for her is if/when they figure out their true identities so they can go on a mission together and she can beat the crap outta someone else as a way to relieve her nerves so here's how i imagine they're finally gonna get together:
Yor is gonna figure out he's twilight first but by this point i feel she's already realizing her feelings for him or is starting to given her jealous tendencies so she won't let him know she knows. but then he finds out her identity and ofc is shocked and he's also like do i tell her i know? do i break up the family? so as he's considering this he's thinking about his relationship with yor and how didn't he see the Signs but he's like come to think of it, they were there. And he's just imagining their time together and how she is with Anya and it hits him holy shit. i want to be with her frfr
so they go out on a mission (i feel at this point they gotta have a target in common like come on now) run into each other and he just blurts out YOR?! and she's like LOID??!! and he's like YOU KNOW?? and she's like well .... so ofc they have to have the BIG talk and she's about to go off as her usual but this time Loid really wants to have this talk and by now knows exactly what is about to happen so when her face starts getting red from blushing he puts the target in front of him like a shield and is like Yor I have something - punch - i want to say - punch punch kick
#bc atp i can't see her actually being calm enough to actually finish a Serious Discussion with him#spy x family#spy family#loid forger#yor forger
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mom: just making sure you're up
me, sitting here in my suit jacket with my document of notes up, anxiously awaiting Meeting: i just might be
#asdghjdsdfgh#i have a Casual Discussion Meeting with a local geotech department of a big company and im gonna be So Calm And Professional#the prophet speaks
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the most flattering comparisons made about me of all time (mostly looks based; a little bit vibes based) are:
1) that I look like Nancy Wheeler
2) that I look like young Helena Bonham Carter in A Room With a View
3) that I look like the girl in this painting
4) that I look British Theater Actress Ellaline Terriss
#this is about cate’s tag lolololol#NO BUT ACTUALLY IT MAKES ME AND MY VANITY SO HAPPY#they are all prettier and cuter than I am tbh. and they also all look very different to me ultimately. but there’s some passing similaritie#and/or a collection of vibes#and it makes me soooooo happy#I love a collection of vibes related to myself on which I can reflect#gives me such a stable place to REST my sense of self#which. yeah. I know. can be such a flaw. I’ve really had to divest much of my self-worth/self-obsession from what other people say of me#about me. trying to just have everybody else read my personality and discuss it with me endlessly#because a lot of what I suffer/experience has nothing to do with that and my weird delusion that it does HAS TO DIE#it’s just—LIFE. and the human condition!!!! and understanding myself perfectly will not solve that#but still. I looooooooove when I feel like I have been given the gift of something to reflect on about myself from the outside#it just. it helps calm the turbulent waters of my mind and heart that are just always endlessly and cruelly analyzing myself#this has gotten away from me hasn’t it
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I would like to create content that you guys enjoy, but I will not do that at the expense of myself. If that makes me seem intolerable and close-minded and hoity-toity, then that's whatever.
Enjoy the content you want to enjoy.
I will not be glorifying abuse or assault on my blog. It is not the content that I believe you all deserve. You deserve to read about someone who complements you and respects you, ESPECIALLY in a dom/sub environment since those can toe the line between a vanilla/"normal" relationship and something that can go too far.
#andy just speaking🫎#my asks are always open for people who wish to discuss this topic in a calm and respectful way#the last few posts have been very negative but I do not want to discourage yall from interacting with me#I love you all dearly#if this is the kind of content you enjoy then I am glad you have content that fits your niche...#but I warn you to be careful.#please take care of yourself <3#I want you all to experience relationships that are SS&C <3
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~ im about to get deep so scroll if you dont wanna see me all emotional ~
genuinely so thankful for everyone who reads my fics. i have always had a love for writing, but i abandoned it for a while because i told myself i'd never do anything with it, that it wasn't a realistic career path. but the encouragement from readers i've gotten since coming back to fandom spaces has been so astronomically unexpected and meaningful to me.
writing is such a genuine pleasure for me, so i would probably write even if 0 people read or liked my fics, but i dont think a lot of readers realize how big an impact their interactions can have on the author. i've been giggling and smiling all day today because people are being so kind to me and about my writing, and it's just amazing.
anyway, all this to say i love you all and i cant wait to post more fics for you :) and to encourage anyone who's shy about interacting with their fave fics to just do it!! i promise you'll make someone's day :)
#i just *clenches fist* love when people are genuinely kind to each other#fandom spaces can be so toxic and scary but i feel like ive carved out this little beautiful niche#uhg i just love you guys 😭#anyway#calm yourself phlarry#ao3#fanfic writing#fanfic discussion#fanfic discourse
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akashi is actually not as good at everything as people like / want to believe but let me not get into that today
#i think people are missing the entire point of his character arc when they believe him to be perfect and good at everything#you have fallen for the image he’s projecting without noticing the cracks in the facade and the secrets they reveal#in my opinion people still have a largely one dimensional understanding of him#we have so much material to work with why do we refuse to discuss more than his supposed perfection#less about how perfect he is at something and more about the trials and tribulations he experienced in trying to be good at it#less about how calm and composed he is and more about how easily he breaks down in secret because he cant do it in front of everyone else#more about him being comfortable enough around his friends to risk making jokes#if you heard any of the headcanons i have about akashi you’d go into shock#give me more messy awkward akashi#or i’ll do it myself#Whatever. I don’t want to talk about it anymore#but it’s ok… i will be crazy abt him in silence#i just love him#knb
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I love mentioning unions at work and watching every manager turn into a glassy-eyed robot and start spouting off taught union-busting bullet points like corporate zombies. truly fascinating
#like I KNOW y'alls managerial training includes a section on how to shut down union discussions ghdkg#but you don't have to make it so Obvious#you sound like a google slide#did this a few days ago and my manager whipped her head around#and with this eerie customer service face started talking a mile-a-minute#“unions ARE bad they steal wages and unelected representatives get to make decisions for you and they don't comp wages during strikes-”#like jesus calm down#cool it Miss Pinkerton I'm not suggesting we unionize our bath and body works
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actually loved this chapter. felt it could’ve been a bit more drawn out pacing-wise but i wouldn’t change shit wrt how things wrapped up
#chainsaw man spoilers#your anticlimax is my oddly poiniant sendoff to the aging devil#a pretty good way to neutralize a primal fear without actually ‘killing’ it#and denji having calmed down a bit & everyone going to eat is just. glad we’re getting this space to discuss and reflect what the fucks goin#AND the prospect of denji & fami just eating like hogs together . swining it up. pigging out. is. oddly soothing#theres no way in hell things’ll ACTUALLY go ‘back to normal’ in the long run but i suspect there’ll be some degree of allegiance-shuffling#going on factions-wise#or avoid reflecting! that’d work too.#now that things are through with#at least goal evaluation#given everyone but denji himself are functionally working towards the SAME THING at this point despite doing so at the expense of the others#i stg if barem shows back up#also GOD DAMMIT I WROTE ANOTHER THREE POSTS WORTH OF CONTENT IN THE TAGS AGAIN#(accidentally scrambled the tag order. i think this is right. curse by inconsistent sentence structure and eccentric train of thought)
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the chapter songs in Alan Wake 2,, flawless
#they deserve more love and discussion#saying this while also not knowing what to say other than they’re so fucking good#alan wake 2#i think it’s partially because poets of the fall’s tracks are iconic so of course they’re in the spotlight (as deserved)#but also the CHAPTER SONGS. them being made for a given chatacter(s) with the help of Sam lakes poetry#the changes with ‘this road’ by Poe with every Alan chapter. becoming more distorted and revealing lyrics and the spiral#the scratch song being 1) hilarious and 2) similar to Zane’s poetry in the aw1 arg#the emotion in superhero when saga feels lost at the story making it so Logan was gone#the lines of her feeling like a ghost in this story forming around her.. how she feels guilty and absent for both what the story’s doing#and being away from Logan because of her job. ashdhhhhjhh my heart#AND. follow you into the dark HAS to be alice. which kills me because at for at I thought of Alan#but no. Alice jumped in the dark place after him. it’s so !!!!!!!!!!!#the rabbit hole line. Alice spiraling deeper and deeper into a dream—into wonderland#the Lost at Sea one is also good. intrigues me. the Bowie and Lynch references are blatantly aw2 Zane#but it’s so similar to diver Zane and the ‘originals’ death. being lost in the dark place with illusions of escape#and losing any sense of identity. whether he’s real at all or the monster of this sea or just a lost soul.#the soft and calm vocals / instrumental really makes the whole thing#NEED to stop typing more tags because this is a Lot. however.#‘no one left to love’ is also a phenomenal song and one of my favorites from the album. GORGEOUS vocals and how it all flows together.#such a powerful and beautiful way to end a chapter#anyway that’s all I had to say :)#god. I’ve started to watch a few playthroughs of the game and 90% of people have skipped the chapter songs and every time im#that’s fair but my brain and soul might implode if I don’t see anyone else talking about how good these songs are
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