#Wifes

[ortofosforico]

I had to

[noalarmssnnosurprises]

[prentiss4les]

emily: do you want to know your gay name?

jj: my… my gay name?

emily: yeah, it's your first name-

jj: haha. very funny em-

emily, getting down on one knee: and my last name.

jj: oh- oh my god.

spencer: i think emily jareau would sound better actually.

[heremob]

sup dudes i'm going to draw flippy as a pathetic girl and make yuri flippaky because i feel like so

[computerexploder]

x

[ltwilliammowett]

@nympheline​ asked: what sort of love tokens did sailors wear, please?

Well, we all know the little things that Sailor made for her loved ones at sea or bought and gave to her before they set sail. Be it coins, shell pictures, scrimshaws, woolies, portraits etc. But what did the wives, fiancées, but also mothers and sisters give the men (assuming they went voluntarily, because the pressed ones often had no opportunity to say goodbye or even exchange small gifts)? Mostly the women gave their husbands something useful. Especially when it concerned the working class, it was simple things like wool socks, hats, a waistcoat or a pin cushion or a whole housewife (sewing kit).

Housewife, c. 1810 (x)

But foodstuffs such as sweets or tobacco were also very popular.

Waistcoat of Tahiti cloth (tapa) for Captain Cook to wear at court, had he returned from his third voyage, ca. 1779 / embroidered by Mrs Cook (x)

Members of the upper classes or the nobility, of course, had completely different means at their disposal. And there were portraits, tobacco boxes, pipes, wines, food, but also embroidered handkerchiefs, books and letters as examples.

Well, i hope it helps you a bit, and as soon as i have more pictures, i will elaborate further.

[urbiggestopp]

Praying for the next Splatoon dlc to be the wedding of pearl and Marina

[vivianbernadetteaurora]

Some 1960s rockers wives

[harleyqpink]

Cleo and Tabitha

[thehumanexperience8b]

March 29th, 2024: Twin Flames, "The One," and Marriage

One of Epicurus’s opinions on the biggest mistakes a person can make is the need for romance. Our society puts so much importance on “soulmates” or finding “the one.”  What if you never do… Do you want to spend your whole life looking? Is there something wrong with me if I haven’t found the right one? How do I feel okay being all on my own? These are all questions I had once asked myself, too. But tonight, I’m here to write to you that all of those good loving feelings can be felt without having a partner by your side. That you can be fulfilled without having that perfect boyfriend or girlfriend. It might seem like a grim concept at first, don’t you have to have tried it all before realizing you don’t need anyone? Well the answer is no! One of the things people fear is that they will “die alone.” Sometimes we wonder hypotheticals like this, when in reality, there is no question: everyone dies alone. Even if you have been married for 60 years, on your deathbed, your wife or husband will not be dying with you. Although they may be there watching you with your friends and family, you will have died alone. But this is okay. The thought of this being sad and scary is just a result of society's conditioning. One day in my philosophy class, my teacher asked, “When you start a relationship do you think about how it will eventually end in a breakup, or a marriage?” For me, I do not want to be married, so it will end in a break up everytime, but I was surprised at how many said they did not think about that. Whenever I start a new relationship I realize I will break up with them in the end; but that doesn’t scare me, I have free will. I have many thoughts on today’s modern dating landscape. I think our idea of “love�� is skewed, and I don’t truly understand who this benefits. 

Along with this topic, I’ve noticed online there’s been a talk of “twin flames” in the spiritual sides of TikTok and other platforms. I do not agree with this, and I honestly don’t believe they exist. I’ve seen a video where a person states that if you find your twin flame, it doesn’t matter if you’re married or have children, leave them to be with your twin flame! That is absolutely ridiculous. Don’t do that, you are most likely just blinded by the idea of a “perfect match,” and this might hurt you in the long run. Just a quick side note about the increasing talk about “twin flames.”

 When you listen to the radio or the top hits, most of those songs will be about love. These songs usually follow the theme of “I need you to stay!” or what will I do without you kind of talk. Some of these people are 20, 30 years old singing like this. But you do not have to give any of your partners the power to break you. No one is a part of you, it’s just you. Your experiences shape you, and your partners all play a role in this, but they are just a flicker of light in your life, they are not meant to stay; for people change. You do too. You will feel so much more whole in life realizing all you need is yourself, your partner isn’t your “other half” but rather a nice addition to your life. Never feel obligated to keep someone around in your life if they’re: draining your energy, making you uncomfortable, making you cry, stealing from you, guilting you, or being disrespectful. Remember that it’s always better to be alone than to be with someone who makes you feel alone! The universe will open up new possibilities when you make good choices for yourself. And I 100% support divorces! Don’t live your life in misery because you vowed to be with someone through thick and thin, if they're sinking in the mud; don’t let them drag you down with them! And parents, sometimes it’s better to raise kids in two healthy households, than in one dysfunctional household. I’ve spoken to kids of divorced parents and they’ve said it’s better now that it’s over. Taking care of yourself will show your kids how to take care of themselves, too. I can speak from experience… children are affected a lot more from unhealthy marriages than you think. You have to love yourself first, before you can truly accept love from another person. Take care of yourself!

“At first I was afraid, I was petrified. Kept thinking I could never live without you by my side. Then I spent so many nights thinkin’ how you did me wrong, I proved strong… and I learned how to get along.” -I Will Survive. Gloria Gaynor

[prentiss4les]

jj, obviously flirting: you're the funniest person i've ever met, emily. how do you always say something that make me laugh?

emily, smiling: well, uh-

spencer: actually, she's not funny. she's just really mean and people think she's joking.

jj:

emily: do you want to see what i'm like when i'm being fucking mean you fucking bitch?

spencer:

spencer, slowly backing off: noup, sorry! didn't mean that, ahaha haha ha...

[thedollisdead]

Blurry picture of my wife and I at a show tonight (yes we saw Drug Church for the millionth time, and it never gets old💖)

[purplemang0z]

Mafia Lesbians...

I spent way too long on this.

[evil-feather]

I finally finished it. It was supposed to be a pride drawing lmaoo

(click for better quality)

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The meaning of the flag (sapphic):

[puregalpal]

HOLY SHIT I WANNA KISS AND SNUGGLE AND MAKEOUT ANS FUCK OUR WIFE RIGHT NOW AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA