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If you are considering to join the Fediverse (often also refered to as Mastodon) and don't know where to get started, here is good non-technical guide for newbies.
In terms of my personal interests, I can say that in the Fediverse there are also authors, artists/illustrators, editors, reading fans and other bookish folks, goths, vegans, pagans, modern witches … There are also many activists for social justice and environmental/climate protection, as well as journalists and other people who write about political issues.
Here are the main advantages of the Fediverse: ✅ It's not owned by one big company, but dezentralized. ✅ No ads (That is, only personal ads by small businesses, artists etc. not by big companies) ✅ No algorithms (Everything is shown chronologically.) ✅You can put clickable hyperlinks into your posts. ✅ You can easily integrate ALT-text into pictures (which is common practice there.) ✅ You can add content warnings to your posts (and you should) ✅ Trolls, spammers, scammers, bigots, extremists etc. can be reported easily and will be blocked by admins. ✅ You can add a small video or up to four images to a post. ✅ Depending on the instance that you choose, you can write short or longer texts (for instance on mastodon.social up to 500 letters per post, on pagan.plus 5000 letters). You can also do threads. ✅ You can easily follow hashtags, so use them. ✅ You can filter words or hashtags, so that respective posts are not shown to you, or only with a warning (you can choose in the settings) ✅You can choose how you want to present a post: Publicly, semi-publicy, only for followers or as a personal message to a single person or to a few people. ✅ You can comment and share posts of others, if their post is public. ✅There are lots of instances in the Fediverse. Some are about a region, others about a certain topic, for instance for queer folks, literature, IT or else.
#Fediverse#Mastodon#Guide for Fediverse#advantages of the Fediverse#feditips#social media#This is really a social medium
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Love staring at people. The more I stare at you, the more I love you and find you so interesting and cool. It's like absorbing vibes, I don't know how to describe it.
#antlerkitty sharing#actually autistic#medium support needs#cluster b#<- because 99% sure this is part of why I am the way I am socially in terms of really intense painful love of humanity#actually schizospec#<- because probably a bit of this too even though am having a good remission period right now for some reason
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the sooner you all accept that 99% of actors are entitled nepobabies with weird beliefs and despicable friends and learn to enjoy the stories they tell anyway the sooner you'll find inner peace
#like it's okay to thirst after good looking actors and love their characters and whatnot#but if your worldview crumbles the moment you realise what politicans they are having dinner with#and what they really think about certain social issues#then you will have a crisis pretty much every time you get into a new medium#just don't treat them like gods is basically what i'm saying#shockingly this isn't even related to 911 but i guess it applies across the board#ramblings#my stuff
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i think in a celebrity au isabeau/mirabelle could be a singer duo while sif ghostwrites the lyrics for their songs
#my thought process for this was mainly: sif's narration is pretty poetic sometimes -> sif might have an interest in literature or writing#but sif doesn't like reading (rip siffrin you would've loved audiobooks) so they wouldn't be writing books or anything#so what other ways are there to show off that poetic side in a medium that isn't read by the viewer. oh yeah song lyrics#but sif doesn't particularly give singer/celebrity vibes to me#he's more like a cryptid who only posts on social media once every few months and it's just pics of his black cat making funny shapes#idk. so who is there that gives celebrity vibes. isabeau and mirabelle...?!?!#isa loves the attention I think. he's in it for the singing mainly of course but he likes interacting w fans too#meanwhile mira doesn't really thrive in attention as much as isa but she likes to share her singing and she appreciates that people like it#uh. I forgot where I was going with this. anyways hey cool au idea. I like to imagine theres a group chat between those 3#n whenever there's a huge event or smth mira and isa are panicking and sending 30msgs/min while sif is unbothered n sending pics of his cat#in stars and time#isat#siffrin isat#isabeau isat#mirabelle isat#my ramblings#i really just put the whole post in the tags huh. ell em ay oh
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Review of the Tumblr incel tag:
- lots of fandoms/artists doing incel aus as an excuse to draw their oc/blorbo in glasses and getting bullied, here 'incel' is more used as a synonym for 'nerd'
- women/feminists posting screenshots of incel posting and saying they want to kill men underneath them
- lots of tongue-in-cheek posts of girls posting cute selfies and going "nooooooo I'm such an incel 🤪"
-a frankly concerning amount of posts fantasizing about raping/getting raped by an incel. I'd say this is the majority of the tag by a comfortable margin.
- <1% actual incels posting incel things
#i have noticed that incel is increasingly used as a nerd/dork synonym#which in some ways is good as those terms have been so thoroughly gentrified#that we really did need a new word for creepy losers with bad hobbies#but on the other hands incels#both the literal definition of the term and the actual strain of male it refers to in common parlance#are a very distinct thing from nerds#and its useful to be able to distinguish them#but yeah one of the posts in the tags that stuck out to me was a twitter screenshot#of a guy saying that women don't really like nerds#and a woman saying they do they just like the ones that look good take care of themselves and don't struggle socially#and its like im sorry ma'am you just proved that guys point#that isn't a nerd you're describing anymore#that's just a medium guy
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was rewatching the pilot again yesterday for fic reasons and thinking again about the sherlock-style screen annotations they had when barry was doing CSI work that they literally only did in the first ep and then never revisited again, presumably because they realized it'd be far too much effort to work out the details on such a precise level
and thinking about like. that barry allen with the hyper-precise exact measurements that he did by eye (with joe shaking his head in awe so you know that he's a CSI supergenius) vs. the leonard snart who timed his heists to the exact nanosecond (which again, presuming they ditched because it's a logistical nightmare to write dialogue that nitpicky and obsessive, and would be such a fucking pain to do on a week-to-week basis). like. yet another reason they are soulmates tbh. is audhd4autistic a thing the same way t4t is a thing? if it isn't then i'm making it a thing
#never noticed it before i became obsessed w autism but pilot barry is SCREAMING “stereotypical tv depiction of white male autistic savant”#like even the cadence of his speech and the level of clumsiness and social awkwardness was ramped up to an 11 in the pilot#literally i only watched half the ep and he accidentally bumped into like 4 people.#like... the lack of spatial awareness... he's so me. they really did go “the speedforce cured his appalling proprioception"#part of me is glad they dialled some of it back cos like. tv loooves to code characters as autistic in that very specific#way that's like. a big old stereotype. but then be like “wdym you interpret him as autistic. disgusting that you'd say that. die.”#but idk i also kinda liked it... again im ultimately glad they didn't stick w the sherlock-style annotation bc it would make writing casefi#SO much more difficult than it already is just in terms of like. how do you show that kind of thought process in a non-visual medium#in a way that's not incredibly boring and info-dumpy?#but i do have a soft spot for like. early seasons disaster barry allen who can't walk across a flat surface without crashing into something#and has no idea how to have a normal human conversation#my meta
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if youre wondering what criteria i use to decide to tag/categorize something as either painting or illustration, the answer is that it's almost completely arbitrary
#especially when the medium is unclear#or like ink or watercolor can really easily straddle the line between illustration and painting depending on the subject#If this post doesnt show this well i clearly overthink the distinction between these two ideas a lot#especially as a person who does both illustration and painting#ultimately like i said i think the difference is almost completely arbitrary and it comes down to like#a cultural idea of what the artist is trying to accomplish with the specific piece#i think illustration tends to veer more utilitarian in terms of depicting a specific thing or narrative#and when thinking of a painting i tend to think more about technical skills or like a vague feeling#like socially illustration serves a different role than painting but when you start trying to categorize these things granularly#the lines really start to blur#and ultimately it like does not matter because art does not like to be boxed#but i have to box them. with tags on tumblr. to be able to find them again#so this is a really longwinded way of saying the ultimate goal of my tagging system is to be able to search a word and find what i want#not prescriptively literally describing things#but my autistic literalism and desire for infinite nuance means that i feel cringe when i tag something that it may not literally Be for#the sake of finding it again later#like my hounds tag being basically any canid. SORRY!#anyway
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#lets try x and see how it goes#it seems less social than threads really#tumblr is the only fully anti-social social media I guess#anyways im doing it as an experiment#also#medium might be my next try#i love trying things and giving them up lmao#no but seriously i need a place that is not tumblr#tumblr moots can find me outside tumblr but not the other way around :)
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If Jane Austen could write about my family from the outside and I could read it then maybe I would be healed.
#moving out has helped! but is there is not a new social life/core for me yet#maybe ever? idk#but within the actual family unit there is ….. so much going on#so much suffering. so much change. unbelievable levels of stress and anxiety and depression#like I really cannot emphasize enOUGH how much#and my parents are essentially full time caregivers#and I both want to help and be a stabilizing factor and I also want to be honest about how much of a toll it takes on me#because i think it’s A Lot#but also I don’t like modern rhetoric on any of these difficult topics and I reject it even though I use a lot of the language#hence why I need Jane Austen to do it for me#to bring this full circle#anyways if you could say a prayer for us. for my parents especially but also my sister#well all the sisters and my brothers!#anyway reflecting angsting etc.#tbh I would love to know the medium of the average family’s unhappiness and stress#Because I think ours is off the charts#But idk. Would love to know more tbh#I would love to know if a lot of it just the human condition! But sometimes I’m just like this is not normal lol#thanks for listening
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shout out to that one time a coworker asked me how to spell 'coffee' and i almost fuckinf started with 'k'. BITCH.. sswear i have a fuckinggg 97% in english auguugughhh
#not art#good lird the mistakes i make when ive been social and on my feet for too long#anyways goodnight chat 🫶🫶🫶#OH i want to post traditional art here#just have to you know. make something vaguely presentable . grins#digital just. doesnt really do it for me anymore. idk i'll definitely rebound eventuallly#just burnt out with that specific medium. shrugs
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it is so unbelievably fucked up when an artist doesnt have a tumblr because i cant reblog their art again when i think about it randomly three months later. i cant even look in my beautifully curated character tags, im going to have to scour through my instagram saves in my fandom folder and repost it to my story to be seen by no one for 24 hours like some kind of fucking ANIMAL
#tomato talks#artists really like it when youre unwell about their art and i cannot properly convey it through the medium of temporary social media
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I wish I was not an unintelligent manchild.
#Vent#I wish I had interests that were properly 'adult'#I wish I didn't like being surrounded by toys and trinkets and games and comics.#I wish my room looked like how you'd expect an adult's room to look#I wish my art was refined. I wish I worked in mediums that were considered respectable to the average person.#I wish I could read. I mean like I really wish I could focus and read a book above a high school reading level. And properly disect it.#I wish I dressed properly. Plainly.#I wish I could feel comfortable surrounded by muted colors.#I wish I didn't enjoy obnoxious music.#I wish I didn't cling to things that reminded me of my childhood.#I wish I could be just like a normal adult office worker who was able to socialize properly and went to the gym#And then would go home and cook myself dinner and read and then go to sleep.#And I would still be miserable. I'd still be undesirable. But at least I'd be normal. I'd probably hate myself less. I'd be more respectabl#Why didn't I ever grow up. Why. What's wrong with me.#Why did I get a weird job. Why do I want weird things. Why am I weird.#Maybe if I was normal I could make fun of adults who have weird interests and get rid of the awful fucking pit in my stomach#Maybe I'd be marginally less miserable because at least my life is put together and at least I'm normal.#And I wouldn't have to waste time and money and energy doing weird things like going to conventions#(I was going to add to that but I rarely leave the house as is)#Instead I would just talk at the water cooler and otherwise think insightfully and deeply. Be a proper philosopher or something.#And with a better more normal job I'd have the money to be a philanthropist too#And I wouldn't bother anyone#And I DEFINITELY wouldn't be FLAPPING MY FUCKING HANDS WHEN I GET EXCITED#OR SINGING UNDER MY BREATH RANDOMLY WITHOUT REALIZING IT#OR BITING MY NAILS OR TAPPING MY FINGERS OR LISTENING TO MUSIC SO LOUD I CAN FEEL IT IN MY CHEST#I WOULDNT BE BOUNCING MY FUCKING LEG#I WOULD BE *FUCKING NORMAL*.
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Feel like a big reason that I can’t relate to a lot of other autistics with social issues is:
Always explained in metaphors for some reason which is tricky with brain.
Not usually consciously aware of how I’m different. Aware that am different, but can’t name a lot of specifics besides being MSN. Still very hard for me to understand that not everyone has the same brain as me.
I can’t read other people well enough to realize that they’re feeling upset at my social issues a lot of the time. Seems like there’s lots of tiny cues I just miss, I can tell with bigger cues like sighing or moving away or going silent, but I can’t usually tell with micro cues. So I kinda assume everyone loves me and thinks I’m awesome, and if they don’t, I get deeply confused.
I’m not very self aware. Don’t really notice my behavioral patterns (this also means big struggle to change them). Don’t realize if am being unusual unless people point it out a lot, and can’t usually stop without trauma (though some minor exceptions).
#antlerkitty rambles#actually autistic#medium support needs#have been wondering for a while why I can’t really relate to any of the “so relatable autism content” stuff for LrSN folk#I think have finally figured it out which good#can relate to HrSN social issues they way they present it because they usually have same cognitive issues as me
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I was really proud of this so decided to post
#traditional art#my ocs#Xerxes#watercolor illustration#mixed medium#Alcohol markers#Watercolor pencils#Trans pride#Trans art#Trans artist#Oc art#I drew him with actual eyebrows ONCE. And then couldn't stop#But I need to stop bc it's important that he has different looking eyebrows!! Important to me!!!#He needs to look brutish!!!#Anyway. Enjoy pls bc I barely put my art here anymore#Sorry if I seem pessimistic but not really sorry tbh social media does that
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[from stream] I suppose it should be no sorrow that my declining romantic interest is related to his propensity to clarify his epistemic voids.
Christ on a stick, I'm really laying it on thick here. Fine! I feel sad reading some of webdev guy's opinions. It does interrupt my work and design ideas. But I'm not going to just slam the door in his face. It's whatever! Everyone's got an opinion!
#postrox#homegrown by postie#current events#i would post this right in the stream but he literally admins it and probably has full access to everything so like. lol#on the other hand misaligned values still ARE a kind of heartbreak. like he went on about memory and introspection and yearning on main#which first of all calls me TF out like okay interesting choice of topics#but i think it especially F's me up because not only is this mismatched values it's also mismatched WORK. i DO want to build total corpuses#and i do want to build better mediums for introspection and i do want to investigate the underpinnings of yearning/limerance#and the 2nd-order desire to publicize that yearning/limerance; is it really unique to social media? or have there been historical examples?#wow this should be a longform blogpost ... oops#in that vein i really ought to change my intro post. idk if the postie pseud is sustainable. kind of want to bring it back to 'daytura'
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they weren’t lying, that going outside, talking to people, going on a walk to get a little drink from the gas station really helps your mental health
#went to the writing thing!!! got a GOOD amount of work done did a Quick Sweep of my second act to edit more in depth later#and talked to some cool people about art and gender and disability and politics and stuff!!!!!!!#it's Nice being around people who aren't My People because i feel like i'm allowed to have opinions#ANYWAYS my bpd has been spiking because of [redacted] doing [redacted] and [redacted] and [redacted]#BUT i have evening plans of watching adventuring party and planning out more Long Term work <3#ALSO I BOUGHT MYSELF A NON-SAFE DRINK AND I LIKED IT#as in not one of my safe foods#i got a little strawberry yogurty drink thing and it was really nice!!!! AND it was only 90p!!!!!#and i walked home as the sun set and it was really nice even though i got lost because i was in a part of the city i'm not used to#BUT i managed to navigate all by myself (by following bus stops of the bus i got up to the place)#currently feeling very in my bejeweled era. feeling very i miss you but i miss sparkling!!!!!!!#i love discovering myself again after Trauma and Horrors. sadly this will probably all go away on saturday but we stay silly!!!1#i just feel more like a Person when i'm on my own or with people i'm not close to#ALSO I BOUGHT A BOOK TODAY#it was one of my favourite poets and i got to talk about him with the bookstore owners and it was so nice to have people Understand#AND I TALKED ABOUT WRITING PLAYS WITH A GUY WHO WAS ALSO WORKING ON HIS PLAY#we talked about being actor-writers and Bridging The Gap of the two mediums#he also recommended me some workshops i was going to sign up for anyway but it was nice of him :)#i LOVE being in queer and neurodivergent spaces!!!!!#i was very shy and socially anxious but i was able to approach people and have conversations the whole time!!!!#i did sit on my own to do my work but i preferred it that way :) i also needed so much table space for all my pages#ANYWAYS. rambling over. had a nice evening. this is my little journal entry :)
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