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agrebel18 · 1 year ago

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saw someone on here the other day say that we don’t need aromantic and asexual representation in media because that’s a “sanitized” identity like BITCH WHAT????? IF YOU CAN ONLY SEE ASPEC PEOPLE AS CHILDREN THAT IS A YOU PROBLEM.

#also. these people should know that sex isn’t the ONLY THING being queer is about. same for romance.#it IS something but it’s not for everyone nor does everyone have the same feelings on it #just. ugh #tw aphobia #aromantic #asexual #arospec #ace spec #aspec representation #aspec rep #aggie posts

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fizpup · 9 months ago

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valentine, you're a horse ❤️

#my little pony #mlp g3 #wish-I-may #wish-I-might #ok so. I'm gonna ramble for a sec #normally when I post on valentine's day I complain in the tags about being single. but I won't this year!#I've recently realized I'm definitely somewhere on the aromantic spectrum. and that I'm perfectly content without a partner #in the past I've described myself as 'emotionally unavailable' or having 'commitment issues' but neither of those things were ever true #I'm a very loving and loyal person!#I've always been extremely affectionate with friends and family but unable to have the same level of love for potential partners #unsure if I'm just demisexual/demiromantic or actually aroace but I'm definitely not the default settings type of gay lol #I'm a big fan of romance and sex in fiction! but irl? 😅😬 idk about that fam! idk!#hypothetically I would like to have a gf one day and maybe fall in love but now I understand why that may not happen #or atleast is gonna take a while. and that's fine :)#tldr; if your top song on spotify last year was Cupid by Fifty Fifty it's time to do some soul searching lol #happy valentine's day!! 💕

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lilmerh · 6 months ago

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Any other aroallos annoyed by sex being viewed as shallow, loveless, not fuelled by "pure" emotions - just lustful, for your own pleasure - when that description is much more true for my romance?

Out of all of the attractions I feel (platonic, familial, sexual, etc) my romantic feelings are the most shallow and fleeting. It bothers me when romance is described as an inherently superior, deeper, and more pure form of attraction. That does not reign true to me at all!!

I love familially, I love platonically, and I love sexually. I love deeply and intensely. It bothers me when all that is overlooked because I happen to not love romantically enough.

No form of attraction is inherently purer or more valuable than another.

(I'm not shallow for experiencing sexual attraction nor heartless for not experiencing romantic attraction, thank you.)

#aromantic #aro #aroallo #alloaro #amatonormativity #lilh chats #in case you're curious:#this post was inspired by a youtube comment reading 'i've never felt lust. just pure love'#but also by broader societal views about sex and romance #feel free to share thoughts in the comments if you'd like ☆#keep a nice tone !!#this post specifically describes me. not all aros are the same.#lotsa aros don't even identify with the concept of love like i do!

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carlarosenakilah · 8 months ago

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The more you think about it they're quite similar

#I was literally rewatching some paswg clips and realised they had the same attitude and such #minus the sex part #but PUH-LEESE they both are not even big in romance 😭#They both absolutely ROT when hearing about their siblings' love lives #They're also the carefree one in the sibling duo #They're both the ones mostly nagged on #cuphead #cddwtd #casino cups #paswg #panty anarchy #thoughts #its 1 am as im writing this #hhhhh

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eyelinerandmcr · 4 days ago

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something i love about gerard way is that you're always going to find out some new freaky thing about him no matter how long youve been in the fandom. like for example i just read an article where he said he enjoys a guy grabbing his ass but it depends on how they grab it

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save-the-data · 7 months ago

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The Untamed | S01E22

Chinese Drama - 2019, 50 episodes

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transgenderism-horror · 7 months ago

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I've seen someone say that aplatonic people should seek psychological help because they've faced difficulties making friends in the past and improved after undergoing treatment. Well, a few points:

1. Your experience is not universal

2. I can't form friendships because I get bored and apathetic very quickly. And I have no desire to make friends. Like, not a little bit. Aplatonicity isn't just "having difficulty in making friends" (although an aplatonic person may have this experience, aplatonic people are diverse)

3. There are people who don't feel platonic attraction but have friendships (just like feeling sexual attraction ≠ liking to have sex, feeling platonic attraction ≠ like making friends)

4. Not every neurodivergent person who cannot form friendships seeks or will be able to "get better"

5. Your experience is not universal

#“The human being is a social being”#yes because we live in a society and most of the things we learned were through socialization #and we constantly need other people for essential things #the clothes you are wearing now were made by someone else #and yes #social interaction is important #this does not mean that people are forced to form emotional bonds that they do not feel like and that everyone feels the need #to form a certain relationship #if you can accept that sex and romance isn't mandatory why can you not do the same with friendships?#aplatonic #platonormativity

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redysetdare · 1 year ago

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I'm tired of repulsed "positivity" posts always having "but romance negativity is bad" tacked on, as if t comes along with repulsion. Because Repulsion positivity needs a disclaimer because we are always seen as being negative. it's always "Sex and romance repulsion is valid AS LONG AS you're not Sex negative ^^" never just "Sex and romance repulsion is valid." end of sentence.

this ALWAYS happens on repulsed posts. We are always paired with sex negativity. And Im so sick and fucking tired of it. You never see this on sex and romance favorable posts. you never see people tack on how favorable people shouldn't push toxic sex positivity and shame people for not having sex.

I do not care if you think repulsed people are "prone to being sex negative" that thought process alone SHOWS that you don't understand us and don't fully support us. I hate you. I'm tired. It's obvious you see us as less willing of support all because you assume we are sex negative, a sentiment that gets tacked onto us for simply expressing our repulsion. I hate you. I'm tired.

I'm tired.

#text #aro #ace #aroace #aromantic #asexual #aspec #sex repulsed #romance repulsed #i only mention sex negativity becuz the idea of romance negativity is stupid in it's current description #and isn't the same as sex negativity #but i am just...so fucking tired #it's so obvious y'all only are abt us if we are quiet and out of the way #it's so obivous you dont actually care or understand us because you pair our posts along with a 'sex negativity bad' message #surprise you can make a conversation abt sex negativity in parts of the aspec community WITHOUT pairing it with repulsion thanks #pairing it constantly with repulsion shows you think of us as the only sex negative group in the aspec community #we shouldn't be constantly tolds 'dont let ur repulsion turn into negativity' like fuck you fuck you fuck you

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hikarielizabethbloom · 2 months ago

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Ok, I'm gonna talk briefly about the kiss of discord. 😂

I've read about the kiss before watching the ep, so from some of the reactions I thought it was going to be a passionate kiss at the end of ep with some 'ohhh' moments from both of them.

Imagine my surprise when the kiss happened, anticlimacticly (is this even a word?), in the beginning of ep, it lasted 2 secs, there was no passion, and was followed by Galadriel's wtaf face. And it meant so little that the characters went on with their life so easily that I forgot about it in the next scene.

Now, the controversial opinion 😂. I liked it. Yes, they could have done it without it but who cares. It was intimate, it was affectionate. It was clearly a kiss between two people who love each other deeply. I didn't feel anything romantic and the interviews with both Morfydd and Robert confirmed it. So...

Edit: the writers are really lucky and doomed because Morfyyd has so much chemistry with everyone on screen that she could've kissed anyone and I would be like 'ok, yeah. That kind of make sense' 🤷‍♀️

#I'm a basic person #I see two hot people and I wonder what would be like if they kiss #And the writers are the same #And I respect that #I would've done it too tbh #Also it felt like a big f*ck you to the purists #And it felt good #F*ck book canon #Gimme all the hot sex between Galadriel and Sauron #Let it become a romance between two petty ex lovers 😂#the rings of power #rings of power #rop #trop #lotr rings of power #galadriel #elrond

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theposhperyton · 7 months ago

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All evidence suggests yes

#starting a new power scaling system for the warlords of the sea but im rating them based on whether i think theyre an ally or homophobic #kuma is an ally because photos dont lie and hes clearly wearing an ally pin #also you cant spend that much time around somebody with the title “Queen of the Queers” and somehow be homophobic afterwards #unless youre sanji but hes still on his internalized homophobia growth arc. i believe in you buddy you can beat this #crocodile is trans and baroque works is the alphabet mafia in a literal form #with that said. he has the energy of “im not homophobic yall are just annoying”#doffy has the energy of a homophobic homosexual #like hed kiss a guy and then call him a f*g and throw him out a nearby window #jimbei joins the strawhats so ofc HES an ally #blackbeard sucks but i dont think hes homophobic #hes one of those people you meet and theyre just the worst all around and youre like “man this guy has gotta be homophobic”#somebody mentions their partner and you go “oh boy here it is” but he just has no reaction whatsoever #hes such a problem but at least hes not homophobic on top of everything else #Gecko Moria is such a virgin that i dont think he knows being gay exists any more than he knows being straight does #Typa MFer who thinks “sex” is just a synonym for gender #also hed see your top scars and get excited because he thinks youre a zombie #gecko moria probably thinks LGBT is an acronym for some branch of the navy that he doesnt know (or care) about #Because Boa lives on Sapphic island i would jump the gun and immediately say she's an ally but i feel that its more complicated than that #not unlike moria. she also doesnt actually have a real strong grasp on being straight vs being queer #but thats just because shes used to everybody being whipped for her equally #somebody tries to explain it to her and shes just like “??? but theyre all obsessed with me?”#if she ever encounters a gay man it will be a reality shifting event for her #id say itd be the same if she met a sex/romance indifferent aroace but like #monkey d luffy #its already happened #mihawk is probably both an ally and queer himself but he just minds his own business so much that we may never know #one piece #seven warlords #warlords of the sea #bartholomew kuma

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read-write-thrive · 2 months ago

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platonic and romantic are not some sort of binary that relationships have to be divided into. they’re not even two ends of a linear spectrum. they’re fully just abstract concepts made up of culturally-dependant social behaviour and expectations that are continually forced upon people to reinforce religious, legal, and broader societal/cultural norms, often and repeatedly to the detriment of non-normative groups including, but not limited to, the queer community. and I am sick and tired of those norms being replicated in fucking fandom discourse, of all places

#this is coming from an aroace person #who is not only v autistic which is undoubtedly a contributing factor to this #but I also literally study queerness for a living #idk I saw a post trying to put some superiority onto emphasising platonic relationships over romantic ones #and that’s great!#it definitely counteracts the alloromantic norm!#but god I wish we could move past the concepts entirely #I understand all abstract terms and what have you are literally there to communicate these things #but idk idk #as someone who has to navigate this bs every time I have a close relationship with a non-relative I’m so tired of it #like even in self defined qprs sometimes romance and sex happen!!!! that does not mean it isn’t a qpr/ isn’t platonic !!!!!#why is it if you’re best friends with your romantic partner you have to refer to them using the romantic terms of not alloromanticism #on the same vein expecting aromantic ppl to never want or enjoy any acts or behaviour called “romantic is such bs #like what is romance ? what actions are romantic that cannot also be platonic?#why differentiate relationships so strictly if not for religious/legal/etc regulations and norms #is this perspective called something #there’s no way I’m the only person to have this pov #like is this relationship anarchy ? idek if that’s a term but it’s what comes to mind #aromantism #aroace #aro pride #arospec #qpr #qpr concepts #relationship anarchy

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aro-bird · 1 month ago

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Here's me begging people again to learn the difference because I've been seeing more and more people confuse these terms when discussing some things in the ace community:

Sex-Favorable - A descriptor that refers to a person's personal feelings about engaging in the act of sex that specifically refers to them being fine and even enthusiastic in engaging in sex and other sexual acts. Often confused by some as Sex-Positivity.

Sex-Positive - A moral or political position that refers to a positive outlook on sex as something positive and something that should not be shamed for any consenting persons regardless of their own personal feelings towards sexual acts on themselves.

Sex-Indifferent - A descriptor that refers to a person's personal feelings about engaging in the act of sex that specifically refers to them being indifferent in engaging in sex and other sexual acts.

Sex-Neutral - A moral or political position that refers to an indifferent outlook on sex. They may not have strong feelings about it one way or another.

Sex-Averse - A descriptor that refers to a person's personal feelings about engaging in the act of sex that specifically refers to them being averse in engaging in sex and other sexual acts. Often confused by some as sex-repulsion.

Sex-Repulsed - A descriptor that refers to a person's personal feelings about engaging in the act of sex that specifically refers to them being repulsed or disgusted by thoughts or material related to sex. This has no bearing on their own political/moral position on sex. Often confused by some as Sex-Aversion or even Sex-Negativity.

Sex-Negative - A moral or political position that refers to a negative view on sex as something negative and something that should be forbidden and only be a means of procreation. Some people who are sex-negative may only view it as a way to procreate so people who engage in the activity without any plans of procreation (and especially members of the queer community) may be deemed as immoral or even evil.

If we're going to have proper discussions of these things, please please please can we use the proper terms. I need to stop feeling fight or flight whenever I see someone trying to vent about "some rude sex-positive aces" or see someone proclaim that they're "sex-negative" like I'm serious. I keep on having to double-take whenever I have to read posts and discussions because of this.

#mayaposts #ace #asexual #actually asexual #sex favorable #sex indifferent #sex averse #sex repulsed #sex positive #sex neutral #sex negative #honestly same thing goes for the romance variants like seriously please these words have previous meanings and if you don't want to be #misunderstood or accidentally look like you're being awful maybe it's best to learn and use proper terms

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ririsasy · 6 months ago

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Deva looking at Varadha is just him juggling these two state of mind

I love u so much my heart bleed for you no one can hurt you (Either his eyes were filled with tears because how much he care for him)

VS

Pretty boy let’s go to my room tonight so I can show you something wild. (Or eyes filled with lust because how much he wanted him)

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(Seriously I have watched decent amount of Prabhas movies and I never actually ship him this hard with anybody, just watching it once in a passing, good movie, etc etc and perhaps talk about it twice or thrice but....seriously him in Salaar though, the way he was looking at Varadha as Deva make me take a second look, and many more times afterward (first time like paying attention frame for frame for a Prabhas movie lmao) like there's something in the way he's looking at him, or the way Neel directed him as Deva that made me really buy his perfomance as someone who's so devastatingly in love.)

#devaratha raisaar #salaar #varadeva #prabhas #desiblr #like okay sir now you are on the list of actors who can really pull off a good bromance (cough) romance with same sex actors #congratulations I guess??

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kozh-lucium · 7 months ago

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I wonder what Bhaal is thinking if he saw his ex-kid frolicking like this.

Is he still salty that resist Durge disobey him?

Maybe not, since he can just make another bhaalspawn.

#baldur's gate 3 #bg3 #gale dekarios #gale of waterdeep #bg3 durge #my art #one joke I love about bhaal #is that ‘bhaal finds a way’#well okay maybe it’s more dark humor if we took it seriously #but at withers party jaheira warned us about our kids inheriting the condition #yet it’s weird if you’re romancing same sex partner #in this case my durge married gale #cough and he tops gale cough #so….#ooookay time for me to stop talking #i don’t even know why I wrote these

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flashhwing · 7 months ago

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this is not. anything new but my GOD does it grind my gears when people are like “why would you ever romance (bi/playersexual character) with (gender)? they’re so clearly gay” shut UP if they were gay they’d only be romanceable by the same gender. there’s no right way to play a video game, much less a video game ROMANCE

#look man. I am the sort of person that I will almost always choose the same sex romance for these characters anyway #because I prefer to lean into that for myself #that does not make it better or myself more correct than anyone else #this has been a post #whichever character you think this post is about yes it is #I have many such examples in mind

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save-the-data · 6 months ago

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