#SPIRITUALITY

[nephritebabie]

the cycle of life

[bitchy-craft]

PICK A CARD: what red flags you should look out for

Hello and welcome to this reading! Here I will tell you what red flags you should look out for. I hope you enjoy this reading!

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Pile 1:

You have to be careful for people who are passive-aggressive, or say rude things but try to cover it up with a fake compliment. Those people do not have good intentions toward you, not at all. Those kinds of people, who make you feel a bit bad even though ‘they don’t mean it that way’ are people you should not have in your life, people you should be avoiding. Such people do mean it the way you try to convince yourself that they don’t. They do talk down on you, they intend to make you feel bad about yourself and/or the things you do but do it in such a way you feel like it’s just your insecurities talking, and that in actuality they care about you and want you to do well. Such people are jealous of you, they don’t want you to succeed.

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Pile 2:

Be wary of people who give you lots of attention in a short amount of time, people who give you a bunch of gifts and make you feel so loved you don’t know what to do with yourself. You are prone to being love-bombed due to your wish for love, due to your need of receiving it. You are a tat bit naïve when it comes to these things, and it is important for you to keep in check whether something is normal, and be aware that the moment this attention and love suddenly dies down it is an attempt of getting you emotionally reliant on them. They want you to need them, to crave and beg for their attention. They want you to be completely engulfed by them, not knowing what to do if you don’t get their attention.

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Pile 3:

You have to look out for people who ask you for things; specifically money. In general, if people ask things of you whether they are notes from a class, carrying something for someone, helping them understand things, or borrowing some money, that is all fine and you are allowed to do those things in order to help the people you care about, but be careful how much you do it and in what amounts. You need to get things in return, at least a little bit, in order to have an equal relationship with one another. You shouldn’t get taken advantage of like that, and your kindness and need to help people can get you in such situations. If people ask you for money once it is fine, but make sure it isn’t a pattern that keeps repeating; especially if they don’t give you the money back on time or at all.

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[astrolook]

Is Your Dominant Planet Helping or Sabotaging You?

Ever feel like one planet in your chart is completely running your life? Like, no matter what, you always default to a certain way of thinking, reacting, or making the same questionable decisions? That’s your dominant planet at work. But is it making your life easier… or way harder than it needs to be? Let’s break it down.

How to Tell Which Planet is Dominant in Your Chart

Your dominant planet isn’t necessarily your Sun, Moon, or Rising—it’s the one with the most influence over your personality, choices, and bad habits. Some signs it’s the boss of your chart:

It’s in its home sign (like Venus in Libra or Mars in Aries) or exalted (like Moon in Taurus).

It has the most aspects (connections) to other planets.

It sits in a major house, like the 1st (identity), 10th (career), or 7th (relationships).

It rules your Sun, Moon, AND Rising (triple threat).

It’s the only planet of a certain element (Fire, Earth, Air, Water) in your chart.

If you have two or more dominant planets, congrats—you’re a complicated mess with conflicting instincts (but at least you’re interesting). You're like a cosmic onion.

Your Dominant Planet: The Good, The Bad, & The Ridiculous

☀️ Sun Dominant – The Main Character

Natural confidence—people notice you whether you want them to or not.

Charismatic and great at leading (or at least pretending to know what you’re doing).

Magnetic presence—people either admire you or feel deeply threatened.

Cannot handle being ignored for even five minutes.

Takes everything way too personally (the group chat going silent is not about you).

Life is one big performance, even when no one’s watching.

🌙 Moon Dominant – The Walking Emotional Rollercoaster

Emotionally intuitive—you just know when someone’s lying.

People trust you instantly (whether you wanted that responsibility or not).

Deeply caring—probably the “mom friend” of the group.

Gets attached too fast—if someone is nice to you once, they’re basically family.

Mood swings for absolutely no reason (and good luck explaining them).

Overthinks texts, social interactions, and why the barista looked at you weird.

🪐 Saturn Dominant – The Workaholic Who Can’t Relax

Disciplined and reliable—if you say you’ll do something, it gets done.

People respect you because you actually have your life together (or seem like you do).

Ages like fine wine—born a stressed-out child, but gets way cooler with time.

Takes responsibility for everything, even things that are not your problem.

Permanent resting serious face—people assume you’re judging them.

🔥 Mars Dominant – The Human Energy Drink

High-energy.

Assertive—you go after what you want and get it.

Quick reflexes—probably great at sports, fighting, or avoiding responsibilities.

Zero patience—slow walkers and buffering videos are your worst nightmare.

Occasional anger issues (“I’M NOT MAD, YOU’RE JUST WRONG”).

Thinks first, acts later… if at all.

🌿 Venus Dominant – The Flirt Who Gets Away with Everything

Naturally charming—people are drawn to you without knowing why.

Always looks effortlessly put together (even when you’re a mess inside).

Romantic AF—you love love.

Indecisive as hell—picking a restaurant is a 3-hour ordeal.

Can’t say no—people-pleasing is your toxic trait.

Might have a tiny shopping addiction (but hey, self-care).

☁️ Mercury Dominant – The Fast-Talker & Overthinker

Sharp, witty, and always has a comeback (even when you should probably keep quiet).

Absorbs information like a sponge—trivia night MVP.

Can talk to literally anyone about anything.

Mind never shuts up—sleep is a myth.

Either replies to texts instantly… or in three months, no in-between.

Talks way too fast—people need subtitles.

🌎 Jupiter Dominant – The Chaotic Optimist

Lucky AF—things somehow work out for you.

Big personality, big dreams, big everything.

Loves adventure—you’re always down for something wild.

Overestimates how much time, money, and luck you actually have.

Can’t resist saying yes to everything—major FOMO energy.

No impulse control—“Let’s book a trip right now.”

🔮 Neptune Dominant – The Daydreamer Who Might Be on Another Planet

Insanely creative—your imagination is unreal.

People find you mystical and intriguing (even when you’re just zoning out).

Deeply intuitive—you just know things before they happen.

Time management is a joke—was that 5 minutes or 5 hours? Who knows.

Has full-on fantasies about things that will never happen (but what if they did?).

Trusts people too easily (no, they will not "change" for you).

🖤 Pluto Dominant – The Intensity Overlord

Unshakable—life could crumble around you and you’d be fine.

Magnetic energy—people either worship or fear you.

Always transforming—rises from the ashes like a badass phoenix.

Suspicious of everyone (and usually right).

Constantly going through some kind of crisis.

Low-key enjoys dark, broody thoughts for fun.

So… Is Your Dominant Planet Helping or Sabotaging You?

Either way, you’re stuck with it. But the more you understand it, the more you can work with it instead of letting it run your life.

Want a full breakdown of your dominant planet & how it’s shaping your life? DM me with your birth details & email for a complete astrology reading! Look at my pinned post for pricing. 🔮✨

[infinitydivine]

PICK YOUR NAILS(PAC): What is Blossoming for You in Spring?

Since Spring Equinox is tomorrow, let's see your Spring energies 🩷

Reblog the Pile you picked and what resonated to claim these energies and messages. :)

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Choose your pile intuitively. Take what resonates and leave the other things. If you think this reading is not for you then choose another pile. If still it doesn't resonate then this might not be your reading. There are Three Piles. You can also pick multiple piles if you are drawn to them.

Pile 1

Hello to the collectives reading Pile 1 and Welcome to your reading.

Clear thinking and Justice are coming for you this spring my love. Pile1, I think you might have been going through a lot of indecisiveness and a kind of mental fog for a while now, especially through the Winter season ( I heard January). And this spring is bringing you the clarity you actually need to move forward in your life. It has been a while now- this is what I kept hearing while preparing for your pile and shuffling the cards. The issues that have been lingering in the shadows will come to the light but don't worry, it's for them to be resolved forever. This is the time for you to embrace the logic and wisdom my love which is deep-deep down hidden in you. If you have been doubting your manifestations powers, The Universe might send you a signal this Spring to let you know that you are on the right path in your life. And don't worry, you are absolutely protected. People might have tried to harm you intentionally or unintentionally but they don't know you are protected and more protection is coming for you. Or you could be standing out there protecting your dreams, your vision or just your beliefs. I heard something about finally having a spine to stand out against your bullies and protect yourself. This Spring is going to be very important for you my lovely Pile 1. This will be a very vital period for you to recover and transform into something that you have always wished for. It feels like the air is finally clearing up for you and your dreams. There will be a deep shift in your perspective which will allow you to heal in every aspect of your life.

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Pile 2

Hello to the collectives reading Pile 2 and welcome to your reading.

Spring is bringing a period of introspection and re-evaluation for the collectives reading the pile 2. This will be a time for you to pause, step back from the outer nosy world, and get into the "hermit" mode. But don't worry, this won't last for long. This will be extremely necessary for you to take proper care of yourself and not to follow the trends. My shoulder was aching while I was typing this pile, and I had to rehydrate myself a lot, so if you have been feeling the same, please take care of yourself. For a lot of you, after a busy or emotionally draining winter, this spring season is here to open many doors of soul searching for you. You might be even forced by your guides or the universe to look inward and examine your current situation. Please ask yourself this question: Are they fulfilling you in any manner? If you receive the answer NO, this season would be perfect for you to let them go; it is for you. There might be a sudden urge for you to improve something in your life—for example, to declutter your space, to change your looks, etc. In the spring, just as nature awakens and takes the most beautiful form, you will realize many hidden potentials inside you. You will be reminded that you have the ability to achieve great things and to step to your fullest potential. For you, my love- this will be a season of hope, and inspiration. Again, there could be a sudden energy shift for you, my pile 2. There will be rapid movements and progress for your delayed projects. You could have spent this winter in a period of stagnation, but this spring will make your dreams your reality.

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Pile 3

Hello to the collectives reading Pile 3 and welcome to your reading.

Oh my! Seems like Pile 3 is going all around places this Spring. You are starting something new and this is very exciting. I am already getting so much excitement from this pile's collective energies. Spring is bringing a fresh wave of adventures for you, my love. A new beginning for sure in whatever aspect you need it in. But this season will also ask you to have faith in the unknown too, like taking a leap of faith without doubting it. It's a time of spontaneity and your willingness to approach difficult situations with a different perspective. You will be called/or you are already being called to release the old patterns that aren't working for you anymore. It could be mainly related to your mental and emotional patterns that are holding you back from making bold decisions for you. On the other hand, Spring is bringing a bundle full of blessings and abundance with it. I heard something about "long-awaited", so whatever you are waiting for, is coming for you or at least will open the doors for it to come into your life. Spring season will encourage you to acknowledge and celebrate the positive aspects of your life and to recognize that you have the support of the Universe. Intuitively I feel that you have been on the urge to prepare something or you want to prepare something that will have a huge impact on your life. Spring will bring you the resources you need to fulfil your desires and dreams. But you need to be careful to take calculated risks. (My laptop shut down twice while I was typing your pile and I had to rewrite your whole reading twice 😭so take it as a confirmation maybe that you are restarting your life...like kind of?). In summary, you are welcoming miracles in your life.

PS- You are the only pile who got the messages similar to both Pile 1 and 2. So if you want, you can check those Piles too.

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[sagittariusmarz]

Pick a card- 𝑾𝒉𝒐'𝒔 𝑺𝒕𝒂𝒍𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒀𝒐𝒖 & 𝒘𝒉𝒚?

1. 2. 3.

𝑷𝒊𝒍𝒆 1

I see that a Scorpio or Pisces/cancer is stalking you, they’re stalking you because they keep reflecting and thinking about the memories they have with you. They’re stalking you because you bring them nostalgia and they miss you or spending time with you, they’re stalking you because they care a lot about you and they don’t have any animosity or defensive energy towards you. They’re stalking you because they’re controlling and they want to keep tabs on you and they wish they could control your actions. Signs- Pisces, Virgo, taurus. cancer in 5th house/aries in 2nd house. Initials- P, E, V

Pile 2

I see that a Pisces or cancer/scorpio is stalking you because they’re waiting to make a move on you, they’re waiting for you to be available or to come back to them. They’re stalking you because you’re being defensive towards them and they care about you or love you. They’re stalking you because they want to be friendly and be on good terms. Signs- libra,Gemini,scorpio, Virgo in 8th house/Aries in 8th house. Initials- B, I, Q, L

Pile 3

I see that a Sagittarius or Aries/leo is stalking you because they’re having a hard time getting over you, they’re stalking you because they’re attracted to you and they like your personality. They’re sad or upset that the connection ended and they see how difficult or different their life is without you. Signs- Virgo/aquarius, Aquarius in 7th house/taurus in 8th house. Initials- X, E, Z

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[somethingtocallmine]

[natalchartnurtures]

Pick-A-Cat GIF: Why Do People Stare At You?

Let's expose the people who stare at you *evil laughs * hehe

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Intention set for the reading: "I want this to be a feel good pick a card to uplift anybody that comes across it. I want their lower three chakras to get a after reading this pick a card. I want the messages in here to be clear honest and oh so fun to read.

Thank you so much spirit team for helping me do this and help my collective. I lysm <3

Let's begin!"

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Pile 1:

Ok. You a domestic queen/king/non-binary royal. Even if you don't identify as one.

Why you ask? Because sweetie, there's something DEEPly satisfying about watching you go about your mundane day. Doing your lil mundane chores and things. You give off a cozy Bilbo Baggins typa vibe it's almost as if you seem so content being in your lil bubble and living your life that it begs for the attention of people who struggle with inner peace. This is why a lot of people who stare at you, stare at you. They wanna know your secret formula to what they're calling inner peace, cuz you look like somebody who's sooooo CONTENT with their own life and their own shi- and their own company. Keep in mind that this doesn't necessarily mean your life is inherently good all the time like you could have everything going wrong in your life and still handle it like a damn Pro and come out on the other side feeling better than before. You alchemize. Consciously or not, you do. And you do it naturally. Let me tell you something, this alchemical-bouncing-back-from-anything mentality IS your source of infinite inner peace. People who stare at you actually pick up on this nature of yours on a very subconscious level without even realizing and boy.. do they desperately wanna know your "secret" which is basically your alchemy. Lmao. So good luck to anybody who tries to understand you, they're gonna have a tough time tryna understand alchemy as a muggle

A lil rant: NO shade to anybody who's not on the spiritual journey but hey I gotta call it out EXACTLY how it is. Your wisdom was hard 👏🏾 earned 👏🏾 so it's gonna take MORE than just overnight to understand you and your alchemical nature. Like am I wrong?

End Of Rant

I think you get it by now. Your vibe is why people stare at you. It's like you ✨️bewitch✨️ people with your ability to "never get stressed" (at least on face value) no matter what life seems to throw at you. This tells me that most people who stare at you are people who see you in public spaces fairly regularly (like a class or a park near where you live etc) and they don't know you very well?

You have a lotta strangers taking respite in your beauty. Staring at you could be like an escape almost.. like taking a sip from that well of infinite inner peace .. gosh you have a very beautiful aura pile 1, hehe and I love and adore that.

It seems to me like you're angelic.. a white aura or light blue one almost.. you exude very high vibrational energy which makes sense cuz a lot of high vibe people get stares for simply existing! Cuz they move differently through life.

Pile 1, you take the proverbial road less taken- the path of spiritual alchemy and face your darkness and this allows you to MOVE DIFFERENTLY and respond different to life than most people. This. THIS is why people stare at you. My sweet, <insert your name> 😊

Any physical/personality traits that people admire:

👉🏾 You may look very cute in your overall appearance which makes you VERY endearing to look at haha. You're cute like a hobbit is. Maybe your shorter than average? Love my fellow Short Queens Tehe ✨️

👉🏾 Even tho you seem very cute, you have eyes of a SAGE of like fucking YODA or something cuz goddamn they deep af. People are MESMERIZED by this duality they sense in you. Love to see it.

👉🏾 You have an air of authenticity to you. You care if you really care, don't if you really don't. No BS typa first impressions when people look at you.

👉🏾 You might strong looking g features that's very beautiful. Like strong looking legs, or strong looking hands, or strong facial features too? Your beauty is kinda Tate McRae's if I'm being honest.. that's what I'm picking up on.. it feels so lovely to sit in ><

And with that were done with your reading for today!

Thank you so very much for reading!

I love you soooo much 🫶🏾🫂

Have yourself a nice rest of your day, now and see yaaaaa <3

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Pile 2:

Whoa when I was starting your reading I accidently asked spirit "What makes my pile number 2s attractive?" instead of "What makes people stare at my pile 2s?"

So you have your answer right there.

People stare cuz you is attractive ok? 💅🏾 I'm getting a strong vibe that you already know this but kinda don't care? Cuz like there's more to you than meets the eye (kinda like in the case of Marilyn Monroe) and you seem to know this too so you're like "yea ik I'm cute, whatever" haha I love itttt sooo much. You a lil miss diva ✨️

Have you ever heard of Brown Magic by Twinjabi? It's BLASTING in my ears as I'm channeling for you right NOW lol this is, again, pointing to me how people find you really attractive.

~Oh and keep in mind, you don't have to be a brown girl to relate to the song :p ~

It's ridiculous how many pages you got all at once. This is telling me that you have this child-like vibe to you. You seem carefree and ~oh so~ positive in the way you look at things, at life. Your energy seems very light just like a child. You embody your inner child really well and this CATCHES people's attention like it's nobody's bussiness. You could really do a lot of work around healing your inner child and your connection to her/him which is helping you sustain your natural curiosity, wonder for life and that pure essence.. Alot of people who stare at you do so cuz they've most probably lost touch with their own inner children. They look to you as a source of light that they struggle to connect with themselves.

And you know what that means-

You trigger people ALOT.

You get stares from some people who are jealous of you and want what you have (your connection to your inner child and GodSource) but WITHOUT putting in the work necessary like excuse me?! Back off. My dear sweet <insert your name> doesn't need your stank ass energy rn.

This. This right here is why you also have a very strong field of divine protection around you. And because you're so protected, you have this untouchable reputation which is ironically why people like to stare at you. They feel like staring at you is the only way they can be close to you. Gosh.

You are naturally a very open and welcoming person but spirit makes sure your safe WHILE being so open and trusting of life and people which is why very few (best of the pack) people are allowed into your "circle" so to speak. Love that for you 😌✨️

You seem to have a very strong root chakra, pile 2. People stare at you cuz you give off "rich girl/guy vibe" (don't matter if you are actually financially comfortable or not) it's just. your. VIBE. It's very abundant because of that open and functioning root chakra! So whatever work you've been doing just know that's it's PAYING OFF really nicely heheheheh (good job pile 2! Root chakra work ain't easy)

Any physical/personality traits that people admire:

👉🏾 Your. HAIR.

👉🏾 If you wear red you may feel like people can't take thier eyes off you BECAUSE THEY ACTUALLY CAN NOT. You rock red like nobody's bussiness tehe ❤️

👉🏾 Not just red, any kind of dark feminine aesthetic like black cat makeup, edgy/alternate aesthetics or darker clothes etc brings out your beauty and people who stare at you can't get enough of that lmao

👉🏾 You have a earthy vibe which makes you feel very pleasing to look at (in a luxurious way)

👉🏾 People might find it hard to recognize your ethnicity or your accent cuz you give ethnically ambiguous in the best, most attractive of ways ✨️

And with that were done with your reading for today!

Thank you so very much for reading!

I love you soooo much 🫶🏾🫂

Have yourself a nice rest of your day, now and see yaaaaa <3

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Pile 3:

You have the 9 of pentaches and the empress out as your first two cards. Need I say more?

You are STUNNING to look at. You wear amazing clothes. You're in your divine feminine energy, hell, you COMMAND energy like an EMPRESS does.

The power you hold is exactly why people stare at you.

They can't help but stare at you. Bro, your energy BECKONS for attention even if you don't want it.

I'm getting a feeling that you like to stay low key and just chill like because I'm getting a very Miss Independent vibe from you which is well deserved because you know how to get ish DONE 💅🏾 you're responsible like that. But it's this I'm-in-my-bubble-don't-BOTHER-me typa energy is why people I heard- are obsessed with you. People stare out of obsession.

They wanna observe every move you make cuz it's just that mesmerizing. Some people who stare at you may have have crushes on you or secretly admire you (platonic/romantic)

There's a deep respect that the people who stare at you, have for you. It's like they look to you for some kinda inspiration, depending on who is staring.

I'm also getting that you may move like deer, graceful. You may love to vibe out to your own energy.

You also know who to let in and who to keep away. You can SMELL bullshit from a mile away and keep that the fuck out.

This is some bad bitch energy, pile 3! I'm so pumped rn sitting in your energy!

Wow ok I'm getting a very specific message now. People stare at you so they can learn more about you? They wanna know what makes you tick (maybe there's somebody in your surrounding who wants to shoot theur shot with you?) Lol that's kinda cute.

But yea you have this free sprinted, wild feminine energy. You'll do what you want, when you want. You're the definition of never let them know your next move and BOY do I love that for you <3

You are a very interesting person. Cuz you're you. You're not afraid of expressing exactly how you feel and this makes you are really enjoyable to be around and so people stare at you cuz they enjoy how you come across- unabashed in your self expression and unapologetic in your authenticity!

Ahhhhhhh this some Queen Shi-

I'm so honoured to be reading for you rn!

You must also have your boundary game strong cuz I'm getting that you can easily cut people off if they don't come correct and people enjoy how authentic you are.

You're giving me MAD Tyla energy rn man. You could maybe even look her? Idk but whatever you look like trust me. People love to stare.

Hehe 🤭

People enjoy watching you take action. Lemme explain. If you're in school people love to stare at you while you're working on a project or something or just in class, taking notes n stuff. You have a way about you that's so addicting, man, people who's stare at you don't wanna stop 👀💀 like hello stop burning holes on my body from the intense staring? Excuse me like huh?

If you're at work, some of your colleges could stare at you out of admiration or simply cuz they have a crush on you (or your work ethic?) Or how you dress 🙃

Whatever it is you tend to pour your authenticity into everything you do. Small, big. Doesn't mattter. You do life in YOUR own (divine) way and that's awesome!

You the shit pile 3, I hope you know that.

Any physical/personality traits that people admire:

👉🏾 Your clothes!

👉🏾 You! Yes you read that right, you in your entirety, in your full essence is what people admire. It's your physical beauty. It's your intelligence. It's your taste in music and movies. Your hobbies. Your authenticity. Everything about you, girlie, is fantastic.

👉🏾 Your independence

👉🏾 Your courage to choose joy over fear

👉🏾 Your wisdom

👉🏾 Your ability to enjoy being alone

👉🏾 Your sense of dedication and devotion (to whatever you choose to give it to)

And with that were done with your reading for today!

Thank you so very much for reading!

I love you soooo much 🫶🏾🫂

Have yourself a nice rest of your day, now and see yaaaaa <3

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[blueskiestarot]

Mystery Messages

Hey, guys! Don't judge me! Yes, I'm well aware that this reading is St. Patrick's Day themed and it's no longer St. Patrick's Day. I ended up getting a stomach flu for the past couple of days and couldn't post it because I was too busy being sick. So, you're getting a couple of days late! I also have another one that I'll post shortly after this one that is St. Patrick's Day themed as well.

[ironrea]

s/o motivation (part III)

watching a new show/movie one of you starred in while together and showering the other with praise

having a pet together OR having one of those online pets because you're both working away

learning what they love and more about them in general

them putting a blanket on you and kissing your forehead when they get home and find you sleeping on the couch

trying to put a face mask on them but it's not working because they keep laughing

being loved by them

them freaking out whenever you show any sign of slightly being sick

laughing so hard together that you both literally lose your breath and they do the little hiccup laugh that happens when you're trying to breathe

them wanting to kiss you in front of the cameras

them visibly getting jealous when you're talking to someone, but when asked about it they act as if they don't care (they do)

being so proud of them because they just won an award and they keep shyly smiling and blushing

them taking you to their home country and being giddy and smiley showing you everything special to them

kissing them and finally realizing you've found your person

they catch you staring at them but instead of teasing they just smile and pull you closer

them laying their head on your shoulder, pretending to fall asleep because the interview is so boring

accidentally giving them a hickey before a red carpet

eating with a group of friends and they put their hand on your thigh and ask how you are

them gently tracing your tattoos and jokingly saying you should get them tattooed

them practically begging you to watch their favorite movie

them cranking up their car, their playlist connects, and a song you love, that they claimed to hate, comes on and when you look at them, they shrug their shoulders softly and say "it reminds me of you"

taking care of them (helping them with their hair, doing their skincare) and they're just staring at you in awe

them asking you for advice before anyone else (vice versa)

them giving you "just because" gifts all the time

them proving to you that you ARE loveable

giving you their shoes and holding your heels when your feet hurt

them whispering "that's my -- (girlfriend, husband, etc) to the camera when a clip of you is being shown

trying to get up from bed even just for a few seconds but they wrap their arms around you and pull up back, saying "please don't go"

not only are they there for you but you're there for them, when they're sad and feel as if the weight of the world is falling then you get to hold them and tell them you'll always be there for them

[tarotlexa]

PICK A PILE READING- your lucky potion!

welcome back my loves, a very kind tarot reader has shown me how to edit my posts with fun colors (#glowup), thank you so much @tarotbyjam24 <3 (she was so patient with me you guys have no literal idea)

the idea behind this reading is explaining to you how to attract more luck in your life and some talismans/charms you could use.

as always my loves, this is a collective reading so take what resonates and leave what does not. much love and have a great day/night!

pile 1: don't give in to petty fights, you hold onto pain too much and too long and you expect things to go wrong for you. shed your old identity, don't carry the old version of you, the one who is used to disappointments and betrayals. release the struggle mentality and once again, protect your energy from conflict since it doesn't serve you well.

your lucky talismans: phoenix, butterflies, a burning ritual, a sword accessory, 999, 1010, oranges, chamomile, pink pen, red lipstick, lemony candy.

pile 2: you feel like you work so hard and yet luck never comes quickly for you and that's exactly where you're wrong. similar to pile 1, you have to work on your self concept and know that no matter what happened in the past, it doesn't have to happen again. you are the creator, you are the divine. trust the process, keep watering your garden instead of looking at other people's gardens. shed your old skin.

your lucky talismans: a globe, compass, world map, a wheel, jade, green aventurine, pocket watch, hourglass charm, septum piercing, a feather, a yoga mat.

pile 3: you have reworked your self concept and you are so tapped into abundant energy and luck and yet you sometimes play small or don't fully claim what's meant for you. step into your full power, you are ready for it, expand beyond your comfort zone. THINK BIG. you're that girl.

your lucky talismans: gold jewelry, coins, sun pendant, shell necklace, citrine, pyrite, a laurel leaf, fur, expensive clothes, almonds, warm lights, snails, lilac.

as always, thank you for reading. reblogs/comments/feedback are always greatly appreciated, i love hearing back from you guys! much love <3

[funeral]

Suzanne Segal, Collision with the Infinite

[astrolook]

🔥 Synastry Myths That Need to Die (Or at Least Be Roasted) 🔥

Because people act like one Venus square Mars = toxic disaster, while a chart full of trines = fairy-tale romance (hint: neither is true). Let’s break down some biggest synastry myths and how to actually interpret them. 👀✨

🚫 MYTH #1: Squares and Oppositions in Synastry = Relationship Problems? Nah, That’s Just Spicy Drama. 🔥😈

🔥Reality: No, they keep it interesting. A little conflict is necessary to keep things engaging, otherwise, y’all will be bored to death in six months.

🔹 Sun square Moon – Keeps things dynamic—you challenge each other emotionally and grow in the process. Passionate debates turn into deep emotional bonding. It could feel like you live in two different emotional worlds sometimes. 🔹 Venus square Mars – Enemies to lovers. Like a slow-burn romance novel where neither of you admits your feelings until you’re in too deep. Fights can get heated and so as passion. 🔹 Mercury opposite Mercury – Mentally stimulates each other a lot. Never boring.

💡 A mix of soft and hard aspects is 🔑. Too much "ease" = stagnation. A little friction? Sexy and exciting.

🗣️Some of y’all are out here begging for a “perfect” relationship, but are you sure you want one that feels like watching paint dry?

🚫 MYTH #2: Too Many Conjunctions = Soulmate Energy! Nah, You're dating yourself!

🔥Reality: Or suffocating as hell. Y’all might as well be the same person, which sounds cute until it’s not.

🔹 Sun conjunct Sun – "Omg, we’re so alike!" Yeah, for now. But do you really want a partner that mirrors you 24/7? 🔹 Moon conjunct Moon – Emotional twins, but can become too comfortable. Who’s pushing who to grow? 🔹 Venus conjunct Venus – Great for shared aesthetic and love language, but too similar = potential complacency.

💡Some conjunctions? Great. But throw in a few oppositions (for balance) and squares (for energy), or you might end up dating yourself.

🗣️You ever had a bestie you LOVED but couldn’t be around too long because y’all were literally the same person? That’s what too many conjunctions feel like in a relationship.

🚫 MYTH #3: "Saturn in Synastry = Restrictive. No, It's Just A Commitment Test!

🔥Reality: Without Saturn, relationships fall apart. The real problem isn’t Saturn—it’s immaturity.

🔹 Saturn conjunct Moon – Can feel like parent/child dynamics, but if handled well? Deep emotional security. This is forever. 🔹 Saturn opposite Venus – Challenges in expressing affection, but also high commitment potential when worked through. 🔹 Saturn trine Mars – Passion with stability—this is the "we still find each other sexy at 80" type of aspect. Slow and steady passion.

💡 If you have Saturn in synastry, embrace the responsibility but set boundaries so it doesn’t feel suffocating.

🗣️Saturn isn’t the fun drunk at the party, it’s the sober friend keeping you from texting your ex. You need that sometimes.

🚫 MYTH #4: Venus-Mars = Everlasting Passion? More Like a Telenovela.

🔥Reality: Yes, it’s hot at first—but will you even like each other in five years?

🔹 Venus conjunct Mars – 🔥 Chemistry? Through the roof. Emotional compatibility? That depends. 🔹 Venus opposite Mars – Can flip between passionate and exhausting, depending on how you handle conflict. 🔹 Venus square Mars – The sexual tension is wild, sparks fly in all directions. It's an exciting aspect.

💡If you’ve got Venus-Mars magic, add some Moon, Mercury, or Saturn connections so it’s not just lust with an expiration date.

🗣️Chemistry can only carry a relationship so far—do y’all actually like each other outside the bedroom?

🚫 MYTH #5: Moon Sign Compatibility = Everything? Okay, But Can You Communicate?

🔥Reality: Yes, emotional compatibility is important. But have you tried... actually communicating?

🔹 Moon trine Mercury – Emotional understanding and easy conversations (a great underrated aspect). 🔹 Moon opposite Mars – One is moody, the other is impatient. Passionate emotions and spicy debates. 🔹 Moon conjunct Saturn – Deep emotional security, but can also feel heavy or restrictive.

💡Don’t just look at Moons—how do your Mercury, Venus, and Saturn interact? Emotional security is great, but if y’all can’t communicate, it’s pointless.

🗣️Just because you both like to cry during sad movies doesn’t mean you’re soulmates.

🚫 MYTH #6: Twin Flames Can Be Seen in Synastry!

🔥Reality: No. Astrology does not confirm Twin Flames. Stop it.

🔹 North Node conjunct personal planets – Yes, this feels fated, but not every karmic relationship is "meant to be." 🔹 Pluto aspects (especially Venus or Moon) – Yes, this is intense and life-changing—but it can also be obsessive and toxic. 🔹 Vertex aspects – Yes, these can feel destined, but that doesn’t mean it’s permanent.

💡If a relationship is healthy, growing, and balanced, that’s what matters more than any hyped-up label.

🗣️Just because someone feels "fated" doesn’t mean they’re your forever person. Sometimes, the lesson is letting go.

💖 Want to know what the stars say about your love life? 💖

Whether it’s soulmate potential, karmic lessons, or long-term compatibility, I dive deep into your unique synastry & composite charts and let's see what the cosmos has in store for you! 🌙💫💖

✨ DM me for a personalized love, marriage, or relationship compatibility reading! ✨ 💌 Check out my pinned post for pricing & details! 💌

[al1gned-spirit]

what is your shadow side? (pac)

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take a deep breath, clear your mind, and look at the images below. which one draws you in the most? trust your intuition. the number below your chosen image is your pile.

if more than one catches your eye, there may be additional insight meant for you. feel free to read both.

this is a reading of the current energy. take what resonates, leave what does not. if you seek something more personal, my bookings are open.

pile one

your shadow is restless, hungry, unsatisfied. you are always chasing, always moving toward something that feels just out of reach—the next accomplishment, the next relationship, the next version of yourself that you believe will finally make you feel whole. but nothing is ever enough. no matter how much you achieve, no matter how many people admire you, no matter how many times you reinvent yourself, there is a lingering emptiness, a sense that something is missing. you fear stagnation, not because you are meant to constantly change, but because stillness forces you to face yourself. when you are alone, with no distractions, no new pursuit to throw yourself into, the silence becomes unbearable. your shadow self whispers to you in those moments, reminding you that no matter where you go, no matter what you do, you cannot outrun what lives inside you. you keep people at a distance, even those you love. you may offer them pieces of yourself, but never enough for them to truly know you. you prefer to control the narrative—to let people see what you want them to see, to shape their perception of you in a way that keeps you untouchable. you convince yourself that you do not need others, that you are self-sufficient, that love is a distraction rather than a necessity, but deep down, you crave the very thing you fear—real, unfiltered, undeniable connection. yet to allow yourself to be truly known is to risk being hurt, and so you pull away before anyone can get too close, before they can see the parts of you that feel too raw, too uncertain, too vulnerable. you have an attachment to leaving, to walking away before things can fall apart on their own. you may detach emotionally before you even realize it, convincing yourself that you are fine, that you never needed them in the first place. but you are not as indifferent as you pretend to be. your heart aches for something lasting, but your mind does not trust it. love, to you, is fleeting—something beautiful but ultimately temporary, something that will always slip through your fingers if you hold on too tightly. so you never hold on too tightly. you keep a safe distance, you protect yourself, you chase the next thing that will make you feel whole, even though deep down, you know that nothing external will ever truly fill the void. your shadow is calling you to stop running, to stop filling the emptiness with temporary distractions, to stop believing that happiness will come once you reach the next milestone. fulfillment will not be found in the future, in someone else, or in a newer, shinier version of yourself. it is already here, waiting for you, if only you are willing to face what lies beneath the chase. you must learn that stillness is not your enemy. sitting with yourself, embracing the discomfort, allowing yourself to be seen without filters or pretense—this is where true fulfillment begins. not in the chase, not in the reinvention, but in the acceptance of who you are when there is nothing left to run from.

pile two

your shadow is a mirror, a shapeshifter, a master of illusion. you know how to become what people need, how to slip into roles effortlessly, how to navigate social spaces with ease. you are charming, magnetic, adaptable. people are drawn to you, fascinated by you, captivated by the way you make them feel understood, important, seen. but beneath it all, do you know who you actually are? you have spent a lifetime perfecting the art of being wanted, learning how to read people, how to shape yourself into exactly what they need so that they stay. you are careful with your words, selective with what you reveal, always aware of how you are being perceived. your shadow thrives in this control, in knowing that you hold the power in your relationships, that you can dictate how much of yourself you give and how much you withhold. but this mastery of perception comes at a cost—you feel misunderstood, unseen, unknown, but how can anyone truly know you when you have never allowed them to? you mirror others so well that you have blurred the line between who you are and who you become for them. you may change depending on who you are with, not out of deceit, but out of habit, survival, a deep-rooted need to be accepted. when you are alone, without an audience, without someone to reflect back at, you may feel restless, uncertain, like you are searching for something solid within yourself that you cannot quite grasp. you fear abandonment, rejection, the idea that if you showed your raw, unfiltered self, people might decide that they do not want you after all. so instead, you control the outcome—you pull away first, distance yourself before they can leave, create versions of yourself that are easier to love. and when love is given to you, you doubt it—is it real, or do they only love what you have carefully curated for them to see? do they love you, or do they love the version of you that exists in their mind? and if they knew the parts of you that remain unspoken, the ones you hide even from yourself, would they still love you then? your shadow manifests in your difficulty with commitment, with being emotionally available, with trusting that you are enough as you are. you may jump from one situation to the next, always seeking something that feels more real, more intense, more certain, but in the end, you always find yourself unsatisfied, unsure, still searching. even in relationships, even in friendships, there may be a quiet voice in the back of your mind wondering if you are truly present or if you are just performing presence. your shadow self is asking you to sit with yourself, without distraction, without performance. to strip away the expectations, the roles, the careful adjustments you make to fit seamlessly into the lives of others. to allow yourself to be fully seen, even if it terrifies you. to trust that you are worthy of love, even when you are not trying to earn it. to believe that you do not have to become what others want in order to be wanted. you are already whole—you just have to allow yourself to exist without trying to prove it.

pile three

your shadow is quiet, calculating, and deeply aware. you observe everything, absorb everything, always watching, always knowing. you do not need to manipulate outright—you can shift the energy of a situation just by existing in it. you do not raise your voice, you do not demand attention, but people feel your presence, whether they understand it or not. there is an intensity in your stillness, something in the way you watch, the way you withhold, the way you can read a room in an instant and know exactly what is happening beneath the surface. your shadow is sharp, and when provoked, it does not forget. you do not seek revenge, but you do not forgive easily either. you remember every slight, every betrayal, every instance where you were wronged, even if you say nothing. your silence speaks louder than words, and sometimes, that is enough to unsettle those around you. there is a tendency within you to hold onto pain, to lock it away like a secret, burying it so deeply within yourself that even you have trouble reaching it. your emotions do not explode outward—they simmer, deepen, turn to stone. rather than confrontation, you choose withdrawal, disappearance, quiet detachment. you would rather someone wonder what they did wrong than ever give them the satisfaction of knowing. but your silence is not just a weapon—it is also a shield, a wall that keeps others out. your shadow protects you, but in its effort to shield you, it isolates you as well. you are self-contained, self-sufficient, relying on no one, expecting nothing, keeping people at a distance not because you do not want them close, but because you do not trust them to stay. you have learned that the safest way to avoid pain is to remain in control, to never let anyone hold power over you. vulnerability feels like a weakness, a liability, an open wound waiting to be struck. you do not trust easily, and when you do, it is only after someone has proven themselves in ways most people do not have the patience for. but even then, there is a part of you that remains guarded, a door that never fully opens. your shadow tells you to be careful, to be selective, to keep your power by keeping your distance. but in doing so, you are also blocking yourself from love, from connection, from the softness you secretly crave. not everything is a game of control, not everyone is waiting to betray you. your shadow self asks: when will you allow yourself to let go? when will you realize that true power is not in holding back, but in knowing when to surrender?

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