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curseofhyperfixation · 2 years ago

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Someone shake them

anonymous ask: Space kid spacing out

#Bro looks like they're having vietman war flashbacks #Looks like dawning realization about how fucked up their siblings are #and unhealthy everything was #SOMEONE TAKE THEM TO A THERAPIST

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pansyfemme · 5 months ago

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just a heads up that enmeshment with your therapist is a sign that you need a different therapist. you go to these people to offload and heal, but if you're emotionally enmeshed and that's keeping you from bringing topics forward, that is no longer a healthy relationship nor a therapist that should be treating you.

just so you're aware. your therapist should not be an uncle figure you're afraid to talk about embarrassing stuff with, he's an impartial audience to help you heal. that emotional connection is now HINDERING you from healing.

honestly! me making one personal post! does not tell you the full story! while i defintly have an emotional connection with him- i have had other therapists in my life in and out the entire time. i seek help from other sources frequently! i said it was like talking to an uncle simply because of the fact he’s known me since i was a child, which makes talking about adult topics at times a little embarrasing because he knew me when i was 11!! he is not like an uncle to me in an other respect, i have a seperation. and i have openly discussed this with him and why im uncomfortable at times!! but we talk it out!! because its my therapist and me making one post doesnt mean you know everything!! geez!! also ive been embarrassed to talk about sex with every other therapist ive had!! not your call to make!!

#in the time ive been seeing him ive had easily a dozen other social workers clinicians case workers and speciality therapists. ive been to #groups and classes and everything.#having a stable person in my life who i can trust to help me is important to me because ive been to so many doctors and a lot of them i dont #trust at all. there are some times i struggle with him but i feel safe to talk to him #it just takes me a minute sometimes because i remember playing board games in our sessions and its weird to be an adult now #he’s probably retiring soon so i plan to stay until he does. and then i will move on #impartiality sure. but i need to trust someone to some level. the social worker i saw the longest it took me several years with to discuss #my abuser with because its!! hard to talk about that stuff with someone you dont know

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ass-fuehrerin · 12 days ago

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[Their entire interaction gives off major ‘toxic exes’ vibes]

#Someone take them to a couples therapist plz #What in the ‘Netflix and confusion’ is this situationship?#seong gi hun #hwang in ho #001 x 456 #squid game 2 #squid game #meme

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delicatebeauties · 1 month ago

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Speaking of intense emotions.. We see kant bison cracking internally.. And fadel cool cold volcano rage at bison for betraying him despite his good intentions - have fun brother live a little be human let's be human..

I'm looking to see how fadel and style emotionally evolve.. And what's behind the devil may care aspects of style.. Style fear flashing through him when he makes the call to kant.. And fadel dommed by the narrative.. Leashed guard dog vibe, will he chafe under the collar or enjoy it fully?

The hospital scene with style overriding fadel desire for independence because he wanted to play nurse.. gave me a slight call back of Florence nightingale vibe.. When does Style listens to Fadels limits, he has made his walls so porous Style invades them fully for "his own good"

#style seems open to love and as Fadel says he became tender bc of him #Style seems so balanced & in control I'm craving to see him exposed and vulnerable beyond love & sex #and for fadel to find himself beyond duty and loyalty... can he break the attachment of his name sake..#the heart killers #fadelstyle #Khun lily influence in him seems so high as well. Interestingly a very different dynamic than keen lily #Someone better versed in psychology should do style & khun lily “family” dynamics #Kink & sex are just the rolling pin into that bee hive #Thc is a romantic comedy but I would be interested in seeing them struggle with domesticity & daily boring life...#Style need for control via idealiation & risk taking vs fadel prudence and organisation..#Even nude and bound style is seemingly invulnerable and his control doesn't crack.. Let me die alongside my friend then I dare you..#he is the beauty charming the beast..#Style can safe word at any moment but when can fadel. Is even aware he can? Does He has any experience listening to himself vs giving?#abusive familial relationship doesn't prime you for healthy ones.. 🙏 A relationship therapist comedy scene? w/ them hiding the killer thing #Also ~ fadel wanting to be cherished by style taking on a more care taking role - breaking with his permanent control

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goldenpinof · 1 year ago

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genuine question, what is the issue with betterhelp?

bad therapists who do more harm than good (literally), bad treatment of therapists by the company regarding payment, and betterhelp is a zionist company.

the most recent video (i advise watching it, it's not very long but it recaps a lot of old problems people forgot about and mentions new ones):

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#Dan as someone who knows how important therapy is should never let this company get into their sponsors list #even if 1 betterhelp therapist can say that someone should choose either their family or being gay. then fuck betterhelp #if they can't control who they work with. stop promoting them until they do. and until they stop taking down criticism #and the pro-israel staff is a completely different issue #answered #betterhelp #sponsors

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sublux · 1 month ago

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i'm so mad i don't have private insurance through an employer so i could get any kind of therapy or medication or anything. tags are a rambling rant

#i'm on medicaid bc i 1. got laid off 2. haven't found work 3. am disabled and verrrry few therapists accept insurance around me at all #let alone medicaid. i've only found one therapy group that takes it but the therapists there aren't very well equipped #for anything that doesn't respond well to the very basic frankly entry-level cbt coping mechanisms #and i have it IN my report from the psychologist who diagnosed me with autism and adhd that i should avoid typical anxiety therapies #because they're likely to only increase my anxiety. so now what do i do when that's the only therapy available to me and i know i need help #what really gets me is that i know in oregon a ton of great therapists who won't push cbt on me take medicaid #and i also have my family there. and my dad owns his own business and employs family. and i need a job so bad #because i need to feel like i'm contributing to the world and that i have value and that the world wants me #it's sooooooo demotivating getting a ton of job interviews but never getting hired for anything on a base level for like confidence #but it also really sucks because i Know i ramble during interviews because i don't trust i can answer the question right #but i know i could do the job so well if someone would just let me. like i feel like i need to beg people to give me a chance #because i'm literally like. that top performing promotable improves everything employee. every time. no matter where i am #and i feel like no one believes me. that no one is ever going to want me to work for them. because i'm the type of person who should be #kept away from the world. idk it feels like humanity's rejected me. and i just feel so sorry.#i just want a psychiatrist who takes my insurance. and a therapist who takes my insurance. and work to do to feel valuable #but there are so many barriers. and i'm so tired. i seriously need so much more support than i'm going to get #and approaching all of this with the realization that i'm autistic now just makes it like. oh. i NEED support. and i'm not going to get it #moving back to oregon's off the table and i don't think my family would be as willing to help as i hope they'd be #so i'm stuck here. what do i even do. i feel like i have nowhere to turn #it's like life's decided it's done with me. i feel so worthless i'm so scared

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xxplastic-cubexx · 3 months ago

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Honestly your tags are so fun to read every time, i'm almost more excited for them than the actual post (but not entirely because your art is SO GOOD!!!! i adore it). If you don't mind me asking, what are you studying?

i am studying psychology because i refuse to see a therapist so ill figure out whats wrong with me myself !!!!!!!

#snap chats #WITH. a minor in human resources ☝️ because im evil or something #and whatever character/s i decide to fixate on for the next three years i will also psychoanalyze them I Guess. //loud coughing//#tbh i only saw a therapist to get medicine but since bloodwork is expensive without insurance i dont even do that anymore. sad !#but yeah im a certified rambler if i dont share every thought i have so people understand me as much as i want them to ill die #which is why charles xavier if youre out there you have full rights to my brain .......... //gross wink sound//#why cant telepaths be real itd make my life so much easier. i woudnt have to talk a mile a minute anymore #because i do talk very fast because growing up my mom would cut me off a lot #so now i talk fast in fear of being cut off without all my thoughts being heard. anyways.#thank you for also enjoying my art :] a sideshow to the glory that is my tags i KNOWWW but im glad my efforts are not unnoticed 😌#back to My Major tho when i was in middle school i thought i wanted to go into comic books #but then i thought id lose my love for drawing if i did it professionally so now i do it. semi professionally #on my own terms babyyyy thats right. and if im lucky i get paid to draw my faves im living the dream babes #thats why my text posts take nine years for me to type im legitimately sitting here thinking if i said everything i wanted #and if i worded it right but even then after it's up im like 'but did i word it right tho' but its like 'bro just fucking POST IT'#'ITS NOT THAT DEEP' its as my favorite professor once told me 'youre very paranoid' and he's right !!!! im very paranoid 🥰#ok im done now. see thats why i say Ok Im Done Now its a sign im forcing myself to shut UP #wait not done Almost but not quite i was rewatching 97 to Try to get caps of charles in his combat uniform #and i fear i still cackle at erik telling charles to shut up like PLEAAASSE...... i need that bit CLIPPED #it makes me giggle ... someone remind me to clip all of erik's cameos in the squirrelgirl podcast btw #ive been meaning to do that for weeks but. oops <3 i need all my grandpa's moments CATALOGUED and AT THE READY..#ok i done fr now i have class with my you're-paranoid professor in like an hour and i wanna get some work done before then #BYYYYYEEEE. FOR LIKE TWENTY MINUTES PROBABLY IDK

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danieyells · 1 day ago

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?????? Why did he tell me everything was fine if my insurance requires me to have been on hormones for 2 years to approve the procedure. . .why didn't he say they won't approve it if that wasn't the case. . .is that outdated information???? Maybe we can lie????

Am i seriously about to have all of my fucking hype crushed???? Maybe I can convince my doctors to lie for me or we can say I was doing it DIY for a few years. People ask how long I've been on hormones a lot because my voice is pretty deep and I look pretty masculine surely we could get away with this???

I feel really fucking beaten down now. Why not stop the discussion and go 'hey they require X amount of time on hormones'. . .I really hope I can convince my providers to fudge the truth for me a little or i'm going to lose my mind i seriously don't know how well i'm going to take it if i can't get this done???? Like I already feel so anxious at the thought. Please everything about me needs this. I am going to go fucking insane if this can't happen this year.

#i suddenly feel very stressed about my fourth floor window #i don't know if i'm going to direct the violence at myself or someone else and i'm just hoping i won't have violence to direct at all #i feel so so fucking stressed out. why wasn't this the first thing i was told???????????#please please cooperate with me doctor and therapist please i haven't felt suicidal in over a year please we cannot ruin this #i feel dizzy i feel dizzy i feel dizzy i'm too stressed about this please i'm gonna fucking break down i'm gonna fucking cry what if they #say no what if they want proof i was doing it before i met them i'm feeling so lightheaded and i'm lying down lmao???#what if i say i was on hormones before and i had to stop taking them will that throw a wrench in things????? i'm going to lose my shit #guys my year may be fucking ruined everything was going so well despite the state of the world despite everything #i need these women to lie for me. one small lie for one dumb fucker's wellbeing. surely they can agree to this? surely if i tell them how #scared i am they'll agree to say one little lie for me #i feel like scratching myself til i bleed rn hhhhhaaaa didbcueiebdj good thign i cut my nails the other day because them shits were SHARP #okay. okay. all i have to do is ask. i may not get an answer from one until tomorrow but these are very good people they have been #kind to me so far and good to me so far and they understand how important this is #my doctor has a nonbinary kid!!!! surely she'll be able to ask them for advice if she isn't sure please i'm going to throw up and i haven't #even eaten yet please don't take this out from under me this close. please don't rip this away from me when everything is going so well #please don't try and take this from me under this current administration that's trying to take everything from us #please #danie yells at existence #suicidal ideation cw #self harm mention?#I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO TAG THIS I'VE NEVER FELT SO BAD I HAD TO GET IT OUT OF MY HEAD HERE BEFORE i'm gonna send them messages and hope they #respond soon. if they don't. idk. i ask how much it'll be out of pocket #i wanna rock back and forth i need to eat and take my meds i wish i'd done that before i got started #like damn i bet my anti-anxiety meds would have been REALLY helpful right about now! shame i haven't taken them since yesterday!#and i didn't take the ones i'm supposed to take last night either because i was so distracted by. ider what i was doing the insomnia was #kicking my ass til about 6am though #so I'm running on like nothing here. which isn't helping.#i know. i know if it doesn't happen i'll live i'll survive i'll be fine but mother of god jt doesn't feel like it #it doesn't feel like it'd be worth it to have to like like this for two more years #i've already been living like this for like. idk. at least 12 years.

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autistic-katara · 11 months ago

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there r fics that make u insane (so amazingly good it’s removed ur sanity) and then there’s fics that make u insane (you need to fistfight the author for how they did a specific thing that caused u to rant for hours)

#i know i just posted that other thing but ffs that is NOT how u handle someone in that situation everyone involved made everything 10x worse #yet it’s being treated like the right thing to do (which again ofc they’re cops they don’t understand harm reduction but still) like #seriously everything’s so forceful like u seriously think forcing ur friend to talk to u or forcing a patient to talk to a therapist under #the threat of being admitted to a psychiatric hospital is gonna make her feel comfortable talking to u? or anyone? she’s just gonna trust u #less and get better at hiding it and speaking of which the taking away all sharp objects thing makes sense in theory but like think abt it #for a minute she confirmed she isn’t suicidal and this is her only way of coping so do not just forcibly take away all her coping mechanism #like yes she is hurting herself but it’s a COPING MECHANISM. she’s coping with something. help her with that don’t just take away her penci #sharpers or whatever (which btw since she’s an adult she could easily buy more stuff and yk learn to hide it better) which again has to be #voluntary it isn’t gonna work if u force someone to do smthn they don’t want to like as ur friend u could’ve made it clear u care abt her #and wouldn’t judge her for anything and r here if she wants to talk don’t just say “you have to talk to me” and casually threaten #hospitalisation when she isn’t ready in the moment like seriously if this wasn’t a badly written fanfic she would completely stop trusting #bcz given that this wasn’t even done out of panic i would like ffs u are NOT doing any of this right #oops sorry ranted abt the bad fic in my tags-#it’s not where the author’ll see it and know it’s about them i don’t feel bad abt it #this was my first time even looking at stuff for this fandom so #cw self harm in tags #idk if i need to tag anything else for that 😭#fanfic #ao3 #ryan shut the fuck up

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jinxofthedesert · 11 months ago

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I recently got out of a toxic and unhealthy friendship on here. I had to be the one to end it; hopefully the other party decides to leave it be and not smear my name due to realizing it wasn't healthy and that I had to end it because of it.

Basically, if someone makes you start feeling like shit, from your life, to your goals, passion, and everything else, then it's not a rewarding friendship. And it's hard to sometimes see it in the moment. Because you want to think the best of peeps, especially ones you care about.

But sometimes the healthiest thing for You is to know when to put your foot down and end it, even if it hurts you and them. At the end of the day, you matter and what you're doing matters and no one has the right to make you feel shit for who you are when you're just living your life. Life is hard enough without adding peeps who make you feel that way or question how you live when, prior to them showing up, you were happy with all of it.

To anyone in a relationship or friendship like that, I hope, like me, you are able to take a stand and realize you deserve better.

I knew I was being manipulated but not how much until I talked to others close to me. I pray you all never have to experience such a thing because damn, you know you did the right thing, but feel so fucking guilty at the same time.

But your happiness matters. You matter. Please remember that.

#personal #me #had to make a post. it's been eating at me since I ended it #you feel so fucking guilty but know it was the right decision.#i feel happier and lighter #its weird cause I've met my closet friends on here who are so incredible and supportive and respectful and I am in return #so to have one spiral into....that....was hard. and hard to realize despite my stomach aching day after day trying to tell me that #this was a shit situation and I deserved better #if someone makes you feel like shit and makes you believe you deserve to feel that way: leave #just leave #block them #life is to damn short to share it with people who will only make it worse and and make you feel bad as a person #i have more self respect than that #and sometimes it's hard to tell cause I want peeps to get along and have a good time when I care for them #i like making peeps happy. it brings me joy. and I tend to do it naturally without thinking.#so it's hard to sometimes see when it's not healthy #i pray for anyone in a relationship/friendship like this #know you are worth it and no one has the right to make you feel like that.#when someone doesn't respect that you have a life and can't be there 24/7 and take it Personally when you can't....like no #I've had so many friendships on here that respect your time and realize messaging comes second maybe even third or fourth #and it sucks when the opposite happens and it just gets worse and worse.#And them using 'i used to be a therapist so I know you better then yourself' should never be an excuse for them putting you down EVER.

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chill4234 · 9 months ago

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Man I love Omori and Steven Universe, on tge first watch/playthrough it’s all fun and games but on the second time around you see that foreshadowing is everywhere and it feels like being stabbed. No other piece of media does it like them.