#SHE IS SO ME I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH!!!!
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OMG, finally someone who thinks that Caitlyn is not rough all the time. I mean, look at her when she was with Vi – SHE WAS SO GENTLE THERE, ITS CANON (I'm not saying she wouldn't get rough and aggresive at times) (By the way, I love the headcanons!)
caitlyn kiramman NSFW headcanon
content : afab/fem reader, nsfw, soft sex, fluff??
writers note : thank you so much!! making a part two fairly soon of the caitlyn hcs.
men dni!
based off of my last post— where the majority of the nsfw headcanons were rough/dom!cait.— check it out if you haven’t, yall!! :))
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she would NOT be rough all the time. there are still nights she wants to make love to you and remind you how much she really does set you as one of her top priorities.
I really headcanon her to be somewhat starved to actual romance and love before she met you, and not just rough n kinky sex, ykwim?
yes, she’s a dominant person but I’m not saying there aren’t times where she wouldn’t “bottom” or let you take the lead. sometimes she just gets tired and doesn’t feel like doing all the crazy stuff, she just wants to make you cum.
which I mean you oblige because caitlyn kiramman making you cum?? who’s to deny that?? and also the instance you get to top her?? bet.
she’s just soft and slow at times, really taking her time, kissing you down your body, whispering the corniest shit to you like “we are gonna spend the rest of our life together, yeah?”— but it’s in her cute lil british accent so it doesn’t even matter, plus, you literally dig it.
I really cannot stress this enough— she is desperate to make you happy, she loves you so much she can feel that shit in her heart PHYSICALLY. nothing you do goes unnoticed— you are comfortable enough to let her access your body? she’s melting. you share your insecurities and secrets with her? she’s never telling anyone else ever.
fucks you with a sliiightly smaller strap than when she rams the shit out of you— but the way she talks you through it is so sweet and pure.
“fuck.. ur doing good, okay, love?”
“tell me if it gets too much, wont you, darling?”
“ur so sweet for me”
“you are so pretty, you know that?”
“I’m so proud of you.”
and when she’s about to cum—
“fuckfuck— iloveyouiloveyouiloveyou” as if there is some urgency to remind you
“hah— I’m close— I’m close.. cum with me?”
“mmh, I’m gonna cum, okay?”
“are you getting close?— mngghh..— want you to cum with me okay?”
“you— mmh— look so good when you are about to cum, darling.”
the aftercare is— im sorry to say— but it’s immaculate.
if you don’t feel like showering or bathing, she just brings you a warm, wet towel and wipes your privates as she leaves little kisses down your stomach
brings you a glass of water with a lemon in it n shit, gets all fancy and sometimes pops out the wine.
prepares a little snack like cheese n crackers or some kind of fruit
holds you and tells you how much she loves you, kissing your forehead and always making sure you fall asleep before her.
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01/11/25
#caitlyn kiramman headcanons#caitlyn kiramman x reader#fluffy smut#arcane#arcane smut#caitlyn kiramman smut#caitlyn kiramman request#x reader#fluff#smut#arcane fluff#arcane request#arcane x reader#caitlyn kiramman arcane#sevika x reader#vi x reader#sevika#vi#caitlyn kiramman#arcane writers when i catch you#soft sex
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I'll ask! Would Cerojin get divorced? They are both very stubborn people. I can see them trying to work it out somehow (even if only for Kanako's sake).
I love how people are starting to see me as the Cerojin divorce guy, lol
For the most part, I see Ceroba's and Chujin's relationship going out in such a spectacular fashion that there's no way for them to try to salvage it. I'm talking "months/years of poor communication and the stresses of life and having to provide for the family practically singlehandedly" putting cracks in the dam that is Ceroba's idolization of Chujin that holds back anything... unsavory that she might feel about him. And then, one day, the dam breaks and Ceroba goes from "Chujin is so wonderful and perfect" to "Chujin is awful. He's done nothing but bum around while I've had to do everything for the family!!! I hate him!!!" And then their relationship goes out in a full-on "flinging magic and words you can't take back (and maybe a chair)" messy explosion. (Okay, well, it wouldn't be immediate, there would be signs that Ceroba's getting frustrated with him, but she's too busy trying to bury/ignore those feelings, so you'd only really see her temper flare up occasionally before she tries to steady herself by saying "My husband is a wonderful person, I'm doing what I can to help him. I shouldn't be acting like this" and Chujin's too busy focusing on what he wants to do that he's not paying attention to how his wife feels. They CANNOT communicate properly for the life of them :'). The relationship still peters out pretty quickly once Ceroba stops feeling the love, though.)
Buuuuuut, let's say that they're able to communicate well enough that they can tell each other "We NEED to make this work. We can't get a divorce. We can't have our marriage fail." Well... It would be a nightmare. To say the least. They'd both only try to force the relationship and make it work for their own egos without any of the groundwork that makes a relationship work, so at best it'd be a public performance of what a happy couple should look like instead of what it would be like. A happy and healthy marriage needs more than just love to work. It needs trust. It needs shared responsibilities. It needs proper communication. And these are areas where Ceroba and Chujin fail each other. Sure, maybe they might be able to act like they tolerate each other when they're out in public (i.e. not yelling at each other, though there's still some weird tension between them that some people would be aware of). But behind closed doors, I can't see this facade holding up well. Conversations would be so insanely passive-aggressive, that you'd have to call them "passive-aggressive-aggressive." They would probably develop a routine like this every day:
Ceroba: "You're home late. How was work?" (<- Said with a smile tight enough that she could put teeth marks into steel)
Chujin: "Fine." (<- Chujin got his ear chewed off about not contributing financially around the house so he got the first job that he could to prove her wrong. He hates it and his negative feelings about his job rebound onto Ceroba because he feels like she forced him into it.)
Ceroba: "Oh, that's wonderful to hear! Well, dinner's on the table for you. Kanako and I already ate, so you'll have to have it alone."
Chujin: "... It's cold."
Ceroba: "Oh, well. That's what happens when you stay late at work without telling me. Microwave's in the kitchen, you can handle it yourself." (<- she is already thinking about the bottle)
And on and on and on. They'd be the sorts of people that everybody else around them wants them to get divorced because they're sick of all the arguing and stress and anger. Starlo in this situation, brave man that he is, tries to recommend that Ceroba gets a divorce and ends up getting yelled at because "How dare you suggest that we can't make things work!!" Martlet doesn't seem as privy to Chujin's home life as Starlo is with Ceroba, so all she knows is that things are rough at home, but she tries to invite him out bowling or to relax in Honeydew's hot spring to get some of the stress out. Both of them are trying their best to help their friends, but this isn't something that they can handle because their friends are just.... astronomically stubborn and stupid.
(And this isn't even getting into how a monster's health is heavily tied to their emotional state. A monster can literally be put into a near-death state from grieving too hard. Can you imagine how rough things would be with all that stress? Humans already experience a myriad of health problems when put under stress for an extended period of time, so you can just imagine how bad things would be healthwise for a monster. Food for thought...)
And as for Kanako? Oh my god. Out of everybody in this situation, she is the one I sympathize with/pity the most. Ceroba and Chujin have a choice in their relationship and how it's going/turns out, but Kanako doesn't. She's just a kid. Like I said earlier, on paper they might say that they're trying to make this marriage work, perhaps "for Kanako's sake," but that's their egos speaking because if they were actually paying attention to what their daughter wants, they'd realize that she'd be happier if they weren't fighting all the time, even if that means a divorce. I can see her feeling responsible for how terribly things are going because they keep saying "We're trying to stay together for your sake." Maybe she tries intervening in arguments to stop Mommy and Daddy from fighting each other, but over time gets burnt out on doing that because she's not stopping them from fighting, she's only delaying the inevitable. Most likely, she'd avoid being at home/around her parents as much as possible because there's so much tension at home and she never knows when tempers are gonna flare, so it's better to sleep over at friends or spend the day at the Wild East/the Sunnyside farm/at the playground/Cafe Dune/somewhere else. Over time, her parents' constant quarreling could even burn her out/make her jaded and irritated with her mom and dad as well as depressed because she feels like it's her fault they're like that. She never asked for her mom and dad to try to maintain their relationship for her sake; she just wants to be happy, whatever shape that happiness may take.
Tl;dr Divorce is a mercy in this situation.
#i am so sorry i let this ask ferment in my inbox for so long 🙏#this was a fun little thought exercise though *giggles and kicks my feet on my bed*#while i was writing this up i had this mental image of kanako leaving her house because Mom and Dad are fighting again#and she stumbles across martlet (dad's friend) escorting clover (a human. Dad says that they're all dangerous and incapable of decency)#and when put in a situation where she has to choose between going back home or dealing with the human she's like ''hey. can i#go with you guys 🥺'' because it's just THAT bad at home.#moral of the story is that their marriage has already failed. it was set up to fail in the game if Chujin hadn't died.#divorce doesn't make a happy marriage fail in the same way that signal flares don't make ships sink. it's just a sign of a failed marriage#[rusty door hinge noises]
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♡Happy Birthday Kanroji Mitsuri♡
1st June
#knyedit#knysource#fyanimegifs#kimetsu no yaiba#kny#demon slayer#mitsuri kanroji#sky gifs#usergojoana#useradrienne#usermica#tuserelena#userokkottsus#useraki#usergokalp#userlisette#hanatonin#SHE IS SO ME I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH!!!!#love that we're both June gemini born a few days apart!!! we'd have a joint part#anyway I hope these look okie!!!! I love this girl sm <333
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I cannot stress enough how much this is not a made-up hypothetical, by the way. This isn't me making up a guy to get mad at. This also isn't me making up an extreme example to prove my point. Out of respect for the OP, I'm not linking the original post, but...
...I do have a screenshot on hand of the "(s)he's so nice" comment. She's nice? Really? She's nice for not transitioning to preserve her body for the sake of her friends still loving her? Really? She's nice? That's the word you want to use? Nice? Nice?!
People will see a post about a trans woman refusing to transition because she's under the assumption her friends only love her for her body and changing it would make all her friends leave her and be in the tags laughing and he/him'ing it up and calling that woman a boy or man or guy, declaring it nonbinary behavior, saying "(s)he's [sic] so nice" for not transitioning, and I just have to look at that and be expected to not call that positively fucking diabolical.
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Jesus man, relax.
#this was in response to me saying “lunar new year” on the rarity art#personal#delete later#what in insane nonproblem to get this angry about#i asked my parents (taiwanese immigrants) about this and they said we use either but prefer lunar new year#because it's inclusive to koreans and vietnamese people who celebrate on the same day#lunar new year is an umbrella term same as “happy holidays.” this person is basically getting mad i said happy holidays instead of#merry christmas.#my family and i identify more as taiwanese than chinese so. we're not gonna say chinese new year much anyways#i sent this to my mom btw and she replied with basically “die mad i guess.” love you ma#this literally doesn't matter anyways i could have said “chinese new year” to caption that post and it wouldn't have mattered#the only reason i didn't is because i plan on drawing another art including carol (coco pommel) who's korean and celebrates the same day#like. most people in china/taiwan don't care they just say “happy new year” cuz it's the fuckin new year. someone saying lunar new year is#not erasure it's not flattening asian identities into a monolith. it's just an umbrella term.#anyways happy lunar new year happy chinese new year happy tet happy spring festival happy seollal#like i cannot stress enough to you guys that these holidays are on the exact same day and celebrate basically the same exact thing.#this is not an issue.
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PAINT ME A HEAVEN OF LOVE WITH YOUR BLOODIED MOUTH
“taint me like a fallen angel—rip my ivory wings off, and i will think of it as an act of purity. chant my name like forbidden curse, and i will close my eyes and hear it as a sacred prayer for i am nothing but your devout lover.”
#yue’s comms#chroyue#also can u tell i rawdogged the little blurb there 😭 sknfodfnmcc if it doesnt make sense blame my sick n fuzzy brain#SCREAMINGGG#PURI DID IT ONCE AGAIN AAAHHUUGHHH#i can NEVER not commission puri again bc she just GETS the whole vibe of what i am going for !!!! ALWAYS !!#i am so so in love w her art and how she draws chrollo has me in a chokehold thats why i always go to her AUGHHH#I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH OMG PLEASE GO COMM HER IF UR LOOKING FOR AN ARTIST !!!!#I TRUSTED HER TO DRAW YUSCARA MAKING OUT ART AND SHE DELIVERED AND ATE AND LEFT NO CRUMBS#LOOK AT US HEHE#EEEEEP !!!!!!!!#I LOVE THIS SM IM SCREAMINGGG#chrollo lucilfer#hxh#hunter x hunter#self ship#self ship content#self ship commissions#self ship community
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I cant sleep bc im thinking abt the time I saw a group of grown ass men and one pointed to an airplane and they all waved at it without thinking (affectionate)
#every time I think of that it cracks me up like#and I cannot stress this enough bc when I say they all waved at it without thinking#I mean they didnt even plan it and each of them just decided to wave at it#it was so cute???? and so very human I think. its a precious memory to me#when I was like 5 I used to see every airplane in the sky and ask my aunt if thats the one she came to Canada in (she would always say yes)#diary#yapping#earthlings
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thank you to everyone who played!!!! breakdown of the True Facts:
Absolutely true. as a prize they gave me a massive bag of gummy bears. one of my toxic traits is that i fully believe if backed into a corner i could kill a bear. weirdly i cant tell if this specific piece of hubris is a result of this reward or an entire group of Cool Young Christians collectively clocked my subconscious preoccupation with potential Bear Fights before i was even fully cognizant of it
true!!!! when i was a kid i thought being a chemist meant i would be able to make explosions for a living. not sure if there was any merit to that line of thinking, but i have since learned that chemistry is boring as hell, and also what a war crime is
false!! i won first place in that contest thank you, they gave me $300 and engraved my name on a plaque. i don't consider it terribly impressive, personally; at the time i was enrolled against my will in a small private christian school, so the competition was not exactly fierce. however there is something keenly satisfying of the fact that i went to that school for one (1) year, owned everyone in the senior age bracket while in the lowest applicable grade, engraved my name in their legacy and immediately peaced out
As you can see the results came out very differently here, with 41% of 104 voters correctly guessing my lie!!
my very tentative hypothesis is that people will avoid choosing options that could be seen as rude or insensitive if wrong, even sometimes at risk of tells. without context of either the scale of the contest or my own actual writing skill, second place in a contest is impressive enough that, when I as a stranger present the lie as something which i am moderately proud of, it would make people Feel Awkward to suggest that could not be true, even when i have to specifically clarify to the teacher that it was SECOND place when she's repeating it to the class, or when i start smiling uncontrollably like a fucking idiot and have to hide my face halfway through voting because i cannot stress enough how not used to lying i am.
for the stupid icebreaker segment of one of my classes (cultural anth) we split into smaller groups and played a round of two truths one lie and apparently im really good at this game?? bc no one guessed my lie??? i remember we played the game once in high school drama class and no one guessed that time either though ill admit i cannot recall what i offered as my options that time but the high from winning that game was INSANE because drama kids in my mind means A) highly competitive and B) better at catching out what acting looks like. its just kinda weird bc im both clumsily honest by default, love oversharing, and am generally quite gullible (ex: when guessing OTHER people's lies in class yesterday, i was batting a perfect ✨0✨ and i was trying very, very hard) so i always sort of expect it will be immediately obvious which one is not true
however, playing that game yesterday did give me a small hypothesis for a sort of unspoken bias that might afflict how people choose their option which i kind of want to test more....
#poll#i mean it was a hypothesis that thought of while watching everyone else's truths/lies being guessed in class#but i dont feel confident or comfortable using those as examples here#more testing is required to see if theres are other things that swayed the results!!#for example perhaps people are less inclined to believe that i have ever been regarded as Bear Fighting Material#when im wearing a skirt and petticoat and have little ribbons on my socks and cardigan#or when i present these facts to my group immediately after having returned from the bathroom to cough uncontrollably for five minutes#because i had just walked up six flights of stairs because I was late to class and the was a line for the fucking elevator#there could be other things messing with the data!! but its interesting enough to me to really consider
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Kyoko time! Also, keep in mind, spoilers ahead ^v^
For her first outfit, the casual attire, it's nothing too crazy. Feel she'd still be rocking those boots as she's older. Kyoko just gives me boot energy after all. I like to think she's got strong legs and can kick fairly well, her boots adding to that strength. At the same time though, I just feel she just really enjoys wearing boots. Maybe it's that extra height or the very chunky look they have. Whatever the case though, she's a woman who's not giving up those boots. Additionally, I'll be honest. Most of the choices I made for her casual attire are entirely off of vibes. For instance, I feel she'd still be a skirt gal which is why she has a skirt here. This also applies to the bow on the back of her hair and the braids. How I interpret Kyoko is that she's not one to wear overly girly accessories that are very bright, loud, and vibrant. However, she still enjoys the subtle show of her femininity and feeling pretty! Thus, the braids and the black bow stay! They're just moved to the back of the head instead of one side. As for her work attire, for one, she's still doing detective work in my au, perhaps helping Makoto on the side since they're both roommates in the same apartment. I also decided to give her pants for her work attire, not because she couldn't do it with a skirt. This is Kyoko after all! She'd be able to manage. Feel with age though, Kyoko would be less likely to prioritize her style and instead goes for practicality for work. She has more of a social life now anyway so she can let her style shine and be as pretty as she wants then. Oh, and before I forget, she's got an eyepatch too! I left it open for interpretation in regards on what exactly happened. For those who mostly ignore the anime's addition to the canon, it can just be that she got the injury during a case. For those who like aspects of the anime though, the scar on her face is from that time she almost died. With how the poison dispersed, I like giving her this scar to show that effect! Plus, if they were going to do a fake out death and not just kill her off, at LEAST give it some impact by having her be physically scarred! That's my 2 cents here though!
As for physical features, I drew her a bit more stocky here, still very much a feminine shape though stronger as well. After all, she's still fairly active though it's not like she's jacked or anything either. I don't think she'd lean to wanting a more muscled appearance. Not to say she couldn't kick ass! Her legs have a bit of toned muscle to them and her arms do as well. It's all subtle though! Moreover, I like to think though that Kyoko's in a good balance from how she treated detective work back then though. Though she'd still do some risks for solving a case, she's less likely to throw her entire life in jeopardy. She's ensuring she's eating properly, treating her body well. Thus, the pear shape of her body is showing a bit more here as well as the fact that she's a grown woman. I also thought it'd be cute that, no matter if Makoto or Kyoko ever become parents, they are destined to have mom and dad bods, even if it's subtle. Additionally, with her age, life experience, and all that she's gone through in her life along with the others, she is much more willing to accept aid. Perhaps during her time working on case work at home, she gets some input from Makoto since they're living together and she also generally respects Makoto's thoughts and opinions. Some other aspects of her physical appearance I wish to mention here is her hair. I honed in a bit more on that practical feeling for her by having it shorter but still expressing her femininity. She's also wearing Makoto's boxers here as well. Just wanted to drop that tidbit in there as well >:]
For the most part, I can say I'm fairly happy with how she's turned out! A good mix of what makes Kyoko who she is with a mix of my own flairs! More to come soon! (1) | (3)
#danganronpa#danganronpa art#danganronpa fanart#danganronpa au#danganronpa kyoko#kyoko kirigiri#spoiler warning#thh spoilers#just me being all safe and carful again! will prob tag all of the survivor's designs with the spoiler tags anyway!#also i cannot stress enough how much i adore how she's turned out! she's just so pretty and bad ass and lovely! just what i wanted!#i am also excited to yap about the others as well once i fully get them all done! gosh this is just so fun to work on!
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idk i just think it’s a little weird that almost every character who gets the “innocent baby” / “little ray of sunshine” treatment usually ends up just having neurodivergent traits and actual negative traits in the show that nobody pays attention to. like idk man it just feels like diet infantilization to me and it’s a teeny weeny bit uncomfortable to see all the time
#what’s even weirder is that half of these precious sunshine baby characters will canonically have some kind of temper too 😭😭#like sorry I don’t think Adrien is an innocent ray of sunshine he was literally destroying property out of spite 😭😭#cal.txt#autism stuff#fandom ableism#infantilization#she ra spop#entrapta#spn#supernatural#jack kline#autistic jack kline#adrien agreste#Like of course he isn’t canonically ND but the whole angle of his social awkwardness and unawareness#miraculous ladybug#it’s still a common trait in ND people and it’s probably the most infantilized aspect of us#but come on man#and don’t even get me started on jack. we know how I feel#TLDR jack strangling the gas n sip employee in a rage so blind he had to be shot in the back to snap out of it#like am I alone in this am I detecting a pattern that nobody else is .#siigghhh#we will never be free 😭😭😭😭#castiel#at some point in the fandom and probably still in a few corners#autistic representation#this goes for when a character is simply coded that way too#like I cannot stress enough how coding and representation work#I also cannot stress enough that ableism does not have to be intentional to be ableism holy BALLS dude#you can do it by accident!!! you can play into tropes that you didn’t realize were bad!!!! ITS NOT A MORAL FAILING ON YOUR PART#it’s just a product of society like everything else.
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Hello hello everybody! It is time for another months progress, and I am so excited to share with you, all the things I have gotten my grimy little gremlin hands on. First off, what we are all here for; writing. I have been on fire, to be honest! Last month I churned through the last of the first batch of erotica stories (there's 6 (!!!) of them on my patreon already) and set them up for publishing along with two more unseen ones- I'm still going over the logistics of where to publish for the best revenue (I know this sounds boring, but I have to make an income somehow, and hopefully find another audience as a smut writer on other platforms 💀 I love writing it so why not!), and I am making headway, learning the ins and outs of self publishing. On patreon, there are also two Q&A's that are written in a bit more fictional manner, in character: a more fun way than just writing answers straight up and down. I have enjoyed those so much! There's a bunch of other stuff I haven't even mentioned- honestly, I have to say, I'm really proud of my output on Patreon even though I have been really anxious about writing full time. It's going great! I have to thank my new friends and support-network on discord; you make this all worth it. I cannot express how fun it is to shoot the shit with you in vc, gaming together, or seeing your shenanigans in gen or your in depth theories (thanks for the brainworms!) or memes or staring longingly at the fanfic channel or drooling over your art (ouro related or not) or... Gah. You are just amazing people, and I will waste no opportunity in saying so. Thank you forever and ever and ever an-
When it comes to OUROBOROS, I am happy to announce that the next chapter is damn near done! I was halted because of the discovery that dashingdon is no longer supported by it's creator, and have been working on the twine version ever since, earlier than I expected- it's tough work, but I am so excited to make this an actual game made entirely by myself, and not submitting to a company that quite frankly leaves a bitter aftertaste. It is taking long to make because I want to make it mobile compatible from the start, which there isn't a lot of resources for. But I'm doing my best! The plan is that I will be posting the next chapter for Patreons in the coming month, and then treat you to a full twine release here on tumblr. I haven't made any rewrites when porting the twine build, but I would like to do that too... so we will see; this plan is not set in stone. I will just have to see how it evolves over the next month. Yes, beta-readers is still on the schedule, just holding off a little while while I wrap my head around this new coding landscape.
Other than that, I have been working on the set aesthetic for ouro, which has been really hard, a lot harder than I expected. You all know I am no wizard when it comes to graphic design, but I want to at least develop a set palette and imagery and portraits that is cohesive to the story. The work is ongoing, and I don't have much to say about it- even though it is taking a lot of my brain power. I'm hoping I can come to some kind of set and in depth conclusion that I am happy with before the twine release, because I want the game to feel like a treat to open up and play; a world to get lost in.
That's it! If you want to see weekly and more in depth dev-logs, you know where to go. I hope you have an amazing day or night, and we will see each other soon. xx
#OUROBOROS#ouroboros-if#interactive fiction#twine wip#progress report#dev log#I am SO sorry I haven't been around a lot to answer asks- there is so much work to be done and only so little of me to go around whuhuhuhu#send help lmfao. tuck me into your pocket. keep me safe!!!! I have no idea how people manage all this. But I promise and cross my heart I a#Doing My Best™#other things not mentioned: I have been going through The Stress with my doagy who injured her leg but today we finally took a full hike t#together- she really scared me with how much pain she was in but we made it through 😭 I cannot thank my patreon supporters enough because#your support is making me breathe easy about the upcoming vet bill. why are blood samples so expensive. wah#yeees yees im bursting with butterflies and rainbow emotions. but truly- I can't thank you enough#Onwards! We keep moving!I am so excited for all this-damn all the stress and the insecurities-I am Doing It!!! It is Happening! Wahoo!
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In response to criticism of how she broke them up Fitzmartin said that Tim and Steph always had a volatile relationship and broke up like every two issues and wasn't perfect. What do you think of this defence?
I think that's untrue and betrays that she doesn't really know anything about them lol.
I'm pretty certain they never actually broke up. Like properly.
They had moments of not speaking, mainly after Bruce revealed Tim's ID to Steph and when Steph became Robin bc they were already planning on killing her off, and there were certainly misunderstandings in the relationship at times but most of that can be explained by normal teenage stupidity and Bruce hanging over them.
The only times they weren't together was after Steph died and came back because, well, she had DIED, but I think that version of them got back together during Convergence, in the N52 before that bc Steph literally just did not exist at first, and when Tim "died".
Timsteph certainly weren't perfect. I mean, Dixon was writing them, that's almost enough said. And the relationship was volatile at times because they were both stubborn, passionate children with occasionally clashing view points, so there's some points in their relationship where a break-up would have made sense.
The version of them we had in 2021, coming off of Tynion's 'Tec and Bendis' Young Justice, though, was not at such a point. Tim was, like, disgustingly in love with Steph before UL, lol.
#like if she'd broken them up in the late 90s with that line? sure i guess#but in 2021???? no lol#like i cannot stress enough that they were planning a future and literally driving off into the sunset together#i might be forgetting about a break-up?? correct me if i M#i know she briefly broke things off with him in tec but again that ended with the aforementioned sunset#dc#bobbinasks#fandom wank#just gonna tag thag when i complain about creators why not#anon#i'd have a lot more respect for her if she'd just went 'yeah i wanted them broken up so i broke them up.#what are YOU gonna do about it'#like i'd still hate it but at least she'd be honest lmao
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going thru the old screencaps and it is still comical the way the writers sold us "aki izayoi wants to be a doctor, no REALLY" is just:
she saved a little girl from falling off the building that one time in the hospital. for the record: i still do not believe this was intentional foreshadowing to her career.
crow saying "maybe being psychic is the power to heal people" after what really saved them is her making her big ass dragon real, preventing debris from falling and crushing them. she did not use her psychic powers to heal them at ALL, it was literally just saving them
saying "i don't know what i want to do" after graduating from duel academy, a school for duelists then seeing the little girl she saved (again, not medically or through any actual use of medicine, just stopped from falling off a building) is enough to go "i want to be a doctor"
like. there is no other build up. oh and also the ones that are legit foreshadowing occur in the final 10 episodes, so it really does feel like a hack rush job trying to convince us she wants to do this. it feels like they went "we have to make aki leave neo domino. i know - we'll ship her off to germany to do medicine" and then someone rightfully pointed out that she's literally never expressed an interest in medicine in her life, so they had to come up with the final two bullet points to try to sell it.
could it have been sold better? sure. but since i think the plot point is stupid and ultimately inconsequential (because nothing about changing aki's career even causes any issues to the plot - you can pick a new one out of a hat & claim she has to move for it no problem), it just pisses me the fuck off.
not only that, it's paired with such fun writing choices as "lua and luka forgive their estranged parents to move to england", "jack gets factory reset to his season one self in that he rejects the idea of love wholesale in favor of obsessing over beating yusei", "crow hogan becomes a cop", and "yusei is forced into his father's career path because Sins Of The Father (that didn't actually happen)" so like. it's not like aki is wholly unique in having a randomly generated reason to leave neo domino city that doesn't fully make any sense if you examine it too closely. i think they just wanted the plot beat of "everyone except yusei leaves neo domino to live their own lives" without really putting much thought into what each of these characters would DO with their lives post wrgp.
#aki izayoi#akiza isiniski#yugioh 5ds#i cannot stress enough: the writers did a REALLY shit job convincing me she wants to do medicine#as a result i don't buy it out of spite#these three bullet points also could've been handled WAY better#i will say tho that it is at least better than ''crow hogan becomes a cop'' in terms of bungled writing#but why do i hate this plot point so bad? why don't i think it works? here's why#it literally comes out of the left field as an excuse to get aki out of neo domino#plus i could go into several ways how jack staying as a pro duelist and saying he doesn't need leave is a TERRIBLE choice for his character
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Had the extremely upsetting experience of a mutual of like 6 years going off on me for occasionally making posts about supporting Harris because apparently that makes me a g n cide denier who refuses to learn and grow, with all of my views just being assumed not even from what I've told them I believe or what I've posted before, but just because I DON'T post particularly the kind of things they THINK I should be. When I pointed out how much they were just completely assuming about stuff I'd never talked to them about, I was told it doesn't matter what I do in real life or "care" about if I simply disagree with their conclusion and vote for her anyway. Like they were absolutely not sorry for the level of maliciousness they not just assumed of my character, but for some reason thought appropriate to bring directly to me before unfollowing me. No apology whatsoever for how discomforting or upsetting that might be and certainly no acknowledgment that I could disagree with them and still be a good person. I just got another even longer rant about how they fundamentally can't fuck with me because of this one thing, no matter WHAT else I do in my real life (which I pointed out that they do not know), and how I'm directly supporting fascism.
Like seriously what is it about Tumblr that makes people think they know someone based off of occasional posts? There were just such DEEP assumptions they were making of me and going off of very little or absolutely nothing. Around the time I first became mutuals with that person I used to express my personality and beliefs and talk about what was going on in my life a lot more openly, but I've significantly scaled back on doing that in many ways for many reasons. One of my major ones is privacy and the way I've had strangers outside my followers and following circles just find random things I say and dogpile me for it. I was fundamentally changed after some T Fs did that to me like 3 years ago. I also just didn't have many conversations w that person anymore (I message people in general on here like 10x less than I did circa 2018-2019, which I'm somewhat sorry about!). My point is to say I think this person felt comfortable assuming that they knew me, especially who I am in 2024 at the age of 25, much better than they actually did.
One of the specific things they accused me of was being afraid of learning and growing (because I don't perform social media activism on here like they think I should). Like AFRAID to take criticism. When again I've never received criticism from them or had to respond to any criticism on here before as pertaining to my views on... well, absolutely any of the issues they accused me of not caring about. They essentially treated it as if the only thing in the world I cared about was the US election and characterized me as the most out-of-touch liberal they could possibly imagine, because I'm not "pushing" Kamala Harris to be better (Oh?? Should I do that on here?? Does she read my blog??).
And most hypocritically what they said was that I only *sometimes* *vaguely* post pro-Harris things (I often post like 5 or fewer things in a day though?). But here's the kicker. "Because I know I'll get shit for it. And rightfully so."
Really????? Not a single person, anon or not, in my messages or in a tagged post or anything, has ever given me shit before for saying who I'm voting for. I'm actually NOT afraid of "getting shit" for that opinion, I just don't start fights with people who are anti-voting. And why should I??? I genuinely don't believe in trying to change the minds of strangers on the internet about that sort of thing. I'm just not confrontational about it; that is so not the same thing as being "afraid of getting shit." I'm not posting ENOUGH about my support for Harris, therefore I'm afraid. But therefore they can also make all these assumptions about me being their strawman for an ignorant Harris supporter.
I'm afraid of getting shit but I still post anyway? But if I weren't afraid of getting shit I'd be posting a lot more?? This is ALL based on their assumptions of what my blog *should* look like, based on what I really and truly believe. My level of posting every now and then is an accurate gauge of my feelings on complex, sensitive, global issues. Because I'm voting for the Democratic presidential candidate and I'm ok sharing pretty much just that little glimpse of myself.
I really don't think that person knows just how inappropriate and insulting that is to just say all of that to me. Like they really know what's going on in my head. Their first message began and ended with like "I'm sorry I love you I just can't take it anymore" but they clearly weren't sorry enough to try and be more respectful to me, and they didn't love me enough not to default to extremely ungenerous assumptions and attacking me based off of those instead of any actual words I've said that they take issue with.
Online radicalization is real and it's not necessarily bad because your political views can start to fall well out of the contemporary Overton window. The way you find it appropriate to treat people whose views, however common, seem to fundamentally misalign with yours... that does matter. You can't just assume the worst of everyone and then act on that in how you approach them as individuals. And then be shocked that you don't stay friends with them. You can't be confrontational with someone about an issue you've never had an honest conversation about, and then expect them to take your bad faith in them as reasonable well-meaning criticism.
I'm afraid of criticism??? I'm afraid of criticism. No I'm not. This person and I have never had an issue before where they criticized me and I got harshly defensive. It was ALL projection. The entire tone of their messages was as if all their anti-voting posts recently were somehow in communication with the occasional go-vote-for-Harris posts that I make. That's not a conversation. I don't post for your satisfaction. I don't post in "response" to my mutuals I disagree with. I just post what's on my mind, sometimes, about some things. I really again can't stress enough how baffled I am by this
#tales from diana#long post#this is not really a post about voting this is a post about online etiquette#i also remember that this person at one point when we were teenagers had a crush on me#so they might have somewhat idealized me or maybe just had respect for the good times#good conversations we had over the years etc#i still held them in regard even though some of their anti-voting posts i took serious issue w#again i really don't care to argue w ppl against voting bc really i mainly only disagree w that one conclusion#the systemic critiques that were made in those posts i don't think make them bad ppl#i sympathize w why someone might think that way#i just cannot pretend that i think nothing changes if we have dt as president again#i can't act as if im not anxious at the state of the world we're in where we're seriously at risk of that#i don't have that same level of concern about harris. i don't. i don't think theyre the same#i think they diverge in so many meaningful ways but im usually not writing detailed long thoughtful posts about it#do i have to??? for TUMBLR?? id rather not...#but i don't wish to be confronted as if these are nuances i MUST not hold in my opinion#can't stress enough they were basically calling me a g n cide denier like that's just a cool ok thing to do#i have literally never made a post about ppl not voting for harris bc of the war in gaza#i specifically haven't not because im 'afraid' but bc i don't believe in comparing those 2 things#there was gonna be a presidential election this year anyway and there does not have to be this war#if u think dems aren't doing well enough on the war for u to vote for them. i can't argue w u#but i was always going to vote anyway#again im afraid of getting shit?? ONLY this person has EVER given me shit until now#im not pushing harris enough? how tf do u know that? bc im not reblogging ill-informed posts from ppl like u?#im not PUSHING this woman running for president enough bc im not writing critical posts she and her advisers will never see#about how im threatening to withhold my vote from them. something id never honestly do considering the opposition#they kept stressing to me to about how they weren't a trump supporter when *i* never said as much to them#i do agree that not voting for harris 'supports' trump in that it benefits him overall#but i don't attack ppl who just aren't voting in that way. ok?#damn i hate being on the defensive like this
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My roommate has not been to work in like two weeks atp……
#like. girl. you better still have a fucking job#two months from now idgaf what you do but you’re paying your share of the fucking bills#she talks so much about how she fucking hates her job and wants to quit#(which y’know I understand truly I do)#however she does strike me as the type of dumbass to just do that with no backup plan#because it just doesn’t make her ‘happy’ there#also it’s just fucking annoying like can I have a day. where you’re just not fucking here. to relax 😭#she always had weekends off and I always worked weekends#so I always got to look forward to having my days off to myself#but WHY the FUCK have you not been at work a single day I’ve been off in weeks now#okay. Christmas off. makes sense. WHAT ABOUT ANY OF THE FUCKING OTHERS#also she has not paid me for the electric bill of WiFi despite them being due in like. three days#I’m going to fucking kill her I swear to god if this bitch quit her job and doesn’t fucking pay me her share of the bills…..#oh it’s so fucking over#I would also like to stress that like. she’s not sick she has nothing else going on#no actual reason to not go to work#so why. THE FUCK. are you not there#and using all your free time trying to convince me to go to bars with you 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭#oh this month cannot end fast enough I need out of here before I fucking go insane#kaz rambles
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Everyone go check out the arcane tag the lesbians are losing it
#incredibly valid of them btw#this is not an attack this is me nodding in sympathy#some of them are losing it because caitvi clearly goes on the rocks#some of them are losing it because vi has an emo pit fighter arc#and#I cannot stress this enough#she looks so cool doing it#face paint muscled k-o-ing men twice her size#like she’s clearly not emotionally healthy but she’s built and in black and has great hair#I cannot blame them even a little bit#I relate more to jinx but I think vi is so cool#also the more I watch clips of arcane the more I know I’m going to cry watching it#I’m going to need a month and a half to watch the season#current status#I don’t want people to perceive this post so I’m not tagging arcane#I just want the mutuals to know
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