#Romil and Jugal

[starryalpacasstuff]

Random QL Superlatives: 2024

Thinking back, I actually don't think I watched a lot of ql in 2024, and a lot of the shows I was watching are indefinitely on hold due to lack of time. I had no idea how to go about making this but well, I tried.

Most Comforting Show: Tsukuritai Onna to Tabetai Onna (She Loves To Cook and She Loves To Eat)

I binged both seasons over the course of a few weeks and I absolutely adored this show. It's so so lovely and it feels a bit like a warm blanket draped around you on a cold winter morning. It's wonderful

Most Catharsis Providing Show: Ossan no Pantsu ga Nandatte Ii Janai ka (No One Cares for an Old Man’s Underwear)

I know, what? But this entire show was actually so cathartic for me, with so many people in the show learning acceptance and understanding, but also the show ending with the message that 'not everyone will come around, and that's okay', and the marriage at the end, oh my god. And catharsis is the only word I can think of for the feeling I got from this show besides vindication, so that's what we're going with.

Hottest Main Character I'm Now Into: Jane from The Trainee

Number of people who are surprised: 0. Competence is hella hot

Saddest That I haven't Been Able To Finish It Yet: Love In The Big City

Literally the first one I'm gonna finish off the on pause list (hopefully soon??) 😭

Best Beatdown: Mahasamut beating up the shitty father, obviously (Love Sea)

I suck at finding gifs so please accept this instead. Anyways, Mahasamut beating the guy up has got to be one of the best moments of the show, 10/10, more bl mcs should beat up shitty parents/exes, this is the second time Fort has beat up someone on screen and it's in his second bl which is very funny and also excellent.

Best Mutual Angsty Yearning From An Already Together Couple: Thanwa and Peak (Knock Knock, Boys!)

Once again, I suck at finding gifs but know that the moment I'm thinking of is when they're both in front of the hotel. These two absolutely stole the whole show for me, and the angst in the final few episodes about their relationship was delicious.

The Show Which's Existence Confounds And Delights Me Most: Romil and Jugal

This one wasn't made in 2024 (it was made in 2017, which only adds to the confusion and delight) but I watched it in 2024 and no one on BL tumblr besides me has watched it yet anyways so I say it counts. I have no idea how this show was ever created, and more importantly, how it managed to be good. It's an Indian BL from 2017 produced by a woman known almost entirely for decently popular tv serials (aka soap operas), I do not know how it came into existence but I am infinitely grateful for it's existence. (And it's available for online!! with subtitles!! for free!! as long as you have your region set to india that is... still a win in my books!)

That's all I have, this was so fun! Do tag me if you end up making one, I'd love to see other people's lists

Tagging people who asked to be tagged in the superlatives posts! @lurkingshan @bengiyo @happypotato48 @wen-kexing-apologist

[aestheticsfandomsandmore]

romil and jugal walked so pat and pran could rUN 

[circuitmouse]

Romil & Jugal (India, 2017) starring Manraj Singh & Rajeev Siddhartha

[i-got-the-feels]

jugal my boy is a hot mess

[fellharder]

Romil and Jugal

My main criteria for labelling something as BL are tropes galore and a heavy focus on romance and what could be more inherently trope-romantic (although het) than Romeo and Juliet? So I'm calling Romil and Jugal (2017) a BL, at least for now. I think I've managed to find it with English subs. Fingers crossed for all ten episodes being present and subbed.

For now I'll insist that Romil and Jugal can be called a BL despite the lack of equality bubble.

[abeyyaaar]

can never get over this scene…NEVER-EVER!!!!😍😍😍😍

[desi-lgbt-fest]

Hey, if possible can I get a list of all lgbt indian films. I just came to know about Maja Ma. So seriously I need to start watching indian lgbt rep. Tv Show recommendations are also totally cool

Ah dude...

Fire

Margarita with a straw

Shubh Mangal Zyada Savdhan

Badhaai Do

Ek Ladki Ko Dekha To

Cobalt Blue

Chandigarh Kare Ashiqui

These are off the top of my head Bollywood movies. There are I'm sure a lot more regional movies and bollywood niche movies that have queer representation.

The TV shows I can think of only have queer side characters but there are 2-3 youtube series that feature queer main people

There's All About Section 377 and the second part Still About Section 377 that's kinda cringe but still pretty sweet.

There's Romil and Jugal (which i haven't watched) which is a proper web series. There's quite a lot of short stories on YouTube which feature queerness too.

Hopefully others can add on it!

[kaanbaltlak]

So I decided to marathon gay indian movies...

When a hyperfixation kicks in, it kicks fucking hard. I started yesterday with a indian gay shortfilm called Sisak, then other called Amen; and today, I've already watched the series Romil & Jugal, and the movies Shubh Mangal Zyada Saavdhan, Loev and Dear Dad.

Thus far, Loev has been my fave movie of them all --I highly appreciate the different angle of the relationship even when it's so damn hurting. Sisak was heartbreaking, Amen was bittersweet. R&J was a rollercoaster. Dear Dad was also lovely, and with happy ending!

Now, I'm watching Cobalt Blue and I saw it's originally a novel, so of course I must read it (specially to draw comparatives because I like to do that with different media). And I'm loving it.

And after that, I just have Funny Boy and Badhaai Do to watch. Then, I'll move to read some gay indian novels and autobiographies.

[usertoxicyaoi]

omg faiza what desi queer film is that with dhruv?? also idk if you know this but have you heard of romil and jugal? its a queer desi show based on romeo and juliet, ive yet to finish it bc Feelings so idk how it ends but i really love it a lot, its so rare to find queer desi stuff and im so so happy that i found it 🥹

hiiii anon!!! okay so these 2 are two characters called dhruv and faruq, and they're from a show called class on netflix (its basically a desi version of elite, and dhruv and faruq are the desi version of omar and ander). and yuuuup, i have heard of romil and jugal!!!

[dodoinsane]

I ALMOST THOUGHT THEY WERE PULLING A ROMIL&JUGAL TWIST

Are you really trying to test my patience right now?

NOW??

You have five minutes to get your shit together.

[starryalpacasstuff]

Indian BL? FROM 2017????

There's an Indian BL from 2017 that I just watched. And I have incoherent thoughts

Before I continue, massive thanks to my bestie @anixknowsnothin for telling me about this show and proofreading the post for me. You don't even watch bl so I have no idea how you found this, but I'm incredibly grateful nonetheless

Here's the link to where I watched the show from, there's a glitch in the first episode subs where the subs seem to be from another show entirely, but it's only for the first ep and about 50% of the dialogue is in English anyways, so it shouldn't be hard to follow.(My ask box is also always open if there's a specific dialogue/scene in Hindi that you want the translation of)

Edit: The link seems to be region locked, so to watch it you can use a vpn and set your region to India, otherwise the episodes are available on youtube, albeit without subs

Note:- this post is going to have a few mild spoilers throughout, but I'll flag major spoilers in red

It's no secret that India is fairly behind when it comes to queer love shows if we compare it to other Asian countries. While it has a handful of great queer shows and movies, it's still quite a small quantity. Additionally, before this, I'd never watched an Indian show that felt like I was watching a bl (if you have recs, please send them my way!!). I'm not going to get into the technicalities of what feels like a bl and doesn't, because honestly, I'm not completely sure myself. For now, I'm just going based off of vibes and feelings, and this show felt like a bl through and through.

Titled 'Romil and Jugal' after its main characters, the story is a modern, desi, bl remake of the classic story...

Romeo and Juliet

Well, Bad Buddy was the first Thai bl I ever watched, so Romil and Jugal being the first Indian BL I watched just feels right, no?

I didn't actually know that the story was based off of Romeo and Juliet till the second episode, because I didn't bother looking for a synopsis, and jumped right in. However, it's links to Romeo and Juliet quickly became apparent, around the same time I started to see similarities between this show and Bad Buddy. I also did not know that this show came out in 2017 before I googled it, having already watched the entire thing, which was a pretty huge shock, because this BL is progressive by 2024 India standards.

Alright, enough of my rambling. Here's a synopsis of the show in case you haven't heard of it. (I couldn't find an official one, so I did my best to write a spoiler free synopsis)

Ramya happens to start talking to a slightly older woman at an airport, who believes that there is no romance in the younger generation. To prove her wrong, Ramya decides to tell the older woman her brother's love story. The story from the past is shown to us as Ramya narrates it to the woman in the present. Jugal is a closeted 19-year-old who lives with his parents. One day, a family moves into the house next door, and Jugal immediately falls for the son, Romil. The two of them attend the same college, and eventually become friends. The two of them eventually get together, but have to face the challenges of a homophobic society and having parents that hate each other.

I was a little skeptical of the show going in, but the show surpassed all of my expectations in the best way possible. It's no masterpiece, and it has its flaws, but it was far better than what I expected. It had both comical elements and darker themes, and it did not shy away from exploring the darker themes at all. Oh, and it has a few musical numbers. What did you expect? This is India after all.

The show is 10 episodes long, with 20 minutes per episode, and so it does unfortunately fall into some of the pitfalls that shorter shows tend to fall into, namely underdeveloped relationships and rushed endings. I did end up feeling a little bit like it didn't make sense for the pair to sacrifice and suffer as much as they did because they hadn't known each other for very long, and I felt like they should have been given more time to fall in love with each other. But it also could be argued that the show stays true to the play, and Romil and Jugal are dumb teenagers who make mistakes and stick with each other through them. I'm not entirely sure how I feel about it.

One thing that I loved the show for was that it showed us that the relationship is not all sunshine and rainbows. They argue, they break up, they get back together, and they do argue even after that. But every time, they eventually work through the issue and reconcile. The show even depicts Romil dealing with internalized homophobia and struggling to reconcile with the fact that he will never be who his family wants him to be. Although I do wish they'd have had more time to explore this, I'd say it was decently depicted and handled. The show really delves into how children are forced to uphold their family's wishes and are constantly put under pressure to make them proud. Although it clearly affects both of them, it's more obvious with Romil, who is expected by his family to date and marry the daughter of his father's boss, whom they think he is dating. There's a metaphor along this theme too, where Romil pretends to like the mango shake that his mom has been making for him since he was a kid, even though he hates it, and when he tries to tell her, he has to act like it was a joke to spare her feelings. The show also goes into the communal mindset of basing your actions off "what will people think?", and you can see how a lot of the characters' actions throughout the show are haunted by this question. Some of Romil and Jugal's earlier disagreements are due to this very mindset.

The show also very candidly depicts the extreme homophobia of society in India. Romil and Jugal had to constantly hide who they were, always having to keep up a mask and I felt that reach somewhere deep inside me. When the pair come out, the show really shows how ugly homophobia can be in India. Their parents immediately disown them. They're mocked in college and wrongfully suspended for a fight that was provoked by other students. Very, very few people stand with them, and the pair very quickly realize that now that they are out, they simply cannot live in the city anymore. So with the help of Jugal's best friend and her mother, they flee to Mumbai, where they get jobs and live as paying guests with a friend of the aforementioned mother. But, even in Mumbai, the masks stay up. They have to act like cousins, for fear of being persecuted. The series depicted the worst-case scenario that so many of us live in fear of, so watching it was something of a cathartic experience for me.

Another thing that the show did quite well is showing how different people and their mindsets can be. Jugal's best friend, Ahalya, and her mom are very supportive, and they help the pair out quite a bit. Ahalya's mother provided a safe house for the pair and helped them find a fresh start. Meanwhile, Romil and Jugal's parents are incredibly homophobic. There was a scene that really stuck with me, (mild spoiler ahead, skip to the last sentence of the paragraph) where Ahalya's mother came across Jugal's mother, who prided herself on being educated and well-read, searching up how to cure homosexuality. Ahalya's mother then tells her off for calling herself educated yet believing that homosexuality is an illness. It is so important to me that the show depicted both the violent homophobia that permeates Indian society and the surprising, warm acceptance that one can find.

One final thing that I loved about this show so, so much is just how authentically Indian it feels. Asian cultures share a lot in common, but they also have their differences, so seeing a show where I can imagine encountering the characters in real life is really amazing. Rather than something big, it was little things sprinkled throughout the story that warmed my heart. The story felt like something I could hear the local aunties gossiping about. The way it depicts queerness in India hits incredibly close to home.

One thing I've learned watching Asian bls is that the ending of a show can make it or break it, but with this one, I'm stuck. The best way I can describe the ending is absolutely insane and incredibly Bollywood.

I believe this show was supposed to get a second season because the last two minutes of the show leave us with a massive cliffhanger. Now, it's been 7 years, so a second season is unlikely, so I'm simply pretending that the last two minutes of the show never happened. But the ending has so much more to it than just this (Major spoilers for the ending up ahead. I mean it when I say major, this is like going into Bad Buddy knowing that they're going to trick their parents in the end).

About halfway through the show, I remembered what play it was based upon and realized that there was a very real possibility that Romil and Jugal would die. The first half of the last episode leads up to this, telling us that they died when reconciling after an argument in the middle of the road when they were hit by a truck. We get a super emotional scene (yes, I cried) where the two families somewhat reconcile in their grief as they go to the police station to identify the bodies. Except... they're not dead, which is revealed when Romil's father hugs Romil's (not) dead body. They reveal that they planned this to show their family that they still loved their sons. I did say it was like PatPran tricking their parents in the end, didn't I? So the families reunite, Romil and Jugal get jobs in New Zealand and get married, and return to India for a wedding celebration (yes, I cried. again). The ending does feel slightly rushed, but if I'm being honest, it wasn't as terrible as it could have been. Believing that your child is dead for a bit is a somewhat justifiable reason for a sudden change of heart. There's a part where Romil and Jugal tell their parents that if they choose acceptance, they can reconcile, but if they choose to remain prejudiced, Romil and Jugal can simply get back on the stretchers, because they'll be as good as dead to their families anyways and it is *chef's kiss*.

All in all, the show was surprisingly heartfelt and poignant. It had me laughing, kicking my feet and even crying. There's a lot more about this show that I could talk about, but I'm going to stop here for now, and I'll try to write more on it later. This show really does deserve more recognition than it has, and I'm almost mad at myself for not knowing about it before. Am I being really biased when talking about this show? Absolutely. But I do think that this show is a worthwhile watch, and I'd really like to see what other people on here think of the show, especially because I'm aware that I am biased towards this show.

I'm tagging a few people who I know might be interested/have some thoughts about the show because this is a show that I really want to hear other people's opinions on and have conversations about, so I hope you guys don't mind!

@waitmyturtles @lurkingshan @bengiyo @neuroticbookworm

[i-got-the-feels]

Romil's mom reading the texts on his phone when he is sleeping is sooooo relatable

[iseeyousworld]

OMFG INDIA HAS A BL.

Other than SMZS that is.

And i will never shut up about how it is so fucking similar to BB. The only difference is it's friends to lovers bc literally everything else is almost the same.

Secret relationship , secret pining , specified gay character, Romeo and Juliet plot (but also has homophobic parents and it's done rather realistically ngl)

Hell , even BB Moments are in there. Winking=flirting , pinkie touch , balcony (rooftop) is the site of the first kiss

We even have a supportive friend and her mom is AWESOME. She did so much for them when they needed support and i agree with her on a spiritual level on everything she said. Meher you have a really cool mom

AND they talk and practise safe sex. UGH never thought I'd see smth like that in India anytime soon.

And coming from someone who watched the entire thing without having to read the subtitles for once in my life , the acting and chemistry is pretty good. Much more than what i expected really

It's not that long , about as much as Light on me ( nearly 4 hours) but i watched it in one sitting even tho i have school tmr. God help me but i have no regrets.

AND THE PLOT TWIST. OH THE GODDAMN PLOT TWIST. THAT JUST PUT THE LAST NAIL IN THE COFFIN FOR ME. ROMIL AND JUGAL= INDIAN BAD BUDDY WITH EXTRA ANGST

Basically , it's not amazing , but it is pretty damn good. And especially taking into consideration the fact that this is prolly India's first actual bl series that ticks all boxes to count as bl. If people keep making stuff like this , i have hope that India will enter the bl game

(but please keep in mind the bar is gonna be really low for expectations. Don't expect bad buddy level stuff from it since you won't get it. Bad Buddy came around after nearly 7-8 years since bl got popular. It was better than I thought India was capable of making and that's what I mean to say)

[starryalpacasstuff]

Absolutely BEAUTIFUL additions by Tel and Turtles, you guys really get it. It's so true that it would be a very, very long time before Ming and Dissaya accept PatPran's relationship being out in the open, because that would mean having to acknowledge that their families are now linked. And the Dissaya we saw in the series would likely rather die than have Ming as a family member. I love the point about how families tend to accept but not acknowledge spouses, which honestly often applies beyond spouses as well. I really like the idea of the melancholic note of Pat and Pran waiting for Ming and Dissaya to pass away before getting married; I myself have always known that I'm most likely going to have to wait for my grandparents to pass before getting married, so that totally resonates with me.

However, if we are to consider how PatPran could have a wedding with their parents present (because I completely agree that there is very little chance that Pran would ever agree to get married without his parents present) there are infinite possibilities and I'm having a blast coming up with them.

In most QLs where we see strict family members coming around, it's usually because they realize just how much they're hurting their children by their ideals. GAP the series is an example, and so is Romil and Jugal, Bad Buddy's forgotten older cousin (a romeo and juliet inspired indian bl that I've talked about here). I think, that PatPran might try to ask permission to marry. This would take place years into the future, obviously, and at this point the parents' knowledge of their relationship is more of an open secret. Pat likely convinces Pran to give it a shot. Both parents would obviously refuse, but at this point I think it'll be more because they believe that giving their blessings will mean that they 'lose' the rivalry. Them 'losing face' would be the primary motivator in all this. But, I think that, much like in the og series, Ming and Dissaya eventually come around. Somewhere along the way, they realize that if they don't give permission for this marriage, they will never get to see their sons get married. I think that the point about kids that @waitmyturtles mentioned could really come in here as well. This, I think, would be particularly devastating for Dissaya, since, like you guys mentioned, Pran is her only child, and hence her only chance at seing her child married and having grandkids. And perhaps, if, due to some miracle, they get really mature and/or their respective partners talk to them, they may even realize what @telomeke said about PatPran getting married anyway after they die. This would probably be the final nail in the coffin that leads to an unnecessarily dramatic standoff between the two that ends with them agreeing to let the boys get married through gritted teeth.

Really, I think that all it would take for Ming and Dissaya to agree would be for them to learn that the other is also willing to allow the marriage. This makes me think of a hijinky situation wherein Pat and Pran just straight up lie to their parents (they've done it before it is not that hard) and tell them that the other has agreed to let them get married. I rather doubt that either would ever try fact checking because god forbid the two have a civil conversation. And so, believing themselves to be the 'victor' of the feud, they 'graciously' give permission for the wedding. Now, PatPran are no newbies, and they'd probably prepared everything in advanced, so they're married before anyone even gets a little suspicious.

Another scenario is one where PatPran take a page out of Romil and Jugal's book, and have their wedding, and tell their parents that they're welcome to come, but the marriage is happening either way. Obviously, this is highly unlikely but it may be made possible if PatPran see/hear of an older couple doing something similar, particularly if they're encouraged by Ink and Pa.

It will not be easy for Pat and Pran to get married. It would be even harder for them to get married with their parents present. But it is so cool to imagine all the scenarios that could play out in their story post-marriage equality!

Wonderful day in Thailand. but now for the important questions. Of all the ql thai couples, who's the first to go down the aisle? Like they are counting the minutes and have everything planned out?

Rose💜

KaranAchi, way ahead of the pack (THE INVITES HAVE ALREADY GONE OUT),

followed closely by KingUea, riding on King’s energy, who picked out the ring mentally when he saw those cat ears and managed just a gorgeous proposal, with parents and all. The aunties have already been rubbing their hands together, they need a wedding now.

I think Tharn and Type either tie or gently follow KingUea, because Type legit shaved his head and eyebrows to become a monk to make his folks happy before forever committing to Tharn in TT2.

I think the Cutie Pie dudes wait a while because they already had a ceremony, and it would look just gauche to have ANOTHER event where people would bring MORE gifts, dahling, can you imagine.

Tian and Phupha: the arguments for where and when to have the wedding would take so long that the divorce rate for Thai LGBTQ+ weddings would be higher than the marriage rate at that point.

You know who I wanna throw in here? Phat and Saengtai from La Pluie. Tai MOVED TO CHIANG MAI to be with Phat. He made the move! He moved for his man. I think they’re considering permanence. Phat’s probably thinking of something that involves cute aminals.

I really want to think on the younger dudes, but they’d need time to get more mature — the PeteKaos, the FrameBooks. Frame is chaos enough to maybe drag Book to Vegas to shotgun it, but I think Book’s too hesitant. They also need to go to college. Did AePete talk about “forever” in Love By Chance? I can’t remember. I’d LOVE an AePete wedding, Ae was so whipped.

I haven’t finished GAP yet, so I don’t know if I throw SamMon in here. And let me dream that of all the fucking ridiculous couples of Only Friends, that YoPlug were the best and most communicative of the two minutes that we had them, and we need to see Jennie Panhan go down a motherfucking aisle. IN A GMMTV SHOW.

And my heart hurts a touch for the dudes that can’t get married, like PatPran (parents) and ThunMed (the legislation doesn’t cover ghosts).

Now to think about who would get divorced first…

[arkwardroseentertainment]

Romil and Jugal has to be one of my top bl series from Indian thus far. When I first found out about it while looking for some new LGBT dramas to watch months ago, at first I was skeptical. Because my heart was broken by an Indian bl movie that left me hanging but tempted by the description of it I gave it a chance. And it didn't disappoint.

Touching on how being gay in india's like, being in love with your guy friend and the parents opinion on it. However, it took me on an emotional rollercoaster that had me on my toes and unable to look away.

I'd recommend anyone interested in bl or LGBT dramas to watch, if you're up for it. I was still thinking about and I knew I had to post about it. I guess that's all I have to say or I'll end up spoiling it being the emotional cancer I am. 😅

[jtmarx]

Guess who found a new bl show with a gay disaster protagonist!!

It's me.