#Romantic Life

[mrgrim]

[erigcore]

Day 13 of building a disciplined life

It’s difficult and not everybody can do it ~ That’s why i do it

[o-vinto-nella-mia-vita]

today in pinterest pictures, day 1

3rd September, 2024

[rexxdjarin]

also ok I’m just gonna do this here bc no one else irl really talks to me anymore and please don’t think I’m shallow but like

I feel like I’m at the point where I can’t tell if I’m actually pretty anymore or if I ever was lmao because like since no one ever shows any interest in me romantically (they never have) or sexually (this is more recent) it’s made me feel so self-conscious and unattractive. like to the point that my once highly confident personality is honestly kind of gone. I don’t feel like anyone ever pays me any attention. At least no one that I think is attractive. And since I only seem to attract people I don’t find attractive it makes me feel even worse about myself.

I feel like I’ve now spent so long not being desired by anyone that I can’t tell where I stand with people. Am I unattractive? Is that it? Is that why I feel like I’m the most unnoticed person alive? I genuinely don’t know what the reason is. And everyday I scratch my head trying to figure out what’s wrong and I can never find the answer.

And I’m sad because my self-confidence has taken so many hits I just feel like I don’t exist sometimes. I worry I may have been operating under a false belief that I was better looking than I actually am and maybe that’s the problem? I literally don’t know.

I’m just feeling sad because I’ve always been the one no one notices and I thought in college and a little after I’d actually made progress and that things were getting better and now I feel exactly like I did in high school. I’m sad that I feel like how I felt about myself was a lie.

[kensanwrites]

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[aleesabella]

IG/ jenniferauada

[pythiaswine]

you know in like fictional stories when the character craves love and you're like STOP MAKING THIS COMPLICATED AND JUST ACCEPT THE LOVE THAT'S IN FRONT OF YOU, BITCH!!! because as soon as they get close to someone they're like "I can't love you! well um because.....": I'm going to hurt you/you'll hurt me/what if this isn't true love/I'm scared of physical intimacy/if we consummate our romantic love with sex then we're going to break up because you won't love me anymore/if we consummate our sexual relationship with romance we're going to break up because you won't love me anymore/you're going to hate me when you get to know me/even if you love me now you could fall out of love any day/you are going to leave me idc what you say

ueah so over this past year i've actuallt found out that that is me irl unfortunately

[girly-wirly]

[spookyshea5]

Guys I'm not gonna lie, I really romanticized school because like, what is this shit? Wdym I have to actually do work and deal with all of the sexist guys who think its funny to torture girls? Like, this was supposed to be fun. This is not fun.

[stingrayextraordinaire]

Romanticized Asks Challenge

Thank you, anonymous friend, for your kind words and for sending me this challenge! I apologize that it’s taken me so long to get it done, but I wanted to be thorough and I haven’t had too much time recently to work on it :) These are such beautiful concepts, and I had a blast thinking through them!

I’m going to tag a few people who I know also enjoy fantasy (@valiantarcher, @moonlightandstarshimmer​, @effulgentpoet​, @amiablesummer​, @velizaray​), but please don’t feel pressured to do it since it’s such a massive challenge. If anyone else sees this and would like to participate as well, please feel free! :)

1. if you were to have Hanahaki disease, what flowers would you cough up?

Probably either cherry blossoms or tiger lilies!

2. if someone were to catch Hanahaki disease for you, what flowers would they cough up?

As a reversal, either orange blossoms or white lilies!

3. if you were any historic trope, what would you be? (i.e., the knight, the town baker, the witch of the forest, etd.)

I think I would be the village scribe or librarian. Anything where I’m reading or writing mysteriously :D But if I could be a fantasy-style character, I’d be a faerie in the forest, living behind a waterfall and enchanting travelers with a siren voice!

4. tell us about your ideal battle outfit.

Mandalorian armor, but decorated with some light blue painted designs and some excellent Star Wars style weapons!

5. what would you be a goddess of and what would people sacrifice to you?

I would be a sea goddess, with seashells braided into my hair and a voice that could still a storm. My sacrifices would be whatever people lost into the sea.

6. name five iconic quotes that make you feel things.

“It's a dangerous business, Frodo, going out your door. You step onto the road, and if you don't keep your feet, there's no knowing where you might be swept off to.” — The Fellowship of the Ring, J.R.R. Tolkien

“Years have gone, but the pain is the same. I have passed my days by the sound of your name. Well, they say that you're gone and that I should move on. I wonder, how do they know? Well, they don’t.” — “In the Wind,” Lord Huron

“I did not know, until then, that you could disappear into someone's gaze, that bone and heart and breath could melt like shadow into light, until only light was left.”  — Winter Rose, Patricia A. McKillip

“I’ll never burn as brilliantly as you. It’s only fair that I should be the one to chase you across ten, twenty-five, a hundred lifetimes, until I find the one where you’ll return to me.” — “25 Lives,” Tongari

“I spent my entire life waiting for you, and I didn't even know it until you arrived. Being burned was the best thing that ever happened to me because it brought you. I wanted to die, but you filled me with so much love that it overflowed, and I couldn't help but love you back. It happened before I even knew it, and now I can't imagine not loving you. You have said that it takes so much for me to believe anything, but I do believe. I believe in your love for me. I believe in my love for you. I believe that every remaining beat of my heart belongs to you, and I believe that when I finally leave this world, my last breath will carry your name. I believe that my final word — Marianne — will be all I need to know that my life was good and full and worthy, and I believe that our love will last forever.” — The Gargoyle, Andrew Davidson

7. scythe, battle axe, broad sword, spear, or trident?

Trident!

8. what combination of natural scents would you use as perfume?

Vanilla, honeysuckle, and sea salt!

9. ancient scrolls or leather-bound books?

Leather-bound books!

10. describe yourself as if you were a storm.

“A deep murmur of thunder billowed across the horizon, blanketed by the warm spring air and the canopy of willow trees that were whipped into a frenzy. The power of the storm — the kind that sends an anticipatory chill down a person’s spine — promised unforgiving winds, fierce streaks of light, a blessed cool downpour that would bring life as easily as it would take.”

11. what type of flower (other than a rose) would you offer someone you were trying to court?

Either a camellia or a bouquet of peonies!

12. honey in milk or cinnamon in tea?

Cinnamon in tea (or milk)!

13. cabin in the woods, apartment in the city, or mansion in the suburbs?

Cabin in the woods! Though it really would be more of a cottage.

14. curtains of beads or lace?

Curtains of lace!

15. vocal or instrumental music?

Depends on what mood I’m in because I love both, but I listen to vocal music most often!

16. describe your ideal fantasy outfit.

A light blue and white peasant dress, an embroidered apron, a navy blue cloak, sturdy hiking boots, and white flowers braided into my hair.

17. of all the fantasy races to ever exist, which one would you be?

I think I would be a mermaid, but being an elf sounds lovely, too!

18. hard candy, fruit preserves, or spice cake?

Fruit preserves, preferably cherry or strawberry!

19. show us a picture of your ideal crown.

20. tying your hair up using ribbon, yay or nay?

YAY! A white or dark blue velvet ribbon, if we’re getting specific.

21. an evening in the forest with elves, a night in the caves with vampires, or a morning in the garden with fae?

An evening in the forest with elves!

22. tell us, in detail, about a curse a witch would put on you.

I think I would be cursed with something I would fear the most, like eternal isolation, losing my true love, or being cut off from all knowledge. As such, I think the curse would involve putting me in some kind of eternal, empty, isolated prison (like Rapunzel’s tower or an impenetrable labyrinth) from which there was no escape. That would cut me off from any hope of finding my true love or any friendships, and I would be completely cut off from any form of learning. If the witch really wanted to ruin me, she would curse me to have my mind destroyed by insanity or forgetfulness, which would be like a living death.

23. talking with sylphs or singing with nymphs?

Singing with nymphs!

24. mint, rosemary, basil, or sage?

Rosemary or basil! I use both every time I cook pasta :)

25. favorite childhood story? (doesn’t have to be a fairy tale)

“The Wild Swans” was my favorite fairytale, but the legends of “Lohengrin the Swan Knight” and “The Lady of Shalott” were fascinating to me. Favorite ballet was “Swan Lake.” Favorite short story was “The Lady or the Tiger,” which haunts me to this day. Favorite not-fairytale was “The Ugly Duckling” (not the Hans Christian Andersen story, but the uproariously funny play by A.A. Milne).

26. tell us about an experience you’ve had that seemed unreal or supernatural. (doesn’t have to be scary)

When I was younger, I worked at a historical museum and saw a ghostly 19th-century woman looking at me from the window of the old house (which was completely locked up and off-limits to anyone). My sister and I both saw her, so I know it wasn’t just my imagination.

Furthermore, the upstairs of my family’s house all through my childhood and teen years was and is undoubtedly haunted, so I have plenty of scary experiences from that.

27. would you rather have poison or healing ointment in your traveling pack?

It really would depend on who I was traveling with... but I would probably take the healing ointment since you never know when you might need to heal yourself or someone you meet. If you need to hurt someone, poison is just one option. Ointment may be the only option to save your life.

28. tell us three sayings that you live by.

“People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”

“If you run with the dogs, you’re bound to get fleas.”

“Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.”

29. vials or mason jars?

Mason jars! But I have seen some absolutely lovely vials, so I could make an exception.

30. describe your ideal masquerade ball outfit (mask included).

A midnight blue ball gown with cap sleeves, a sweetheart neckline, and a full skirt. The entire dress is embroidered with tiny silver stars and diamonds, making it look like I’m wearing the night sky. I would have my hair swept up with a silver tiara and silver star accessories, and I would wear opera-length black silk gloves, star-inspired jewelry, and midnight blue dancing slippers. My mask would be deep blue to match my dress, but instead of stars, it would be trimmed with black lace and tiny silver diamonds.

31. splashing around in a river with mermaids or flying through the sky with harpies?

Splashing in a river with mermaids!

32. what would you end up in the dungeon for?

A forbidden romance with a member of the royal family... or possibly stealing a book from the king’s library...

33. if you were a fairy, what color would your wings be?

An iridescent blend of royal blue, gold, black, and silver!

34. if you could have any magical item, what would it be?

I would love to have a magical globe that would let me see what I needed to see, anywhere in the past, present, or future.

35. what song would the bards sing about you when you passed by?

A song about a girl who could spin magic by storytelling, painting pictures in the sky with her words and breathing life into ink on paper.

36. would you rather be a pirate or a king/queen?

I would be a pirate as long as it didn’t involve killing and robbing innocent people, but since that’s what pirates do, I would choose to be a queen.

37. would you spend more time in the field of flowers, the tavern, the docks, or the marketplace?

I would be evenly split between the field of flowers and the docks!

38. would you have a painting of yourself?

I might have a painting of myself if I were doing something I enjoyed or if I were with someone I loved.

39. what skill are you famous for?

People are always surprised to learn that I speak Scottish Gaelic, have done ballet all my life, and know a lot of random trivia.

40. if you could live any fairy tale, which one would you?

“Beauty and the Beast” would be my first choice, but “The Wild Swans,” “The Twelve Dancing Princesses,” and “East of the Sun, West of the Moon” are high on the list.

41. stained glass windows or fairy lights?

Fairy lights!

42. what kind of snow globe would you live inside?

A cozy cottage with a brick chimney, a painted wooden door, and window boxes full of flowers. The cottage would be surrounded by a garden of flowers and plants in every color, paved with a cobblestone path and leading to a wishing well crystal-clear water and trimmed with roses.

43. what animal would you be reincarnated as?

Either a fish or a songbird! Though quite possibly a garden snake or a wild cat.

44. lost at sea or lost in space?

Lost in space! I adore the sea, but I don’t want to get lost in it.

45. if you could have a scar in any shape, what would it be?

In the shape of a swan!

46. what celestial body would you write a hymn to?

Certainly the moon, which I have always loved to study and look at!

47. describe a potion you would brew, complete with ingredients and desired effect.

I would brew a potion that would allow me to produce light and warmth. My ingredients would be warm goat milk, forest mushrooms, melted candle wax, three eyelashes from a lamplighter, ten strands of wool, powdered sunstone, and a spoonful of cinnamon.

48. flying ship or underwater home?

Underwater home!

49. if you were a nature spirit, what season would you dwell in?

Autumn! Though I think I would enjoy any season, really.

50. if you could haunt any place as a ghost, what would it be?

I think I would haunt the seashore at twilight, appearing on the edge of the sea foam and at the mouth of sea caves, waving at sailors and swimmers before vanishing with the last ray of the sun.

[mrgrim]

[erigcore]

Day 12 of building a disciplined life

Life is pretty

[samparadise21]

“The real love is pure and last forever.”

~ Sam

[groovygrumpygoose]

I am so glad that in this life, I get to love you. Even when my heart is so so sad, I get to have space for you. Even when my bones are tired and my soul is aching, I am fortunate enough to be loved so sweetly. You are serendipity. Easy to love. Man, I am Feeling so incredibly grateful tonight.

[thewidowbailey]

I just realized I don't develop crushes on people as much as I identify people I feel safe around and glom on to them.

I am 30 years old and just realized this.