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mavkarants · 2 years ago

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The lesbian experience of falling for your best friend and her sleeping with her boyfriend for the first time ever and that causing you to cry and feel like shit because you really love her and have loved her since grade six. Knowing that she will never feel the same way about you.

And whats worse is you are 1000% alone in this cause she is your best friend and your family is homophobic and you would be an ass and would ruin your friendship if you told her. And the guy actually treats her well so you can't shit talk him either.

And ofc she claims to also like girls but you know she doesn't and she only says that cause it's trendy to hate hetero women even tho she is one. And she makes it hurt worse by pretending to like girls cause your brain is already trying to hurt you more by over thinking about small simple things.

✨ Lesbian Suffering ✨

#Radfem lesbian #radles #radical lesbian rant #radical lesbian #female homosexual #female homosexuality #Real lesbian experiance #real lesbian

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nyxxx6 · 9 months ago

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Sexy right? 🖤😋🥵❤️‍🔥

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zyn0nn · 4 months ago

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One of my favorite parts of Ever After High is Apple being dramatic and having a breakdown every episode

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rouge-the-bat · 29 days ago

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when i see people against using the term transandrophobia its all "just men trying to steal the spotlight from women again" "trans men just keep bandwagoning on things trans women are already doing" "they dont experience things as badly as trans women do" "terfs focus more on trans women so we should be talking just about that" "theyre just using this to say that TRANS WOMEN are their opressors!! its just transmisogyny!" "a bunch of TME people and theyfabs trying to say they have it worse"

then i see people that actually talk about transandrophobia and theyre just. in their own communities discussing the problems they face, trying to get people to not completely ignore their issues, and that they deserve to be treated decently and not as evil or that theyve become worse or betraying women for transitioning into their proper gender.

i think yall who hate these discussions are just falling into queer terminology discourse and oppression olympics and infighting (and radfem juice for sure), all of which we say again and again does nothing but help people that want all of us dead. this shit is stupid as fuck

#btw im not a trans woman or trans man nor am i cis. im genderfluid #and as a bi lesbian who was making informative and positive posts for bi lesbianism at the height of the hate towards that #please ! calm the fuck down! stop infighting! this shit is ridiculous!#transandrophobia #anytime i see people post an article or something explaining against transandrophobia #its just FILLED with just dismissive and insulting shit #like damn yalls ''incredibly good reasonings'' against the term #feels one moment away from just saying ''trans men are just a bunch of whiny babies''#its gross as fuck #yall have GOT to stop treating your fellow queers as punching bags and lesser than you and never experiences Real Problems #btw if you use the term ''theyfab'' i hope you break your neck #you are a transphobe flat out if you use that. no matter what identity you are

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kaseykeii · 8 months ago

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Would you let me call you mine ?❤️🥰

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uncanny-tranny · 6 months ago

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What some people don't realize is that some trans people don't know they were trans as kids, but not for the reasons you might think...

Like when I was a kid, I would watch movies with women in them and I'd be like, "okay, I guess I'm a straight guy. These are very heterosexual feelings," and that was the end of it. What I didn't think was that that made me trans, because as far as I cared, I started life as a straight little boy.

#trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #mtf #nonbinary #my first 'celebrity crush' that i can remember clearly was kristen stewart too #it was specifically when she played the sister character in Zathura (2005)#don't rag on me i was like... a child #i knew i was straight before anything #nowadays i see myself as equally gay and straight (i use bi because it's more understandable for putsiders but it isn't Me per se)#if you're a real one you get exactly how i feel #i think this is a funny experience of mine so hey #i never identified as a lesbian - i always saw myself forst and foremost as a Man or even a Guy #not to say that those are always diametrically opposed but for my own self it was because it wasn't my identity Ever

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princessefemmelesbian · 8 months ago

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Transandrophobia truthers are so damn racist and white oh my fucking god y'all actually piss me the fuck off every time you tokenize Black and brown men for your stupid as fuck "mra but make it trans-inclusive" ideology created by a creepy guy with a corrective rape fetish(something I'll never let up on for as long as I live, btw). If I ever see another one of y'all say "Black and brown men face discrimination because they're seen as overly masculine and that's why masculinity in men is oppressed in this society" I will literally kill myself. Stop using Black and brown men as brownie points for your bullshit arguments about misandry being real when you don't have the slightest idea how racialized oppression works. White boys are so annoying and dumb istfg.

@punkeropercyjackson @punknicodiangelo @pinkpinkstarlet

#like none of the dumbasses i've seen say this shit have been poc and HEY IT'S ALMOST LIKE THERE'S A REASON FOR THAT #because actual black and brown men know that their oppression is not based around masculinity but around RACISM #because if it was about masculinity then feminine men of color wouldn't face the same oppression and would be privileged over them which #is not true #it's also worth mentioning that black and brown WOMEN also face these same issues of being seen as more aggressive/strong/violent and thus #more dangerous even more so than our male counterparts so it's not an 'anti-masculinity' issue it's a fucking racism issue #plus once again feminine women of color also face these stereotypes #when we are masculinized even while presenting as feminine that isn't anti-masculinity you dumb fucks that's just racialized misogyny #and misogynoir #it is incredibly telling that white transmascs who use this argument never even mention women of color and that's because if they did then #their entire headass argument would fall apart because it's not about MASCULINITY being oppressed it's about RACISM(which newsflash women #experience too) and masculinity being assumed of black and brown people(women included) is just another facet of the white supremacist #gender binary not any form of masculinity being 'oppressed' in this society lol #don't even get me started on how these men misuse butch lesbians in their arguments as well and act like they are man-lite ugh #sorry but as a black woman i am officially pissed off rbn #like y'all love to spout 'intersectionality' and shit maybe *throws book at them* ACTUALLY READ UP AND LEARN WHAT THE FUCK IT MEANS #stop misusing words created by black women to prove that men are an oppressed group on god you mfers are annoying #anyway the lesson learned here is that white trans men are just as insipid and racist as their cis counterparts #pos the lot of you #racism #transandrophobia is not real #op

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our-lesbian-experience · 10 days ago

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the lesbian experience is forgetting that people like boys until you hear somebody gushing over one

HELP

#our-lesbian-experience #asks #so real tbh. this is probably also the arospec part of me but i hear people talking abt their crushes on boys and im just. huh.

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envolvenuances · 6 months ago

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lesbian masterdoc and the unforgivable damage of making people hear compulsory heterosexuality and think of "can lesbians have crushes on men?" (no) instead of "are heterosexual women settling in unhappy marriages with men bellow their worth because of economic and social pressure?" (yes)

#not claiming the theory was without flaws but it sure didn't describe some virus mental affliction that exclusively plagues lesbians #for starters the theory was primarily about marriage. so it did recognise the historical fact of lesbians forced into marriage to avoid #honor killings and the still present possibility and threats especially when it comes to cults and strong religions #(once again mentioning as a Jeová's witness in a brazilian periphery my girlfriend accepted the tool of losing her entire family and social #circles to reject an arranged marriage at the age of 17. and she's bisexual. but THAT is what compulsory heterosexuality alludes to)#but more often than not when it addressed lesbians it was as the inherent threat they pose to heteropatriarchy #that they mere existence proved women were not all born to serve men. and that their lives often proved women are much happier and #accomplished when away from the burden of men.#and this acknowledging just how much loneliness was a reality through lesbian's experiences #at the same time I can understand the frustration of that feminist theory being reduced to 'comphet is when lesbians in high school were #pressured into picking one of the Backstreet Boys to lie about finding attractive'. and even more so when that non universal and much less #serious example somehow morphed into 'comphet is when bisexual women either lying or confused about being lesbians have sex with men and #find it unfulfilling' because accepting that narrative erases and harms lesbians #so I understand the 'comphet isn't real' posts especially because written like that it tends to refer to lesbian masterdoc and following #fiasco. but at the same time that wasn't the original intent of compulsory heterosexuality the actual feminist term #this is just me complaining about how social media butchers theory tho unless they are specifically naming Rich and the many other feminist #who wrote about heterosexual marriage as an institution I won't bother lesbians for venting frustration about neoliberal erasure of lesbian #the original theory sure didn't claim lesbians were immune to all this misogynistic violence but the term was never exclusively about them #and tended to ask more of 'where do we stand as women and feminists as a group much more interested in destroying heterosexual marriage than #simply making it more bearable?'#this got a little messy and senseless I'm tired #.txt

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tae-shimura-is-my-wife · 1 month ago

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That's it now people are saying that bimisogyny it's actually misdirected lesbophobia...

#bimisogyny #biphobia #the term was created to talk about the intersection of biphobia + misogyny that we suffer #but nooo #actually the bi in the term is just a decoration #it was never about bisexuals #what's up with people obsession of excluding us of everything?#including terms created by us to talk about our experiences?#i'm so damn tired #how is saying that disgusting bihets and their bfs destroy the queer community #an attack on lesbians?#from the same creators of #biphobia doesn't exist it's just homophobia #“but terfs accuse lesbians they don't like of being bi!”#yeah bc they're biphobic😭#they think using bi women as an insult isn't biphobia apparently #bi women being seen as lesser women in everything especially queerness is actually because people hate lesbians?#lesbophobia is very real and is a serious issue #don't get me wrong #but it's a specific and separated form of bigotry with different origins #don't erase our struggles as bi women in order to discuss it #this is harmful #we always have the short end of stick sigh

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mabaris · 5 months ago

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no youre completely right - im a gay (trans)man and i legit wanna see so much more about the women bc There Is So Little. I wanna make a lesbian oc who gets bent in half by taash. im very normal.

i’m just tired man!!!! it feels so obvious how disproportionate it is when you’ve got. a cast of characters that we know almost equally little about. and a few of them explode in popularity and it’s like spongebob sticking his hand out the curtain. literally all a character needs to do numbers is to be a light-skinned man

#like you bring up taash!! we know equally little abt taash and emmrich. why is one FUCKING EVERYWHERE and i’m like. scrounging for scraps #sometimes i feel like there has to be a secret other main dragon age tag that has the real stuff in it #but maybe it’s just the tumblr userbase idfk #i feel like i’ve seen a little bit more of neve since the trailer but still not anything on the level as everyone’s fave boys #and before you hit me with ‘lucanis was in a couple short stories’ harding was in the literal entire last game. and she and neve had comics #there’s obviously something to be said about character types too. a lot of people love dark and broody #vs harding keeps getting described as Girl Next Door and that’s much less popular. fine i’m not going to argue abt individual tastes #but like. neve isn’t popping off??? on the columbo fansite????#everyone’s talking about emmrich’s experiments and research but no one talks about bellara’s??#like personally. ok. lesbian opinion so take that for what it’s worth. but i don’t understand all the lucanis thirst #davrin i could understand. davrin can get it. he gets way fewer thirstposts than the other men (hmmm interesting im sure it’s nothing 🙃)#i’m just like. tired. i don’t want to say people can’t enjoy what they’re excited about #but it adds up!#i feel guilty complaining when i am also not doing a lot of Female Character Poasting but like #there’s only so much i can do as someone who can’t draw and has been too busy to keep on top of all the breaking news

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nyxxx6 · 9 months ago

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can cute girls be strong too? 💕

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kaseykeii · 9 months ago

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Zipped up or zipped down? 😉😉😉

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oatmealcrisp-freak · 22 days ago

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unpopular opinion - the ddlc girls are great and i love them and its totally understandable why everyone loves them - theyre incredibly well written in so many ways - but

i want more protag-kun content also :(

#he's got a character arc too!!!! cmon :(#monika and the player are using protag-kun as a window to view each other how does this level of existential horror #in addition to everything he sees happen when shit gets fucky #not get more attention #like he starts off as a dick and with the support of the girls gradually opens up to show a caring sweet and mischevious side #and then BAM. trauma conga-line #and based on how ambivalent about everything - even bitter - at the start #just not interested in anything or anyone #i wouldnt be shocked if he has some depression going on there too - which starts to lighten with the power of friendship - only...... :"(#i cant get over how he was just. stuck in that classroom for that entire weekend with yuri's body. thanks to monika screwing with the code #like. what must that have been like.#ofc everyone is rightly interested in the sheer power of sapphism going on here but he can like. be there as a pet or something a;dkfa #team lesbian mascot - the generiboy lmao #ill grant i havent looked at the fic just the fanart tho #like hes not just a blank wall. he reacts based on his personality and experiences and the cause and effect #hes just as real as the girls even if he is protag-kun #the realization that he only exists to be projected upon too as monika and player are having that conversation...... man #especially with so many of his decisions being controlled by the player #its extra free-will commentary #hell make her trans and boom now theyre ALL lesbians #the other club members were just preordering lmao

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nerdychildqueen · 8 months ago

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Keep your face always toward the sunshine, and shadows will fall behind you.

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agentperezbian · 1 year ago

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This is a totally cool and not at all lesbophobic thing to say

#like yeah it's not the gayest thing ever some people are overreacting. who cares #lesbians get literally nothing from the media that is anything close to the real experience #especially gnc lesbians #i think the crazy thing is how many people seem to be incapable of being normal about how they used to id as lesbian #it's always gotta be some shit like this #lesbian

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