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Hello hello!!! Guess what. Yokai art dump below the cut!! So cool and shiny wow
Its true, I do >u<
I'll try and section these and give the usual explanations below! Image ID for more drawing specific inksplanation.
Click for full image! Since a lotta these are weirdly shaped they were cut off....augh...
McKraken and Maddiman related doodlesssss they're some of my faves <3 i will always love them even if they're not my focus characters atm (well. McKraken kinda is rn but also Babblong so YAY)
Misc. Yokai and ocs! The frog is Kerosque, the guy w the swirly pompadour thing is Swiss, and the monkey is Romono (although he's a Regretevator OC from FOREVER ago, he's still my son <33)
SWISS STUFF RAUGHHHH ! inconsistent style will be APPARENT here try not to notice shuhhhhhgh
Height for main yokai in my AU/on Casp's team! (In the anime it's just primary summons then wwwww)
Some yokai practice/design hcs bc my friend asked!! I was so happy to share 🤭 LOVE YOU CHERCHERRRR
Some of my little guys once more! Rawry' prob one of my faves yokai to draw, easy and fun to do show-accurate or stylized.
OCSSSSSS. AND BADDINYAN. MY EVIL CAT <3333 the guy next to the frog in the middle is an oc idea but idk for what yet =▽=
AUGH. THERES AN IMAGE LIMIT? Well in case you're wondering it's 30....post the rest after I get tomorrow's doodles. See you then and thank you for looking at and reading about my arts!
#Also this is me just rambling now but like where would I be without commas and parenthesis? I love using them#...as I'm sure you've noticed. But that jusy proves my point!!!#I've been so insane about drawing recently like I will sit down and fill a page or so withing like 30 minutes bc I get bored#(Idk how much that I'd in retrospect but per my usual rate that's a Lot!!)#I've been using Swiss bc I wanna decide what to do with him in the AU after Event...#I also project onto him a lot bc some of his personality really reflects my younger self#Although very traditional my mother raised me rather androgynous in terms of typical child stuff. I got to hang with boy and girl stuff so#Swiss has a few aspects of when i hadent (and admittedly still havent) really gotten past my pride or fear in favor of#Oh i don't know#Making friends??? Not being unintentionally or intentionally a jerk?#Fun little fact; it's not really that Swiss is a picky eater#But rather he has some Problems.....#Like that he's really puntable/j#Caspian has tried to have him answer. Anything without lying but unfortunately he just Does That Sometimes#Sometimes it's not even on purpose. Odd but it happens!#Anyways. I could go on and on but it's almost midnight over here....I really am.like Babblong jajaja ○u○#□ yolo watch 2!#yokai watch#●posts from yomakai#yo kai watch#I'll just tag those with at least 3 appearances methinks#Aswell as ocs bc I flatter myself!!#Caspian ykw#Swiss ykw#Kerosque#Fuwhirl#McKraken#Dr Maddiman#Baddinyan#Casanuva
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I’m a boy despite the way I choose to present
Beautiful hair ≠ femininity
Being well groomed and clean ≠ being feminine
Looking pretty ≠ being a woman
Nice and stylised nails ≠ feminine
Crop tops ≠ ‘woman’s clothes’
Being kind ≠ being a girl
Being submissive or shy ≠ being a girl
Long lashes ≠ female trait
High or squeaky voice ≠ female voice
Light colours ≠ ‘girl colours’
Nothing is inherently feminine or girly, it’s what you choose to believe.
#Ugh sick and tired of people referring to me as maam#Problem with being androgynous:’)#I can be both male or female#And yet people revert back to she/her#nonbinary#lgbtqia#transgender#genderfluid#boyflux#agender#genderqueer#bigender#androgyny#aaahhh#not a vent
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he's such a loser and i love him
#listen i know this is a shitload of OC text but i wanna talk about himmm#my man caused all his own problems and then went and made them worse. good for him#he acts like he knows everything but he's actually Stupid (and gay) (and demiro asexual)#(not enough demi/ace rep tbh. especially in the dangerous fighty guy character type)#also lots of genderqueer characters who Arent androgynous bc there's not enough of that either!! including verno#(he's agender but it doesn't really come up bc there's no modern gender politics and also he's Busy. but in my heart he is not a binary man#he's the weird overpowered guy who's hiding a lot of trauma and self-hate/guilt behind Silly Anime Sparkles#except I wanted to take aim at all my least favorite tropes with him#Love Isn't A Magic Fix for mental illness! recovery isn't linear or fast!#Guy Who Sucks And Killed Lots Of People doesn't get to white-knight his way into being their savior!#like yes he gets a redemption arc but he absolutely doesn't get to be the hero to the people he wronged. and they do not have to forgive hi#...I went skimming the book for a good scene to commission and got distracted lmao#essay over I guess#tsf#long post#oc#im so normal about him i wanna publish this so bad#but i have no idea how to write a summary
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i miss posting and making and engaging with ieytd content but I will be honest sometimes it feels alienating. as a lesbian.
#bee's buzzing#ieytd#i dont know.. its probably just me being Strange. but.#the Main guy in the fandom is juniper. and he's interesting! but. i don't... think about him as often#and when i do it's never in the shipping / x reader context i see so frequently in the tags.#i dont ship him with agent phoenix because. my agent is an it/its dyke. so i dont really engage in that side of fandom#i also dont think about the handler as often because. idk i just think about the women more!#but juniper and agent phoenix and the handler are like. the only people i see talked about often#which is fine!! people like them. i also like them just. not in the same way/to the same extent.#im here for the women. but. they're not talked about often at all :[#when they are it's usually briefly in passing.#they get the worst of the mischaracterization too imo. because people just do not give them the same depth as they like to give-#- charas like john. it makes me kinda sad tbh.#and also the fandom does not. seem to make much space for f/f content.#i know like. the handful of other people who make f/f content for ieytd.#and. god. idk im still honestly a bit ticked off by one solaris post that 1) was not a good analysis i will be quite honest.#it was very surface level. like really basic info and also iirc not entirely accurate? i cannot remember anymore#but. 2). it started by saying 'nobody talks about solaris outside of fabbylaris' and that still makes my blood boil.#like. not to vaguepost but. the fabbylaris posters ARE talking about solaris outside of a shipping context. please. please#also there was a whole Thing a while back where people started being strange about non-feminine nonbinary agent phoenix.#and as a nonbinary butch-adjacent dyke. it made my skin crawl!!! im NOT feminine and idk why making agent phoenix not feminine is.#apparently Bad to a certain subset of the fandom#sorry but im a dyke and i WILL make the player insert protag a butch lesbian who doesnt use she/her.#and if you have a problem with that please think about Why people making the player insert nonbinary and androgynous/Vaguely Masc is-#- such a problem to you. and whether that is alienating to the trans people in the fandom.#okay. im normal now. goodnight.
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🫵 PROTO-MOE SPOTTED‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
#feh#the LIPGLOSS.... okay work!!!#like i know. i know. most likely this summoner is probably meant to be a 'female' option.#but to me they're a cunty femme tguy.....#esp the energy they have. this sort of smugness and mischief.#OBVIOUSLY. not suggesting those are gendered/genderlocked traits 😭😭😭#but LIKE. to me. it's the combination of those traits w an androgynous style and just.#the cutest sweetest face w the prettiest eyes you'll ever see.#idk maybe my proclivity for pretty boys who Cause Problems is showing (ala lio fotia and venti)#funnily enough all that said i don't think moe qualifies as a pretty boy. it's more of a guything.#moe just veered waaaaay into being a fucked up scruffy creature and never looked back.#AS IS ITS RIGHT!!!!!!!!!! 😤😤😤😤😤#moe tag#summoner oc#fe kiran#technically.#kind of.#eyeing them suspiciously.
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I love that we're getting more non-binary characters in video games, especially in JRPGs and the like. My favorite hero from Xenoblade 3 is Juniper. I love them so much. And I'm also finding out Halara from Raincode has no specified gender and is referred to by "them".
#love to see it#I already see ppl having problems with Halara being 'feminine' when they're non-binary#and I don't see the problem?#I'm non-binary and I don't look androgynous#non-binary ppl don't have to look non-binary#xenoblade chronicles 3#xenoblade#master detective archives: rain code#juniper#halara nightmare#raincode#spoilers#raincode spoilers#just in case
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Google how to make peace with the fact that you will always be vaguely to extremely uncomfortable (depending on the day) with your body and how others perceive it until the day you die and nothing you do will ever change that
#I almost wish I was much more masc leaning than I am#so the answer would just simply be ‘go on t’#I keep seeing so many posts that are like hrt is good! this is your sign to go on hrt if you’ve ever wanted to!#GOD I wish I were that simple#(those aren’t bad posts that’s not the point they’re just not applicable to me and seeing the sentiment makes me sad and a bit frustrated)#(cuz for me it’s not that easy)#like are there some things T would do to my body that I would like?#yes absolutely. I would LOVE a deeper voice and fat redistribution#but like. that’s it#I would not want it to do anything else#in fact that idea of anything else and potentially ‘passing’ as a man makes me VISCERALLY uncomfortable#I do not want to be a man and I do not want ppl to perceive me as a man#but the same is true for being a woman#I do not like a lot of feminine traits but I do not want to strictly trade them for masculine ones#UNFORTINATELY you cannot pick and choose the affects of hrt#there is no way to ‘look androgynous’ (which is what I want)#(yes ik you can use shapewear and makeup and contour and that can do SOME)#(but it’s A LOT of work and effort I don’t have time or energy to do every day)#(and there’s still some things about my body I wouldn’t be able to alter doing stuff like that)#and it’s like sure I could go on T. but I’d still have this problem just the opposite direction#and it. sucks#it sucks so hard knowing there’s literally no conceivable way I will ever just have a body#that correlates to how I feel gender wise and will get people to ‘gender me correctly’#just based on how I look#and it’s something I’ve been thinking about recently a lot and it’s making me FHDJDKKSSKKSKS in a bad way#I know it’s cuz it’s pride month and I follow A LOT of trans ppl#who are posting trans pride and hrt and surgery info and stuff#(and obviously these are all very good things as I said)#it’s just. because of my particular situation they make me feel… bad#because I won’t ever have an option to be comfortable and happy with how I look lol
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everyone keeps misgendering me and it's half funny and half exhausting. like at this point do I need to cut my hair short and go back to being cis?
I mean the feminine part of me is glad that I pass? I guess? but like. I would prefer to only pass as feminine when I'm doing it on purpose. I know clothes don't make the gender but when even men's clothes don't make me look male what tf do I do?
the woman giving me the xray asked when my last period was. like. cmon. I said "uh... I don't have those?" and she nodded and asked "when did you get your hysterectomy?" like. I'm sorry miss I know it's confusing but. I was born with different hardware than that.
I know my hair is long and my name is masculine and the natural assumption is I legally changed it. but I haven't!
#do I stop estrogen and cut my hair and throw away my dresses?#or do I shave off my goatee and pad my bra and up my spironolactone dosage?#or do I fully legally change my name and gender marker and get that surgery I want#there's no room for ambiguity here and I'll never pass as a recognizable gender to the vast majority of people anyway#but I can't just go back in the closet easily — I'm too visibly trans!#but it causes problems when I try to pass as male bc if I'm at the doctor or pharmacy nobody believes I'm me#OR — and this happens all the time — they assume I'm transmasculine#why is there no room in our society for androgynous gender-neutral cis men who take estrogen and get bottom surgery and have long hair?!#sorry I'm being unreasonable#delete later#maybe
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just saw someone say anti masculinity in queer spaces wasn't real because men aren't oppressed ... my brother in christ trans women and butches are the main victims. this is a misogyny problem first and foremost absolutely
#do people just suddenly forget how trans women are treated if they dont pass or are butch themselves!!!!#or how butches are constantly excluded from lesbian spaces#like dont tell me u havent seen the historical bias towards femme lesbians#like this is misogyny ! this is a misogyny problem !#even when trans men are mistreated it usually comes from a place of misogyny#'why did you give up being a woman to be a gross hairy man!'#meanwhile androgynous and more feminine trans men are more visible#if you are masculine in a gnc way you are excluded. period. sorry#yo from yoyo
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i think. gender presentation is 1 of those things that is just rlly interesting 2 think abt in relation 2 characters. at least 2 me with my characters.
a lot of them r cats yeah but like... i can still fuck around and find out a little with the way they're presented (gender wise).
#my problem is just that i like adding lashes 2 every character i make#and as of recent the only character i've been drawing has been a character that's been generally very. androgynous with slight lean into#being more masculine?? i guess??? he's a fucking cat man it's hard 2 tell#i wanna toy around more with making like. butch kitty cat#maybe i can mess around with it 4 fumblepaw seeing as i plan on using her 4 something
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worth shouting out that androgyny isn't the only way to be nonbinary either
"how to look androgynous" "nonbinary fashion tips" you are skinny im not listening to you
#reblogs#gender#i will never be able to look androgynous and i HATE it because i want to#but it is not the only way of being#my idealized presentation will never match my body#as a fat transmasc#and i'll probably die mad about it#instead of coming to terms with my physical form#but that's a me problem#personal
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big feelings spiking part two because i hit tag limit
#vari posting#yeah anyways i deeply enjoy when people are confused about my gender#i also don’t care much about my body other than. non gender related issues so that’s contributed to me presenting femininely#but like. idk if this is tmi but i’m certain on getting reduction surgery#i haven’t told anyone but it’s always been in my plan#both because of dysphoria and pain caused by Them#i wouldn’t go all the way but it just has me thinking#when i get that surgery will i want to present masc again?#because i used to be incredibly masc#short hair and all that. never a binder because i was worried about the pain#if i got reductions would i want a binder again? would i think about it#also something of note is that i want to cut my hair again#but the voices insist that it’s gonna make me look bad. which it did before#so naturally i have to lose fifty pounds before THAT can happen 🥲#srsly though i would if it was flattering#i care too much about appearances.#this is what caused the crisis.#god vari pull yourself together#anyways i feel like if i were to get the surgery i would be more keen on being androgynous#because it would feel like i wasn’t really hiding???#which i haven’t been hiding at all btw people just ignore my pronouns#i gave up on my name considering what my ex did with it#also why i ditched he/him#should i start identifying as a trans guy out of spite#joking. hate being perceived as a man.#if someone calls me a man i always feel like throwing up#which IS the trauma but also just generally not wanting to be forcemasced#anyways um. the outward presentation is my problem#it would be fixed if i had a different body type. any other body type#it’s all so prominent and grbrhrhrhf ew
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Yall my back lowkey getting big
#i need to exercise#not because i think im getting fat(although i am a little bit thats just yk another reason) but because my scoliosis is getting worse#i dont want it to become an unsolvable issue#like yes im starting to get back rolls(my ass is getting phat tho😋)but i also want to remain flexible and able to contort my back as a wish#i also want muscles#guys what if i was in my buff era#like yall i want broader shoulders and more defined arms#like i wanna be in my androgynous era#what if i was a muscle mommy guys#i have no problem with being thicker but im also at the heaviest ive ever been in my life#(which truthfully isn't that much im still within range for my height and age)#but cus im still very small framed and im gaining weight coupked with my back shaped like a fucking S my bodys like girl fix this rn#nah cus i be sitting w perfect posture and my backs like fuck you#i stand up and my backs like fuck you#like what tf do you want me to do twin die#kay just saying shit
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its so funny whenever i happen to look into a mirror/take a selfie and think "huh. im actually looking more on the androgynous side today. nice." and then i do a double take and realize i literally look like the butchiest girl twitter can handle before getting scared. every single time
#its like get for real now.#i suppose the problem with the kind of androgyny i aspire to when i do want to present androgynous is like#the lowkey gnc guy kind. which in my case just tends to those things circling back to being read as straightforwadly feminine#no one knows im even trying to play the 4d chess i do. but its okay :) cause at least i do know#so i guess in the end it does achieve the goal of exclusively dressing for Myself and not for other people#anyway its really not at all upsetting to me. like personally i dont care that much. just a little silly to think abt#thots
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I think about Lycion and his relationship with beauty soo much
Looking at him, we can see that he easily meets the elven beauty standards. He has long silver hair, clear skin, and androgynous form: he's the picture of a youthful, pretty man.
And yet.
He experiences such a visceral reaction to his own body. Despite looking like your stereotypical pretty boy, he doesn't fulfill the expectation of being vain in the slightest (at least not in this form).
In fact, we see in the extras just how badly his body dysmorphia got to him. This was not a passive discomfort or a shallow desire. Lycion was trying to destroy his body. He hated living in his skin so much he was actively self harming in multiple ways in an effort to punish himself.
It's not until he uses ancient magic to get his beast form that his perspective of himself changes. The magic required him to be heavily tattooed over his whole body and we can clearly we can see that he wears these marks with pride. But that's not where any of this ends for him because despite having the solution to his problem, Lycion can't be a wolf all the time.
This means that he has to learn to cope with existing as an elf still, and what stands out to me is how Lycion's hair is almost always in his face. Even now, in the body he likes more, he hides. Whether this is a lingering discomfort or just a habit, there's no saying, but it makes me sad.
Especially in this panel, where it's clear that a lot of his hair had been pulled forward to cover his face rather just the few strands. His expression looks so hollow. He looks tired and uncomfortable. This isn't the casual playfulness he usually has. I think this is a peek into the idea that it's very self soothing for him to use his hair as a shield when he's forced to stay in his human body for too long.
I think that his hair is so important to him because we can see that it's the only trait that carried over into his wolf form. This means that when he's forced to be human he can cling to the single part of him that's shared between his current body and his preferred one.
In summary: I love him so much
#dungeon meshi spoilers#delicious in dungeon#dungeon meshi#delicious in dungeon spoilers#lycion#lycion dungeon meshi#my post
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#as a nb person i deal with transphobia not irregularly but even so i often have a fear of identifying as trans#bc i don't want people to think i'm faking but also bc i v much can benefit from male privilege bc i'm misgendered/viewed as such a lot#and even though i put not an insignificant amount of effort into maintaining an androgynous appearance i don't have any desire#for either any kind of surgery or hrt to any degree#like i'm content with my body and the things i want to change aren't really based in dysphoria#but rather in just wanting to be happy and look the way that makes me feel that#i've had a dream where i was seen as a trans woman and it stressed me out enough to wake up bc all i could think was “that's not who i am”#there's also no real way to describe the feeling/emotion of rightness that comes with being called they/them and seen as essentially#having no gender whatsoever like gdi i just wanna be and be happy and fall in love you know?#Falling Apart And Coming Together#Edited#and ik you don't have to want or get surgery or hrt to be valid#and i don't think anyone who doesn't want those things is any less of their gender#i think i just have some internalized shit to work through and have to stop being so doubtful#bc tbh people are gonna assume wrong no matter what and that's their fucking problem not mine#but when you assume that makes an ass out of u which leaves me to deal with it#and whatever shitty problems you're having and projecting instead of taking a hard look at yourself in the mirror
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