#Poly. In the aro way u feel me

[dakotac0le]

Girl who is probaly polyamorus but aint got time to figure that out

[aetherialclutterbitch]

intro post!

hi~ call me v, ether, or void! <3

nsft but not exclusively, i reblog ethereal weirdcore, horny stuff, esoteric genders. i think way too much abt the sexual potential of supernatural phenomenon

gender is fluid (and also sometimes sacred and/or fake) but here i lean fem. im poly, grey-aro, a switch, and i have 2-4 partners depending on how u count. i use mostly she/they/it pronouns!

sexuality…is also fluid. t4t and nb4nb are safe bets but anyone is welcome!!!

ok just kidding some of u aren't welcome. dni: minors, bigots, queerphobes (including polyphobic/aphobic), racists, zionists, etc.

textposts will be tagged aetherial whispers, if i ever post pics or art that's gonna be void visions. reblog/interact w/ whatever u want! nsfw is usually tagged, ill also try to tag kinks individually

stuff im into:

monsterfucking/teratophilia (esp. ethereal stuff like spectrophilia, but werewolves/vampires/catgirls too ofc.)

superpowers/shapeshifting/gods

exhib/voyeur/public/perv

light cnc

casual/free-use/friend sex

genderplay in most directions (including orientation play, no patriarchy kink tho)

group play

ecophilia (forests, mountains, the cryptids living there, some primal)

somno (including dream stuff)

surreality

telepathy (extends to hypno/mind control)

neutral (don't mind it, won't post too much abt it): petplay (if anything im a cat), sado/maso, intox, ass stuff.

hard limits: snuff/maiming, scat/farting, piss, vomit, cross-gen fauxest (parent/child stuff), pregnancy/eggpreg (light breeding kinks are fine), urethral play, feederism, raceplay, patriarchy kink

DMs and Asks r open!! send me questions, fantasies, flirtation or whatevz! im sorry if i don't respond immediately. only mutuals can send unsolicited pics tho (feel free to offer)

[scaredgirlsilly]

I'm aroace and coming up on my 1 year anniversary of engagement to my lovely fiance who is not aro or ace and I do not use the term qpp. I have the type of relationship that tends to cause a lot of arguments so when irl people or strangers ask I just say I'm straight. (There's also an added layer of confusion from some people since I'm an ace guy and that seems to be a hot button topic rn)

I tend not to share this because people who know that I'm aroace think that I was previously going through a phase when I say I love my partner. I do love my partner but I'm still aroace and it looks different and this is the first time I've ever felt so secure with another person and what we were able to create is beautiful because I stopped listening to people tell me what a relationship is or should be. And we work amazingly together.

-a fellow aro mutual still too nervous to talk about being aroace with my actual unsername (but wanted to show solidarity)

omg hiiiiiiii!!!! ::3

ok first off CONGRATS ON ALMOST A YEAR OH EM GEE!!!!!!!! thats awesome im glad you found someone you can be yourself with ^u^

and uh. the rest of this is gonna be gibberish sorry jfkshdksj i was literally walking around my kitchen last night when i first got this ask trying to figure out how to word what i want to say for like an hour or 2 😭😭

but like. i think alot of people dont understand just how *open* the terms aro and ace can really be. like. idk at least to me its kinda like nonbinary. like nonbinary is anything that doest strictyly fit into the gender binary. and thats. uh. A Fuck Ton Of Things jfkshdjsj. like im aro but i might honestly feel romantic attraction. but for me its my strong dislike of the idea of being in a relationship, along with like. almost being disillusioned with the very concept of romantic attraction. (and being sorta kinda poly??)

this is the part that is gonna be incomprehensible jfksjsks. but the way i think about it is almost like. idk a diagnosis jfkshdks (NOT to be the weirdos that are like "romance is an illness" i just want to describe the fact that the borders and definitions of these attractions are socially constructed)

like romantic attraction has a bunch of "symptoms" (again value neutral i canmot stress enough that im not like anti people who like romance hfkshdjsj) like yk liking someone a bunch or butterflies in their stomach or like. yk whatever doesnt matter you get what i mean. the different thoughts and feelings and experiences that typically come up when someone is romantically attracted to someone. what im saying is i dont think there is *actually* a single Romantic Feeling people get, i think a lot of people just have a very similar experience, and so it sort of becomes a seperate thing yk. there isnt actually a Romantic Emotion but its a combo of a bunch of stuff that alot of people experience close enough to each others experiences that it is helpful for it to be named something.

but like. then people assume the Thing is actually real. or not that it isnt real but like. that the Thing came first and is law. when really its just a bunch of components that commonly make up the thing. and so when you share alot of those components of the Thing (saying i love you or being in a relationship that isnt a qpr with an allo person), people will say that you feel the Thing. but *you* know that you dont.

i dont really know where im going with this other than like. i wish people didnt see aro and ace people (specifically aro people jfksjsjs) as like. either you feel the Thing or you Dont. like 1. the Thing (romantic attraction) is something allo people cant even define comprehensibly and 2. the human experience is so varied that like. every single person is different and its v frustrating when people shit on others for not fitting into their idea of what that type of person is (shitting on aro people for not being what they think aro people are).

god this is nonsense im sorry but hopefully you understand what i mean. tl;dr everyone is different and everyones experiences of queer labels are different, id argue *especially* aro and ace people, and if you shit on aro and ace people for acting or feeling in a way you didnt expect or like, im killing you with a chainsaw

hopefully you can find other people who are not weird about your aroace-ness and if you ever need to talk about it id be down ^u^

[lostconductor]

happy pride month! - 6/4/24

i've had a lot of thoughts on julian's sexuality. it's insane. it's not that deep but it is because the mechanisms of my mind are an enigma. i originally sent pieces of this over discord at like 4 am but it's the most i've been able to explain it in words lol, i ended up adding more to it and expanding upon it slightly more

basically....he is bi yes but hes also a flavor on the ace / aro spectrum in the sense that yes he can feel sexual / romantic attraction but it isnt Often. like it is totally out of sight out of mind until it isnt and he puts the puzzle pieces together. he never noticed eva starting to like him or ever even considered anything romantic w him. they spent lifetimes together but he was going through time loop torture nexus he didn't exactly have time to think about that. there was a timeline where eva confessed to him, and he had no idea he liked him until he confessed. i think i labelled him demi because he just doesnt feel anything until hes spent a long time with u and has forged a lifeling bond of steel with u, but even then he's mostly just given Awareness by the others saying something first

i tried (kind of cringely) to touch on it in the third evacuation ocfic i wrote where he like. he feels an attachment to eva, considers him the person he's closest to, is comfortable with laying in a bed with him and holding hands but literally doesn't really consider it might be love / a romantic relationship until eva tells him he loves him and his brain is like oh yeah. that makes sense......in this timeline too.....yeah ill hold onto this guy forever maybe i love him

he's also extremely physically affectionate already, and was just kind of brought up in a way where he doesn't see a big deal in homies kissing each other goodnight. he doesn't mean to come onto you. which confuses eva so much

overall i think he just doesn't think of romance that much, just kind of does things out of sheer attachment and connection. he expresses and feels love differently in a way thats really hard to describe but i think an aro person would understand/phrase better (i considered it as a label myself before, but i ultimately ended up just deciding my feelings and energy might fluctuate but in the end i feel romantic attraction and develop crushes lol)

put under a readmore for paragraphs about sex i just love intricate rituals . sorry.

read more but he like. he doesnt usually feel sexual attraction, more often than not the others initiate it or he offers it to please them or relieve them rather than being Horny For It, and really is just going with the flow and willing to try anything. he doesnt judge or care he just likes making his partners happy. it isnt even in a “ehh i dont rlly want to have sex but whatever he wants ig” way, its consensual and julian is happy doing it, just doesnt rlly feel the sexual drive to initiate it himself *shrugs*. he's more of a giver than a receiver and just likes pleasing his partners.

a lot of him initiating sex otherwise is “hey you look tense/we havent done this in a while, do u want me to help u with that (trying to sound flirty)” or “hey i found out about this thing do u wanna try it it sounds fun”LOL

he is poly and hes also fine w his partners having sex without him or consentually having sex w someone else, and is fine doing it with a friend or something if they want to and not expecting anything more from it because he just sees it as smtng humans Do. yes it can be display of trust and love and sexual desire, but also separated from that its something people do just because it feels good! so if they wanna, and jules is ok w them seeing him nude, why not ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ he's....very lax about it

idk. its so hard to describe. but he experiences it different than me which is hard to shift my brain into anyways. but he's so special 2 me. my little guy. he KNOWS what sex is he KNOWS what a boyfriend adn girlfriend is he isn't an innocent bean but he just DONT GOT TIME FOR THAT HES GOT A TIME LOOP TO SOLVE /J

(ends up supermarried because he spent acual lifetimes keeping this man alive and attached to him like a little worm. love cares him so much thinks hes handsome and likes driving him up the wall and eva wants him romantically and carnally)

[birthday-cake-rockz]

Hey! I used to be rlly similar to you :) trying to find a label and not knowing where i fit, yk? I’ll tell u rn tho I’m not aro, my experience has been with gender and sexuality, but I still wanted to tell u smth I wish I knew when I was questioning:

You don’t need to have a label to prove urself. If u genuinely are trying to find a label to find community and belonging cool! But also know that you don’t need to have a label or name to who you are to be valid or to belong

Be patient with yourself, like you said you’re young! And it’s a time of a lot of mental and physical development that brings a lot of feelings to it, which means it arises things of ur identity you didn’t realize, but also means that your perception of yourself and the world is very experimental due to emotions and limited experiences, and it can make it very hard to pinpoint a single feeling, must harder a name for it!

It’s not at all a bad thing, I know it feels frustrating to not just know and get it over with, but it isn’t meant to be a chore it’s meant to be something that makes it easier to connect w ppl similar to u as well as easier to communicate your preferences, but you are STILL very much valid without a label and pressuring urself to find it can end up really confusing, like it is now

I’d say to be patient, to allow urself to grow into ur identity and, with time, find the identities and communities that appeal to you. You are in no rush to live your life, let the stages burn away as you actively live it. You can still enjoy your feelings without having a name with it.

Me personally I feel a lot more comfortable without a label, I just tell ppl I’m queer and honey with the way that I dress and express myself they already knew, and if they ask specifically I tell them if I want to! Sometimes I just don’t bc I dont want to specify and am comfortable with the vagueness (I’ll make a ur mom joke instead). I have also realized I’m poly, and more recently found it applies to friendships too, ending up with me seeking a QPR, she said yes!! And the reason I felt so alright with myself exploring this side of me is because I already took away my own expectations to label myself

That’s why I felt I should write this, because while your journey will differ from mine as we all do, I wanted to lyk how my own experiences shaped my “label”, and it reminded me a lot of myself, even if it ends up going another direction

Whether you decide to take this into account or not, I send you much love finding yourself, it’s one of the most beautiful parts of growing up, you got this!

Guys I need some help I keep trying new things but none rlly seem to work other than me being ace...I say I'm aroflux but I don't seem to rlly fluctuate often and the same thing happened when I identified as genderfluid rn I'm going by agender but I don't rlly feel genderless nor do I rlly feel like any gender damn this stuff is confusing -_-

Again I also feel like I'm too young to be questioning this much but I rlly wanna find a label that fits me

[wearequeer-andwearehere]

Yk I never really wanted to get married

I'm poly so the whole thing seems like a hassle of making my partners possibly feel like one one I love the most because I am married to them, I'm also aro/ace so who knows how marriage would work for me and I'm also autistic so just the concept of having a wedding seems like a nightmare- the lights, the people, the sound, the uncomfortable clothes, the social pressure- I cannot do it. The pure thought of having a wedding makes me want to scream

But recently I started dating this boy... and holy shit.

He is the one. He is the one I want.

All of my partners aside from him I am dating more casually, I love them but I wouldn't consider any of it very serious relationships.

Don't get me wrong I love all of my other partners just as much, but him oh my god.

I want to spend my life with him. I want to be with him forever. I want to live with him to make a life with him.

The thought of me proposing to him makes me all blushy and the thought of him calling me his husband makes me scream with joy and I will actually cry of happiness if I take a second to imagine what our first dance would look like and oh my god I am such a fucking simp for him damn.

I don't know if he feels this way. I mean, marriage is out of the question since we live far apart and because of other circumstances and we have only been officially dating for a few months (we have known eachother and have been flirting for far longer then that) but oh my god him.

He tells me how much he loves me and we get along wonderfully, he professes his love everyday and in the sweetest of ways each time, fuck, he even referred to me as his husband once.

I know this is the man I want, I know I want to show him off to my family, I know I want to spend my eternity with him but fuck man the distance in the relationship is killing me.

I don't know. Maybe one day I will get over my irrational fear and disgust of weddings, maybe we will even last long enough so we can get engaged.

I don't know why I am sending this. Maybe for other possibly younger queer people here? Maybe finding the right one and shit can be hard but oh lord will you be happy when you find them. I have never felt so happy in my entire life, just thinking about him makes me almost weep of joy.

OMGGG thats literally the sweetest thing EVER im so so so happy for you!!

Maybe there’s some way u can tailor a wedding to ur likes, clothes u like a comfy quiet area so ur sensory issues aren’t bad only a few ppl ur close to, or just a quiet wedding w the two of u!!

Argh that’s literally so sweeeet I want that type of love!!! I’m so so happy for u im so happy u found someone who makes u happy!!! Queer love & joy is beautiful <3

[starofroselight]

I agree so much about the tubbo and ranboo qpr thing!!! I saw posts like "DSMP giving us both poly and qpr rep!" and i was so upset as an aspec person. The whole "/p /p die if u think theyre romantic" thing annoys me too. I dont ship them, but like they literally said that it was romantic character-wise and acknowledging that isnt a sin. These people are so desperate for the cc's to fit what they think is moral that they take tubbo referring to their real life dynamic as platonic as more proof then the dozens of times theyve called the smp characters romantic.

I feel like the number one thing people are overlooking is that it's a joke. This character relationship, serious in lore though it may be, is entirely because real Ranboo and Tubbo are such good friends and goofing off

People taking it overly seriously and being overly defensive is grating. To the point that, again, the real life creators are messing. They specifically wanted the word "platonic" off the wiki

It feeds into a larger fandom point—straight men's "joke-relationships" being seen as a serious source of queer representation. It's why I can never get behind those long posts that espouse the virtues of DSMP having more rep than general media. It does, but they put emphasis in the wrong places.

Queer rep is Ms. "Cara" Puffy, Ms. Niki Nihachu, Mr. Karl Jacobs, and Mx. The Eret, as well as other allies like Ranboo and those who should not be forced to come out

Queer rep is not shipping and relationships within the canon storyline, because those relationships start with their framing as jokes. Often the fandom takes this narrative framing and makes something else out of it (re: Karlnapity). Even more oftentimes, that "something else" is much better than what canon provides

All of this culminates into an audience that knows nothing of roleplay unable to separate real life creators from characters seeing two IRL best friends enter a character relationship and immediately creating an avalanche of platonic fanart to distance themselves from the people that do, unfortunately, ship the creators

And there's nothing wrong with the distance. What's wrong is the misuse of aro terms by allos as well as romantic-coding being put on top of a queerplatonic relationship

The reason I've left my posts and opinions up (though I have been moderating replies) is because I know there's people that agree with me but don't want to say it. So I do, to let them know it's okay to think that way in a large sea of similar opinions and perspectives

I think that about sums up my thoughts

Thank you Anon. It took a while to draft this but I think I've said everything I needed to. And thank you for the opportunity

[butch-bakugo]

Discourse/political opinions:

Note: I am ok with people following/interacting with me if we disagree on certain subjects on this list but if its got a ❎ next to it, i am not ok with you interacting with me and i will block you. Take everything thats on the ❎ list to be a informal dni

Throwing this at the top: Isreal is an apartheid colonial state and has no right to exist. It is on stolen land. Zionists are committing a ethnic cleansing of Palestine and I will forever stand with Palestine.❎

All cops, especially ur uncle/brother/dad/friend, are bastards. ❎

Black lives matter ❎

Im neutral on ace discourse, idrc but i do feel safer around ace exclues than ace inclues cause yall get pretty gross sometimes

Longsword lesbians are transphobic ❎ but battleaxe bis are vaild

Cis het means cisgender and hetero- in any capacity, cisallohet is not a thing

Aros/aces/aroaces do face discrimination for being aspec and aphobia is a good word for it but its not a systematic oppression. ❎

Bi/pan lesbians, bi/pan gays and other " mspec" gays are homophobic as fuck and the label is bigoted no matter what arguement you have for it. ❎

Punch your local terf and her nazi friends, especially jk rowling( read another book) ❎

Polyam cis hets, kinky cis hets and gnc cis hets arent lgbt for " going aginest society's standards" ❎

Q*eer is a slur, as well as an identity, and calling everyone it is ableist aginest lgbt people with ptsd and flat out just rude. If q*eer is your identity, great but to pretend it's suddenly not a slur anymore just because "q*eer studies" exists is flat out misinformation. ❎

D*ke is for all wlw, F*g is for all mlm, tr*nny is for all trans ppl.

The split attraction model is only vaild for aspec identities, all other uses are lgbtphobic ❎

Aspec can mean aro/ace/aroace-spec or autisitc spectrum, i litterally dont care enough to argue it. But if you say ur " on the spectrum" to mean ur aroacespec and not autisitic, ill rip out ur esophagus. ❎

Saying asexuality/aromantisim/aroasexuality can't be a spectrum is litterally just aphobic

Allo isnt a slur nor is meant to be derogatory in any way. I will call you allo if ur allo in the context of ace/aro but if u dont like it i wont.

Making fun of ace/aro/aroace pple isnt funny to anyone other than aphobic pple and you should really ask urself why you think bullying in any form is ok as long its a group of mostly young, disabled, trans and neurodiverse people.

Dont say ur an ace/aro/aroace ally then turn around and call urself aphobic proudly. Your an oxymoronic moron and ur not our ally.

I dont care if you "would be *insert ace identity* therefore you can comment on *same ace identity as before* validity" you dont identify as it, shut up, no one asked ur opinion on the matter

Fiction 100000% affects reality you nasties, theres not justification for the romanization of r*pe, pedophilia, abuse, incest, etc. Dark topics are 100% ok but not if ur trying to make them look good. The only good villian redemption arcs are zuko and bakugo. ❎

You dont need dysphoria to be transgender ❎

Im not anti-pansexual/polysexual/omnisexual but i am critical of the labels' history and the huge biphobia issues within their communities. All i ask you respect the label bi as it has historically been defined as attraction to all genders, it has 100+ years of history over pan/poly/omni, its origins are much more humane (pansexual got its label from a study on rat sexuality and used to include pedophilia, beastiliality, gentrophilia and necrophilia. I don't believe this context defines modern pansexuals but I do think you should know your label's history) and you dont spread misinformation about the bisexual label. Bisexuality has a shameful title in society and biphobia is very prevalent so its understandable why people would not want to connect to that label but thats not an excuse to demonize or sexualize bisexuals.❎

Skolio/ceterosexual are only vaild if its a nonbinary person who feels unsafe dating cis/binary people. ❎

Nazis and other bigots do not deserve a platform, thats how fascists and dictators come to power. ❎

Just because trump is worse than biden dosent make biden good. Vote Kamala

Reg means nothing because its all personal interpretation

Gatekeeping is a term made by trans women to explain them being excluded from healthcare, it dosent mean keeping people from invading other communities. Im not a doctor therefore i cant " gatekeep" you.

You have to have did/osdd to be a system and you have to have trauma to have did/osdd. Therefore you have to have trauma to have a system and endos can fuck off, ur ableist. ❎

Tulpamancy is part of closed poc-exclusive religious practice and has nothing to do with systemhood so if ur white and/or claim ur system cause you made a tulpa, ur not only racist and cultural appropriating but also ableist!❎

Pedos/maps/pears are not lgbt. Its a mental illness based kink not an orientation. (Pocd people are not pedophiles and deserve support!) ❎

Pedophiles (non-contact) who have never hurt someone, have taken/is in therapy or classes to avoid offending and never intend to deserve support as you can't decide how your trauma or attraction works, you can only decide how you act. However, you don't need a flag or a closed community. I don't think any mental illness makes you a bad or Inherently evil person nor do i support eugenics and that includes people who can't control their desires. However if you touch kids, I will hunt you down. ❎

Stop stanning freaks like pewdiepie, jenna marbles, thomas Sanders, james charles, fya, cais/bunga, biggest gaudiest patronses, i am fish or other nasties. ❎

Most problematic sources can be consumed critically ( especially if its an autistic person with a hyperfixation) but some sources cant be saved and should burn.

Trying to say which intrusive thoughts are "ok" and " not ok" to have defeats the purpose of supporting those who have them. I have them, shut up if u dont. ❎

Kinnies are rad and i am one. ❎

I support all mogai identities as long as they arent; copycats to make something more " progressive", trans trivializing, fetishizing or otherwise gross. Im mogai neutral as long as the identity is harmless. Xenogender and like altersex stuff is rad as hell ❎

Nonbinary people are allowed to be uncomfortable being around/dating binary people, even if the binary person is trans. Enbyphobia is prevalent in all circles and we're allowed to be wary of ALL binary people ❎

Two-spirit and intersex/intergender people are not inherently lgbt but if the two spirit person is ok using western lgbt labels or the intersex person is trans, then they are lgbt. It is a personal decision and if you arent one or either, it's not your choice to decide if we are or aren't.❎

The drinking/smoking age should be 18.

*insert offputting kawaii death penality insta discourse image* anyway the government shouldnt be allowed to kill you period. Dont care who you are or what you did. ❎

Bring back the guillotine. Viva la revolution ❎

Dismantle the police system ❎

Supporting trump inherently makes you a shitty person cause it means you put no value the lives of those imprisoned at ice concentration camps or literally anything for the betterment of humanity. ❎

Seperate art from artist. Pirate. Fuck disney. Fuck notch. Fuck cavetown ❎

Conceal and carries shouldnt be allowed in hospitals, schools, places of worship, homeless shelters, fesitvals or any places that house oppressed, sick, injured, young, old or otherwise harmless people and peaceful places. ❎

Fujoshis and fundashis are homophobic and nasty asf ❎

"Factkin" dont exist, you cant be another living person, especially seince you dont and never will know everything about their life ❎

Hamiltons music was amazing but idk how to tell you that you shouldnt be supporting a musical that romantizes slave owners. ❎

Hazbin hotels/helluva boss's creator is a horrible person, the music and art style suck ass, alastor is a walking aphobic sterotype, angel dust is a walking homophobic stereotype and the show completely disregards the protags orientation. ❎

White evangelical Christianity should be abolished and held responcible to the many it has killed and harmed but other abrahamic religions should be supported ❎

Self diagnosis is vaild if the person is well informed. Especially if the idividual is forced within a medical system that would kill, take away their children, refuse them the right to marry or otherwise be oppressive over the idividual if they were successfully diagnosed. ❎

Criminals dont need to be reformed, the system that creates them needs to be. ❎

Descalation officers and social workers who are trained to deal with people in scary situations would kill less people than cops ❎

Neo-pronouns and emoji pronouns are vaild ❎

Micro-labels are not inherently good or bad

Emo and alternative people are not oppressed for getting bullied wtf is wrong with you. ❎

It's not ok to bully people people over relatively harmless identities like pan/poly/Omni, demisexual/romantic, etc. Like idk how to tell you that isn't ok or responsible just because you think the labels are stupid. It's one thing to advocate aginest a community and it's another to personally harass someone just for being that identity. I may not like the history or the community but it isn't cool to bully these people. Not to mention ur a fucking idiot giving them attention and a person to point at as being "dangerous" to them. ❎

Sysmed and tramascum are transphobic and ableist labels, there is nothing wrong with medicalizing a fucking debilitating mental disorder.❎

Transandrophobia exists and if you still think trans men don't face any issues or suddenly gain male privilege, your a fucking idiot.❎

Autism speaks can die in a deep dark abyss❎

If youre still trying to defend a white YouTubers black face in 2024, what are you even doing?❎

Measuring race/ethnicity by percentages and trying to interpersonally decide whether someone is "x race enough to claim it" is just recycled ethnic purity bullshit, racist and it doesn't matter how low or large your percentage is as long as you are happy and respectful. ❎

Certain media can be consumed critically(mha, soul eater, FNAF, etc ) but other media simply can't( Harry Potter, hazbin hotel, hetalia, etc) and you'll have to deal with the consequences of supporting the entirely irredeemable media.

Will add to this as time gose on

[izzyizumi]

Digimon Adventures / Tri ~ VARIOUS P R I D E Icons for character Meiko Mochizuki {Tri} + flag icon bases by @izzyizumi​ !

BONUS:

OP’s commentary: I don’t know which Adventures fans need to hear this (I DO) but a) Meiko Mochizuki Can Be ANY Of These Headcanons b) This fandom made me Appreciate Meiko c) Regarding the Taichi x Meiko (Meichi) pairing specifically:

from THIS interview: Digimon Adventure tri. Memorial Book — Lead writer Yuuko Kakihara interview translated by DigiLab (italics/bolding mine for emphasis)

–Taichi and Meiko also seemed to have formed a certain bond between them. Toei / Tri staffs’ Answer: To be honest, the relationship between those two was not something we particularly had in mind.

But since we had certain expectations of how the fans would react to a new character barging in, and since we were also thinking about what we know about Taichi and his friends in the future, we ended up putting Meiko in a position where she comes and leaves.

^ Literally, Toei / Tri writers are TELLING YOU THIS

d) Meichi as a ship is still fine. You can STILL ship it. It is very much valid - also as Toei seems to have blatantly implied “it’s fine to see it that way” - ALSO as it is a ship involving two P.O.C (Japanese), who DO NOT have the same rep in fandom as White characters’ ships e) You also don’t have to ship Meichi AND can have alternative headcanons - for both Taichi and Meiko

f) Q u e e r headcanons involving dishonesty (such as using these as means of pushing away a character for so-called “getting in the way of your ship”, OR invalidating other headcanons) are BAD. Please DON’T use them for this reason.

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[maplecatra]

@bi ppl ur flag is dope as hell it looks like fucking sunset y’all are perfect. Validity stamped

@trans ppl ur flag Is perfect I mean pastel colors? Yes please! Y’all are fucking valid don’t let anyone say otherwise. Validity stamped

@ace people? Fucking superb purple flag gray flag like grapes mmmm. Validity stamped

@demisexual, Demi romantic, demiboys, and demigirls are wonderful and their flags have absolutely adorable color schemes. Validity stamped

@pan ppl the flag we use reminds me of like,,, a sun setting on a beach. Rock on babes. Validity stamped

@aro people? FUCK YEAH!! U guys are perfect and can throw anyone who insults u in the ocean. Validity stamped

@poly people? Mint chip, strawberry, and blue raspberry aesthetic mmmmmm. Validity stamped

@agenders??? I lov the green and it’s a rlly nice aesthetic perfect for a late night of stargazing. Validity stamped

@nonbinaries? My my my love you look like a grape popsicle with a hint of sunny day. Ur valid and proper in every way. Also might be part of the fae. Validity stamped

@genderfluid don’t even get me started I’m always a slut for that color scheme omg

@gay people?? Mmmmm rainbows. The hets can’t taste that rainbow amiright heheheh. Validity stamped

@sapphics, wlw, lesbians?! I love u so much!!! I wanna give u hugs and kisses on the forehead! Validity stamped

@queer people in general? y’all are fucking valid and I’ll throw hands w/ someone behind the nearest dennys at 3am to prove a point. Validity stamped

I LOVE EVERYONE WHO IS PART OF THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY AND WILL THROW HANDS W/ ANYTHING THAT EVEN LOOKS AT YALL WRONG

Pedophiles, however, are not part of lgbtq

Trans age, however, are not part of lgbtq

Trans race, however, are not part of lgbtq

Kinks, however, are not part of lgbtq

Trans species are not, however, lgbtq

Otherkin are not, however, lgbtq

Rad fem, however, are not lgbtq

Transphobic, however, are not lgbtq

Cisgender heterosexuals heteromantic are not, however, lgbtq

And if you are a true straight ally then do not say anything about straight pride. Instead be an actual ally

What is cool: being kind to your friend no matter their sexuality, romantic preference, or gender/ pronoun preference, visiting pride to support your friend and not trying to fuck anything that moves, not saying or doing anything regarding straight pride because it is practically the same as a white pride and it’s fucking disgusting, being kind to all people who are lgbtq and encouraging them to have strength and always backing them up, helping questioning people who are struggling by surrounding them w/ positivity, protecting or trying to protect lgbtq+ people from homophobic people in real life who could cause them to become repulsed by themselves. If u behave properly you get a validity stamp

What is not cool: saying you are an ally then whining about how you feel excluded during pride, mocking people for their gender/pronouns/sexuality/romantic orientation then justifying it by saying “my friend is gay so I’m not homophobic”, fetishizing mlm or wlw relationships and making them centered around sex and giving them the base root or sin (this includes saying “yaoi” or “yuri” is hot and sinful), saying straight pride as if it’s okay to say that bc it’s not it’s some passive aggressive bullshit, saying the ‘A’ stands for ally. If u do this then u are not valid, even if ur part of the lgbtq community. U get ur gay/ally card REVOKED and u get stolen by the fae who don’t even kill ur nasty ass, they just drop u in the middle of the woods after saying “where we landin’”

And that’s the tea

[merlions]

would it be weird if you like asked them to invite u along? or introduce you to some of the people so you can have fun too? i’m not poly/ace/aro but this situation honestly seems p comparable to like just being jealous of a friend (no sexual relationship) who has a lot of experiences that you want in on! but it’s now complicated by the fact that the two of you have history/are kinda together too. idk make it clear that you’re jealous of the fun they’re having and not bc ur left out or anything??

im So sorry i never replied to this, anon, but i just remembered i forgot to and tbh i did hold off on originally replying because i didnt know how to politely say that while this is a rly good idea for stuff in general, i dont mind them having hanging-out-kind-of-fun w ppl and actually the main thing is that im having fomo about sex because it feels fun and we weren't in great ways about it at the time i posted that ask and didnt know how to kind of casually be like..............i dont think asking them to invite me along to them having sex w new partners is gonna go well haha

[crystal-iceblossomxjackfrost4evr]

Okay so im to tired to full intorspect right now. Bcuz ive done it to myself so many times. Heres my take. Mainly thinking of the bara 2k14 and 2k16 selv3s but all of them and personality in general to if u want

But if i had to pick one

Leo is a no cuz id bring down his calm demeanor and be to wild and or introverted to the point of whiplash

Id still smash tf outta him

Raph would prolly get annoyed at me if he gets annoyed at mikey and i get Rejection sensitivity (yay adhd)

Still fucking smash him

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Down to Mikey and donnie honestly its half a tie (use to be a tie between mikey and raoh now its mikey and donnie )

Donnie is super sweet and funny and charming and his intelligence while confusing id still lovw to hear. I confuse ppl qll the time so i get it snd id love to hear his interests and if hes willing to try my random ideas itd be fun to experiment both in the besroom (which i highly imagine hed agree) and actual ya knw experiments lol

(So much smash so so sooo much smash)

Mikey: my soul. My other half my sweetheart the empath i need in my life. I feel like partially id bring down his mood but hed actually love the fact he could see me when im low since i had behind smiles cheers snd jokes like him. We could both cheer each other on and be goofy or serious or etc. Maybe even have a code word for when we rlly mean stuff since wed both joke so much we might not catch on if its serious at first. MY BABY MY ETERNAL CRUSH I CAME HERE JUST FOR YOU SINCE NO ONE PICKED U

Same with donnie

Im a hard donnie /mikey kinda guy. If their both willing i will totes poly with them !

Bonus POLY nsfw

Mikey/Me/Donnie would smash tf outta both. Both would be highly experimental and rlly attentive to me/each other while working. Mikey more so in the moment and donnie more so fascinated at my movements and skinn and etc.

Theyd both respect i dont want a D in my V and Id be all over both of them in every pther way i can. Theyd have lots of fun with toys and other such thing and just all around good time

Poly SFW EDITION

Mikey/Me/Donnie

We would be great for each other. Mimeys extrovertness and cheer helping cheer me up and get both me and donnie out more or do stuff besides sit cooped up. Playing games. Moving around. Living la vida loca and all tht jazz. Eating semi properly or at least not skipping meals and more.

Donnies introvertness matches me to sitting around and playing games or experiments. Id prolly come up with rando ideas and we could have fun working it out and mikeys artistic skills helping us me with sketches and donnie thinking of how it couldwork and debating qithout to much seriousness. Id also study ot look over some of his sciency stuff pr google while talking to him and prollt accidentally interrupt to ask moreabt this or tht. Playing video games and sprucing up cool ideas. His tech helping a lot im artistic ideas involving electricity

And me a happy creeamy cookie center between the both of them. Very much an introvert but coming ambivert or extravert sometimes mainly cuz of my adhd. Having fun creatimg or learning all kinds of stuff from both. Cuddles. So many cuddles

im not rlly into or understand the idea of romance so i dunno how to call it if not dating cuz it would be tht way to them my fav terminology is Platonic Poly Snuggle Pile. Since im aro and grey ace. Tho i love seeing others romance and imagining romance and such. And id still take so much care of them and adore the shit outta them and how sexy kind and amazing they are even if im not strictly romantic. Go out places and etc. (To me friends if close enough can do all tht and more) tho id prolly not do it with others other then them (not tht i have ppl beatin my doors down) plus i dont think i could want or ever neeeed another squish after them >/////<. Tho in my head alll the romance tropes sit coms and funny stuff and ideas and moments happen in my head.

sorry if introspection for leo and raph is low but ive done this legitimately multiple times a week in my day dreams in my head so i said the basic reason for them (and i dunmo how to explain it) and went in depth for donnie and mikey since theire my match <3

I CAME HERE FOR THE BOTH OF U SINCE EVERYONE COMPLIMENTED BUT NO ONE PICKED YA YET IN THIS THREAD. I LOVE U MIKEY. I LOVE U DONNIE I PICK BOTH BITCHES AND NO ONE CAN STOP ME (technically id pick all 4 if it were an option but i legit have had a crush on mikey since i was single digits but also now a crush on donnie more recent) so hard to pick SO HECK IT AND BOTH OF THEM

Which Bayverse turtle would you ACTUALLY date?

Nope. I’m dead ass serious and no, this isn’t one of those quizzes either. This is actually something a bit deeper, something to make you kinda low key look within and actually think about it.

Everyone knows Raphael is my baby, literally my sweetheart. The fucker gets away with murder with just one smirk. Hell I PLAY him. I literally AM HIM. Now, with all that said would I actually be able to have a relationship with Raph? Like an exclusive romantic one? If they were real?!??? HELL. NO.

I said what I said. Hear me out though, Raphael and I are just too much alike. We’d argue constantly. I couldn’t put up with his mood swings and he’s not gonna put up with my attitude. The both of us would do or say shit to really hurt each other’s feelings I just… no. Fucking no. Now as a drinking buddy, Raph is my guy. He’s also my guy I go to when I’m having guy trouble because he will break necks and ask names later. Seriously though, he’d be my best bud but it just wouldn’t work.

Yes I’d still smash 😈

Then we have Donnie and don’t get me wrong my first bay crush was Donnie BUTTTTTTT it was strictly a visual thing. I mean my god the man is freaking gorgeous. Like fucking model gorgeous! Ah hum as I was saying Donnie was just a guy I thought was pretty. His intelligence doesn’t impress me and it bores me. That’s just me being honest. Plus he’s way to smart for me. I couldn’t hold a convo if I tried.

Yes I’d still smash 😈

Mikey’s exuberance and enthusiasm would low key put me on edge. Being as I’m highly anxious I would have to visit with Mikey in small doses. That still wouldn’t stop me from enjoying his cuteness, just not an overload. Although Mikey would be the best bud to toke up with if he partakes.

Yes I’d still smash 😈

Finally there’s Leonardo. The handsome leader in blue has caught my fancy a lot of late for good reason. He could calm these wild storms within me. Not just calm them but help me through them. It’s funny, when you sit back and look at who a person really is, you finally see the why’s and the how's of their world. When I first saw TMNT 2016 I hated Leonardo. Now? Well, let’s just say I know there’s more to the leader than meets the eye. I was foolish to judge him so hastily. I never thought in a million years that Leonardo would be setting the bar for any human man to dare try to jump. So yeah Leo was kinda the underdog that made a huge comeback.

Still in all reality I would be with a Leo. And that used to be something I loathed admitting to. Peculiar how that works out.

So, peeps, who would you really be with, wouldn’t be with and why. Be honest. I’m curious to see what everyone’s answers will be!

[ariansjourney]

Rant about my feelies DO not reblog thanks :>

I've been making new friends, actual friends not just aquanticies. It's something I haven't done since I was 15 (my group of friends are all from high school and such); and I've met and I'm still just learning all this new things from them, they are very different to me in regards of privileges for example (I got the luck to have been born in a family with a steady income, nowadays I do not struggle with it), we are also so much alike in so many things. In hardships we went through, some are alike, others different, in the way we are treated I've found healing in them (still am). I've found things in myself so buried and festered, that are blooming or scarring with how we talk, how we see each other, how they see me.

I'm healing but at the same time my mind is whirlwind, in regards to myself, to what I want, to how I feel. I'm aromantic and asexual, but I have come to learn I still haven't accepted myself for that. Today we were with two friends, and we went to sleep to M's house after a party. We were all in bed and after a moment I ask If it's ok to ask M and S about their relationship, or if I should just shut up. And then they laugh and it was really cute, and then they're like 'Soe we don't know how to do this?? U tell us' and I'm like 'LMAO u're asking the aro here just do what u both want'.

And the thing is I was interested in S, but then I realized it was just friendship (?. When all of us three left we were walking and S and M were holding hands, it was the only time I felt not envious or jelous, but left out. I wanted to hold hands too. I wanted to be in an aro relantionship with S and maybe M too.

And the most shocking thing for me was when we were all sleeping together, I wouldn't have been as confortable as I was if it was only me sleeping with only one of them. I felt secure in their bubble of 'allo love' an they sharing it with me, with myself giving my kind love.

I don't know how to feel about that, I feel it's unrealistic to find something like this. Also I don't know how to deal with this sudden wanting to share like that(I'm not talking of being poly), I don't know If they would even want that. Maybe I'm more aro that I thought I was. And honestly that fucking scares me. I don't know who to talk to this either. It's just a lot.

[vampire-core]

okay for the hcs thing: the dragonets of destiny, ruby and nan, all of the ib squad, and uhhhthe pmmm cast if u want?? :3c

NICE ty babe!!!!!!!!

send me a character and i’ll answer!

(note: im kin w glory, mary, madoka, sayaka, and mami so this might be a lot of kin-based shIT SDFHSDKLF)

CLAY

A: what I think realistically

he is Boft (buff and soft) and also Lorg and if u are his friend and cold just tell him and he will drape his fuckin wing around u and curl up with you. he has at least 3 dragons cuddling with him when he sleeps

B: what I think is fucking hilarious

hes super bad at predicting jokes so he’ll fuckin CRACK UP at the worst fuckin joke u tell. he’ll also eat ANYTHING on a dare. even dirt or a handful of pebbles, thanks GLORY

C: what is heart-crushing and awful but fun to inflict on friends

hes actually got mental health shit goin on (depression/anxiety/prob ptsd/prob a pd) but he thinks he Has to be strong for the other dragonets bc theyre all fucked right up and he needs to be the strong support so he feels like he really Cant let himself break down at all, and it causes a Lot of pent-up sadness/anxiety/etc which he has No way of getting out

D: what would never work with canon but the canon is shit so I believe it anyway

clay is aro/ace and in a qpp with all the dragonets. let him be not het?

TSUNAMI

A: what I think realistically

tsunami is fuckening BUFF as HELL. like. she can kick ur ass ur friends ass ur moms ass her OWN ass she doesnt care shes SUPER buff she will kick everyone in the THROAT she is FIERCE and PROTECTIVE and STRONG

B: what I think is fucking hilarious

when darkstalker first busted out of the mountain (like a nut) she straight-up decked him in the snout. just fucken. P U N C H

it hurt her claws and she almost cried but tried to play it off as “im crying out of my own coolness”

C: what is heart-crushing and awful but fun to inflict on friends

shes always felt like glory hates her bc of how snarky and rude they are and like?? they logically know they dont but like. what if and she cant just ask them bc thatd be rude and glory would probably make a joke out of it, so shes stuck believing one of her supposed best friends secretly hates her and she doesnt know how to deal

D: what would never work with canon but the canon is shit so I believe it anyway

SHES BI AS HELL let tsunami be bi and trans and have a gf…….

GLORY

A: what I think realistically

theyre used to not eating a lot and kinda always being hungry bc yknow no sunlight in the caves but they assumed it was like? normal? and being in the sun was like……. holy shit im finally Full…….. and they dont actually eat a lot but when they do its usually fruits bc they dont actually like meat all that much

B: what I think is fucking hilarious

they can do spot-on impressions of SO many dragons, including but not limited to: the guardians, the other dragonets, fatespeaker, queen coral, riptide, morrowseer, and probably more and they love being able to say “im a pretty princess” while sounding almost exactly like kestrel

C: what is heart-crushing and awful but fun to inflict on friends

theyre rlly rlly good at hiding bc they HAD to be when the guardians got Pissed, so now when anyone is Vaguely mad at them they manage to find a way to hide and its near-impossible to find them, which has pppprob scared the other dragonets mny times

D: what would never work with canon but the canon is shit so I believe it anyway

glory is genderfluid and gay and whom the Fuck is deathbringer?

STARFLIGHT

A: what I think realistically

he has some p bad anxiety so his Counting/Observing Things thing is a comfort mechanism of sorts that hes always really done. in the caves all he had to observe was rocks, torches, and scrolls but once he got Out he had so much that it was overwhelming. hes rlly good at describing things in writing due to this

B: what I think is fucking hilarious

hes always been SUPER clumsy so now that hes blind hes kind of just. tripping on everything. he fell off the side of a cave once at the academy and screamed and waited for death until he remembered that he is a dragon who can fly

C: what is heart-crushing and awful but fun to inflict on friends

abt the observing thing: now that hes blind, he cant do that, and it was his main comfort mechanism. so now during anxiety attacks, he has a rlly hard time calming down bc he cant just start observing whats around him, it doesnt WORK like that

D: what would never work with canon but the canon is shit so I believe it anyway

HES ARO AND GAY AND IN A QPP WITH FATESPEAKER AND ALSO THE DRAGONETS FUCK YOU

SUNNY

A: what I think realistically

she has adhd!!! she has adhd-ph so shes always fidgeting/bouncing around/flying to try and get her energy out. clay, tsunami, and glory also have adhd and try to help her out whenever they can!! she loves to bake, but it takes a LOT of waiting, so its kinda hard on her

B: what I think is fucking hilarious

she can be REALLY FUCKING LOUD when she wants to be, which NOBODY expects. normally she uses it for singing, or to startle people. she likes to be Loud while imitating kestrel, marching around and looking all Serious

C: what is heart-crushing and awful but fun to inflict on friends

shes always felt Really ignored and, esp for someone who pprob has dpd traits, its rlly heartbreaking bc like. she doesnt feel wanted and she doesnt feel like she gets any attention and shes just!!!!!!! aaaagh

D: what would never work with canon but the canon is shit so I believe it anyway

shes aroace and in a qpp w fatespeaker heck you

RUBY

A: what I think realistically

she was prob legally blind but not Fully blind before the glen, but she was admitted bc her sight was getting progressively worse and she couldnt continue to be an electrician, her job

B: what I think is fucking hilarious

“hey tom remember that time i fucken stabbed u” “lol remember that time u pushed stitches off a balcony, killing him instantly”

“tom if u dont shut up this second about furries i will stab u again” “…….nya” “im gettin my fucken knife tom”

C: what is heart-crushing and awful but fun to inflict on friends

she lives w a lot of guilt over killing tom and regularly has nightmares abt it, and even tho he assures her everything is fine she still regrets it so much but doesnt know how to make it Right in her mind

D: what would never work with canon but the canon is shit so I believe it anyway

SHES BI AND AGENDER AND HER TOM AND JAY ARE POLY

NAN

A: what I think realistically

shes always been Super chubby, and she generates a llot of heat both bc Fur and bc Chub, so when her friends get Cold all u have to do is snuggle up next to her and ur instantly rlly warm now

B: what I think is fucking hilarious

kim teaches her how to dab and calls it a symbol of respect, and so whenever nan meets someone she rlly respects she just dabs as kim cracks up

C: what is heart-crushing and awful but fun to inflict on friends

she keeps a journal bc her memory is Shit but shes still constantly worried that shes writing it wrong, esp bc shes usually dissociating enough that she cant remember what happened, and sometimes its bad enough to warrent a breakdown/panic attack

D: what would never work with canon but the canon is shit so I believe it anyway

look shes aro/pan/genderfluid i dont make the rules. also shes autistic

IB

A: what I think realistically

they know a little bit of asl bc theyre mute, and they carry around a notebook to write in when they cant sign. bc of this, they have rlly good handwriting and are also p good at miming stuff when they need to

B: what I think is fucking hilarious

they accidentally learned how to swear in asl, so whenever garry sees them doing so and doesnt know what it means (and then asks) he almost starts crying when they calmly show him the word “fuck” written in their notebook

C: what is heart-crushing and awful but fun to inflict on friends

they have rlly bad nightmares and is ppprob misdiagnosed due to ppl thinking the gallery Wasnt Real, doesnt get proper help, and lives w guilt over what happened and has NO clue how to cope

D: what would never work with canon but the canon is shit so I believe it anyway

look. theyre nb and pan. im not saying this is a hc im saying this is canon. theyre not cishet

GARRY

A: what I think realistically

hes pprob around?? late 20s-early 30s, so its kiiiinda awkward maintaining contact w ib at first, but then he becomes a Family Friend and babysits so its all chill

B: what I think is fucking hilarious

hes PETRIFIED of spiders and the one time he tried to be brave and take one outside for ib he screamed, dropped it, and nearly cried.

ib is capable of disposing of spiders in the way garry prefers (domnt kill them) and does so calmly as garry sits on the counter and screams

C: what is heart-crushing and awful but fun to inflict on friends

he feels rlly guilty after the gallery and has NO idea how to cope, so he ends up drinking a bbbbit too much and hes also not rlly able to help ib, which makes him MORE guilty, and its kinda just a spiral of depression

D: what would never work with canon but the canon is shit so I believe it anyway

hes trans and also adopts ib and mary and theyre a happy family

MARY

A: what I think realistically

she has NO CLUE what most things taste like, but someone let her try a cherry cough drop once, and now she just rlly wants to eat that fake cherry flavor again

B: what I think is fucking hilarious

she knows how to say various swear words and looked garry in the eyes and said “FUCK!!!” once and he nearly started sobbing on the spot

also she doesnt know much abt numbers and thinks that since shes 9 and garrys 20-30 and 2-3 are less than 9, shes older than him and In Charge

C: what is heart-crushing and awful but fun to inflict on friends

she died in pain and thinking her only friend hated her, feeling deeply betrayed :’)

D: what would never work with canon but the canon is shit so I believe it anyway

GARRY ADOPTS HER AND IB AND THEYRE A FAMILY also shes a lesbian

MADOKA

A: what I think realistically

shes rlly good at drawin!!!! she doodles a lot in class to help her focus, plus she just rlly likes to draw, so she ends up bein rlly talented!!! she esp likes to draw her friends bc like. why not???

B: what I think is fucking hilarious

everyone expects her to be terrified of bugs and sayaka to be the brave one killing them when in reality its sayaka sprinting away as madoka calmly takes it outside and goes “dont worry its okay!!!!! :D”

C: what is heart-crushing and awful but fun to inflict on friends

she feels rlly inferior to everyone and, along with being shy, thinks shes honestly useless to a team. its not that she hates herself, its that she thinks shes rlly boring and doesnt have much going for her, and she has no clue how to help or communicate this

D: what would never work with canon but the canon is shit so I believe it anyway

she and sayaka are DATING theyre GFS also madoka has dpd

SAYAKA

A: what I think realistically

shes mega bi. shes bi. she is just. bi. her first crush was wonder woman and she prob liked hitomi at one point. shes the one friend who gets crushes on EVERYONE, and i mean everyone

B: what I think is fucking hilarious

when she gets bored, she makes up random stories in her head and narrates whats going on in the lives of passerby, and now she has a huge elaborate universe thats like a soap opera in her head. she has a theme song and everything

C: what is heart-crushing and awful but fun to inflict on friends

she has bpd but no clue what that IS or how to COPE, so being a magical girl was ppprob a rlly bad idea due to the lows bpd comes with, esp since she based her wish on a person/fp. so she was?? p much destined to fall into despair, even if it wasnt over kyousuke

D: what would never work with canon but the canon is shit so I believe it anyway

SHES!!!!!!! DATING!!!!!!!! MADOKA!!!!!!!

MAMI

A: what I think realistically

shes a rlly organized person so mess just Ticks her Off, and she spends most of her time just making sure everything is clean. its kinda a comfort mechanism at this point??? like it just makes her feel better

B: what I think is fucking hilarious

shes constantly trying 2 pick up on the current slang and be Cool w the Kiddos these days but shes always at least 3 steps behind

C: what is heart-crushing and awful but fun to inflict on friends

she has dpd but since she lost her parents and kyoko abandoned her, shes had nobody to depend on, which kinda sucks? bc like. shes constantly second-guessing herself and has no clue what shes doing and feels so alone

D: what would never work with canon but the canon is shit so I believe it anyway

shes trans gay and dating kyoko

KYOKO

A: what I think realistically

shes SUPER good at sneaking around/stealing things and lvoes to startle/prank her friends w this bc like??? oh shit sayaka is ur phone missing who couldve took it, oh look madoka got a text from u wonder who sent it

B: what I think is fucking hilarious

she once ate an entire bowl of sugar on a dare from sayaka and got the WORST stomach ache for a day and half, but claimed it was worth it

C: what is heart-crushing and awful but fun to inflict on friends

shes always been rlly underweight and manages to steal food Sometimes, but has probably been caught and hurt for doing so

D: what would never work with canon but the canon is shit so I believe it anyway

A LESBIAN DATING MAMI

HOMURA

A: what I think realistically

shes RLLY talented in a lot of areas due to the many timelines, but shes never rlly grasped the arts?? ie drawing, writing etc, and she has NO clue how madoka does it, what the hell

B: what I think is fucking hilarious

its RLLY hard to make her laugh but she can and WILL crack up if you look her in the eyes and say “egg”

on a similar, note, she once said “i want kyoko to vore me real good” completely straight-faced, deadpan

C: what is heart-crushing and awful but fun to inflict on friends

she has a LOT of trauma she could never rlly talk abt w anyone, esp a therapist, due to the timelines so shes rlly not coping at all in the slightest

D: what would never work with canon but the canon is shit so I believe it anyway

shes GAY and prob dating hitomi

[3d-dragon]

I'm sorry I'm not saying this to start up Discourse® or anything, especially since I'm neither in the Sherlock fandom or a johnlock shipper, but I am ace and I wanted to let u know that ace and aro are diff. Like, an ace person can still fall in love and have relationships and stuff ya know?

Its okay, and I know that ace an aro are different.

Like I know I shouldn’t read into it, it’s a stupid fandom thing, and they are a lot of ways to do the ship proper in a sense, like Sherlock could be respected as ace, and be shipped with john in an healthy poly ship ie sherlock x john x john’s wife, which would be amazing to see honestly. [ Sherlock is only romantic with john, john is romantic to sherlock and his wife, but only sexual with his wife, his wife is romantic and sexual with john, and is okay with john and sherlock’s romantic relationship]

But I’ve never seen that, and canonly in the books [from what I know] Sherlock never dates anyone, which can be seen as supporting idea of Sherlock originally being Aro Ace or something [I don’t think they had a word for it back in that day]

And yes Aro Ace people can be in a relationship with someone and be happy and it's important to know that, but it always feels like the fandom erases the ace part and has john cheat on his wife and just...

It pisses me off, and doesn’t help that the asshole who writes the show is well...an asshole. [Plus the actor is an asshole too....]And the worse part is that now that Sherlock might be returning and if it does it might start all up again...and I just...am not gonna be nice about it, I am so tired of asexual erasing, we asexuals have enough issues as is, and ITS 2017 STOP ERASING US.Sorry about ranting and being a bit of a butt, but all they do is be like ‘Hey sherlock how come you don’t hook up with anyone?’ ‘I’m asexual’ ‘oh, okay wanna get a bagel?’ in the show and just that would be fine, hell if they wanted to be cool they could have sherlock know he is ace but wanting to explore romantic things with someone who isn’t married........but nah let’s just queer bait the folks and say cheating on your wife is okay and call it a day.Sigh......sorry again, but it just bothers me so much and I felt like I needed to explain it a bit better in a sense.