#Overcoming inadequacy in God’s work

[mindfulldsliving]

Discovering Your Purpose in God’s Work: Insights from Joseph Smith — History 1:27–33

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[gabebrodudeman]

Overcoming the enemy's lies:

Lie 10: "You're not good enough for God to use"

The enemy often tries to make us feel disqualified or unworthy, sowing seeds of doubt that we’re not “good enough” for God to use. This lie often takes root when we focus on our perceived shortcomings—our lack of skills, past mistakes, or feelings of inadequacy. These thoughts can lead us to question whether we have anything of value to offer, causing us to pull back from opportunities to serve or to doubt our calling. But Scripture offers a radically different perspective.

In Jeremiah 1:7-8, God called Jeremiah to be His prophet despite Jeremiah’s concerns about his age and ability. Jeremiah felt he was too young and inexperienced for such a monumental task, yet God reassured him, saying, “Do not say, ‘I am only a youth.’” God didn’t deny Jeremiah’s lack of experience but instead reminded him of His own sufficiency. God’s words reveal that our limitations don’t hinder His plans; in fact, He often chooses to work through them. God’s presence with Jeremiah, not Jeremiah’s abilities, was the true source of strength and success.

When you feel “not good enough,” remember that God doesn’t choose you based on your qualifications. He calls you because of His purpose and grace. Your role is simply to say “yes,” trusting that God will equip you. He knows your every limitation and uses them to show His power in ways you could never imagine. By stepping forward despite your weaknesses, you allow God’s strength to shine through, making you a vessel for His work in the world.

[haydenigmatic]

Stealing this ask from another if

How would the ros react if mc took a potion/got cursed to fall asleep forever, but it has cure, a true loves kiss. But when they kissed mc they didn't wake up meaning they aren't their true love?

Oh God, what have I gotten into, this is going to be hard 😔

DAMON:

If the kiss worked, Damon's initial concern would be overshadowed by pure happiness. He would gaze deeply into MC's eyes, appreciating every detail, and express his undying love for them. He would convey how he couldn't bear to live in a world without MC by his side.

On the other hand, if the kiss didn't work, Damon's reaction would be filled with despair. Tears would gather in his eyes as he realized MC wasn't waking up. Softly begging MC to awaken, he would promise to never give up until he saw the sparkle of life in their eyes once again.

HANNIEL:

He would first ensure MC's well-being, relieved that they are finally awake. Being overwhelmed by joy and affection, expressed through tender kisses all over MC's face. Hanniel's relief and happiness would be palpable as he holds MC close, grateful that their love was powerful enough to break the spell.

However, if the kiss didn't work, Hanniel would be filled with a profound sense of disappointment and self-doubt. Despite his best efforts, he would grapple with feelings of inadequacy and fear of losing MC forever. Yet, his unwavering loyalty and determination would drive him to continue searching for a solution, refusing to give up hope until he finds a way to awaken MC.

JASIRA:

While she might initially scoff at the notion of a true love's kiss, her fierce loyalty to MC would compel her to try. If the kiss worked, Jasira would likely be taken aback by the power of her feelings, but would ultimately embrace the moment with quiet resolve, knowing she had saved the love of her life. In case it doesn't work, she would refuse to accept defeat. Her stubbornness and unwavering commitment to MC's well-being would drive her to explore every possible avenue until she succeeded in breaking the curse.

ODETTE:

As the tale unfolds, Odette, ever the romantic, leans in for the kiss with a heart full of hope. When the magic of true love awakens the slumbering MC, her eyes sparkle with relief and joy. A soft, grateful smile graces her lips as she embraces the triumphant moment, the strength of their love prevailing over the enchantment. However, if her kiss failed, Odette would refuse to give up hope. She would continue to kiss them, driven by an unwavering belief in their love, and would tirelessly search for any means to break the curse, refusing to succumb to despair.

NESRIN:

Relief and tenderness are revealed as the realization sinks in that their love truly conquered all. She would maintain her composure, perhaps a subtle smile gracing her lips, but her eyes would betray the depth of her affection and relief at their awakening.

If the kiss didn't work, a mask of stoicism would remain firmly in place, concealing the turmoil raging within. Behind closed doors, she would grapple with a maelstrom of emotions - fear, desperation, and the crushing weight of uncertainty. Yet, outwardly, she would maintain her dignified facade, determined to find a solution and bring her beloved back to life, even if it means facing her deepest fears.

VERENA:

If the kiss worked, she would respond with a fervent passion, her love for MC burning even brighter. She would embrace them fiercely, overcome with relief and adoration, determined to cherish every moment with them. However, if the kiss didn't awaken MC, she would be consumed by desperation. Her fears of being unlovable would resurface, doubt and despair targeting her. She would struggle to contain the tumultuous emotions raging within her, haunted by the possibility of losing the one person who she thought saw past her facade and loved her for who she truly was.

SORIN:

As Sorin leans in for the kiss, a mix of anticipation and vulnerability colours her expression. When MC stirs, eyes fluttering open, Sorin's heart soars. She can't hide the overwhelming joy that floods her features. A subtle, genuine smile tugs at her lips, and in that moment, the veil of her stoicism lifts, revealing the depth of her love and relief.

If it doesn't, in the crushing silence that follows the unsuccessful attempt, Sorin's eyes betray a hint of vulnerability. She swiftly masks her disappointment, adopting an air of detached acceptance. Her words may convey nonchalance, but the carefully guarded eyes betray a fear that she might not be enough. Deep within, she grapples with the echoes of doubts and insecurities, wondering if the whispers of unworthiness hold a grain of truth.

AURELIA/N:

Her/His heart would swell with relief and joy, their reserved demeanour melting away as they embrace the moment with profound gratitude and tenderness. Overwhelmed with relief and joy. Their eyes would brim with tears of happiness as they hold MC close, whispering words of love and gratitude for their return.

If it doesn't work, s/he would be consumed by guilt and anguish, questioning their worthiness as MC's true love. Despite their grief, Aurelia/n would remain steadfast by MC's side, vowing to never give up hope and to continue searching for a way to break the curse and awaken their beloved.

DORIA/N:

Holding their breath in fear of failure, the moment MC stirs, they would feel a wave of joy wash over them. With trembling hands and a heart overflowing with love, they would pull MC into a tight embrace, never wanting to let them go, cherishing the miracle of their awakening.

However, if the kiss didn't work, Doria/Dorian's reaction would be just as intense and volatile. Deeply wounded and feeling betrayed, they would struggle to contain their fury. The belief that MC was playing with their emotions or didn't truly love them would ignite a storm of anger and hurt, shattering the fragile facade of trust they had built.

[angelique-fireheart]

In Touch Bible Study Notes "Overcoming Inadequacy" 08/12/2024

"At one time or another, we've all dealt with feelings of inadequacy. Maybe it's because we lost our temper with our spouse, missed an important work deadline, or were too afraid to say yes to an opportunity at church. How did you feel afterwards? Maybe you were frustrated with yourself or felt as if you didn't measure up. In today's passage, Paul asks a question that points to this common insecurity. "Who is adequate for these things?" (v. 16)

Here's the good news: We are inadequate--but God isn't. And when we trust Him as our Lord and Savior, we become His children and He gives us His righteousness (John 1:12; 2 Corinthians 5:21) He empowers us and has promised to lead us "in triumph in Christ" (2:14). But unless we believe Him and step out in faith, we'll never experience the life He has planned for us.

Feeling inadequate isn't a sin, but using inadequacy as an excuse is. When God calls us to do something that feels beyond our abilities, we have two choices: We can focus on Christ and proceed in triumph or focus on ourselves and withdraw in defeat. It's really a matter of faith. God will always empower us to do what He asks us to accomplish. This doesn't mean we'll do everything perfectly, but each step of obedience is a victory that He will bless. (Psalm 128:1-2)."

My thoughts on this study are as follows:

It's okay to feel like we aren't enough. We are only human, and as such, we have emotions. But not allowing ourself to be the best we can be because we use that as the above study shows, "as an excuse," that is wrong. God has given us the power to do everything He set in our heart. We are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus. We are inadequate, but we serve THE God of the Universe. He created everything, and us too. He gave us His Son, His only Son, Jesus, so that we may be able to be saved from our sin. Hell is a very real place, and unless we accept Jesus as our personal Lord and Savior, and believe that He lived, died, and rose from the Grave so that He goes on living even today, for our Salvation, then we are just another one among the lost. We also have a given responsibility, and that is to share the Gospel with as many as we can, so they can experience the joy we do, and so they can know Jesus as well. God thought we were enough. He made us and decided to keep us. He loves us so much more than we can ever understand. So we should never think we aren't enough. We are.

Verses read:

Now thanks be unto God, which always causeth us to triumph in Christ, and maketh manifest the savour of His knowledge by us in every place. For we are unto God a sweet savour of Christ, in them that are saved, and in them that perish: to the one we are the savour of death unto death; and to the other the savour of life unto life. And who is sufficient for these things? For we are not as many, which corrupt the word of God: but as of sincerity, but as of God, in the sight of God speak we in Christ.

2 Corinthians 2:14-17 KJV

But as many as received Him, to them gave He power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on His name: which were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God. And the Word was made flesh, and dwelt among us. (and we beheld His glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father.) full of grace and truth.

John 1:12-14 KJV

Now then we are ambassadors for Christ, as though God did beseech you by us: we pray you in Christ's stead, by ye reconciled to God. For He hath made Him to be sin for us, who knew no sin; that we might be made the righteousness of God in Him.

2nd Corinthians 5:20-21 KJV

Blessed is every one that feareth the LORD; That walketh in His ways. For thou shalt eat the labour of thine hands: Happy shalt thou be, and it shall be well with thee.

Psalm 128:1-2 KJV

[camsoblivionjournal]

You’re dating again. 

I’m not jealous. I do not want you. You infuriate me. I almost hate you. You were never going to be an open wound, bleeding and bleeding, I didn’t like you enough for that. But you were never going to be a lumpy ugly scar, you were my first and therefore my everything. I don’t know what we were, to be honest. People who wanted to be wanted? And to be honest, being with you was the least honest I had ever been with myself. 

I think I wanted you to want me. And I think, above all else, I wanted to be wanted. 

No one tells you how to feel. I mean, they do, yeah, in the form of ‘move-ons’ or ‘you’re better offs’ and well-reasoned arguments. Arguments that still don’t tell me how to feel, because they’ve been formed under an incorrect assumption about us. Because truth be told, I do not think I ever really wanted you. 

You wanted me. I needed me to want you. And I needed to be who you believed I was. 

And I think I want you to be happy. After we broke up, I was excited for you to be happy in a relationship again. I wanted you to find what you wanted. Or at least, to find something real. I realize now, writing this, how terminally I crave approval. My fatal flaw. Enough to contort myself for months into foreign shapes and colors. Clearly we did not fit like we constantly believed we did.

So, herein lies the stink of my wound: I’m not supposed to feel any type of way about you dating again. Because, as I’ve so gracefully declared, I did not want you then and I do not want you now. We did not work. 

But I think I almost hate this because you finding someone else reminds me of my utter inadequacy. I hope she actually wants you, like I pretended I did. I hope she actually… 

I hope she says yes, doesn’t shudder in anxiety, and ignores hints. 

That’s not the main reason why I feel like my heart is rotting in my chest. I feel like a stepping stone, a means to an end. I feel like the side character, an obstacle to overcome, in your great love story, while always having been the main character to myself. Worse, still, is imagining y’all doing the exact same things we did. The same conversations, with the same little phrases you like, similar inside jokes, same playlist, same love notes. But who knows? Maybe your new love has a different flavor now. I hope it does. 

God, I hope y’all do not talk about me. But I know you will. Mention me, that is. Mention what I didn’t do, what I didn’t say. Mention the car ride home from the concert, in which I had a panic attack and almost vomited (your greatest fear is vomit). Mention the birthday sleepover, in which I had a panic attack in your basement bonus room bathroom and had to get picked up early because it was my first one and I thought I was dying. Probably whisper to her, between warm sheets, that I never took that leap that night, instead paralyzed in fear on my side of the bed. I never reached for you. I don’t think I could. Maybe I wanted to? But I could not. 

What kind of friends were we? I remember finding you funny. I remember wanting to be funny enough for you. I remember how I changed how I texted for you. I remember listening to your favorite music, watching your favorite shows. It was like you were made to be the object from which I sought approval. I needed you to like me. 

I remember sobbing on a November morning because you had confessed and I could not date you because the thought alone brought tremors and cold sweats. And it was almost never because of who you were and almost always because of who I am. Maybe a month later, you asked again and I said yes. And I remember, after we ended, hating the way you dressed. The way you hid yourself, the way I was certainly too loud for you. The way you could never crack a smile, use charisma, and especially not when I needed it. Respond with ‘what do you want me to say?’ and believe the solution to my problems was to remove myself from them completely. To quit, try and get out of it. The way you viewed your humor as elite, superior. I hated how I viewed you in the same way. 

You were always a club I wasn’t in. 

I did not fit in well with your friends. You convinced me you hated them, and that’s why. You weren’t like them, you had been roped in when you were younger, they were childhood friends. You told me you wish you had friends like mine. It was only after I realized you were probably exactly where you wanted to be. Because here you were, at your big age, choosing to continue associating with these people. It was always a choice. And what of my friends? Well, you had articulated your opinions on ‘weirdos’ and ‘freaks’ (what I am), and for some reason, I chose to pretend they were the exception to the rule. That I was. 

Please don’t talk about me to her. I know you’re up right now, doing that exact thing. I will be a footnote in y’all’s epic love story and I need to be okay with that. I was just wondering if I could get away with not being known as the ex who couldn’t even kiss you. 

God. How do you tell people you don’t think you feel romantic attraction? That you believe yourself to be incapable of participating in what is commonly known as life’s greatest feature?  And, worse even, how do I tell you? I want to explain to you why I was how I was. Because I am how I am. But I cannot, God forbid, I cannot end up in a screenshot. Please don’t reduce me to that. Please. 

I can’t tell you. I’ll have to wait a little while or the rest of my life to prove to the world and then to myself, that who I am is who I am. Deep down I hope I am wrong.

[ragsy]

Sid sent me a bajillion oc ask prompts which i am splitting up into separate posts for each guy! link to the original list at the bottom of the post!

2 of 5: Everett

-What would your character wear if they were told they had to gussy up? Crisp, extremely trendy designer suit. Expensive sunglasses. Expensive smartwatch. His human face.

-What does your character smell like? Woodsmoke, tobacco, gasoline, and Axe body spray.

-Would your character prefer baking, cooking or mixing drinks? NONE of the above, he doesn’t eat or drink. If anything, probably mixing drinks just so he has something to carry around to make him look more casual.

-What season would your character say they're most similar to? Summer. Hot and kinda greasy.

-What animal would your character say best represents them? The human animal. (EDGELORD ALERT EDGELORD ALERT)

-What is your character's favorite kind of social event? Parties. Like, absolute ragers. Ones where people are already 

-How comfortable would your character be singing and dancing in front of others? If it’ll get eyes on him, he’ll do anything.

-Is your character upfront about their feelings? Absolutely not. Whatever he says he’s feeling is just what he thinks will get people to do what he says.

-How willing would your character be to go to a party with people they don't know? Brother, he’s the one throwing the party and inviting everyone in a five mile radius.

-How likely is it for your character to initiate a friendship? He’ll forge alliances at the drop of a hat if it helps him get what he wants, but I don’t think he knows what a friendship is. I think the idea would make him gag.

-Where is your character's comfort place? Center stage, spotlight on him.

-How would your character react to being put in a position of leadership? [rubbing his greedy little villain hands together]

-How well does your character work with others? Anything to get a leg up. He understands the value of a coworkership. 

-What is your character's favorite form of affection? Being worshipped like a god.

-Does your character enjoy celebrating holidays? He thinks they’re a waste of time, but they’re definitely still a useful marketing tool.

-What would it take for your character to get into a fight? Violence is a last resort only for when manipulation has failed.

-What is a habit your character has that others might find cute? He thinks he’s the sexiest man on earth but in reality he’s like a C-tier tumblr sexyman type <3

-Are there particular sounds your character is fond of? The sounds of words of affirmation probably

-Is your character more prone to fight or flight? Flight, in the sense that he will weasel out of anything if he has to

-What words could tear your character down? “Everett who?”

-How well does your character act under pressure? He likes to pretend he’s Cool and Collected at all times, but anything going slightly out of control sets him down a spiral of crumbling disorder.

-Does your character have any allergies?  Before I rebooted him it would have been holy water, but now that he’s more of an eldritch horror than a demon, i’m not sure! What is there for him to be allergic to. 

-How does your character relax?  He doesn’t. He has the grind to keep up!!!

-Is there a secret thing your character longs to hear? “You’re perfect.”

-Is your character more energized in the morning, afternoon or at night? He doesn’t sleep, so it’s anyone’s guess.

-How often does your character have nightmares? Only when he’s been in his human vessel for too long. Starts to get teeth falling out dreams. 

-Is there a fear your character wants to learn to overcome? Inadequacy

-Does your character have a high pain tolerance? Astronomically high. His human body is disposable and his real form (goopmode) isn’t really… like. Injurable. 

-Does your character have a secret hobby? Tumblr posting. He’s great at seeding really stupid discourse.

-What is a talent your character wishes they had? 4chan posting. He doesn’t understand how they clock him as a poser every time.

-Which does your character try to prioritize more, work or hobbies? All of his hobbies contribute to the hustle, they’re equally as important! A party is a networking opportunity. Being entirely too online is an attention opportunity.

-Does your character work better with creative or technical endeavors?  Closer to a 40/60 split in favor of technical. He’s a showman at heart, but his technical skills are the scaffolding that support his whole venture.

-What is a talent that your character is proud of? He can walk up to a stranger on the street and 9 times out of 10 convince them of ANYTHING. Great fun.

-Is your character more outdoorsy or indoorsy?  Indoors. It’s where all the people are.

-What is a topic your character would be excited to talk about?  Advanced SEO optimization buzzwords and subliminal marketing tricks. Somehow he makes it the most interesting infodump you’ve ever experienced. 

-Is there a skill your character doesn’t know they’re bad at? He’s actually not as smooth and charming as he thinks he is. It’s not hard to tell he’s a greasy weasel.

-Does your character have any injury stories? His last vessel was a businessman in the 1970s who got wildly successful and then the mob ordered a hit on him and he “mysteriously died” by being turned into paste by a moving train

-How good is your character at following through on projects? A+ top notch. If it’s going to get him a leg up he’s going to follow through.

[drakinq]

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12:40PM

I’m trying to do multiple things at once here. Validate my own emotions, struggles and adversities, allow myself to feel those feelings. I don’t want to villainize my family but that also helps me in understanding and accepting the role they play in my life. Which is ultimately against me. They are against the things I value most. They put up the most resistance in meeting any of my emotional needs. They are the belief system I am fighting against. With that I have to accept that we will need to be at arms length in order to maintain any kind of peaceful relationship but that they also won’t be fulfilling. Which is ultimately fine because the Lord is enough to sustain me, however I do thinks he rejoices to see brothers and sisters and Christ leaning on one another for emotional support through him and he will bless those who ask for it.

I’m really trying to explore why I’m resistant to my brother’s doctrine. I truly believe it’s because fundamentally value different things. However, it’s making me question if I’m really trying to make my own sense of this and doing more work. I also want to get to space where I don’t have to prove his doctrine to be untrue. There’s some truth to it, I think at the end of the day we both come to the conclusion that God is sovereign over all things. Knowing that God is the only thing that truly can be enough and sustainable to fulfill us, love us and support us properly, understand and see us to the highest degree, hear our cries and concern and be just as sorrowful with us and so much more, more than any living thing on this earth. That acknowledging his works more than our lack helps us to less live in a state of mental decline but gratitude for what has been done for us and what can be done for us. So why am I resistant to the fact that this is where he automatically goes and is trying to get me to go anytime adversity arises. His belief is, so what’s the point of bringing up, harping , processing, any negative emotion or injustice or mistreatment if we know that seeking God out and staying close to him is the only way to truly overcome these obstacles. I guess my resistance or belief is that it’s easier to access that part of your faith when the challenges are simple and spread out. But when your challenges are more complex, they come with more complex emotion and you start feel the effects of that challenge a little heavier. Factually, Jesus didn’t promise immunity against hardship, disease, suffering, temptation and trauma - and the effects these things have on our mind body and spirit - for those who are in fellowship with him. Although he does promise that we should not be inwardly defeated in the midst of trials, that his grace courage can keep us from being spiritual casualties. Which brings me to back to my brother’s doctrine and my resistance. I believe the effects trauma has on the mind body and spirit is there to directly challenge Jesus promise to not let it defeat us inwardly if we are in fellowship with him, the challenge being the effects making it harder to access that belief and fellowship. I don’t believe that even knowledge of this alone is enough to defeat the challenge itself or be immune to the effects trauma has on the mind body spirit. Like I said, I believe the effects trauma has on our mind body and spirit is a direct challenge to accesses fellowship to Jesus and faith in the way. Which is where my resistance stands. I think acknowledging and validating the severity of the injustice, complexity, mistreatment, heavy emotions and the severity of the effects trauma has on us helps us to feel that these inadequacies are deserving of receiving the grace and courage from him, which ultimately encourages us to seek fellowship with him. Which is why I believe it’s important to have brothers and sisters in Christ to lean on for emotional support or self support systems that help us get back to accessing that fellowship when the effects of the situation make it harder to do so. I.e, having someone to talk to that can acknowledge and validate severity of the trauma and the effects has had on you, (because like I said, this helps us establish these issues and emotions are worth bringing to Jesus and seeking his grace and courage in return to help us overcome) , uplift us and remind us that God sees and hears our cries and any other things God has placed on their heart to support us.

I think Im accepting that God didn’t place it on Nunus heart to support me in this way. So ultimately, since it’s important to have these systems when it gets harder to access my faith, I have to do it for myself. Which is why I made multiple list of tools that can help meet my needs when I’m having a hard time accessing my faith more blindly.

[veneyra]

Freshman Year of Uni Goals (23/24)

✭ Find an apartment in the same city my university is in.

✮ Find a part-time job.

✮ Revamp my whole wardrobe, focus on more mature, long-lasting fashion.

✮ Make a good impression on my professors; utilize office hours, be present and active during lectures, do assignments promptly.

✮ Build discipline (God knows I never did)

✮ Rid myself of an anxious, stressed, self-sabotaging mindset; overcome my fear of inadequacy and failure disguised as perfectionism.

✮ Get back into doing yoga.

✮ Write more frequently, finally finish a first draft.

✮ Enjoy my relationship, but don’t let it distract me from my goals and obligations.

✮ Be more social! ♡ Make new friends with my cohort and people from the new city, crawl out of my shell, simply enjoy being a young university student.

✮ Achieve my reading goal, but consume literature critically; begin a reading diary which expresses my feelings and observations about read work explicitly and eloquently.

✮ Expand my vocabulary, both in English and my mother tongue.

✮ (Vague, I know) Become a better version of myself. A version of myself I would enjoy being friends with.

✮ Journal more frequently.

[whocookedthelastsupper]

“With sublime unself-consciousness, as if all the years, the work and the successes of the womens movement had never been, Freud brought back the phallus. In reality, of course, the great snake had never been away. But he was beginning to hide his head, as the women's attacks on unbridled masculine sexual prerogative had begun to beat him down. Now though, there was a new play by the new German dramaturg, and he had the principal part.

The plot was simple. A little boy grows up loving his mother. One day he discovers a great wonder, the adult male dong. Regrettably it is not attached to him-small boy collapses in confusion. Meanwhile his sister has also seen this great sight-she too burns with rage because she does not have it. Little brother will at least overcome his parricidal hatred and castration fears, and grow up to get a plonker of his own to play with. Small girl would however be stuck for always in her immature envy of the sacred object. The moral of the Oedipal drama is therefore simple: it is better to be a boy than a girl, and there is nothing in the world so wonderful, powerful, important and worth having as a penis.

From this starting point, there could be no getting away from the logical extension of it: woman as a sex was inferior because of her "poverty of external genitals": simply to be woman was to be defective. Then again, stuck himself at the "mine's bigger than yours" stags of development, Freud could not help but find the "woman's penis" the clitoris, pathetically inadequate. Recognizing that the clitoris is richly sensitive despite its apparently unimpressive size, Freud decided that it was suffering from a kind of retardation, a "childish masculinity." Only if the "excitability" transferred itself from the clitoris to the vagina was a woman sexually mature. The vaginal orgasm was the mark of a real woman, the clitoral meant "go back and start again." The impact of this has been summed up by a modern American biologist:

Freud's theory of the vaginal orgasm required women to deny their own senses and knowledge about their own eroticism in order to be mature and female, a truly debilitating and depressing enterprise. The efiects were profound and far ranging. For many women it was a fruitless effort that only deepened a sense of inferiority, inadequacy and guilt. As a theory to explain and cure "frigidity, it ensures lack of orgasm by requiring women to have sex in precisely the way it is most difficult for them to experience an orgasm... It reinforced the phal-locentricity of sexuality by defining women's sexuality in terms only of the penis.

The legacy of Freud ensured that women's most personal and intimate part, her sex, was from now on to be hijacked by male "experts"—men who, while they never asked women how they thought or felt, nor listened to the evidence women gave anyway, could still have the authority to know better than women what their sex, at every level, was and should be. For men, this was a rich new terrain where old Mother Nature could be brought into the service of the new Father God of science. And screwed out of her skull, what would she do but replay the story as before: man strong, woman weak, man active, woman passive, man dominant, woman submissive, even exquisitely so, as in this description of the "true woman" by one of Freud's female acolytes, the Princess Marie Buonaparte in her work on Female Sexuality:

For the role of everything female, from the ovum to the beloved, is a waiting one. The vagina must await the advent of the penis in the same passive, latent and dormant manner that the ovum awaits the spermatozoon. Indeed, the eternally feminine myth of the Sleeping Beauty is the retelling of our first biological relation.

It was a good trick. And it came just at the right time. With the spread of contraceptive knowledge and techniques, women had been on the brink of taking control of their bodies.”

-Rosalind Miles; Who Cooked The Last Supper? The Women’s History of the World

[thecosmicangel]

Chiron “The Wounded Healer”

Chiron is also known as the wounded healer. Chiron is not a planet some say it's a comet while others say it's an asteroid,  it was first discovered in 1977 close to Saturn and Uranus. It got its name from Chiron the centaur in Greek mythology. Chiron has a half man and half horse body, due to his form his mother abandoned him and Chiron focused on being a teacher and healer instead of feeling the pain of being rejected and shamed for being different. The sun god Apollo adopted Chiron and taught him everything he knew. There are many versions on his death but we will go on with this version that follows. On one occasion when chiron was handing a poisoned arrow to a student (Hercules), the arrow fell on his leg and pierced it. Since his father was a god, Chiron was immortal so he couldn’t die. He was in so much pain and continued to live in agonizing pain he prayed to the gods to let him die, the gods were filled with gratitude for his teaching that they granted him his wish and he went up to heaven, becoming  one of the biggest constellations “Centaurus”.  Chiron’s lesson for everyone is that instead of basking in the pain of your wounds and suffering, you shall learn and teach others so that they don’t have to go through that same painful experience.

Etymology: Chiron is sometimes spelled “cheiron” from ancient greek word “cheir” meaning “hand” therefore chiron can be translated to “he of the skillful hands”

In Greek mythology: Chiron's father was Cronus and his mother was Philyra, a water nymph.  Chirons knowledge was extensive, he was most commonly known for his expertise in healing and medicine. Various other sources claimed he was knowledgeable in the art of warfare, hunting, music,  astronomy, and rules of ritual. Chiron trained many heroes and possibly some gods in these arts. One of Chiron’s most important students was Achilles, the greatest hero of the Trojan War. Ironically Chiron was a healer who could not heal himself.

Chiron represents our immortal wound that may never heal but at the same time it is our potential capacity to heal other people. Chiron can symbolize the bridge between the spiritual and material ( half animal and half divine being). From the story of Chiron we can see how Chiron represents the themes of rejection, abandonment, & shame solely because he was different. Chiron shows us our unconscious wounds, usually wounds we bring with us from a past life, usually a karmic wound which is meant to teach us something about ourselves, Chiron is here to help us remember what we are here to heal. Chiron also teaches us how to be different and embrace it. 

“ The wound is our initiation into our fragmented self, it is the call to adventure that begins the hero’s journey”

“ That is why in seeking the meaning of your suffering you seek the meaning of your life”

In the natal chart chiron represents our deepest wounds and our efforts to heal it. Chiron in our chart shows us where we have healing powers as a result of our own spiritual wounds. We must first face the issue of low-self esteem or self-worth and the feelings of inadequacy in order to then rise above them. Due to the wound being a deep one we must work hard to overcome it, for some this may take a lifetime , but on the other hand our healing powers are potent wherever chiron is present. Where chiron is placed and the sign or planets in connection with it show us our deep knowledge, experience, wisdom, and talents. Even when our own experience with the issue may be problematic, we gain experience and can teach and guide others in these areas of life. The wounded healer shows us our wounds and how we can use them as our power The house & sign where Chiron is in can show us where our wound is and how we go about expressing it , how we shoot ourselves in the foot, how we nurse our wounds, and how we go our own way.  It can also show us areas of our life we feel rejected, where we feel we do not fit in, where we feel like we are lacking in or feel abandoned or where we choose to move in our own unique way. 

The 3 archetypes associated with Chiron:

The Wounded Hero: Our first experience with the wound, at this stage the wound is not acknowledged yet. Most people ignore this wound their entire lives. The wound is now just hidden in the background of the unconscious , this allows for the wound to sabotage in unconscious ways. Most of us continue to live life with the wound because we are not aware of it. This is when the wound becomes so painful to ignore, leading to the 2nd archetype “the shaman” “ The wound could destroy your or it can wake you up”

The Shaman: The shaman is the medicine man/woman who has the ability to travel in between worlds. This magnificent ability presents them with healing powers. The ability to travel between worlds can be used as a metaphor for the ability to integrate the different areas of our psyche; the good, the bad, and the ugly. Healing can be found when all parts of ourselves are integrated . The shaman is the most intense chiron development stage , but it is vital to embrace it if we want to alchemize our wounds into gifts.

The Alchemist: once we have healed the wound it transforms into a gift. At this stage peace, love, ease, joy, and grace replace the old torments and pain. We can see that we are all on a healing journey and are mirrors of each other in many ways. It is then that we can see the power of love for self and others. 

Our deepest wounds are our biggest gifts in disguise. It's exactly the part of us which is unusual, odd, or different that allows us to be creative and heal our wounds where traditional methods fail.

“ Through transforming ourselves , we transform the world; through transforming the world , we transform ourselves”

From YouTube video “ The Psychology of The Wounded Hero” That I personally feel describe the energy of Chiron and what Chiron is trying to teach us. 

“ it is only by overcoming suffering and having been wounded that one may become a healer”

“ That is why in seeking the meaning of your suffering you seek the meaning of your life”

“ the wound could destroy your or it can wake you up”

“ The secret of healing is inside the wound , which contains the medicine”

“ The wound is our initiation into our fragmented self, it is the call to adventure that begins the hero’s journey”

“ The event of our wounding sends us on a journey in search of ourselves”

“ Through our cracks is where the light comes in”

“ We need to learn from our own experiences of being wounded , to release ourselves from what may be the most serious illness of all, the fantasy of a health without wounds, a life without death”

“ Going through our wound is a genuine death experience, as our old self “dies” in the process, while a new one, more expansive and empowered self is born”

sources: 

pictures are publicly sourced from Pinterest. 

Youtube video: The Psychology of The Wounded Healer- https://youtu.be/ZMV5Kw1oasM

https://cafeastrology.com/chiron.html

https://mythopedia.com/topics/chiron

https://www.astrology.com/asteroids/chiron

https://www.sound-well.co.uk/post/chiron-planet-god-gong-and-wounded-healer

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Daily Devotional | Anna: Faithful Servant March 6, 2023 | Luke 2:36–40 Devotions My mother-in-law, a widow who lives in England, loves Jesus more than anyone else I know. Not long ago, Mum was diagnosed with cancer. Of course, my husband Peter and I were deeply concerned. But Mum? She was excited. “Cancer has given me greater boldness!” she exclaimed on a video call. Then she shared several stories of how she had proclaimed the gospel with more courage than ever before. Anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him.Hebrews 11:6 In many ways, Mum has followed in the footsteps of Anna. Anna had been widowed after only seven years of marriage, and when she met the baby Jesus, she was “very old” (v. 37). Some commentators explain that she might have been as old as 106—having married around age 15, lived with her husband for 7 years, then served for 84 more years as a widow. The reasoning is that a total age of 84 would not have been so remarkable. Anna carried the title of “prophetess.” She was known and respected as a woman to whom and through whom God spoke. Luke further bolstered Anna’s credibility by including the name of her father and tribe. Anna was at the Temple from morning to night—worshiping, fasting, and praying (v. 37). The word used here for “prayer” carries a sense of urgency and need. It seems that Anna continually begged God to fulfill the Messianic promises. And she lived expectantly, so when she saw Simeon take this baby in his arms, she hurried to his side and immediately recognized the Child as the Promised One. Then, she spread the good news among the other like-minded residents of the region. >> Do you sometimes wonder if your age (or another characteristic) might eliminate you from being used by God? You think, “Surely God can’t use someone like me!” Nothing could be further from the truth! Anna’s story shows that God wants to work in and through each of us. Pray with Us You, who have been at work through history to accomplish Your will, can use us for the same purpose. We have no inadequacy or failing that Your grace and power cannot overcome. In our weakness, You are strong (2 Cor. 12:9–10).

[theyayadiamond]

Raveen James, a former Clinical Scientist, author, entrepreneur, and devoted woman of faith, proudly announces the release of her new book, From Iniquity to Equity. In this moving and spiritually rich work, Raveen shares the profound journey that led her from a successful career in pharmaceutical development to a life transformed by the power of God’s grace. Her story of redemption, faith, and surrender is a powerful reminder of what it means to fully trust in God’s promises. Inspired by the scripture, “Blessed is she who has believed that the Lord would fulfill His promises to her!” (Luke 1:45, NIV), From Iniquity to Equity invites readers into a personal account of Raveen’s faith journey. With deep humility and courage, she recounts how she left behind the security of her professional achievements to pursue the calling God placed on her heart—a calling that would change not only her life but the lives of many around her. “I realized that my true purpose wasn’t wrapped up in titles, accolades, or financial success,” Raveen explains. “God had a higher calling for me, and it took stepping out in faith to truly experience the fullness of His promises.” Raveen’s transition from pharmaceutical science to full-time ministry was not without its challenges. Yet, she found strength and clarity in her faith, learning to trust in God’s perfect timing and plan. Her testimony in From Iniquity to Equity emphasizes the importance of surrendering to God, allowing Him to heal, restore, and guide His people to their divine purpose. In every chapter, she reflects on how God has moved in her life and encourages readers to trust that He is faithful in every circumstance. As the founder of Beautiful Blessings Doll Collection, a company created to empower women through promoting positive self-image, Raveen continues to live out her ministry. Her entrepreneurial journey is yet another example of how faith and business can intertwine for God’s glory. She has brought hope and confidence to countless women through her company, even selling her products to organizations like the U.S. military. But her heart for service goes beyond the business world. In a demonstration of her commitment to Christ’s call to care for the vulnerable, Raveen actively partners with charitable organizations, including St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital. Driven by her faith, she offers support, encouragement, and resources to cancer patients and their families. “The Bible teaches us to comfort those in need,” Raveen says, “and that’s a mission I take seriously, whether through my business or my outreach efforts.” In From Iniquity to Equity, Raveen shares practical, faith-based principles for overcoming adversity and aligning with God’s divine purpose. Her story guides those struggling to overcome past mistakes, emotional wounds, or feelings of inadequacy. By embracing a life of prayer, obedience, and reliance on biblical truth, readers will learn how to break free from the bondage of their past and walk confidently into the future God has prepared for them. https://podopshost.com/yayadiamond ⚡ VidChapter AI generated these chapters, try it out https://vidchapter.com/?affiliate=yayadiamond Recommended podcast platform get 10% off: https://podopshost.com/register/?ref=yaya

[zeeshan4567]

Understanding the Role of a Christian OCD Therapist

Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) can significantly affect the lives of those who struggle with it. For many individuals, finding a therapist who not only understands the intricacies of OCD but also shares their faith can be vital to their healing journey. A Christian OCD therapist combines expertise in mental health with a foundation in christian ocd therapist, creating a holistic approach to treatment that resonates deeply with clients who seek both psychological support and spiritual guidance.

What is OCD?

Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder is characterized by persistent, unwanted thoughts (obsessions) and repetitive behaviors (compulsions) that individuals feel driven to perform. These obsessions and compulsions can interfere with daily life, causing distress and impacting relationships, work, and overall well-being. Common obsessions might include fears of contamination, fears of harming oneself or others, or worries about order and symmetry. Compulsions often manifest as excessive cleaning, checking, or counting behaviors meant to alleviate the anxiety caused by these obsessions.

The Intersection of Faith and Mental Health

For many Christians, faith is a fundamental aspect of their identity. It shapes their worldview and influences their understanding of health and wellness. When dealing with a condition like OCD, it can be especially challenging to navigate feelings of shame, guilt, or inadequacy. Many individuals may struggle with the belief that their faith should be enough to overcome their mental health challenges. This is where a Christian OCD therapist can play a crucial role.

The Christian Perspective on Mental Health

Christianity teaches that humans are made in the image of God and that caring for one’s mental health is essential. A Christian OCD therapist acknowledges that while faith is a powerful tool for healing, it should be complemented by professional support. They aim to create a safe space for clients to express their struggles without judgment, recognizing that mental health issues are not a sign of weak faith but rather a part of the human experience.

Integrative Therapy Approaches

A Christian OCD therapist often utilizes evidence-based therapies, such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP), alongside Christian principles.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): This therapy helps clients identify and challenge distorted thought patterns. For someone with OCD, this might mean recognizing irrational fears and learning to respond to them in healthier ways.

Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP): This form of CBT is particularly effective for OCD. It involves gradual exposure to feared thoughts or situations while preventing the compulsive behaviors that typically follow. This technique helps desensitize individuals to their fears, reducing anxiety over time.

Incorporating Scripture and Prayer: A Christian therapist may also integrate scripture and prayer into the therapeutic process. This could involve discussing relevant biblical passages that offer comfort and encouragement or incorporating prayer into sessions to foster a deeper connection to faith.

Faith as a Source of Strength: The therapist may encourage clients to view their faith as a resource in managing their OCD. This could mean focusing on the concepts of grace, forgiveness, and understanding that seeking help is part of God’s provision for healing.

Benefits of a Christian OCD Therapist

1. Faith-Aligned Support

Having a therapist who shares the same faith can help clients feel understood and supported on a spiritual level. A Christian OCD therapist can validate their experiences while helping them explore the intersection of their faith and mental health.

2. Reduced Stigma

Many individuals may feel stigmatized by their mental health struggles, particularly within certain religious communities. A Christian therapist can help clients navigate these feelings, reinforcing the idea that seeking help is a courageous step rather than a sign of spiritual failure.

3. Holistic Healing

Christian OCD therapists focus on the whole person, addressing emotional, spiritual, and psychological needs. This holistic approach can foster a more profound sense of healing and well-being.

4. Encouragement of Community Support

Therapists may encourage clients to seek support from their faith communities. This can provide additional layers of accountability, encouragement, and fellowship, which are crucial in the recovery process.

Challenges in Therapy

While there are many benefits to working with a Christian OCD therapist, challenges may arise. Some clients may struggle to reconcile their OCD symptoms with their faith, leading to guilt or shame. A skilled therapist will navigate these complexities, helping clients understand that mental illness is not a reflection of their faith or worthiness.

Additionally, clients may encounter differing beliefs within their faith communities about mental health treatment. A therapist can assist in addressing these concerns and fostering a supportive environment for healing.

Finding the Right Christian OCD Therapist

When searching for a Christian OCD therapist, consider the following:

Qualifications and Experience: Look for therapists who specialize in OCD and have relevant credentials. Understanding their therapeutic approaches is also essential.

Faith Compatibility: It’s crucial to find a therapist whose theological views align with yours. This can create a more comfortable and productive therapeutic relationship.

Therapeutic Style: Consider the therapist's style and approach. Do they integrate faith into their practice? Are they open to discussing spiritual matters?

Recommendations and Reviews: Seek recommendations from trusted sources or look for reviews from previous clients to gauge the therapist's effectiveness and approach.

Conclusion

Incorporating faith into the treatment of OCD can be a transformative experience for many individuals. A Christian OCD therapist provides not only professional guidance but also spiritual support, fostering a sense of hope and healing. By addressing the complexities of OCD through a faith-aligned lens, these therapists help clients reclaim their lives and embrace their faith in the process. Whether through therapy, prayer, or community support, the journey to healing is possible, and a Christian OCD therapist can be an invaluable partner along the way.

[versegpt]

Overcoming Impostor Syndrome Through Christlike Confidence and Humility

1. Embrace Humility Without Self-Doubt

Philippians 2 reveals a beautiful portrait of Christ’s humility—not a false humility that minimizes His identity, but one that aligns perfectly with His mission. Christ, though equal with God, did not cling to His divine privileges for personal gain. Instead, He willingly took on the form of a servant to fulfill His purpose. His humility didn’t stem from insecurity; He was fully confident in who He was. In the same way, humility for us does not mean thinking less of ourselves but recognizing our worth and gifts come from God. You are not an impostor when you acknowledge your abilities as divinely bestowed rather than coincidental.

2. Root Your Identity in Christ

Paul calls us to "have the mind of Christ" (Philippians 2:5). Impostor syndrome often thrives when our identity is anchored in our performance or in the approval of others. Instead, we must root ourselves in Christ, who defines our value and purpose. In Philippians 2:13, Paul reminds us that it is God who "works in you both to will and to do for His good pleasure." Our worth comes not from perfection but from God’s work in us. Even when self-doubt strikes, we can trust that He equips us for every task He has called us to, allowing us to move forward in faith, not fear.

3. Combat Perfectionism with Grace

Impostor syndrome thrives on perfectionism, convincing us that any mistake proves our inadequacy. But Christ's example shows that our identity is not based on human standards of flawlessness. His humility was displayed in complete dependence on God’s will. Perfection is not required; instead, God's grace makes up for our shortcomings. 2 Corinthians 12:9 reminds us, “My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.” Let go of the impossible task of flawless execution, and rest in God’s grace, knowing He accomplishes His purposes through imperfect vessels.

4. Reframe Negative Thoughts with Scripture

Philippians 2:14 encourages us to live without “complaining and disputing,” which often includes the inner battles of self-doubt. When impostor thoughts of inadequacy arise, confront them with the truth of Scripture. Remind yourself of empowering verses like Philippians 4:13, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me,” and Romans 8:37, “We are more than conquerors through Him who loved us.” By replacing negative, self-critical thoughts with these affirmations of God’s power at work within you, you can shift your perspective from inadequacy to Christ-centered confidence.

5. Seek Support in Christian Community

Paul urged the Philippians to support one another in love and unity, highlighting the importance of community in combating isolation. Impostor syndrome often leads us to withdraw, but surrounding ourselves with encouragement is crucial. Trusted Christian mentors and friends can help us recognize our worth and remind us of our God-given calling. Just as Christ surrounded Himself with His disciples, we too need the support of those who will point us back to God’s truth when doubts arise.

6. Pursue God's Approval Over People’s Opinions

Philippians 2:16 emphasizes the importance of holding fast to the word of life and living for God’s approval, not for others'. Impostor syndrome often makes us overly concerned about how others perceive us, but true freedom comes when we focus on pleasing God. God sees your heart, your efforts, and your obedience. Shift your perspective from seeking affirmation from people to fulfilling the purpose God has for you. In His eyes, you are not an impostor—you are His beloved, equipped for every good work He sets before you.

Ultimately, overcoming impostor syndrome is about more than just boosting your self-confidence; it's about anchoring your confidence in Christ. By trusting in His grace and strength, we can find peace and assurance, whether in success or in moments of weakness. We are called to walk humbly as Christ did, but that humility is never about doubting who we are in Him—it’s about knowing that He is the source of all we are and all we can do.

[jdgo51]

Daily Devotion

When Our Faith Wavers

"We access all the riches of God with the simple decision to trust Him—in everything."

September 1, 2024

James 1:1-8

"Faith is the heart of our Christian life. It’s how we are saved, receive forgiveness for our sins, enjoy a personal relationship with God, and have assurance of eternal life in His presence. By faith, we experience the peace of God and the power of the Holy Spirit. Yet at times our life and prayers are plagued by doubts.

Our faith wavers when we. . .

Apply human thinking to our circumstances. Sometimes God may require us to do something with which human reasoning disagrees (Isaiah 55:9).

Allow our feelings to overcome our faith. Perhaps feelings of unworthiness, fear, or inadequacy cause us to doubt we can do what the Lord asks.

Fail to see God at work in our circumstances. Doubts creep in when we have asked Him to take action but nothing appears to be happening.

Have guilt over sin, past or present. We cannot operate with strong faith when we are mindful of ongoing sin or dwelling on guilt over past wrongdoing.

Faith is defined as “the certainty of things hoped for, a proof of things not seen” (Hebrews 11:1). Do confidence and conviction describe the condition of your faith?"

Bible in One Year: Ezekiel 17-19

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[vinceleemiller]

The Appointed But Reluctant Leader | 1 Samuel 10:6

Are you embracing your calling with spiritual confidence or reluctantly?

Welcome to the Daily Devo. I am Vince Miller.

This week, we are in 1 Samuel 10. I've titled this chapter "The Appointed But Reluctant Leader."

The key verse of this chapter is verse 6, which reads:

Then the Spirit of the Lord will rush upon you, and you will prophesy with them and be turned into another man. — 1 Samuel 10:6

This entire chapter is interesting to read. It starts with Samuel's very detailed prophecy about Saul's journey home. Then Saul heads home, and the Spirit falls upon him as he goes. When he gets home, Saul conceals his impending appointment as king of Israel. Samuel then gathers the nation to select the next king, and after a lot of lots cast, the lot falls to Saul. But Saul cannot be found when called upon because he is hiding in some pile of baggage or equipment and is reluctantly dragged out before the people. What we discover is Saul is an anointed and appointed but reluctant leader.

Yet smack dab in the middle of this experience, we read that the Spirit of the Lord would rush upon Saul and change him into another man. Strange right?

So, let's make some notes about the Spirit and his work through time.

In the Old Testament, the falling of the Spirit upon individuals was rare but critical. It marked God's empowerment for specific moments and tasks. Saul's experience in this text was momentary, divinely confirming him as the first king. But while rare in the Old Testament, this event foreshadows a greater reality for believers in the New Testament age. After Jesus's ascension came the descent of the Spirit at Pentecost, and from this moment forward, every believer receives the sustaining power and presence of the Spirit for living the spiritual life.

I meet believers all the time who feel insecure about their spiritual gifts and calling. Like Saul, we are called but concerned and, therefore, feel some initial intimidation. But we must remember and believe that the Spirit not only rushes upon us momentarily but resides within us permanently. He is apportioned to us to empower us for God's work.

Today, if you feel intimidated about the work God has called you to do, stop defaulting to trusting in your feelings about the feat before you. Trust in the sustaining power of the Spirit so you don't react like Saul. As you will see in this chapter, it would be stupid for the tallest man in all the land to hide in the baggage when he was anointed and appointed the king of Israel. In the same way, it would be stupid for you to trust in your feelings over the incredible power of God's Spirit that lives within you. The Spirit that lives in you is the same person and power that raised Jesus from the dead. So stop cowering and hiding today. Come out from behind the baggage. With a Spirit-filled confidence, step into the tasks God has for you because the Spirit of the Risen Savior resides within you.

#SpiritualCalling, #EmbraceYourCalling, #SpiritEmpowerment

Ask This:

How can you actively recognize and embrace the presence of the Holy Spirit in your daily life, especially when faced with challenges or opportunities for leadership?

Reflecting on Saul's initial reluctance, what steps can you take to overcome insecurity or inadequacy when God calls you to lead or serve?

Do This:

Trust the Spirit, not your feelings.

Pray This:

Father, empower me with Your Spirit today so that I may embrace Your calling confidently and courage, stepping boldly into the tasks You have appointed for me. Help me to trust in Your presence within me, guiding me through every challenge and opportunity. Amen.

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