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themythecho · 3 months

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what if we were like silly otters holding hands while we slept? What if?

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thevashstampede · 4 months

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I need to see more people talking about how deep in the paint I Saw the TV Glow went for the neurodivergent girlies. My autistic girlies. My psychosis experiencing girlies. My maladaptive dissociation daydreaming girlies... where y'all at. Make some noise.

#i saw the tv glow #and then let's discuss how transness and gender non-conformity is so deeply intertwined with it all #Jesus this movie #i hurt... as an autistic nonbinary black person...... that shit HORTED bro #i feel like there's a knife sticking out of my solar plexus i need to go take my meds lmao

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thereignwolf · 2 months

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hey hi hello

here's your not so friendly reminder that there is NO "correct" way to be trans, non-binary, gender non-conforming, etc. there is no set of rules you need to follow to be the ✨p e r f e c t✨ enby. just because YOU may feel strongly one way about something, doesn't mean every single other gender non-conforming/non-binary/trans person has to feel the exact same. constantly bringing others down for not fitting into your exact, regimented, gender worldview is doing the EXACT opposite of supporting others.

k, stepping off my soapbox now

#getting real fucking sick of other non-binary folks trying to police others bodies #and getting REAL FUCKING SICK of certain folks low-key attacking people in the cyberpunk modding community when they have done SO MUCH #for non-binary/trans/gender non-conforming people #signed a trans-masc gender queer entity #vent #personal #text

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variousqueerthings · 2 years

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there’s so many ways that queerness exists in texts, unintentionally and intentionally, coded and uncoded and partially coded and baited and confused and limited and expansive, and then there’s whatever is happening with Hawkeye Pierce, M.D. of the 4077th MASH unit

#hawkeye pierce #MASH #there is of course also the constant mist of gender/sexuality queering that hangs over the narrative because of its structure #its structure as comedy (often subject to whimsical departures from acceptable gender/sexualities)#its structure as anti-establishment and anti-conformity #its celebration of non-conformist personalities and lives and its redefinitions over and over of madness and mutual aid #its structure - of course - as found family #its structure as an island in a sea of militant and fascistic surrealism and answering the questions of:#well what does the alternative to that violence look like?#so the idea of intentionality/unintentionality sort of doesn't matter #because it's creating a manifesto/ethos of sorts that speaks the same language as queerness #and it's down to the DNAs of its structures #(not even mentioning the structures of echoing the realities of those making it -- ethnicities - romantic lives - cultures and religions -#friendships and political beliefs - family structures created on the set of the show itself)#but yes hawkeye pierce is depicted as fascinatingly overtly queer and comedy is (like horror... which....) an acceptable space #for him to be this #(which -- when the horror and tragedy takes more of a front seat his funny-man queerness is somewhat diminished #but a. still very much present b. given an air of drama that legitimises it further c. underpinned by seasons and seasons of existence #d. embedded in that self-same DNA of the structures -- he IS the main POV character #which means he's carrying so much of that idea of non-conformity/civilish disobedience as good and right/whimsy/gender-and-sexuality/etc #so you see... there's whatever is happening with hawkeye pierce M.D.

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seventeendeer · 3 months

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just watched the barbie movie everyone was discoursing about last year and I can't help but feel like a lot of the problems in its execution could have been avoided if the kid character's arc had been about learning to embrace girly stuff as an act of rebellion against the adultification of teen girls while barbie went full butch transmasc

#deerchatter #i know why they didn't do that obvs the writers haven't a fucking clue what a feminism is and the bosses prefer it that way #but it's fun to think about what a good version of the premise could have looked like. there were interesting pieces on the board #the kid character could have been interesting if her arc had been about rejecting barbie bc of increasing awareness of the association #between femininity and weakness. but in wanting to gain respect she started acting and dressing like a young woman because she's at that age #where girls begin to be rewarded for being a more subdued and quote-unquote natural kind of feminine.#she could have become friends with barbie as a symbolic way to heal her inner child #meanwhile barbie takes the you-can-be-anything message to its logical extreme and decides what she wants to be is the one thing mattel will #never let her be: gender non-conforming #these 2 character arcs and where they intersect could have told the same story much better i think #emphasis on personal choice/growing up/social rebellion/embracing what will really make you happy #while also covering multiple ways to handle gendered expectations. pick out the parts you like or throw the whole gender out. both r good!#anyway i have to admit this movie was disappointing. i knew it wasn't gonna be woke but i thought it would still be a bit more fun ....#was hoping for a guilty pleasure kind of experience but even setting aside that hard thematic fumble it's underwhelming :(

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gideonisms · 8 months

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Hey if you don’t mind sharing what’s the name of the t Muir short story where the woman kills a dragon and she and her love interest go into business together as professional monsters? It sounds great!

it's called princess floralinda and the forty-flight tower! I recommend it

#i didn't enjoy the narrator voice as much as in many of her other works but i think the themes she's engaging with are really interesting #kind of asking what makes a thing monstrous/in what ways is gender non-conformity enough to make a person an outcast #but also examining how they get worked back into society's ideas about gender expectations by serving as an example for others #it's good stuff!#for fans of women getting bloody & messy there is much to appreciate here #replies

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fromtheseventhhell · 1 year

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Sometimes I see people misinterpreting Arya's character and honestly, all it does is make me appreciate her that much more. George could've easily written her into as a basic archetype and instead, he gave us one of the most complex and well-developed characters in the series and I'm forever grateful for that 🫶🏾

#arya stark #asoiaf #grateful everyday that George didn't write Arya as a basic NLOG type and instead we got a fleshed out character #with a complicated relationship with her gender role and self-perception #we could've had her disdain other women and instead we have a character who insists on the importance of women in a misogynistic society #gets revenge for a victim of a gang rape + takes care of a small child in a war zone despite being a child herself and defends + admires #+ fosters positive relationships with women from all different walks of life because of how they treat her #she has non-conforming interests but that also blends well with other traditionally feminine qualities #she has a sword! but she primarily has to rely on her intelligence and other skills to help her survive #she's a social creature who fosters relationships everywhere but she has to deal with the crushing weight of isolation and loneliness #she has maturity and intelligence beyond her years but she also captures the helplessness and vulnerability of a child #she can handle being personally mistreated but gets extremely defensive when it's someone she cares about being hurt #she's just so...well-written and the way she was ruined in the show was such a waste of excellent source material #being 100% serious when I say she is one of the best-written characters in fiction and her story is severely underrated #if we don't ever get the ending that George intended for her it'll be a tragedy

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incorrectly-quoting-mxtx · 7 months

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I always feel so weird seeing Hazbin Hotel antis try to ruin the show by calling Vivziepop a bigot.

Vivziepop is a bisexual Latina.

Majority of both the Hazbin cast and Helluva cast are poc and queer.

The queerest of the queer Brandon fucking Rogers cowrites Helluva Boss.

All of the main characters, except Nifty, are queer in some way.

Blitzø and Husk are pansexual

Angel Dust and Stolas (I think) are gay

Vaggie is a lesbian

Millie, Moxie, Loona, and Charlie are bisexual

Alastor is aroace

Seriously, if you don’t like the show that’s fine. Black comedy isn’t for everybody. But making shit up for the express purpose of trying to ruin the show for others is incredibly mean and it’s harmful to the people working on it.

#rambles #hazbin hotel #Hazbin hotel positivity #I personally love the show #and I’m saying this as a queer gender non conforming woman with aspergers #also Husk and Blitzø are some of the ONLY pansexual rep I’ve ever seen

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healthylevelsofmagicthegathering · 8 days

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If I had a nickel for every character in this series who works to enforce the status quo of their evil many-planet empire while forced by that status quo to use illegal materials to present as a specific gender out of the wider-than-cis-human range of possibilities available to their species, I'd have two nickels, which isn't a lot, but it's weird that it happened twice.

#shaperaverse #the puppetshade chronicles #rainu and zasza #i really love how paul goes #here's an alien society with a complex non-human system of gender and sexuality #now here's a member of that society who doesn't conform to it #absolutely fantastic worldbuilding #it's easy for scifi/fantays writers to invent a culture #and make it very one note #here's the cool thing about these aliens and it's like that for all of them #but for both the kratu and the rhazzis we see them from the point of view #of someone who is essentially a queer person under their system

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trans-buckleyy · 3 months

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i’m not saying repressing the gay isn’t a thing, it absolutely is, but you guys know that you don’t have to be gay to be repressed, right?

#negativity #sort of #someone repressing aspects of themselves isn’t necessarily because of their sexuality #especially if you grow up in a very gendered environment #you might automatically repress certain aspects of your personality #just because they’re associated with being weak or non conforming #this is why straightness is exclusive #if you’re a feminine or emotional guy you’re ‘not straight enough’#even if you’re solely attracted to women #idk what to tag this #i don’t have anything against gay/queer eddie headcanons #i just don’t think it’s the *only* possible explanation #also it’s kinda fucked up to assume repressed = gay

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im-not-a-virgo-im-a-lesbo · 1 year

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Here's a poll for you

Please reblog for a bigger sample size!

#i personally really hate it #the colors just dont look good to me (no offense to you guys that like the flag #queer #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbtq+#lgbtqia+#lgbtq community #poll #polls #gender nonconforming #gender non conforming #gender non comforming flag

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dysphoric-culture-is · 2 years

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question: Is it morally wrong to lie about my AGAB online? I'm AFAB, but wearing the label of FTM or simply Trans makes me dysphoric to a level unimaginable. I cope by lying about my AGAB and saying I'm AMAB, but I've recently been thinking about the morality of doing so.

It's best not to assign morality to AGABs, anon. They're just labels after all.

Also: people online (and most people IRL) are not entitled to know what some doctor said about you when you were born. Calling yourself a male or saying you were AMAB/a cis man isn't problematic, because it's the internet and it doesn't matter. You're a male: end of story.

Even IRL trans people lie about their AGAB all the time for whatever reason (being stealth, not getting misgendered on forms, dysphoria, etc). Transfems and nonbinary people also lie about their AGAB.

Unless you're in a doctor's office/court/etc, you can say anything about your assigned sex you want! You could even say you were MTM (a trans man who feels like he's always been male in some way), refuse to talk about AGABs, or use a label like A?AB.

#say it with mod: THE INTERNET IS NOT ENTITLED TO YOUR PERSONAL HEALTH HISTORY #and this includes your agab and transition story #not dysphoric culture #ask #dysphoria tw #gender dysphoria #dysphoria #social dysphoria #ftm #afab trans #agab non conforming #misgendering ment tw #trans #nonbinary #queer #lgbtq #lgbt+

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qcomicsy · 1 year

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Not to be gaslight, gatekeep, girlboss, fleabag, black swan on main but I feel like we should explore more Wade Wilson femininity not only by his sexuality or his softness or his delicacy as Wade and Deadpool, but also his rage.

I'm saying that because he seems the exactly type of person who would hear a "You're acting crazy!" stop, turn to the person and say "I'll show you crazy" before setting fire in their clothes.

Give Wade the so called feminine rage he earned that shit.

#q rambles #not being able to articulate this well yet but it's damn close what I mean #something something #except personally as much as I love Deadpool as a trans guy I generally headcannon him like Nonbinary #but in this case I think it aplies to both #deadpool gender non conformity is so trans coded I love him so much he deserved be explored with care and respect by queer writers #who actually understand and give a shit about his character arc in general #Phoebe Waller Bridge should write a Deadpool media and I will die on this hill #shes very special TO ME

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dragon-giggles · 3 months

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Thought about what my own emotions might look and act like and so I ended up drawing what I think my Anxiety might be like!

It was real fun, and I definitely intend to do all the others soon!

#little gender non-conforming orange creature living in my head #Im gonna squish it like a bug/j #inside out 2 #anxiety #... i don't know how else to tag this ugghhhh #original design #personal design #oc #<???#idk

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its-your-mind · 8 months

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huge fuckin shoutout to the express care doctor I saw today who was the first doctor who noticed that I had “Gender” marked as “Other” in my chart and casually asked me for my pronouns. nb folks stay winning.

I was only there for 20 minutes to get tested for strep/COVID/flu/RSV (all of which are spreading through my school atm. yaaaay teacher life.) I’ve seen dozens of doctors since getting diagnosed with Post-COVID in 2021, and this was the first time anyone had asked.

it just!! was nice. that’s all. made my very shitty day slightly better and took apporx 2 seconds.

healthcare has been a shitty shit place to work for the last few years. shoutout to y’all still trying to keep people healthy, and thanks for all the small things you do to make a patient feel a little more safe and comfortable. it means more than you think, sometimes.

#I have badonkadonks of a size that negates any attempt at casual gender-non-conformity #and I don’t use they/them very often in my daily life #(I’m mostly cool with she/her and any irl switch would fuck up too many of my familial relationships)#most specialists mostly just skim the personal information section #(if they even read anything past the name)#and I’ve never bothered to correct anyone #so it’s not like everyone I’ve seen for the past few years was transphobic or anything #idk. it was just. really really nice.

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andillwriteyouatragedy · 1 year

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feeling especially anxious this year but whatever. happy Trans Day Of Visibility!! i'm actually currently terrified to be visible. but i also want more than anything to just be able to be myself.

so. i'm visible today so you have to fucking acknowledge me. and remember, if you're not trans or an ally, or i will find you!!

i am so blissfully, mercifully happy being myself as i am and knowing i am outside of gender!!

and also, fuck you, transphobes!! i hope i outlive you!! 😊 🏳️‍⚧️

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