Why sometimes it is important to have FEMALE gynaecologists
When we talk about wanting female gynaecologists or obstetricians, we often talk about hypothetic things, so I thought I'd share my real, recent experience. I'm a grown up adult and yet I'd never gone to the gynaecologist before until recently. It all started last year, when my periods got odd. I won't go into details, but you know when your instinct urges you to get checked because you know in your gut that something is off? And you know it sounds insane if you say it out loud, and people don't believe you, but you know. So I contacted a GP, managed to convince him to take me seriously, and I got a referral for a gynaecologist. A year later, I was finally called for my appointment.
When I got my paper with my appointment, I was surprised to learn that the examination I was booked for was far more and more invasive / intense than I had thought it would be, so I got very anxious, because I've heard from friends who had terrible experiences at the gyn and I was worried sick. Will it hurt? Will they be too harsh? Will I bleed? Will I be really uncomfortable? Then I had worse concerns: will I have a dishonourable doctor/nurse who takes advantage of me? So I decided the best way to ease my concerns was to ensure that no males were in the room. A woman wouldn't rape me, a woman wouldn't touch me without knowledge of what it feels like, a woman would be able to be empathetic with me, put herself in my shoes, and try and help me. A woman wouldn't get turned on. A woman will also have had, at some point, her first intense examination and will understand my worries and anxiety. Men? They'll lack empathy, they'll be too brusque, they might sexually abuse me, they might hurt me simply because they don't know how delicate you need to be, or mansplain, or discard my concerns, or all of the above.
It was important for my doctor to be a woman.
Unfortunately, we live in the day and age where if you call your doctor, hospital or surgery in the NHS to try and ensure your doctor is a woman, sometimes you'll be met with the wrong person who will think you're transphobic and be really rude and disrespectful and refuse to help. It took me 2 days on the phone, calling a variety of hospitals, hospital departments and NHS numbers, until I was able to find a sweet lady who was happy to ensure my doctor was female and to my surprise, she didn't even ask me to explain why it was important to me.
In the end, my appointment went just fine. I had a young, understanding, caring, gentle and lovely female doctor who was also POC, so she actually gave me a lot of insight. I arrived saying "I'm so sorry but I've never done this before and i'm so anxious" and the whole time she was listening to me, comforting me, calming me, explaining me exactly what she was doing bit by bit, being patient, empathetic... She actually told me I'd done well coming and gotten checked and explained how important it was, even if it didn't seem like a big deal or even if I wasn't sexually active at the time. Unfortunately I was right and the doctor found evidence of a more serious health problem, so I'll be getting more tests and things, but I was so happy with the doctor I got. When she told me what I might have, which is something that runs in my family, I told her I didn't know anything about that problem, so she sat and patiently and kindly told me all she knew about it, explained it's a problem many women live with and that in ethnicities such as hers or mine, it could be even more common, but she gave me the magical line "us women have had to deal with things like this since always and we always pull through, so don't worry, there's a lot we can do" and I left not feeling worried at all, rather, empowered, calmer and confident.
So don't fucking undermine the importance of being able to choose exactly the doctor you want.
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Doctors Kurt and Sarah Bjorkman, a board certified pediatrician and OB/GYN, use this week's episode to share their 10 favorite first foods that they used when starting out doing baby-led weaning with their own baby. They also share 13 foods that are important to avoid or use with caution when starting out as well as some key safety tips to keep in mind along the way!
This is part 3 of a 3 part series on starting solids so be sure to check out:
Part 1 -- "When to Start Solids": https://youtu.be/tOiXWDG44wU
Part 2 -- "Baby-Led Weaning - the Benefits, Risks, and Getting Started": https://youtu.be/N8gLcrPEhB4
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Video about performing CPR for choking baby: https://youtu.be/gHZdBY-CkGw
0:00 - Intro
1:02 - Getting Started
1:35 - 10 Favorite First Foods
8:30 - 13 Foods to Avoid or Use with Caution
13:36 - Special Precautions for Safety
16:05 - Other Key Tips When Starting Out
Intro Music: A WAY FOR ME - Nicolai Heidlas by Chem Ocampo
Keywords: pregnancy update, the doctors bjorkman, pregnancy vlog, obgyn, pediatrician, new baby, baby basics, breastfeeding, bottle feeding, exclusively breastfed baby, breast pumping, newborn, new mom, new dad, how much to feed baby, starting solids, baby-led weaning, baby-led introduction to solids, baby food, baby purees, first foods, BLW, allergies, choking
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Empowering Womens Health Insights from Leading Obstetricians and Gynecologists
Women's health is essential to overall well-being and requires specific attention. Doctors specializing in obstetrics and gynecology (OB/GYN) offer comprehensive medical treatment specifically catered to women's requirements. In this article, we'll look at OB/GYN physicians' crucial role in strengthening women's health and examine the top 10 reasons that make Dr. Shubhra Goyal unique in her region.
So, let’s get started!
The Role of Obstetricians and Gynecologists!
Gynecologists and obstetricians are women's health experts with the education and experience to deal with all facets of female health, from adolescence through menopause. They are adept at offering a variety of treatments, including gynecological care, reproductive system management, and prenatal care. Let's examine the main areas of expertise for OB/GYN specialists in more detail:
Obstetricians and gynecologists are essential throughout pregnancy. They monitor the mother's and the growing baby's health while providing direction and support during this life-changing experience.
Gynecological Services - They include regular gynecological examinations, screenings, and treatments for infections, irregular menstruation, and pelvic discomfort.
Maternal Healthcare Providers - Preconception counseling through postpartum treatment are all included in the broad category of maternal healthcare services. OB/GYN physicians guarantee a safe and healthy pregnancy, delivery, and postpartum period.
Reproductive System Specialists - PCOS, endometriosis, and fibroids are among the problems they identify and treat that impact the female reproductive system.
Prenatal Care Physicians - They play a crucial part in ensuring a healthy pregnancy by keeping track of the health of pregnant women and their unborn children.
Doctors specializing in menstrual health - OB/GYN specialists can alleviate painful periods and excessive bleeding through various surgeries and therapies.
Obstetrics and Gynecology Specialists - With significant training in these fields, they provide a comprehensive approach to women's health that addresses all phases of life.
Maternity Care Experts - OB/GYN physicians offer skilled care throughout labor and delivery, guaranteeing a happy and safe birthing experience.
Gynecologic Surgeries - They carry out surgical operations, such as hysterectomies or minimally invasive procedures, when required to treat disorders like uterine fibroids or endometrial problems.
Moving ahead, let’s discuss,
Empowering Women's Health: The Role of OB/GYN Doctors
Women's health empowerment includes identifying and treating medical disorders and educating and assisting women in making decisions about their health. OB/GYN physicians assist their patients in navigating the complexity of female health by acting as their champions. They help with empowerment in the following ways:
Patient-Centered Care - OB/GYN practitioners use a patient-centered approach to delivering care, considering each woman's particular requirements, preferences, and objectives.
Women are empowered to make decisions through education and counseling on their bodies, reproductive health, and contraceptive alternatives.
Preventive Care - For the early identification and prevention of illnesses, routine check-ups and screenings are crucial. Obstetricians and gynecologists stress the value of preventative care.
Emotional Support - Women's health is not just physical; it's emotional, too. OB/GYN doctors offer emotional support during challenging times like infertility struggles or pregnancy complications.
Advocacy for Women's Rights - Many OB/GYN doctors are passionate advocates for women's rights, including access to secured and legal abortion, contraception, and comprehensive healthcare.
Read More: https://www.drshubhragoyal.com/welcome/blogs/empowering-womens-health-insights-from-leading-obstetricians-and-gynecologists
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Decoding OBGYN: Exploring the Roles of Obstetricians and Gynecologists
Discover the intricacies of OBGYN care as we delve into the roles of obstetricians and gynecologists. Uncover the unique responsibilities each profession holds in women's health and pregnancy care in this informative blog post.
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