#No kids

[futurebird]

It's an ongoing frustration of mine that being around people who LGBTQ friendly and not, well, bigots tends to also mean not having anyone to talk to about how painful it was to realize I'd never be able to have kids. No one gets why I cry when I see babies sometimes.

"just adopt" "the world is overpopulated anyway" "having a kid is so self centered" "people think popping a baby out is some kind of accomplishment"

etc.

Just so many clueless cruel little comments. When I see gender reveal parties I don't really get the gender part, but the joy and excitement make total sense to me. I wish that could be me and my family excited to know we're going to meet a new person. We're going to get to do this thing that people have aways done. We get to be a part of it.

If I could be pregnant and if I could ever far enough in without another miscarriage that the gender of the child could be guessed at? Wow. I'd throw the biggest party ever. I'd throw rainbow confetti and be so happy. Children are little miracles.

To many people this is self-evident, beyond questioning. And that's most of what these parties represent to them. The joy of another life. But then they have to add in the layer of "gender enforcement" which ruins it. Which is why I don't feel like I can talk to them either about these feelings.

"Do you want a boy or a girl?" "It's better to have a boy first, so your girl will have an older brother." "Stop pretending you don't care about the gender" "the first one is hard but then you can just pop them out like its nothing"

So many clueless cruel little comments. When I watch gender reveal parties I wish that were me, I wish that weren't me. Can we keep the party and the joy, ... but skip the pink and blue?

So we could recognize that wanting to have kids is something normal, and it's a big deal. It's beautiful. It's important. It's complex and like many major life events everyone has different experiences.

[classycookiexo]

[shmowder]

Spin the wheel and pick to either fuck, marry or kill the Pathologic character you get.

(All options pet the cows)

[class-of-classic-blog]

Glodie: Tea?

Red: Herbal or verbal?

Goldie: Both.

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So i wanna talk about their friendship.

Goldilockes desteny is from a comman background so we can asume that she grow up somewere in the woods and if you're delulu enough you can say that she lived somewere near Red and that they went to the same school and were chiledhood besties.

Goldie is cured with being hopelesly romantic and Red is there to do a background check on the gays she's dating.Even when Goldie was dating King Charming and hang out with royals most of the times she'd still miss Reds company.

They are just normal teenage girls. They got ready for parties together, gossip, had deep conversations on summer nights, help each other prepare for the dates and other stuff.

They talked about games, clothes, school and crushes whan they were little and later about job, marriage and kids.

Even if they don't have much time now and are busy in their adult lives, they still go for a coffee once a month to catch up.

You know that one person you just never stop being friends with no matter what? Yeah, thats them.

[systemdeez]

Less people should be having kids, I think.

[rei-ismyname]

Rogue doesn't want kids

Good for her

I was really glad to see this expressed in Excalibur, and not just because I decided long ago that I don't want kids either. Marvel has some atrocious incidents of normativity in its history (Carol Danvers' r*pe baby she didn't want being treated as a celebration by everyone except her springs to mind.) Rogue expressing the lack of desire for children, while basic, is still a step towards breaking those expectations of people, especially people with wombs.

[audreyrose7]

Women are so much more then just baby factories. We are complete and whole people, beautiful, wonderful and complex. Layered and complicated. Glorious and messy. Unstoppable. For religion to limit us to just making babies is beyond insulting. There is so much more to us then just to please men and have kids. I'm so incredibly fed up with the lies that we have thought we have to believe. We don't have to have kids, get married, or follow your God to have a beautiful and meaningful life!

In fact, women without kids and men are almost always happier!

[reashot]

J. I. N. K.

Jaune: You know Ren I've been thinking for a while.

Ren: That's usually how most of your problems starts but do tell me anyway.

Jaune: *sigh* here goes... I don't want to have kids.

*the sounds of glass breaking*

Ren: W-what?

Jaune: I said I don't want to have kids... Geez Ren you sure are a bad listener.

Ren: No-no I heard what you said. What I don't understand is why?

Jaune: Not wanting to have kids? I mean that's easy. There's the economy. Also with all the Grimm's attack lately. I don't want to have to see my possible children being eaten by one.

Ren: Yeah... You can't raise kids today on a huntsman's salary. But still Jaune don't your family really wants to see you having kids. Even your mom's been telling every girls you met that she would love to see her grandchildren.

Even me that one time. That I would rather not discuss... But still Jaune why?

Jaune: I don't know I just don't want kids, okay. I mean I like kids and all. I just don't want them. Maybe it's because of the economy or the Grimms or that I have a hidden fear that I will never be good enough to be a father... Point is I don't want them.

Ren: Well Jaune as long as you're happy....

*rumbling in the distance*

Wait. Why do I hear boss music?

??? : Jaune Arc!!! Get Your Beautiful Behind Outside. Right Now!

If this gets enough traction I may continue. And I might add my Jaune's children OC.

[lousydrawingsforgoodpeople]

[gunsounds]

My growth this past year has been so amazing to see. I think about myself 2 years ago, and this is all she ever wanted. I'm so proud of myself that everything came into fruition.

[agender-wolfie]

I’m childfree not childless. The “less” makes it seem like I wanted them but couldn’t have them. The “free” means that I would rather hold an unpinned grenade than ruin my life with children.

[classycookiexo]

[insight-chronicles]

Why the hell has the algorithm decided that I need adverts on how to become pregnant...like why!?

I'm a completely unattached asexual person who has had no interest in ever having kids and have never had a conversation about having them for my phone to pick up on so why?!

[young-royals-confessions]

I vote for more aged-up fic with Wilmon in their 30s !

But it's funny to see that they all incluses kids (theirs or of a previous partner). Getting older doesn't have to mean kids !

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