#New year resolution

[d0gb0ness]

New Years resolution thingy!!

•Keep a clean room

•Make art I’m proud of

•Have grades I’m proud of

•Stay healthy

•Work on projects

•Don’t kill anyone

yippee!!

merry new year

[greenplumbboblover]

Happy almost new year!

Yesterday I posted that whole "Top 10 Tumblr posts" but while that was fun to see, I figured I'd go through things I felt was a great accomplishment of this year for me. And some new years resolutions ;)

Accomplishments of 2023:

I made a website!

I know it's tiny and that it's not really great (yet) for getting tons of views, but I do want to thank everyone (I actually typed out all the names but tumblr was being stupid and I couldn't post the post then :/) for either giving it a try or using it. Without you, it would've just been a floating idea with no purpose. :) Thank you so much for believing in it!

I created a new sims story!

Gone a bit back to my original Simblr roots and made a story! Chapter 1 had been in my screenshots folder for over 2 years now, but I was just self-conscious about sharing it. I'm glad I actually got to terms that the only way to know if people will like it, is by sharing it. :)

Came back to Tumblr fully again.

Over those 2 years I hadn't really been on Tumblr much. I'd post my mod posts and that was it. Truth be told, I didn't really have much motivation to do TS3 stuff anymore at that time. But I think in the end I forgot how fun it can be :) I know I suck at interacting with people, though my anxiety often gets the best of me, and I'm genuinely sorry about that! I'm hoping to change that next year with some help.

New Year's resolutions:

I know most people probably didn't get through the whole thing because I type a lot, but if you do, hey there :)

Making Simblr.cc feel more personalized

I feel like currently it feels very download-oriented, which I'd like to keep! But that vibe also seems to be around with the more picture - oriented things. So I just want to make part of that feel more Tumblr-ish where it's just your personalized space. :)

Starting to sell stickers (and such)!

I know, kind of clique thing that everyone seems to be doing now and then, but I have seriously been loving to draw a lot. Though, my creative outlet only seems motivated when I do something for someone/something. So I was hoping to not just sell stickers for SImblr.cc as a donation thing, but also to make some of my own. :)

Finishing LISISV

I never intended to make LISISV like those shows that have been around for 20 years and going on. :p I know most of you do, which I love! But I'm not sure if I will be able to, lol.

I was hoping to rewrite the entirety of "Elly" which I did YEARS ago as a wee 14 year old (till I think, like 16?) but that's all basically teenage cringe IMO :p The concept and the characters however I always adored. So who knows!

Figuring out what to do with Interests & Hobbies

I keep promising that I'll finish it "after this mod" and I honestly do open it up, work on it for a little bit but then I start working on a feature and it... just doesn't work with the mod? However, the more I do that, the more 'bland' the mod becomes. So I don't know what do with it anymore 😅 Anyone who knows please help!

Unless you are all okay with remnants of it, which I'm doing currently :)

Making this space mod I have been wanting to do for a while

Not many people know this about me but i'm a huge sci-fi nerd :p And I wondered how hard it would be to make this “colonizing the a planet” space mod in TS3. Though I know that most people probably wouldn't care about that, since TS3 is more about generational things and... not so much about those things. So, who knows.

I guess I just need to sit down with myself and get my shit together, honestly.

Attempting to actually talk to others.

I don't know how people do it... I honestly want to keep tap of everyone I follow but I get so exhausted, if not, my anxiety starts kicking in because "what if I say the wrong things?" It's not just a tumblr thing though, i've been like that since forever, and maybe should just reach out for help for it. I just don't know.

I just feel as of late that people put great effort into commenting on my things and I'm barely there for them. Yet, just know that I am there, that I do think of you, i'm just deleting my sentences over and over again and just giving up. I'm genuinely sorry about that.

Hopefully your year will be nice and may your wishes come true :

[defensive-tactics]

Make the most of your self defense training resources. Practice, practice, practice.

[idigitizellp21]

The Psychology Behind New Year’s Resolutions: Turning Goals into Reality

The start of a new year inspires millions to set resolutions to improve their lives. However, research reveals that many resolutions fail, leaving individuals frustrated. This article explores the psychology of goal-setting and provides actionable strategies to turn your 2025 resolutions into achievable milestones.

Why do New Year’s Resolutions often fail?

Goals and the Brain’s tug of war: Resolutions stem from the rational, long-term-oriented part of the brain. While this part encourages self-improvement, it often conflicts with the impulsive, habit-driven part that governs day-to-day actions. For example, you decide to cut back on social media, but habitual scrolling during downtime undermines your goal.

Psychologist Dr. Calos Alos-Ferrer explains this conflict, noting that goals alone often set us up for failure unless paired with effective strategies to reprogram automatic behaviours.

A Smarter Approach: The SMART Framework:

The SMART framework, commonly used in management, provides a structure to make goals attainable and attainable.

1. Specific Goals: Vague resolutions are hard to follow. Define precise outcomes to provide clarity. For example, Instead of saying “ I want to get fit”, one should say “ I want to run three miles twice a week”.

2. Measurable Progress: Tracking progress ensures accountability and motivation. For example, if your goal is to read more, create a list of completed books to monitor your achievement.

3. Achievable Objectives: Set realistic targets that reflect your current situation. Example: An aspiring novelist might aim to write 500 words daily rather than completing an entire novel in a month.

4. Relevant Aspirations: Goals should resonate with your values and lifestyle. For instance, a non parent setting a goal to spend more time with kids may find it irrelevant and unsustainable.

5. Time-Related deadlines: Set clear timeframes to evaluate your progress. For instance, “I want to save 2000$ by June” is more actionable than “I want to save money”.

Research Insights on Effective Goal setting:

A. Challenging Goals yield Better Results: According to a study by Edwin Locke and Gary Latham, specific and challenging goals significantly enhance performance compared to vague or simple objectives.

B. The Role of Positive Psychology:  Martin Seligman’s work in Authentic Happiness highlights the power of a positive mindset and focusing on personal strengths to foster motivation and well-being.

C. Intrinsic Motivation is key: Self-determination theory by Edward Deci and Richard Ryan emphasizes that goals aligned with intrinsic motivations-such as personal growth or passion are more likely to succeed.

Building New Habits for Lasting Change:

1. Implementation Intentions: German Psychologist Peter Gollwitzer and Anja Achtziger propose “action triggers” to rewire habitual responses. For example, Pair a trigger with a goal “ If I finish breakfast, I will immediately go for a 15 minute walk”.

2. Be Patient and Expect Imperfection: Change takes time. Recognising that failure is part of the process can reduce frustration and encourage perseverance.

Leveraging the Emotional Momentum of the New Year:

The collective energy of the new year offers a motivation boost. Use this time to set specific, challenging and meaningful goals. Focus on progress over perfection and celebrate small victories along the way. 

The psychology of resolutions reveals that success requires more than ambition. It demands strategy. By adopting the SMART framework, aligning goals with intrinsic motivations, and reprogramming habits through action triggers, you can transform your aspirations into reality. Approach 2025 with patience, persistence and a clear plan and you will be well-equipped to make meaningful progress. 

The journey to achieving your New Year’s resolutions doesn’t have to be perfect—it just has to be intentional. Embrace the imperfections, learn from setbacks, and focus on consistent progress rather than flawless execution. Remember, the key to lasting change lies in aligning your goals with your values, reprogramming habits, and celebrating small wins along the way. For more insights and tools to help you on this transformative journey, visit Imperfect, where embracing imperfection is the first step toward achieving your best self.

Urveez Kakalia and Krupa Abraham

[dmckinney79]

Though the mountains be shaken and the hills be removed, yet my unfailing love for you will not be shaken nor my covenant of peace be removed,” says the Lord, who has compassion on you. - Isaiah 54:10

[sky-eira]

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!!

One of my new year’s resolutions is to stop trying to do everything perfectly because perfection does not exist. In exchange of perfectionism, I’ve ditched productivity.

I’d been way less productive in writing than I would have liked.

I had that habit of looking at a sentence I just wrote, over and over, until it morphed (several times) into something that I thought would be better, better, better—while in reality it was perhaps not better. Just different. In the end, I’ve wasted a lot of time.

Time to leave that habit in 2024.

Hello, (hopefully) new me!

And hello to the new you, too! If you’ve made your resolutions for this year, I hope you make it through! I’m sure you can do it!

P.S: A new fanfic (fysisc) chapter is coming tonight!

[kwoncastro]

Happy New Year🎉🥳!

Wishing you a year filled with love🥳, laughter, and success. May this new year bring you renewed energy, hope, and joy🥳🎉.

Warmest wishes🥳!

[wickerbeast-in-lila]

New Years Resolution

Find a new job that doesn't treat you like you are a dispensable scapegoat

Find a new job that pays you the money that you need and deserve

Stabilize your mental health

Get your Bullshit-Armor back and stay calm

Don't have nearly dying family members (twice, same person)

Go to a concert of your new favourite music artist

Buy less books (maybe)

Buy more mangas (definitely)

Remember my friends birthdays

Cry more often, it helps

[happytakes]

2024.12.16 | Gentle reminder before the year ends. Most of us will be planning our new year's goals. Consider integrating these to your daily routine for a healthier, happier new year.

[3xistentialg1rl]

[rand0mwisd0m]

Just disappear.

Then go to war against the man in the mirror and don't come back till you win.

[arcticmonkeysjunglepenguins]

Week two of creating.

[rohanscornernz]

Do Hobbies Help??!!??

Having a hobby offers numerous benefits that contribute to overall well-being and quality of life. Here are some of the positives of having a hobby: Stress Relief: Engaging in a hobby provides a healthy outlet for stress and tension. It allows you to unwind and shift your focus away from daily worries and responsibilities, promoting relaxation and a sense of calm. Personal Fulfillment: Pursuing…

[lexerific]

My New Years Resolutions is off to a Rocky start

[lindseybyrd]

The new year is coming up and I’m committed to expanding my reading list this year in as far as my library can support it.

Any books that stand out to anyone as Must Reads?

I’m usually an adult fantasy reader but I am open to all genres including nonfiction.

:)

[unirav]

Embark on a Proactive Journey this New Year! 🚀✨

Click the link for transformational insights: https://unirav.com/beating-procrastination/