#New Year Same Queer
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fandom is so beautiful
i just found a fic where johnlock happen to be investigating at the supreme court when same-sex marriage became legal in america and john said he was bi out loud for the first time and it was really sweet… and then i saw it was published on the day it was acc made legal and burst into tears
also here’s the link cuz ik y’all will want to read it (;
#i don’t know how to explain it but like#the author saw the news that it was finally made legal in 2015#and then went and wrote a fic celebrating it with characters who have “been together’’ for over 100 years prior#i was too young and also not american so i never realized how long it took until years later#same-sex marriage here has been legal before i was born#but holy fucking shit does it make me sob every time#sherlock holmes#john watson#johnlock#sherlock fandom#ao3#lgbtqia#queer
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Looking forward to a bunch of trans women coming out and picking the name Vivian in about five to ten years from now :)
#paper mario#paper mario: the thousand year door#Paper Mario: TTYD#Spoilers#switch#trans#vivian ttyd#vivian#transgender#lgbtqia#queer#I did that with Marceline from Adventure Time#But I almost ended up choosing Vivian as a name a decade ago#So I’m placing my bets now on some new trans girls following in my same steps lol
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2011 was a huge year for trans rights in Neopia because 5 yooyuball players' pronouns changed that year: "Poke" Cellars and Meela Kitah from Kiko Lake, Minae Mitora from Terror Mountain, Ilsa Ellits from Meridell, and Erli Quinnock from Brightvale
#neopets#neotag#altador cup#mine#as always my info comes from bookofages and i owe jn my life#actually speaking of. i think that's the year faerieland's colors changed too?? lots of stuff getting revamped#i knew antola wasnt the only one whose gender changed but i didnt realize everyone else i was thinking of was in the same year sdfkjf#i had been wondering why antola was the only one who got a shoutout and my guess is whoever was writing flavor text for that tournament#didn't pay much attention and it stuck. but yknow what it should be canon anyway.#i dont even know when antola's pronouns changed bc that was the year before i joined shenkuu. he might also have been that year#minae is the only trans girl btw. we need more new players also so we can have more#kiko lake currently tied with shenkuu for most (tentatively confirmed) queer characters#ig we'll see what dacardia is like
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Do people not realise that a person doesn't suddenly gain full maturity and knowledge of everything when they turn 18?
#Another day another 'minors shouldn't be allowed in fandoms' post#and whilst yes I do think it is important to make sure content that a minor should not be viewing isn't viewed by one#fandoms are communities at their core#oftentimes a child doesn't have a good community around them to express their interests#(y'know since a lot of people in fandoms are queer and or neurodivergent)#and then you vote to exclude them from spaces where they can interact with people of similar interests for what?#And what will you do when they turn 18?#Suddenly welcome them with open arms?#Why would you expect them to feel welcome when less than a year prior they were shunned for their age#or will you find some other arbitrary reason to exclude them?#And people wonder why someone would have a negative opinion of fandoms#'but they aren't mature enough' For what?#What aren't they mature enough for?#To be on the internet? trust me they go through the same spiel every year about internet safety#To use Ao3 without causing drama? Nope. When I was new I looked up tutorials for how to use Ao3 and learned about the culture from them#All it takes is educating someone for them to learn#even if you yourself don't want to educate people yourself uplift people who are willing to#all it took for me was one video on fandom etiquette#And don't act like there aren't grown adults who will cause drama for funsies#People can be shitty no matter what age#do we exclude everyone from fandom for the mere chance they could be shitty? No.#And don't get me started on people who complain about minors writing fanfic#what is wrong with it? They're having fun. What else is there to it#Let kids have a positive environment chances are they're not getting one at home#welp this derailed#the only cringe thing here is making fun of children#I see any of you fucks doing that its the guillotine for you
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reason 846 i hate job interviews: just had a mock interview at a training place and part of the feedback was that i could have dressed smarter for it, by which they meant 'a shirt and trousers' and like. i was wearing womens smart office wear that i have worn to office jobs before so i have to assume they meant 'wear mens office wear', and i just think im gonna have to ask them what they think i should do toward that end because that just does not have an easy answer
#dibi#like you can say 'oh just say fuck em and wear womens office wear' but like. this person knew that i go by Miss neproxrezi surname#they had the same amount of info re: my gender identity and presentation that prospective employers have#so if they did not feel i was dressed appropriately for an interview i have no choice but to address that#like. i have had this exact feedback from an actual interview before. that my actual work clothes were not right#& again i think their view was i should be wearing mens office wear to the interview#and i do not want to start wearing a fucking shirt and tie to interviews#i am comfortably butch but those are just not clothes i wear#gonna ask the training people what they think i should do#the good news is this was almost the only issue they could find#said my mock was one of the best theyve done#but like. fuck me#pretty soon i'll have been on estrogen two years#and i get it! i wear button downs and jeans and no makeup and i have a deep voice! i do not blame her for not getting it!#but it pisses me off that my presentation - that i am wholly comfortable with - is just not understood by so many people#my queer experience out there in the real world face to face is just.. its just lonely as fuck man
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Oh cool, iZombie season 5 just gave Don E. a teenage girlfriend. Can't have proper queer rep, but *that* is fine, apparently.
(unsure why I'm still watching, given that my partner told me how bonkers the ending is. Well, I still haven't seen the Blaine-as-femme-fatale episode, I guess that's why)
#ugh#iZombie#seriously it stops being good after season 3#anything after that is just apocryphal#Don E.#Darcy Bennett#(lol what a name. Haven't noticed any particularly P&P like behaviours in her yet though)#I was shocked to watch an episode of Roswell: New Mexico from around the same time which just has main characters being queer#so it's definitely not because it's a few years old at this point
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Something something London using the NYE fireworks to highlight the very things they’re trying to end
#wooo 75 years since empire windrush landed#but actually we hate immigration now and are actively trying to stop it#yayyyy 10 years of same sex marriage what a win for queer people#but we’re ending rights of certain queer people ie the trans community#yayyyy the anniversary of the NHS#but we’re underfunding them and they’re crumbling!!!!#no one does ignorance like London#admittedly the music choices slayed#new years eve#Londons#uk politics
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2024 and im still so obsessed by good omens.
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morning! ✌🏽
@ that anon in my inbox, who sent me the lovely message today - hi. i thought it was something nice when i read the first few lines lol.
i was gonna post some loooong ass repsonse to your message, but then thought....why? it's gonna clog up my blog, and you've already made up your mind about what kind of person i am, so what could i even say? y'know?
though, like, if you ever wanna come to me in dms, off anon, and actually have a concersation, that'd be great.
otherwise, go and bother one of the many other people you say are also hypocritical, performative and disengenuious, for liking bl/firstkhao, but unstanning key.
bye!
#you can still like key - me stepping back does not affect that#why does it bother you so much what I DO in regards to kibum#and what you said about how i never actually liked him and i#just objectified and fetished him until i found other presumeably queer people i could do the same to........i have no words lmao#other than you must be new here??????#like because 16 years and it was only objectification and fetishism that kept me me here - not anything to do with my own self-discovery as#a queer person or true genuine adoration and appreciation for him and a person#but idk whatever man have fun doing you
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It doesn't matter how much you post about transgression and being proud to be weird and queer as in fuck you and going against society's expected behaviours if you then turn around to ridicule and infantilize the people who diverge in other ways that aren't the same ones as yours or the couple more that internet discourse has made you care about.
I'm saying this because of a poll going around in my dash (won't link because it's not a matter of these people in particular, it's much more widespread) asking people if they've taken a certain drug and people commenting different variations of 'why has this poll only reached children' or not believing the results when they see that most of the voters say no. I assure you most people (specially young people) who don't like the things that are expected of them like going out on clubs and drinking alcohol and doing some of the popular drugs of their subculture are already getting enough shit for it and don't need any more people trying to shame them into following the majority or telling them they're children for doing what they choose and not what others think is the Correct and Appropriate Hobby for this age group/demographic.
I never see this term in English-speaking internet but Latin American activism often talks of the 'right to the free development of personality'. Maybe it needs to go viral before many people really take it into account and get rid of the ideas that their hobbies, their interests and their way of living are the only correct ones and everyone else has something wrong with them or hasn't grown up, because clearly you can't be a healthy adult and not be just like them. There are always going to be people who like different things on Earth, and we can only get used to it.
#rant over lol#today i saw a new doctor and she actually believed me (or at least didn't question me further but she seems to believe it) when i answered#that I don't drink. which was a surprise I wasn't expecting considering past experiences#i was already opening my mouth to justify myself when she said 'good for you!' and I'm 🥹❤️#so I'm annoyed at opening tumblr and seeing the same things I've been hearing all these years#this post is not the worse I've been told but it's like. guys. come on. esp coming from explicitly queer people#let's do better#drugs mention tw#alcohol mention tw#💬
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If you ever see me becoming one of those transmisandry people, please fucking call me out immediately.
#it shouldn't happen though i am too triggered by MRA-lite material#i can't see that changing any time soon even though i haven't had exposure to the content for like 10 years#the transmisandry discourse on this site melts my brain it's awful it's just online stuff being argued about more online stuff#this is not the same as me saying i will never be treated badly for being transmasc i am not stupid i know that happens#and i am fully committed to fighting the patriachy which has nothing whatsoever to do with my individual manhood or anyone else's#it's a system and yes gender and how we fit into the patriachy is made extremely complicated in trans circles and that's ok!#i promise it is you don't have to design a new system that cis women and trans women are using to do oppression on specifically trans mascs#we're all being fucked over by the patriachy and how the fuck does it help to be divided#but in reality let's face it i can say this all i want but the real reason i'm never going anywhere near being a transmisandry person#is because i was exposing myself to MRA-lite content at a formative age and harming myself in the process#even if i didn't know i was a trans man guess what it would have harmed me just as much if i did have that awareness#and honestly when i see transmisandry discourse all i see is that fucking triggering stuff again#all it does is nitpick whether patriachy is real with tiny examples it doesn't talk systemicly and it doesn't help men in the slightest#it pays lipservice to marginised men but it has no interest in talking about the fact that men are usually simultaenously#oppressed and oppressor at the same time- this is not accusatory it is just factual#it's true of the queer community too and basically every community#but we can't seem to talk about it without just harming each other and blaming and not seeing each other as human#the internet makes it all so much fucking worse this stuff can't exist without it#anyway i'm super rambling but these are genuinely very triggering topics for me i have unfollowed people i LOVE becuase of this#and i still love them! unfollowing on a social media isn't a referendum on that i just can't see that stuff and i need it gone from my dash
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everyone here was soooo excited because a national channel was going to bring back this iconic tv series, directed specifically to the youth, from our childhood and adolescence that we are so nostalgic about after 11 years for them to disappoint us all with the trailer because it looks like elite 2.0


#they ruined morangos com açúcar i dont think you guys understand#this was supposed to be a cliché show with bad acting about students and dramas at school not a fucking disappearing mystery show#with parties and sex and whatnot 😭#they're making it release in 10 episode seasons like streaming shows too.... that's not morangos!!!!! anfngngnbg#the vibe is so different that it actually makes no sense why they would try to tie it with the other seasons plot and actors shsjshs#yes morangos had your occasional topics of teenage pregnancy and queerness and all that jazz but it was actually explored well#the way they're making girls kiss and parties happening and everything of those sorts in the new season is literally like any of those#spanish teenage shows with too much sex scenes and it's embarrassing actually.#the essence of our national tv is getting lost because they want to do stuff that 'sells' except morangos never sold because it was trendy#or even good because the acting was honestly not great. it was literally our company and part of our routine all year around almost#it was the show we would arrive from school to watch before dinner every day#we watched them experience the school year at the same time we did and on holidays there was a special summer edition#it was a whole thing that this new version isn't.#it was a novela directed for the youth and not whatever show they're trying to make and i'm so mad#i actually wanted to see it. morangos was special to so many of us everybody knows the songs everybody loves the artists that came from#that generation we all grew up watching it.... literally.#and capitalism strikes again 👍#the auditions were a joke too. they announced auditions for anyone who would like to because another thing about morangos is that it was#a talent factory it gave opportunity to newbie actors and pushed their careers and the new season has a bunch of already renown actors and#actresses and they didn't even care to hide how fake and rigged the public auditons were lol#anyways never building expectations about anything ever again this actually broke my heart man agjshs#i'm gonna mourn this listening to d'zrt 4taste and just girls ✊
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Not to once again be a farmer on main but I can't believe teenager!me hated mucking stalls so much. I am actually living my best life right now
#it also took 90 minutes to do 30 minutes of work#bc i need to take breaks literally every 5 minutes#cause hashtag fatigue#but man#genuinely living my best life rn#i have yet to figure out how exactly im gonna finish this whole shed by myself#but i just texted one of my brothers and promised pizza so here is hoping i can get help soon 🤞🤞#now would be one of those times when itd be nice if i had friends who lived in the same state as me lmao#new goal for this year: make friends with the local rodeo queers#(assuming there even is a local rodeo queer scene around here)#anyway
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“Queer is a slur you shouldn’t use it”
You mean how gay is also used as a slur. Like legitimately people say gay in the same way they say faggot. It’s almost like, all of our identities are treated like slurs. So there’s no point singling out one of the older ones and one of the most unifying ones. What’s your point
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getting emails about my writing ma offer is soo funny like girl i cannot afford you!
#like even if they could help me fund it which i doubt i dont think my ass should be doing an intensive course rn so#also looking at this email id apparently have to be settled and moved there 3 days after my moms birthday which like#my ass is going to be out of town around that time because you know. dead mom birthday!#me visiting my moms grave a year after her diagnosis/for the first time since feb and then 3 days i move to the other side of england#like FUCK THATTTTT#theres smth here about guaranteed accommodation but like i havent been able to work much this year because of aforementioned horrors so#me when i try for 2024 and i send an application to this same ma program THREE YEARS IN A ROW#i wanna have as much time to save money and also like. heal#urghghghghhh im gonna need new references for my application next year tho#oh well. 2024 problem!#tbh do i even want to do my ma in writing like i want to do my ma so i can teach at uni level#i could just do some silly queer lit/cinema ma but that would mean going to a diff uni unless my undergrad changes their literature ma#i want the alumni discount. UGHGHGHGHGHGHGHHHHHH anyways
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one would think they would say like specifically how many miles the new york pride parade route is but uhh.. yeah one would be wrong
#i feel like i gotta practice or some shit i'm like ridiculously excited but at the same time oh my god how many miles am i walking#in NEW YORK CITY in the SUMMER god i'd only do this for queer people#and i think the cool trans lady i was talking to at a different event last year is gonna be marching with us :) so we can talk !!!
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