#Motto of the Avoidant Attatchment Style: I’ll hurt you first before you hurt me | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

theanonymousninja247 · 7 hours ago

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My reaction to this comic. I literally waited ALL day to come home from work to take this picture because this was just too real and raw for me not to be real myself to show how much it shook me

so face reveal sorta?

I can’t tell you how much closure I’ve received watching this 😪🙏🏼🫶🏼🧡

✨Note to self: Isolation is not the answer✨

This ended up way longer than I originally anticipated but I have no regrets, I also got carried away in one too many shots and regret none of it

Enjoy!

part1 | part2 | part3 | part 4 context: 1 / 2/ 3 / 4

After calming down the two of them just sit down and talk about it, Oneion explains everything more calmly, all the messures his brothers have taken to prevent him going into Survival Mode along with the ways they've find out to snap him out or fully stop him

(From then on Sprout has a high voltage taser intalled on his prostethic, just in case)

This is pretty much it on my part for the whole OneOne-Toast fight aftermath situation! Ell did a thing with One and Poptart too!

I also have some more Sprout and Oneion doodles, they are not connected to this event but I might post them over the weekend

#*cracks knuckles*#time to get feral in the tags again because I have something’s to SAY #first things first #*clears throat* words will never be adequate enough to accept my true feelings in this matter so please accept my humble keyboard smash #heycbelxheudkchwuegfkcisvwmwifufiepbsgxnsvdhsjfhrvwidmchdushevwosichnrbsufndg #But on a more serious note #this was such a good and hard video to watch #for school I’m studying human development and relationships and one big thing we talk about is the power of attachment styles #You know you can actually tell which people have which attachment styles through the type of humor they use fun fact.#But that’s besides the point. The point is Oneion is showing strong symptoms of Avoidant Attachment Style #he says he’s trying to protect Sprout and Poptart which I 100% believe he is but he’s also trying to protect himself from hurt + heartbreak #Motto of the Avoidant Attatchment Style: I’ll hurt you first before you hurt me #Poptart over here leading out the charge and calling out Oneion for his unhealthy isolation is literally everything to me EVERYTHING #BECAUSE THATS HOW YOU SECURE RELATIONSHIPS: THROUGH CONNECTION #Doesn’t matter who you are #nobody is ever meant to do it all by ourselves. We are PEOPLE AKA multiple for a reason. We need each other #As someone who is been in recovery from unhealthy attachment styles for something + years this comic was very cathartic for me #because Poptart and Oneion conversation is LITERALLY two of my brain cells at war with each every. single. day. It’s…exhausting #So it meant the world to me to see closure like this because it kind of gave me hope for myself that hey maybe I can figure it out too #hope it’s ok that like I got emotionally attached to y’all’s characters.#But like…I can’t tell y’all how much I have healed being apart of the turtle family because y’all have taught me so much + I 🧡 U 4 it #just being jayus #serendipity247 #slau crossover #2al #the besties #separated leo au #pretty random turtle thunks #doing this ugly and scared

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