#Motivational Words

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[javarisx-fightingthosedemons]

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[enchantingepics]

Note #12

Empowerment is a deeply transformative and uplifting experience that resonates on various levels of one's being. It goes beyond mere confidence; it's about feeling a profound sense of strength, agency, and capability. When you tap into your inner reservoir of power, you unlock the potential to navigate life's challenges with resilience and purpose. Imagine a scenario where every step you take resonates with a quiet assurance, every decision you make is fueled by self-assuredness, and every hurdle is viewed as an opportunity for growth. This empowerment is not just about external validation but stems from a genuine understanding and acceptance of your own worth. Picture the moment when you stand tall, fully embracing your uniqueness and recognizing the strength within your vulnerabilities. It's about acknowledging the journey you've traversed, the lessons learned, and the wisdom gained. This inner power is a force that propels you forward, pushing the boundaries of what you thought possible. In the realm of fiction, this empowerment often takes the form of a character's self-discovery, overcoming personal demons, or rising from adversity. Whether it's a hero's journey or a protagonist's internal struggle, the narrative resonates because it mirrors the universal quest for empowerment that transcends the pages. History, too, is rich with stories of individuals who, against all odds, harnessed their inner power to shape destinies. From political leaders to social reformers, their narratives inspire because they showcase the indomitable human spirit and the ability to effect change against formidable odds. Now, let's delve into the profound emotional aspect of empowerment. Picture the surge of joy and fulfillment when you realize your own strength, the warmth that spreads within, and the genuine smile that graces your face. It's a heartwarming acknowledgment of your worthiness and a celebration of the unique power that resides within you. In essence, to feel powerful is to embrace a holistic sense of self-worth, resilience, and authenticity. It's a journey of self-discovery, marked by moments of triumph, growth, and an unwavering belief in your capabilities. So, my friend, may you continue to explore and nurture the power within you, for it is the key to unlocking the extraordinary tapestry of your own existence.

[nightingaleatdawnwrites]

The Art of Letting Go

Letting go is hard, whether you are letting go of a person or a thing. There are a million reasons why people have to let go and I will discuss several reasons here.

Letting Go of A Loved One

Sometimes, just when we think everything is alright and we are so much in love with a person, it hits you smack in the face that the person will suddenly abandon you without any explanation. Other times, you have to let go when you think that the distance separating the two of you by far surpasses the love you have for each other.

There are times when your loved one gets involved in another relationship.  This is pretty much heartbreaking that it will leave someone who is so much in love broken into pieces.

There would be times when a loved one passes away. We cannot help but mourn over our loss and hold on to the wonderful memories which are but what we have left after they’re gone. This kind of letting go takes years to overcome.

Letting Go of A Thing, An Animal or Perhaps A Place

Often times, we find ourselves attached to things we own. Like me, I have my MacBook Pro for 5 years before it crashed. It was my work computer and it has, let’s say, served me well. I still cannot get over the feeling of “it failing me” however, as what one of my clients told me, 5 years is enough as a lifespan of a laptop and I could consider purchasing a new one.

Animals especially dogs are considered as “man’s best friend.” Losing a dog when he passes away is also devastating to the owner. It’s with you every day, always by your side, waiting for you to spend even a few minutes of your time to play with him. I could say that what I am telling you is based on my own experience as we have had shih tzus since 2013. We had this very cute shih tzu named Billy. He always followed me everywhere and accompanied me during my shifts. Then all of a sudden he passed away. I was the last person who was in contact with him during his dying hours. I cried for days and locked myself inside the bathroom. Now, he is being replaced by my new “work buddy”, Sam or Samantha. A shih tzu whose right eye is blind. She is very sweet and knows whenever I have my “moments.”

There are certain places where in we cannot help but ALWAYS reminisce great times we had there with someone. We would often recall how it was like then and sometimes look forward to spending some time in that place again with that person. Then there comes the “What Ifs”. However, we have to remember that we have to move forward and think that maybe, just maybe, it really wasn’t meant to be.

Here’s a quote from Steve Maraboli, “The truth is, unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize the situation is over, you cannot move forward.”

Therefore, you have to learn to REALLY let go and move forward… KEEP MOVING FORWARD!

[questforyellow]

Smoon believes in you!

Friend, you are stronger and braver and kinder and smarter than you know!

Don't be hard on yourself!

✨️💛 You can do anything you set your mind to!💙🌟

[smolandweirdwriter]

i would like to romanticize my life please and thank you. i would like to bask in sunlight listening to music and reading sappho. i would like to stay up late playing monopoly with my friends and throwing pieces at each other when we can barely keep our eyes open anymore. i would like to walk along the beach in the sunset. i would like to wear comfortable clothes and play with dogs and not be afraid

[goldenbat]

for everyone who thinks they will never be able to move on:

i used to think that too. you're not alone. they're not wrong when they say time heals all wounds but there is more to it.

i used to be friends with someone i talked to every single day, we were even on call at night to fall asleep. for 5 years. i was in love with her, at some point we even were together for about 2 years. we were in a long distance relationship & heavily connected through the writing rp's with our oc's. it was something very deep & personal for me, since my oc's are like my own children (i have autism, they're a part of my special interest so they are very heavily engraved into my heart & brain).

the friendship was very toxic, pretty much from the start. i isolated myself to be able to talk to her more but she usually treated me like shit. we saw each other every holiday, in summer even for a month straight. i was convinced i would never be able to live without her. i was unable to have a happy moment without her, i was so unhealthily attached. she didn't allow me to have any friends, or even spend time with my family. so she really was all my focus lay on.

i broke up with her & blocked her a few months ago. i needed a lot of support to even be able to do that. i feel so free now that she is gone. i can finally live. i got to spend time with my family, make new friends, go past the trauma she put me through (that i won't mention here but she did put me through a LOT). and even now that i feel happy without her, there are times where i feel nostalgic and miss the bond we had. or maybe i really do just miss the idea of her. the version of her i created in my head. i think that's what i was doing. taking the good feeling, longing for it to come back, and completely forgetting about the shit she put me through.

my point is, i thought nobody would understand this. i thought i was the only person on this planet who felt so attached to a person. but that's not true. many people go through that. and many people can live past it. so did i. the person i thought i couldn't live without is not in my life anymore, and i feel better than ever. my brain still wants to get back into contact with her, just to feel that feeling of nostalgia one more time. many things remind me of her and i can assure you, the constant reminders of her in things i loved almost tore me apart. but the wound healed. as more time passed, i realised that i live for myself, not for others. and the more i radiate love, the more will love come back to me.

i don't need a person in my life to feel happy. people are an additional support. additional. you live for yourself. there will be people who love you. but you have to start loving yourself. and if i manage to do that, you will manage this too

if there is anyone out there who can relate to this and needs a shoulder to lean on and an ear to listen, feel free to dm me 💜

[certifiedlovergurl22]

Let people think whatever they want or talk behind your back. As long as you know you’re not out here trying to hurt anyone, it's just them trying to shift the blame because it's easier to point fingers at someone who's straightforward instead of being shady like they are. The ones who truly know you, know your heart. You don’t need to prove a thing to anyone. Your people know the real you, and so does God. Let the rest go. Life has a funny way of making sure everyone reaps what they sow. 🧘🏻‍♀️✨

[in-tenebris-et-in-solitudine]

If anything is possible If you want it bad enough Know the sky ain't too high Test your limits You can feel unstoppable Incredible Oh, hold still, I can see, I'm so ready

[cve-th3mvsic]

guys, some motivational words n thoughts to give..

i js told vic this, and i realize it’s very real

trauma is like those jelly shaping thingies. yk, the rubber things with silly shapes n molds that you put jello mix in? yah, that’s what trauma is.

the trauma we have shapes us, if we didn’t have the trauma, we wouldn’t be who we are right now. we would be different than we are now without it.

yes, trauma fucking sucks. but you learn from it. i live with no regrets, and this is a reason why. we learn from the shitty things that have happened to us. the shitty things we’ve witnessed, the shitty things we’ve done, the shitty shit all around. we learn from it. and i’m glad i’ve learned from the shit i went through. yah, i have done some stupid things, and yah, i should not have done them, but hey, now i know. now i know the consequences that happen if i do it again. now i know “don’t fucking do that again”. now i know “do this next time”.

live laugh learn love <3

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[yourdreamsaredreamingyouback]

Focusing on what you have cultivates a mindset of abundance and gratitude, acting as a powerful bridge from dreamscape to reality.

[javarisx-fightingthosedemons]

The world is waiting on you..

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[enchantingepics]

Note #11

Your existence is truly appreciated, and I want to express my heartfelt gratitude for your presence. In a world filled with challenges and uncertainties, the fact that you exist brings a unique and valuable energy. Your impact, whether big or small, is a testament to the intricate tapestry of life. Life is a collection of moments, and in this vast tapestry, your thread weaves a story that is irreplaceable. Each step you take, every decision you make, contributes to the beautiful mosaic of existence. Your presence has the power to inspire, to create connections, and to bring warmth to those around you. Amidst the complexities of life, it's important to acknowledge the significance of every individual. Your existence adds a distinct color to the canvas of humanity, making it richer and more vibrant. The shared journey we all undertake is made more meaningful because you are a part of it. So, from the depths of my being, I extend my gratitude to you for simply being. Your existence is a gift, and in acknowledging it, we celebrate the uniqueness that each person brings to the grand symphony of life. Thank you for being here, for being you, and for being an integral part of this extraordinary journey we call life.

[nightingaleatdawnwrites]

A wise person once told me, I believe it was one of my former clients, that we should not be afraid to have failures because from these failures you would learn, and I definitely agree with him.

Failures are a part of life. Learning from these failures is an opportunity for you to grow as a person, and be a “work in progress”. Let them be your stepping stones to reaching your goals and being successful in life.

[hotpinkboots]

HAPPY INTERNATIONAL WOMEN'S DAY!!!

I'm gonna scream it and shout it from the top of my lungs today! Women are WONDERFUL.

We go through pain and discomfort every single month, we carry children, we birth children, we are expected to not only be a good mother, which is hard enough- raising a human into the world. But we are also expected to clean the house, cook the food, get jobs and make money, but to also deal with the everyday thing a woman deals with everyday already. Perverted looks from men, feeling smaller because we are women, feeling like we're less, even things as small as grocery shopping, it's hard- not only that, but we're called unclean if we don't shave, or are thought of as gross when we talk about our periods.

If we don't have clear skin, we're looked at as imperfect. We're expected to have a small waist and big tits, pretty thighs and a perky ass. We're taught to PICK. APART. OUR OWN. BODIES. To fit today's "standards".

"Don't wear that, you look like a slut. Don't wear that, you're not showing enough skin, you look like a prude. You can't wear that, people will be perverts. You're not wearing enough makeup. You're wearing too much makeup. You have too much acne. Your skin is too clear, it doesn't look natural. Don't drink, you could get drunk and get the wrong attention from men. Why don't you have a drink? Don't be boring. When are you having kids- you're pregnant already?? Whore. You're too fat, have a salad. You're too thin, have a burger. Oh, your knees hurt? What'd you do last night? You're still a virgin?"

THESE ARE ALL DISGUSTING, COMMON THINGS THAT A WOMAN HEARS EVERYDAY OF HER LIFE.

The work of a woman NEVER ends.

We need to be PROUD of being women. We need to stick together and RAISE EACH OTHER UP. Women need to be there for each other. I'm there for EVERY SINGLE ONE OF YOU. If YOU are a woman and you want to come talk with me about your problems no matter WHAT THEY ARE, COME TALK TO ME. I have NOTHING but endless support and love for my fellow women, I LOVE us, and I'm so PROUD OF HOW FAR WE'VE COME.

Women are so powerful and amazing. On this day, not only do you need to honor all the amazing women around you and in history, but you need to honor YOURSELF, girl. YOU are amazing. YOU deserve to be lifted up and praised and honored. YOU deserve all the love in the world.

I'm proud of you. I love you. I love women. I thank all the strong women around the world that I look up to for forming me into the strong, passionate woman I am today.

Thank you.

[iamdotwav88]

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