#Morso puhuu

[morsobaby]

Speak English poorly. Speak with an exaggerated accent or with the pronunciations easier for your native language. Add your language to it. Speak with direct or poor translations of your words into English. Don't conform. Sound obnoxious, sound stereotypical. Be free. Fuck the americanization of the world. Prioritize your native language. Prioritize languages other than English. Listen to them. Listen to your own language.

[morsobaby]

My tip for trying to compartmentalize your emotions or desires is to realize when you're using hyperbolic shorthand for an actually realistic desire. I know realizing even that can be difficult sometimes but let me demonstrate

"I wish I was popular" -> I want to be noticed and engaged with, and I need reassurance and the feeling of connection

"I wanna delete my blog and ghost my friends" -> I want to act out in a visible way that expresses how frustrated I am / I feel overwhelmed with connections and need time to cool off

"I wanna do something reckless/dangerous" -> I feel trapped in obligations and am buckling under stress, I need a sufficient outlet and more freedom to exist in peace

Obviously there may be different kinds of feelings or needs under your particular impulses, these are just some fairly common examples of what you could be feeling. The harder part is trying to figure out what it is that causes this impulse, and even harder might be if you don't have control over the situation, and are unable to have your needs met. It's not always your fault if you're feeling bad, but realizing where it stems from can help you seek out new paths to relieve it. This is something I've learnt working in therapy.

The toddler in your heart has valid needs. But it is a toddler and will scream and cry about it. Learn to sit by until it's done and then ask if it wants a juice box or a hug

[morsobaby]

Ei jaksa ei kestä ei pysty ei tykkää ei taho ei voi ei saata

[morsobaby]

The eighth deadly sin is spider sluttery

phrasing of this is taking me out

[morsobaby]

It is okay to get fatter because of disability. You are not "downgrading" or "deteriorating" and you still deserve accommodation no matter how fat you are. Fat disabled people are treated like shit - if you were already fat, people don't believe you or think you inflicted your disability on yourself by being fat and therefore it's your fault and you should lose weight before getting help. And if you weren't fat but became fat due to your disabilities you're seen as a lazy slob who's not trying hard enough to help themselves.

You deserve better. It's okay to be fat and disabled. It's okay to gain weight while struggling.

[morsobaby]

Sillon ku ihan perusasiat menee hyvin niitä ei yleensä huomaa. Joten kaverit jos teillä menee hyvin:

- joka päivä tarpeeksi syöminen

- säännöllinen pesullakäynti

- säännöllinen vessassakäynti

- ystävien näkeminen ja heihin yhteydenpito

- säännöllinen talosta lähteminen

- nukkuminen

Nii Herranen aika olkaapa ylpeitä siitä. Huomatkaa se. Koska kaikilla ei välttämättä ole nämä asiat helppoja saati yleensä hanskassa. Ja jos sulla ei ole, niin hei mä näen sut. Mä oon ylpeä siitä että yrität. Mä uskon että sulla on vaikeeta enkä mä arvostele. Oo armollinen itelles

[astronauttipulu]

Tässä nyt äkkiä morso

[morsobaby]

@magnuficentwo

[morsobaby]

Guards! Romanticize fatness MORE

[morsobaby]

Kuuntele mua. Jos sä oot semmosessa tilanteessa että oot paljon sisällä tai yleensä et hirveesti hetkahda ruudun ääreltä: MEE ULOS!!!!!!!! Ei oo pakko urheilla ei oo pakko mennä kauas mee vaan ulos ja käveleskele pikkasen ja kato puita ja kato taivasta ja haistele ulkoilmaa ja ÄLÄ OTA PUHELINTA ole vaan siellä hetki. Saa urheilla saa kävellä saa verrytellä mut MEE ULOS JOSKUS. Joo ei huvita pukeutua jos on kylmä ja joo ei viitsi ku siellä ei tunnu olevaan mitään jännää mutta tee sitä JOSKUS. Pyydän. Tää on muistutus itsellenikin mut ihan oikeesti se että saa astua ulos talosta ja hengittää raikasta ilmaa välillä tekee aivoille tosi hyvää vaikka sitä ei ensin tajuais.

Käykää ulkona välillä ihan vaan ollaksenne ulkona. Maailma on elossa, käykää kuuntelemassa kun se hengittää ja olkaa läsnä. Sit voi taas vetäytyä sisätiloihin

[morsobaby]

I love you everyone please keep practicing your own language please keep loving your own language it's so worth it it's so valuable you deserve it and your language deserves it. Please keep going. Believe me, your language deserves to be loved so much.

[morsobaby]

Noniin kaverit

[morsobaby]

Straws and nippled bottles are disability accommodation

Comfortable seating is disability accommodation

Easy or no prepare food is disability accommodation

Proper pillows are disability accommodation

Wet wipes are disability accommodation

Nutritional supplements are disability accommodation

Many ordinary things you don't notice affect disabled people daily

[morsobaby]

And btw reminder that if you're hostile to people who appear to you as "cis men" in queer spaces and treat them with caution, disgust or apprehension you are not a transfem ally. (among other things)

Not all transfems are dainty skinny hairless and small

Not all transfems are able to transition socially or in any way that presents outwardly

Not all transfems are able to look like what society deems a "woman" should look like even if they're not closeted and are actively attempting to present as women

Some are questioning their gender and need a safe space to be able to do that

Some might be nonbinary, intersex, genderqueer, genderfluid and you don't get to decide if they "look" trans enough. There is no correct way to be trans in any direction.

Also ironically many people will immediately start isolating or ""getting off vibes"" from people who they think look masculine but who are dressed femininely or as soon as they state that they're transfem, then suddenly it's all ew and heebie jeebies bc somehow you'd have been more fine if she was a gnc man. Just reflect on that a little.

[morsobaby]

Joulu(vuohi)pukki!

Turrien pitäisi paljon enemmän piirtää Joulupukki kirjaimellisena pukkina niiku pliis hei kamoon 

[morsobaby]

Use those nice things you're saving up to make Now more enjoyable, instead of trying to falsely nurture some hypothetical Later. It's okay to save things but never do it out of the fact that you don't think the moment is good enough for them now. Save them because you want to. And then use them because you want to. You can already enjoy things now